I Was A Drug Addict. Then, My Wife Got Cancer.

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  • At the lowest points in their lives, they found the will to turn away from a life of vice. In this special episode of Tea Talks, we speak to ex-offenders from HCSA Highpoint Halfway House on their struggles, regrets, and what keeps them going now
    One of the benefitting organisations of the President’s Challenge, HCSA Highpoint Halfway House provides a safe and substance-free place for homeless newly released male ex-offenders and those in recovery from addiction, to restart their lives.
    If you’d like to support other former offenders who might be on a similar journey, you can make a donation to the President's Star Charity via mediacorp.sg/psc2022
    ══ Content ══
    0:00 Hook
    0:34 Intro
    0:47 How long have you been out of prison?
    1:59 What was your first impression of me?
    3:44 Tim's experience with disapproving stares in public
    5:13 What was the lowest point in your life?
    7:00 James losing his family
    8:53 Life after prison
    9:23 How HCSA Highpoint Halfway House helped Tim
    10:07 What keeps you motivated to remain on a straight path?
    10:37 Tim's promise to his wife
    13:36 Do you see me differently now after our conversation?
    15:25 Portrait photoshoot
    16:29 Closing
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  • @Howardggoh
    @Howardggoh ปีที่แล้ว +224

    I'm very touched by James' story, it takes courage to recognise your impact on your family and even more to distance yourself. I hope he has the support he needs and hopefully one day reconnect with his family.

    • @schadenfreude6274
      @schadenfreude6274 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish I was a drug addict and have a sob story so people like you can cheer for me in the comments and give meaning to my life instead of living as a law-abiding nobody. :)

  • @timmytam2612
    @timmytam2612 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Once again, Thank u OGS for giving me this platform to share, and giving me this opportunity to be able to bless and touch those who watch this video. It is indeed an honour and a humbling experience! 😊🙏

    • @OGS.Official
      @OGS.Official  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing so openly! :)

    • @edmundizhigh2055
      @edmundizhigh2055 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Power brother. 🙏🏻

    • @cruz1969
      @cruz1969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi James, seeing your video here. God have already touched your heart and forgiven your sins. Will keep your wife and you in my prayers. May Almighty Lord our God bless your wife and you in this recovery journey. Amen.

    • @HankShawChina
      @HankShawChina ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you James

    • @vato7oco
      @vato7oco ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Watching while comenting..hmm...Tim...Tim...Tim...i dont see u as a bad person..U ARE BETTER THAN BEFORE! Come on brother..i as an outsider felt proud of u..of the changes uve made for urself..maybe if i am in ur position, i would not be able to be strong to change..but u did till this day..congratulations..remember, good things always last long..and when u die, make the people who still live that know u remembers u of ur good brother..🌈👍🏻🎉🐳

  • @erikamarie2787
    @erikamarie2787 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    There's usually no such thing as bad people, only bad mistakes. I hope all the participants are able to forgive themselves and give themselves a second chance at a fruitful life.
    Wen Qi, am so sorry for your loss ❤ praying for easier days ahead for you.

  • @wongxinhao1996
    @wongxinhao1996 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Watched Wenqi's interview with her mum in August and it's saddening hear that she has passed. Glad Wenqi's mum is now in a better place. RIP.

    • @OGS.Official
      @OGS.Official  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you 🤍
      - Wenqi

    • @tgw511
      @tgw511 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OGS.Official when?

  • @Fate025
    @Fate025 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Leave it to OGS to show us another touching story that makes me weep. And best thing is these are all true stories, from real humans living real lives.

  • @tigerpapanguyen
    @tigerpapanguyen ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I met Timothy about 10 years ago. We worked together in a bar in a quiet Tanglin shopping center; he was the head bartender while I was in training. Tim struck me as a quite knowledgeable barman with many skills in mixologist so I was eager to learn from him during those times. However, after many interactions and working together with him that I realized that Tim had had a very rough childhood, and back then he was not an easy person to work with, due to his temper and perhaps damage from all those year under the influence of drugs made him the way he is.
    We lost contact for a long time, and now it surprises me to see Tim again on this TH-cam channel. And to learn that he went to prison again during this past 10 was somehow regretful. However, it looks like he is doing alright now. All the best to you Tim.

  • @MegaRamon1976
    @MegaRamon1976 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Like this content, those pictures really moved me. Saddened me because my late uncle was a drug user from he was a teenager up until his 40s when he passed away. He loves us, his nephews and nieces. The only time we saw him its when he was out of rehab or prison. Yup, he did wrong doesn't mean he is a bad person. Miss him...

  • @maaaaarvyn
    @maaaaarvyn ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You cannot get any more real than this. Thank you OGS.

  • @deathism
    @deathism ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is such a great and meaningful content. I just wished Tim had an episode of his own. He seems forthcoming and eloquent. Really listening to his story. I pray that they move on to greater things in life and be able to give back to society in their own way.

  • @tayjinghui6944
    @tayjinghui6944 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    im really touched by the sincerity from the guests and the hosts ❤❤ thank you for sharing your stories!!

