@@nixxxxxxie yes I use to have a spending problem now it’s all profit. I normally make around 600-800 extra a month. You get to go shopping and make money at the same time and yes I do keep some of it but the profit overweights the items I do keep pretty much making it free.
Before I got a minute in I knew she was a shopaholic. When people need to shop and they’re not just rich and bored there’s always a deeper issue. She needs an intervention and a therapist to talk about what’s really going on. She’s coping. It’s just like having any other addiction.
Hey Graham, you financial advice is pretty good and all, but for some reason videos of someone blowing huge amounts of cash, and then you reacting to it saying “nooooo!” are way more entertaining and brighten my day!🤙
Parents being enablers to young adults is the worst thing they can do for their kids without harming them physically. Unfortunately, this is quite common in some culture and its considered perfectly fine for young adults and sometimes adults to remain completely dependent on their parents for their daily needs. Such a shame.
This is so hard to watch. I get stressed out buying a $7 t-shirt. A $3000 purse would put me in the hospital for weeks lol. WOW. What else do I have to look forward too? Work LOL
I have watched people for many years and many have some similar problems to this one. People love to go to the mall for no reason at all. They have no plan when they get their and end up coming home with things that they wouldn't have bought if they had thought about it. Just yesterday we were in Santa Barbara. My kids, wife, sister in law and niece were having a lot of fun. We wondered around State Street and of course everyone wanted to hit up the shops, that is except me. I stayed outside and waited enjoying the day. Had no need to enter any of the shops. I watched each of them walk out of what ever store with some new item. My thought was, going to the shops was not part of the plan for the day. Still here we are. This woman takes it to the extreme though.
That's truly the real question. What do these types of people do for a living and are living paycheck to paycheck or are they millionaires that don't care about investing?
Business owners who earn a lot of money while working part time. Some of these people don’t plan on completely retiring and hence don’t believe in investing
She's probably the parents only child and they treat her like one. Reminds me of a girl I knew when she was 21 her parents took her Easter egg hunting, she was wearing a pretty dress with white gloves. They also took pictures of her picking up the eggs and putting them into a basket. Happy Easter everyone
Most times it amazes me greatly the way I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over 83k per month, utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years to doubt that opportunities abound in the financial markets, The only thing is to know where to focus.
@@mohammaduhera2961 Anyways not actually, what I know about trading almost borders on zilch lol. I make huge profits on my investment since I started trading with Mrs Camila, her trading strategies are top notch coupled with the little commission she charges on her trade.
Let's say I used to be a shopping/ fashion addict. However I never got more than 500€ debt per month on my Bank Account. Compulsive buying is a mean thing, especially nowadays with nonstop creating needs everywhere.
i had a problem like this when i started working and earning money. there was a moment my family struggled financially and we lost a lot things and couldn’t afford food at times. i used that childhood trauma to buy anything i wanted and needed in case i couldn’t afford it one day until it was a huge problem
dude, my wife is a cumpulive shopper, have the gold card and like 12 other credit cards and had a credit score of 750 which turned into 17k+ of cc debt and a score of 585 and lowering in progress. FML.
I swear I know that restaurant she works at. Wasn't it featured in an old'sh Gordon Ramsey show(Gordon Ramseys Best Restaurant), where two Curry Houses went head to head to get to the semi finals? The father in this video runs the one called: The Brilliance?
One of the worst logical fallacies that keeps people from making important, needed changes in their lives is "if 'x' happens, then I will become 'y.'" It's wishful thinking. Change has to start now!
Some people truly just delude themselves into thinking this is not a problem. I'm genuinely surprised the father had the same attitude and hasn't ejected her. She goes on about if she had more bills than maybe she wouldn't shop so much, maybe this is the fix? I'm of course assuming she gets some kind of allowance from her parents which would explain why she spends $1000's a day but only has $7,500 credit card debt.
By 12:30 I was not disappointed, it felt like Graham had to cut it short before he imploded. xP Also the buying and returning is not a bad idea you could literally spend $10,000 a week every week, the same $10,000. Was shopping addiction it's almost entirely connected to the purchase and studies have shown that going to a store and printing stuff in the cart almost provides the same satisfaction so she could even just window shop and then put it all away when she was done.
Tbh I’m happy I just found this channel..im getting into some money now and I’m taking any advice I like to learn about saving flipping investing etc I like this channel he straight forward 😂like Bruce rivers of money
Please reach out to Personal Finance with Leila - Debt Over It. Please try and get her on The Iced Coffee Hour, and offer all you can eat sushi :) She’s a little sour about the public’s response to her CNBC video you reacted to.
