You have explained the problem faced by the many teens like me who comes from a conservative family very diligently. While talking to parents, even if we put our ego aside still they are not ready to let you do what you actually want to do, turning yourself into a rebel kid. It becomes suffocating and all you are left with is just act happy of what your parents want you to do and adjust.
I have always seen my parents working so hard for me especially my father .he is continuously trying to put me in a good college . We live in a village and I just want to make him happy because they are the only one who love me unconditionally.and my goal is to give them a beautiful life that they have always desired.
Do agree with you but not all parents are same. Being loyal and listening to them has been done but with nothing to get except for underestimated criticism and comparisons with siblings, friends and others . In this case one remains confused as to how to take the next leap even after doing lot of homework. It's not that I have done mistakes but when try to talk out i am the one to b blamed always for not having done anything properly. Everyone does mistakes,right. Yet who is weak and vulnerable or can be easily stressed, is always pointed at. I am pulled down often with no one to listen to. So i rebel and then i am tagged as a nasty person. My confidence vanishes and feel so low that I don't have the courage to pull myself up. Still I am working on my dream and want to follow my heart after lot of stressful experience. My eyes have been wet while watching ur video. It's not that I don't care about my parents or their words but I cannot be always wrong. Yet they don't pay a damn heed to. So i need to walk my own path, it would b great if u share some of ur views as well. Thank you for your wonderful video
I was going through the same issue and out of nowhere you created a content on it, I still can't believe that it's a co incident 🥺❤ . I always tell Myself “This life is just one time offer”.Chasing our own DREAMS is what makes our LIFE count❤
I have no words what I say, my parents didn't understand me 😭 I couldn't convince them iam too much worried 😫my parents didn't agree to fulfill my wish he wants to impose someone on me I don't know which way I should follow how I convince them it's really hectic and critical situation for me 😭
This was so emotional I cant tell u man, ughh my tears were on the way but I stopped. I'm so sensitive these days n thanks for this video. It was positive as well as a bit emotional. Keep making such inspiring videos. :)
Literally your this line hit the heart you are fighter and that's why you are watching this video and have wet your eyes it hits the most . It give us some hope ❤️
The way you teach and shows us learning step is so nice , ur English is so simple and I can easily understand. I have started watching your channel for the last 3 days it really improved me with my vocabulary I actually grasp the way you make sentence construction.. you Rock..!keep this Good work ..
Yeah it definitely I was planning to end my life badly but you made me understand that this is just one struggle which is a part of my journey I will continue my journey
Ma'am i wanna say thank you because i just started to speak english through your one of public telegram group and i am getting selfconfidence , i am sharing my experience of interview that when i gave interview in English the recruiter ask me " Have you done any english speaking course?" it was my best compliment ever for first time. just started to speak around 30 or 40 days (whenever i free i speak english) and this is great outcome for me . Thank you ma'am
You are wonderful Maam, I always follow and respect you Maam, whenever I listen to your videos I feel very proud and confident and it pushes me forward to do my work for achieving my goals .
I was facing the same issue right now. My eyes were really wet right after the end of the video. I can relate with every single thing which you mentioned. Thank you so much for your kind words
When u said that you've wetty eyes...that moment my eyes were really wetty.... everything that u told in the video u talked by your heart and it definitely reaches to the heart of your listeners...thanku so much didi...u don't know me but you've done so much for me 🙏
Rightly said and with full heart and conviction. Yeah to make the parents understand this is bit difficult . But if your dreams matter to you, you always fight for it. Let's make this life count ..well said di. ❤️ Lots of love ❤️❤️👏
I am glad for You, that you managed it. And the idea first make a little money and then buying expensive equipment, is a good advice. But it work not very often. The boyfriend of my daughter is perhaps 40 years. I think he is too lazy to work. He tries for 2 years to make money with a channel for explaining games. Maximal 100 follower is his result. I never believe in him. OK it is their life and my daughter asks seldom for money.
It’s still hard to deal with parents not understanding my views of live, my relations on things.. but I’m trying 😢 and I feel wise in it that opens for me slowly. Because nevertheless they love me, without fully understanding of me, and the most painful thing is that they don’t need to understand all of it. Just don’t. It’s the hardest thing to admit. Like they don’t care about me, but at the same time they worry about my teeth health, my sleeping schedule, do I have enough money… just damn 😢
Surely mam your videos are of great guidance for us , specially in this phase where everything thing seems very tough ... Hope things would change for better but thank you for coming up with such content and being a nice guide .
