I was chronically SA'd by a family member as a child and I have extreme anger issues and lack of patience and very many triggers. I live alone with several cats and a dog. I am an extreme introvert. I dislike and distrust humans. Sorry to hear about your trauma. I tried to tell my Mom and she didnt believe me. It was an awful time in my life.
@@davidgray1515 Animals are better than humans anyway. I am sorry you weren't believed, it's horrible to go through that, I hope you can heal past it and find some form of peace in this world and enjoy it.
Thank you for sharing your stories with us. I don't feel so alone now. I was SA'd twice when I was 16 years old within two months by two guys who were best friends.. I was also abused by an ex, which I constantly flinch anytime someone raises an arm around me now. My husband feels bad because it's an automatic thing for me.. I'm still healing, I joke about it now, but it's scary when you're just a kid going through those things. My parents were also abusive, they weren't before the drugs but my memory is a blank for the majority before the age of 15 because of it.
Thank you for opening up! I was also molested by a family member from when I was 4-9. Many family members told me I was lying about it but the pictures said otherwise. Thank you for creating a safe place and allowing people who have gone through this to open and feel safe. ❤️
Im sorry you went through that. I don't understand how they could think a child could lie about something for horrific ya know? Especially not understanding what it truly is until you're much older. I hope you've healed from what those monsters did to you ❤
I’m so sorry all of that happened to you! No one should have to go through that, but especially a kid! And then to be ‘trained’ as you said, to not tell anyone about it! You are also so right about it being other kids or not necessarily the stereotypical uncle; I heard on another podcast someone said that when people hear “sex Offender” they immediately think “Pedophile”; while in many of your situations it technically was, but people don’t really think about all of the other situations. I have a family member who was 11 or 12 when he was SA’d by two teenage girls, and nothing came of it because “girls don’t offend”, like really!? It’s these kinds of things where I wish I could go back in time and be there to defend him, no matter the cost!
I'm very glad we're living in times in which SA stories are being taken more seriously than how they were years, decades,or centuries ago regardless of gender, age or what exactly happened to the victim. I've finally managed to talk to my therapist and my parents about negative experiences that happened to me abroad in primary school. When I was a kid I couldn't immediately say what exactly happened due to my innocence and not knowing how to word it, but I'm healing now. I feel sorry for everything you've gone through - a LOT of things happened to you, and I really hope you're feeling better and safer nowadays 🫶
@@Micha_IsNotSilly I agree, I am really glad to see the talk progressing even amongst people who deny these things happen, the more survivors feel safe to share the better honestly. I am sorry you had to endure it too, it's disgusting how many people exist that have some sort of story about SA. I am doing much better this days as I said. Thank you.
TW Honestly, I have a lot of trauma as well so thank you for sharing yours! I've dealt with watching overdoses, cutting, SA, child SA, and Abuse honestly just a lot of shit. To be honest it means a lot to hear a story that is like mine. Love you, Hunter ❤
@@huntermoonhearthLMAOOOO FR WE ARE I GUESS! But thank you so much for your content and just everything you do for my mental health ❤️ you really are one of the best creators out there
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad to hear you seem to be doing well despite the various gaps in your memory. You talked about the kid with unrestricted access to the internet and I can't help but relate to him on that part (obviously without the sexual assaulting part). I stumbled upon some... questionable sites when I was younger and had friends who would talk about porn before we were even teenagers and it does shape and change the way people act. Like, I think I managed to become mostly alright because I just didn't care about what was going on, but a lot of my friends back then had an unhealthy relationship with sex. IDK, I'm not in contact with them anymore (grew apart, as it happens) but I hope they also ended up alright. Or semi-alright; I know I, too, have been affected by this in certain ways so I won't pretend to be "holier-than-thou" or whatever. Sorry, I think I'm rambling and I'm a bit tired so I have no idea if this makes any sense lol. I think what I'm trying to say is that as much as we should teach children about things that are "wrong" (as in, sex isn't wrong but non-consent is and being a child doing it is bad and all that), we should also teach them *why* it is wrong and, when they got older and it's more acceptable to have sex, ways to satisfy the curiosity that doesn't involve pornos seeing women being decapitated or something. God, the things I've seen (THANKFULLY all fanart or drawn and not realistic, but still, I know it exists out there).
@@Mx.Crumbles No shame in a sleepy ramble. Yes! More education is needed, humanity needs to find the proper age in which to share certain aspects, educating kids on genitals over all than further health classes and education as they age would certainly help in regards to sex and safe sex overall. It's 2024 why is it taking so long to do so? So odd. I had access to the internet when I was about 13 and I did see a few concerning things myself thankfully they weren't as bad as I know they could have been now, but some others around me saw much more and shared with me even if I didn't want to know.
I used to have friend about my age who i'd see often but one time during a game where we run from one side of the room to the other without being generally toughed be one of his siblings. When he got hit and layed on the floor waiting for the game to finish and he asked me to wait where I was and to look at him while he started touching himself while staring back at me. Although its not as bad as other stories here its still creepy and innapropriate especially while the younger siblings were around and makes me think about what could have happened if he was more bold during times when we were alone.
When I was 7 a 5 year old came up to me and said “I want to touch your private parts” it’s not nearly as bad as cases I’m seeing in the comments or this story not close at all this is just a little scar. I’m so so so so sorry this happened
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I was chronically SA'd by a family member as a child and I have extreme anger issues and lack of patience and very many triggers. I live alone with several cats and a dog. I am an extreme introvert. I dislike and distrust humans. Sorry to hear about your trauma. I tried to tell my Mom and she didnt believe me. It was an awful time in my life.
@@davidgray1515 Animals are better than humans anyway.
