hiiii natt hi jake i jus wanna say i relate to nat so much nat is such a motivation fr especially cuz i relate so much to her dealing with strict parents
I felt SO SEEN when Nat said she felt like something was wrong and her heart beating fast when she was out with friends. Crazy how strict parents mess us up so much. I’m married and moved out now but I still feel the effects from living in my parent’s house. That part felt like therapy 😭
But because of our parents we should be thankful they were strict because in a way we grow up to be responsible people. And we know we will be the same with our children because we live in a cruel world unfortunately we can’t be roaming around free at a young age
@@chabelinambo7380I wouldn’t say I’m thankful honestly and I wouldn’t treat my kids the same way. We all come from different experiences and we all react differently to them. I spent most of my teenage years in my room alone only able to text my friends. Which back then I didn’t have my own phone until I started working and paying for it. And the one chance they gave me to go out I was always getting spammed with texts and calls from them. I feel Nat because it brings up a lot of emotions and it’s hard to talk about to people that don’t GET it
As someone who grew up with ZERO rules, and extremely lenient parents.....it's a different kind of messed up. I often wished my parents had kept a tighter rein on me. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side
55:47 STOP when I heard the end, I BALLED MY EYES OUT. I would love to be on the podcast someday and share my experience with dealing with strict parents 🥺. I know it’ll help out SO MANY people out there. Anyone who’s going through a tough time right now.. just know that THERE’S A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL!!! Nat always reminded me of this despite me feeling like I was trapped and there was no way out. Just know that you’re not alone! ❤️
Nat please don’t get in your head about the background/set up. I love seeing the authenticity of your podcast and I genuinely am intrigued on your topics and updates on your lifestyle. Who cares about the background! 😊❤
definitely relate to the childhood part. i’m 20 almost 21 moved out on my own & always think about how my mom was always so strict on me being the oldest.
I have the same trauma Nat and I love the idea of putting your friend on the podcast and hear the similar stories of what we have gone through in our childhood. We love you guys!! ❤🫂
You guys dont NEED a podcast studio! In my opinion i LOVEE that its not so professional with a backdrop bc then I feel like its not authentic. With you guys taking us everywhere you go it feels soo cool! Its like having a yap session catching up on what you guys r doing in life! I love it🫶🏽
The ending made me so emotional and comfort because I’m LIVING rn what nat went through with our traditional Mexican parents and it’s honestly the hardest even if they don’t know it’s so hard to not have freedom 😔can’t wait till I have my freedom and I hope u can make more pods taking about situation us Hispanic kids go through
nat saying she can protect herself but didnt she call jacob bc a man was following her around lulu and he drove there to “protect” her😭😭😭 then proceeds to follow the man around the parking lot
Honestly listening to this podcast my heart was beating fast the whole time. I’m currently in that cycle and I can’t stand up for myself bc they trained me that way and being able to know that I’m the only one makes me feel relieved. More episodes like these would honestly be so helpful for me and everyone that has gone through/ going through having strict parents!!❤️ It’s so hard to talk about especially when others don’t understand how it is to live through that cycle.
thank you for always speaking up about toxic Mexican parents. i always feel so alone and like no one gets it & it breaks my heart hearing everyones awesome life learning stories they went through as teenagers and i have nothing like that. all my memories are of me being locked in the house and losing friends bc i never got to hang out with them. being accused of things that i would never think of doing by my parents. it was so bad to where i hated them for it & our relationship crumbled bc of it, obviously that was just the first layer of things and it just got worse and worse & here i am 24 still heartbroken over the situation and them. im glad you were able to reprogram your dad bc my parents are unreachable and i was thrown out not too long ago with my 1 year old for advocating for myself and sticking up over invasion of privacy and the dictatorship & the poor treatment of my baby
Nat throw a 21st birthday party! it doesn’t have to be anything extravagant because you’ll regret it when you look back years later. You should invite those who are close to you and don’t NEED YOUR whole bloodline there. As a fellow Mexican gal those family members don’t really have your back and are there to just talk bad upon you when you turn your back! The authentic podcast and traveling is amazing, makes yall so unique ❤️
~~NAT, PERTAINING TO THE WHOLE WEARING WHAT OU WANT THING, I THINK JAKE JUST WANTS YOU TO ALWAYS WEAR CLOTHING THAT IS SELF-RESPECTFUL AND ALSO RELATIONSHIP RESPECTFUL AT THE SAME TIME. YOU KNOW HE DOESN'T WANT TO CONTROL YOUR CLOTHING, BUT IT IS HIM BEING A MAN AND PROTECTING YOU AND WANTING ANY OTHERS TO SEE YOU ONLY AS A LADY WITH SOPHISTICATION AND DIGNITY! WE LOVE YOU BOTH!~~MUAH
I am more engaged with your simple set ups because the topics are so natural and great. Forget a fancy backdrop! You both are so well spoken and your chemistry and banter is so entertaining and genuine.
