Tony, that video you put out about 99% of women won't believe and 99% of men won't admit it.. JESUS! He used you in that video and it blessed my soul. I sat in tears and took every word, im going to take the stand i need to take. I had been crying out to God concerning my situation and along came the video. God bless you im still in tears.
Same here!!! It was a word 🙌🏾. I truly felt the spirit towards the end because I have never heard a man speak like this. He’s truly a blessing!! We as women have to learn our worth & never forget it. It’s soooo powerful.
The man God has for each of us is coming ladies. In the meantime, we just have to focus on preparing ourselves (like the Wise Virgins) and exercising patience and discernment. Cz we know that counterfeits will come before the authentic.
I text/shared this with my husband last night. He listened this morning. He's in agreement with you on this. Thank you Tony! Just hearing a man say this makes a difference.
I think it is a great idea to do a series for husbands. My husband has been watching a few videos and said you are right on point with so much. So please bless us and the men in our lives with a series for husbands. Thank you so much for being transparent and real.
When Tony said...that he wants to be his wife's peice...almost made me cry....because every good woman in the world wants this from her husband...God bless you and your wife🙌
Thank you. I truly needed this. I grew up without a mama or daddy and honestly the streets raised me. I lived everywhere and my grandma finally got custody and from there I don’t know what happened. I just know I had to be 35 at 6 and it made me very controlling because everything around me was out of control. I have done well for myself so that builds Ego and Pride, which kill marriages. I’m a libra and my wife is a Virgo and my soulmate. I was just like you ,young and confused, we got pregnant in 3 months, we got married 5 months after meeting, I was building a home and building my business. When we had our babies. I lost it. But she held it down end I trusted her and this video just put the icing on the wedding cake. Asé
You spoke to me directly in yesterdays video and I am so grateful that God brought you to make these videos. I cant say that enough. Thank you so much!
Tony and Sheri are so blessed to have one another and their happiness shows not only through one another but their children's beautiful spirit disposition.
Hardship taught your wife that there are things worth so much more than money. This testimony has made me appreciate her and your union so much more. Thank you.
Hello Man of God! I was born in Angola and raised in Portugal. Currently, leaving in USA. I'm getting my bachelor's degree in business. I THANK YOU AND I THANK MYLES MUNROE FOR HELPING ME FINDING MY PURPOSE IN LIFE.
Not every man questions his true intentions like that. That takes maturity. No doubt at some point in time in life. Early on Tony pictured marriage for himself. I applaud that. A lot of us come from a divorced environment. I know for me my parents divorced when I was 12. However, I was happy about that. I still cherish the union of marriage today.
This is a wonderful point of view for a man to have toward his other half. After all.... she is a reflection of him. I have the warm fuzzies for you married folks!!!
I know you have your book “what daddy never taught his little girl” and I know you have many videos that teach us things about grown boys but can you make a video for our daughters. I send my daughters videos all the time about different things and they ask me questions all the time about life. I told them about you and I taught them a few of your lessons. I wanted to send them your videos but I wasn’t sure where to start. They are mature 11 and 13 year olds but I’m 31 and I’m just now learning a lot of things that I didn’t know and I learned them from you. At their age I didn’t know anything about sex, boys or dating. I want them to be kids but at the same time these little boys are so fresh and try them all the time. They also have friend that’s are fresh and that are obsessed with boys. Your videos would have been so important and they would have helped me so much when I was a kid because I suffered so much from being sheltered and not know about boys and how I should be. I honestly didn’t know a lot about grown boys until I come across your videos over a year ago. I knew something didn’t feel right when it came to dealing with grown boys but I couldn’t put it into words because I didn’t know anyone with the experience or the spirit to see the disfunction. No one taught me anything in life and I made a lot of mistakes but Im committed to learning, growing, breaking generational curses and to teaching my daughters how to break the cycle as well. You and your videos help me so much and taught me more then anyone I’ve known. It would be a blessing to share your word with them, especially since their fathers or male figures don’t know how to and I can’t do a man’s job; nor do I have the insight, experience or knowledge. Thank you
Tony I really value this topic. I loved my husband, but I felt he was pushing me away by being controlling in the beginning. Ever time I go with my friends he would call. Eventually we talked it out and got better. But it was other ways I felt I couldn’t be myself and be vulnerable. I always felt he was against me. He even told me I’m hurt and broken, but he could’ve helped me heal, but he didn’t want that responsibility. I was helping myself and still is with therapy. I felt beneath him because he had more than me. He also went in the marriage thinking one sided. It made me resentful, pushed away and I stopped being loving. Also, I was dealing with anxiety and weight gain. I was losing confidence; however, this year I’m doing better with my weight and confidence. This year he asked for divorce and we are currently separated. Before I moved out he said he thought he was making a mistake but wasn’t sure. He said it’s a chance he’s willing to take. I knew before I left he wanted to work it out, but he’s prideful and had people in his ear who are divorcing as well. I feel horrible now because maybe I should’ve done more. I blame myself for all of it. I wanted my marriage to work , but I can’t make someone be ready for what they aren’t ready for. I wish he had told me prior to asking my hand in marriage. I listen to you a lot to help me understand a man’s point of view. Only thing I can do now is work on me and make myself a better person for me and others around me.
