Nowadays you can have natural childbirth in hospitals too. Nobody is forcing you to have a "medicate" birth if you don't want to. If there's the minimal complication without a hospital mother and baby could easily die. And there are cases where pregnancies are so difficult and hard that having a vaginal birth could be life threatening.
yes, the quote is true. My cousin's wife she gave birth her 3rd son at home, because she had a bad experience in hospital with the 1st. Obviously she has a special nurse with her, who has at least 10 years experience i this and she continuously stay connected with the doctor too, in case something happened so they can go to hospital imminently. She said it was a very good experience and give birth home is very peaceful and amazing. My cousin was with her and he supported her, without him she said she can't do it. I think this is how should down natural birth. I am from Europe, I don't know how is in USA
other example: a family we know, the women she gave birth her first daughter in the wood, without anything. Only her husband was there. She did without complications, so she was lucky and the baby too. Her husband( now ex husband) quite similar like this man in the video.
@@bloggerblogg5878 my mom had me and my other two siblings all at home with just a midwife. Home birth can be risky for some people, that's why it's important to talk with a medical professional and see what works best for the person who is pregnant. If that's a c section then so be it, if it's at home then they should have the resources available to them. Pregnancy and birth are two of the most difficult things anyone with a uterus may have to or choose to go through, which is why it's important to do what's best for them and their health.
I'm infertile. I love how men like this forget women like me exist. I would love to have children but I quite literally can't get pregnant naturally, nor should I in general because the chances of my body being able to survive pregnancy and produce a healthy child is very slim. I guess I'm not a proper woman 🤷🏻♀️.
It's so incredibly stupid and disgusting, making someone's worth depend on one single function of their body. People are so much more than just one organ.
Same here, It’s such a shame we’re not real women!!! I don’t know about you but I thought I was, until I saw this video and now I understand fertility= woman
Yo girls, I don't know about my fertility, because I'm not planning any babies soon, but I've been shamed by christian misoginysts for using contraceptives, because "my periods are not periods of a real woman". So... Yeah. I don't think this can be any more riddiculous. I don't know what happens after death, but it's most definetly not heaven for this people.
His comment about African fertility rates is disgusting. I suppose he didn't consider the maternal mortality rates or infant mortality rates. The high fertility rate is a symptom of a failure of health care, safety, and education for young women.
Seriously. To my knowledge, the spread of HIV/AIDS is rampant because of poverty, lack of education, etc. Many young and vulnerable women are forced to prostitute themselves just to survive, leaving them with numerous children and little chance of living to see those children grow up. He needs to pull his head out of his ass and realize that the kind of society he promotes has devastating consequences
Not to mention that a lack of reproductive rights greatly contributes to keeping people in poverty. One of the most efficient ways to get people out of poverty is to offer sex ed and contraception (obviously this is not the only thing needed but it's a big step)
That comment just fucked me up in the head so much. Like I don’t know why he thought that was such a “positive fact” to put towards the end of his post. More babies≠more happiness
My mother got dangerously sick right before she gave birth to me. So sick that if shifted to a different position while laying in bed, she would risk losing me. A “natural” birth would’ve killed us both. Thankfully, people aren’t as stupid as this fellow and there are doctors that can safely perform a C section. I wouldn’t say I’m healthy, I have scoliosis and basically have an IV in my wrist dispensing ice tea into my veins, but my mother and I are living the best we can thanks to hospitals
@@grosebud4721 hey, I actually have similar story. My mum wasn't sick but had difficult pregnancy and I also had umbilical cord wrapped around my neck couple of times, which put me at risk of getting chocked. Because of this I was born prematurely. Obviously doctors preformed c section and while I was underweight and pretty sickly as a newborn I wouldn't change a thing, because I'm alive and my mum was able to have another kid. I don't understand why people are gatekeeping this kind of things. hope you and your mum are doing ok and have a nice day❤️
My aunt was UNABLE to give birth to my cousin the 'natural' way. She carried to term, everything seemed fine, all the way to the birth itself. She had to much amniotic fluid (forgot the medical term for it) and was in labor for two while days before they went for C-section. I have a healthy, amazing cousin who is like a sister to me. Without C-section, she would die in the womb from asfixiation, and we might've lost my aunt too. C-section saves lives.
Yes, women have been giving birth at home for thousands of years. And they died. Like, alot. The babies too. Plus its not like it ever was common to give birth without professional help present.
There’s a BIG difference between home birth with a trained professional caregiver vs a planned unassisted birth. Plenty of other industrialized countries have home birth with midwives for low risk parents and have really great stats.
Even back then without modern medicine people were helping women through birth and being by their side. There were midwives back then that helped mothers with the knowledge that they had helping other women give birth. Everything is just way better now. It's natural for humans to want to help each other through that process omg just go to the hospital when you give birth people pls.
This honestly reminds me of boomers being like "back in my day we weren't so scared of everything, we'd climb trees and ride bikes without helmets and ride a car without a seatbelt, and we turned out fine" - yeah, maybe YOU did, but not everyone. Ever looked at the statistics of how drastically traffic deaths decreased since the invention of the modern seatbelt? Similarly, women used to give birth without modern healthcare, and they DIED AT AN ALARMING RATE, and they still do in parts of the world that don't have out modern healthcare!
I know, right!? Every time I see these kinds of misogynists that insist that "all women need a man" I just want to scream because it completely denies my very existence as a lesbian. But it also kinda makes me laugh at just,,, the idea that people like that even exist, the sheer ridiculousness of it all somehow makes it extremely funny.
As a black american fan of yours, I whole heartedly respect that you arent treating racism/BLM as a trending topic to say your 2 cents on while its current, only to forget about it when we go back to the status quo. Also love that youre using your own time and energy to educate yourself and not expecting black people to explain everything to you. (note: nothing wrong with asking questions and discussing with black folks, i just hate when people say they want to be educated about race but expect everyone else to do the work for them) Moments like that remind me why I love being one of your supporters!
@@EclecticallyEccentric She actually made her only video on it a few days/ a week after I posted this comment. 😁 I actually did wonder if it was due to comments I made on this video about her lack of action.... She did have a good 9 months of no BLM content.
Exactly WHAT is the status quo ? And we can start by pointing out the legal fact the the federal govt gives your race preferential treatment, as they have since 1965.
The “Natural Childbirth” trend is super dangerous. Childbirth used to be one of the first cause of mortality for women and is still in many places. the development of (less sexist) medical treatment and giving access to these treatments is important
RIGHT!!!!!! What is I am a terrible cook? What do I do then according to his stupid rules. What if, I know this might be crazy for some people, but what if I would actually truly thrive in places that AREN’T the kitchen
@Hailey Robins Well in that case, you were obviously neglected by your wicked independent mother that did not instill proper values in you and didn't teach you stuff so you need to repent and find a husband that will abuse you until you learn your place - and then keeps on abusing you to make sure you stay there, I think
Why don't people recognise that it is because of feminism that women like 'the Transformed Wife' can actually have books published and mass distributed and be allowed to speak their opinions, even if they're not well-liked? Without feminism, women wouldn't be able to receive the opportunity to write anything, unless it was endorsed by a man or published under a male pseudonym. The hateful logic confuses me.
Interesting you push a narative. The early feminint movement is often dated to the likes of the declaration of sentiments in 1848 or Wolfstonecraft in 1792. In responce others would point to the likes of Austen or Shelly in the early 1800s but that tended to be just fiction. So try looking back at Heywood from the 1720s Anne Bacon's theological writing in C16 or poets and historians like Elizabeth Cary. If you want earlier Juliana Berners was writing on feild sports, Julian of Norwich on Theology, and we still had plays from the likes of Katherine of Sutton. If you want to look at a cause you will see for more produced in the middle and far east these were not locations with greater rights but they had more wealth. The reality is that wealth creates the opportunity. The oppression narative may give you short term satisfaction but don't delude yourself it does any more than that.
@Day Night have you ever actually seen homeless people? there are just as many women as men. Rejection is an avid part of life do you *actually* blieve that someone gets rejected less because of their gender?
@@frozenyogurth "In 2019, there were 3,534 men (83 % of the total) and 614 women (14 %) sleeping rough. Gender was ‘Not known’ for 118 people (3 %)." www.gov.uk/government/publications/rough-sleeping-snapshot-in-england-autumn-2019/rough-sleeping-snapshot-in-england-autumn-2019#demographics So if you are looking for what you "see" perhaps you should consider how many men you disregard as you step over them in the street. If you want to make a claim about a smaller gap there is one in those who have no permant home and are housed in forms of temporary accomodation like B&Bs but that is a better than huddling in to shop doorways.
When I saw that I was like what makes you think I don’t want a “weak feminine man”?? Totally my type, that or just a straight up woman works for me lol
@Day Night if you’re going to be rude and insult people, at least use proper grammar. In that context any way would be two separate words. Also, there are plenty of single men or married men with housewives that use welfare. By that logic, these men aren’t independent.
I'm a preemie, and i was a kicker in the womb. I used to annoy the hell out of my mom with all the kicking, but guess what? I ended up swimming around so much i got the umbilical cord wrapped around 3 or 4 times around my neck. The doctors told my mom and guess what? I had to be removed from the womb 2 months earlier than the due date. C section. Spent a month and a half away from my parents and relatives in the hospital surrounded ONLY nurses and doctors. They(My parents and brother) could only see me a few times a week. And guess what? Here i am. 16. And yeah i had asthama for a bit but i got medication and now it's permanently less or not noticable at all. Have a vitamin deficiency but YET AGAIN i take medicines for that too, living normally. Had severe allergies but grew resistance to them through medicine courses. Doctors and nurses and all the people in medical sectors deserve so much more than useless statements from idiots like these. What would my mother have done if she would have gone the "natural" route? Would she ever have even REALISED i wouldve choked to death in the womb if it werent for those weekly/monthly checkups? I hate anyone who believe natural birth is the *only way*. It's so much more than that buddy. Even natural birth needs to be guided. Needs KNOWLEDGE. You dont just sit on a bed and POP the baby comes out. It's extremely painful and this man is never going to know it. And if women can pay doctors to take care of them as they go through the painful experience of labour? Then by all means a man has no right to have any say in it.
@Grand Inquisitor No, because of all the things you mentioned, "tall" is the only one that applies to me and yet, my girlfriend is very happy with me. ;)
@Grand Inquisitor What's your point? Women like tall men, so? Men also like short women. There aren't many men out there who are willing to date women taller than them. Besides, just because women prefer tall men doesn't mean they don't date men who aren't tall. All people have certain preferences, but most people end up settling for people who don't meet all their preferences. Go outside and you'll see plenty of men who aren't tall and muscular with partners, and surely not all of them are doctors. However, it's not even unreasonable for a woman to want a man who is muscular and highly educated. If a woman is fit herself, it's only normal that she would want a fit man. If a woman is highly educated herself, it's only normal she would want an educated man with a good career. Why would she be attracted to an uneducated man she can't discuss anything intellectual with? Why would she be attracted to a poor man who can't keep up with her lifestyle? Why would she want to be someone's sugar mama? And yes, I know men like to say "Men don't give a crap if a woman is educated and has a lucrative career!!! So it's not fair that women require us to be!!!". Well perhaps men should raise their standards then and stop settling for mindless gold diggers and then complaining when they are used for their money and divorce r@ped. Women can't stop themselves from aging so it's not right to select a partner based only on their youth/fertility. Women are not commodities with expiration dates. We are not objects. We are humans.
Ohhhh i thought he was talking about catwoman and thinking what the hell he is trying to say😂 (when English is not the first language) but to be fair his intelligence is about this range so he could say even something like this
As a happy mother of 5 cats, I must disagree - cats definitely DO treat you like their property. However, I'd still take being owned by cats over that guy. Hell, I'd rather be eaten alive by my cats than have a 5min interaction with that guy :D
As a male presenting person, I think financial independence is a good, and very important quality to have in a partner. I don't want to be with someone because there's dependency, or transactionialism. I want to be with someone because we enjoy being together. Not because we need to be, or it's convenient, but because it's what we want. The idea that me or my partner could exit our relationship at any time makes me more confident that we're in it for the right reasons.
Wtf is male presenting?..You’re either male or you aren’t. There isn’t a certain look to being male or female besides the obvious secondary sex characteristics.
@@nunya2189 You're not correct. If you actually want to know what this person means, research it yourself. It's not their job to do the emotional work of making you less ignorant.