Absolutely wild you guys uploaded a video on this topic ... I've been crying non stop for the past 5 days bc I legitimately can't live my life to the fullest what so ever. It js sucks and I sit in my room and think what am I here for if I'm not living my life (almost called the mental hospital on myself ifykyk). I'm trying I really am, and it sucks even more bc I live with my single father who's pushing 60 and very old school and now an only child (kicked my only brother out @17) . But it js hurt so bad, and I'm trying not to yk .. bc my brother is graduating, and I don't wanna make it all abt me rn. I'm definitely gonna try to hang in there until I go to college (2 more years) and the pre- summer college I'm going to in about 4 weeks . Also he doesnt even allow me to have phone .. im 15. My dead beat "mother" gave me a phone 2020 christmas and he still doesnt know. Sorry for this long ass paragraph, js needed to vent badly .. love you guys
39:00 let her find out on her own bro she know damn well she’s gonna want u to protect her if a dude do something so why not just respect u and not wear something u don’t like 😂
57:15 is literally the realest, im becoming a junior in highschool and i’ve been using the asb excuse since freshman year, and the feeling of being so anxious honestly ruins everything especially when you’re just trying to have fun with no worries , my parents are so strict especially with me being a girl i am locked away in my house and almost all my friends knowing I’m not allowed to go out to the point they just don’t ask to make plans anymore yk honestly ruins your teenage years and friendships
Literally the ONLY podcast I listen to idc about the professionalism I think that’s exactly what drives me in because it’s chill & you guys are everywhere exploring! We don’t want the “suit & tie” podcasts! lol ❤
I JUST LOVE THIS PODCAST THE TOPICS ARE SO RELATABLE AND THE CONTENT IS JUST PERFECT !!, STRICT PARENTS ARE A DIFFICULT TOPIC TO DICUSS AS HAVING SOME BUT I LOVE THE RELATABLE CONTENT
Nat please don’t ever feel "why would they want us?" Girl why tf not ??? I been watching you for YEARS and now both of yall and sometime I get busy so I miss videos but I go back and watch the ones I missed, I am literally catching up rn. You’re such an inspiration and I just love for you are as a person🩷 same for Jacob and your family I am glad we get to see them tooo!
the ending made me cry because i’ve been through the same thing it also felt like a trigger for me and unfortunately i can’t find people or my any of my friends to relate so id love to hear your friends side as well 🫶🏻🥺
I love that you guys talked about different parenting towards the end, my earlier teenage years were similar to nats, forever thankful that my parents started to give me more freedom my senior year and like jake said hanging out with friends really did make highschool memories so amazing! i think i know what friend you guys were talking about, it would be such a great podcast if you guys had her on, based off the few videos that she’s been in she seems super funny and so sweet
hearing you talk abt your past issues with your dad and all these fights give me some ray of hope. i always love watching your family vlogs and i always tell my boyfriend how i wish we could do fun things like that but my dad is so old school & doesn’t ever want to travel. then we always argue & it’s so sad.. so whenever i see your family vlogs , i feel like it feels this whole in my heart, idk how to explain but i get hope that one day we could have that. 🥹
This episode really opened my eyes. I felt every word you guys said! Strict parents is one of the hardest things to deal with but the MOST rewarding. Thank you guys for doing such an amazing job as your job and expressing the struggles and helping people understand 💗
i promise you i’ve watched so many podcasts that you can tell have expensive set up’s and mics and pretty backgrounds but they’re monotone orr it makes it just less attractive to the eye. I absolutely adore your guyss podcasts because of the change because of the realness of the box and dogs or whatever it is. I love how you guys act and tbh i turn my phone off half the time or don’t watch i’ll listen and your podcast can actually still keep me so entertained and engaged. You guys make it so easy to connect with you so do not think we care about the perfect set up
I would love a podcast with the girl that you guys talked about. Because I am 17 almost 18 with Hispanic parents. It is really hard. My parents never let me go out during high school. I was never allowed to have a boyfriend and I wasn’t allowed to have social media. I’m going off to the University of Sacramento, which is 3 1/2 hours away from home. My sister is already there. My sister is almost 21 and my parents still have a grip on her, she has to change her location to her iPad and leave it in her apartment and then go out because if once my dad sees that her location is somewhere other than her apartment he’ll be on her ass of where she’s at and I know I’m gonna have to go through that too. I’m gonna be changing my location to my iPad so I can go out so yes, this podcast would mean the world to me.🥺❤️❤️
I’m like 3 weeks late but having strict parents is so real. My mom wasnt strict but she didn’t loosen until I finally turned 18 in March. I live with other members and I felt like I couldn’t do anything without being judged. When I had a bf at the age of 13-14, they reacted so badly and that made me scared for anyone I date to meet my family. I’ve always felt like I wasn’t allowed to do anything because I was the oldest and felt like my feelings did not matter. It still feels this way, but now that I’m going to college I hope they loosen up a little. I appreciate you guys for bringing up this topic :)
I love the authenticity of this podcast . It’s so chill and relaxed compared to other usual podcast and I LOVE THE WAY IT IS NOW AND HOW THE LOCATIONS CHANGE AS YALL TRAVEL
i literally teared up watching the end, i relate to nat so much bc i’m have been going thru the ever since i could remember. my dad is so much about safety as well so i don’t get enough freedom. keep in mind i’m the oldest and working part time at in n out and i thought getting a job at 16 would elevate his thoughts…flash forward 2 years im still in the same situation. senior year was probably one of the best school years i had, i was getting the worst curfews known to man and i would not obey them bc of how much of a good time i was having with my friends. and my dad also thinks of me as something i’m not. i hope to one be able to help my dad and build him up to what nat has done, it gives me hope and makes so happy to see how nat has grown and how her relationship with her dad has grown as well. *sobbing af*
Oh my god this is my new favorite episode. Absolute best duo ever. When I watch the more popular podcasts with the whole set up room and whole crew behind the scenes, I don’t really see the rawness of it. Seeing the Jathaltea podcast move to different locations and seeing that amazon box holding up the mics just brings me so much realness and happiness. It just shows how dedicated you guys are to upload content! Adding to that, I love the funny toxicness in your relationship and the old fashioned parenting that you guys brought up, I found it so so so relatable and refreshing to hear it from other people. I would love to hear your friend’s story about her teenage life. Can’t wait for the next episode and coming uploads! 😊🤍(these sponsors need to start sponsoring 🙄✋)
Awww they are talking about Simmi, who would’ve know Simmi would go through all of that, i remember watching Nat and Jake’s videos and she would seem so happy but no one ones behind closed doors, Simmi should be on the podcast!!🫶
Loved this podcast, I’ve been watching nat since 2020 and I’ve been looking up to her ever since. I also had very strict parents growing up which led me to do the things they were “protecting me from” which led me to a bad mental state. I ended up moving out at 19 and now I’m very happy it’s been hard. But watching Nat and Jake achieve all their goals motivates me and my boyfriend to continue pursuing the goals we have. Currently in school for nursing:) Nat, thank you for all your videos they helped me not feel alone through all those tough times. I can’t wait to see all you guys achieve.