Absolutely loved this Tony! Married for 6.5 years, would love for you to make a video on: 1 - husband trying to play male role when visiting mother in law because she’s single and dad to my niece. 2 - what to do when your spouse knows your love language but dangles treats over your head as a result. As of he fully determines when that will happen. 3 - what to do when a spouse doesn’t believe in counseling or coaching, believes that’s for people who can’t communicate.
I rarely comment on videos but I had to say this is beautiful Tony!Also, kudos to you for picking up on this knowledge at such a young age, it shows your emotional intelligence. Prayers that your marriage continue to be a testament for millions around the world.
The 99% video had me shouting!!!!! I’ve been saved for many years but something clicked for me in that video, so thankful for your ministry💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽. You’re so transparent! Your understanding of your wife and how to love her is mind blowing. Keep the videos coming and blessings to you and your family🙏🏽
Love this!! I've gotten so emotional with the past couple of videos. 😭😭. I have a feeling this one will do the same. Such a sweet title! 💯❤️❤️. 2021 is starting off with such power and stretching with Tony's video. 👏🏼👏🏼🏆💪🏼
I had to leave my fiancé because of me almost enabling him I told him he needs to be the provider and the man god called him to be he texted me last night and said he is working on himself as well as a bible scripture GOD Revealed to him , I feel that because I put my foot down that’s when he was able to see what he wasn’t doing thank you TONY your videos gives me encouragement ❤️
Oh that's great sis. You did the right thing for your future. My dad always said " don't awake a man from his sleep, or you might catch the wrong side of him" Keep us updated dear.
Tony-you posted a video earlier about "99%of women..." the comments were disabled, and I understand. I just wanted to say ty for all you and your wife do. I genuinely appreciate your page! Keep up the good work🤝🏽. I am about 1/4 of a way done with A Women's Influence.
Listening to this, the saying that kept replaying in my mind was, "A woman that asks for nothing deserves everything." Knowing what it's like to grow up with "less" helps your heart appreciate the "more." Live full, die empty.
Mr Tony, the video on 99%. It was the most touching to my heart and spirit. Have never cried on any video you put out until this one... I really needed to hear this. Thank you for letting God use you to get this message out. May God continue to bless you and your family. Amen
I’m enjoying your transparency Everyday. I’ve implemented a personal goal to share your wisdom (male constructive criticisms) with my teen son. You’re valued and I appreciate u.
Wow! Tony you are truly a blessing. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. Your videos have reshaped and transformed my life tremendously. From removing myself from toxic relationships, and knowing my purpose in life. 🙏🏽😊🙏🏽😊🙏🏽
THANK YOU MR. GASKINS, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!!!!! I wish someone would have told my Ex-husband this, so I sent this video to my two sons. ☺🤜🤛👩👦👦💯🧡🤍💛🤍💚🤍💙🤍💜🤍❣EXCELLENT!
