On vacation, Sleep First: So glad I can take some time really reflecting on my life and goals even more~ Sleep Last: So glad I can keep myself occupied, not thinking about the big decisions in life even more!
Sleep first takes time to reflect on their life and goals all the time, multiple hours a day. I actually think vacation is an abnormal time when people often do their demons. I've heard a Sleep Last person say that he was really looking forward to a vacation where he was going to take a long road trip to be alone with his thoughts. (He also ended up canceling the road trip, funny enough, but he at least liked the *fantasy* of being alone with his thoughts for a long period of time.)
I think those types of sleep first people aren't doing it right. More than enough time to reflect on stuff while doing mundane tasks or trying to fall asleep unsuccessfully. Vacation is mainly for travelling...
@@JonahDempcy I'm Sleep fist and I kinda agree with you that vacation is a time that we try to do our demons, but usually we're not very succed in that, just as you pointed in your example. For instance, at my last vacations I've planned to learn a lot of new stuff, start new projects, make more friends... and, as usual, I didn't... I just spent most of my time in my room, watching TH-cam and Netflix...
VernalVal I do that, but I’m sleep 3rd. It’s because of the consume first. There’s so much information I want to take in and that takes priority over everything else.
If anything, this also makes a lot of sense for sleep-first personality types. We're not talking about literal sleep, but about preserving your energy for when you need it. Since sleep-first personalities habitually preserve a lot of energy, it's to be expected that, once it's time to sleep, you're not tired at all. Developing habits to drain your excess energy at night is a logical response.
So from what I gathered, the sleep last isn’t aware of their thoughts/inner voice. And they’ll often keep going because they don’t know how to listen to themselves because they have so much energy
I literally barely use my inner voice. Not even for reading, although it might have to do with dyslexia but, well... But I have to push for it. It's not an automatic process. I think better out loud. I have visualization issues as well. The only time I 'self reflect' is during depressive episodes. So I'm either completely disconnected or 100% tuning into my worst traits.
I'd love a video about what similarities different types with the same four functions have. So, for instance: INFP, ESTJ, ENFP and ISTJ all have Fi, Ne, Si and Te but stacked in different orders. Can you see any commonalities with these types, because of this? I hope you understand my question. And thanks for awesome. Love you guys!
Meditation is great! It helps you get control over your mind, the thoughts are you. If those thoughts are not serving your high as purpose then reject them.
Im consume/sleep. If people have problem with sleep and don't like meditating - what I do is long baths. I'll be in the nath for an hour and a half just processing.
You got the point across about the importance of sometimes slowing down or even stop. However, I think you're referring to reflection not meditation as prescribed solution. You can reflect by yourself or by talking it out with someone. It includes actively trying to make sense of the past and pass judgement on it. Meditation is about observing your thoughts, letting them pass without judgement, while focusing on your breathing to calm down. At least in its traditional meaning. In my experience the breathing part is the key - calm body is calm mind.
I’m definitely sleep last. When I do stop I usually realize I’m shaving years off my life but then charge again. I’m definitely Blast, Play, Consume , Sleep
I'm pretty sure I have sleep 3rd and yeah crashes happen everytime I try to do something for a while. And I love long showers too. Now lately tried different kinds of meditations. It's hard to find balance between go and rest. When you go, you go and then you crash. I'm at the point where I don't want to do anything because I know what happens everytime. One has to take the slow and steady route😑
Sleep last people scare/annoy the shit outta me. One thing I hate is their misnomer/misuse of the word "meditation". When all you have is 5th gear, even 2nd gear passes for slow to them.
Loving these videos think a great idea would be if the clips you guys put in are transferred to a type of tumblr page. With captions like "sleep last" for this clip. 👍😅
The voice in your head - "Something we all battle" What a detached, mystifying view upon it. And it seems to scare him. And of course, deducing from himself, how everyone else got to experience things. Which we all do. "Everyone got to be our type and have at the core the same priorities as us" I think, for sleep first people, the voice would be a companion and not viewed negatively, wouldn't it? Meh, not a big deal for me. I'm sleep third or second.