Omg love that you guys give ur opinion on parenting topics ik ur gonna be the best parents some days but let me tell u from experience everything you once want to happen as a parent turns out the opposite 😅💕
I love this !! I literally moved out with my boyfriend when I turned 18 back in October of 2023 . I had strict parents and I couldn’t do anything but work and school and go out once every occasion! THANK YOU NAT AND JAKE FOR SHARING I LOVE YOURE VIDEOS SO MUCH 💗💗 ( are you guys coming to texas next 🫣)
I love how yall travel I don’t think the background really matters you guys topics are nice and entertaining and that’s what matters don’t overthink it yall are doing amazing 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
46:40 literally how Joel is! That boy will disrespect and talk back to my dad and my dad won’t do shit about it. Back then when I would even smack my lips that would be the end of it 😂😭
I would love to hear yall talk more about your parents’ views / marriage expectations. My older sister def paved the way for us to not have to struggle as much re: building a life with our significant others outside of marriage. Especially if you bring in Edith/ Paz
Thats not what they meant Jake literally said he’s not really that comfortable wearing revealing stuff he’s more conservative nat is different she has a different style
this podcast felt really close to home for me. i’m 20 y/o & i still have major anxiety when it comes to my parents & never wanting to feel like a disappointment cause im literally the only child. it’s so draining. i’m scared to even be my own person because of my mom.
I like 1000% how your podcast is! Please no worries about the background or anything like the other podcast I loooooooooove the way ya'll have ya'll podcast because it's so real, different, and entertaining I love that it's not so micro managed like studio because ya'll get to be more ya'll self and relaxed.....I hope and pray all continues amazing for ya'll in every chapter😊
nat literally lived my life, im the sibling who trained my dad and my siblings have it easier and yet they don't realize it all , thanks so much for speaking out
Nat I feel like you can’t speak on strict parents but Edith is only one who had it first hand to an extreme. You were privileged to do many things such as moving in with Jake before marriage and doing things that Edith was not allowed to do.
i agree to an extent but i also think she didn’t get much of the “strict parenting” because she stood her ground with them. I know she mentioned it in a previous podcast.
She can absolutely talk about her own experience with the same parents, it’s not a competition. Comparing siblings on the internet is such a weird thing to do you do not know them.
Everything Nat said I can relate to as well… growing up with old school Hispanic parents is hard especially if your a girl…I’m now 30 mother of 3 boys and til this day I also get anxious about talking about my childhood or if anything gets brought up from the past I can’t talk about it…my mom recently has had some therapy herself and realized a lot of things her and my dad had put my sister and brother and myself through and apologizes for it ..I always tell her she doesn’t need to apologize because it’s so hard for me to talk about it or tell her how I really felt during that time I always just brush it off and tell her that I’m fine that they weren’t bad parents and that I’m not affected by my childhood even though I really am 🫤 I just rather not talk about it
I immediately started crying as I saw Nathaly cry. I would love to read a book of hers one day where I can emotionally relate to her experiences ❤️I really look forward to that
I got pregnant at 19 I moved out at 24 cause I couldn't deal with My parents being strict it effected my mental health my anxiety is bad...but now I got 4 kids got my own place my own car n taking my kids out every where they made me stronger
Aww Nat ❤ I went through the same exact thing and what helped is all of us aging and coming to a place where we can now talk about it. It heals those traumas when the parents acknowledge it and explain, and apologize. And we’re not talking normal parenting. In the Hispanic culture, it is very toxic, and suppressing, and instills so much fear into you. Our old school parents didn’t know how to communicate or explain. It was always the demanding only and not in a nice way. These are the traumas that we go through. With age comes wisdom in all aspects, so it will get better ❤
hi nat and jake! i just wanted to let y’all know i left my toxic relationship after watching the podcast from a month ago it really opened my eyes and i am super thankful. i love y’all sm!!❤❤
I can relate so much to nat like my parents were so strict on me going out and now that I’m 20 almost 21 and moved out they are for sure less strict on my siblings like howwww😭 my siblings for sure got the better version of my parents and I had to go through it for them😭😭😭
I can’t believe that you both of are in another state. God work in lots of ways.. God bless Nathaly and Jacob and both of your family’s and all of your friends. Lots of love and blessings to Nathaly and Jacob and both of your family’s and all of your friends. Your family from TH-cam.🙏🌈🙏🌈🙏🩶❤️🤍💖🩷🩵💙💚🤎😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I just wanted to say, I love hearing you guys talk abt anything bc of the people you guys are, I never think abt the set up or ever come across thinking wow unprofessional or this is unentertaining noooo, I love YOU guys 🥹🥹🥹🥹💛💛💛💛
when i was younger, i had STRICT parents too and at the time i was dating my fiancé, so i would lie to my parents saying i’d see my friends (all females) and i would also try so hard to even go out with just my friends, but those ex friends didn’t understand the position i was in and they all distanced themselves instead of understanding what i was going through- now im 20 living with my fiancé, and for those going through similar childhoods, you are definitely not alone
I’m so thankful yall talk about these topic I wish I could go back to school to run away from all these problems I have going on it’s so hard leaving with your family and they expect from you to be the perfect daughter, I only have one friend that I ft with cause I can’t go out it’s already a year since I graduated high school and I feel like f**k cause I can’t go out, or at least breathe 🧘🏻♀️ my family is so toxic and extremely strict like it’s so hard man .. sometimes it’s hard cause they just tell yu lots of things and then you start overthinking, crying yourself to sleep, wake up and again the same things .. but literally parents have to realize that in this world.. que dejen vivir a sus hijos su vida si con precaución nd be aware of their surroundings cause yk.. but it really sucks having to leave this life 🫠🫠🥲..