The first step to healing is to start asking yourself the tough questions Why you’re behaving in that manner The first step to healing is understanding why you do it
Spot on though Graham, parents totally enabled her & she hasn’t been able to develop her independence from them. I hope she has found some other support resources because spendaholism is as bad as gambling, drink, or drug addiction & needs similar care treatment approaches. Any dependency like this needs proper care & a therapy programme to resolve.
spending 10k a week is normal to some people. I think people get the idea to stay within their budget. If it makes someone happy it is their money. Who am I judge?
This is a chronic shopping addiction. This girl needs real help and medical intervention. If she doesn't stop it's going to spiral downward fast.
“Without shopping, what would I have to look forward to?”
Graham: Work. 😐
😂😂😂
Beats being broke.
I would have said hobbies. But this is the true graham answer lol
@@fandoms5ever Tbf seconds earlier he said therapy and hobbies
She takes the term “retail therapy” to a whole new level
totally...
@@TheGrahamStephanShow I'm on crypto therapy nowadays
Central cee aii
@@Bulldawzer wayyyy better than retail therapy 🙏 I’m on Tesla stock therapy
Am I the only one who likes to watch this stuff to feel better about my own spending habits 😅
Sad
I spend like her, but on income producing assets! 😀
I kind of do, but when I watch it with Graham's commentary it brings me down to Earth which is important. ;)
lol
I just subscribed to you after seeing this comment lol
She could be a reseller so she could buy all she wants and makes money while doing it.
That's honestly the best option. I resell, and it's honestly such a cool way to turn a destructive habit into a profitable hustle.
@@nixxxxxxie yes I use to have a spending problem now it’s all profit. I normally make around 600-800 extra a month. You get to go shopping and make money at the same time and yes I do keep some of it but the profit overweights the items I do keep pretty much making it free.
Before I got a minute in I knew she was a shopaholic. When people need to shop and they’re not just rich and bored there’s always a deeper issue. She needs an intervention and a therapist to talk about what’s really going on. She’s coping. It’s just like having any other addiction.
“Shop for a new therapist”
The way I was waiting for a better help integration 😪😂
I absolutely love her logic, buy a new car so she wont spend more money. AHAHAHAHA
The Funny but sad part is 😂her reasoning of not spending if she had children.
Personal finance is 80% behavior.
Hey Graham, you financial advice is pretty good and all, but for some reason videos of someone blowing huge amounts of cash, and then you reacting to it saying “nooooo!” are way more entertaining and brighten my day!🤙
Parents being enablers to young adults is the worst thing they can do for their kids without harming them physically. Unfortunately, this is quite common in some culture and its considered perfectly fine for young adults and sometimes adults to remain completely dependent on their parents for their daily needs. Such a shame.
Graham should watch a show called "Till Debt do Us Part" I think he'd LOVE it
Oof.. I have trouble spending on anything above $30, this is insane
Me to, I live by the 24hr rule if above.
@@joaquimrodriguez8961 bro I’ve taken that and elongated it to two weeks if it’s above $100 lol
Partner spends 100$/day on food.
This is so hard to watch. I get stressed out buying a $7 t-shirt. A $3000 purse would put me in the hospital for weeks lol. WOW. What else do I have to look forward too? Work LOL
4:06 Shop for a good therapist!! Ouch😂😂
:O
I have watched people for many years and many have some similar problems to this one. People love to go to the mall for no reason at all. They have no plan when they get their and end up coming home with things that they wouldn't have bought if they had thought about it. Just yesterday we were in Santa Barbara. My kids, wife, sister in law and niece were having a lot of fun. We wondered around State Street and of course everyone wanted to hit up the shops, that is except me. I stayed outside and waited enjoying the day. Had no need to enter any of the shops. I watched each of them walk out of what ever store with some new item. My thought was, going to the shops was not part of the plan for the day. Still here we are.
This woman takes it to the extreme though.
Up to the time
"Excess supply of money leads to demand of things."
hmmm
That’s called lifestyle inflation.
Another crazy thing about this girl: thinking about children as a way to fill her emotional needs. 50 shades of red flag.
That's truly the real question. What do these types of people do for a living and are living paycheck to paycheck or are they millionaires that don't care about investing?
Business owners who earn a lot of money while working part time. Some of these people don’t plan on completely retiring and hence don’t believe in investing
What??
Living at home with parents + credit cards lol
I have a friend like this and ugh…. She earns a paycheck and then immediately spends it.
