I tried to set my boundary in sasural no one respected my interest likes and dislikes, so every one crossed my boundarie.i failled to set the boundaries
Aaj samajh me aaya ki, boundaries set karna kise kehte hain. 😊aor wo aek achchi guru ki wajah se. Aor wo guru Ho aap. Aek baar fir se thank-you and happy teacher Day. ❤🎉😊...
Mere sasuraal me bahot sari Boundary set kr chuki hu, I m happy...... Lekin kuch log bahot khatarnak hote isliye bahut si bahu chup reh jati h sari zindgi aaj bhi.
Thank you 😊,thank you so much mam aap bahut hi achchi Ho. Aap ne humari baat ko mehtw diya aor humari farmaish par poora video hi bana diya, aapne itni zaldi humari famaish poori kar di, sukriya mam. Aaj jab video ka taiatl dekha na, to dil khusi se jhoom uthaa, munh maagi muraad mil gayi. Bahut hi bariya video laga, aapne bahut hi achche se samjhaya he. Sach keh rahi hoon mam, jab aapke videos dekhti hoon to apne charon aor watawaran me khushi ka anubhaw karti hoon. Aap ne to humari zindgi hi badal di he. Mam aapse aek baat aor kehna thi,.... Happy teachers'day ❤... Zindagi ka asli paath to hame, aap parha rahi Ho.
Mam us wqt kya kre jb insna ko apni boundaries set krti hu ki mera bcha chota h mere help kre kitchen me sbji cut kr de aata gud de tho meri sas kehti mujhe pasand ni h koi aata sane koi sbji khate ar koi bnane unka kehna h saree kaam m akele kru khud ko dhukhi rkh kr jb ki m khud chote priwar se gyi hu wha joint family har sb bhu sb kaam khud se krti h khud brtan doti bche bhi smal leti thi bcha rota rehta tha n kitchen ke sare kaam kr leti thi bger kisi ke help ke bt aisa kuch m ne ni dekha bs dusro ko advice deti h n meri bdi bhavi bhi unhi ka sath deti... Sb aise sb bat kehti m mere bche ko chokht se badh deti thi wo rota ar m kaam krti thi sb tane dete h ki usne aise posa usne aise posa mere besur bhi bolte sb bhu jb thi tho tum kaam ni krti thi kuch help ni tho.... MAM MERE HUSBAND BHI MERA SATH NI DETE H WO BHI SB KI SIDE LETE H..
Mi b House wife hu ghar K sare kam krti hu or uppsc ki preparation kar rhi hu.... Mera 2 sal ka beta hi... Mi house hold K sath apni preparation kar leti hu but bacche k sath thoda tough ho jata hi lekin sas sasur bacche ko mere acche se care krte hi to mi free b rehti hu
Family puja n function me sab mujhse hi kam krate hain 😢😢meri 4nanad n 4 jethani hai 😢😢i m working but mere ghr ake Jethani mujhse expect krti hai...mai hi khana bna k jau😢😢ake bhi banau😢😢so i pray to Shiva that they don't come to my home 😮😮
Mam apki video bhut prerit krti hi mujhe, ek video un ladies logo k liye bnayiye jo sasural me ate he sirf apni he chalati hi.. Ma bap struggle krke baccho ko pdhate or likhate hi or koi bahar se akar pati ko ghar walo se alag kar deti hi.... Meine kai ese Case dekhe hi MA bap majduri krke baccho ko aaage bdhate hi or wahi ldke shadi K bad unhe cchhod kar chal dete hi
Alg hi rehna chahiye. Isse healthy boundaries hi create hoti h. Or sasural mai aate hi apni chlane ka kya mtlb? Ki jo confident ho or apne liye stand leti ho. Agr saas sasur n bete ko pala h to betiyan bhi ese hi bdi nhi ho jati.
