I know maturity comes with age but I can't get over how they were both able to hold themselves accountable for the miscommunication that sparked their argument, even if it was 4-5 years ago. That's a solid relationship, periodt.
Yea she didn’t she jus apologized at the end after he did the only thing she said was it was a miscommunication and that she didn’t hear him and that it was only pics and she still holding a grudge about it and she was being a brat cuz she wanted pics but i still love her tho cu she’s grown still spoiled lol but she’s grown
Me too but I feel like it could got well and squash any beef or really bad and rekindle bad feelings and hostility by adding to the problem of choosing your friends over your boo.
I feel like maybe josh friends just wanted josh there. An all boys type of thing. Issi and her friend tagging along may have made them a little upset. If they felt that way though they should've expressed that.
If they were already distancing themselves when y’all got off the train then I lowkey take that is they were probably annoyed with yal. Maybe birthday boy wanted it to be his boys trip and didn’t want girls there but never expressed that...definitely a miscommunication on all parties.
I agree cause when I plan a girls day and someone brings their boyfriend I feel some kinda way. Cause I don’t bring my man when I’m supposed to be with my girls
Honestly, I see where josh messed up but isi being his first girlfriend i 100% understand cause it was always his boys and now he had to add another person in and the relationship was fresh.
I love how well Josh listens when Isi speaks. He listens intently and does not cut her off. He lets her say her full piece before chiming in. Y’all notice whenever Josh tries to explain his side of anything in videos, Isi always cuts in and either has comments to explain herself during his story or tells him that she doesn’t like how he’s wording things in an attempt to control how he says his side of stories? It was even worse the first time they tried to tell the story. Maybe it’s only like this on camera and not regularly. I really do support y’all, but Isi you have to learn to be able to truly listen. Not just listening to respond.
Sasha_93 Chisey ive noticed that a lot too. i understand certain things rile her up, but it’s unfair to josh as he waits until isi’s done talking to explain his point, and she consistently cuts him off or reiterates her displeasure of what he says :(
Isi I really if you read the comments, I hope you don’t take this as people being haters or bashing you. It’s just an observation that’s beneficial to any kind of relationship if a stop is put to it early. It’s okay to not always be seen in the upmost positive light 24/7. There are going to be times where people tell stories about you that may not make you look the best. But you’ll go crazy trying to have full control over how you are seen in the public eye all the time. I think that may just be the Virgo in you though
Agreed. I think them telling this specific story is a great example bc she still didn’t seem ready to talk about this particular topic imo and the few moments that riled her up ended in her cutting josh off. I just think it could happen less often if they want to grow as a couple bc eventually that might hurt their relationship if she lets that go on too long. Idk I still support them, just agreeing with the pattern/observation that was pointed out
Josh’s friends weren’t feeling ya’ll from the beginning of the trip. They probably were pissed that you were tending to Isi, or even the fact that she was there, because they didn’t have any girls with them 🤷🏽♀️
isi gotta let josh say his piece fully sometimes, i love both of them but i feel like sometimes she’s already coming up with how she wants to chime in instead of listening fullyyyy to josh, you can tell they both want to get over this one altercation tho
I feel like that photo session took longer than Isi perceived it to be, and also that the friends didn't necessarily want her there in the first place but wouldn't flat out say "don't bring her" because it would seem kinda rude.
Radiant Queen ISI, King Josh has been so patient and understanding and has constantly expressed lament for his actions. Please receive that. He’s trying so hard to be careful with his words, and it feels like he still being snapped at. Like yes he was wrong, but the situation was hard. Give him some graceeeee and try to match that energy that he gives when apologizes. His feelings are just as important as yours. Speaking to him gently is just as important as him doing that for you. That’s all. Love you all, hope that this talk helped you all both see a lot. What you have to work on, and how lucky you are to have each other!
I agree. It seemed like Isi was hostile and critical towards Josh no matter how careful he was being with his words when he was explaining his side of the story. I love them both but watching this video was super uncomfortable.
Agreed. I feel as though if you know it’s someone’s birthday (which is the only reason why they ended up at the bean in the first place) at least do what the birthday boy has planned. If he wants to leave then leave because it’s not your birthday and you go to the bean any other time.
I am not gonna lie, I've been reading the comments and QUALITY CREW is coming through with the constructive criticism!!! I love how everyone is sharing their opinions respectfully and with love. Now I'm not gonna reiterate because i know how it feels seeing the same thing over and over lol. But I just wanna say that you guys should most definitely disregard the comments if it isn't like that off camera. At the end of the day we're all just going off of what we see in a video, we really don't know what it's like when the cameras are off. LOVE YOU GUYS xoxo
Taking your girl on what was clearly a boys trip wasn't the right move. I would never take my guy with me on a trip with the girls. Especially when it's a birthday trip.
Josh should not have brung you on that trip. The fact that they walked ahead of y'all, then left y'all, then gave funny energy toward Josh when he caught up means ISI WAS NOT INVITED! It seems like a boys trip. That is the foundation of the issue. Also honestly I don't feel like isi thought they would leave them and if they did leave them they weren't good friends anyway so let's get these pics. Instead of feeling like it is his bday let's go. Isi was selfish in that moment.
