We need to talk about our underwear… 🩲
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 พ.ย. 2023
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Thank you for saying "breats, boobs, vagina". These are not dirty words. Bless you.
Of course! Bless you back! 💛💛
These words are in the Bible and used in a non crude manner but rather informatively or matter a factly.
However, it still ok to take into mind people who may get triggered by certain words due to their past trauma. We as Christians are told to be take in mind of those who may still be immature or sensitive and even if your not a Christian this is still something to take in mind around others. This is just being empathetic and sensitive to those around you. Certain words trigger memory and reactions.
@@Newness1234 I understand you and I agree somewhat but... shoud we stop talking about "car" because some people had a car accident? Same with "gun", etc? To be able to name reality with the right words is essential.
They are absolutely not dirty words. Not saying them is not modesty
I wear a small bra size, I gave up on underwire bras because they never fit me and once I became and adult I realized I was also just wearing them because I thought I had to. Now I wear padded bralettes, they are comfortable, cover the nipples and give a smooth shape. They’re my go to.
I just hit this stage myself. Ordered my bralettes on the black Friday sales. I'm looking forward to comfortable living 😊
I'll look into these, thank you
Check out „a bra that fits“ it’s a calculator which counters the common problems we have with underwire bras - uncomfortable, gaping, tight straps etc
There’s also a helpful Reddit sub
I’m a muslim who veils her face and I’m so glad to see the head scarf on a Christian woman, bring back modesty in abrahamic religions!
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orthodox christian women (up to the 1980s there was a shift) always veiled for thousands of years :) hopefully it will be picked up more again🤍
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Peace be upon her.
Oh hello! What do you think about Jay Dayer and Orthodox Shahada?
@@disgustingcyclops6423 I don’t know them! I just searched it up and… yh if their not Islamic scholars who have studied the religion for 10-30+ years I’m not going to take knowledge from them! Good day x
Ps I think you should start ‘loving thy neighbour’ a little bit more xx
i have recently started to become more intentional about the clothes i buy (avoiding polyester) and I too love wearing dresses and skirts! i'd love for you to do a video on brands or places you shop for dresses/clothes!
I will!!
@@JasmyneTheodora I'd love to hear brand ideas too!
Same!!!
I understand the benefits of sleeping naked but honestly I'm afraid the house will catch on fire over night and I'll have to run outside and my neighbors will see me 😅
A lot of people have that concern! Haha. It’s valid. I keep a robe next to me just in case 😆
The difference between sleeping with clothe and without is felt! Way better to sleep as we came to the world😁
Has the house ever caught on fire before and you've had to run out? If not then your fear isn't yours but rather suggested... You can't live your life off of the "if's" of reality.. You're only depriving yourself of a fuller life.
Just my two cents, no malice intended
@@sileverything it has happened to me, my neighbors house caught on fire and we were asked to evacuate because ours was most likely going to burn too (everyone was fine and my neighbor luckily had supportive family and insurance) I actually feel safer now because what are the chances that’ll happen to me twice haha. I had time to get dressed but even if I didn’t I don’t think anyone’s gonna judge me for running out naked. But even if they do it’s far better than burning 🤷♀️
Try to get the most comfortable bra you can just to sleep in and you'll get used to the sensation. I think it's probably a bunch of things
I stopped using wired bras many years ago and it was so liberating! Thank you for this very informative piece.
They should make bra with synthetic whale bone instead of metal wires tbh. That's what they used to make 18th century corsets that were actually comfortable for women.
Glad it was helpful!
@@ManicPixie813i quess you should for you and all woman. Its your idea. ❤
As someone who has large breasts, like you mentioned, it may not be physically comfortable to go completely bra-less. There's issues with wearing/not wearing them for long periods but lounge bras have been great for me!! Some of them are so light and breathy it barely even feels like you're wearing one
No seriously I have c cups they aren’t that big but it hurts having them just hang around
@@annayosie haha exactly. Can’t have them hanging for too long, can’t keep them confined for too long 🤓
I sometimes dislike how the women in my life always put down female bodily terms and female hygiene as something “sinful” and “dirty”, even when it comes to looking for a bra.
