Stop Trying to Be Perfect

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  • @TobiasRobertson
    @TobiasRobertson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I resonate with this - my wife and I have dubbed ourselves “recovering perfectionists” and we do our best to balance working on something to the best of our abilities and not working on it past the point where we lose our love for the piece.
    I also heard very recently the idea that “your tastes are always outgrowing your abilities” - meaning the kind of stuff you love and want to emulate will ALWAYS be “better” than what you can make. I find it very comforting to think that and now tell myself to keep stretching towards that place by leaning into my own tastes, trusting that I’m always improving and focus on having the most fun!
    Love the content dude, as always

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a great point, absolutely.

  • @JonHoltMusic
    @JonHoltMusic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Done is better than perfect! That's a lesson I've struggled to learn for years as a musician and filmmaker. Each project gives a new opportunity to learn and grow, but if you don't allow yourself to move onto the next project you're hindering your ability to learn and become better as an artist. Sometimes letting go and posting what you have is exactly what you need in order to achieve what you're really after 🙌

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This. Exactly. You got it 100%. Such a big fan of your art btw

  • @ttereve1976
    @ttereve1976 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is a great video! Thank you. ❤ Just what I needed

  • @joshuasprings6927
    @joshuasprings6927 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My guy i do not understand how you have so few subscribers in the grand scheme of things anyway you are incredible your music your editing your production are all on point and i truly believe you and other people in my life have helped push me towards making my own music

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Subs are just a number my friend, what matters to me most are comments like this. Thanks for being apart of the journey ❤️

  • @wreybeeen
    @wreybeeen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm having a really hard time writing a perfect song right now, with my music career and all things are going south, I was able to come across your channel. I'm still new here btw, but when I clicked on this video I just realized that I needed this and it somehow motivates me in making and recording my songs again and probably produce it. thanks so much Trev! this video helped.

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No song will ever be perfect, you will find yourself equally stuck in your journey as you will inspired. It’s all part of the process my friend :)

  • @luzuniga
    @luzuniga 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video 🙏🩷!!

  • @CalmedByNature
    @CalmedByNature 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This idea resonates with me. I feel like my art is never finished I just eventually give up and force myself to share it 😂I can't watch or listen to videos I've recently posted because the disappointment or perceived weaknesses just jump out at me and it feels like all I can see or hear. What I have found though is that after 2 or 3 years I forget what it was that I didn't like and I'm able to appreciate the art as if I'm seeing it for the first time. And then I can think to myself, "hey that's actually pretty good." The weaknesses I do see then become sort of endearing to me and make me feel nostalgic about that time when I made the art. This is a somewhat recent revelation for me.

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happens to me ALL of the time. Any time I go back to my old videos, even if I don't think theyre good, I get very nostalgic because there is a certain charm that I just "did it". Love that this resonated with you, thank you for making the art that you make

    • @thesullivanstreetproject
      @thesullivanstreetproject 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you. As someone once said, “songs are never finished, only abandoned.”

  • @dangumbo4835
    @dangumbo4835 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Daniel Johnston changed my whole perspective on making music. Art is about showing our humanity and humanity is far from perfect.

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

    • @dangumbo4835
      @dangumbo4835 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TrevBarnes Love your videos btw. So down to earth and honest about the process of making things. Very relatable and most of all, the music you make is lovely. Keep up the important work.

  • @jimmyivmusic
    @jimmyivmusic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Needed this as a creator today! Love this!

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @ithemsmusic
    @ithemsmusic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I needed to hear this. I have so many songs on my hard drive, the songs will never be good enough, but how can I ever get better if I can't finish one song for once. And I shouldn't be scared of what other people will say, if one person resonates with your art it should all be worth it.

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No matter what, someone is not going to like what you do. On the other side of the same coin, no matter what, someone IS going to like what you do.
      Something I've come to realize, we care so much about what others think of our art because subconsciously we want them to feel the same impact that our art made us feel.

  • @justusaidan
    @justusaidan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    well said 🫶🏻

  • @seth_andal
    @seth_andal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gonna throw myself into the water. Thanks for the video mate 🍻

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You'll be swimming in no time my friend

  • @paul_thomson
    @paul_thomson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Presently I've been 3 weeks mixing one song... maybe I should stop now and upload the flippin thing - thanks for this.

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Go for it!

    • @ericktellez7632
      @ericktellez7632 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I week is normal, two weeks you are struggling, 3 weeks you have over mix it, walk away from it for at least 2-3 days and begin again this time limit yourself to under a week.

  • @Charles-gs4os
    @Charles-gs4os 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video Trev. Thanks for sharing

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!

  • @danielnorville
    @danielnorville 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow i needed this Trevor

    • @danielnorville
      @danielnorville 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you
      man you matter bro

    • @danielnorville
      @danielnorville 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      also ps howd you get that hazy light effect

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks! I got it two ways:
      1. Using a Cinebloom Filer over my lens
      2. I use Dehancer as an overlay to get that Filmic look

    • @danielnorville
      @danielnorville 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TrevBarnes thanks a ton ✍

  • @marconel3758
    @marconel3758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My problem is I easily get demotivated as I always compare myself to others. I always worry that because im getting older (24 turning 25) I might miss my chance, so i push as hard as I can but then, I see someone younger making their dreams come true and im stuck trying to even figure out what music i want to make and then either delete the project or let it rot on my hard drive. I also compare my instrument skills to others (also started learning late in my life back when in was studying sound in college) and even though I know practice makes perfect, I see self-taught kids playing amazingly and i still struggle learning a basic song.

    • @TrevBarnes
      @TrevBarnes  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As the wise Teddy Roosevelt has said, “Comparison is the thief of joy”. We tend to look at others and see them “pass” us in the race, but what we don’t take consideration is that we are all in different races. Just focus on what makes you happy, have your definition of success at the core level, you’ll be fine :) Wishing you the best of luck my friend

  • @martingoni2529
    @martingoni2529 4 หลายเดือนก่อน