Thank you for continuing to be a faithful servant to The Lord and doing the selfless work that you do! You’re making a huge difference in the world so please know that your hard work isn’t going unappreciated or unnoticed!! May God Bless You, Your Beautiful Wife( Thank you for sharing Tony Mrs. Gaskins) and Handsome Young Gentlemen you both are raising!! Seeing a beautiful family like yours truly melts my heart and gives me hope that true love still exist!!!
I really like this vid, well said... I wish it was that easy for my husband in our marriage 😔 Thank you for doing your calling Tony. You is one thing that keeps me pressing forward in life.
Hello Tony, this video is amazing 🙏🏾 Can you make a video of how we should love our husbands as well. I think is important. Thank you. God bless your family abundantly 🤍
I keep telling my husband exactly what I need in this 26 year marriage. In turn he yells at me. Tells me his only obligation is to be a provider nothing more. He's a "my way or the highway" kind of jerk. That theory "marry a guy who treats his momma good" is hogwash. He treats the family he came from like precious jewels. Treats me and our children like yard dogs. He was raised in a very strict Christian home and claims to be such a good person. He's a truck driver so he is not home much. When he has days off it's usually 4 days. Those 4 days he spends drunk. Doesn't eat much, gets up and grabs a beer. By nightfall he becomes a tyrant. Then he calls his brother and spends hours on the phone partying via the phone. I've asked him numerous times to call his brother while he is on the road not during our time. He said "I only like to talk to my brother when I am drunk. I can't tolerate him much." Obviously he is calling his brother during our time to deliberately hurt me. While talking to his brother he tells him EVERYTHING about our personal business. I asked him to stop telling his brother our personal business. He said " he's my brother he has every right to know everything. He doesn't care what I need in this marriage. Everything I say he responds with "oh BS your crazy." All of children hate him and want nothing to do with him. He's not allowed to be around our grandchildren either. He seriously says that I'm poison to our family. I obviously married a horrible man baby. This trip home he told me he plans to leave me once our youngest son graduates high school. Don't be like my spouse ever please. Life is too short to not love deeply, fully ad be completely vulnerable to your wife. Once you take a wife absolutely no one should ever come between you or divide you. If the family you came from doesn't show respect for your wife and marriage there is no room in your life for them. As a couple you are one not two. All decisions and actions are about we not I. People don't take marriage and building a family seriously. These days everyone and everything is replaceable and it's sick.
You definitely deserve better. I suggest you pray consistently for the Holy Spirit to guide you. Remember, you belong Jesus. Nothing is to come before him. Trust the word of God. When your husband's actions and behavior does not line up to the word, then know he is not alignment. Pray for God to change your husband.
Beautiful video. One thing I love about Tony is his love for his wife. It's an example. Just like me watching 2 Pastors love the same woman w respect growing up, its the example for me. Most people im not sure can watch a handsome gentleman without lusting, but I know I can. All my male friends in Chicago, I would get advice from, kick it with, but I wouldn't entertain lust. So its good to see a man w good intentions, cse I love the teachings, but it's the example for me.
Omgosh your wife’s personality is beautiful. It made me giggle and I can definitely relate to that. I’m also very outgoing. I love to laugh loud and dance everyday. I have to be mindful to never date a man that’s like that again trying to change me to be super quiet and basically boring.🙄👎🏽 💃🏽😁👑✨
L Loud sound so unlady like, I think the term bubbly sound more ladylike, no offend intended I think the attraction for Tony to his wife and love is her pose and standards
⭐️Tony thank you for all your videos they have been so helpful to me .please can you do a video on Affection (cuddles)and closeness in marriage especially if partner is not making efforts or is being inconsistent.THANKS
Topic Suggestion: I notice that you involve your wife in the decision-making process, but how do wives handle husbands that make executive decisions for the family without consulting the wife?
Thank Mr.Tony thank you for sharing, I have appreciated these messages, this have really opened my eyes when you was speaking on how to allow your wife to be herself and not making her feel like her opinions don’t count in the marriage, when it comes down to make a financial decisions. I wanted to ask why to some men make a woman feel like her decision or opinions don’t matter in a relationship, or having a woman feel like she’s in the wrong for expressing her feelings if she don’t like a certain thing in the relationship?