Thank you for this message and God bless you ❤
Thanks for bringing some actually thoughtful information to a conversation I usually blow off as "stupid hippie BS". Seriously, I love my boobs secured, and get annoyed with the "free the ta-tas" argument, but I have never heard actual medical information about why too much "support" is a bad thing.
My pleasure! So glad it was valuable to hear.
Glad you know now. "stupid hippie bs" isn't always stupid :)
@@neestovekin8251 Ya know, Every group has dumb people who make their ideas sound ridiculous. I am no stranger to being that dumb person, where I knew what I meant but was terrible at communicating it. So, I try to listen to people... I don't always do a good job but I think it's important to try.
Already 2 minutes in and I'm so happy that you made this video, I ALWAYS wear sports bras and I'm 19, so not a mother. I don't understand how girls my age use wired bras every day.
I don't think I could ever go braless since I have quite big breasts but I'm 100% in favour of comfortable bras!!
It's supposed to stay hidden and be comfortable.
Yeah I sadly got used to being in uncomfortable bras!
I wear mostly wireless, I'm also on the busty side, so I only go braless when I go to sleep.
I heard bullet bras might be good for big breasts if it doesn’t work blame me I have no experience with bullet bras I just heard it in the comment section of a bra type video. Hope you have a good day, God bless you.
This is an unexpected gem! I appreciate the lack of euphemisms.
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I am so happy to see a woman wearing a veil! It’s so uncommon outside of my church where I live and I don’t often see it online, almost not at all, and I love seeing it. Thank you for wearing it confidently, I feel like a lot of women don’t because of fear of man as well as wanting to be more like the world
This is so true! I'm glad people are finally starting to speak more on this topic. When I was in my early to mid teens I remember buying lace, underwire push up bras behind my mom's back because I wanted to look mature and fit in with my peers. Looking back, it's so sad that we all found the need to sexualize ourselves as a way of looking "mature". Also, I love your videos Jasmyne! I always get so excited when I see that you've posted a new video! ❤
A lot of compression to the breasts (as with underwire or very firmly compressing sports bras) can decrease the natural flow of lymphatic flow from the breasts, which can lead to a buildup of toxic material and contributing to poor breast health in the form of cysts, tumors, cancer. Basically interrupts our Creator's design if we have too much compression. Scientists have discovered that wearing a bra doesn't slow down breast sagging, either. Anyway, if using compression bras, it is a good idea to go without them for part of the day, to stay well-hydrated (increasingly difficult these days for various reasons), and to care for your breasts with massage that encourages movement in your lymphatic system, and also in your armpits so things don't get stuck there, as often happens. There are various YT videos on this topic, unless they've been removed for some reason.
Thats right! We women need to use the real words to describe our bodies, otherwise it would be disrespectful towards ourselves. I will not use a nick name for it as that is insulting and more crude. I will never feel any shame being a women and therefore I will always use the words breast and vagina when talking about those body parts, its the medical terms too and it is what it is, those are the names. It is nothing dirty at all so thank you for being so real here! ❤
Crazy how this video sprouted just from you realizing you’ve only worn sports bras for a year. Thank you for doing the studying for us and for sharing your knowledge 💗 very interested to learn about modern shoes and their health setbacks. Thank you for sharing in advance
Thank you for sharing these comfortable and amazing products!❤
Thongs are just something I can never understand 😂
Super helpful! Thank you for taking the time to research this!
So glad it was helpful!
I have such a hard time feeling comfortable without a bra 😣 I like the support and hate the feeling without one…
I was the same too!!! Im now I 36D (US size) and im working on weaning off bras. Through my teen years i hated the feeling of not wearing a bra that i could even wear it to sleep! I suggest starting with bras with no wire. Wear them when you’re in the house all day. Get used to the feeling of those and then start working your way down in less supportive bras. Im 21 now and Im not 100% comfortable being braless, but what I do is wear a tank top under my t-shirts/hoodies and that helps me feel like im still being supported. It took me months to get to this point so just take your time!