Yes maybe it wasn’t made to clear she was invited but in no way was she being selfish if she was unaware that she wasn’t directly invited. As she said if she had been informed that they didn’t want stop 🛑 and take the pics she wouldn’t of pushed to take them though I see your point of view.
ItzT I agree I think his boys didn’t want her to come because she would want to do couples things when it was supposed to be just boys doing what they wanted to do. And I feel Isa was hurt because she felt like he shouldn’t of asked her to come because she wants to do things that the group didn’t want to do. And Josh should of been honest . Boys don’t do the group pic downtown they look for other girls they can kick it with to see what they can get into shop a little if they drink get some drinks then go home
I agree. Since they were a new couple and they were going to her area and they were all friends, he wanted her come. When two people in the circle goes from friends to couple, the group dynamic changes. Yea they were all friends but it may have been just a friend thing and they didn’t want to be rude/mean by saying no couples when she is a friend. When he said they didn’t want to take pictures, they should’ve took a quick selfie or something and ran to catch up to them. The day wasn’t about them so the rest could leave if they want to.
@@itzt9481 I understand but do you know what I mean when I say subconsciously ppl can not GAF?? He said even after he said they left she wanted a few more pics. It feels like Isi and her buddy were use to operating one way and being somewhat catered to by men so when they left she had more of an offended thought process like they left us as opposed to dang we were so caught up in our own world we didn't keep up with the birthday guy. The situation had flaws on both ends but it could have been avoided if it was made clear that this should be a guys trip
I actually understand why. He was wrong for how he handled it, but maaaaan I understand when ppl wanna take pics ( they think it’s 3min, when it’s really much longer) and you wanna move on, and you just snap because you don’t want to, but you wanna be nice, but you really trying to MOVE ON. Haha I get it, I get it, I get it
Lemme just say I NEVER see TH-camrs being this open about their relationship. This was so real & honestly brave to do because you can easily portray to us that you’re a perfect, always happy couple. It was so relatable to me because an argument my boyfriend and I had a couple years ago where he snapped on me STILL bothers me & I hate talking about it. He’s grown so much but I still can’t forget that damn argument 💀
Seems like Josh was just trying to keep everyone happy without bringing it to everyone’s attention. EDIT: I remember when you guys first told us about this story time, GROWTH 😂❤️
Awww Josh, really love how u are sensitive to others emotions, listen attentively, take criticisms, accept/ learn from ur mistakes and apologize. Talking from experience, most times the passive partner's relevance maybe overlooked in a relationship but u really are the glue that holds the relationship together. I'm in love with Isi's aggressive nature which builds and shapes up a relationship to greater heights but if not used well cld be destructive (like a hammer). U both complement each other well. As regards ur first argument, I think it was wrong from the beginning to do individual task on the birthday boy's celebration time. Glad u guys have gone past it. Waiting for the next story time.
Love this. I remember hearing that people need to get comfortable being uncomfortable. Being able to admit when you're sorry and talking things out would save so many relationships...
Jo, I think that Isi's apprehension to apologize was based on the fact that she felt that she didn't do anything wrong. I agree with her. What was she apologizing for? For wanting to take pics or for not knowing (or hearing) that is friends were gonna take off? I think Josh got it wrong this time. I don't think Isi owed him an apology.
Jo I’m the same, and is definitely something i’m trying to work on in my relationship! Putting my pride aside i’d definitely something i struggle with haha
It's hard to put pride aside. When you are in an argument and you finally see you're wrong, you literally feel your heart tighten because you know you should apologize. Lol
Honestly, I'm NEVER one to comment or even give "constructive criticism" but i have to say, Isi, you gotta give Josh a chance sometimes. This video kinda gave me some insight on your reception when it comes to disagreements between the two of you and I believe that you need to work on that. Idk it just feels like you weren't even trying to completely understand where Josh was coming from while on the other hand, Josh was being completely understanding. It feels weird saying this because I'm no therapist but I feel like this small thing (good reception) can actually make your relationship even more secure than it already is. If you watch the video yourself you can see how timid/apprehensive Josh is when he's speaking on certain things and that's really not a good thing.
I absolutely HATE commenting on people's relationships, especially ones on social media because I don't truly know your relationship inside out. I made this comment in hopes that you would see it because truth be told, I ABSOLUTELY want you guys to overcome simple disagreements like this and become stronger as a couple so I said why not. LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!
Boys were prob like this is turning into a date when its supposed to be Dantes BDay. Sophomore year in college we’re still immature then. Felt like Josh was really torn between his bros and his new gf like he said lol.
but honestly, immaturity aside, how would you feel if your girls trip was kinda taken away from you a little by your friend bringing their boyfriend and he brings his friend ...? Exactly, lmao. I wouldn't like it either tbh, no hard feelings but it's my day and I wanna do what I wanna do on my day with WHO I wanna do it with.