@@ewanrobertson5368 I just can't relate to "the inner voice" at all. It's just my thoughts to me, nothing special. I assume I'm play second, sleep third. I feel like I can do both. Could this be a much more significant experience for people with sleep and play in a harsher conflict?
@@ewanrobertson5368 How I see saviours and demons, in both functions and animals, is that the demon, to ourselves, must serve the purpose of the saviour. I.e. you must only do the play when sleep is taken care off. And play actually serves sleep. You only do the outside stuff so that the self analysis is given its justice. So the more sleep, the better. This is why I think I'm play. It annoys me when my body or mind chime in and say stop. I want to function so that I can go out and expend energy. And the functioning is managed by sleep. But I dislike doing it. It's always a drag. I just wanna play with others without having to worry about myself. I don't want to offend you by any means, so feel free to not answer what I'm about to ask you. Can you elaborate on the negative side? You're saying the inner voice (which I think we agree is sleep?) takes responsibility for your competence in the outer world. So sleep takes responsibility for play? This is how I view it myself. Sleep so that I can play. I dislike myself when I have to take a break. Be it because I'm sick, I'm having to sort through my mind, or whatever. What you're saying kind of sounds like saviour play to me. But then you shut down and "sleep" even more. Am I just getting this wrong? Please elaborate a little more 😅
The voice in my head is like a close roommate, or a partner your live with. There's fights and negativity from time to time. But also support, encouragement, understanding, counsels... So a sleep last would be like being trapped in a bad relationship I guess.
I don't battle with the voice in my head. My inner voice is an expert analyst and problem solver. Alone in my thoughts is where I feel calm and centred. INTJ.
I live in my head. My voice and I experience every thought as it happens. Sometimes we daydream too much, and we almost always make judgment calls. We are one, but I can't always quiet my voice for the sake of really living. Because I live in my head, I thought for months I was Sleep first. I'm Sleep last. We all experience the needs differently. Don't get hung up on this guy's language.
When people say "The voice in my head tells me I'm not good enough" are ya'll talking about a literal voice with actual words or is it just a vague feeling being described this way?
Chad Marsellis I think it’s both? Sometimes it’s you talking to yourself. Sometimes I will imagine other people saying it to me. Sometimes it’s just a feeling.
It's my voice, but it doesn't literally say that I'm not good enough. It tells me I need to prepare, research and perfect, etc in order to take a first step. In essence, it's a lack of confidence or surety.
then i guess i don't think i'm typing myself wrong as a sleep last if i literally just had a minor car accident because of lack of sleep and because of my savior consume being on the internet all night throughout this quarantine
Why do I feel like I've seen this video before? Am I psychic? 🔮 Ooh, I know, I must have a time machine I don't know about! Now if only I could figure out where I put it...
Sorry, but I kinda roll my eyes when these Sleep last people finally have the realization that they need to take some time off to self-reflect. Sure, it's kinda petty of me, but for people that have savior Sleep, this is what we do every single day. But we get called lazy and unproductive by the rest of the world, because they don't realize the value of Sleep until they experience a mental breakdown themselves. Those damn n00bs. And then they make a big deal out of these faddy "spiritual journeys" and "meditations", when all those things are really just self-reflection that the more introverted person next to them, that they typically look down upon, does every single damn day.
In Christianity there is wait, watch work...in the agrarian society not like todays you took care of crops and animals and talked with your neighbors. The stimulus of todays world are different.
Too much to say about the Sleep last crash. Just do the "owie report" from that video the other day. Self-disclosure in a supportive environment will boost your mental health and save your life.
Hey guys ....it normal that Sleep i.e "the chicken voice" is really angry at other people? I feel that I show a one ounce of it externally to outside tribe and reaction from others looks like it internal terror and fear of me. Is that normal to have sleep side looks so scary to other people?