Thankyou soo much dii i was literally crying before this 😭 you gave me a different perception to think about life and I'm not angry now let's live our lives to max❤️🙋🏻♀️✨
I took a master degree frm English Literature but i m still hegitate while talk in English but Afer qhatching yr vdo my confidence became grow m not so much but now ii m continue sly think a talk in english that heling m a lot for that i m very grateful for u Tq Ma'am 🙏😊😊
Aleena Mam, Its Really Hard To Make Parents understand and To Fight With Someone Who Am Depending to. I have lots of experience. I hardly fought with My parents to avoid my marriage at 19.. And Now am 21.. I fought for 2 years and it was really hard for me. It was full of sorrows. But i really wanted to be educated. Am English major student(2nd yo)
I accepted motivational speech...it's so right for me .I have seen your videos from२years till today too.I have learnt lots of things from you thanks mam
Soon after i completed high school. Even though my ideas were half baked, My parents were in a hurry to find universities for me. We would visit various educational fairs and talk to university agents. Basically just do everything to look up Universities.I was really confused, leading me to agree to everything they said. I was still not confident about my career prospects and requested extra time to decide. But that too wasnt permitted as they already invested money and I had the fear of letting it down the drain. The process continued for 2 whole years until I was able to decide my dreams, but still my parents prefer I study in the same location they invested in. Therfore, I would conclude by saying that it is equally my fault and my parents fault. I was not being able to decide my career and my parents would be confused by me and do things in a buzz
That's really different & amazing work u doing in this age mam.. Yes I m also watching ur video at 12:40 am clock.. And it's gives me a lot's of Positivity 😘😘
❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️This is my situation.... Now I am going On...to my dreams ....💕💕💕💕💕Ur perspective is Absolute !this heppens with most of the Children and ur technique will help us. 1st se have to listen Them.but I feel When parents are not understanding u what u want to be and what u can be ........Let Them show it by achieve ur position .....But u have to work hard and hard untill.... U r not Reach that point ..... And
TQ so much ma'am for making this osm video sometime. I feel u are making exactly the videos that is going on my life i feel so courage after watching your videos i get up nd just move on n say myself let it go everything is gonna work soon give it time ..
Hey it's just so refreshing in this beautiful evening 🤩.... I will try these tips to move a conversation with my parents 💜bcoz list of things are There to convince them 😄...keep inspiring 😍
I generally not write any comments on any utuber but today your contains force me to write it's wonderful explanation, if anybody follow and try to imbibe in there life definitely will help them to be enjoyed happy life
I have never dared to talk loudly in front of my parents. As a second child of my parents I always believe that I have a lot of responsibility for them. I saw they've been working hard for us since I've started to learn things and how I rely on them . So it is my duty to do something for them, And of course Ma'am I appreciate your way of discussion . Now I have a basic idea how to deal with everything when we'll in trouble or unable to express our thoughts. Thank you Love from Bangladesh (And sorry for my poor English. And Let me know If I made any mistakes)
First of all I want to tell u thank u Ma'am u always motivate to all people and each and every videos I tried to learn something new I 'll be empliment my own self
Well done. Aleena, i subscribed your channel last year in ramdan when you had 32k subscribers. Mashallah you have grown a lot in a year. Even you were not married at that time 😸😸
Thank you for this video! It made me feel more easy about the difficulties I have been facing with convincing my parents of my dreams. I will work on my dreams no matter what my parents say, but it is so much nicer to have your parents let go a bit and trust you with your decisions. It was a reassuring video! Thank you again! It felt a bit like a warm hug haha
Mam. Few seconds in the end I was shocked I thought u are watching me from somewhere 🤭because u said exactly what was happening to me. But genuinely mam your videos are really working for all of us out there. Thank you ❤lots of love and support from MP😊
After listening you ...I feel that I am on wrong direction ... because mostly I do not communicate with my parents about my dreams ... I just go infront of them ..and tell about my decision... after that most of the time they say no to me.. and then i start feeling depressed..may be your this video helpful for me... thank you ma'am❤️❤️
Always love your parents and other family member they always love you unconditionally whatever the situation is ,no one can stop u to reached your destination if you r hard-working ,in any field you ll be definitely reach your destination so love and take care your parents and family members .
Convincing your parents is not extremely hard when you have results to show. If you want to pursue a certain career path and then you can give proof of how this is working for you, you can do a better job of convincing your parents. Lastly, you should not complain and live under their roof at the same time.