I didn’t know about the lymphatic system there and the draining.. I am so glad I’m learning so much from you I appreciate your videos so much! Making me start to make different choices
There are now great bras, that are not exactly sport bras, but wireless und light and comfortable with a slight padding to cover the nipples. They just give the bit of necessary support, if your breasts are not really small and you just do not feel them at all. There were no such bras, when I was younger and remember a lot of stiff and uncomfortable bras in my life. Glad there is an alternative now.
So glad you're talking about this!! 👍
Thank you for making this video. I think it's really helpful to gain a big-picture perspective of things across the span of history. It can be so easy for us to see life through the lens of our lifetime or the last several decades only, and that's a skewed, limited view when seeking to make informed choices. I would love it if you made a video about shoes, as well.
Glad you enjoyed it! Shoe video coming soon.
So glad you shared this, thank you. At least the info we know now we can pass onto our daughters. Im definatly interested to know what you find out about shoes, im always the one in flip flops. I love the feeling of my toes being able to move around and catch a breeze
You are a great speaker. Very informative video.
I deeply appreciate that! Thank you kindly.
Same!!! I've realized as of late, I HATE bras. I'm just self conscious about my nipples being visible. Lately, I've been wearing none underwire bras and I feel like I prefer them. I don't even buy cute cheeky underwear anymore. More coverage is more comfy. I thought I needed them for my husband lol but he doesn't care because ...whatever I'm wearing will get removed anyway 😏😂
I can't stand being in clothing that is tight. I tried Spanx once, in a store dressing room: got them halfway on and knew that I would never want to deal with such a garment! Bras are equally difficult because I have a big cup size. Then voila, after decades of dissastisfaction with bras, I found some bras without underwires or skinny straps, it's just soft stretchy fabric around the back and over the shoulders, and all the support is in the molded cups that provide the modesty factor over the nipples, and fasten in the front. It's sort of like a balconette bra, but not exactly. As a bonus, they lift and center my bustline in a way that makes my figure look better under my clothing, but without painful binding. My favorite bras of all time!
It is very soothing to watch your videos. It makes me happy to see more people are leaning to God nowadays and a lot of them are trying to live a godly life and I wish more people spread the word of God. Im not christian although I really support your message
At the risk of sharing tmi, I practice modesty as a Catholic woman as best I can. I have found that wearing skirts long enough to suit my daily practices have made it easy and practical to stop wearing (and buying!) underwear unless it’s needed for my period. I’ve had success making essential oils to keep thing’s particularly fresh and moisturized, which has been a sort of age reversal for me. Cold pressed jojoba oil and optionally, a small amount of therapeutic grade tea tree oil if I don’t think I’ll make it to shower as soon as I’d like, has been a game changer. As someone who experienced many feminine infections in highschool, I can say these changes along with good probiotics have made my vaginal health better than it’s ever been, and I’m extremely happy and grateful.
"why do I want to say chesticles" I was not expecting that 😂😂
I definitely laughed😂 That was too funny!
Sad that breasts are seen as a dirty word, but then testicles aren't.
@@tryphenarose384I would personally much rather hear the word breasts than the word testicles 😅 Grew up and still am very conservative Christian, and you can't read the Bible without reading about breasts. Other body parts are not as specifically mentioned, as they are more private and sexual in nature.
Woooooww! This was super informative and enchouraging!! Thankyou! Much love fron the Netherlands❤❤❤
Underwire bra used to be uncomfortable, but I realized that, for me, this only happens when the bra is ill fitting. Making sure I wear my size makes a huge difference. I do want to start purchasing wireless bras, though. Going braless is intriguing, but I live in a tropical country, and under boob sweat gives me the ick 😅
Nooo not the underboob sweat 😅 I get you!
You shoukd get underboob liners they absorb sweat
@@guinevererodriguez3807 Great suggestion, thanks! 😊
I hate bras. I am a very plus overweight woman who is working on my weight, but in the meantime, the pain of underwire is so real. I don't wear bras at home if my clothes are modest enough, and I only wear wired bras for special moments or if I want to feel more feminine. I usually wear wirefree non-sports bras. Keep in mind I have to wear two sports bras for serious workouts.