Depends. Mine is double masculine and SF, so yes. I'd like it to be better developed, but I starved it in my 20s, so right now I just raise my voice and punch the chair when people try to talk over me. It scares them, and that's the point - I'm in control, I want to express something, and I want little new info. You don't get to "help" right now.
@@dylonias That's something that I'm still struggling with even now, not because I don't want to or feel afraid to push back because I can when shit hits the fan but I've a serious delayed when comes to processing really intense feelings or just being honest even when I am feel safe and secured. I can do it fine when I am between 1-10 but anything beyond especially when something doesn't ST work then I will end up going into myself internally to figure out my emotions with ST sleep and if I can't then my SF impulses will do it for me regardless if it's what I really want as long it makes me feel "better". It makes so hard to connect with people in the here and now. Maybe if I try to emulate what Infps, enfps do then maybe I change since their functions are very tailored to their personal values instead of other people,
Yeah, I think I know now. I'm a sleep last who considered being sleep first for a while...😓 Jesus, this is embarrassing. I thought "thinking about 50000 different trains of thought in a minute was "sleep". Mostly because I wasn't actually doing anything. Sleep is when I do calligraphy or repetitive tasks that require no creativity like "checking your schedule" (gonna pretend I actually have a schedule and not just follow my memory, lol) Certainly a game changer. 😶
@gregsander8439 Try not to beat yourself up over it. This is a learning experience for all of us, and as humans, we are born to be blind to our 'true' selves. You're also way further on the self-discovery journey that most others on this planet, so be proud of your achievements. - A fellow sleep last :)
Last year I was running a business at the same time as a full time job, quit my job and went to Indonesia for a month, climbed 4 volcanoes and visited 5 Islands and regret that I did not do some spiritual stuff. I think that I have anxious ADHD. Got a coach now to help me from finding a girl friend, also get the big spikes of energy for a short time and kinesthetic crashes. University was a whole other story of low quality hedonism and partying at the same time as a part time job as a door to door sales rep. I find it offensive when people say I an introvert because I'm in my head✨which is sometimes true. Started diving recently, that is a cool sport to get me out of my head and into my body. Started running and having bath with invents sticks, then feel guilty afterward because I have not yet done boring X Y Z task. Oh it's exhausting sometimes to be me. But hey life is not so bad, I have done allot. I love listening to the jungle or rain against the window it's just do mezmerizing. If only the humans could stop feasting on social media and do or not do something else. I'm such a contradiction sometimes as people sometimes say I'm grounded like it's a compliment, and I'm like, nah I want to be called energetic. 🐅
On vacation,
Sleep First: So glad I can take some time really reflecting on my life and goals even more~
Sleep Last: So glad I can keep myself occupied, not thinking about the big decisions in life even more!
Sleep first takes time to reflect on their life and goals all the time, multiple hours a day. I actually think vacation is an abnormal time when people often do their demons. I've heard a Sleep Last person say that he was really looking forward to a vacation where he was going to take a long road trip to be alone with his thoughts. (He also ended up canceling the road trip, funny enough, but he at least liked the *fantasy* of being alone with his thoughts for a long period of time.)
I think those types of sleep first people aren't doing it right. More than enough time to reflect on stuff while doing mundane tasks or trying to fall asleep unsuccessfully. Vacation is mainly for travelling...
@@JonahDempcy I'm Sleep fist and I kinda agree with you that vacation is a time that we try to do our demons, but usually we're not very succed in that, just as you pointed in your example. For instance, at my last vacations I've planned to learn a lot of new stuff, start new projects, make more friends... and, as usual, I didn't... I just spent most of my time in my room, watching TH-cam and Netflix...
We need a lesson for sleepers on how to get going.
Consume /sleep. Watch TH-cam, take a nap. That's my day.