You have explained the problem faced by the many teens like me who comes from a conservative family very diligently. While talking to parents, even if we put our ego aside still they are not ready to let you do what you actually want to do, turning yourself into a rebel kid. It becomes suffocating and all you are left with is just act happy of what your parents want you to do and adjust.
Doing fighting with parents & working on dreams.......is not possible at the same time👍
They are not even trying to listen.
@@vidushinyati7050I feel you 😢 I m afraid that I might end up being poor
I have always seen my parents working so hard for me especially my father .he is continuously trying to put me in a good college . We live in a village and I just want to make him happy because they are the only one who love me unconditionally.and my goal is to give them a beautiful life that they have always desired.
Same thing which you said I want to say because I also want to something for my parents
So beautifully written❤
Got very emotional reading your comment .
Wish every children love & respect their parents like you have in your heart ❤️🙏
Okay! So "Influencer" word is rightly justified. Thanks for sending courage and confidence to an almost broken warrior! Love from Kolkata
Nice to hear that you are from Kolkata I am also from West Bengal
This is one of the best explanation about every other children out there and there relationship with their parents.
Do agree with you but not all parents are same.
Being loyal and listening to them has been done but with nothing to get except for underestimated criticism and comparisons with siblings, friends and others . In this case one remains confused as to how to take the next leap even after doing lot of homework. It's not that I have done mistakes but when try to talk out i am the one to b blamed always for not having done anything properly. Everyone does mistakes,right. Yet who is weak and vulnerable or can be easily stressed, is always pointed at. I am pulled down often with no one to listen to. So i rebel and then i am tagged as a nasty person. My confidence vanishes and feel so low that I don't have the courage to pull myself up. Still I am working on my dream and want to follow my heart after lot of stressful experience.
My eyes have been wet while watching ur video. It's not that I don't care about my parents or their words but I cannot be always wrong. Yet they don't pay a damn heed to. So i need to walk my own path, it would b great if u share some of ur views as well. Thank you for your wonderful video
Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.” -
I was going through the same issue and out of nowhere you created a content on it, I still can't believe that it's a co incident 🥺❤ . I always tell Myself “This life is just one time offer”.Chasing our own DREAMS is what makes our LIFE count❤
This vlog emphasises greater clarity on parents-children relationships and the concern for their kids.
I have no words what I say, my parents didn't understand me 😭 I couldn't convince them iam too much worried 😫my parents didn't agree to fulfill my wish he wants to impose someone on me I don't know which way I should follow how I convince them it's really hectic and critical situation for me 😭
Thank you for such an amazing, balancing and helpful video to understand our parents and our dreams... 🙏
This was so emotional I cant tell u man, ughh my tears were on the way but I stopped. I'm so sensitive these days n thanks for this video. It was positive as well as a bit emotional. Keep making such inspiring videos. :)
Literally your this line hit the heart you are fighter and that's why you are watching this video and have wet your eyes it hits the most . It give us some hope ❤️
The way you teach and shows us learning step is so nice , ur English is so simple and I can easily understand. I have started watching your channel for the last 3 days it really improved me with my vocabulary I actually grasp the way you make sentence construction.. you Rock..!keep this Good work ..
Yeah it definitely I was planning to end my life badly but you made me understand that this is just one struggle which is a part of my journey I will continue my journey
Ma'am i wanna say thank you because i just started to speak english through your one of public telegram group and i am getting selfconfidence , i am sharing my experience of interview that when i gave interview in English the recruiter ask me " Have you done any english speaking course?" it was my best compliment ever for first time.
just started to speak around 30 or 40 days (whenever i free i speak english) and this is great outcome for me .
Thank you ma'am
Your ideas are outstanding, I can't believe on them they are completely new.
Thanks... I was in need of those motivational things that you've shared in this video🥰
You are wonderful Maam, I always follow and respect you Maam, whenever I listen to your videos I feel very proud and confident and it pushes me forward to do my work for achieving my goals .
It's wonderful to start the day after listening to your beautiful voice 🐪
I was facing the same issue right now. My eyes were really wet right after the end of the video. I can relate with every single thing which you mentioned. Thank you so much for your kind words
True
Same dear I also face same problem every single day 🥺🥺🥺😭
Such an amazing video.... The motivation & solution that I really need these days!
You are the only one in my subscription list whose videos I watch without skipping even a word..
Convincing your parents is not very hard but you serious take about your vision than your parents will definitely understanding...
Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤
Thank you for sharing such wonderful video
When u said that you've wetty eyes...that moment my eyes were really wetty.... everything that u told in the video u talked by your heart and it definitely reaches to the heart of your listeners...thanku so much didi...u don't know me but you've done so much for me 🙏
I’m a greater believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it.”
