‘I Have Devoted, Literally, 14 Years Of Everything That I’ve Had To Those Kids,’ Says Mom Whose D…

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  • @thatsickmao
    @thatsickmao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    She really said "I devoted 14 years to those kids"... Honey they're your children. You devote your whole life to them. Youre suppost to love and support them.

    • @GhostTweeHubBub
      @GhostTweeHubBub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💯.
      As a mom myself, I devote my whole entire life every day to my son & unborn baby. It’s permanent & unconditional. It’s until the day I die. No questions asked.

    • @thatsickmao
      @thatsickmao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@GhostTweeHubBub I stand by your statement. I'm glad you love your children ✨💕 I hope they have a wonderful life ahead of them ☺️

    • @tishwitch
      @tishwitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen!!

    • @Backroomsbimbo
      @Backroomsbimbo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She meant she probably doesn’t want to live for herself in any way, she is simply alive for the kids. The 14 years after having no partner is astronomically harder

    • @thatsickmao
      @thatsickmao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Backroomsbimbo understandable, but not an excuse

  • @matthewmckeever9303
    @matthewmckeever9303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    You don’t get a pat on the back for doing what you’re supposed to do.

    • @angelinaharshbarger9619
      @angelinaharshbarger9619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr u don't get a round of applause for doing the bare minimum of barely parenting

  • @jennifert2953
    @jennifert2953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Single mom here. Clean house. Kids are fed and getting good grades. Life is hard people. You gotta get up and take care of your kids.

    • @gigantopithecushominoidea8779
      @gigantopithecushominoidea8779 ปีที่แล้ว

      psychopathic mothers don't think they are subject to criticism, if you even think about saying they are doing something wrong please reframe your thoughts, they are beyond that, this is how a psychopath thinks, "I'm talking, you're are going to listen, and I win if you agree" AND, AND, If you record their scene they are going to deny it, I did it with my mom and when she saw me pressing the record button on my cellphone she changed her whole crazy behavior.

  • @hw5716
    @hw5716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    This woman reminds me of my bio mom. I separated from her at 12. She was exact same. Our house looked the exact same and she claimed to have MS and fibromyalgia with zero proof. It’s a total cop out to blame an illness for not being there for your CHILDREN. There are millions of people who have debilitating diseases that are amazing parents. There is no excuse.

    • @SignedOff402
      @SignedOff402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My mother lived in a mess too although she was good with taking out the garbage. And keeping the clothes clean. She sat in place and ruminated when at home. She never decorated the house. Every free inch of space was taken by her hoard. She shopped and saved. She was secretive. She was an orphan which was surely a contributing factor.

    • @roednerbowling5363
      @roednerbowling5363 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In my teens my mom would keep the house like this too, refused to get a job or clean because of her fibromyalgia which conveniently couldn’t be confirmed in a test at the time. She was hypersensitive to the point of full mental breakdowns to things not going her way or any disagreement on anything no matter how small. My relationship with her was in shambles for many of my adult years after I moved on but I’m thankful she’s turned around a lot of her tendencies from back then.

    • @shannonhamill7165
      @shannonhamill7165 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sick of people's excuse of fibromyalgia

  • @johnmcmanus2447
    @johnmcmanus2447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    "He's a loser!" "Let me tell you from my house that looks like a landfill."

    • @DinduMuffins
      @DinduMuffins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      From a middle aged woman who hasn't worked in ten years, has no credit, no career, running from DHS, and lives in a dump. She wants to call someone else a loser lol

    • @GhostTweeHubBub
      @GhostTweeHubBub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She needs to take a look in the mirror.

  • @edt501
    @edt501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    To "thoses kids" ??? Really not my children. And parenthood is a scrafice within itself. Her husband's suicide was her suicide...may she overcome theses issues.

    • @mach4
      @mach4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I picked up on that too. It's a very distant way to refer to her children

    • @mchoffner8497
      @mchoffner8497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Word choice says so much, "those", rather than "my".

  • @mimismom5464
    @mimismom5464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Woman, I have a list of health issues and take triple the meds you do and still my family is taken care of!

    • @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094
      @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right I have MS, stomach issues, heart chamber dysfunction and even a bad back but my kids and home is clean and taken care of

  • @Huskydude1997
    @Huskydude1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The system absolutely failed those kids.. as it does for so many. Kids, adult and the elderly.