@@justinwhite2725 same
niceone haha
I mean, it's kind of just... get going.
@@ethanpintar5454idiottttticccc
The more videos I watch from you guys the more convinced I am I have no clue what fucking type I am
😂 Don’t worry, self-typing can often be mistaken anyway. The best route to go is to get professionally tested by them.
ME OMG
Does not realising how stressed you are about exams until you’re waking up at 4:00 and puking in the toilet count?
Trying to keep it together when you are having a panic attack in public is rough
So not sleeping until your body physically makes you *isn't* the norm?
VernalVal I do that, but I’m sleep 3rd. It’s because of the consume first. There’s so much information I want to take in and that takes priority over everything else.
@@LemonMeIon How did you identify which of your functions is Sleep, Consume, etc?
@@LemonMeIon Exactly this is me lol.
If anything, this also makes a lot of sense for sleep-first personality types. We're not talking about literal sleep, but about preserving your energy for when you need it. Since sleep-first personalities habitually preserve a lot of energy, it's to be expected that, once it's time to sleep, you're not tired at all. Developing habits to drain your excess energy at night is a logical response.
@@SimpleAmadeus That's so interesting. I wonder if that's the case. (Sleep first who relates a lot to this)
So from what I gathered, the sleep last isn’t aware of their thoughts/inner voice. And they’ll often keep going because they don’t know how to listen to themselves because they have so much energy
I literally barely use my inner voice. Not even for reading, although it might have to do with dyslexia but, well...
But I have to push for it. It's not an automatic process. I think better out loud. I have visualization issues as well.
The only time I 'self reflect' is during depressive episodes. So I'm either completely disconnected or 100% tuning into my worst traits.
"they’ll often keep going because they don’t know how to listen to themselves"
Yes absolutely
I'd love a video about what similarities different types with the same four functions have. So, for instance: INFP, ESTJ, ENFP and ISTJ all have Fi, Ne, Si and Te but stacked in different orders. Can you see any commonalities with these types, because of this?
I hope you understand my question. And thanks for awesome. Love you guys!
Youdothedishes GOD PLEASE DAVE
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Meditation is great! It helps you get control over your mind, the thoughts are you. If those thoughts are not serving your high as purpose then reject them.
Im consume/sleep. If people have problem with sleep and don't like meditating - what I do is long baths. I'll be in the nath for an hour and a half just processing.
if you have sleep last meditate bc ur scared to do it.
I thought I was a sleepy boi but now I'm uncertain.
You got the point across about the importance of sometimes slowing down or even stop. However, I think you're referring to reflection not meditation as prescribed solution.
You can reflect by yourself or by talking it out with someone. It includes actively trying to make sense of the past and pass judgement on it.
Meditation is about observing your thoughts, letting them pass without judgement, while focusing on your breathing to calm down. At least in its traditional meaning.
In my experience the breathing part is the key - calm body is calm mind.
I agree talking with someone can help you organise your inner world. It's a way among aothers
Damn! I must be sleep last! This is so relatable! -said everyone
guilty as charged
I’m definitely sleep last. When I do stop I usually realize I’m shaving years off my life but then charge again. I’m definitely Blast, Play, Consume , Sleep
Sleep first + anxiety can blur the line
I'm pretty sure I have sleep 3rd and yeah crashes happen everytime I try to do something for a while. And I love long showers too. Now lately tried different kinds of meditations. It's hard to find balance between go and rest. When you go, you go and then you crash. I'm at the point where I don't want to do anything because I know what happens everytime. One has to take the slow and steady route😑
Sleep last people scare/annoy the shit outta me.
One thing I hate is their misnomer/misuse of the word "meditation".
When all you have is 5th gear, even 2nd gear passes for slow to them.