The final quarter of this episode resonated with me a loottt. I think that might be why it's so tricky for me to make friends now. But for some reason, me not being able to hang out with people eventually led to me losing interest in hanging out with people. Now my best friend is a camera and my channel, but who knows maybe someday it'll change 💫 As always, amazing episode ❤🔥
So excited to watch! I’m going to be 21 in august and I’m barley starting to be free and live my life. I have definitely seen a difference in how happy I am!!
Definitely related to this, even till this day I would get anxious with my parents because they had so much control over me and I’m married.. my husband stood up for me since I’ve never been able to and now my family doesn’t talk to me it’s been almost a year now. It’s sad but I don’t have that anxious feeling anymore.
The ending 😢 Although you had a rough moment of how you feel your parents helicopter parented you and that being a triggering moment....you turned out to be such a great women who appears to have great things going on at such a young age with a healthy relationship....your parents mightve not been the best but they did something right.❤❤
I felt so identified with the topic of strict parents, since they let me go out I feel like I don't enjoy the moment 100%, I'm always nervous that someone who knows My parents sees me and tell them what i am doing although I'm not doing anything wrong, other than having the need to look at my phone every minute in case they call or text me. In fact I'm the most cowardly person and yet they think I'm going with boys or simple other places but where they let me go. I'm 17 now but i feel like nothing Change that much. In fact I think is Worse.
aw i know how all of this feels, i don’t know if my mom is necessarily strict, but i know i suffered from social anxiety which was pretty bad on its own but to even think about asking my mom for permission made me feel so sick, to the point i would never go anywhere just because i didn’t want to ask her, now i’m about to be 17, and i’ve never gone to a party, i don’t have any girlfriends and sometimes i feel like i’m never going to live my teenage dream but i’ve cried about it so many times now that i’m just kind of numb and made up my mind that my time will be when i’m in college 🥲
Remember to always be strong and understand whatever you are going through right now is only preparing you for the future❤️
hiiii natt hi jake i jus wanna say i relate to nat so much nat is such a motivation fr especially cuz i relate so much to her dealing with strict parents
Definitely needed to hear this. 💯
I needed to hear this ❤️🩹
ily so much ❤❤
definitely needed to hear this 🥺🫶🏻
I felt SO SEEN when Nat said she felt like something was wrong and her heart beating fast when she was out with friends. Crazy how strict parents mess us up so much. I’m married and moved out now but I still feel the effects from living in my parent’s house. That part felt like therapy 😭
But because of our parents we should be thankful they were strict because in a way we grow up to be responsible people. And we know we will be the same with our children because we live in a cruel world unfortunately we can’t be roaming around free at a young age
@@chabelinambo7380I wouldn’t say I’m thankful honestly and I wouldn’t treat my kids the same way. We all come from different experiences and we all react differently to them. I spent most of my teenage years in my room alone only able to text my friends. Which back then I didn’t have my own phone until I started working and paying for it. And the one chance they gave me to go out I was always getting spammed with texts and calls from them. I feel Nat because it brings up a lot of emotions and it’s hard to talk about to people that don’t GET it
As someone who grew up with ZERO rules, and extremely lenient parents.....it's a different kind of messed up. I often wished my parents had kept a tighter rein on me. I guess the grass is always greener on the other side
55:47 STOP when I heard the end, I BALLED MY EYES OUT. I would love to be on the podcast someday and share my experience with dealing with strict parents 🥺. I know it’ll help out SO MANY people out there. Anyone who’s going through a tough time right now.. just know that THERE’S A LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL!!! Nat always reminded me of this despite me feeling like I was trapped and there was no way out. Just know that you’re not alone! ❤️
Nat please don’t get in your head about the background/set up. I love seeing the authenticity of your podcast and I genuinely am intrigued on your topics and updates on your lifestyle. Who cares about the background! 😊❤
I agree!!
I agree! I love the organic content and vibe! It just shows the authenticity ♥️♥️♥️♥️
tbh i like how they travel around and film in different places because it’s not in one place
the gaslighting Nathaly “it’s ur fault, you let me get away with it” 😂😂
That whole convo was gaslighting 😂
definitely relate to the childhood part. i’m 20 almost 21 moved out on my own & always think about how my mom was always so strict on me being the oldest.
If the girl can wear a thong bikini then the guy can most def wear a muscle shirt……. 😵💫
no one said e can’t he simply just doesn’t want to...did you even listen to the conversation
I have the same trauma Nat and I love the idea of putting your friend on the podcast and hear the similar stories of what we have gone through in our childhood.