  • @sukilunaAME
    @sukilunaAME ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is very tastefully done. Thank you everyone ❤

  • @KP-om9fj
    @KP-om9fj ปีที่แล้ว +60

    All of these men are so lovely ❤️
    I feel hurt and sorry thay whatever happened to them had to happen to them to make them a more beautiful version of themselves.
    The Indian uncle particularly (missed his name) comes across as such a genuine and gentle soul 💜

  • @mellmelaty5729
    @mellmelaty5729 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mr James, I knew him when he was out of prison and working with me in a company, such a nice guy,totally a reform man, approachable gentleman.

  • @euphoriceron
    @euphoriceron ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, OGS for featuring such amazing interviews!! ❤

  • @fjg1474
    @fjg1474 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All 3 gentlemen are decent and whole. Wrong decisions were made it seems because of insecurity... and you have all gone through hell to be here with us now. Thank you for sharing your stories. For what it’s worth, I’ll remember your stories and wish all of you the very best. You are enough, you deserve our respect.

  • @tashaculus4582
    @tashaculus4582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for giving such amazing insight into their lives. Keep up the good work, guys!

  • @TheCalendarfish
    @TheCalendarfish ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thanks for sharing your stories. They made me tear up and I think there’s such a beauty in the fight to change and show up for yourself and your family. Also, I used to watch the prez star challenge with my sister, didn’t realise they support halfway houses too!

  • @feudallordcult
    @feudallordcult ปีที่แล้ว +3

    absolutely powerful vid!

  • @okaydoubleu
    @okaydoubleu ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you OGS, for bringing these men's stories to us. Very well crafted interviews and definitely a brilliant idea and heart-warming gesture to create those portraits. To Wen Qi, deepest condolences and stay strong.

  • @korkurnut
    @korkurnut ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a solid video. Thank you OGS for sharing such great stories and touching our hearts. Keep em coming please!

  • @salehaahmadi8464
    @salehaahmadi8464 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These are such amazing stories! Photoshoot clicks look amazing!!!

  • @Choonzord
    @Choonzord ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Y'all's greatest episode yet

    • @OGS.Official
      @OGS.Official  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Means a lot coming from you! :)

  • @CluZee
    @CluZee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real content. Really touched my heart ❤️

  • @duckseatingbread
    @duckseatingbread ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was such a compelling watch and I loved the mix formats of tea talks and can ask meh, felt so candid and it made the ex offenders feel more personable too. Hope they’ll be happy to watch this video and that the documentation of the (very nice!!) photos will remind them of growth and all. Also big hugs to Wenqi ❣️🥺

  • @Mrducacati501
    @Mrducacati501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing such a touching story

  • @gunnergunnarsson3534
    @gunnergunnarsson3534 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Very insightful session. Love hearing people from all walks of life sharing their stories. Does anyone know in Singapore if they hold these kind of talks/events publicly? Will like to listen to them one day

  • @dan01
    @dan01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very touching, thanks for sharing. ❤

  • @YourTravelBuddySG
    @YourTravelBuddySG ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this video. It was a touching one indeed and hope more people will be forgiving and less judgmental toward ex-offenders and grace them a second chance.

  • @mohamedfarhanbinanwar2557
    @mohamedfarhanbinanwar2557 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This channel is really everything we all need these days esp on hard days.

  • @OGS.Official
    @OGS.Official  ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thanks everyone for your support and encouraging messages :) We shot this video at HCSA Highpoint Halfway House, which is one of the benefitting organisations of the President’s Challenge. They provide a safe and substance-free place for homeless newly released male ex-offenders and those in recovery from addiction, to restart their lives. If you’d like to support other former offenders who might be on a similar journey, do consider making a donation to the President's Star Charity via mediacorp.sg/psc2022

  • @syangzes5341
    @syangzes5341 ปีที่แล้ว

    There stories really do makes me feel that my problems are nothing infront of them.
    I can't imagine myself in there shoes.
    It help me to see life from different perspective!
    Thanks!

  • @btcprox
    @btcprox ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This feels like some interesting Tea Talks + Can Ask Meh hybrid, and I ain't complaining

  • @ChristineTohXH
    @ChristineTohXH ปีที่แล้ว +3

    condolences to you wenqi, stay strong!

  • @jaynetan3672
    @jaynetan3672 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your story! There is always a chance for reconciliation as long as you are alive . One day I hope u have the courage to face your family and children ❤❤❤❤

  • @sarifahschweizer7354
    @sarifahschweizer7354 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent documentation .

  • @sourdurian2839
    @sourdurian2839 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wa this interview really powerpack. Well done OGS!!

  • @merryponidjan7753
    @merryponidjan7753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for such a wonderful experience and lessons about life. 🙏

  • @janessakoh860
    @janessakoh860 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a touching video.. everyone deserves a second chance!

  • @helmi6430
    @helmi6430 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awesome content 👍

  • @rafiwankenobi
    @rafiwankenobi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent content

  • @Splashhhh
    @Splashhhh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really happy for them.

  • @wurnmedina4293
    @wurnmedina4293 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can I suggest that you guys do one on ex-offenders who went on to study after their release? From Prison School to taking up their diplomas and degrees with Yellow Ribbon or Singapore After-Care Association (SACA) education support program?
    Will be an interesting documentary to see how they adapt, work, and study.