This. Takes me back to the breaking point with my ex. Once it became something where someone started making increasingly high demands about spending money on them and throwing tantrums when I didn't give in those demands, I was on my way out. It's amazing how she called herself a feminist while thinking men should tie their self-worth with how much money we spend on women. She even asked if I would take care of her if she "became pregnant" when I treat safe sex religiously. Well, the sex was great at least lol
Yes! Totally! I've always been firm in the belief that no one should seek a relationship if you're not happy or stable on your own in anyway- because then it becomes a desperate dependency rather than a loving relationship. I could leave my bf at any time and we'd both survive and be alright. That's a good litmus test for the fact that I want to be here.
Oh, this. I'm not a man, but I've heard these arguments about how men "want to feel needed," in a pragmatic, honey-please-fix-my-car-and-take-out-the-garbage way. And while I think it's good to be appreciated for the things you do for a partner (I certainly like appreciation!), I often thought of how depressing it would feel to have a partner who was with me because they just needed my resources/ skills to get by. Like anyone with those resources could fill the role, making it this sad transaction, where one is appreciated only for what they have and what they can do, and not who they are as a thinking, feeling person.
I don`t think he knows that, if i am not completely mistaken death in childbirth was the most common death for women up to the 1950s or something at least in the west.
Victor The Defiler Oh the humanity!!! How ever will he live his life with women in his life that respect him for not being a piece of shit!!! How ever will he live down you calling him a soy boy?!?!? THE HORROR
@@ms.sherry Since you want to be sent to the kitchen so badly, here it goes: 1. I never said anything logical to being with? Coming from the person who rely her arguments on buzzwords and coined terms with imaginary meanings, that means nothing. The real reason why you didn't debunk anything is because you can't. Hence you decided to ignore it and pretend it never happened. Typical wahmen behavior... deflect, deflect and then deflect some more. 2. No, nobody deserves respect until its earned. Because you cannot lose something you previously didn't have. Respect is part of the ancient code of warrior, where one warrior respected the others because they we alike. Strong and honest men. And hence why it is earned. I know there are no words like dignity, honor and power of display in modern wahmens dictionary, so ofc you think its disgusting when you need to earn something. Furthermore, not only that, but another reason why you think its disgusting is because you are entitled to special treatment, and once you get real equality, you feel oppressed. Being wahmen is everything about being wah wah for the extra free things, free of commitment or participation. 3. "Playing for your exes"; "Manipulated by your lonely a.ss". See wahmen, I already told you that shaming language doesn't work on guys like me. Neither assumption does. Because: you cannot know what kind of relationship I had with my exes, nor am I lonely or not. Assumption is always used when the lack of real arguments are presented. Hence the argument as whole is dismissed. 4. Nobody said that wahmen. Emotions are part of thinking process for both of us. What I said is that men in general control them better and much frequently uses reason and logic compared to wahmen. Yes, you fabricated me hating anybody, because you don't even understand what the word hate means, what the hate is, as primordial emotion and how its invoked. To give the short explanation of it, nobody is capable of hate towards someone who didn't do some great evil to them. The word you are looking for is mistrust, not liking and so on. And you would be correct on that, I don't trust women nor I center my doings around them because I know better. I already said that buzzwords like se.xism has no meaning, so not gonna repeat myself. 5. I don't have to believe wahmen are inferior, since there are tons of historical evidences and scientific data to support that claim. 6. Respect is also not connected to the gender anyhow. Again delusional thinking without real purpose. People respect themselves when they know they are worthy. That's the case with my mom. And yeah, I do respect her because she is calm, logical and emotionally stable women. Unlike many of you, she doesn't get indoctrinated by ideologies and can get her ideas across to others eloquently. Which again most of you modern wahmen cannot. Its se.xis idea to respect individuals of great quality rather then endorsing mediocre masses? Nope. That is just your mediocre personality speaking. I know you got used to special treatment and so on, but that's not what you gonna get from guys like me. You will only be respected if you earn it. I know its hard to muffle your tiny brain around this, but what can I say.... like I said above, when entitled wahmen like you stop receiving special treatment and get an actual equal one, you feel oppressed. And thats what you demonstrated by your comment. I am supposed to respect you just because you are a girl? Hahaha good joke. 7. A man of quality is indeed not threaten by wahmen. Neither are guys like me. I'm simply stating facts of how the world around us work. Now, since you don't benefit for that, your hypergamous nature demands blood. Not gonna happen. But as they say "theres nothing more that intimidate a women like a guy who can't be manipulated by s...e...x.". 8. The notion that I have to respect people just because they are alive is ridiculous. This is how I look like: postimg.cc/VrkJfsyw. Now do you really think a dude like me, which got looks, money and status has to do anything? Nope. Wahem throw themselves at my feet all the time, because thats how you been hardwired by nature. You are biologically programmed to look for security in a men and men that have looks, money and status are perceived by female brain as the perfect genetic material for reproduction. So save your shaming language for betas and soy boys. It won't work on guys like me and thats that.
@@ms.sherry So in conclusion: You don't know what respect is and how it works. You also don't know what hate is and how it works. You also don't know what are privileges you have and how they work. You also don't know how biology works. Now I could go on and on, but the point is, you really don't know anything besides what you heard others say. You don't know how to think and behave as individual, so you need ideologies to shape your life. What to say... be ready for the life with 17 cats, because no sane men in hell would want to be with the likes of you. By saying all this, its also my last reply to you. I have given you 3 chances to come back as normal and intelligent person and you just kept recycling what you originally said and reposing it using different word order in sentence. So instead of deflection, reflect on your mistakes and try to better yourself, because if you doesn't and keep thinking like a naive child (you now are), you really will end up alone in a small apartment, childless, with 17 cats and writing articles like "where have all the good men gone". Now, since I honor my words, you can keep crying in here, but like I said, this is my last reply to you.
"My wallet, my choice" is an inflated way of saying "I choose the prostitutes that sleep with me for money, because no self-respecting woman will ever sleep with me by choice.". That Yogi guy almost feels like a caricature.
@@cassbee1252 That is true and I think it evident that putting sex workers down wasn't my aim here. I was merely implying that the only women who would sleep with him would do it solely because it is good business and nothing more. But no person with half a brain would seriously start a proper relationship with a guy like this Yogi dude and enjoy being his puppet, no matter what.
I checked out this guy cause I'm a nosey gluten for punishment and apparently his "my wallet my choice" thing is in reference to his belief that men shouldn't pay child support
@@zhoraprice8146 So he says motherhood is the best thing in a woman, lets them pop babies and then refused to pay for them? Logic has committed suicide.
What Not To Do At a Stoplight - I’m confused on your stance; what gender stereotype are they promoting by saying that a hate-filled person is unattractive?
Just read his hashtags, “#vaccinescauseautism”, actually no, they don’t, that has been disproved for a while, seeing this upsets as me. His whole account saddens me actually. Great video!
I just saw a funny picture joke where a man says "many top scientists are on the autism spectrum" and a little girl says "so technically autism causes vaccines?!" Like someone told her Santa didnt exist. Everybody has their niche in society, and more power to us all.
The idea that you're better off with a dead child than you are a child with autism is so genuinely and deeply disgusting that anyone who thinks it should be fed to goats
@@firetarrasque4667 I dont know if you misunderstood me, but my comment was not saying anything like what you commented, so I'm very confused. You do know all sorts of people are highly skilled, including people with autism?
Dying of tuberculosis is natural and people have been doing it for years 🙄 Oh and btw in most countries in most times women have/had a midwife with them.
@Grand Inquisitor The world does not work in black and whites or in the way this guy believes. It is not betraying my own, it's being a decent human being.
What is it with these guys and "feminine men"? One, super insulting and two, feminine guys are hot. There is nothing more attractive than a guy in heels. Deal with it.
Heels were originally made for men! Crazy to think what is "feminine" today was intended for the male sex so long ago. Blue used to be for girls and pink used to be for boys, too. Dresses were largely worn by men, with France being the centre for fashion in Europe. Fashion itself was male driven and seen as masculine! It's almost as if personality has nothing to do with one's sex...smh
@Cat Princess 101 They think feminine men are weak because they think women are weak. To them, weakness is an admirable trait in women (because it makes us easier to control), but an undesirable trait in men.
@@raveng8217 this makes me depressed, and ashamed to be a straight male. Guys like this affect me as well, because thanks to people like him I have to prove to women I'm nothing like him just to strike up a friendship, because women are so used to guys coming on to them constantly that any attempt at friendship I ever make is always tainted because of who I am. Also, just everything guys like him say are depressing. Watch Strange Aeons video on MGTOW websites, one guy talks about how giving up their bus seat to pregnant women on the bus makes him want to 'punch them in the stomach', and instead of calling this person out as the evil scumbag they are, his MGTOW friends respond with 'lol'. If it was meant as a joke where is the funny side? There is more to humour than saying horrible things apropos of nothing.
Same. I was also at risk of death if my mom decided to give birth do me naturally. My mom's water had already broken and I was losing oxygen and she wasn't dilating fast enough.
Right. My twin and I had a disease pre-birth and had my mom vaginally birthed us I would have died. Even with the c section I was in the hospital for the first 2 weeks of my life
Oof, this video gave me some bad flashbacks. I once dated a man who admitted to me that he was anti-abortion, and actually said "My wallet, my choice". I got in a big fight with him in a restaurant about it, and swore I would never have sex with him if he really held that belief. You should never have sex with someone who doesn't think you should have the right to choose what you do with your own body. That relationship only lasted six weeks, and it was the easiest breakup I've ever been through.
What does “my wallet, my choice” even mean when discussing abortion? Is it saying that women are asking men to pay for abortions? Cause that isn’t always the case at all. It’s bad logic . . .
"Natural" childbirth in history is the reason we had such low average life expectancies in the past - men lived long lives but there was so much maternal mortality and death in childbirth or early childhood due to diseases we've since eradicated (or close to). I agree that lying on your back in a hospital bed isn't always the right position, but that's also why hospital births are rarely "lie on your back in a hospital bed". During my experience (and this was almost 14 years ago), I was encouraged to walk, to use the birthing ball, to hop in the birthing tub, and to give birth on all fours. I actually ended up lying on my back in the hospital bed for the last hour or so, but mostly because that was the position I found most comfortable.
The women need men but men dont need women is something ive heard from church. The greatest "gift" a woman could give her husband was death by child birth. This way he could marry again and father more children. Younger women were more desirable and the death of older expended women were considered the thing.
I plan to get a c-section. Why? Because my hips are messed up and I have fertility issues. Because I know my baby will be very big and that I have a high chance of complications. And because I don't care about how the baby is born, as long as it and I both come out healthy, and a cesarean is the safest way for me.
Rachel: I don’t see myself as a possession so maybe... just MAYBE.. this guy is wrong?¿ Me: you mean to tell me some random incel on the internet is WRONG😳🤯🤯🤔
Yeah, not really. Since you cannot prove that he is wrong and instead you use shaming language like incel. Do you mindless drone even know what incel means? It means involuntarily celibate. No men can be celibate Involuntarily, since that goes directly against their se.xual biology. I suggest reading some science before you try to act smart, because, quite frankly, you are just another adult body that imprisoned childish mind, hurling buzzwords around
@@DarsiliaFausten While I agree that it seems the word incel is thrown around too loosely around this comment section as an insult, you are wrong about men not being able to be involuntary celibate. It just means that they want to get laid, but don't / can't get laid. I don't see what biology has to do with that.
@@joannajett2524 No you can't prove anything. If you could, you would firstly know that personal experience is not an evidence of any sort nor facts. What has number of feminine women has to do with that? Nothing child, you just wrote a nonsense. You don't even know how to use logic and reason, yet you claim you will prove him wrong? Hahaha, good one.
People on these comments keep trying to call him an incel. He's not. He's a Tradcon for exactly the reasons you stated. Frankly, from my point of view, Tradcons are more dangerous then incels are. Incels just want to get laid. Tradcons want EVERYBODY to adhere the gender roles from 60 years ago, with no choice in the matter. No thank you.
Learning With The Smiley Yellow Face+ Oh, you get bitched about for that too. Get told how you need a man in the relationship, and making fun of the divorce rates. I said, “Dude, you’re a MGTOW. What the fuck does this have to do with you?” And I got all kinds of insults for it in the comments. No answer though.
The whole “beauty fades” posts made me think of the Roald Dahl quote about beauty. “If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until you can hardly bear to look at it. A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.”
I love that quote. It’s sort of like when a celebrity I find attractive is revealed to be a massive bigot, suddenly . . . I don’t find them as attractive.