Graham this was hilarious, really enjoyed your facial reactions! 🤣
ditto
She's probably the parents only child and they treat her like one. Reminds me of a girl I knew when she was 21 her parents took her Easter egg hunting, she was wearing a pretty dress with white gloves. They also took pictures of her picking up the eggs and putting them into a basket. Happy Easter everyone
Happy Easter…but also, are you serious? She was doing that at 21 years of age?! Wow, lol!
6:05 that's the classic Graham that made this channel hilarious like the $68 cupcakes episode a few years ago lmao
I think I watched that one to. Lol
It was 71
@@ProfAzimov Even worse than I remember :)
She better find a billionaire to marry with that spending habit😮
What's the point? The young lady has serious problems.
Her habit will be worse. She might start buying boats 🤣🤣🤣
Poor girl
I feel for her
You can see there’s a deep seeded void she’s trying to fill by shopping
I hope she finds peace within herself 🙏🏻
Graham you're my favorite I watch all your videos keep up the good work!
The things I could do and the money I could make with 10k a week 😩
Then you'd be the one futured in this video!
“Without shopping, what would I have to look forward to?”
Graham: Work. 😐
Graham, ever thought of reacting to house tours and 'living on ...." videos of guys outside the United States?
yeah!
Love your stuff! Have you thought about having a more lit background? It strains the eyes at times.
Most times it amazes me greatly the way I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over 83k per month, utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years to doubt that opportunities abound in the financial markets, The only thing is to know where to focus.
Wow buddy, that's more than a mouthful of profits you're making. How do you achieve this feat consistently? You must be a genius in trading.
@@mohammaduhera2961 Anyways not actually, what I know about trading almost borders on zilch lol. I make huge profits on my investment since I started trading with Mrs Camila, her trading strategies are top notch coupled with the little commission she charges on her trade.
@@ryanjames8356 really are you giving her your money or your coin?
My coin stays right in my trading account, my account just mirrors her trades in real-time.that's the idea behind copy trading.
Wow what a coincidence you invested with Mrs Camila Grayson also? My bi-weekly trading Return is $58,600
Doesn’t matter how much you make, you can always spend more.
totally
Lifestyle inflation.
Except maybe Elon Musk…😜
doesn't matter how much you make, it's how much, you keep.
I get anxious when I watch videos like this, or hear stories of people who just spend money like there's no tomorrow 😖
If she had a boyfriend, she'd be spending his money lol
Yah. I don't know her fully but if this is all I'm going off of, it sounds like deep insecurities within herself.
Poor guy
Good stuff graham ham
Here I am walking through Walmart for an hour and not buying anything.
WHAT in the world did you search to find picture of a wedding at a grocery store?
haha I have no idea - ask Jack lol
5:42 when you hang around all those Selling Sunset ladies. Haha tell em!
Lol I can’t imagine, I hate online shopping let alone in person. She is self aware tho and I hope she can control her spending habits.
Graham you should watch spendaholics! It’s a similar show
6:05 this reaction hit different 😂
Let's say I used to be a shopping/ fashion addict. However I never got more than 500€ debt per month on my Bank Account.
Compulsive buying is a mean thing, especially nowadays with nonstop creating needs everywhere.
i had a problem like this when i started working and earning money. there was a moment my family struggled financially and we lost a lot things and couldn’t afford food at times. i used that childhood trauma to buy anything i wanted and needed in case i couldn’t afford it one day until it was a huge problem
Same. I’ve been working to have better financial decisions recently.
dude, my wife is a cumpulive shopper, have the gold card and like 12 other credit cards and had a credit score of 750 which turned into 17k+ of cc debt and a score of 585 and lowering in progress. FML.
She really needs to meet Dave Ramsey!!😂😂😂
agreed!
Dave would rip her a new one many times over
Don't give Dave Ramsey a heart attack
The numbers dont add up tho, she makes 2k a month and is only 7500 in debt yet she has all those clothes
The bank of mom and dad
@@pinkheartz97 yeah but why isn’t her allowance included in the salary break down
I swear I know that restaurant she works at.
Wasn't it featured in an old'sh Gordon Ramsey show(Gordon Ramseys Best Restaurant), where two Curry Houses went head to head to get to the semi finals?
The father in this video runs the one called: The Brilliance?
She could be a mystery shopper, for low value items. Write a review on the experience and claim back a small amount of money.
Great video. Loved your reaction. Happy Easter.
😃 I am waiting for the moment Graham stands up from his desk saying : $3000!! Great scott!