We love you guys!! ❤🫂
I think I will sob the whole podcast if they do. 😭 It’s a touchy subject even when you’re out it already
You guys dont NEED a podcast studio! In my opinion i LOVEE that its not so professional with a backdrop bc then I feel like its not authentic. With you guys taking us everywhere you go it feels soo cool! Its like having a yap session catching up on what you guys r doing in life! I love it🫶🏽
The ending made me so emotional and comfort because I’m LIVING rn what nat went through with our traditional Mexican parents and it’s honestly the hardest even if they don’t know it’s so hard to not have freedom 😔can’t wait till I have my freedom and I hope u can make more pods taking about situation us Hispanic kids go through
nat saying she can protect herself but didnt she call jacob bc a man was following her around lulu and he drove there to “protect” her😭😭😭 then proceeds to follow the man around the parking lot
Honestly listening to this podcast my heart was beating fast the whole time. I’m currently in that cycle and I can’t stand up for myself bc they trained me that way and being able to know that I’m the only one makes me feel relieved. More episodes like these would honestly be so helpful for me and everyone that has gone through/ going through having strict parents!!❤️ It’s so hard to talk about especially when others don’t understand how it is to live through that cycle.
28:00 the gaslighting is insane dawg 😭😭 sayin its jakes fault for letting her get away with it nahhh 💀💀💀
@@alexisanderson-r7uoh shut up😂😂
shut up😂😂😂
Theyyyy joke around bruhhhh cryyy abttt it
dramatic alert
@@nat.arellanes FACTSSSS
strict parents make sneaky kids. i’m tellin yall. im 21 now and went through all of that. missed a lot of the fun times
thank you for always speaking up about toxic Mexican parents. i always feel so alone and like no one gets it & it breaks my heart hearing everyones awesome life learning stories they went through as teenagers and i have nothing like that. all my memories are of me being locked in the house and losing friends bc i never got to hang out with them. being accused of things that i would never think of doing by my parents. it was so bad to where i hated them for it & our relationship crumbled bc of it, obviously that was just the first layer of things and it just got worse and worse & here i am 24 still heartbroken over the situation and them. im glad you were able to reprogram your dad bc my parents are unreachable and i was thrown out not too long ago with my 1 year old for advocating for myself and sticking up over invasion of privacy and the dictatorship & the poor treatment of my baby
Nat throw a 21st birthday party! it doesn’t have to be anything extravagant because you’ll regret it when you look back years later. You should invite those who are close to you and don’t NEED YOUR whole bloodline there. As a fellow Mexican gal those family members don’t really have your back and are there to just talk bad upon you when you turn your back! The authentic podcast and traveling is amazing, makes yall so unique ❤️
~~NAT, PERTAINING TO THE WHOLE WEARING WHAT OU WANT THING, I THINK JAKE JUST WANTS YOU TO ALWAYS WEAR CLOTHING THAT IS SELF-RESPECTFUL AND ALSO RELATIONSHIP RESPECTFUL AT THE SAME TIME. YOU KNOW HE DOESN'T WANT TO CONTROL YOUR CLOTHING, BUT IT IS HIM BEING A MAN AND PROTECTING YOU AND WANTING ANY OTHERS TO SEE YOU ONLY AS A LADY WITH SOPHISTICATION AND DIGNITY! WE LOVE YOU BOTH!~~MUAH
I am more engaged with your simple set ups because the topics are so natural and great. Forget a fancy backdrop! You both are so well spoken and your chemistry and banter is so entertaining and genuine.
Absolutely wild you guys uploaded a video on this topic ... I've been crying non stop for the past 5 days bc I legitimately can't live my life to the fullest what so ever. It js sucks and I sit in my room and think what am I here for if I'm not living my life (almost called the mental hospital on myself ifykyk). I'm trying I really am, and it sucks even more bc I live with my single father who's pushing 60 and very old school and now an only child (kicked my only brother out @17) . But it js hurt so bad, and I'm trying not to yk .. bc my brother is graduating, and I don't wanna make it all abt me rn. I'm definitely gonna try to hang in there until I go to college (2 more years) and the pre- summer college I'm going to in about 4 weeks . Also he doesnt even allow me to have phone .. im 15. My dead beat "mother" gave me a phone 2020 christmas and he still doesnt know. Sorry for this long ass paragraph, js needed to vent badly .. love you guys
4 weeks is sooo close! Just hang in there!! I know it’s hard right now but it WILL get better
@@Sjsjsjsjsssjsj I really do hope, thank you !
@@Ohja.0 you don’t have to hope, just know it will. :)
I’m rooting for you 💗 it gets better
@@nicollerodriguezz thank you
39:00 let her find out on her own bro she know damn well she’s gonna want u to protect her if a dude do something so why not just respect u and not wear something u don’t like 😂
57:15 is literally the realest, im becoming a junior in highschool and i’ve been using the asb excuse since freshman year, and the feeling of being so anxious honestly ruins everything especially when you’re just trying to have fun with no worries , my parents are so strict especially with me being a girl i am locked away in my house and almost all my friends knowing I’m not allowed to go out to the point they just don’t ask to make plans anymore yk honestly ruins your teenage years and friendships
seriously props to all you guys who had to go through all that growing up
Literally the ONLY podcast I listen to idc about the professionalism I think that’s exactly what drives me in because it’s chill & you guys are everywhere exploring! We don’t want the “suit & tie” podcasts! lol ❤
I JUST LOVE THIS PODCAST THE TOPICS ARE SO RELATABLE AND THE CONTENT IS JUST PERFECT !!, STRICT PARENTS ARE A DIFFICULT TOPIC TO DICUSS AS HAVING SOME BUT I LOVE THE RELATABLE CONTENT
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yess i would love to see them talk abt this more:)
@@Melanyaylinn 100 % I agree !!