This person has such disgusting toxic views nobody man or woman is a possession of anyone love you rachel awesome video you are a beautiful person inside and out the world needs more people like you
@Sophie Why do you assume that because someone is bad at texting that they _must_ be from some other, non-English speaking country? That's kind of a soft bigotry/subtly racist thing you got going on there. Are you sure that this is the hill you want to die on? I know many, many non-English as a 1st language speakers who write English far better than most native speakers do.
hippyjason+ You missed the point. The point is that they _might_ be. Correcting someone’s grammar is fine, but putting a rude-ass comment up is just... well, rude. It’s rude in any case. Even worse if they _are_ a non-native. How are you trying to help them??
I’m 24 and engaged we’re getting married next year. I am not capable of earning a liveable wage due to chronic illness. I will be a stay at home mum/primary house keeper because that’s the roll I’ve chosen to take in life with my partner. Some key words there are CHOSEN and PARTNER. I do whatever I want within the boundaries of respect and communication that we have built up over 3 years, and he is free to do the same. We each understand the rolls we play and acknowledge the effort it takes on both sides to achieve the future that we want together. It’s called TEAMWORK there is no place for power imbalances or selfishness in that. In conclusion SCREW THIS F’er.
Honestly, MGTOW are obsessed with women. If they really wanted nothing to do with us, the best thing to do would just be to live their lives and ignore us. Boy, do they not do that.
I'm all for men who don't want anything to do w women and live their own lives apart from them, it's their choice. This guy though? Nah, he just hates women. He's just seething with rage that there are women who're doing leagues better than him in life (by choosing work, education etc etc) lol
Ikr! I respect a man’s choice to go their own way but most of the time “men going their own way” means screaming on the internet about how women won’t sleep with you. How is that going your own way? By the title of the movement it sounds like it’s saying men don’t need a woman, which I think is accurate, women don’t need a man either, but it’s not that all.
Yeap, "natural childbirth" was a thing for a long while and killed a lot of people. And I mean a LOT lot. Also. Dear Deidre! I don't have a lock in my you-know-where. Am I okay? /sarcasm (just in case)
Also, the profession of "midwife" has been around for thousands of years (from wikipedia, not the best source, but still: "In ancient Egypt, midwifery was a recognized female occupation, as attested by the Ebers Papyrus which dates from 1900 to 1550 BCE."), so women have been assisted in childbirth for thousands of years as well. All of the medical assistance we have today can basically be viewed as an evolved form of that. But I guess people like him just don't understand what progress is, how it works and why people generally strive for it.
Some serious, "I cannot please women in bed" energy coming from him. Women who are heterosexual, do indeed love genuinely strong men who are empathetic heavy-lifters, have strong ethics and obey the universal rule of treating others as you would like to be treated. Not men with personality disorders, low EQ and premature ejaculation, pretending to be strong by needing to exploit and oppress others. Then when women reject them because of their toxic personalities, they blame everything BUT their vile personalities devoid of compassion and full of low self-esteem.
Gee thats interesting.... In most of these fundamentalist relationships the woman isn't allowed to manage the family finances. The man does it all. She may mail the bills but doesn't write the check. Even the grocery shopping list is written by the husband. Its total control. She is only allowed to cook and clean. The kids can only be disciplined as far as the husband allows it. It really is a one way relationship. Ive known women in these relationships that had to sneak away to get out of them. Please note it took a court order to get their kids out. Some of the time they dont get the kids. Someone else does.
By the way, I'm really glad that the newer generation of atheists such as yourself are completely dissociated from the whole anti-sjw / anti-feminist views that the previous generation of atheists from 10 years ago began to derail their content towards.
I remember watching someone called Amazing Atheist when I was a teenager. Saw a couple of videos, and then he just went straight into woman-bashing arena so I noped right tf out
Hi Rachel, just wanted to point out that if you don't own the transformed wife's book already, you can consider getting it from your local library. That way money doesn't go in her pocket. Online libraries are also a great option to have the book sent to you. If that's not an option then you could always buy it used :)
I would be so fucking appalled if my library held that book and wouldn't want to loan it, I'd want to tell them to get rid of it..?? So I understand what you mean, like it takes the profit etc away from her, but no no no. Also of it promotes corporal punishment I don't know if it would be approved for a local library in the UK...but maybe I have too much faith in my own country 😂
"tHe fERtILItY rAte iS sO hIgH iN AfRiCa hurr durr". Yeah, so is the the infant mortality rate, mate. Women and children die during childbirth all the time because they don't have access to proper healthcare.
I used to watch his content a while back out of curiosity as to what he believed and why. Turns out, he went with this movement called MGTOW because of his shitty choices in past relationships. He goes on and on about the different flings and women he's had sex with but then judges women for making the same decisions he did, refusing to accept that any fault could've been on him. Went after women who weren't interested in serious relationships, in which he had made it clear that he wasn't either, then put a bunch of blame on them when the relationships didn't go the way he wanted. Hypocrisy at its finest.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer You don't have time to debate people, but you do have time to reply to every comment with some meanless bullshit. Man, take yourself Party City and buy a rainbow wig and some makeup cause you're clearly a clown.
It's not hypocrisy to him, because he thinks women are inferior, therefore should have less/no rights. No matter what you call him, this will be his number one argument.
Every picture of him makes him look like he has been constipated for so long he just started to hate life. Then again with that much rage and bottled emotions (because emotions aren't manly, of course) I wouldn't be surprised if he was backed up in one way or another. I'm not surprised that women run away from him on a regular basis, and I hope that trend keeps up.
Ikr! Has he seen the men that dm women on Instagram (many of which aren’t posting “revealing” photos not that it matters) with messages like “sho yur boobs” and “send nudes” barely comprehensible horny messages cause they’re masturbating with one hand, typing with the other, this is shit women deal with every single day! These people believe women must be so incredibly prim and proper while men can get away with everything.
Words cannot describe how tired I am of men trying to tell women how to live their lives. It irritates me how he speaks with such confidence and authority on subject matters pertaining to women. How in the hell could he EVER know or understand?
Well you hear... we have this thing called science and one branch of it is called evolutionary psychology. That branch teaches us everything about humans in general, so we do know what it is to be a wahmen without being one. Amazing, I know hahahah.
@Talsong Kingslayer Do you really think I'm gonna debate some crazy lefty lunatic coming from gender studies xD. Nah, not really. But, here is an interesting observation... why do you look for MY posts specifically in an attempt to accomplish something? I mean, there is so many other people on here posting you could have replied to. Do I intimidate you so much, so you feel attacked and thus in need of defending? You know, just the thought xD. Like I said soy boy, not in a thousand years will women be equal to men in any prospect imaginable and also not in a thousand years will soy boys like you accomplish anything by attacking other men instead of disciplining modern female failures called women. I mean, natural selection always fix everything, and as such, you will be on the wrong end of it.
"Which is ironic, because on instagram is the only place this guy is every going to see a butt in his life, let's be real" HAHHAHAHA only 1 minute into the video and Rachel is SCORCHING this guy!! instant like
What kind of woman is 'easier' (going by the logic of sexists)? A woman who had sex outside of marriage but is picky about her partners or a woman who will marry the first man who asks her just so she can finally have sex?
Zod General yeah and it’s almost like that’s because men literally didn’t allow them to do anything and literally stole their inventions and contributions
No Rachel. You're WRONG You're REALLY UNHAPPY WITHOUT A MAN.... *swings pendulum in front of face* YOU'RE REALLY REALLY REEAAALLLY UNHAPPY WITHOUT A MAN
“Women need men more than men need women.” Aaaaand that’s why this single man devotes so much time and energy towards grooming women for marriage?! (Hah no pun intended... well, okay, maybe a little)
Also as far as being “satisfied” with a partner.... There’s a difference between being satisfied and settling (or even being content). Just because a person doesn’t know any better doesn’t mean they’re satisfied, and just because they feel like they have to stay with a person because they married them doesn’t mean they’re satisfied.
@@leilameow9582 Keep your brainwashed lunacy away. Hate doesn't exist in the context you mindless drones uses it and you don't get to police something, just because your little feelings and hurt ego (consequences of being sheltered and never had to face one real hardship in your life) are there. Look, I understand herd mentality and primitives like you. Its trendy nowadays to pose as victim for social points, and sheltered people who didn't face one real hardship in their lives have the need to artificially try to create that hardship, in order to solve it and thus feel what others told you, you should feel when you manage to solve a problem. However, artificial created problems posses no real value and you dont gain anything from "solving" them, besides pathology points. Again, I understand. Its not easy to be a simpleton whose existence is a pure mistake of causality, but that doesn't give you right to police someone deemed bad by your pathology infused mind.
To address what he mentioned about birth and natural births, there have been more recent critiques of the technological model of birth which is especially prevalent in the US - for example the US has a much higher rate of C sections than other similarly developed countries and the highest maternal mortality rate for black women of any developed country. I found this article that discusses the issue: www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/03/the-most-scientific-birth-is-often-the-least-technological-birth/254420/ He was kind of, almost, there but missed the mark. Also, Phyllis Schlafly was a pretty well-known anti-feminist and she led a movement in the 70s to stop the Equal Rights Amendment in the US, and we still to this day have not gotten ERA passed. Her whole argument was that women hold a "privileged" place in society because their husbands provide for them and feminists need to "Stop Taking Our Privileges". Basically her campaign only applied rich, cis, white women, but unfortunately, it worked.
I work in a place where one of our models in the leaflet we had designed was wearing a t-shirt that said 'Women are more than muses.' We then received a complaint from a guy over the phone who wanted to know when we had started promoting sexism. I was so confused and he had to explain that he felt the T-Shirt was anti-men and sexist towards men. I was like 'It literally doesn't even say anything about men?!' Like these guys say feminists are overly sensitive, but the absolute bollocks of that complaint was astounding. Like how much time do you have on your hands to log a formal complaint about this bullshit?
Yeah I think that's the reason the mgtow guys haven't been able to really get their point across - making sure that radical feminism doesn't make things worse for men , like in family courts . They're too aggressive and lash out - sending the female judge rape threats before a case really isn't going to improve things for you - not to mention their views on things like the above mentioned topic . Some of them get radicalised quickly , start having questionable thoughts on sexism and go around advertising they'd like for women's rights to go back to medieval era level - and due to this their public image is in ruins and the actually good mgtow guys who just want to be left alone are also just as hated as the radicalised ones . It's kind of like how third wave feminism started going wrong and suddenly there was a wave of men hating - like , did they really have to take the worst parts of feminism as inspiration for mgtow ?
As an Indian woman whose father is very much this kind of man... I'm so sick and tired and hurt by it all. My own father treats me like a possession. He justifies it as protectiveness and love, but it's actually possesiveness and hatred of women. After struggling with my mental health and being depressed from childhood, not having the sense of self to function, socialize, become financially independent... I did the years of therapy, and am just beginning to form a career. My father STILL tries to control me. How I behave, what I wear.. even trying to keep me from forming normal relationships outside the family. Yesterday, he said, knowing my financial dependency bothers me deeply, that "nobody is tying you to this house". Knowing I have no choice. Coercive control. It makes me sick. I'm mourning today, and recovering emotionally and spiritually. This man is not a "yogi". He doesn't consider woman human. BUT PEOPLE LIKE THIS ARE REAL. Channels like yours are so NEEDED. When I am drained and bereft of all hope, videos like this one and women like you give me strength. My family is financially stable and as educated as you please, but it's the culture. THE CULTURE IS POISON. I was raised to see myself as a posession, and a burden at that. This kind of content may seem laughable... and I myself have brushed off so many people like this as extremists! But they're NOT. Not in India. Not anywhere.
As an artist who has spent good time and money to study design and composition, among other things in the world of visual arts, I'm offended that these bland bits of text are being labeled as "designs" at all.
Sometimes its funny watching the patriarchy gasp for air as they realize all of the people under their thumb have the courage, confidence, and support to tell them to 🖕🏽. These men trying DESPERATELY to hang on to their power crack me up! Its amazing how progress works, and I guess, doesn't work, for some.😂😂😂
@Mauri Mela Heyyyy, we got another one! 🤣🤣🤣 what 'lynching'?! You are allowed to think and feel however you want. You are allowed to rely on logical fallacies written by random unqualified people manipulating 20-40 yr old data to suit their own needs, all you want. You are allowed to project your insecurities all you want. Nobody should 'lynch' you for that. In fact, I urge you to share this info as much as possible, since it provides some of THE best historical evidence that Women's Reproductive rights benefit all of society, for generations to come. Thank you for proving my point!🙏🏼🙏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Also, I believe the Senate is working on a definition of 'lynching' this week, so you should be able to use it properly in a sentence soon. Keep you posted!💋
As a male person who woks out on a semi daily basis i want to try posessing a woman. I've got the candles and wine and I'm working hard on my latin chanting.