Another quality video! I kinda feel for Josh, he’s trying to please both Isi and his friends! Glad you’re both mature about this, can look back on it and reflect on the good and bad points. Moral of the story - don’t give up! Please bring the parents!!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Some constructive criticism for the lovely, stunning, gorgeous couple…Isi I love you but you need to learn to listen to Josh to understand and not respond because it comes off that way sometimes. You tend to cut him off a lot when he’s talking on his side of things whereas he sits and listens to you attentively before saying anything. He always owns up when he’s wrong about something and I don’t think it was fair to make him apologize like that when you couldn’t even apologize for being wrong about being invited to dinner. It’s something I’ve observed in some of your videos. I know you probably don’t mean to do it and I know it’s most likely not a regular thing with you guys but…it’s worrisome. And sis if you’re like me then your face tells your whole truth but your facial expressions at times make it seem like listening to him is a bit of a bother. I love you guys and I would hate to see a little pride mess up your dynamic at all.
I'm a fairly new subscriber and I noticed this from jump. So glad to see that I'm not the only one (or crazy). Josh seems to be very patient now, but with time that can easily change, especially now that they are in even closer proximity.
all Josh had to do was tell his homeboy "give me 5 min, we going to take a couple of pics and we can head out" and the friends were very immature to just leave and feel a type of way 👀 js
Hopefully it’s different in how they interact with their friends now that they’re older. Because I’ll stick with my spouse all the way. The friends can be mad but I’ll make sure my spouse is good first... that’s just me 🙂
I love how Isi had nothing to say/ didnt take any responsibility for that day. You might not think you did anything wrong but at least meet him in the middle. Your pride mama, your pride
I feel like y'all handled that pretty well. The way you guys speak it's like you're both coming from a place of understanding which is rare. As humans we're suuuch complex beings that sometimes the only thing to do is agree to disagree, but either way you guys are still inspiring. I love y'all and I'm rooting for you❤
All signs or people have potential to be great or toxic. Its not necessarily subject to a specific category. Even then. You gotta balance your good with your bad by trying to be better as a person.
Year96 And I completely understand that, but if it was my birthday and my friends were taking pictures I would wait for them. (And take some pictures of my own!)
I just wanna say this and be very clear. Being a man and being a woman requires maturity and humility and also understanding to relate to one another. Men and women naturally operate differently. It truly is beautiful when two people can speak their mind and be understood and humble enough to accept their wrongdoings or what could've been done better. Year one brought you to year five and this is the way qualiiiiiiiittttttty healthy relationships thrive!
If this is one of your guys' biggest arguments in your relationship thus far, you guys will be just fine. Lol... Wait until you own a home together, have children, share bills etc. You guys are so cute lol.. I'm glad you were both able to talk this out and hold both of yourselves accountable. Honestly, I think the biggest person at fault though is the third party- Josh's friends. Honestly, them just leaving sort of makes it sound like possibly, they didn't want Isi to be there and they may have been a little bitter?
I feel like they just wanted it to be some typa boys thing which is understandable but the thing is they shouldve expressed that instead of walking away.
@@juliamibuy2749 That's exactly what it was most likely. We've all been in that situation. It actually could have been prevented if they told him that before Josh asked her to come though.
I was thinking the same thing. THIS is the top 5 BIGGEST fight??!!🤣👌🏾 Ha! Lord.... With that being said, I hope whenever they do face bigger obstacles they will prevail together ❤. They'll be alright 👍
I love the bond and chemistry yall have for another and the fact that you give us the truth about relationships. A true relationship has it's ups and downs and the real test is how do you make it out of the down moments. Do you work on it or walk away? I love all of your storytimes and Isi your hair is extremely beautiful and you have a beautiful smile. Josh you are such a gentleman for sticking by her and putting in the work to make it last. The world need more people like the both of you.
This should have been a boys night out. Isi and her roommate should have stayed home. Whatever the birthday boy wanted to do is what should have been done. Simple...
Ariy Safari okay yeah the older video! I’ve been around for a while and remember a vlog or some sort of this lol I was saying the story in my head before they even could😂
I love both of you but this time I really couldn't stand Isi's faces. It stresses me out 😂 I might finish the video later but girl, you need to chill and try to be more understanding towards Josh and what he says. If it was y'all friend's birthday, his friends and Josh were right.
Yall compliment each other so well... and love your openness and the way you communicatewith each other. It's a beautiful thing to see. To me yall are more so #relationshipgoals than these celebrity couples. Love you guys ❤
you guys should definitely do the video with y’all parents but also i think you should do a video with your friends/friend groups like how they felt about y’all relationship
I think Isi is a good person but she needs to work more on owning her part in the argument and at least understanding why he snapped. He was in a dilemma. I also feel like she is consistently pointing fingers at him and that the wrongness weighs heavily on his side, making it look like she can do no wrong. I am not absconding Josh of raising his voice. Good for Josh, for working on his temper. With love I say it's now on Isi to work on her pride. Much love. May your relationship be blessed. 💜
I love that is apologetic about his mistakes. That is rare in a man and especially women. I can't wait to see your wedding video. Ensure you both pray and serve God as you are both going places.