Nat please don’t ever feel "why would they want us?" Girl why tf not ??? I been watching you for YEARS and now both of yall and sometime I get busy so I miss videos but I go back and watch the ones I missed, I am literally catching up rn. You’re such an inspiration and I just love for you are as a person🩷 same for Jacob and your family I am glad we get to see them tooo!
the ending made me cry because i’ve been through the same thing it also felt like a trigger for me and unfortunately i can’t find people or my any of my friends to relate so id love to hear your friends side as well 🫶🏻🥺
I love that you guys talked about different parenting towards the end, my earlier teenage years were similar to nats, forever thankful that my parents started to give me more freedom my senior year and like jake said hanging out with friends really did make highschool memories so amazing! i think i know what friend you guys were talking about, it would be such a great podcast if you guys had her on, based off the few videos that she’s been in she seems super funny and so sweet
hearing you talk abt your past issues with your dad and all these fights give me some ray of hope. i always love watching your family vlogs and i always tell my boyfriend how i wish we could do fun things like that but my dad is so old school & doesn’t ever want to travel. then we always argue & it’s so sad.. so whenever i see your family vlogs , i feel like it feels this whole in my heart, idk how to explain but i get hope that one day we could have that. 🥹
As a person who has strict parents I want to hear this
Perfect timing ! Im about to drive home definitely listening to this.
GIRL SAME LOL!
This episode really opened my eyes. I felt every word you guys said! Strict parents is one of the hardest things to deal with but the MOST rewarding. Thank you guys for doing such an amazing job as your job and expressing the struggles and helping people understand 💗
i promise you i’ve watched so many podcasts that you can tell have expensive set up’s and mics and pretty backgrounds but they’re monotone orr it makes it just less attractive to the eye. I absolutely adore your guyss podcasts because of the change because of the realness of the box and dogs or whatever it is. I love how you guys act and tbh i turn my phone off half the time or don’t watch i’ll listen and your podcast can actually still keep me so entertained and engaged. You guys make it so easy to connect with you so do not think we care about the perfect set up
I would love a podcast with the girl that you guys talked about. Because I am 17 almost 18 with Hispanic parents. It is really hard. My parents never let me go out during high school. I was never allowed to have a boyfriend and I wasn’t allowed to have social media. I’m going off to the University of Sacramento, which is 3 1/2 hours away from home. My sister is already there. My sister is almost 21 and my parents still have a grip on her, she has to change her location to her iPad and leave it in her apartment and then go out because if once my dad sees that her location is somewhere other than her apartment he’ll be on her ass of where she’s at and I know I’m gonna have to go through that too. I’m gonna be changing my location to my iPad so I can go out so yes, this podcast would mean the world to me.🥺❤️❤️
BEEN waiting for this podcast to see how you guys were doing!! beyond happy for you guys ♥️
I’m like 3 weeks late but having strict parents is so real. My mom wasnt strict but she didn’t loosen until I finally turned 18 in March. I live with other members and I felt like I couldn’t do anything without being judged. When I had a bf at the age of 13-14, they reacted so badly and that made me scared for anyone I date to meet my family. I’ve always felt like I wasn’t allowed to do anything because I was the oldest and felt like my feelings did not matter. It still feels this way, but now that I’m going to college I hope they loosen up a little. I appreciate you guys for bringing up this topic :)
I love the authenticity of this podcast . It’s so chill and relaxed compared to other usual podcast and I LOVE THE WAY IT IS NOW AND HOW THE LOCATIONS CHANGE AS YALL TRAVEL
Yesss another podcast I’m so excited I been waiting sooo long
i literally teared up watching the end, i relate to nat so much bc i’m have been going thru the ever since i could remember. my dad is so much about safety as well so i don’t get enough freedom. keep in mind i’m the oldest and working part time at in n out and i thought getting a job at 16 would elevate his thoughts…flash forward 2 years im still in the same situation. senior year was probably one of the best school years i had, i was getting the worst curfews known to man and i would not obey them bc of how much of a good time i was having with my friends. and my dad also thinks of me as something i’m not. i hope to one be able to help my dad and build him up to what nat has done, it gives me hope and makes so happy to see how nat has grown and how her relationship with her dad has grown as well. *sobbing af*
can’t believe nat is almost 21!! so crazy! i loved this podcast ❤ maybe lululemon? or aritzia 🙉😂
Oh my god this is my new favorite episode. Absolute best duo ever. When I watch the more popular podcasts with the whole set up room and whole crew behind the scenes, I don’t really see the rawness of it. Seeing the Jathaltea podcast move to different locations and seeing that amazon box holding up the mics just brings me so much realness and happiness. It just shows how dedicated you guys are to upload content! Adding to that, I love the funny toxicness in your relationship and the old fashioned parenting that you guys brought up, I found it so so so relatable and refreshing to hear it from other people. I would love to hear your friend’s story about her teenage life. Can’t wait for the next episode and coming uploads! 😊🤍(these sponsors need to start sponsoring 🙄✋)
Awww they are talking about Simmi, who would’ve know Simmi would go through all of that, i remember watching Nat and Jake’s videos and she would seem so happy but no one ones behind closed doors, Simmi should be on the podcast!!🫶
Loved this podcast, I’ve been watching nat since 2020 and I’ve been looking up to her ever since. I also had very strict parents growing up which led me to do the things they were “protecting me from” which led me to a bad mental state. I ended up moving out at 19 and now I’m very happy it’s been hard. But watching Nat and Jake achieve all their goals motivates me and my boyfriend to continue pursuing the goals we have. Currently in school for nursing:) Nat, thank you for all your videos they helped me not feel alone through all those tough times. I can’t wait to see all you guys achieve.