So if single child free women are the happiest.. then why are single child free women making countless articles since the early 90’s talking about, “where have all the good man gone?” Or “I’ve ran out of tinder matches!” Women are social creatures that cannot be alone. That’s why the person down below said, “ok cat lady.” Find any single women past the age of 28 and you’ll find if she didn’t have a man, she has a dog, a cat, a fish, or is involved with some sort of group activity to keep her from being isolated and occupied. If women can be alone, (which is a side argument) name 3 female philosophers or existentialists that practice isolation or discipline such as nuns or monks do...
birth control (combined, not estrogen only) actually arent bad for you. since we live longer today and experience more periods in our lifetime than we used to the pill is really good protection against some forms of cancer, protecting against bone mass loss and a bunch of other stuff. its really interesting to read more about and im tired of people shaming women for being on the pill.
I’m 14 years old. I’m pro choice. I am a mixed person of color (Black Mexican and White) I believe in black lives matter. I believe in acab. I believe woman should be treated equally to men, not less. I’m am a member of the lgbtq+ community. (Bisexual to be specific) I look up to you as a person, your opinions and morals all have strong reasonings and I completely agree with you. You are a role model of mine and I hope you continue to stand up for what you believe in and make great content. Have an amazing day🤍
Has Rachel said anything about BLM since this video? I don't think I've seen her do any of the work she mentions here. Perhaps she just jumped on a trend and then forgot about racism. 🙄
And we can see from your statement you think its okay to ruin someones life because they don't agree with you. But what they say.... the difference from women to children is in just having bo.obs. Zero capacity for logic and reason.
@@user-sp5ck4fs1n Yes, I will definitely allow peasantry that try their best to misrepresent my words to fit their childish believes to educate me on logic. No tnx, hard pass.
I feel EMPOWERED giving my hospital birth. I feel EMPOWERED being my own person. My wife loves me, my 5 month old loves me, and I’m constantly working on loving myself. I don’t believe anybody NEEDS to have babies, i was ready for her. This guy suckssss
@@Asmiiiii530 You should never project your insecurities onto others. Its not healthy and doesn't get you anywhere really, beside showing your weakness.
@@mindflayer0319 Yep she did a full interview with him. She's also liked a few of his tweets. I like Caitlin as well, but I don't follow her for ideological content, but more for the homemaking and femininity content.
As a man that used to let his anger take control, not only do I dislike male anger, I loathe it. I hate being angry as I feel that throughout my life my anger has ruined many potential friendships, romantic relationships, as well as familial relationships. I'd happily burn in Hell rather than be happy about male anger. If only this man was self aware enough to put aside his ego and stop pretending he is better than anyone else, let alone an entire gender.
Thank you so much for not trying to use your platform to amplify your own opinions on this whole thing. It’s so so important that we as white people promote the voices of black people instead of our own.
@@hix3998 Girls only care about looks, money and status. But the very fact that you think about what they care about also proves, you are a beta soy yourself.
@@antoninastepak1244 Yes, but when you grow up and realize what has been done to you, whoa, are you going to be pissed, but enjoy your brainwashing...so stunning and brave, you go grrrlll!
@@hellogoodbye4061 U know, im accually going to suprise you: i do my independent reaserch. My views are backed up. I know you dont belive that, but if you wanna try to convince me that im wrong, go ahead! Im really open to people challenging what i belive in! Also, what do you think "has been done to me" and by whom? Real interested. 👍😉
the part about the pill messing with your hormonal chemistry... YEAH it does that’s why it’s great (for some, i know it can have negative side effects for others). i take the pill for PMDD and now i don’t have extreme mental health issues one week a month!!! and i have an IUD as well which doesn’t mess with my brain & i’ve gotten pregnant 0 times!
I studied a course in affective neuroscience in undergrad and did a module on pair bonding (absolutely did NOT expect it to ever come up and had no idea antifeminist evangelicals were employing it ?? lmao) and there is a huge misunderstanding generally with how these hormones (oxytocin and dopamine) work in the brain. There has been some speculation after studies done on prairie voles that initial sexual/romantic encounters can release DA from specific DA receptors that subsequently do not open again in other bonding experiences. The evolutionary strategy being monogamous or one in which the animals rely on one mate's resources at a given time. However, there is very little evidence that this occurs exactly in humans and that humans are monogamous, to begin with. Surely many societies have deemed it to be a norm but biologically speaking I have yet to see a human study that indicates we operate strictly in this manner. It is an interesting idea that something like pair-bonding could explain phenomena such as first love/first heartbreak but we would have to consider the role of the prefrontal cortex's development intersecting with experiences/memories in the limbic system to understand experience-dependent plasticity more fully. Bottom line: we are not prairie voles and we can do what we like. To quote my professor: "folks these are evolutionary strategies. I will not tolerate any slut-shaming of the voles" phew anyway, don't know where that came from great video x
Any dude who tries to excuse sleeping around using biology shouldn't be allowed to be a professor to begin with. Also, there are countless of studies on the topic of us compared to other animals. The better one are Jordan Petersons about lobsters and hamsters.
"Natural childbirth has been going since the dawn of time" And both mothers and babies died in childbirth. What's your point?
Nowadays you can have natural childbirth in hospitals too. Nobody is forcing you to have a "medicate" birth if you don't want to.
If there's the minimal complication without a hospital mother and baby could easily die. And there are cases where pregnancies are so difficult and hard that having a vaginal birth could be life threatening.
Reminds me of that post when someone said ''the plague disappeared without a vaccine too!''
yes, the quote is true. My cousin's wife she gave birth her 3rd son at home, because she had a bad experience in hospital with the 1st. Obviously she has a special nurse with her, who has at least 10 years experience i this and she continuously stay connected with the doctor too, in case something happened so they can go to hospital imminently. She said it was a very good experience and give birth home is very peaceful and amazing. My cousin was with her and he supported her, without him she said she can't do it. I think this is how should down natural birth.
I am from Europe, I don't know how is in USA
other example: a family we know, the women she gave birth her first daughter in the wood, without anything. Only her husband was there. She did without complications, so she was lucky and the baby too. Her husband( now ex husband) quite similar like this man in the video.
@@bloggerblogg5878 my mom had me and my other two siblings all at home with just a midwife. Home birth can be risky for some people, that's why it's important to talk with a medical professional and see what works best for the person who is pregnant. If that's a c section then so be it, if it's at home then they should have the resources available to them. Pregnancy and birth are two of the most difficult things anyone with a uterus may have to or choose to go through, which is why it's important to do what's best for them and their health.
I'm infertile. I love how men like this forget women like me exist. I would love to have children but I quite literally can't get pregnant naturally, nor should I in general because the chances of my body being able to survive pregnancy and produce a healthy child is very slim. I guess I'm not a proper woman 🤷🏻♀️.
It's so incredibly stupid and disgusting, making someone's worth depend on one single function of their body. People are so much more than just one organ.
I’m so sorry. This does not make you less of a woman because it doesn’t define you. You keep living your best life and frick the haters.
Same here, It’s such a shame we’re not real women!!! I don’t know about you but I thought I was, until I saw this video and now I understand fertility= woman
Yo girls, I don't know about my fertility, because I'm not planning any babies soon, but I've been shamed by christian misoginysts for using contraceptives, because "my periods are not periods of a real woman". So... Yeah. I don't think this can be any more riddiculous.
I don't know what happens after death, but it's most definetly not heaven for this people.
I wish people realized that your reproductive system shouldn’t validate your womanhood
His comment about African fertility rates is disgusting. I suppose he didn't consider the maternal mortality rates or infant mortality rates. The high fertility rate is a symptom of a failure of health care, safety, and education for young women.
Seriously. To my knowledge, the spread of HIV/AIDS is rampant because of poverty, lack of education, etc. Many young and vulnerable women are forced to prostitute themselves just to survive, leaving them with numerous children and little chance of living to see those children grow up. He needs to pull his head out of his ass and realize that the kind of society he promotes has devastating consequences
Not to mention that a lack of reproductive rights greatly contributes to keeping people in poverty. One of the most efficient ways to get people out of poverty is to offer sex ed and contraception (obviously this is not the only thing needed but it's a big step)
That dude has never heard of demographic transition I guess 😂
@@useroffline9999 I dont think he does that kind of resesrch where the data challenges his beliefs or narratives...
That comment just fucked me up in the head so much. Like I don’t know why he thought that was such a “positive fact” to put towards the end of his post. More babies≠more happiness
My mother got dangerously sick right before she gave birth to me. So sick that if shifted to a different position while laying in bed, she would risk losing me. A “natural” birth would’ve killed us both. Thankfully, people aren’t as stupid as this fellow and there are doctors that can safely perform a C section. I wouldn’t say I’m healthy, I have scoliosis and basically have an IV in my wrist dispensing ice tea into my veins, but my mother and I are living the best we can thanks to hospitals
Polnareff pfp 👀👀
Also, I hope your getting better 🥺🥺💖
That sounds awful. I hope both you and your mother are doing ok. Stay safe!
Also what did you mean by putting ice tea in your veins?
@@grosebud4721 hey, I actually have similar story. My mum wasn't sick but had difficult pregnancy and I also had umbilical cord wrapped around my neck couple of times, which put me at risk of getting chocked. Because of this I was born prematurely. Obviously doctors preformed c section and while I was underweight and pretty sickly as a newborn I wouldn't change a thing, because I'm alive and my mum was able to have another kid. I don't understand why people are gatekeeping this kind of things. hope you and your mum are doing ok and have a nice day❤️
My aunt was UNABLE to give birth to my cousin the 'natural' way. She carried to term, everything seemed fine, all the way to the birth itself. She had to much amniotic fluid (forgot the medical term for it) and was in labor for two while days before they went for C-section.
I have a healthy, amazing cousin who is like a sister to me. Without C-section, she would die in the womb from asfixiation, and we might've lost my aunt too.
C-section saves lives.
Im so glad and your mother are safe,best wishes during these times xxx
Yes, women have been giving birth at home for thousands of years. And they died. Like, alot. The babies too. Plus its not like it ever was common to give birth without professional help present.
There’s a BIG difference between home birth with a trained professional caregiver vs a planned unassisted birth.
Plenty of other industrialized countries have home birth with midwives for low risk parents and have really great stats.
Even back then without modern medicine people were helping women through birth and being by their side. There were midwives back then that helped mothers with the knowledge that they had helping other women give birth. Everything is just way better now. It's natural for humans to want to help each other through that process omg just go to the hospital when you give birth people pls.
Who invented modern medicine so women can have an easier life?
@@manueladasilva6748 What does your question even mean?
This honestly reminds me of boomers being like "back in my day we weren't so scared of everything, we'd climb trees and ride bikes without helmets and ride a car without a seatbelt, and we turned out fine" - yeah, maybe YOU did, but not everyone. Ever looked at the statistics of how drastically traffic deaths decreased since the invention of the modern seatbelt? Similarly, women used to give birth without modern healthcare, and they DIED AT AN ALARMING RATE, and they still do in parts of the world that don't have out modern healthcare!
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"Women need men, blaadiblaa"
I have one word: LESBIANS!
I know, right!? Every time I see these kinds of misogynists that insist that "all women need a man" I just want to scream because it completely denies my very existence as a lesbian. But it also kinda makes me laugh at just,,, the idea that people like that even exist, the sheer ridiculousness of it all somehow makes it extremely funny.
Ain’t nothin a man can do that a butch lesbian can’t
Lannah Zehr well there’s one thing men can do that women can’t.
me: *cackles in bisexual transmasculine*
@@lannahzehr3889 Ehhhh. Produce semen. That's one. The list is much, much longer, but I think I've made my point.
“When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.”
― Franklin Leonard
Equality IS threatening to people like that dude, it would mean he needs to EARN the respect he wants and he has no idea how to do that
Brillant. Exactly that..! xD
There's no such thing as gender equality
@@bkstandard882 😂😂😂 aw.
SAD FUCK
Mad about having to earn respect?
I'm a feminine woman, I even like "home making" but no way am I gonna be possessed by a man lol
As a black american fan of yours, I whole heartedly respect that you arent treating racism/BLM as a trending topic to say your 2 cents on while its current, only to forget about it when we go back to the status quo. Also love that youre using your own time and energy to educate yourself and not expecting black people to explain everything to you. (note: nothing wrong with asking questions and discussing with black folks, i just hate when people say they want to be educated about race but expect everyone else to do the work for them) Moments like that remind me why I love being one of your supporters!