I think yall have to remember that you might have been in the same moment but your point of views, memories, and feelings are different because you are individuals. You guys definitely handled it better this time but isi could get better at listening not just to listen but to understand. I'm just going off the video so..Irdk anything
Josh: yes, because it felt like you didn’t listen to me when I SAID they were leaving us ISI: mmm, I didn’t hear this Josh: exactly Me: damn sis 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂 you literally just made this mans point lol!
some of these comments so harsh on isi but i feel like this is just normal how a relationship goes😂 everyone can work on being a better listener but honestly none of us were there for this argument of theirs, maybe it’s a bad memory enough that it caused some of her facial expressions and such. overall it didn’t come across crazy or anything, they still had a playful and understanding vibe throughout the whole video which is good. even if they didn’t come to a full agreement on things to this day they still handled the situation maturely and they can move on. definitely my fave youtube couple 💕
I know maturity comes with age but I can't get over how they were both able to hold themselves accountable for the miscommunication that sparked their argument, even if it was 4-5 years ago. That's a solid relationship, periodt.
Periodtt
I agree !
Isi didn't hold herself accountable for anything
@@nehemacherubala584 honestly
Yea she didn’t she jus apologized at the end after he did the only thing she said was it was a miscommunication and that she didn’t hear him and that it was only pics and she still holding a grudge about it and she was being a brat cuz she wanted pics but i still love her tho cu she’s grown still spoiled lol but she’s grown
I would like to hear josh's friends point of view from that day
Me too
Me too but I feel like it could got well and squash any beef or really bad and rekindle bad feelings and hostility by adding to the problem of choosing your friends over your boo.
I had the same thought...then I had a after thought they probably don't care and this issue really is between their relationship
buutifuleyes thats true
I feel like maybe josh friends just wanted josh there. An all boys type of thing. Issi and her friend tagging along may have made them a little upset. If they felt that way though they should've expressed that.
If they were already distancing themselves when y’all got off the train then I lowkey take that is they were probably annoyed with yal. Maybe birthday boy wanted it to be his boys trip and didn’t want girls there but never expressed that...definitely a miscommunication on all parties.
Yea
I agree cause when I plan a girls day and someone brings their boyfriend I feel some kinda way. Cause I don’t bring my man when I’m supposed to be with my girls
Honestly, I see where josh messed up but isi being his first girlfriend i 100% understand cause it was always his boys and now he had to add another person in and the relationship was fresh.
I love how well Josh listens when Isi speaks. He listens intently and does not cut her off. He lets her say her full piece before chiming in. Y’all notice whenever Josh tries to explain his side of anything in videos, Isi always cuts in and either has comments to explain herself during his story or tells him that she doesn’t like how he’s wording things in an attempt to control how he says his side of stories? It was even worse the first time they tried to tell the story. Maybe it’s only like this on camera and not regularly. I really do support y’all, but Isi you have to learn to be able to truly listen. Not just listening to respond.
Yea I’ve noticed that also
Sasha_93 Chisey ive noticed that a lot too. i understand certain things rile her up, but it’s unfair to josh as he waits until isi’s done talking to explain his point, and she consistently cuts him off or reiterates her displeasure of what he says :(
LanaDelNeigh agreed
Isi I really if you read the comments, I hope you don’t take this as people being haters or bashing you. It’s just an observation that’s beneficial to any kind of relationship if a stop is put to it early. It’s okay to not always be seen in the upmost positive light 24/7. There are going to be times where people tell stories about you that may not make you look the best. But you’ll go crazy trying to have full control over how you are seen in the public eye all the time. I think that may just be the Virgo in you though
Agreed. I think them telling this specific story is a great example bc she still didn’t seem ready to talk about this particular topic imo and the few moments that riled her up ended in her cutting josh off. I just think it could happen less often if they want to grow as a couple bc eventually that might hurt their relationship if she lets that go on too long. Idk I still support them, just agreeing with the pattern/observation that was pointed out
Josh’s friends weren’t feeling ya’ll from the beginning of the trip. They probably were pissed that you were tending to Isi, or even the fact that she was there, because they didn’t have any girls with them 🤷🏽♀️
Isi:
Hoops HANGIN',
Curls POPPIN',
Skin GLOWIN'..
YASSSSSS!
hotel? trivago
@@omgisthatchristian 😂😂😂😂😂😂
isi gotta let josh say his piece fully sometimes, i love both of them but i feel like sometimes she’s already coming up with how she wants to chime in instead of listening fullyyyy to josh, you can tell they both want to get over this one altercation tho
Thank you 🙂
I feel like that photo session took longer than Isi perceived it to be, and also that the friends didn't necessarily want her there in the first place but wouldn't flat out say "don't bring her" because it would seem kinda rude.
I relate with this so much. I had my friend bring her boyfriend to my all girls birthday
Radiant Queen ISI, King Josh has been so patient and understanding and has constantly expressed lament for his actions. Please receive that. He’s trying so hard to be careful with his words, and it feels like he still being snapped at. Like yes he was wrong, but the situation was hard. Give him some graceeeee and try to match that energy that he gives when apologizes. His feelings are just as important as yours. Speaking to him gently is just as important as him doing that for you. That’s all. Love you all, hope that this talk helped you all both see a lot. What you have to work on, and how lucky you are to have each other!