Yes! Same here
Rightly said and with full heart and conviction.
Yeah to make the parents understand this is bit difficult .
But if your dreams matter to you, you always fight for it.
Let's make this life count ..well said di. ❤️
Lots of love ❤️❤️👏
Absolutely mesmerizing preacher really good
I am glad for You, that you managed it. And the idea first make a little money and then buying expensive equipment, is a good advice. But it work not very often.
The boyfriend of my daughter is perhaps 40 years. I think he is too lazy to work. He tries for 2 years to make money with a channel for explaining games. Maximal 100 follower is his result. I never believe in him. OK it is their life and my daughter asks seldom for money.
Really inspiring. You are an amazing influencer.
Correct! And the way you explained it was great, keep it up 😊👍
It’s still hard to deal with parents not understanding my views of live, my relations on things.. but I’m trying 😢 and I feel wise in it that opens for me slowly. Because nevertheless they love me, without fully understanding of me, and the most painful thing is that they don’t need to understand all of it. Just don’t. It’s the hardest thing to admit. Like they don’t care about me, but at the same time they worry about my teeth health, my sleeping schedule, do I have enough money… just damn 😢
Surely mam your videos are of great guidance for us , specially in this phase where everything thing seems very tough ... Hope things would change for better but thank you for coming up with such content and being a nice guide .
Amazing....words from heart
Mam you are inspiration for all of us.The way speak i totally loved it.
I feel that just like you made this video for me.Thanks a billion.
Thankyou soo much dii i was literally crying before this 😭 you gave me a different perception to think about life and I'm not angry now let's live our lives to max❤️🙋🏻♀️✨
I took a master degree frm English Literature but i m still hegitate while talk in English but Afer qhatching yr vdo my confidence became grow m not so much but now ii m continue sly think a talk in english that heling m a lot for that i m very grateful for u Tq Ma'am 🙏😊😊
Sorry if it hurts you, improve your English sister
Aleena Mam,
Its Really Hard To Make Parents understand and To Fight With Someone Who Am Depending to.
I have lots of experience. I hardly fought with My parents to avoid my marriage at 19.. And Now am 21.. I fought for 2 years and it was really hard for me. It was full of sorrows. But i really wanted to be educated. Am English major student(2nd yo)
Yeah right this situation is going on with me currently, 6 month ego I convinced to my parents to persue my goal , thanks mam
Thank you for inspiring lessons.
No words for u mam...ur just ❤️ only gratitude 🥺❤️
To know how much there is to know is the beginning of learning to live.” -
But the sad truth is they are not even ready to hear not ready to understand how I feel what mental trauma I am going through
I accepted motivational speech...it's so right for me .I have seen your videos from२years till today too.I have learnt lots of things from you thanks mam
Thanks for this video , it's really helpful
mam your words directly went to my heart i had to wrote down in a copy.that is my beggest update
Thank you ma'am.... I got the few solution out of this video.and i was so much needed that.❤️❤️
I always prefer to watch your viedos for calm down and gain some knowledge . We all are same . I like it much 😍
Start miser don't start lavish ❤️
Thank you so much Aleena ...u make my life so easy.....😘😘
Thank you aleena mam for such a useful advice.
Hi Alina, how are you? Your content always has helped me. Thanks for your inspirational videos.
Soon after i completed high school. Even though my ideas were half baked, My parents were in a hurry to find universities for me. We would visit various educational fairs and talk to university agents. Basically just do everything to look up Universities.I was really confused, leading me to agree to everything they said. I was still not confident about my career prospects and requested extra time to decide. But that too wasnt permitted as they already invested money and I had the fear of letting it down the drain.
The process continued for 2 whole years until I was able to decide my dreams, but still my parents prefer I study in the same location they invested in.
Therfore, I would conclude by saying that it is equally my fault and my parents fault. I was not being able to decide my career and my parents would be confused by me and do things in a buzz
Wonderful very effectively explained everything Alleena. Lots off praying from Assam.
Thank you ma'am for your help 🙏 🙂🙂🙂
That's really different & amazing work u doing in this age mam.. Yes I m also watching ur video at 12:40 am clock.. And it's gives me a lot's of Positivity 😘😘
❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️This is my situation.... Now I am going On...to my dreams ....💕💕💕💕💕Ur perspective is Absolute !this heppens with most of the Children and ur technique will help us. 1st se have to listen Them.but I feel When parents are not understanding u what u want to be and what u can be ........Let Them show it by achieve ur position .....But u have to work hard and hard untill.... U r not Reach that point .....