Sooo True. You are a Wise person. The problem with most men seriously Rich/Poor they Dumb. They put Outsiders, Drunks, Wild people, Celebrities, Boss business people etc before their Wife! Many are Loser Leaders. They have told me they JEALOUS of a Wise/Smart woman. Smh. I just let it go! Lol at me! Wow what a Masculine Man u r! I love you and your Wife. I'm sooooo happy for u both!
This was a great video and a much needed one.....I’ve been trying to explain this to men and they just don’t understand. Hopefully they will listen to another man, even though you say they won’t. I will definitely spread this word❤️
This is a good video, all the advice, and tips to the men, and you love your wife and you kept working and got better with time, some men really don’t know to much about the love languages so I’m glad you spoke on it, just so much great info for the men! I love it! Blessing Tony to you and the Queen!🙏🏾 we appreciate you!
I listened to most....God placed all what u do for her in your Heart...Its not you it's All God...The Lord told me to pray for you last night...He said New Beginning..Fresh Started for you and your Family...The Lord going to Raises you up Quickly in these Last Days..you will be doing ...Out Reach Ministry👋
I just love how happy he is. He is proof of just how good God is. God has been working through me since 2019. I feel so much happier and alive than I’ve ever felt before. I never thought I’d be so happy SPIRITUALLY and MENTALLY. GOD truly is king. I am living proof that trusting God will make you whole at the end of the day. I’m not perfect but gosh...I’m happy 🙏🏾😊.
Hey Mr. Gaskins, great video as usual. I'm currently single, working on my 3 B's and wanted to know how to handle marriage with two children from a previous relationship? Thanks in advance, God bless you and your family.
“You have to love your wife the way she needs to be loved not the way you want to love.” TG
This ..... this right here 👆🏽
Tony, that video you put out about 99% of women won't believe and 99% of men won't admit it.. JESUS! He used you in that video and it blessed my soul. I sat in tears and took every word, im going to take the stand i need to take. I had been crying out to God concerning my situation and along came the video. God bless you im still in tears.
10,000% on that video. Listen!!!
Same here!!! It was a word 🙌🏾. I truly felt the spirit towards the end because I have never heard a man speak like this. He’s truly a blessing!! We as women have to learn our worth & never forget it. It’s soooo powerful.
Yes love! Me too.😁♥️👑✨
I cried a little too. 😊 Very powerful and encouraging message
I totally agree with you. Same here!
😢 I pray someday a man will love me like that.
Me too.
The man God has for each of us is coming ladies. In the meantime, we just have to focus on preparing ourselves (like the Wise Virgins) and exercising patience and discernment. Cz we know that counterfeits will come before the authentic.
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Me too!😫
Always believe that you will receive it from god.
This video is everything I must send this to my oldest married son who keeps his wife on the edge of her seat with uncertainty about her marriage
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I pray my son loves and respects his wife. I know I talk to him daily about how important it is to be loving and respectful to women.
Tony has been on it with these back to back videos these last few days! And I’m loving it! 👊🏾
I totally agree with you
Right! Love it.
Yes, and I am here for it!
Yes he is doing an awesome job. Thank you mr.gaskins
Yes!!!!
I love how you love your wife. 🥰🥰🥰
I text/shared this with my husband last night. He listened this morning. He's in agreement with you on this. Thank you Tony! Just hearing a man say this makes a difference.
I like how you are consistently positive, even when you have to be blunt and direct.
I think it is a great idea to do a series for husbands. My husband has been watching a few videos and said you are right on point with so much. So please bless us and the men in our lives with a series for husbands. Thank you so much for being transparent and real.
When Tony said...that he wants to be his wife's peice...almost made me cry....because every good woman in the world wants this from her husband...God bless you and your wife🙌
Thank you. I truly needed this. I grew up without a mama or daddy and honestly the streets raised me. I lived everywhere and my grandma finally got custody and from there I don’t know what happened. I just know I had to be 35 at 6 and it made me very controlling because everything around me was out of control. I have done well for myself so that builds Ego and Pride, which kill marriages. I’m a libra and my wife is a Virgo and my soulmate. I was just like you ,young and confused, we got pregnant in 3 months, we got married 5 months after meeting, I was building a home and building my business. When we had our babies. I lost it. But she held it down end I trusted her and this video just put the icing on the wedding cake.