Same
I love what you said @10:44 So many other TH-camrs in the conservative or religious space would have gone down the fear mongering route at that point and tried to say that underwire bras are causing cancer and breast sagging and we all need to burn our bras. Thanks for just remaining calm and giving us the information we need to make good choice for ourselves
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Hey, sorry I felt the need to comment. But the fact that burning bras is now a conservative thing is wild.
I didn't know I needed this video. Thank you
I wonder how many men are still watching after the intro 😂
Btw I just found this channel and I really appreciate the topics on this!
Veiling is beautiful!
I got the larger breast genes from my great grandma. Some would say I’d be the perfect Candidate for a bra but honestly I stopped wearing them over a decade ago now. It was to restricting and even effected my breathing as well as cause more back pain. Plus the sharp jabbing from the underwire into my chest was not pleasant. I’d also have more issues during that time of the month with my breast being more sore/tender and stiff.
Sense I stopped, I’ve been more comfortable. It’s easier to move around, I breath just fine, less back pain, & they don’t get as sore or stiff especially if I keep up on massages (to promote proper blood flow and avoid any blockages).
I just switched having a tight undershirt to hold them in place when I need or when I’m going out of the house. It was uncomfortable at first mostly because I felt so bare and my nipples were supper obvious but now it doesn’t bother me as much, as I’ve learned ways to cover them more if I need to or I just don’t focus on it and go about my day.
This is how things are naturally anyway and it’s better for my health and well-being. Plus I save sooo much money. 10-15$ undershirt vs a 50$ bra that warps in the wash… yeah I think we both know what any of us would rather choose.
I love your honesty! 😂❤ It is so refreshing
Thank you!! 😊
I’ve started wearing corsets and shifts. Not sure much for boob support, because mine became small after breastfeeding, but for skirt-support. I wear long, heavy skirts and the corset helps to keep the skirt comfortable around the waist, preventing the waistband to dig in to my stomach.
Lovely! Skirt support and breast support are traditionally the two biggest reasons women wore/wear corsets, with skirt support apparently more important for most corset-wearers throughout history (looking at the amount of bust support most styles provided, as opposed to how much design attention went into making sure the corset supported layers of petticoats (skirts) while still allowing women to bend and sit). Cinching down to minimize the waist was never a factor for most women and wasn't even possible until the 19th century - less than a century before corsets were almost entirely replaced with bras and other support garments, most made with metal and lots of synthetic materials.
Love the video so much❤❤ You are an inspiration for me and such a good influence compared to other creators on youtube nowadays! Could you please tell me what lipgloss you are using, your lips are always so shiny and pretty🥺🥺❤
Dear Jasmyne,
I love how you embrace the modesty and femininity in all of your videos, as a Muslim modest woman I see myself through each of them
I would like to not need to wear a bra but I am so big that it would give me back ache not to, I have always worn non-wired bras (wired ones are not encouraged for teens in the UK and they do not fit my shape), they are my only big expense in clothing. I have always worn cotton briefs (disparagingly called granny pants by my generation) but I find them comfortable. I have recently started making my own slips to have cotton underwear to stay warm but also not get sweaty (hot flushes are a thing). learning to make one own underwear is a good way to get more cotton or natural fibres if time is not an issue.
Ouch see y’all’s later. Be safe God bless.
I do appreciate this video. I’ve had the same experience after giving birth. I can’t go without all the time but I’ve mostly switched to sports bras or similar
I wore mostly wireless bras and sports bras for several years starting off, went no bra for a few years, and then switched to a low padding bra with underwire in the last couple of years.
The reason I switched was for comfort, modesty, and aesthetic reasons. I have naturally low setting breasts so a loose sports bra tends to look more exposed than I feel is appropriate. Also gravity pulls on them and adds pressure to my chest when I’m braless.