Loving these videos think a great idea would be if the clips you guys put in are transferred to a type of tumblr page. With captions like "sleep last" for this clip. 👍😅
I wish my meltdowns looked like that
I did 9 races in 4 days at the World Masters Rowing Hungary 2019. MF Se-Ti CPB(S)
ESTP Baaf That’s that double masculine ST consume lol. Always wanting to do stuff in reality
The voice in your head - "Something we all battle"
What a detached, mystifying view upon it. And it seems to scare him. And of course, deducing from himself, how everyone else got to experience things. Which we all do. "Everyone got to be our type and have at the core the same priorities as us"
I think, for sleep first people, the voice would be a companion and not viewed negatively, wouldn't it?
Meh, not a big deal for me. I'm sleep third or second.
@@ewanrobertson5368 I just can't relate to "the inner voice" at all. It's just my thoughts to me, nothing special. I assume I'm play second, sleep third. I feel like I can do both. Could this be a much more significant experience for people with sleep and play in a harsher conflict?
@@ewanrobertson5368 How I see saviours and demons, in both functions and animals, is that the demon, to ourselves, must serve the purpose of the saviour. I.e. you must only do the play when sleep is taken care off. And play actually serves sleep. You only do the outside stuff so that the self analysis is given its justice. So the more sleep, the better. This is why I think I'm play. It annoys me when my body or mind chime in and say stop. I want to function so that I can go out and expend energy. And the functioning is managed by sleep. But I dislike doing it. It's always a drag. I just wanna play with others without having to worry about myself.
I don't want to offend you by any means, so feel free to not answer what I'm about to ask you. Can you elaborate on the negative side? You're saying the inner voice (which I think we agree is sleep?) takes responsibility for your competence in the outer world. So sleep takes responsibility for play? This is how I view it myself. Sleep so that I can play. I dislike myself when I have to take a break. Be it because I'm sick, I'm having to sort through my mind, or whatever. What you're saying kind of sounds like saviour play to me. But then you shut down and "sleep" even more. Am I just getting this wrong? Please elaborate a little more 😅
The voice in my head is like a close roommate, or a partner your live with. There's fights and negativity from time to time. But also support, encouragement, understanding, counsels... So a sleep last would be like being trapped in a bad relationship I guess.
I don't battle with the voice in my head. My inner voice is an expert analyst and problem solver. Alone in my thoughts is where I feel calm and centred. INTJ.
I live in my head. My voice and I experience every thought as it happens. Sometimes we daydream too much, and we almost always make judgment calls. We are one, but I can't always quiet my voice for the sake of really living. Because I live in my head, I thought for months I was Sleep first. I'm Sleep last. We all experience the needs differently. Don't get hung up on this guy's language.
Haha, it really helped convincing with the x2 speed "IHADAPANICATTACK!"
When people say "The voice in my head tells me I'm not good enough" are ya'll talking about a literal voice with actual words or is it just a vague feeling being described this way?
Chad Marsellis I think it’s both? Sometimes it’s you talking to yourself. Sometimes I will imagine other people saying it to me. Sometimes it’s just a feeling.
It's my voice, but it doesn't literally say that I'm not good enough. It tells me I need to prepare, research and perfect, etc in order to take a first step. In essence, it's a lack of confidence or surety.
then i guess i don't think i'm typing myself wrong as a sleep last if i literally just had a minor car accident because of lack of sleep and because of my savior consume being on the internet all night throughout this quarantine
What was the episode that speak about sleeping
Thanks to this video (& the googlez), I see your system actually accounts for my order.
Interesting...
#humblepie
Why do I feel like I've seen this video before? Am I psychic? 🔮 Ooh, I know, I must have a time machine I don't know about! Now if only I could figure out where I put it...
Sorry, but I kinda roll my eyes when these Sleep last people finally have the realization that they need to take some time off to self-reflect. Sure, it's kinda petty of me, but for people that have savior Sleep, this is what we do every single day. But we get called lazy and unproductive by the rest of the world, because they don't realize the value of Sleep until they experience a mental breakdown themselves. Those damn n00bs. And then they make a big deal out of these faddy "spiritual journeys" and "meditations", when all those things are really just self-reflection that the more introverted person next to them, that they typically look down upon, does every single damn day.