Has Rachel ever spoken about BLM or racism since this video? I haven't seen any videos on any of the things she said she would do. 🤔
@@sammendez925 Actually, yes.
@@EclecticallyEccentric She actually made her only video on it a few days/ a week after I posted this comment. 😁 I actually did wonder if it was due to comments I made on this video about her lack of action.... She did have a good 9 months of no BLM content.
Exactly WHAT is the status quo ? And we can start by pointing out the legal fact the the federal govt gives your race preferential treatment, as they have since 1965.
Stay in the kitchen? No thanks, my firefighter husband is a better cook. I’ll stay in the biochemistry research laboratory.
I know there's a joke to be made about a firefighter cooking but I can't think of any.
Well, he won't burn the house down.
@@Molly-ew7sy even if he does... they can rest assured that he'd know how to handle it!
PERIOD!!!
YESS GO OFF QUEEN!
The “Natural Childbirth” trend is super dangerous. Childbirth used to be one of the first cause of mortality for women and is still in many places. the development of (less sexist) medical treatment and giving access to these treatments is important
This person is gross. "How to behave"? As if we should listen to some random guy on the internet who's telling us to stay in the kitchen.
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Edit: The original comment was edited, so now my reply of a trophy emoji doesn't make any sense lol
His hatred for women is beyond creepy. A deeply disturbed individual.
RIGHT!!!!!! What is I am a terrible cook? What do I do then according to his stupid rules. What if, I know this might be crazy for some people, but what if I would actually truly thrive in places that AREN’T the kitchen
@Hailey Robins
Well in that case, you were obviously neglected by your wicked independent mother that did not instill proper values in you and didn't teach you stuff so you need to repent and find a husband that will abuse you until you learn your place - and then keeps on abusing you to make sure you stay there,
I think
Pumuckl tf wrong with you
Why don't people recognise that it is because of feminism that women like 'the Transformed Wife' can actually have books published and mass distributed and be allowed to speak their opinions, even if they're not well-liked? Without feminism, women wouldn't be able to receive the opportunity to write anything, unless it was endorsed by a man or published under a male pseudonym. The hateful logic confuses me.
@Day Night So do you have an actual response to the OP or are you just really excited to repeat talking points?
Interesting you push a narative. The early feminint movement is often dated to the likes of the declaration of sentiments in 1848 or Wolfstonecraft in 1792. In responce others would point to the likes of Austen or Shelly in the early 1800s but that tended to be just fiction. So try looking back at Heywood from the 1720s Anne Bacon's theological writing in C16 or poets and historians like Elizabeth Cary. If you want earlier Juliana Berners was writing on feild sports, Julian of Norwich on Theology, and we still had plays from the likes of Katherine of Sutton.
If you want to look at a cause you will see for more produced in the middle and far east these were not locations with greater rights but they had more wealth. The reality is that wealth creates the opportunity.
The oppression narative may give you short term satisfaction but don't delude yourself it does any more than that.
@Day Night have you ever actually seen homeless people? there are just as many women as men. Rejection is an avid part of life do you *actually* blieve that someone gets rejected less because of their gender?
@@frozenyogurth "In 2019, there were 3,534 men (83 % of the total) and 614 women (14 %) sleeping rough. Gender was ‘Not known’ for 118 people (3 %)."
www.gov.uk/government/publications/rough-sleeping-snapshot-in-england-autumn-2019/rough-sleeping-snapshot-in-england-autumn-2019#demographics
So if you are looking for what you "see" perhaps you should consider how many men you disregard as you step over them in the street. If you want to make a claim about a smaller gap there is one in those who have no permant home and are housed in forms of temporary accomodation like B&Bs but that is a better than huddling in to shop doorways.
@@therru5943 One does one's best. :)
If being a feminist means I attract "weak" feminine men, I say bring on the soft boiiis!
With some bull on the side.
Lol you'll want that for a week or two than nature would kick in
When I saw that I was like what makes you think I don’t want a “weak feminine man”?? Totally my type, that or just a straight up woman works for me lol
@@manueladasilva6748 wrooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong
@Day Night also wrooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong
i’d define myself as an independent feminine woman
@Day Night Do you use roads?
Day Night I’m not
@Day Night By that logic, anyone who buys food or medication or goes to a doctor isn't independant.
@Day Night if you’re going to be rude and insult people, at least use proper grammar. In that context any way would be two separate words. Also, there are plenty of single men or married men with housewives that use welfare. By that logic, these men aren’t independent.
Mixing fertility rate with home birth it's like mixing concrete with sugar and pretending to bake a cake.
and when you add sugar to concrete you have crumbly concrete, like the high mortality rates
I lol'd with the concrete cake.
Men of Quality do not fear Equality!!
Why I'm egalitarian
@@Jack-cd9pm Are you one of those people who thinks egalitarianism is better than feminism?
@@Aster_Risk If it prevents tribalism then yes, it should.
@@Aster_Risk better is subjective.
Equality of what? Elaborate.
I'm off to live in all natural lifestyle, if you need me I'll be getting mauled by a bear in the woods
🤣👍
Can I join? I can’t fucking stand humanity anymore
I'm in.
I'm a preemie, and i was a kicker in the womb. I used to annoy the hell out of my mom with all the kicking, but guess what? I ended up swimming around so much i got the umbilical cord wrapped around 3 or 4 times around my neck. The doctors told my mom and guess what? I had to be removed from the womb 2 months earlier than the due date. C section. Spent a month and a half away from my parents and relatives in the hospital surrounded ONLY nurses and doctors. They(My parents and brother) could only see me a few times a week. And guess what? Here i am. 16. And yeah i had asthama for a bit but i got medication and now it's permanently less or not noticable at all. Have a vitamin deficiency but YET AGAIN i take medicines for that too, living normally. Had severe allergies but grew resistance to them through medicine courses. Doctors and nurses and all the people in medical sectors deserve so much more than useless statements from idiots like these. What would my mother have done if she would have gone the "natural" route? Would she ever have even REALISED i wouldve choked to death in the womb if it werent for those weekly/monthly checkups?
I hate anyone who believe natural birth is the *only way*. It's so much more than that buddy. Even natural birth needs to be guided. Needs KNOWLEDGE. You dont just sit on a bed and POP the baby comes out. It's extremely painful and this man is never going to know it. And if women can pay doctors to take care of them as they go through the painful experience of labour? Then by all means a man has no right to have any say in it.
"Your value is going down as a life partner."
What a fitting wording, given that he thinks of women as little more than livestock.
@Grand Inquisitor No, because of all the things you mentioned, "tall" is the only one that applies to me and yet, my girlfriend is very happy with me. ;)
Grand Inquisitor maybe if you put some effort in yourself instead of blaming everyone else for your faults and browsing reddit you’d be happier
@Grand Inquisitor What's your point? Women like tall men, so? Men also like short women. There aren't many men out there who are willing to date women taller than them. Besides, just because women prefer tall men doesn't mean they don't date men who aren't tall. All people have certain preferences, but most people end up settling for people who don't meet all their preferences. Go outside and you'll see plenty of men who aren't tall and muscular with partners, and surely not all of them are doctors.
However, it's not even unreasonable for a woman to want a man who is muscular and highly educated. If a woman is fit herself, it's only normal that she would want a fit man. If a woman is highly educated herself, it's only normal she would want an educated man with a good career. Why would she be attracted to an uneducated man she can't discuss anything intellectual with? Why would she be attracted to a poor man who can't keep up with her lifestyle? Why would she want to be someone's sugar mama? And yes, I know men like to say "Men don't give a crap if a woman is educated and has a lucrative career!!! So it's not fair that women require us to be!!!". Well perhaps men should raise their standards then and stop settling for mindless gold diggers and then complaining when they are used for their money and divorce r@ped.
Women can't stop themselves from aging so it's not right to select a partner based only on their youth/fertility. Women are not commodities with expiration dates. We are not objects. We are humans.
Agreed. He should have said baby factories.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer
Just say you hate women and leave
I'd rather be a "lonely" cat women than live with him. Cats don't treat you like their property.
Thumb up ... although many a joke can be made about what cats think about their human servants :)
Yes, I think the second part is debatable though 😂
But cats are much cuter and make servitude appealing.
Yeah you may be right 😅 but at least they are cute
Ohhhh i thought he was talking about catwoman and thinking what the hell he is trying to say😂 (when English is not the first language) but to be fair his intelligence is about this range so he could say even something like this
As a happy mother of 5 cats, I must disagree - cats definitely DO treat you like their property. However, I'd still take being owned by cats over that guy. Hell, I'd rather be eaten alive by my cats than have a 5min interaction with that guy :D
that dude makes me appreciate my lesbianism even more than I thought was possible
Cat Princess 101 oh god I hate those
I’m bisexual but men like these make me reconsider sometimes
Yuo will day alone cat woman 🐱🐈😆
Fox 400 Fox 400 Good thing I like cats lmao. Better to have them around than some crusty fucker who doesn’t respect me
Fox 400 Fox 400 oh, the horror. To die with a companion who will not disappoint me. What a horrible way to live 🙄
As a male presenting person, I think financial independence is a good, and very important quality to have in a partner. I don't want to be with someone because there's dependency, or transactionialism. I want to be with someone because we enjoy being together. Not because we need to be, or it's convenient, but because it's what we want.
The idea that me or my partner could exit our relationship at any time makes me more confident that we're in it for the right reasons.
Wtf is male presenting?..You’re either male or you aren’t. There isn’t a certain look to being male or female besides the obvious secondary sex characteristics.
@@nunya2189 You're not correct. If you actually want to know what this person means, research it yourself. It's not their job to do the emotional work of making you less ignorant.
This. Takes me back to the breaking point with my ex. Once it became something where someone started making increasingly high demands about spending money on them and throwing tantrums when I didn't give in those demands, I was on my way out. It's amazing how she called herself a feminist while thinking men should tie their self-worth with how much money we spend on women. She even asked if I would take care of her if she "became pregnant" when I treat safe sex religiously. Well, the sex was great at least lol
Yes! Totally! I've always been firm in the belief that no one should seek a relationship if you're not happy or stable on your own in anyway- because then it becomes a desperate dependency rather than a loving relationship. I could leave my bf at any time and we'd both survive and be alright. That's a good litmus test for the fact that I want to be here.
Oh, this. I'm not a man, but I've heard these arguments about how men "want to feel needed," in a pragmatic, honey-please-fix-my-car-and-take-out-the-garbage way. And while I think it's good to be appreciated for the things you do for a partner (I certainly like appreciation!), I often thought of how depressing it would feel to have a partner who was with me because they just needed my resources/ skills to get by. Like anyone with those resources could fill the role, making it this sad transaction, where one is appreciated only for what they have and what they can do, and not who they are as a thinking, feeling person.
Does this guy realize that women long ago would....die in childbirth?
I don`t think he knows that, if i am not completely mistaken death in childbirth was the most common death for women up to the 1950s or something at least in the west.
And like??? The babies would too??
@@therainbowwillow4453 Not always.
I don't think he cares about women
I think he hates us so much that he doesn't care tbh
Teaches women how to behave? Wow.
Not one woman in my life would tolerate this for a second. 🤦♂️
That is because you are a soy boy.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer or he's just a good person
Victor The Defiler Oh the humanity!!! How ever will he live his life with women in his life that respect him for not being a piece of shit!!! How ever will he live down you calling him a soy boy?!?!? THE HORROR
@@ms.sherry Since you want to be sent to the kitchen so badly, here it goes:
1. I never said anything logical to being with? Coming from the person who rely her arguments on buzzwords and coined terms with imaginary meanings, that means nothing. The real reason why you didn't debunk anything is because you can't. Hence you decided to ignore it and pretend it never happened. Typical wahmen behavior... deflect, deflect and then deflect some more.
2. No, nobody deserves respect until its earned. Because you cannot lose something you previously didn't have. Respect is part of the ancient code of warrior, where one warrior respected the others because they we alike. Strong and honest men. And hence why it is earned. I know there are no words like dignity, honor and power of display in modern wahmens dictionary, so ofc you think its disgusting when you need to earn something. Furthermore, not only that, but another reason why you think its disgusting is because you are entitled to special treatment, and once you get real equality, you feel oppressed. Being wahmen is everything about being wah wah for the extra free things, free of commitment or participation.