I am sorry you weren't believed, it's horrible to go through that, I hope you can heal past it and find some form of peace in this world and enjoy it.
Thank you for sharing your stories with us. I don't feel so alone now. I was SA'd twice when I was 16 years old within two months by two guys who were best friends.. I was also abused by an ex, which I constantly flinch anytime someone raises an arm around me now. My husband feels bad because it's an automatic thing for me.. I'm still healing, I joke about it now, but it's scary when you're just a kid going through those things. My parents were also abusive, they weren't before the drugs but my memory is a blank for the majority before the age of 15 because of it.
@@White.Sage999 I am so sorry that happened to you, I hope you can heal past it.
Thank you for sharing.
@huntermoonhearth I am slowly. It's been 7 years, but I'm sure I'll heal given time ❤
Thank you for opening up! I was also molested by a family member from when I was 4-9. Many family members told me I was lying about it but the pictures said otherwise. Thank you for creating a safe place and allowing people who have gone through this to open and feel safe. ❤️
@@alexisdaily5409 My blood boils when people tell me their family didn't believe them, I am so sorry.
@ it’s all okay now! It took some time, I’m just thankful that you are bringing awareness!! It needs it!❤️
Im sorry you went through that. I don't understand how they could think a child could lie about something for horrific ya know? Especially not understanding what it truly is until you're much older. I hope you've healed from what those monsters did to you ❤
I’m so sorry all of that happened to you! No one should have to go through that, but especially a kid! And then to be ‘trained’ as you said, to not tell anyone about it! You are also so right about it being other kids or not necessarily the stereotypical uncle; I heard on another podcast someone said that when people hear “sex Offender” they immediately think “Pedophile”; while in many of your situations it technically was, but people don’t really think about all of the other situations. I have a family member who was 11 or 12 when he was SA’d by two teenage girls, and nothing came of it because “girls don’t offend”, like really!? It’s these kinds of things where I wish I could go back in time and be there to defend him, no matter the cost!
I'm very glad we're living in times in which SA stories are being taken more seriously than how they were years, decades,or centuries ago regardless of gender, age or what exactly happened to the victim. I've finally managed to talk to my therapist and my parents about negative experiences that happened to me abroad in primary school. When I was a kid I couldn't immediately say what exactly happened due to my innocence and not knowing how to word it, but I'm healing now.
I feel sorry for everything you've gone through - a LOT of things happened to you, and I really hope you're feeling better and safer nowadays 🫶
@@Micha_IsNotSilly I agree, I am really glad to see the talk progressing even amongst people who deny these things happen, the more survivors feel safe to share the better honestly.
I am sorry you had to endure it too, it's disgusting how many people exist that have some sort of story about SA.
I am doing much better this days as I said. Thank you.
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Honestly, I have a lot of trauma as well so thank you for sharing yours!
I've dealt with watching overdoses, cutting, SA, child SA, and Abuse honestly just a lot of shit.
To be honest it means a lot to hear a story that is like mine.
Love you, Hunter ❤
@@Pinky_3295 We just out here collecting trauma like pokemon huh? XD
But fr I am sorry to hear all that you've endured.
@@huntermoonhearthLMAOOOO FR WE ARE I GUESS! But thank you so much for your content and just everything you do for my mental health ❤️ you really are one of the best creators out there
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad to hear you seem to be doing well despite the various gaps in your memory. You talked about the kid with unrestricted access to the internet and I can't help but relate to him on that part (obviously without the sexual assaulting part). I stumbled upon some... questionable sites when I was younger and had friends who would talk about porn before we were even teenagers and it does shape and change the way people act. Like, I think I managed to become mostly alright because I just didn't care about what was going on, but a lot of my friends back then had an unhealthy relationship with sex. IDK, I'm not in contact with them anymore (grew apart, as it happens) but I hope they also ended up alright. Or semi-alright; I know I, too, have been affected by this in certain ways so I won't pretend to be "holier-than-thou" or whatever. Sorry, I think I'm rambling and I'm a bit tired so I have no idea if this makes any sense lol.
I think what I'm trying to say is that as much as we should teach children about things that are "wrong" (as in, sex isn't wrong but non-consent is and being a child doing it is bad and all that), we should also teach them *why* it is wrong and, when they got older and it's more acceptable to have sex, ways to satisfy the curiosity that doesn't involve pornos seeing women being decapitated or something. God, the things I've seen (THANKFULLY all fanart or drawn and not realistic, but still, I know it exists out there).
@@Mx.Crumbles No shame in a sleepy ramble.
Yes! More education is needed, humanity needs to find the proper age in which to share certain aspects, educating kids on genitals over all than further health classes and education as they age would certainly help in regards to sex and safe sex overall. It's 2024 why is it taking so long to do so? So odd.
I had access to the internet when I was about 13 and I did see a few concerning things myself thankfully they weren't as bad as I know they could have been now, but some others around me saw much more and shared with me even if I didn't want to know.
I used to have friend about my age who i'd see often but one time during a game where we run from one side of the room to the other without being generally toughed be one of his siblings. When he got hit and layed on the floor waiting for the game to finish and he asked me to wait where I was and to look at him while he started touching himself while staring back at me. Although its not as bad as other stories here its still creepy and innapropriate especially while the younger siblings were around and makes me think about what could have happened if he was more bold during times when we were alone.
When I was 7 a 5 year old came up to me and said “I want to touch your private parts” it’s not nearly as bad as cases I’m seeing in the comments or this story not close at all this is just a little scar. I’m so so so so sorry this happened
@@Crazyperson-z9o That poor kid learned it from somewhere for sure, I hope whatever it was they can heal, and I hope you were able to move past it.