And
Thank you di for all the efforts u made for us 🙏
TQ so much ma'am for making this osm video sometime. I feel u are making exactly the videos that is going on my life i feel so courage after watching your videos i get up nd just move on n say myself let it go everything is gonna work soon give it time ..
Lots of love. ❤❤❤
LOTS OF LOVE FROM GUJARAT, INDIA 🎉🎉
Thanks for sharing such video
Great job 👏
Thank you so much ❤️
thank you soo much mam ..real motivation
Thank you such a very good taught ma'am 😊.
Hey it's just so refreshing in this beautiful evening 🤩.... I will try these tips to move a conversation with my parents 💜bcoz list of things are There to convince them 😄...keep inspiring 😍
I generally not write any comments on any utuber but today your contains force me to write it's wonderful explanation, if anybody follow and try to imbibe in there life definitely will help them to be enjoyed happy life
I have never dared to talk loudly in front of my parents.
As a second child of my parents I always believe that I have a lot of responsibility for them.
I saw they've been working hard for us since I've started to learn things and how I rely on them .
So it is my duty to do something for them,
And of course Ma'am I appreciate your way of discussion . Now I have a basic idea how to deal with everything when we'll in trouble or unable to express our thoughts.
Thank you
Love from Bangladesh
(And sorry for my poor English. And
Let me know If I made any mistakes)
You don't have to be sorry for your English . remember that this is just a language btw I think your English is preety good 👍
@@Purbabasu Thank you so much 😊😊😊
Even though you're talking to us on screen, but it feels like we are talking in person. You engage your audience quite nicely.
First of all I want to tell u thank u Ma'am u always motivate to all people and each and every videos I tried to learn something new I 'll be empliment my own self
Well done. Aleena, i subscribed your channel last year in ramdan when you had 32k subscribers. Mashallah you have grown a lot in a year. Even you were not married at that time 😸😸
Thank you for this video! It made me feel more easy about the difficulties I have been facing with convincing my parents of my dreams. I will work on my dreams no matter what my parents say, but it is so much nicer to have your parents let go a bit and trust you with your decisions. It was a reassuring video! Thank you again! It felt a bit like a warm hug haha
I always agreed what my parents are telling to me.The always give good Suggestion to us Also they do anything for us that have happened good for me.
energetic speech u are giving every time i am motivated aleena mam
Mam. Few seconds in the end I was shocked I thought u are watching me from somewhere 🤭because u said exactly what was happening to me. But genuinely mam your videos are really working for all of us out there. Thank you ❤lots of love and support from MP😊
Love you so much ma'am ❤️ I really appreciate you 😚
You are amazing🤗
After listening you ...I feel that I am on wrong direction ... because mostly I do not communicate with my parents about my dreams ... I just go infront of them ..and tell about my decision... after that most of the time they say no to me.. and then i start feeling depressed..may be your this video helpful for me... thank you ma'am❤️❤️
For a second I thought u are my ex..her name was also shivani Mishra 😂😂
@@yash3259 😁😂
@@yash3259 😆😆😆
@@yash3259 😃
"If you want to run on streets then you are good enough the way you are.But if you want to run in Olympics you have to hire a world class coach"
Thank you Aleena di for this❤
I'm your new subscribers.. Lots of love from nagaland💕❤
Yr im in love with your expression ❤
Always love your parents and other family member they always love you unconditionally whatever the situation is ,no one can stop u to reached your destination if you r hard-working ,in any field you ll be definitely reach your destination so love and take care your parents and family members .
Mam you are the greatest teacher in my life ♥️ I really want to be like you are....♥️
Convincing your parents is not extremely hard when you have results to show. If you want to pursue a certain career path and then you can give proof of how this is working for you, you can do a better job of convincing your parents. Lastly, you should not complain and live under their roof at the same time.
*Happy women's day*
Ma'am
I am watching your video since Last month and I feel like I am improving.
Thank you ma'am
Thank ma'am 🥰
Mam you very very nice English speaking ❤️
Thanks!
Superb
Thnku so much mam for help.. Mam it's my one request to u.. Please make the specific topic videos in English. So we can learn more Easley..
Happy Women's day Mam😊😊the person who always from their videos try to motivate us and try to give us strength
Love from Kashmir ❤️
Great job mam's
Thank you ma'am for help speak English.
You are my role model mam🤘
Great 👍😍 🥰❤️