School Reports Arrive with Good News and Bad News...

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
  • School reports are coming in today, and it's time to discuss the good, the bad, and even the ugly. But first, a solid breakfast and challenging riddle on the veranda. Then, everyone is off the Dave's school for him to collect his school report. On the way home, I do my best to engage Craig in a meaningful conversation regarding his school performance this past semester. It was challenging to say the least. We get home, work off some steam, and Andre comes by to begin the afternoon homework session. But not before he reveals his awesome report from school! We go back for Dave and sit down with him to discuss his report. For dinner, we try out luck at our first frozen pizza and it disappears quick. By the end of the rough day, even the dogs lead to disappointment. Just one of those days. Richness is Life.
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  • @Happey67
    @Happey67 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am late but thanks for sharing!!!

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Better late than never 🥰🤙

  • @philbek9055
    @philbek9055 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Hi Tyler. Your patience is phenomenal. Perhaps taking away his devices during the school week and also ensuring that he reads one book a week will enhance his vocabulary, sentencing, and comprehension as well as broaden his horizons. The legendary Dr Ben Carson was failing until his mom insisted that he read a book a week and write a report on it. That made a hugh difference. Hopefully, it will work for Craig too.
    Much respect to you and Sonia for your patience and calm understanding manner.
    Congratulations Andre!

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      We have the books collecting dust on the shelves…you can bring a horse to water…and hope they don’t drown!🥰🤙

    • @BeeVa-zl3pl
      @BeeVa-zl3pl 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      TylerU SHUD MAKG COMPULSORY, ITS NOT IF THEY WANT TO ,LAY DOWN DA RULES IN U IN YOU HOME.SONIA SHUD HVE TAKEN D IPOD WEATHER ITS TYLER OR NOT.U BOTH SPEAK FOR EACH,THOSE KIDS SHUD REPECT SONIA . SHE'S NOT LESS THAN U,MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND HER WORDS CARRY WEIGHT......A​@fireandirie

  • @Concerned-b2w
    @Concerned-b2w 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    The boy is just 14. He needs to finish high school before he is enrolled in the HEART programme, for those suggesting this. The school he attends offers technical subjects. At grade 10 he will get the chance to focus on the subjects he has a leaning towards. Then, his guardians can begin planning for his future specialization.
    He is a slow learner and seems to have missed out on some foundational things: however, I do not agree with those who say he should be sent to learn a trade/skill before completing high school.
    He needs remedial intervention.

  • @samrichman1145
    @samrichman1145 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Iknow it is hard working with those boys, Be Strong Tyler &Sonia 💪🏿 🙏🏿

  • @thriving_60
    @thriving_60 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Tyler, I hope all is well. You’ve got a tough job, but I think you are a natural at what you do. I know that you will come up with the right solution or solutions for the kids. I am loving every minute of what you are doing. Chin up

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🥰🤙 Enjoying the journey. Have a good weekend.

  • @oralsmith3873
    @oralsmith3873 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    ALWAYS GODS BLESSINGS FAMILY, ANDRE KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK, DAVE AND CRAIG KEEP STRIVING TO BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELVES, TYLER AND SONIA MUCH LOVE 💯💯💯💯❤❤❤❤

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@oralsmith3873 🥰🤙

  • @mandyjoy2255
    @mandyjoy2255 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Andre blowing kisses, he is so cute❤️

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Didn't notice that until I sat down to edit...too funny.

  • @oralsmith3873
    @oralsmith3873 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    BLESS UP YOURSELF JUNIOR

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Congratulations Andre

  • @trishnewman910
    @trishnewman910 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sandrag1995
    @sandrag1995 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Craig will improve as he gets older and the younger siblings will emulate. Keep up the good work Tyler & Sonia.❤ NYC .

  • @royyapp
    @royyapp 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Especially my little friend Dave.I was counting on him to be leading the other two children

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Junior report coming soon…and a much needed surprise!🫣

  • @soniajohnson543
    @soniajohnson543 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    That’s not stupid, when I was a child that’s one of the quiz we used to ask among ourselves.
    I love the introduction music, Ave Maria, beautiful.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too...=)

  • @veronicabrown6566
    @veronicabrown6566 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Great way in handling reports. The look on Craig’s face looks like remorse. I think he will improve, I do hope. Please tell him this grandma is rooting for him to pull up his socks!

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sounds like a plan!😎🤙

  • @kayemart8856
    @kayemart8856 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I agree with you Tyler. Parents need to find a way to communicatewith parents before report card day. A monthly checklist, email, whats app or something. The schools should set aside 30 -45 minutes per week for teachers to contact parents and vice versa.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It would definitely help alleviate some of the pressure coming in all at once! Enjoy the weekend!