I would love the idea of bringing your friend to the podcast, it’ll help so her and some us a lot. I love this podcast 🫶🏼
nat don't wprry about how the "backdrop" of your Podcast looks. We love the home setting MUCH more than the boring backdrops with bright lights.
Omg love that you guys give ur opinion on parenting topics ik ur gonna be the best parents some days but let me tell u from experience everything you once want to happen as a parent turns out the opposite 😅💕
Waiting for marriage isn’t not being “realistic” most people do it for religious reasons !! I completely understand both sides!!
I love this !! I literally moved out with my boyfriend when I turned 18 back in October of 2023 . I had strict parents and I couldn’t do anything but work and school and go out once every occasion! THANK YOU NAT AND JAKE FOR SHARING I LOVE YOURE VIDEOS SO MUCH 💗💗 ( are you guys coming to texas next 🫣)
I love how yall travel I don’t think the background really matters you guys topics are nice and entertaining and that’s what matters don’t overthink it yall are doing amazing 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
46:40 literally how Joel is! That boy will disrespect and talk back to my dad and my dad won’t do shit about it. Back then when I would even smack my lips that would be the end of it 😂😭
I would love to hear yall talk more about your parents’ views / marriage expectations. My older sister def paved the way for us to not have to struggle as much re: building a life with our significant others outside of marriage. Especially if you bring in Edith/ Paz
so she can wear what she wants but he can't wear a tankkkkkk topppp?????????
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Thats not what they meant
Jake literally said he’s not really that comfortable wearing revealing stuff he’s more conservative nat is different she has a different style
So did you even listen to their conversation or did you just pick and choose what u wanted to hear so u can hate on her??? yeah that’s what i thought.
SHES JOKING😂
@@JathalteaPodcast.. Definitely not
this podcast felt really close to home for me. i’m 20 y/o & i still have major anxiety when it comes to my parents & never wanting to feel like a disappointment cause im literally the only child. it’s so draining. i’m scared to even be my own person because of my mom.
I like 1000% how your podcast is! Please no worries about the background or anything like the other podcast I loooooooooove the way ya'll have ya'll podcast because it's so real, different, and entertaining I love that it's not so micro managed like studio because ya'll get to be more ya'll self and relaxed.....I hope and pray all continues amazing for ya'll in every chapter😊
nat literally lived my life, im the sibling who trained my dad and my siblings have it easier and yet they don't realize it all , thanks so much for speaking out
Nat I feel like you can’t speak on strict parents but Edith is only one who had it first hand to an extreme. You were privileged to do many things such as moving in with Jake before marriage and doing things that Edith was not allowed to do.
i agree to an extent but i also think she didn’t get much of the “strict parenting” because she stood her ground with them. I know she mentioned it in a previous podcast.
@@samanthasil.g yes that as well.
She can absolutely talk about her own experience with the same parents, it’s not a competition. Comparing siblings on the internet is such a weird thing to do you do not know them.
@@kallyvasquez9410 exactly it’s not a competition. No one is saying anything bad. I can comment what I want and so can you. What’s the issue?
@@stephanieg01nat can say HER experience and you can’t be over here saying that she can’t.
This podcast felt so relatable towards the end and being able to understand what nat went through, thank you so much nat💗
Everything Nat said I can relate to as well… growing up with old school Hispanic parents is hard especially if your a girl…I’m now 30 mother of 3 boys and til this day I also get anxious about talking about my childhood or if anything gets brought up from the past I can’t talk about it…my mom recently has had some therapy herself and realized a lot of things her and my dad had put my sister and brother and myself through and apologizes for it ..I always tell her she doesn’t need to apologize because it’s so hard for me to talk about it or tell her how I really felt during that time I always just brush it off and tell her that I’m fine that they weren’t bad parents and that I’m not affected by my childhood even though I really am 🫤 I just rather not talk about it
I immediately started crying as I saw Nathaly cry. I would love to read a book of hers one day where I can emotionally relate to her experiences ❤️I really look forward to that
I got pregnant at 19 I moved out at 24 cause I couldn't deal with My parents being strict it effected my mental health my anxiety is bad...but now I got 4 kids got my own place my own car n taking my kids out every where they made me stronger
Aww Nat ❤ I went through the same exact thing and what helped is all of us aging and coming to a place where we can now talk about it. It heals those traumas when the parents acknowledge it and explain, and apologize. And we’re not talking normal parenting. In the Hispanic culture, it is very toxic, and suppressing, and instills so much fear into you. Our old school parents didn’t know how to communicate or explain. It was always the demanding only and not in a nice way. These are the traumas that we go through. With age comes wisdom in all aspects, so it will get better ❤
listening to the podcast while cleaning is the best😫🤌🏻
hi nat and jake! i just wanted to let y’all know i left my toxic relationship after watching the podcast from a month ago it really opened my eyes and i am super thankful. i love y’all sm!!❤❤
ughhhh me crying when it comes to the being a teen part! Def wish I could do it all over again and do the right things. Love your guys podcast🩷
The way you guys talk about traveling makes me less patient for my trip to Japan w my bf next year! First trip ever 😩😩
Everyone shut up, my favorite show is starting 🏃♀️
I’m so excited! I can’t wait
THE BEST PODCAST UPLOADED!!!! LOVE YALL🤍
I can relate so much to nat like my parents were so strict on me going out and now that I’m 20 almost 21 and moved out they are for sure less strict on my siblings like howwww😭 my siblings for sure got the better version of my parents and I had to go through it for them😭😭😭
idk im excited to see all the new states you guys go to and adjust to as you go the content has been so different but in a good way!