Asé
You spoke to me directly in yesterdays video and I am so grateful that God brought you to make these videos. I cant say that enough. Thank you so much!
I love hearing Mr. Tony talk about his wife and the love he exerts for her! 🥰
Tony and Sheri are so blessed to have one another and their happiness shows not only through one another but their children's beautiful spirit disposition.
Hardship taught your wife that there are things worth so much more than money. This testimony has made me appreciate her and your union so much more. Thank you.
I wish my husband loved me this way, you love for your wife is beautiful Mr. Tony. Blessings
I sent this vidoe to my husband and I hope he does listen to it. There are lessons he can learn from hearing this from a God fearing man.
Hello Man of God! I was born in Angola and raised in Portugal. Currently, leaving in USA. I'm getting my bachelor's degree in business.
I THANK YOU AND I THANK MYLES MUNROE FOR HELPING ME FINDING MY PURPOSE IN LIFE.
My God Tony, this has blessed me and gave me the blueprint to healing the hurt I’ve dispersed out within my marriage. Thanks, it time I get to work.
Thank You Tony, for your dedication and Godly wisdom!
GOD say a man is to love his wife as Jesus Christ so loved the church Ephesians 5:25
Not every man questions his true intentions like that.
That takes maturity.
No doubt at some point in time in life. Early on Tony pictured marriage for himself.
I applaud that. A lot of us come from a divorced environment.
I know for me my parents divorced when I was 12.
However, I was happy about that.
I still cherish the union of marriage today.
Most grown boys will do something for you and then expect something in return. Grown men will do it out of love.
True!
So Sad but So True!!!
This is a wonderful point of view for a man to have toward his other half. After all.... she is a reflection of him. I have the warm fuzzies for you married folks!!!
“Keep her at a constant state of peace, love and happiness.” Tony Gaskins. Thanks for sharing
I know you have your book “what daddy never taught his little girl” and I know you have many videos that teach us things about grown boys but can you make a video for our daughters. I send my daughters videos all the time about different things and they ask me questions all the time about life. I told them about you and I taught them a few of your lessons. I wanted to send them your videos but I wasn’t sure where to start. They are mature 11 and 13 year olds but I’m 31 and I’m just now learning a lot of things that I didn’t know and I learned them from you. At their age I didn’t know anything about sex, boys or dating. I want them to be kids but at the same time these little boys are so fresh and try them all the time. They also have friend that’s are fresh and that are obsessed with boys. Your videos would have been so important and they would have helped me so much when I was a kid because I suffered so much from being sheltered and not know about boys and how I should be. I honestly didn’t know a lot about grown boys until I come across your videos over a year ago. I knew something didn’t feel right when it came to dealing with grown boys but I couldn’t put it into words because I didn’t know anyone with the experience or the spirit to see the disfunction. No one taught me anything in life and I made a lot of mistakes but Im committed to learning, growing, breaking generational curses and to teaching my daughters how to break the cycle as well. You and your videos help me so much and taught me more then anyone I’ve known. It would be a blessing to share your word with them, especially since their fathers or male figures don’t know how to and I can’t do a man’s job; nor do I have the insight, experience or knowledge. Thank you
Tony I really value this topic. I loved my husband, but I felt he was pushing me away by being controlling in the beginning. Ever time I go with my friends he would call. Eventually we talked it out and got better. But it was other ways I felt I couldn’t be myself and be vulnerable. I always felt he was against me. He even told me I’m hurt and broken, but he could’ve helped me heal, but he didn’t want that responsibility. I was helping myself and still is with therapy. I felt beneath him because he had more than me. He also went in the marriage thinking one sided. It made me resentful, pushed away and I stopped being loving. Also, I was dealing with anxiety and weight gain. I was losing confidence; however, this year I’m doing better with my weight and confidence. This year he asked for divorce and we are currently separated. Before I moved out he said he thought he was making a mistake but wasn’t sure. He said it’s a chance he’s willing to take. I knew before I left he wanted to work it out, but he’s prideful and had people in his ear who are divorcing as well. I feel horrible now because maybe I should’ve done more. I blame myself for all of it. I wanted my marriage to work , but I can’t make someone be ready for what they aren’t ready for. I wish he had told me prior to asking my hand in marriage. I listen to you a lot to help me understand a man’s point of view. Only thing I can do now is work on me and make myself a better person for me and others around me.