Thats what im saying. I pick up on this every video. Its not fair
I agree. It seemed like Isi was hostile and critical towards Josh no matter how careful he was being with his words when he was explaining his side of the story. I love them both but watching this video was super uncomfortable.
India Arie yeahhh I felt really bad for Josh. I know Isi is able to change though, so hopefully she receives the criticism and applies it ✨🙏🏾
Addybaby I know ☹️. Hoping she and josh will really address that soon...
Agreed. I feel as though if you know it’s someone’s birthday (which is the only reason why they ended up at the bean in the first place) at least do what the birthday boy has planned. If he wants to leave then leave because it’s not your birthday and you go to the bean any other time.
I am not gonna lie, I've been reading the comments and QUALITY CREW is coming through with the constructive criticism!!! I love how everyone is sharing their opinions respectfully and with love. Now I'm not gonna reiterate because i know how it feels seeing the same thing over and over lol. But I just wanna say that you guys should most definitely disregard the comments if it isn't like that off camera. At the end of the day we're all just going off of what we see in a video, we really don't know what it's like when the cameras are off. LOVE YOU GUYS xoxo
Agreed
Taking your girl on what was clearly a boys trip wasn't the right move. I would never take my guy with me on a trip with the girls. Especially when it's a birthday trip.
That's true but they were fresh
@@daniellejohns1160 more of a reason not to take a S.O.
Very true!
They were all friends as well it wasn't a "boys trip"
they were all friends so it wasn’t a “boys trip” they were all just celebrating they’re friends birthday together
Josh should not have brung you on that trip. The fact that they walked ahead of y'all, then left y'all, then gave funny energy toward Josh when he caught up means ISI WAS NOT INVITED! It seems like a boys trip.
That is the foundation of the issue.
Also honestly I don't feel like isi thought they would leave them and if they did leave them they weren't good friends anyway so let's get these pics. Instead of feeling like it is his bday let's go. Isi was selfish in that moment.
Yep
Yes maybe it wasn’t made to clear she was invited but in no way was she being selfish if she was unaware that she wasn’t directly invited. As she said if she had been informed that they didn’t want stop 🛑 and take the pics she wouldn’t of pushed to take them though I see your point of view.
ItzT I agree I think his boys didn’t want her to come because she would want to do couples things when it was supposed to be just boys doing what they wanted to do. And I feel Isa was hurt because she felt like he shouldn’t of asked her to come because she wants to do things that the group didn’t want to do. And Josh should of been honest . Boys don’t do the group pic downtown they look for other girls they can kick it with to see what they can get into shop a little if they drink get some drinks then go home
I agree. Since they were a new couple and they were going to her area and they were all friends, he wanted her come. When two people in the circle goes from friends to couple, the group dynamic changes. Yea they were all friends but it may have been just a friend thing and they didn’t want to be rude/mean by saying no couples when she is a friend. When he said they didn’t want to take pictures, they should’ve took a quick selfie or something and ran to catch up to them. The day wasn’t about them so the rest could leave if they want to.
@@itzt9481 I understand but do you know what I mean when I say subconsciously ppl can not GAF?? He said even after he said they left she wanted a few more pics. It feels like Isi and her buddy were use to operating one way and being somewhat catered to by men so when they left she had more of an offended thought process like they left us as opposed to dang we were so caught up in our own world we didn't keep up with the birthday guy.
The situation had flaws on both ends but it could have been avoided if it was made clear that this should be a guys trip
Them friends just leaving without saying anything was definitely not it...
josh felt like he was walking on thin ice this whole video😭you can just see it
Cringe
I actually understand why.
He was wrong for how he handled it, but maaaaan I understand when ppl wanna take pics ( they think it’s 3min, when it’s really much longer) and you wanna move on, and you just snap because you don’t want to, but you wanna be nice, but you really trying to MOVE ON.
Haha
I get it, I get it, I get it
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this story time is bringing up some charged feelings from that argument...ISI tryna hold her tongue had me lol love y’all!!😭💖
Josh is so attentive when Isi speaks
Lemme just say I NEVER see TH-camrs being this open about their relationship. This was so real & honestly brave to do because you can easily portray to us that you’re a perfect, always happy couple. It was so relatable to me because an argument my boyfriend and I had a couple years ago where he snapped on me STILL bothers me & I hate talking about it. He’s grown so much but I still can’t forget that damn argument 💀
Josh is super patient with Isi frfr
NO SERIOUSLY
I felt the tention through the screen😭 but you guys talked about it in such a civilized way. I admire that.
Seems like Josh was just trying to keep everyone happy without bringing it to everyone’s attention. EDIT: I remember when you guys first told us about this story time, GROWTH 😂❤️
Definitely growth because Isi, though she is my girl, was rude in the first one. Hahaha
@@sarahbelle1993 where can i find the original one
Facts
I feel like Josh is right they said they didn’t want to take pictures it was his friends Birthday and everybody should have moved on together
Their relationship is so sweet but irl love is scarrreyyyy
I felt this on another level
“irl love”?