3. "Playing for your exes"; "Manipulated by your lonely a.ss". See wahmen, I already told you that shaming language doesn't work on guys like me. Neither assumption does. Because: you cannot know what kind of relationship I had with my exes, nor am I lonely or not. Assumption is always used when the lack of real arguments are presented. Hence the argument as whole is dismissed.
4. Nobody said that wahmen. Emotions are part of thinking process for both of us. What I said is that men in general control them better and much frequently uses reason and logic compared to wahmen. Yes, you fabricated me hating anybody, because you don't even understand what the word hate means, what the hate is, as primordial emotion and how its invoked. To give the short explanation of it, nobody is capable of hate towards someone who didn't do some great evil to them. The word you are looking for is mistrust, not liking and so on. And you would be correct on that, I don't trust women nor I center my doings around them because I know better. I already said that buzzwords like se.xism has no meaning, so not gonna repeat myself.
5. I don't have to believe wahmen are inferior, since there are tons of historical evidences and scientific data to support that claim.
6. Respect is also not connected to the gender anyhow. Again delusional thinking without real purpose. People respect themselves when they know they are worthy. That's the case with my mom. And yeah, I do respect her because she is calm, logical and emotionally stable women. Unlike many of you, she doesn't get indoctrinated by ideologies and can get her ideas across to others eloquently. Which again most of you modern wahmen cannot. Its se.xis idea to respect individuals of great quality rather then endorsing mediocre masses? Nope. That is just your mediocre personality speaking. I know you got used to special treatment and so on, but that's not what you gonna get from guys like me. You will only be respected if you earn it. I know its hard to muffle your tiny brain around this, but what can I say.... like I said above, when entitled wahmen like you stop receiving special treatment and get an actual equal one, you feel oppressed. And thats what you demonstrated by your comment. I am supposed to respect you just because you are a girl? Hahaha good joke.
7. A man of quality is indeed not threaten by wahmen. Neither are guys like me. I'm simply stating facts of how the world around us work. Now, since you don't benefit for that, your hypergamous nature demands blood. Not gonna happen. But as they say "theres nothing more that intimidate a women like a guy who can't be manipulated by s...e...x.".
8. The notion that I have to respect people just because they are alive is ridiculous. This is how I look like: postimg.cc/VrkJfsyw. Now do you really think a dude like me, which got looks, money and status has to do anything? Nope. Wahem throw themselves at my feet all the time, because thats how you been hardwired by nature. You are biologically programmed to look for security in a men and men that have looks, money and status are perceived by female brain as the perfect genetic material for reproduction. So save your shaming language for betas and soy boys. It won't work on guys like me and thats that.
@@ms.sherry So in conclusion: You don't know what respect is and how it works. You also don't know what hate is and how it works. You also don't know what are privileges you have and how they work. You also don't know how biology works. Now I could go on and on, but the point is, you really don't know anything besides what you heard others say. You don't know how to think and behave as individual, so you need ideologies to shape your life. What to say... be ready for the life with 17 cats, because no sane men in hell would want to be with the likes of you. By saying all this, its also my last reply to you. I have given you 3 chances to come back as normal and intelligent person and you just kept recycling what you originally said and reposing it using different word order in sentence. So instead of deflection, reflect on your mistakes and try to better yourself, because if you doesn't and keep thinking like a naive child (you now are), you really will end up alone in a small apartment, childless, with 17 cats and writing articles like "where have all the good men gone". Now, since I honor my words, you can keep crying in here, but like I said, this is my last reply to you.
This literally sounds like a joke
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"My wallet, my choice" is an inflated way of saying "I choose the prostitutes that sleep with me for money, because no self-respecting woman will ever sleep with me by choice.".
That Yogi guy almost feels like a caricature.
sex workers also can respect themselves. no need to put down sex workers to make your point.
@@cassbee1252 That is true and I think it evident that putting sex workers down wasn't my aim here. I was merely implying that the only women who would sleep with him would do it solely because it is good business and nothing more. But no person with half a brain would seriously start a proper relationship with a guy like this Yogi dude and enjoy being his puppet, no matter what.
I checked out this guy cause I'm a nosey gluten for punishment and apparently his "my wallet my choice" thing is in reference to his belief that men shouldn't pay child support
@@zhoraprice8146 So he says motherhood is the best thing in a woman, lets them pop babies and then refused to pay for them? Logic has committed suicide.
What Not To Do At a Stoplight - I’m confused on your stance; what gender stereotype are they promoting by saying that a hate-filled person is unattractive?
speaking for indians, we don't want him, he's not one of us.
same on behalf of indians we're gonna have to pass him to the whites
@@jahnaviraman5411 nah, the whites don't want this idiot.
As an Indian, we do not claim this man...
Amen.
But the question is... who made you authority to decide/speak up for anybody? Back to your hole, excuse for a life form.
oh my godddddd this is surreal
Hi, queen
Hey girl!
What is? Your low iq?
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer You're one to talk Vickie
@@Leechwife Bot comment*
Just read his hashtags, “#vaccinescauseautism”, actually no, they don’t, that has been disproved for a while, seeing this upsets as me. His whole account saddens me actually. Great video!
another hashtag in that post is #painfreebirth" and I'm rich, neither are true
I just saw a funny picture joke where a man says "many top scientists are on the autism spectrum" and a little girl says "so technically autism causes vaccines?!" Like someone told her Santa didnt exist. Everybody has their niche in society, and more power to us all.
The idea that you're better off with a dead child than you are a child with autism is so genuinely and deeply disgusting that anyone who thinks it should be fed to goats
As a neurodivergent person, I would much rather my child have autism than die at 3 from a preventable disease
@@firetarrasque4667 I dont know if you misunderstood me, but my comment was not saying anything like what you commented, so I'm very confused. You do know all sorts of people are highly skilled, including people with autism?
Dying of tuberculosis is natural and people have been doing it for years 🙄
Oh and btw in most countries in most times women have/had a midwife with them.
Can't we all just get along...
And sacrifice people like this to the Norse Gods...
I don't think Norse Gods would want them tbh
Cool, can we start with Jake Paul?
@@lonelypotato_23 Ty the God of war, honor and law does not approve of their lies
@Grand Inquisitor betray my own?
@Grand Inquisitor The world does not work in black and whites or in the way this guy believes. It is not betraying my own, it's being a decent human being.
What is it with these guys and "feminine men"? One, super insulting and two, feminine guys are hot. There is nothing more attractive than a guy in heels. Deal with it.
Heels were originally made for men! Crazy to think what is "feminine" today was intended for the male sex so long ago.
Blue used to be for girls and pink used to be for boys, too. Dresses were largely worn by men, with France being the centre for fashion in Europe. Fashion itself was male driven and seen as masculine!
It's almost as if personality has nothing to do with one's sex...smh
@Cat Princess 101 They think feminine men are weak because they think women are weak. To them, weakness is an admirable trait in women (because it makes us easier to control), but an undesirable trait in men.
@@raveng8217 this makes me depressed, and ashamed to be a straight male. Guys like this affect me as well, because thanks to people like him I have to prove to women I'm nothing like him just to strike up a friendship, because women are so used to guys coming on to them constantly that any attempt at friendship I ever make is always tainted because of who I am. Also, just everything guys like him say are depressing. Watch Strange Aeons video on MGTOW websites, one guy talks about how giving up their bus seat to pregnant women on the bus makes him want to 'punch them in the stomach', and instead of calling this person out as the evil scumbag they are, his MGTOW friends respond with 'lol'. If it was meant as a joke where is the funny side? There is more to humour than saying horrible things apropos of nothing.
My SO could rock a dress and heels, he has done in the past (before he met me.) I am all for him doing that again!
I just think of Brendon Urie strutting on stage in heels. He's beauty.
If my mother had attempted a natural birth with me, she would've died. They cut me out two weeks early at 10lbs. Thank you, doctors!
My mom also would have died if she'd had to give birth naturally to me and my two sisters.
Same. I was also at risk of death if my mom decided to give birth do me naturally. My mom's water had already broken and I was losing oxygen and she wasn't dilating fast enough.
Right. My twin and I had a disease pre-birth and had my mom vaginally birthed us I would have died. Even with the c section I was in the hospital for the first 2 weeks of my life
Salty Rachel is out in full force today and I am here for it.
Oof, this video gave me some bad flashbacks. I once dated a man who admitted to me that he was anti-abortion, and actually said "My wallet, my choice". I got in a big fight with him in a restaurant about it, and swore I would never have sex with him if he really held that belief.
You should never have sex with someone who doesn't think you should have the right to choose what you do with your own body.
That relationship only lasted six weeks, and it was the easiest breakup I've ever been through.
Dodged and entire missile there. Good for you!
What does “my wallet, my choice” even mean when discussing abortion? Is it saying that women are asking men to pay for abortions? Cause that isn’t always the case at all. It’s bad logic . . .
"Natural" childbirth in history is the reason we had such low average life expectancies in the past - men lived long lives but there was so much maternal mortality and death in childbirth or early childhood due to diseases we've since eradicated (or close to). I agree that lying on your back in a hospital bed isn't always the right position, but that's also why hospital births are rarely "lie on your back in a hospital bed". During my experience (and this was almost 14 years ago), I was encouraged to walk, to use the birthing ball, to hop in the birthing tub, and to give birth on all fours. I actually ended up lying on my back in the hospital bed for the last hour or so, but mostly because that was the position I found most comfortable.
The women need men but men dont need women is something ive heard from church. The greatest "gift" a woman could give her husband was death by child birth. This way he could marry again and father more children. Younger women were more desirable and the death of older expended women were considered the thing.
I plan to get a c-section. Why? Because my hips are messed up and I have fertility issues. Because I know my baby will be very big and that I have a high chance of complications. And because I don't care about how the baby is born, as long as it and I both come out healthy, and a cesarean is the safest way for me.
Rachel: I don’t see myself as a possession so maybe... just MAYBE.. this guy is wrong?¿
Me: you mean to tell me some random incel on the internet is WRONG😳🤯🤯🤔
Yeah, not really. Since you cannot prove that he is wrong and instead you use shaming language like incel. Do you mindless drone even know what incel means? It means involuntarily celibate. No men can be celibate Involuntarily, since that goes directly against their se.xual biology. I suggest reading some science before you try to act smart, because, quite frankly, you are just another adult body that imprisoned childish mind, hurling buzzwords around
@@DarsiliaFausten We can absolutely prove him wrong. Just ask a number of "feminine" women if they'd like to be "possessed" by a man.
@@DarsiliaFausten While I agree that it seems the word incel is thrown around too loosely around this comment section as an insult, you are wrong about men not being able to be involuntary celibate. It just means that they want to get laid, but don't / can't get laid. I don't see what biology has to do with that.
@@Heroltz998 That is because you don't understand biology.
@@joannajett2524 No you can't prove anything. If you could, you would firstly know that personal experience is not an evidence of any sort nor facts. What has number of feminine women has to do with that? Nothing child, you just wrote a nonsense. You don't even know how to use logic and reason, yet you claim you will prove him wrong? Hahaha, good one.
Poor dude is possessed by a ghost from the 1920s ;-; someone help this sad man!
Who you gonna call?
People on these comments keep trying to call him an incel. He's not. He's a Tradcon for exactly the reasons you stated. Frankly, from my point of view, Tradcons are more dangerous then incels are. Incels just want to get laid. Tradcons want EVERYBODY to adhere the gender roles from 60 years ago, with no choice in the matter. No thank you.
"if this is what you want just get a sex doll seriously." rachel 2020
We women are sex dolls!
That’s what they’re aiming for. Since they’re starting to realise women were not made to bow down to them.
What if you're a lesbian?
Learning With The Smiley Yellow Face+
Oh, you get bitched about for that too. Get told how you need a man in the relationship, and making fun of the divorce rates. I said, “Dude, you’re a MGTOW. What the fuck does this have to do with you?” And I got all kinds of insults for it in the comments. No answer though.
Someday, that will become a reality and then you will no longer be needed
I thoroughly enjoy your sarcasm towards this misogynist guy. Great commentary.
The whole “beauty fades” posts made me think of the Roald Dahl quote about beauty. “If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until you can hardly bear to look at it.
A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.”
I love that quote. It’s sort of like when a celebrity I find attractive is revealed to be a massive bigot, suddenly . . . I don’t find them as attractive.
You can tell this dude is American. He thinks Africa is a country.