  • @thatonefatchic
    @thatonefatchic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “Those kids”????? When they say they don’t want to bring up the past you know there’s some mess going on. 😒

  • @therese3084
    @therese3084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It’s kind of funny how she pretends that she’s concerned about her children being exposed to her daughter’s boyfriend when she can’t even be a competent parent with a livable house. She is the problem not her daughter or her daughter’s boyfriend! She is so completely narcissistic🤔

  • @haji818721
    @haji818721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    To work on a relationship with Taylor you have to listen to her first.

  • @separeed4721
    @separeed4721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    14 years? It’s supposed to be at least 18 years if not forever lady!? 💁🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @moirhann
    @moirhann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    WHY did he kill himself? i am not saying the mom had anything to do with it but i know of 2 people who killed themselves becaue their wives were psycho/narcisissts..- one of them being a friend of me who in fact hung himself at work after being tormented for years by his psycho wife.. but again - the reason for this guy might be something very different. just think this mother reminds me about a couple women i once knew... the daughter is very brave... such a star.. I hope the other kids are able to get away from this lying creep before ther lives are totally destroyed. They might not be as strong as their big sister..

    • @spiritedprincess4509
      @spiritedprincess4509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think her behavior played a part. She probably wasn’t a supportive wife

    • @moirhann
      @moirhann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@spiritedprincess4509 my toughts as well..

    • @alexradice8163
      @alexradice8163 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would kill myself if I married a woman shady enough to steal from her children

    • @UsernameUnkwn21
      @UsernameUnkwn21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Let's not speculate on the tragedy of why he chose to end his life. NOONE KNOW except him and he is gone

    • @tishwitch
      @tishwitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Suicide has nothing to do with other people. Don't be so callous.

  • @cicilicious99
    @cicilicious99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s a terrible thing when someone chooses to take their own life. And that must’ve been difficult for her as a mother to pick up those pieces. But is she really bragging about dedicating 14 years to her kids? That’s what you’re supposed to do honey. You chose to have children.

  • @tishwitch
    @tishwitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm a single mom, I have serious lung disease, and other health issues that make it difficult for me day to day... But I'm 100% devoted to my son. He's my life.
    We've never been homeless. I never blame my son for our problems.
    She's an awful mother.

  • @suey8227
    @suey8227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I brought my children up single handedly, and while i made some mistakes as we all do, they never lived in filth. It's an excuse saying you're a single parent. and that's why things are like that.

  • @pamelagibbs3992
    @pamelagibbs3992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think a twenty year old young woman knows whether or not she wants to “adult “ or not... good lord mom! 🥴

  • @mstasz2108
    @mstasz2108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is anyone surprised her husband committed suicide??? I have a sister who is about as bad or worse in some ways as this woman. Her husband, my former brother in law who I loved and respected and looked up to and still do simply didn't come home from work one day. My sister abused him and her kids. She doubled down on the abuse to the kids after he was gone. I married a woman who became abusive and taught me the hard way the meaning of narcissism. I became fully suicidal after 20 years with her and had to learn the hard way what PTSD is. My God this story is so relatable to me in so many ways. That woman even has the same vile, condescending look as some of the women in my life, sisters and ex wife.

  • @concreterose4006
    @concreterose4006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hoarding and not living hygienically are often indicators of depression. Her husband committed suicide. It's not right that the children are suffering but she really needs help 🙏

  • @RudeJudy
    @RudeJudy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Obviously mother is unfamiliar with the definition of "adulting".

  • @Chronically_JBoo
    @Chronically_JBoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mom, it's literally okay to need help. Maybe nit from Dr Phil though

  • @lesliebilotta8450
    @lesliebilotta8450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “To THOSE kids”? “sacrifice”? she is a very angry, resentful , sick woman that needs serious support . Get her help.- or, at least get “those kids” out of there! Those poor little kids! She has no emotion.complete denial.

  • @pollypurebread3370
    @pollypurebread3370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So its appropriate to steal your daughters identity. Ruin her credit. Live in utter filth. Lie. There's a list with this lady. Her daughter needs to just cut ties and move on.