@@kaylao.3326 "In real life."
Awww Josh, really love how u are sensitive to others emotions, listen attentively, take criticisms, accept/ learn from ur mistakes and apologize. Talking from experience, most times the passive partner's relevance maybe overlooked in a relationship but u really are the glue that holds the relationship together. I'm in love with Isi's aggressive nature which builds and shapes up a relationship to greater heights but if not used well cld be destructive (like a hammer). U both complement each other well. As regards ur first argument, I think it was wrong from the beginning to do individual task on the birthday boy's celebration time. Glad u guys have gone past it. Waiting for the next story time.
Love this.
I remember hearing that people need to get comfortable being uncomfortable. Being able to admit when you're sorry and talking things out would save so many relationships...
Yes. I had to learn to do it. It's so hard but worth it.
The moms always peeping those long hugs and other interactions😂
😂 Watching Isi be wrong is like watching myself. It’s so hard to apologize or accept defeat. We gotta work on that pride!
Jo, I think that Isi's apprehension to apologize was based on the fact that she felt that she didn't do anything wrong. I agree with her. What was she apologizing for? For wanting to take pics or for not knowing (or hearing) that is friends were gonna take off? I think Josh got it wrong this time. I don't think Isi owed him an apology.
Lisa Johnson that’s cool but I was referring to her hesitance to apologize when she was wrong about how/when she was introduced to his parents.
@@meauxjojo you're right! I forgot about that part. LoL
Jo I’m the same, and is definitely something i’m trying to work on in my relationship! Putting my pride aside i’d definitely something i struggle with haha
It's hard to put pride aside.
When you are in an argument and you finally see you're wrong, you literally feel your heart tighten because you know you should apologize. Lol
Honestly, I'm NEVER one to comment or even give "constructive criticism" but i have to say, Isi, you gotta give Josh a chance sometimes. This video kinda gave me some insight on your reception when it comes to disagreements between the two of you and I believe that you need to work on that. Idk it just feels like you weren't even trying to completely understand where Josh was coming from while on the other hand, Josh was being completely understanding. It feels weird saying this because I'm no therapist but I feel like this small thing (good reception) can actually make your relationship even more secure than it already is. If you watch the video yourself you can see how timid/apprehensive Josh is when he's speaking on certain things and that's really not a good thing.
I absolutely HATE commenting on people's relationships, especially ones on social media because I don't truly know your relationship inside out. I made this comment in hopes that you would see it because truth be told, I ABSOLUTELY want you guys to overcome simple disagreements like this and become stronger as a couple so I said why not. LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!
That end when they apologized to one another was so beautiful. That was so healthy
Yes we want a video with y’all parents perspectives!!!
Boys were prob like this is turning into a date when its supposed to be Dantes BDay. Sophomore year in college we’re still immature then. Felt like Josh was really torn between his bros and his new gf like he said lol.
but honestly, immaturity aside, how would you feel if your girls trip was kinda taken away from you a little by your friend bringing their boyfriend and he brings his friend ...? Exactly, lmao. I wouldn't like it either tbh, no hard feelings but it's my day and I wanna do what I wanna do on my day with WHO I wanna do it with.
Omg I see you all over Pinterest
Josh and Isi spoke facts! Communication is so important! And that kiss in the end was so adorable.
They say Quality in such a quality way 😍
Another quality video! I kinda feel for Josh, he’s trying to please both Isi and his friends! Glad you’re both mature about this, can look back on it and reflect on the good and bad points. Moral of the story - don’t give up! Please bring the parents!!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
If you don't mind me asking, are u nigerian?
I’m sure they re-uploaded this video. 🤔
Yes they did it over ....the private video didnt even have the intro or the outro
I think they did it accidentally hey
yes on insta they said they had technical difficulties
There were audio issues
I thought I was psychic for a second I was all types of confused cause I know dang well I done seen this already 😭🤣💯💯💯
Can y’all do the myers briggs personality test
ohh that would be really cool to see what types they get!!
🌱 awkward & uncomfortable moments are the first steps to growth 🌳
Some constructive criticism for the lovely, stunning, gorgeous couple…Isi I love you but you need to learn to listen to Josh to understand and not respond because it comes off that way sometimes. You tend to cut him off a lot when he’s talking on his side of things whereas he sits and listens to you attentively before saying anything. He always owns up when he’s wrong about something and I don’t think it was fair to make him apologize like that when you couldn’t even apologize for being wrong about being invited to dinner. It’s something I’ve observed in some of your videos. I know you probably don’t mean to do it and I know it’s most likely not a regular thing with you guys but…it’s worrisome. And sis if you’re like me then your face tells your whole truth but your facial expressions at times make it seem like listening to him is a bit of a bother. I love you guys and I would hate to see a little pride mess up your dynamic at all.
Yeah I've always noticed that. It does seem like they're getting better though.