Meine kai ese ladies dekhi hi ki wo shadi hote he family se alag rehti hi or jb bccha ho jata hi to wo sas sasur ko chahti hi Ki wo wha akar rhe... Kya ye shi hi
Mana female K sath kuch sasural wale bura krte hi lekin bhuye b khatarnak hoti hi aaaj... Aap chahe to record utha kar dekh le female se khi Jayada gharelu hinsa male K sath ho rha hi... Gharelu hinsa me female suicide Case 15% hi but male 25.% hi
You didn't taught clearly about boundaries by giving detail examples... after listening you 90% people will become selfish they will not going to give damn about well being of their family member
I tried to set my boundary in sasural no one respected my interest likes and dislikes, so every one crossed my boundarie.i failled to set the boundaries
True fact
Apka video sunkar mera confidence badha gaya.Thank you so much.
My pleasure 🤗
Nice one great vedio content thanks🙏
Most Welcome👍
Beautifully expressed
Thanks a lot 😊
Thank you so much
Aapne bahut achhe example ke sath samjhayae❤❤❤❤
My pleasure. 👍
🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amazing content. I totally agree that overcoming your guilt is the toughest job😅!!
It really is!. Thank you😊
Aaj samajh me aaya ki, boundaries set karna kise kehte hain. 😊aor wo aek achchi guru ki wajah se. Aor wo guru Ho aap. Aek baar fir se thank-you and happy teacher Day. ❤🎉😊...
Apka phir se Dhanyavaad. 🤗
Mere sasuraal me bahot sari Boundary set kr chuki hu, I m happy...... Lekin kuch log bahot khatarnak hote isliye bahut si bahu chup reh jati h sari zindgi aaj bhi.
Kaise ki
Right ❤❤
छान माहिती 👍
Aap ne bilku sahi Kaha maine bhi aapni baundri set kri hu
That's great.. Keep it up dear Sangeeta. 👍
Guilt wale pint heart touching h mam
I can understand. 👍
💯 such
You are 100% correct...Setting boundaries is the first step to maintain our self respect...very nice video...
And a very happy teacher's day to you😊
Thanks a lot my sweetest Kumud.. 🤗
Thank you 😊,thank you so much mam aap bahut hi achchi Ho. Aap ne humari baat ko mehtw diya aor humari farmaish par poora video hi bana diya, aapne itni zaldi humari famaish poori kar di, sukriya mam. Aaj jab video ka taiatl dekha na, to dil khusi se jhoom uthaa, munh maagi muraad mil gayi. Bahut hi bariya video laga, aapne bahut hi achche se samjhaya he. Sach keh rahi hoon mam, jab aapke videos dekhti hoon to apne charon aor watawaran me khushi ka anubhaw karti hoon. Aap ne to humari zindgi hi badal di he. Mam aapse aek baat aor kehna thi,.... Happy teachers'day ❤... Zindagi ka asli paath to hame, aap parha rahi Ho.
Kyunki aap khud acchi ho isiliye aapka dil dusron mein aachai dekh paata hai..💖 Thanks to you, hamesha saath nibhaane ke liye.. 🤗
Mam how are you ,is everything ok, please continuous the series,it works like a fuel in our life
All I want to say is that, 'Ma'am aap muze pahle kyun nhi mile'
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️😘😘😘
Aww! Chalo Mile toh sahi.. So sweet of you Vandana. 🤗
Nice ❤❤
Thanks 🤗
Excellent video mam aapne bilkul sahi bataya hai 💯💝💘💞 and happy teacher day mam 🌹🌹
Thank you so much dear Triveni. 👍
❤
Thanks mam
Most welcome 😊
Mam us wqt kya kre jb insna ko apni boundaries set krti hu ki mera bcha chota h mere help kre kitchen me sbji cut kr de aata gud de tho meri sas kehti mujhe pasand ni h koi aata sane koi sbji khate ar koi bnane unka kehna h saree kaam m akele kru khud ko dhukhi rkh kr jb ki m khud chote priwar se gyi hu wha joint family har sb bhu sb kaam khud se krti h khud brtan doti bche bhi smal leti thi bcha rota rehta tha n kitchen ke sare kaam kr leti thi bger kisi ke help ke bt aisa kuch m ne ni dekha bs dusro ko advice deti h n meri bdi bhavi bhi unhi ka sath deti... Sb aise sb bat kehti m mere bche ko chokht se badh deti thi wo rota ar m kaam krti thi sb tane dete h ki usne aise posa usne aise posa mere besur bhi bolte sb bhu jb thi tho tum kaam ni krti thi kuch help ni tho.... MAM MERE HUSBAND BHI MERA SATH NI DETE H WO BHI SB KI SIDE LETE H..