This person has such disgusting toxic views nobody man or woman is a possession of anyone love you rachel awesome video you are a beautiful person inside and out the world needs more people like you
Holy fugballs. Repeat after me: "Punctuation is my _friend."_
@Sophie Why do you assume that because someone is bad at texting that they _must_ be from some other, non-English speaking country? That's kind of a soft bigotry/subtly racist thing you got going on there. Are you sure that this is the hill you want to die on? I know many, many non-English as a 1st language speakers who write English far better than most native speakers do.
hippyjason+
You missed the point. The point is that they _might_ be. Correcting someone’s grammar is fine, but putting a rude-ass comment up is just... well, rude. It’s rude in any case. Even worse if they _are_ a non-native. How are you trying to help them??
Soy boy detected.
@@DarsiliaFausten fake female account of a looser male detected
I’m 24 and engaged we’re getting married next year. I am not capable of earning a liveable wage due to chronic illness. I will be a stay at home mum/primary house keeper because that’s the roll I’ve chosen to take in life with my partner. Some key words there are CHOSEN and PARTNER.
I do whatever I want within the boundaries of respect and communication that we have built up over 3 years, and he is free to do the same. We each understand the rolls we play and acknowledge the effort it takes on both sides to achieve the future that we want together. It’s called TEAMWORK there is no place for power imbalances or selfishness in that.
In conclusion SCREW THIS F’er.
For a MGTOW, he seems obsessed with women. The ironi of it all 😉
Honestly, MGTOW are obsessed with women. If they really wanted nothing to do with us, the best thing to do would just be to live their lives and ignore us. Boy, do they not do that.
He isn't a MGTOW. He tried to engreciate himself with them but was pulled appart by them. They seem to consider him a traditional conservative.
I'm all for men who don't want anything to do w women and live their own lives apart from them, it's their choice. This guy though? Nah, he just hates women. He's just seething with rage that there are women who're doing leagues better than him in life (by choosing work, education etc etc) lol
Ikr! I respect a man’s choice to go their own way but most of the time “men going their own way” means screaming on the internet about how women won’t sleep with you. How is that going your own way? By the title of the movement it sounds like it’s saying men don’t need a woman, which I think is accurate, women don’t need a man either, but it’s not that all.
He **was**. Now he's married to a beautiful, godly, feminine woman of his dreams. Sorry to disappoint you.
Yeap, "natural childbirth" was a thing for a long while and killed a lot of people. And I mean a LOT lot.
Also.
Dear Deidre!
I don't have a lock in my you-know-where. Am I okay? /sarcasm (just in case)
Also, the profession of "midwife" has been around for thousands of years (from wikipedia, not the best source, but still: "In ancient Egypt, midwifery was a recognized female occupation, as attested by the Ebers Papyrus which dates from 1900 to 1550 BCE."), so women have been assisted in childbirth for thousands of years as well.
All of the medical assistance we have today can basically be viewed as an evolved form of that. But I guess people like him just don't understand what progress is, how it works and why people generally strive for it.
Some serious, "I cannot please women in bed" energy coming from him. Women who are heterosexual, do indeed love genuinely strong men who are empathetic heavy-lifters, have strong ethics and obey the universal rule of treating others as you would like to be treated. Not men with personality disorders, low EQ and premature ejaculation, pretending to be strong by needing to exploit and oppress others. Then when women reject them because of their toxic personalities, they blame everything BUT their vile personalities devoid of compassion and full of low self-esteem.
Blah blah, nothing of substance said, besides dum.b parroting. Try again.
Well said! ~Anastacia in Cleveland
eloquently stated
Please be mindful that premature ejaculation is not a negative trait - being an amazing partner is so much more than how long you last in bed!
Fun fact: When women are in charge of household spending, their kids are better provided for, on average, than when men are.
that’s because your average man is incompetent.
@Mauri Mela That was an awful source from a site that aims to "fix" family courts.
Likely selection bias.
Gee thats interesting.... In most of these fundamentalist relationships the woman isn't allowed to manage the family finances. The man does it all. She may mail the bills but doesn't write the check. Even the grocery shopping list is written by the husband. Its total control. She is only allowed to cook and clean. The kids can only be disciplined as far as the husband allows it. It really is a one way relationship. Ive known women in these relationships that had to sneak away to get out of them. Please note it took a court order to get their kids out. Some of the time they dont get the kids. Someone else does.
By the way, I'm really glad that the newer generation of atheists such as yourself are completely dissociated from the whole anti-sjw / anti-feminist views that the previous generation of atheists from 10 years ago began to derail their content towards.
Yeah they all kind of fled off into white nationalist land
I remember watching someone called Amazing Atheist when I was a teenager. Saw a couple of videos, and then he just went straight into woman-bashing arena so I noped right tf out
@@bellatrixevans He's always been awful and somehow has just gotten worse over time.
Rachel is one of the only channels with atheist content that I've been able to stick with, because she never tried to cash in on that trend.
@@Aster_Risk You seen Jimmy Snow's channel? He is one of the good guys, just a surprise he used to be a strict Mormon.
He created this whole thing after he got rejected by a girl with a butt on Instagram ,I bet my money on that
Your money or your your boss money ahahah?
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer
Was that supposed to be funny
@@mindlight1189 No. Just truthful xD.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer
no just wrong
@@mindlight1189 If you can prove it is, sure. If not... Well its not.
Hi Rachel, just wanted to point out that if you don't own the transformed wife's book already, you can consider getting it from your local library. That way money doesn't go in her pocket. Online libraries are also a great option to have the book sent to you. If that's not an option then you could always buy it used :)
I would be so fucking appalled if my library held that book and wouldn't want to loan it, I'd want to tell them to get rid of it..?? So I understand what you mean, like it takes the profit etc away from her, but no no no.
Also of it promotes corporal punishment I don't know if it would be approved for a local library in the UK...but maybe I have too much faith in my own country 😂
I love how he says that men don't need women, yet preaches about literally locking us up so we can't leave them
"tHe fERtILItY rAte iS sO hIgH iN AfRiCa hurr durr".
Yeah, so is the the infant mortality rate, mate. Women and children die during childbirth all the time because they don't have access to proper healthcare.
Thinks god I'm not women 💩😷
😆😆😎
@@FoxFox-lx3cv yeah, fuck that, man. Thank God I'm in the Childfree movement.
FINALLY SOMEONE IS ADDRESSING THIS DUDE! ITS BEEN SO LONG!
I used to watch his content a while back out of curiosity as to what he believed and why. Turns out, he went with this movement called MGTOW because of his shitty choices in past relationships. He goes on and on about the different flings and women he's had sex with but then judges women for making the same decisions he did, refusing to accept that any fault could've been on him. Went after women who weren't interested in serious relationships, in which he had made it clear that he wasn't either, then put a bunch of blame on them when the relationships didn't go the way he wanted. Hypocrisy at its finest.
Whatever happened to MGTOW's? Did they die off, or morph into Simps or Dicks like this?
@@QJ89 We just avoid both females and beta males and do our own thing. Ain't nobody got time to debate 20 I.Q people on the net.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer It's hard to take you seriously considering how many comment threads I see you on.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer You don't have time to debate people, but you do have time to reply to every comment with some meanless bullshit. Man, take yourself Party City and buy a rainbow wig and some makeup cause you're clearly a clown.
It's not hypocrisy to him, because he thinks women are inferior, therefore should have less/no rights. No matter what you call him, this will be his number one argument.
Every picture of him makes him look like he has been constipated for so long he just started to hate life. Then again with that much rage and bottled emotions (because emotions aren't manly, of course) I wouldn't be surprised if he was backed up in one way or another. I'm not surprised that women run away from him on a regular basis, and I hope that trend keeps up.
Owwwwwww... my ears are bleeding from all that garbage having to go through my ears. Does he write anything that is not garbage?
Unfortunately not😌
Yes. About soy boys like you.
Mr Hoax woooooah you roasted him lol, dropped the FATTEST insult possible “soy boy”
@@DistopijskiRatnik You do know that soy doesn't actually feminize men, right? It's a fucking myth. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20378106/
The women on Tinder are of low quality? Has he seen the men? :')
Ikr! Has he seen the men that dm women on Instagram (many of which aren’t posting “revealing” photos not that it matters) with messages like “sho yur boobs” and “send nudes” barely comprehensible horny messages cause they’re masturbating with one hand, typing with the other, this is shit women deal with every single day! These people believe women must be so incredibly prim and proper while men can get away with everything.
Words cannot describe how tired I am of men trying to tell women how to live their lives. It irritates me how he speaks with such confidence and authority on subject matters pertaining to women. How in the hell could he EVER know or understand?
Well you hear... we have this thing called science and one branch of it is called evolutionary psychology. That branch teaches us everything about humans in general, so we do know what it is to be a wahmen without being one. Amazing, I know hahahah.
Are you also tired of benefiting from the labour of men?
@Talsong Kingslayer Do you really think I'm gonna debate some crazy lefty lunatic coming from gender studies xD. Nah, not really. But, here is an interesting observation... why do you look for MY posts specifically in an attempt to accomplish something? I mean, there is so many other people on here posting you could have replied to. Do I intimidate you so much, so you feel attacked and thus in need of defending? You know, just the thought xD. Like I said soy boy, not in a thousand years will women be equal to men in any prospect imaginable and also not in a thousand years will soy boys like you accomplish anything by attacking other men instead of disciplining modern female failures called women. I mean, natural selection always fix everything, and as such, you will be on the wrong end of it.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyerevolutionary psychology is a bullshit pseudoscience, I've got sources to prove it if you want me to.
@@fbcaware8805did you forget about 50% of the workforce?
Yogi.Oabs is encouraging violence towards women and should be removed from Instagram
“I teach women how to behave” I physically cringed! That’s a whole lotta yikes right there!
"Which is ironic, because on instagram is the only place this guy is every going to see a butt in his life, let's be real" HAHHAHAHA only 1 minute into the video and Rachel is SCORCHING this guy!! instant like
I love how Rachel is able to clown him while still getting her points across and explaining why he is wrong
What kind of woman is 'easier' (going by the logic of sexists)? A woman who had sex outside of marriage but is picky about her partners or a woman who will marry the first man who asks her just so she can finally have sex?
One more thing. He says “behave”. Well, how about... “well-behaved women seldom make history”
i feel like that's his whole point. i bet he doesn't want women to do anything
Jahnavi Raman which is sad. Means he probably didn’t have a good maternal figure in his home.
@@EddieMunsonLover35 maybe. or maybe a girl hurt him in a previous relationship
@@jahnaviraman5411 or maybe because women never did anything important in the history of humanity
Zod General yeah and it’s almost like that’s because men literally didn’t allow them to do anything and literally stole their inventions and contributions
No Rachel.
You're WRONG
You're REALLY UNHAPPY WITHOUT A MAN....
*swings pendulum in front of face*
YOU'RE REALLY REALLY REEAAALLLY UNHAPPY WITHOUT A MAN
“Women need men more than men need women.” Aaaaand that’s why this single man devotes so much time and energy towards grooming women for marriage?! (Hah no pun intended... well, okay, maybe a little)
I can think of no bigger mistake a man can make than to get married in today's gynocentric society.
His confidence is inspiring! :DD Inspiring me to close my eyes and never open them again
Also as far as being “satisfied” with a partner.... There’s a difference between being satisfied and settling (or even being content). Just because a person doesn’t know any better doesn’t mean they’re satisfied, and just because they feel like they have to stay with a person because they married them doesn’t mean they’re satisfied.
This profile is run by a guy from India. Most of my friends found out about this and we've been constantly reporting his account.
So you want to censor someone because they don't agree with you? Very mature, you little mindless drone.
@@DarsiliaFausten best of luck when your men get fed up from feeding you and go for a younger woman
@@DarsiliaFausten differing opinion and encouraging hate is not the same..
@@leilameow9582 Keep your brainwashed lunacy away. Hate doesn't exist in the context you mindless drones uses it and you don't get to police something, just because your little feelings and hurt ego (consequences of being sheltered and never had to face one real hardship in your life) are there. Look, I understand herd mentality and primitives like you. Its trendy nowadays to pose as victim for social points, and sheltered people who didn't face one real hardship in their lives have the need to artificially try to create that hardship, in order to solve it and thus feel what others told you, you should feel when you manage to solve a problem. However, artificial created problems posses no real value and you dont gain anything from "solving" them, besides pathology points. Again, I understand. Its not easy to be a simpleton whose existence is a pure mistake of causality, but that doesn't give you right to police someone deemed bad by your pathology infused mind.
@@Asmiiiii530 Cry.