Well said. I notice it always. She needs to understand that eventually it will wear him down :(
She can be very prideful and my shit don’t stank-esq. it’s tough humbling her from her high horse
I'm a fairly new subscriber and I noticed this from jump. So glad to see that I'm not the only one (or crazy). Josh seems to be very patient now, but with time that can easily change, especially now that they are in even closer proximity.
all Josh had to do was tell his homeboy "give me 5 min, we going to take a couple of pics and we can head out" and the friends were very immature to just leave and feel a type of way 👀 js
Hopefully it’s different in how they interact with their friends now that they’re older. Because I’ll stick with my spouse all the way. The friends can be mad but I’ll make sure my spouse is good first... that’s just me 🙂
I’m so invested into this. Here I am binging on their story of how the happened. 5 or 6 videos later lol y’all so cute
Supposed to be finishing my paper, but I got a notification instead. We all know what comes first lmao. The paper will get done after this video lol
Same sis 😂😂😂 I have a deadline today thou so I'll be back.
@@SimplyBrit._. #QualityQrew right there
@@renaescott313 Ikr!
Same☺️😂.
Deja Perry Me too sis 😭😭
wow, just found this channel and am already loving this couple....WHAT AN ADMIRABLE COUPLE!!!!!
I love how Isi had nothing to say/ didnt take any responsibility for that day. You might not think you did anything wrong but at least meet him in the middle. Your pride mama, your pride
The I’m sorries tho. You can just see the love in their eyes. Oh my heart melted ❤️
lol the beginning of the video is so funny, why is it so hard for Isi to admit that she's wrong? Virgo energy lmao.
I feel like y'all handled that pretty well. The way you guys speak it's like you're both coming from a place of understanding which is rare. As humans we're suuuch complex beings that sometimes the only thing to do is agree to disagree, but either way you guys are still inspiring. I love y'all and I'm rooting for you❤
When he’s a non toxic Aquarius🙏🏾
aquarius’ aren’t toxic😂
@@saniyahmirah facts #aquariusgang
Right because I've met some very toxic ones.
Istg every time i become friend with an aquarius they are always toxic😂
All signs or people have potential to be great or toxic. Its not necessarily subject to a specific category. Even then. You gotta balance your good with your bad by trying to be better as a person.
I would’ve left y’all too if it was my bday and my friend brought their s/o not to be rude or anything
But keep in mind that they were all friends before they became a couple. So they all knew her closely, and still left her!
Vyes Sampson but they didn’t leave her alone . There’s a difference she was with Josh & her friend . If it’s my bday we on what I want to do
Year96 And I completely understand that, but if it was my birthday and my friends were taking pictures I would wait for them. (And take some pictures of my own!)
Vyes Sampson yup I would have took pics too but that’s us. Not everyone’s the same which is why on that specific persons bday they get to choose 🤷🏽♀️
loveee the transparency! it's so refreshing to see a TH-cam couple who shows us the reality of s relationship.
I just wanna say this and be very clear. Being a man and being a woman requires maturity and humility and also understanding to relate to one another. Men and women naturally operate differently. It truly is beautiful when two people can speak their mind and be understood and humble enough to accept their wrongdoings or what could've been done better. Year one brought you to year five and this is the way qualiiiiiiiittttttty healthy relationships thrive!
Yessss that parent video would be amazing!!...some new perspectives and even things you both maybe
didn't know
The thumbs up was given but this is the extra demonstration of interest in the Parents’ POV Storytime 😂. Love y’all ❤️❤️
If this is one of your guys' biggest arguments in your relationship thus far, you guys will be just fine. Lol... Wait until you own a home together, have children, share bills etc. You guys are so cute lol.. I'm glad you were both able to talk this out and hold both of yourselves accountable. Honestly, I think the biggest person at fault though is the third party- Josh's friends. Honestly, them just leaving sort of makes it sound like possibly, they didn't want Isi to be there and they may have been a little bitter?
I feel like they just wanted it to be some typa boys thing which is understandable but the thing is they shouldve expressed that instead of walking away.
@@juliamibuy2749 That's exactly what it was most likely. We've all been in that situation. It actually could have been prevented if they told him that before Josh asked her to come though.
I was thinking the same thing. THIS is the top 5 BIGGEST fight??!!🤣👌🏾 Ha! Lord.... With that being said, I hope whenever they do face bigger obstacles they will prevail together ❤. They'll be alright 👍
I love the bond and chemistry yall have for another and the fact that you give us the truth about relationships. A true relationship has it's ups and downs and the real test is how do you make it out of the down moments. Do you work on it or walk away? I love all of your storytimes and Isi your hair is extremely beautiful and you have a beautiful smile. Josh you are such a gentleman for sticking by her and putting in the work to make it last. The world need more people like the both of you.
I ain't even gonna lie tbh I'll be missing y'all even though it was only 2 days since you posted ❤️❤️❤️
This should have been a boys night out. Isi and her roommate should have stayed home. Whatever the birthday boy wanted to do is what should have been done. Simple...