Absolutely loved this Tony! Married for 6.5 years, would love for you to make a video on: 1 - husband trying to play male role when visiting mother in law because she’s single and dad to my niece. 2 - what to do when your spouse knows your love language but dangles treats over your head as a result. As of he fully determines when that will happen. 3 - what to do when a spouse doesn’t believe in counseling or coaching, believes that’s for people who can’t communicate.
Amen brother!! Thanks the Lord blessed me with my Queen and we’re getting married this year
I rarely comment on videos but I had to say this is beautiful Tony!Also, kudos to you for picking up on this knowledge at such a young age, it shows your emotional intelligence. Prayers that your marriage continue to be a testament for millions around the world.
The 99% video had me shouting!!!!! I’ve been saved for many years but something clicked for me in that video, so thankful for your ministry💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽. You’re so transparent! Your understanding of your wife and how to love her is mind blowing. Keep the videos coming and blessings to you and your family🙏🏽
Love this!! I've gotten so emotional with the past couple of videos. 😭😭. I have a feeling this one will do the same. Such a sweet title! 💯❤️❤️. 2021 is starting off with such power and stretching with Tony's video. 👏🏼👏🏼🏆💪🏼
I had to leave my fiancé because of me almost enabling him I told him he needs to be the provider and the man god called him to be he texted me last night and said he is working on himself as well as a bible scripture GOD Revealed to him , I feel that because I put my foot down that’s when he was able to see what he wasn’t doing thank you TONY your videos gives me encouragement ❤️
Good job! Don’t settle
Oh that's great sis. You did the right thing for your future. My dad always said " don't awake a man from his sleep, or you might catch the wrong side of him" Keep us updated dear.
@@munix9351 will do thanks hun
Tony-you posted a video earlier about "99%of women..." the comments were disabled, and I understand. I just wanted to say ty for all you and your wife do. I genuinely appreciate your page! Keep up the good work🤝🏽. I am about 1/4 of a way done with A Women's Influence.
I noticed that to, would have loved to comment on that video. 🙏
I want my future husband to shower me with this much love and respect. We need more men like Tony. More men to see this
Tony I am 56 yrs old and gained so much knowledge on this video. You and your wife give hope to many women. God Bless you both.
Thank you Tony Gaskins for blessing us with all these videos back to back!!! 🙌🏻
Listening to this, the saying that kept replaying in my mind was, "A woman that asks for nothing deserves everything." Knowing what it's like to grow up with "less" helps your heart appreciate the "more." Live full, die empty.
The wealth of the wicked is laid up for the righteous! God bless Mrs. Gaskins!
Thats so good Tony! Your strength is your gentleness! The Lord has been speaking to me about how my future husband will be gentle with me.
You have changed my perspective on life so much
I can't see Sheri yelling and being loud at the soccer referee 😂 that's awesome 😎
Mr Tony, the video on 99%. It was the most touching to my heart and spirit. Have never cried on any video you put out until this one... I really needed to hear this. Thank you for letting God use you to get this message out. May God continue to bless you and your family. Amen
Im single preparing for marriage and this was just what I needed. Great session thankyou Tony. God bless
Me tooo!
I’m enjoying your transparency Everyday. I’ve implemented a personal goal to share your wisdom (male constructive criticisms) with my teen son. You’re valued and I appreciate u.
Tony I’m binge watching you, thank you a great deal🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I appreciate you touch on this subject and young men need more of this.. I will share this with my sons
Talk as long as you can. More you talk more I listen, learn and grow. Be blessed.
Tony is the perfect husband 🥺😭💘 God bless him, his lucky wife and lucky babies!
May God continue to bless you and your family. You and your wife are truly meant to be. Thank you and be blessed😊
We need these teachings!