  • @lohshinimanickavasagam6931
    @lohshinimanickavasagam6931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keeping you in my prayers, Wenqi! Always remember that your mom is guiding you

  • @norieabdullah4814
    @norieabdullah4814 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you OGS Tea Talks for doing this. Awesome job as usual ❤️
    Adel, it was a star-struck moment meeting you 😅
    Men whom I respect and care for. James, Tim and Jadon, you'll never walk alone.

    • @OGS.Official
      @OGS.Official  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Norie! It was really good to meet you in person! Thank you for your support and encouragement 🥰 I sincerely appreciate it ❤ - Adel

  • @donspecz
    @donspecz ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspirational. Words that cut deep. Reality can often only be best described by those hit hardest by it👍

  • @ww3032
    @ww3032 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wah Tim alr 40? Looks like 20 plus.

  • @lidna82
    @lidna82 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Live every day as if it's our last - this statement holds true for people from all walks of life.

  • @PlayToWinOnly
    @PlayToWinOnly ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watch the whole video and i also help to donate in the end.. hope they can stay in the straight path

  • @adelinegoh9033
    @adelinegoh9033 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stay Strong 💪, God Bless

  • @josephsingapore8742
    @josephsingapore8742 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tis was so good..

  • @desmonix
    @desmonix ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stay strong gents...

  • @rajblack2055
    @rajblack2055 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:55 to 3:07 is exactly Me Nowadays. Very numb. No feelings. Now I know I'm not Alone. 😑

  • @hasifmail91
    @hasifmail91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyday , every step is a choice, the current situation you are in is a compilation of the choices you made or did not make.

  • @ProjectElf
    @ProjectElf ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Off topic, but Tim complexion damn good sia

  • @PulunganHadee
    @PulunganHadee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ending vicious cycles of ignorance and pain.

  • @prabu3664
    @prabu3664 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope he can reconnect back with his family someday :)!

  • @SchismSphinx
    @SchismSphinx ปีที่แล้ว +12

    wah the photos at the end are really nice

    • @waterbottle_9087
      @waterbottle_9087 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you! I had a wonderful time making the portraits and spending time with all three of them.

  • @Its_a_me_WSA
    @Its_a_me_WSA ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They might not have been good men before but it is more important that they recognise and redeem themselves at the end

  • @rusdicoolgammer
    @rusdicoolgammer ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The so called "Bad People" are the most down to earth and friendly people to talk with

  • @schadenfreude6274
    @schadenfreude6274 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lived all my life as a law abiding citizen and never got into trouble. Yet here I am a nobody looking at prisoners who have people in the comments section cheering for them. I feel I have wasted my life being a nobody. Look at Hitler. He committed so many atrocities and people will remember and discuss about him forever, while the common soldier in WW2 who fought against him will never be remembered and only die as a nobody. :)

  • @slayer-dj3dc
    @slayer-dj3dc ปีที่แล้ว +4

    make more videos of these 🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @18vylee02
    @18vylee02 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    20 over years in prison, what did he do?
    Is long...

  • @andymill1953
    @andymill1953 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have they ever regret that they spent so much time in there? Coming out starting afresh? Adapting, relearning and integrating back to society.

  • @SuperPhysicsgeek
    @SuperPhysicsgeek ปีที่แล้ว +5

    better than jianhao t1t5 bs

  • @deschan2246
    @deschan2246 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His 2nd home

  • @oena403
    @oena403 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @Nomorekindness7
    @Nomorekindness7 ปีที่แล้ว

    They all sound that they quite educated and smarter but in the wrong path. Hope them will live better in world

  • @lucretius8050
    @lucretius8050 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If only such chances were given to traffickers.

    • @donnk
      @donnk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      traffickers are the people who affected lives like theirs

  • @beara1139
    @beara1139 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tim looks like the indian thum ping tjin haha

  • @davexiong4763
    @davexiong4763 ปีที่แล้ว

    They weak.. easy prison system

  • @cakri1815
    @cakri1815 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉…..🇲🇾🇲🇾🇲🇾🇲🇾🇲🇾🇲🇾

  • @benjaminvanizshotz295
    @benjaminvanizshotz295 ปีที่แล้ว

    adeline is butch?

  • @anziar3038
    @anziar3038 ปีที่แล้ว

    They have only themselves to blame.

  • @Laurent388
    @Laurent388 ปีที่แล้ว

    Boring……… we all got better things to do

  • @lesterwong1837
    @lesterwong1837 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can’t you’ll interview one at a time? So stupid seeing random answers from a few jailbirds l!

  • @blaze4158
    @blaze4158 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All three of those men were really interesting souls. I would be honored to be friends with any one of them. Peel an onion; there are many layers.

  • @coldstring5646
    @coldstring5646 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥹 rooting for everyone in this video!

  • @snow-n-gel
    @snow-n-gel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There's always some good in every living soul... The great trust n perseverance, only God can understand it all. 🕊️🤍🪔✝️

  • @MISSpiggiie
    @MISSpiggiie ปีที่แล้ว +1