It's obvious you didn't watch the whole video...........(*sips tea*)
Not really, i can see how someone would come to that conclusion
I felt that sorry! I agree that the non communication and listening was the issue but glad you’re still together. You’re beautiful . Much love 💜
I feel like I’ve heard this before. Didn’t y’all have a vlog about this?🤔🤔🤔
Azana Ezekiel this is a reupload
Tashia Jimmerson that and an older video
Ariy Safari okay yeah the older video! I’ve been around for a while and remember a vlog or some sort of this lol I was saying the story in my head before they even could😂
They posted it last week for story time but ended up taking it down due to technical difficulties.
They uploaded this last week but it never had the intro part or how she met his parents, I think was a mistake in the editing 😣
I watched the story two years ago and it seems like it’s still a little sore ❤️and I think that’s perfect cause you seem more real to us
I love both of you but this time I really couldn't stand Isi's faces. It stresses me out 😂 I might finish the video later but girl, you need to chill and try to be more understanding towards Josh and what he says. If it was y'all friend's birthday, his friends and Josh were right.
I agree
Girl, Yes we need a sit down with the parents 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I was expecting this fight was to be like huge, like huuuggeeee. I’m underwhelmed🔥
24:24 my heart🥺 you guys are being fr we appreciate the genuineness
I’m with Isi on the fact that I know my bestttt friends would never leave if some of us are taking pics but idk if guys are the same way🤷🏾♀️
I would LOVE to see a video with y’all’s parents involved.
Yall compliment each other so well... and love your openness and the way you communicatewith each other. It's a beautiful thing to see. To me yall are more so #relationshipgoals than these celebrity couples. Love you guys ❤
24:26 -24:37 the love and sincerity was wholesome 💗💕
i’ve been waiting so long for this QuAlItY storytime
Yes please do a sit down. I would love to see that
Josh & I have the same birthday! Whoop Whoop! New to the Quality Crew! I have been binging you guys all week!
i was rewatching old videos like this and realized your anniversary is on my birthday :) february 8th is a lovely day i see
I just went through all these story times lol I loved it ❤️
you guys should definitely do the video with y’all parents but also i think you should do a video with your friends/friend groups like how they felt about y’all relationship
I think Isi is a good person but she needs to work more on owning her part in the argument and at least understanding why he snapped. He was in a dilemma. I also feel like she is consistently pointing fingers at him and that the wrongness weighs heavily on his side, making it look like she can do no wrong. I am not absconding Josh of raising his voice. Good for Josh, for working on his temper. With love I say it's now on Isi to work on her pride. Much love. May your relationship be blessed. 💜
this video is already making so much more sense!
Y’all gave literally taught me so muchh fr ! And I’m glad y’all have the courage to apologize to each other !
I love these storytimes! They're funny, vulnerable, and moving! keep it up!
8:57 The little kiss thing was soo cute😍
🙄 I dont know how people can NOT be subscribed. Did it years ago and I have never regretted it 💗💓
Ugh Isi!!! You make me wish I would’ve never cut my hair. Your hair is so beautiful 😍
Story time with parents! Yes please here for it! Love and support you guys! Stay safe! Take care!
And yessss! Bring y'all parents! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Growing pains... It made y'all stronger!!
I love that is apologetic about his mistakes. That is rare in a man and especially women. I can't wait to see your wedding video. Ensure you both pray and serve God as you are both going places.
I’m so grateful I found this channel, guys are helping me be authentic in my own relationship
I think yall have to remember that you might have been in the same moment but your point of views, memories, and feelings are different because you are individuals. You guys definitely handled it better this time but isi could get better at listening not just to listen but to understand. I'm just going off the video so..Irdk anything
Loveee how real you guys are about relationships
y’all resilient+genuine for bringing this one back. ogs know it went interesting, but well, last time😅 love y’all
Video with the parents!!! Yes!!!👌🏾😝
#qualitycrew
I love y’all thank you for the quality that you give us every week multiple times a week.
Isi u should post the pictures if u still got them lol 😩
Josh: yes, because it felt like you didn’t listen to me when I SAID they were leaving us
ISI: mmm, I didn’t hear this
Josh: exactly
Me: damn sis 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂 you literally just made this mans point lol!
Breh YES
As soon as that this story time started, I knew exactly what story you guys were talking about 👏🏿👏🏿
some of these comments so harsh on isi but i feel like this is just normal how a relationship goes😂 everyone can work on being a better listener but honestly none of us were there for this argument of theirs, maybe it’s a bad memory enough that it caused some of her facial expressions and such. overall it didn’t come across crazy or anything, they still had a playful and understanding vibe throughout the whole video which is good. even if they didn’t come to a full agreement on things to this day they still handled the situation maturely and they can move on. definitely my fave youtube couple 💕
When they both apologized to each other 🥺
Ok Josh😍Aquarius. Now I know you the truth. Isi you got a good one there for sure. We love hard and true😘love you guys
ISI face when josh says you should apologize 🤣🤣🤣
Yes please bring the parents!! Love the video Isi's face the whole video says it all...
Been waiting on this re-upload they had technical difficulties the first time y’all