  • @mandyjoy2255
    @mandyjoy2255 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Well done Andre keep it up

  • @julietlewis9987
    @julietlewis9987 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Fantastic job, Andre!!!! I can see where you are taking the help from Tyler with your lessons very serious.

  • @ValerieDouglas-b5w
    @ValerieDouglas-b5w 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good day Tyler, i love the way you talk to craig in this video, love the tone of talking

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Appreciate you! It's a journey...

    • @ladyJ_000
      @ladyJ_000 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Tyler has so much patience 🫶🏼

  • @cosmicwisdom999
    @cosmicwisdom999 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    So for Graig, he needs to catch upon his reading, and it sounds like, so he'll be able to understand his school work better

  • @samrichman1145
    @samrichman1145 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Warm welcome seeing Andre 👀 that kid 👍🏿 always have is 📚 , keep it up Son .... Tyler, talking to those boys is Brick'wall 🤔 an it get frustration sometimes... thks a'lot for yr vlog 🙏🏿

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      more like a cement wall I suppose...with a few cracks, some poor craftsmanship and a questionable foundation. =)

  • @englishrolle
    @englishrolle 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I have had the privilege of teaching high, medial, and low achievers in Jamaica and elsewhere for 20+ years combined. I conclude that every child will not be book smart even though it is the goal as it relates to teaching and learning, and overall educational development. Academic achievement occurs and appears in different ways such as fixing, building, planning, designing etc. Some children bloom later than others. Once a child can comprehend through reading writing, and basic Mathematics, that's a good start. Be encouraged.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@englishrolle well said…and yes, working on finding his strengths…slowly but surely. Happy Sunday😎🤙

  • @faithchung8082
    @faithchung8082 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Keep the faith Tyler...you said exactly what I thought the children have an in-house tutor! Take away the electronics and play time is for the weekends until the grades get better. As you said in the video yesterday the doing things for the first time is now past, they need to settle down. Dave needs to know its not able liking a subject. Agriculture is what puts food on the table someone had to grow the chicken that he eats at KFC or the cow that they got the beef from to put in the patty he likes so much from Mother's. The generation now is really different though its weird. But hold the faith and both you and Sonia keep on keeping on. God bless.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate the encouragement...all the advice is being taken into consideration, step by step.

  • @pwelly7717
    @pwelly7717 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Poor Sonia, Tyler said don’t over think it😀

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ha, right?!

  • @WannetiaSkyers
    @WannetiaSkyers 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good day Sonia and Tiler you ate doing a good job .But i thing has a learning disibility so i am asking for more one on one time because dont know how to explaine is self . I will be praying for him .

  • @haydeebish570
    @haydeebish570 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tyler & Sonia, Hat off to you and A+. Your job with 3 children to raise is not easy and I know being a mother of 3 too. Challenging and you are so patient. I took away electronics and game toys for 10 minutes to day depending on the reason. Do not take it away for too long or they will get use to it and not improve.Have him missed one fun trip too. Also have him tested for learning competency. And may have to get special lessons, classes depending on the results. God bless you for your efforts in raising these children!
    ❤️🙏🏽

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Resources are very scarce here, and sadly they're in the best placement possible based on what's available. Just doing the best we can with the hands we've been dealt. Enjoy the day!!!

  • @trishnewman910
    @trishnewman910 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dont give up, raising children is very hard and having an high expectations of them excelling in school is a Must.
    Though they are older, it might be effective if they study Andre's books and start from there.
    This also shows why teaching children in patois is defeating to the learning process at such a young age.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We do have plenty of books at their reading level, but motivating them is definitely the most difficult. Slowly but surely...enjoy the weekend. =)

  • @Sunsetvally77
    @Sunsetvally77 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good afternoon Tyler and family..Tell Andre I'm very proud of him with his school report, good job Andre keep it up ,Thanks to you Tyler for helping them . Craig needs to do better he has you to help him with his school work . Oh no your lime tree was growing so big and to see that the puppies destroyed it ..

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yea, the lime tree vanishing kind of the icing on the cake for the day...but glad their was some good news out of it. Enjoy the evening. =)

  • @UlrichMuller-om7qr
    @UlrichMuller-om7qr 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Rough times my friend. Remember how I got frustrated with our ASAP kids, well, life goes on. Keep your head up, you do a good job!

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How could I forget!🤣 No worries, heads been in the clouds for awhile now…not taking life too seriously…no beer for a month will do that to ya😎🤙 Hope Kauai is treating you well.