Bohot badhiya ❤ mam
Thank you Achal. 😊
Tq so much madam.. It means a lot to me.. Not even my parents toldl me this.. ..
My pleasure ☺
Very good didi very nice explanation 🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks a lot 😊
Happy teacher's day mam aap hi meri guru hai
Thank you so much my dear Bharti.🤗. You have a heart of Gold.. 💛❤
Thank you mam👍🙂
Most welcome 😊
Thank you so much mam
Mujhe aapki video Ka Intezar rahata hai
Accha laga jaankar.. 👍
Very helpful video for me ❤ thanks ma'am 🎉
My pleasure dearest Mamta. ❤
Mi b House wife hu ghar K sare kam krti hu or uppsc ki preparation kar rhi hu.... Mera 2 sal ka beta hi... Mi house hold K sath apni preparation kar leti hu but bacche k sath thoda tough ho jata hi lekin sas sasur bacche ko mere acche se care krte hi to mi free b rehti hu
Family puja n function me sab mujhse hi kam krate hain 😢😢meri 4nanad n 4 jethani hai 😢😢i m working but mere ghr ake Jethani mujhse expect krti hai...mai hi khana bna k jau😢😢ake bhi banau😢😢so i pray to Shiva that they don't come to my home 😮😮
Same
Thank you so much mam for guiding about this topic. I am currently facing this problem I got married recently in joint family
Wishing you happiness and Fulfillment.. 🤗
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏻👍🏻
My pleasure dear Sunita. 🤗
Mam agla video kab aayega, please batayen.
Aaj 9:00 baje..
Happy teachers day mam
Thanks a lot dear Tinkal. 🤗
Mam apki video bhut prerit krti hi mujhe, ek video un ladies logo k liye bnayiye jo sasural me ate he sirf apni he chalati hi.. Ma bap struggle krke baccho ko pdhate or likhate hi or koi bahar se akar pati ko ghar walo se alag kar deti hi.... Meine kai ese Case dekhe hi MA bap majduri krke baccho ko aaage bdhate hi or wahi ldke shadi K bad unhe cchhod kar chal dete hi
Alg hi rehna chahiye. Isse healthy boundaries hi create hoti h. Or sasural mai aate hi apni chlane ka kya mtlb? Ki jo confident ho or apne liye stand leti ho. Agr saas sasur n bete ko pala h to betiyan bhi ese hi bdi nhi ho jati.
Meri saas to kuch sunti hi nahi.. bass bolte rehti hain... kaise boundaries set kare?
Agar mam hamare par thopa jaye to kya kare ? Agar muje nahi karna hai but they force on me so what to do ?
Yahin toh boundaries set karni hain. 👍
@@PinkZindagi ha magar kese ? Unko saf mana karne par bhi force kre to kya karna chahiye ?
Hindi medium Mein Kuchh Aise book ok Naam Bata dijiye Jo mahilaon ke liye upyogi ho
Koshish zaroor karungi.. 👍
Meine kai ese ladies dekhi hi ki wo shadi hote he family se alag rehti hi or jb bccha ho jata hi to wo sas sasur ko chahti hi Ki wo wha akar rhe... Kya ye shi hi
Very Sad!
Mri maa mughe marti ar mental torture krti hai khub ar sb log mra against hai mra se rat din kam krwati hai
Ispar video aayega jaldi. 👍
@@PinkZindagi thank you
Mana female K sath kuch sasural wale bura krte hi lekin bhuye b khatarnak hoti hi aaaj... Aap chahe to record utha kar dekh le female se khi Jayada gharelu hinsa male K sath ho rha hi... Gharelu hinsa me female suicide Case 15% hi but male 25.% hi
You didn't taught clearly about boundaries by giving detail examples... after listening you 90% people will become selfish they will not going to give damn about well being of their family member
Well, Narrow minded people always think that maintaining boundaries is Selfish. So I am not surprised.. 👍
@@PinkZindagi 👍🏻👍🏻 according to you caring about family is narrow minded thing....
@@rogerskunk555 No. Considering self care as selfish is being narrow minded..