I think I’ve dabbled in the full spectrum of bra choices over my life (lol), and choosing a nicely fitting underwire bra was the right choice for me. All boobies are different though, to each their own!
i like the one size fits all bra from lily silk it’s so comfortable feels like your bra less but gives you a little protection
This is all so interesting, thank you! I haven't worn under wire bras for about 7 years, as I've spent most of that time pregnant or breastfeeding, and just found it more comfortable. I usually wear soft bralets as I'm breastfeeding, and have made sure to only wear cotton underwear for many years now. I didn't know lots of the information you have shared though, so thank you :)
What about those of us who have lots of discharge? I wish we had a line of loose, white shorts that are resistant to the acidity of discharge.
I have the same problem. I buy bamboo pajama bottoms that way it's kept loose but it also doesn't leak. Also, lady boxers.
So Victoria’s Secret is actually that we don’t have to wear bras?! 🤔😄
😆😆 their business model is largely based on the idea that we have to strap down our breasts so maybe?
@@JasmyneTheodora 😄
😂😂😂 good one!!
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I have a wierd reason to wear bras - I can wear any bra thing, even if it's a thin, comfortable piece of fabric cut in shape of bra, doesn't really metter, as long as it is a bra. But why do i wear it? Because when I wear a bra, it's a "not pajamas" outfit, as I sleep in literally anything. So no bra = pajamas and bra = not pajamas. It helps me a bit with productivity.😅
It's really hard to find comfortable/wireless bras that don't show up in clothes! When it's warm out I'll wear a good amount of form fitting tops or things with a wider neckline or thinner straps, and I never want my bra straps to show so it's hard to find a compromise.
Working from home I hardly ever wear a bra but underware I do have to wear and sleep in to feel comfortable.
I’m 24 and I gave up bras when I was 17. I wear nipple covers that cover the whole breast & they are super thin from B-six. The silicon like material sticks to your breasts & there’s no sticky adhesive either. I’ve had mine for over a year. Personally, to me bras are tacky and uncomfortable. Being able to see bra straps or lines ruins an outfit.
been braless for 6 years. nowadays i can’t wear a bra, because it is so uncomfortable. i am 26. love it. 😁
THANK YOU❤
You're welcome 😊
Love it! I’m commando 99% of the time for the past few years. Thanks for the pasty recommendations cause nipples showing is the only thing I can’t get past 😂
Thanks for this video!! I love Pact bras, they are organic cotton and provide enough support for my bigger-ish breasts while still allowing them to keep their natural shape and not be "push-up". I am definitely curious what shorts you wear, I didn't see the link!
Shoot, just fixed that! 💛
Keep up the good work!
As a Christian I am glad to see you covering your head I also wear a head covering I stopped wearing underwirer a long time ago I hated them. I also only wear skirts and dresses as a reference Clark's shoe's are under a hundred dollars but they're really good for your feet.
Hello! Loved this as usual. Can you please make a video about how to mentally prepare yourself for sex after marriage after going so many years saving yourself? Honestly this is such an important topic and I could not find a single video for this.
for me personally, I would say don't stress it. After a lifetime of nothing, he's going to be thrilled with literally anything so no need to be embarrassed if you're awkward. I was so nervous leading up to my wedding and in hindsight it was just silly because being married is wonderful. Don't rush into things right away and make a conscious effort to talk with your husband about what you like and don't like
I hate bras and avoid wearing them most of the time. If i do it’s a sports bra or a soft bralette or whatever it’s called.
So glad to hear some women don’t wear bras like me 😅 I have problems with my connective tissue, scoliosis, and an autoimmune disorder and they just hurt too much. Plus I don’t really need them. I used to feel bad about it but I’ve gotten used to it and tbh it’s not as big of a deal as I used to think.