The immaturity of your language indicates some issues you might want to resolve further. Go back to sleep.
ᄂDEADSOONᄀ 🥴🥴lol
very single decider of you to rant abt people like that
*Tiger Blood*
In Christianity there is wait, watch work...in the agrarian society not like todays you took care of crops and animals and talked with your neighbors. The stimulus of todays world are different.
Too much to say about the Sleep last crash. Just do the "owie report" from that video the other day. Self-disclosure in a supportive environment will boost your mental health and save your life.
you should tune youtube clips to 1× speed instead of 1.25× or whatever that manic clip was
Hey guys ....it normal that Sleep i.e "the chicken voice" is really angry at other people?
I feel that I show a one ounce of it externally to outside tribe and reaction from others looks like it internal terror and fear of me.
Is that normal to have sleep side looks so scary to other people?
Depends. Mine is double masculine and SF, so yes. I'd like it to be better developed, but I starved it in my 20s, so right now I just raise my voice and punch the chair when people try to talk over me. It scares them, and that's the point - I'm in control, I want to express something, and I want little new info. You don't get to "help" right now.
@@dylonias
That's something that I'm still struggling with even now, not because I don't want to or feel afraid to push back because I can when shit hits the fan but I've a serious delayed when comes to processing really intense feelings or just being honest even when I am feel safe and secured.
I can do it fine when I am between 1-10 but anything beyond especially when something doesn't ST work then I will end up going into myself internally to figure out my emotions with ST sleep and if I can't then my SF impulses will do it for me regardless if it's what I really want as long it makes me feel "better".
It makes so hard to connect with people in the here and now. Maybe if I try to emulate what Infps, enfps do then maybe I change since their functions are very tailored to their personal values instead of other people,
Don't know if I'm blast last or play last. 😟
Yeah, I think I know now. I'm a sleep last who considered being sleep first for a while...😓
Jesus, this is embarrassing. I thought "thinking about 50000 different trains of thought in a minute was "sleep". Mostly because I wasn't actually doing anything.
Sleep is when I do calligraphy or repetitive tasks that require no creativity like "checking your schedule" (gonna pretend I actually have a schedule and not just follow my memory, lol)
Certainly a game changer. 😶
@gregsander8439 Try not to beat yourself up over it. This is a learning experience for all of us, and as humans, we are born to be blind to our 'true' selves.
You're also way further on the self-discovery journey that most others on this planet, so be proud of your achievements.
- A fellow sleep last :)
Sheen was on steroids when he went off back then. At least thats what he says.
Greg Sander there’s an interview out there where he says it was a cocaine addiction
MK Ultra Glich
Last year I was running a business at the same time as a full time job, quit my job and went to Indonesia for a month, climbed 4 volcanoes and visited 5 Islands and regret that I did not do some spiritual stuff. I think that I have anxious ADHD. Got a coach now to help me from finding a girl friend, also get the big spikes of energy for a short time and kinesthetic crashes. University was a whole other story of low quality hedonism and partying at the same time as a part time job as a door to door sales rep. I find it offensive when people say I an introvert because I'm in my head✨which is sometimes true. Started diving recently, that is a cool sport to get me out of my head and into my body. Started running and having bath with invents sticks, then feel guilty afterward because I have not yet done boring X Y Z task. Oh it's exhausting sometimes to be me. But hey life is not so bad, I have done allot. I love listening to the jungle or rain against the window it's just do mezmerizing. If only the humans could stop feasting on social media and do or not do something else. I'm such a contradiction sometimes as people sometimes say I'm grounded like it's a compliment, and I'm like, nah I want to be called energetic. 🐅
Maybe you don’t understand meditation 🤨