  • @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094
    @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Does she know what kidney failure is? I mean if she was in kidney failure she would be taking more than 3 pills a day…she would be on Dialysis. Also blood pressure affects the lungs and the heart never heard of it hurting the kidneys.

    • @aprilfisher4947
      @aprilfisher4947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meds for high BP can affect kidneys as I have blood tests to monitor this so she could be having kidney problems due to the medication.

    • @paige6309
      @paige6309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blood pressure absolutely affects the kidneys…

  • @delanac1809
    @delanac1809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    to those kids..... wtf

  • @francinejones2524
    @francinejones2524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Taylor is more mature than you’ll ever be.

  • @stephannhart
    @stephannhart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    did she call the boyfriend a loser? um...........................................

  • @dreaaz5207
    @dreaaz5207 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's not going to excuse, she had those kids willingly.. what a selfish woman

  • @Angelheart-lu4yl
    @Angelheart-lu4yl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Toxic ...... Safe Zone ..... Good Influence .... The mother steal her daughter's identity .... She has been homeless 3 times friends and family have back away....... Please someone help the older daughter get the help she needs to RESCUE her younger siblings

  • @raphaelgarcia7365
    @raphaelgarcia7365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just because your husband passed away isn't a good excuse to not get up and do what your supposed to. Lazy af

  • @josephdurkin8180
    @josephdurkin8180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I see why the husband...... You know

    • @pollypurebread3370
      @pollypurebread3370 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I said the same thing

    • @Maria.9094
      @Maria.9094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's an awful thing to say. At the end of the day, they had kids together. It's never ok to leave that burden for your kids to carry for the rest of their lives.

  • @KitaHolms
    @KitaHolms 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's what you sign up for when you have kid's... You devote your life to them... NOT the other way around lady🙄🤡⁉️

  • @grayb7420
    @grayb7420 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “The kids.” Not my kids

  • @blueturtle3623
    @blueturtle3623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im sorry-her "health issues" that prevented her from being a parent are migraines and high blood pressure?? She takes a whole three or four pills for such severe issues! Listen lady, I take over a dozen a day, and my mom has had migraines so severe she's taken every pill in the book. You take the pills, you keep going. Migraines can be debilitating, for sure, but you keep going to the best of your ability. My mom used to spend 3 weeks a month with migraines on and off, but she still was a mother. Luckily her current medication works, but she works at a daycare and at times listened to crying babies with a migraine.

  • @Dragontamer135
    @Dragontamer135 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can understand why her husband committed suicide. Just look at who he had to deal with all the time.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      With all due respect that's bs I'm pretty sure her ptsd and depression because of his suicide causes her to not be able to function as an adult and not get out of bed to even clean up. That's what happens to a lot of people who are severely depressed

  • @ericanoel8495
    @ericanoel8495 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lmfao I take more then that daily just for my diabetes. My place is spotless and kid taken care of. Shes just the victim card player

  • @carlaivey9806
    @carlaivey9806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Has anyone else noticed how she talks? Quite strange actually. " adult type fashion" who talks like that?

    • @RAckerman55
      @RAckerman55 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is what “saying something out of nothing” looks like. 🙃

  • @mimiene6535
    @mimiene6535 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excuses excuses excuses as usual.

  • @domjones_who3849
    @domjones_who3849 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS WOMAN'S HUSBAND KILLED HIMSELF TO GET AWAY FROM HER SMFH THAT SAYS IT ALL!!!

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's really not ok you don't know that I'm sure she had terrible depression and ptsd from it and normally when you're depressed people can't function enough to even clean or take care of themselves, and that's probably what happened to her. You're going to blame his suicide on her? That's so wrong

  • @myahill7475
    @myahill7475 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It looks like all of the people who live in the house is contributing to the nasty 🤢 living

  • @Bonditotaltan
    @Bonditotaltan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG This woman is Traumatised by her husbands suicide, this is not rocket science. This is awful she needs help desperately, she is stressed out of her mind .......God Bless Her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽SHAME .........POOR SWEETHEART ..........

    • @alexradice8163
      @alexradice8163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shut up karen. EVERYONE FEELS PAIN, SUFFERING ISNT AN EXCUSE TO HURT YOUR KIDS

  • @roleat
    @roleat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No wonder he k lled himself