Totally not the point, but it made me so happy you said “chesticles” 😂 I say that allllll the time😂
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I massage my breast with olive oil (like the stuff from the food isle at the grocery store) for about a minute after every shower as a part of my lotion/ moisturizing routine. I think it’s done wonderful things for my breasts. :)
Can you do a video on dressing feminine in the winter?! I feel so frumpy and gross all winter and really struggle to look like a lady Nov-Mar every year 😩
Yes!!! Not that I'm her, but long skirts are a must 👏
Omg same boat over here
An idea I have been tossing around is to make a flannel three tiered petticoat for extra warmth in the winter? If you can sew or know someone? Cheap flannel runs $5-6 a yard by me in the Midwest and I think it could be a good option?
i only wear dresses and skirts. that also applies in the winter. I suggest sweater dresses with riding boots and small heeled booties. also sweater skirts and sweaters with good tights
i can sew c: three tiers would only make sense for style in my opinion, i‘ve found that somewhat closer-fitting underskirts retain more warmth. flannel sounds very useful though!
Thank you for this!!! I have been on and off of wearing bras for six years now. But hate underwires and will not wear them. So happy to find another sister who doesn’t think we NEED bras.
The glow of Christ that radiates from you, Omg!! You’re gorgeous. May the Lord bless you 🥰🙏🏾
Thank you so much for such a calm, comforting, and informative video. I would love if you could do a video regarding vaginal discharge. Mostly how do your underwear alternatives do with regards to the pH of the discharge. I personally wear panty liners to prevent “bleaching”of my underwear but I would love your input/advice. Have a blessed day! 😊
Interesting. I use inexpensive undershirts instead of bras. I wish I had never worn bras. I was told I needed one when I was around 11. I am, and was thin and small chested, but still not wearing bras was so weird at first. You veil is lovely btw. Thanks for the info. I think I’ll try out those shorts. I mostly wear dresses/skirts also.
I wear a push-up wireless bra. It’s very comfortable.
My breasts are shaped a bit oddly and they are spread a bit further apart. The extra padding just helps fill in some of the extra empty space.
Corsets have a reputation, I guess people think they’re worse than underwire bras? But they can actually be really comfortable
Garlands of Grace have headcoverings that are beautiful and have several different styles that may be more practical than the veil type that you have on. Just a suggestion in case you are interested in different styles! God bless you in you following him and wearing a headcovering❤
I know this is not associate to this video.... but can you share how you and your husband met? I am 30 years old, and not in any relationship. I have been praying, about this....but I humbly admit that I am discouraged 😢
Wholesome
Turning 30 in a month and I understand this way too well, unfortunately. I've stressed myself too much about not being married but now am at a point in my life where I understand what needs to be done. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
I’m going to do my best to free my body a bit more whenever possible- easier said than done when you have two teen boys at home. 😂 I do not want to traumatize them.
Shefit is an amazing sports bra. I have several and I'm a 42DD
I absolutely adore the pasties you linked. Specific clothing fabrics make my nipples chafe, so good quality pasties are a big need and those seem great. I also really want to dry dry brushing, I sometimes use my knuckles to gently massage all parts of my body and it feels so good, but dry brushing looks like it'd feel even better. 💗
Atm what I do is: No bras, lounge shorts or loose pajama pants, organic cotton period panties during menstruation, and pasties when needed for comfort. SO much better than previously wearing polyester panties & tight padded bras. Polyester gave me a yeast infection, so cotton is a must.
These are such very essential things and I appreciate how thoroughly informative this video was on the matter. ≽^•⩊•^≼🌷
i’m young and have always had a very large chest (have even been described as “the girl with the huge tits” by some man i’ve never met, very creepy i know) and i can’t ever not wear a bra without substantial discomfort. I recently got some bras that fit me perfectly (very rare bra size, large chest small waist) but they are wired! if i wear them for a few days in a row i get sore and my circulation is cut off. wish i could find a sports bra with appropriate support and that don’t make my boobs look like sacks of saggy sand.
I sympathise! I also have disproportionately large breasts with a small waist (and a high waist/short torso too) and have also suffered creepy insulting "big boobs" remarks. I absolutely can't go without a bra but have found most underwired types uncomfortable (and the straps either slide off my sloping shoulders or dig in painfully if I shorten them...) Most bras also seem designed to enhance your breasts and make them more visible - I want to hide mine! So for a few years now I've spent money on really high-quality "minimizing" bras that are nice and smooth-contoured with good wide straps that support me well while holding me in, if you know what I mean. Like a sports bra but lighter and more comfortable for all-day wear. They really work for me, reducing my chest size and making the boobs less noticeable. It helps me feel more modest and less sexualised - just a more normal shape. I still wish I could wear a (British) size 12, but I am as I am.