Stephen's commentary kills me 🤣🤣🤣
One of the worst logical fallacies that keeps people from making important, needed changes in their lives is "if 'x' happens, then I will become 'y.'" It's wishful thinking. Change has to start now!
Great video brother🙏🏻
"retail therapy" can be much cheaper like getting a few things from the thrift store or going to a clothing swap. This woman spends way too much.
Thar episode it's several years old, I'd like to see an update to see how's she's doing
Compulsive shopper!! Can't believe that is a thing 😂😂😂
:O
Her friends won't risk taking away her wallet: a designer piece that expensive would make it grand larceny.
This video was great
thanks!
Graham is losing his mind in this one!! 🤣🤣🤣
Some people truly just delude themselves into thinking this is not a problem. I'm genuinely surprised the father had the same attitude and hasn't ejected her. She goes on about if she had more bills than maybe she wouldn't shop so much, maybe this is the fix? I'm of course assuming she gets some kind of allowance from her parents which would explain why she spends $1000's a day but only has $7,500 credit card debt.
I smashed the like button right away!! Love the vids Graham! 🙌🏼
love these vids
Good one
That's an old documentary series, so she's probably worse or bankrupt right now
If her dad ain't supporting her and she don't got no husband, the only other wya she getting this money's is if she's a "working girl"
This is the content we need! Bad decision making lol all those goody goodies are boring
I have an idea, instead of shopping for stuff, why not have her sell it?
Do I want to watch a 12:40 vid of Graham being super stressed and uncomfortable... Yup. 😊
By 12:30 I was not disappointed, it felt like Graham had to cut it short before he imploded. xP Also the buying and returning is not a bad idea you could literally spend $10,000 a week every week, the same $10,000. Was shopping addiction it's almost entirely connected to the purchase and studies have shown that going to a store and printing stuff in the cart almost provides the same satisfaction so she could even just window shop and then put it all away when she was done.
Hello graham!!
Hello there!
I can feel her fear and learned helplessness and it's just sad...Toxic parenting leads to toxic child
Tbh I’m happy I just found this channel..im getting into some money now and I’m taking any advice I like to learn about saving flipping investing etc I like this channel he straight forward 😂like Bruce rivers of money
Do you also follow his main account?
Read The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins.
Hi Graham ! 👋
hi!
Great video!
Thanks!
Dave Ramsey might have a heart attack if he watched this...
This is great
second!
@@TheGrahamStephanShow yussss
She’s 30? And she can’t control her problem of spending. I had problems and I admit my problems but this is struggling.
Okay and thanks
Please reach out to Personal Finance with Leila - Debt Over It. Please try and get her on The Iced Coffee Hour, and offer all you can eat sushi :) She’s a little sour about the public’s response to her CNBC video you reacted to.
The first step to healing is to start asking yourself the tough questions
Why you’re behaving in that manner
The first step to healing is understanding why you do it
Great video as always
4:04 thats a 3rd degree burn
@4:43 make this a GIF
Me watching this like “oh would you look at that there’s a hole in my sock”
10k a week is like 40k. She rich. I wish I had that support.
Notification boys!
awesome!
It's obviously not her own money or she would owe far more than $7500.
UK is different. They will sent a bailiff after you to repose everything
She should do that, but with stocks and real estate.
Spot on though Graham, parents totally enabled her & she hasn’t been able to develop her independence from them. I hope she has found some other support resources because spendaholism is as bad as gambling, drink, or drug addiction & needs similar care treatment approaches. Any dependency like this needs proper care & a therapy programme to resolve.
She should become a buyer. That way she can shop and get paid
This is such a logical solution lol 😆
spending 10k a week is normal to some people. I think people get the idea to stay within their budget. If it makes someone happy it is their money. Who am I judge?
She is not rich tho.
I hate long lines too… unless they’re going up my nose😏
Just wait 72 hours to a week to buy something you want.
i was waiting for her to say a house is too expensive, when her wardrobe(s) value is a bigger deposit than most will ever have!
No one ever: “she’s pretty, dresses well etc, but her handbag costs less than £100, so I’m not interested”.
You’re making too much sense 😀
RIP for her future husband ☠
😂 for real
Had to hit pause on the podcast to come watch this real quick 😂
ENJOY
Graham, make a video tour of Steve Aoki's playhouse in Las Vegas. PLS
I spend my time and money rescuing animals...i went minimal after a shopping life addiction feels great and save lifes
She should do thrift shopping
I have terrible habits but I can solve that by: GETTING A CHILD!!