I can’t believe that you both of are in another state. God work in lots of ways.. God bless Nathaly and Jacob and both of your family’s and all of your friends. Lots of love and blessings to Nathaly and Jacob and both of your family’s and all of your friends. Your family from TH-cam.🙏🌈🙏🌈🙏🩶❤️🤍💖🩷🩵💙💚🤎😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I love you guys podcast! Every episode has so much personality! So happy for your success! ❤
I just wanted to say, I love hearing you guys talk abt anything bc of the people you guys are, I never think abt the set up or ever come across thinking wow unprofessional or this is unentertaining noooo, I love YOU guys 🥹🥹🥹🥹💛💛💛💛
Could you guys make a whole video about your experience with strict parents ? It was very interesting, I felt so seen !
Yes!! I don’t care about the podcast backdrop at all! Love the authenticity:)
when i was younger, i had STRICT parents too and at the time i was dating my fiancé, so i would lie to my parents saying i’d see my friends (all females) and i would also try so hard to even go out with just my friends, but those ex friends didn’t understand the position i was in and they all distanced themselves instead of understanding what i was going through- now im 20 living with my fiancé, and for those going through similar childhoods, you are definitely not alone
I’m so thankful yall talk about these topic I wish I could go back to school to run away from all these problems I have going on it’s so hard leaving with your family and they expect from you to be the perfect daughter, I only have one friend that I ft with cause I can’t go out it’s already a year since I graduated high school and I feel like f**k cause I can’t go out, or at least breathe 🧘🏻♀️ my family is so toxic and extremely strict like it’s so hard man .. sometimes it’s hard cause they just tell yu lots of things and then you start overthinking, crying yourself to sleep, wake up and again the same things .. but literally parents have to realize that in this world.. que dejen vivir a sus hijos su vida si con precaución nd be aware of their surroundings cause yk.. but it really sucks having to leave this life 🫠🫠🥲..
seeing Nat tear up breaks my heart! I love you guys! Best wishes on your summer adventures 🫶
The final quarter of this episode resonated with me a loottt. I think that might be why it's so tricky for me to make friends now. But for some reason, me not being able to hang out with people eventually led to me losing interest in hanging out with people. Now my best friend is a camera and my channel, but who knows maybe someday it'll change 💫 As always, amazing episode ❤🔥
YAYYY NEW PODDCASTT!! thank you jake and nat! you truly made my day 1000x times better♥♥
A podcast I can actually relate to🥹🤡
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Dude if any of your fans are gonna be sponsoring y’all for your birthday, they BETTER get an invite 😂😂😂
28:00 is it OH POLLY?
does nat not talk extremely fast?
42:00 IM CRYING 😭😂😂 Jake is too funny hahaha
So excited to watch! I’m going to be 21 in august and I’m barley starting to be free and live my life. I have definitely seen a difference in how happy I am!!
That’s crazy she controls why u never go shirtless 💀💀
did u even listen 😭 to the podcast that’s not what..
@@nicolee4u yes I did. She literally says “it’s ur fault for letting me get away with it🥺🥺”
Love you guys ! I’m excited to watch
there should be a segment within a podcast episode to answer the questions of those who are in need of advice
We love you guys ❤ I hope you heal from your childhood trauma Nat you got a good thing going on right now keep your head up lovely !
Definitely related to this, even till this day I would get anxious with my parents because they had so much control over me and I’m married.. my husband stood up for me since I’ve never been able to and now my family doesn’t talk to me it’s been almost a year now. It’s sad but I don’t have that anxious feeling anymore.
Personally, I love that the podcast takes place on your guys adventures!!
The ending 😢
Although you had a rough moment of how you feel your parents helicopter parented you and that being a triggering moment....you turned out to be such a great women who appears to have great things going on at such a young age with a healthy relationship....your parents mightve not been the best but they did something right.❤❤
OMG YESS IM SO EARLY IVE BEEN WAITINGGGG I was JUST rewatching all of them just waiting for a podcast 😫‼️
I felt so identified with the topic of strict parents, since they let me go out I feel like I don't enjoy the moment 100%, I'm always nervous that someone who knows My parents sees me and tell them what i am doing although I'm not doing anything wrong, other than having the need to look at my phone every minute in case they call or text me. In fact I'm the most cowardly person and yet they think I'm going with boys or simple other places but where they let me go. I'm 17 now but i feel like nothing Change that much. In fact I think is Worse.
Nat you guys should start scrapbooking and each page or couple pages could be a state so you could show your kids when your older
aw i know how all of this feels, i don’t know if my mom is necessarily strict, but i know i suffered from social anxiety which was pretty bad on its own but to even think about asking my mom for permission made me feel so sick, to the point i would never go anywhere just because i didn’t want to ask her, now i’m about to be 17, and i’ve never gone to a party, i don’t have any girlfriends and sometimes i feel like i’m never going to live my teenage dream but i’ve cried about it so many times now that i’m just kind of numb and made up my mind that my time will be when i’m in college 🥲
can’t wait to watchh!! ahhh so excited! love u guys!
OMFG I teared up at the end it hurt my eyes lol I just feel like you’re my friend girl I watch all your videos.
I love yall you guys are my comfort idc what others say i will always support both of yall especially together i been here since day one ♾️🥰🥰