To address what he mentioned about birth and natural births, there have been more recent critiques of the technological model of birth which is especially prevalent in the US - for example the US has a much higher rate of C sections than other similarly developed countries and the highest maternal mortality rate for black women of any developed country. I found this article that discusses the issue: www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2012/03/the-most-scientific-birth-is-often-the-least-technological-birth/254420/ He was kind of, almost, there but missed the mark.
Also, Phyllis Schlafly was a pretty well-known anti-feminist and she led a movement in the 70s to stop the Equal Rights Amendment in the US, and we still to this day have not gotten ERA passed. Her whole argument was that women hold a "privileged" place in society because their husbands provide for them and feminists need to "Stop Taking Our Privileges". Basically her campaign only applied rich, cis, white women, but unfortunately, it worked.
I was going to write something like this myself glad someone else already thought of it
I work in a place where one of our models in the leaflet we had designed was wearing a t-shirt that said 'Women are more than muses.' We then received a complaint from a guy over the phone who wanted to know when we had started promoting sexism. I was so confused and he had to explain that he felt the T-Shirt was anti-men and sexist towards men. I was like 'It literally doesn't even say anything about men?!' Like these guys say feminists are overly sensitive, but the absolute bollocks of that complaint was astounding. Like how much time do you have on your hands to log a formal complaint about this bullshit?
Yeah I think that's the reason the mgtow guys haven't been able to really get their point across - making sure that radical feminism doesn't make things worse for men , like in family courts . They're too aggressive and lash out - sending the female judge rape threats before a case really isn't going to improve things for you - not to mention their views on things like the above mentioned topic . Some of them get radicalised quickly , start having questionable thoughts on sexism and go around advertising they'd like for women's rights to go back to medieval era level - and due to this their public image is in ruins and the actually good mgtow guys who just want to be left alone are also just as hated as the radicalised ones . It's kind of like how third wave feminism started going wrong and suddenly there was a wave of men hating - like , did they really have to take the worst parts of feminism as inspiration for mgtow ?
I want a shirt that says women are more than muses
I actually paused in the middle of the video to go and report his account xD
Nobody cares what cattle does.
it's so much fun to laugh at people like this but then i remember how dangerous they really are and then i get nervous-
As an Indian woman whose father is very much this kind of man... I'm so sick and tired and hurt by it all. My own father treats me like a possession. He justifies it as protectiveness and love, but it's actually possesiveness and hatred of women. After struggling with my mental health and being depressed from childhood, not having the sense of self to function, socialize, become financially independent... I did the years of therapy, and am just beginning to form a career. My father STILL tries to control me. How I behave, what I wear.. even trying to keep me from forming normal relationships outside the family. Yesterday, he said, knowing my financial dependency bothers me deeply, that "nobody is tying you to this house". Knowing I have no choice. Coercive control. It makes me sick. I'm mourning today, and recovering emotionally and spiritually. This man is not a "yogi". He doesn't consider woman human. BUT PEOPLE LIKE THIS ARE REAL. Channels like yours are so NEEDED. When I am drained and bereft of all hope, videos like this one and women like you give me strength. My family is financially stable and as educated as you please, but it's the culture. THE CULTURE IS POISON. I was raised to see myself as a posession, and a burden at that. This kind of content may seem laughable... and I myself have brushed off so many people like this as extremists! But they're NOT. Not in India. Not anywhere.
Amrita Ramesh your so right and I’m so sorry that you had to go through that
As an artist who has spent good time and money to study design and composition, among other things in the world of visual arts, I'm offended that these bland bits of text are being labeled as "designs" at all.
Sometimes its funny watching the patriarchy gasp for air as they realize all of the people under their thumb have the courage, confidence, and support to tell them to 🖕🏽. These men trying DESPERATELY to hang on to their power crack me up! Its amazing how progress works, and I guess, doesn't work, for some.😂😂😂
@Mauri Mela Dammit Mauri, don't you be throwing your facts and citations around here, this is a FEMINIST channel, now.
@Mauri Mela Heyyyy, we got another one! 🤣🤣🤣
what 'lynching'?! You are allowed to think and feel however you want. You are allowed to rely on logical fallacies written by random unqualified people manipulating 20-40 yr old data to suit their own needs, all you want. You are allowed to project your insecurities all you want. Nobody should 'lynch' you for that.
In fact, I urge you to share this info as much as possible, since it provides some of THE best historical evidence that Women's Reproductive rights benefit all of society, for generations to come. Thank you for proving my point!🙏🏼🙏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Also, I believe the Senate is working on a definition of 'lynching' this week, so you should be able to use it properly in a sentence soon. Keep you posted!💋
Indeed. Believing that patriarchy is bad are the results of very low key and education and fairly low I.Q.
As a male person who woks out on a semi daily basis i want to try posessing a woman. I've got the candles and wine and I'm working hard on my latin chanting.
Paulie Doodle Don’t forget the virgin blood! That’s also a pretty important part!
“It’s not women’s nature to be alone” meanwhile single, childfree women are the happiest demographic. Just a coincidence, nothing to see here.
I love this lmfaoo
OK cat woman🐈🐈🐈🐱🐱😆
@@FoxFox-lx3cv When you don't have an actual argument so you resort to calling them a cat woman, as if thats an insult anyway.
So if single child free women are the happiest.. then why are single child free women making countless articles since the early 90’s talking about, “where have all the good man gone?” Or “I’ve ran out of tinder matches!” Women are social creatures that cannot be alone. That’s why the person down below said, “ok cat lady.” Find any single women past the age of 28 and you’ll find if she didn’t have a man, she has a dog, a cat, a fish, or is involved with some sort of group activity to keep her from being isolated and occupied. If women can be alone, (which is a side argument) name 3 female philosophers or existentialists that practice isolation or discipline such as nuns or monks do...
Delusions are strong with this one.
birth control (combined, not estrogen only) actually arent bad for you. since we live longer today and experience more periods in our lifetime than we used to the pill is really good protection against some forms of cancer, protecting against bone mass loss and a bunch of other stuff. its really interesting to read more about and im tired of people shaming women for being on the pill.
Me and my husband are two men who support each other, it's great! And we have TWO wallets :) :) :) :)
Also if I may add woman in the "old times" didn't give birth alone ,they had nurses present ! Even in biblical times they had people helping them lmao
“No, you’re clearly unhappy even though you say you aren’t. I’m a man who you’ve never met, why won’t you listen to me?”
I’m 14 years old. I’m pro choice. I am a mixed person of color (Black Mexican and White) I believe in black lives matter. I believe in acab. I believe woman should be treated equally to men, not less. I’m am a member of the lgbtq+ community. (Bisexual to be specific) I look up to you as a person, your opinions and morals all have strong reasonings and I completely agree with you. You are a role model of mine and I hope you continue to stand up for what you believe in and make great content. Have an amazing day🤍
Has Rachel said anything about BLM since this video? I don't think I've seen her do any of the work she mentions here. Perhaps she just jumped on a trend and then forgot about racism. 🙄
Oh how I love fragile masculinity.
It's really entertaining lmao. Watching their egos crumble is so fun
He is so distraught rn😂😂.. apparently many Indian feminists reported his account so much that he can't do a live anymore..😂
And we can see from your statement you think its okay to ruin someones life because they don't agree with you. But what they say.... the difference from women to children is in just having bo.obs. Zero capacity for logic and reason.
Victor The Defiler 😂😂😂😂 REMEMBER! STOPPING SOMEONE FROM DOING A LIVESTREAM ON INSTAGRAM IS RUINING SOMEONE’S LIFE! Dumbass.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer keep trying to justify your hate for women. One to talk about 0 logic. Laughable.
@@user-sp5ck4fs1n Yes, I will definitely allow peasantry that try their best to misrepresent my words to fit their childish believes to educate me on logic. No tnx, hard pass.
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer “peasantry”. Oh your that guy. How sad. Ignorance is bliss I suppose. Thanks for proving my point tho 😂
I feel EMPOWERED giving my hospital birth. I feel EMPOWERED being my own person. My wife loves me, my 5 month old loves me, and I’m constantly working on loving myself. I don’t believe anybody NEEDS to have babies, i was ready for her. This guy suckssss
Good arguments. If you are 12y old that is. They should also take that children away from you, since you are obviously emotionally unstable person.
@@DarsiliaFausten get ready to kicked out off from the crappy man you are with
@@Asmiiiii530 You should never project your insecurities onto others. Its not healthy and doesn't get you anywhere really, beside showing your weakness.
Ew this is Mrs Midwest 's friend
I forgot about that. She did a whole interview with this doofus.
Random person On TH-cam Really?? I love Mrs. Midwest because I didn’t think she believed in this crap.
She does th-cam.com/video/pQRicwhOrr0/w-d-xo.html
@@mindflayer0319 Yep she did a full interview with him. She's also liked a few of his tweets. I like Caitlin as well, but I don't follow her for ideological content, but more for the homemaking and femininity content.
As a man that used to let his anger take control, not only do I dislike male anger, I loathe it. I hate being angry as I feel that throughout my life my anger has ruined many potential friendships, romantic relationships, as well as familial relationships. I'd happily burn in Hell rather than be happy about male anger. If only this man was self aware enough to put aside his ego and stop pretending he is better than anyone else, let alone an entire gender.
I don’t want to have sex before marriage, that’s a personal choice, but I don’t push that on other people! It’s their life, not mine
Dont push him and question if he is a misogynist.Do you see, if he loved women he would have not those views.He hates women.That is a fallacy.
Yogi.Oabs, The year 1850 just called. It wants you back.
1850? what about just 150?
@Scarlett Roses Ancient Rome? you mean Mesopotamia he's literally a caveman
I and my daughter would be dead had I had “natural” child birth as the only option.
I'm imagining my wife's reaction if sat her down and told her I had some new rules that she needed to abide by - it would not end well!!!!
Thank you so much for not trying to use your platform to amplify your own opinions on this whole thing. It’s so so important that we as white people promote the voices of black people instead of our own.
mansplaining at its worst w/ matching apparel.
We have a name for the likes of you: SOY BOIIIIIIIIIII.
Victor The Defiler better that then whatever the guy in this video is, girls don't like that shit
@@hix3998 Girls only care about looks, money and status. But the very fact that you think about what they care about also proves, you are a beta soy yourself.
Hey! Just jumping here to say that you are a great creator and my very favourite youtuber 😊 im 14 and could not ask for a better role model 😘🥰
Let the indoctrination begin.
@@hellogoodbye4061 im soo ready 👍😉
@@antoninastepak1244 Yes, but when you grow up and realize what has been done to you, whoa, are you going to be pissed, but enjoy your brainwashing...so stunning and brave, you go grrrlll!
@@hellogoodbye4061 U know, im accually going to suprise you: i do my independent reaserch. My views are backed up. I know you dont belive that, but if you wanna try to convince me that im wrong, go ahead! Im really open to people challenging what i belive in! Also, what do you think "has been done to me" and by whom? Real interested. 👍😉
Awwww bless you! I’m so glad you’re finding better rolemodels than I had when I was 14. You’re awesome, stay in school.
the part about the pill messing with your hormonal chemistry... YEAH it does that’s why it’s great (for some, i know it can have negative side effects for others). i take the pill for PMDD and now i don’t have extreme mental health issues one week a month!!! and i have an IUD as well which doesn’t mess with my brain & i’ve gotten pregnant 0 times!
I studied a course in affective neuroscience in undergrad and did a module on pair bonding (absolutely did NOT expect it to ever come up and had no idea antifeminist evangelicals were employing it ?? lmao) and there is a huge misunderstanding generally with how these hormones (oxytocin and dopamine) work in the brain. There has been some speculation after studies done on prairie voles that initial sexual/romantic encounters can release DA from specific DA receptors that subsequently do not open again in other bonding experiences. The evolutionary strategy being monogamous or one in which the animals rely on one mate's resources at a given time. However, there is very little evidence that this occurs exactly in humans and that humans are monogamous, to begin with. Surely many societies have deemed it to be a norm but biologically speaking I have yet to see a human study that indicates we operate strictly in this manner. It is an interesting idea that something like pair-bonding could explain phenomena such as first love/first heartbreak but we would have to consider the role of the prefrontal cortex's development intersecting with experiences/memories in the limbic system to understand experience-dependent plasticity more fully. Bottom line: we are not prairie voles and we can do what we like.
To quote my professor: "folks these are evolutionary strategies. I will not tolerate any slut-shaming of the voles"
phew anyway, don't know where that came from great video x
Any dude who tries to excuse sleeping around using biology shouldn't be allowed to be a professor to begin with. Also, there are countless of studies on the topic of us compared to other animals. The better one are Jordan Petersons about lobsters and hamsters.