Wow! Tony you are truly a blessing. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. Your videos have reshaped and transformed my life tremendously. From removing myself from toxic relationships, and knowing my purpose in life. 🙏🏽😊🙏🏽😊🙏🏽
THANK YOU MR. GASKINS, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!!!!! I wish someone would have told my Ex-husband this, so I sent this video to my two sons. ☺🤜🤛👩👦👦💯🧡🤍💛🤍💚🤍💙🤍💜🤍❣EXCELLENT!
Thank you for continuing to be a faithful servant to The Lord and doing the selfless work that you do! You’re making a huge difference in the world so please know that your hard work isn’t going unappreciated or unnoticed!! May God Bless You, Your Beautiful Wife( Thank you for sharing Tony Mrs. Gaskins) and Handsome Young Gentlemen you both are raising!! Seeing a beautiful family like yours truly melts my heart and gives me hope that true love still exist!!!
TG thank you for your honesty! God bless your platform.
I love the song The Lion and the Lamb. Its by Big Daddy Weave. We need more husbands to hear this message
Thank you Tony!Many blessing to you and your family❤️
I really like this vid, well said... I wish it was that easy for my husband in our marriage 😔 Thank you for doing your calling Tony. You is one thing that keeps me pressing forward in life.
This was pretty amazing!
What a amart Man of God you are!! And funny too😆 God has truly blessed you and i thank you for your wisdom
You are so on point Nephew Tony. Thank you for all that you do and share. Blessings to you and your family. SDG
Thank you brother in Christ. My husband listened to this. Can you please do something for the husbands out here..
Wow Tony you are truly anointed thus video and the 99% and the only that triggered that one was everything God bless you nothing but the truth
You enrich my life more and more with every vid Tony.💙 Thank you for pouring into us like you do.
This is beautiful to hear!
Very uplifting video.
I really needed to hear this today. You are speaking directly into me brother. Thank you.
Good stuff Tony. Validation for me.
Your videos have changed my life. Keep going.
Wow! Thank you sooo much for this video!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Hello Tony, this video is amazing 🙏🏾
Can you make a video of how we should love our husbands as well. I think is important.
Thank you. God bless your family abundantly 🤍
I keep telling my husband exactly what I need in this 26 year marriage. In turn he yells at me. Tells me his only obligation is to be a provider nothing more. He's a "my way or the highway" kind of jerk. That theory "marry a guy who treats his momma good" is hogwash. He treats the family he came from like precious jewels. Treats me and our children like yard dogs. He was raised in a very strict Christian home and claims to be such a good person. He's a truck driver so he is not home much. When he has days off it's usually 4 days. Those 4 days he spends drunk. Doesn't eat much, gets up and grabs a beer. By nightfall he becomes a tyrant. Then he calls his brother and spends hours on the phone partying via the phone. I've asked him numerous times to call his brother while he is on the road not during our time. He said "I only like to talk to my brother when I am drunk. I can't tolerate him much." Obviously he is calling his brother during our time to deliberately hurt me. While talking to his brother he tells him EVERYTHING about our personal business. I asked him to stop telling his brother our personal business. He said " he's my brother he has every right to know everything. He doesn't care what I need in this marriage. Everything I say he responds with "oh BS your crazy." All of children hate him and want nothing to do with him. He's not allowed to be around our grandchildren either. He seriously says that I'm poison to our family.
I obviously married a horrible man baby. This trip home he told me he plans to leave me once our youngest son graduates high school. Don't be like my spouse ever please. Life is too short to not love deeply, fully ad be completely vulnerable to your wife. Once you take a wife absolutely no one should ever come between you or divide you. If the family you came from doesn't show respect for your wife and marriage there is no room in your life for them. As a couple you are one not two. All decisions and actions are about we not I. People don't take marriage and building a family seriously. These days everyone and everything is replaceable and it's sick.
You definitely deserve better. I suggest you pray consistently for the Holy Spirit to guide you. Remember, you belong Jesus. Nothing is to come before him. Trust the word of God. When your husband's actions and behavior does not line up to the word, then know he is not alignment. Pray for God to change your husband.
Beautiful video. One thing I love about Tony is his love for his wife. It's an example. Just like me watching 2 Pastors love the same woman w respect growing up, its the example for me. Most people im not sure can watch a handsome gentleman without lusting, but I know I can. All my male friends in Chicago, I would get advice from, kick it with, but I wouldn't entertain lust. So its good to see a man w good intentions, cse I love the teachings, but it's the example for me.