I am a traditional Catholic by the way, and love to veil at Mass and while praying at home.
You look gorgeous with your veil!
That...isn't the point?
@@elizabethk.4157 I…know? I’m just giving a compliment jeez
@@mercylovesI could have phrased that better. The thing is, I do agree - she does look gorgeous with her veil. But my point was that I see a lot of people now advocating for veiling, dressing traditionally feminine, etc., and the point of it is always stated as modesty and being humble and submission to God and reasons of that nature, not about one's self. So I think it's odd when someone is veiling and people comment on the wearer looking beautiful, because isn't the point to draw away from that? And how often I see people talking about modest clothing being flattering, I think they're missing the point. I'm not really a proponent of either though I appreciate why people are, so this isn't a personal thing at all, just genuinely confused about people's perspectives.
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Yeah, i think that its very important modesty, if i need a bra to not flash anyone accidently... then think twice of the outfit, the outfit should be modest enough .
what about pantyliner? i am curious about those
Great video!! I have a question
I've grew up wearing a bra during the day and at night, and love my wire bra ( only for daytime). I've gained and lost a lot of weight, and I'm breast feeding currently. After wearing a bra constantly since I was 14. Is there any hope for me to save them? 😅😅 like if I go without a bra will they improve?
If you’re under 40, then there’s a good chance, yes! Also, if you incorporate chest exercises that will probably help as well :-)
Where do you purchase your cotton underwear? I’ve been looking for full cotton
Thanks
Cute veil 🥺❤
Would love a video on modern shoes :)
I grew up wearing panties that were too small for me, so I find not wearing underwear physically uncomfortable. Also, I tend to wear pants, and thus the crotch seem would rub very uncomfortably. Panties were basically made for jeans.
As a very late bloomer still wondering where my full-grown breasts are, 2 daughters later almost 30 years old and yet a size B cup from age 20. A C cup would have been awesome lol I wouldn't struggle filling out certain clothing...lingerie.
amazing!
Thank you! Cheers!
Nice video. Beautiful veil.
Thank you very much!
I guess I'm the odd one out..I love my wire bras
Same
I was excited to wear bras as well, then I started living with a bunch of male family members, and had to wear them ALL THE TIME. No longer excited, lol.
Awesome content. Your veil is beautiful. please could you tell us...whats the name of the veil ?
. I'd really love to buy
Check the description box, I have it linked 💛💛
You can also find beautiful headcoverings from Garlands of Grace. They have several styles!
Okay as someone who sweats a lot 😂 I have to wear underwear...
I try to go braless as much as I can but my boobs are big so I just feel like my posture is not very good when I am not wearing bra . Any tip for this ?
Huh
Even after having a baby, I don't usually wear a bra outside of my loose fitting sports bra, most of the clothes I wear are heavy enough to hide my nipples, especially in the winter. My boobs are still a B after breastfeeding. I have been looking into what the Victorians and the Edwardians were wearing. I have a couple slips that have some padding that I sewn into from old bras that had padding on the inside that I pulled out. I have been learning how to layer my dresses in the winter so I can wear them all year round.
you look beautiful with the veil
thank you jasmyne 🩵
Of course
My favorite bra is literally just one layer of fabric 😂
Jasmyne I’ve always been taught that a woman going out in public without a bra is unladylike and inappropriate, this is what the older women have taught the younger generation of women, that their bodies are inherently shameful or ‘bad’, and it’s extremely unhealthy, what do you think of the people who say not wearing a bra in public is against God?
That’s pretty ridiculous… especially considering bras are a pretty new invention. Just because a woman doesn’t wear a bra doesn’t at all mean she’s flaunting her breasts. In fact, bras can be utilized to enhance and highlight your breasts… so, yeah, that’s quite ridiculous haha. You can absolutely be modest without wearing a bra.
what calls the music at the end??