Omgosh your wife’s personality is beautiful. It made me giggle and I can definitely relate to that. I’m also very outgoing. I love to laugh loud and dance everyday. I have to be mindful to never date a man that’s like that again trying to change me to be super quiet and basically boring.🙄👎🏽 💃🏽😁👑✨
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Loud sound so unlady like, I think the term bubbly sound more ladylike, no offend intended
I think the attraction for Tony to his wife and love is her pose and standards
27:07 that was heartfelt wow! Love it
Liked before i even watched the video always valuable knowledge to take away. God bless Mr.Gaskins and family.
⭐️Tony thank you for all your videos they have been so helpful to me .please can you do a video on Affection (cuddles)and closeness in marriage especially if partner is not making efforts or is being inconsistent.THANKS
I am in love with this video. I really appreciate this❤❤❤!
37 min in lost sound but I must say I appreciate you make insight into how to be a better wife for my husband
Topic Suggestion: I notice that you involve your wife in the decision-making process, but how do wives handle husbands that make executive decisions for the family without consulting the wife?
Amen Tony! Thank you!
You just described a Proverbs 23 husband ... remember even Sarah called Abraham Lord, God bless you Man of God 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen Tony u on point💯💯💯
Be Blessed Tony Gaskins God Blesses a man after God's Own Heart👍 💯❤💕
Thank Mr.Tony thank you for sharing, I have appreciated these messages, this have really opened my eyes when you was speaking on how to allow your wife to be herself and not making her feel like her opinions don’t count in the marriage, when it comes down to make a financial decisions. I wanted to ask why to some men make a woman feel like her decision or opinions don’t matter in a relationship, or having a woman feel like she’s in the wrong for expressing her feelings if she don’t like a certain thing in the relationship?
Sooo True. You are a Wise person. The problem with most men seriously Rich/Poor they Dumb. They put Outsiders, Drunks, Wild people, Celebrities, Boss business people etc before their Wife! Many are Loser Leaders. They have told me they JEALOUS of a Wise/Smart woman. Smh. I just let it go! Lol at me! Wow what a Masculine Man u r! I love you and your Wife. I'm sooooo happy for u both!
This was a great video and a much needed one.....I’ve been trying to explain this to men and they just don’t understand. Hopefully they will listen to another man, even though you say they won’t. I will definitely spread this word❤️
I can't stand boring .. Got to make eachother laugh . your awesume.. Important kids see wife and husband getting along..
This is soooo good. If husbands would do these things, they would be reaping like ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘
This is a good video, all the advice, and tips to the men, and you love your wife and you kept working and got better with time, some men really don’t know to much about the love languages so I’m glad you spoke on it, just so
much great info for the men! I love it! Blessing Tony to you and the Queen!🙏🏾 we appreciate you!
NOTHING BUT FACTZ SPOKEN 🥰
I listened to most....God placed all what u do for her in your Heart...Its not you it's All God...The Lord told me to pray for you last night...He said New Beginning..Fresh Started for you and your Family...The Lord going to Raises you up Quickly in these Last Days..you will be doing ...Out Reach Ministry👋
I just love how happy he is. He is proof of just how good God is. God has been working through me since 2019. I feel so much happier and alive than I’ve ever felt before. I never thought I’d be so happy SPIRITUALLY and MENTALLY. GOD truly is king. I am living proof that trusting God will make you whole at the end of the day. I’m not perfect but gosh...I’m happy 🙏🏾😊.
Mercedes makes that sprinter right that big van thing haha so cute
Tony I love your honesty ❤️ you're a real one. May God continue to richly bless you and your family
This video was on point God bless you Tony, I definitely cried 🙌🏾
Look good feel good. Facts🤗
Thank you very much!
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your experiences Tony! God bless you.
Hey Mr. Gaskins, great video as usual. I'm currently single, working on my 3 B's and wanted to know how to handle marriage with two children from a previous relationship? Thanks in advance, God bless you and your family.
God bless you and your family 🙏❤