  • @beverley9560
    @beverley9560 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Good morning Family. ‘Whatever can go wrong will’. Frustratio!! Frustration!! Frustration!!!
    We will continue to keep praying for Craig (& everybody , of course). Great job Andre.
    Are there drama classes in the area? Could be after school program for Andre. Those different faces, hilarious.😂😂

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@beverley9560 Ha, not that I know of but will have to see…he gets plenty drama here at the house and like the other boys will be getting more hands on with some future videos.😎🤙

  • @A-zb8lu
    @A-zb8lu 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Take personality tests with them. There are several online. The findings will help steer them. Probably look into some school clubs such as interact, key, maths, quiz, choir, chess, science, debate, sign language, reading, cadet? How about a home book club with reading competitions for all the kids that you mentor? What about projects using materials like bamboo, clay, beads, craft to make things to sell? YT has tons of things to learn as well. The game Trivial Pursuit is an excellent game to expose their minds and foster better communication.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  13 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate the ideas and still working on motivations. Dave’s supposed to be on the track team but he’s refusing to go, Craig is in cadets but haven’t heard much consistency of the program at his school, and all are in pathfinders that’s supposed to go Sundays but they’ve cancelled the last several sessions. Working on developing video making competitions with them they can work on reading and tech skills. Slowly but surely.😎🤙

  • @KP-xh1kv
    @KP-xh1kv 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    They should only use the phones on the weekends.I gave my son a phone when he graduated high school. You've been awarding them for a whole year after the many wrongs that they have done.

  • @samrichman1145
    @samrichman1145 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Welcome back teacher 👍🏿some good thought as usual 🤔bigup yrself Tyler 🙏🏿

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@samrichman1145 here we go again…

  • @ceeg5098
    @ceeg5098 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Big congratulations to Andre the awesome👊🏽🙌🏾. Keep up the good work.

  • @theresacort2506
    @theresacort2506 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    So Tyler, if the school reporting system is archaic there, it may behove parents to contact the teachers for updates on performance intermittently. This may be a proactive approach. I believe Craig needs more one to one time to keep him focused. Perhaps an evening stroll with each boy may help to forge bonding and trust. It may help them to not feel like a charity case but more of a family. Always know you are a good and wise father. Your thoughts?

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@theresacort2506 It would be ideal if they expressed an equal amount of interest in the attempt, but at times it feels some of them at least are just happy to have their needs provided and anything in addition to that is a bit cumbersome. We’ve done the strolls in the past, and all have been invited, with an inconsistent interest in engaging. Honestly, I don’t have the numbers for the teachers aside from his form teacher and the school doesn’t have much for a website, but will see what we can do. Always an adventure.😎🤙

    • @theresacort2506
      @theresacort2506 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@fireandirie Hey Tyler, I'm pledging USD 100.00 to Craig if he works harder on his academics. This is incumbent on what his next report shows. I hope other members will join and match the $100. What do you think?

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Morning Theresa...I can definitely let him know it's an opportunity. I'd say he would need to pass each of his classes at a minimum, what do you think?

    • @hyacinthtucker4423
      @hyacinthtucker4423 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Tyler, you guys are doing a great job. However, this is a new experience for them all. Especially Craig who is older and has been without the love and care much longer. We cannot compare kids. I think he may be a little bit jealous about Andre’s attention. He needs hugs (touching). Has he been tested. I forgot it’s Jamaica. I would love to give those boys some hugs 🥰

    • @merdelmaxwell9428
      @merdelmaxwell9428 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hi Tyler your really a good and patient parent,you can see that Craig is really lacking understanding,at this time I think he needs more attention/help in his curriculum than Andre,because Andre is younger and have a lot more year to learn that Craig,please find the time to help him more in his school work 1-1 they have loss out on alot of years of what you're trying to give them
      Best regards👏👏❤️
      I too will pledge $50 .00 towards a better grade.

  • @SylviaH62
    @SylviaH62 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Dear Tyler and Sonia,I think in my humble opinion the boys lost there dad, there mother is not around and you guys are new in there life they truly have a lot on there minds they are not focus especially Dave that was there before should do better. you guys do a lot for them they are so fortunate one day they will get it and maybe one day they will understand that you both want the best for them.Congratulations Andre. All the best, Thank God for you both they’re in good hands even though it’s hard it will pay off one day by the help of God. Be blessed.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Very true and enjoying the adventure…most of the time! Happy Friday😎🤙

    • @SylviaH62
      @SylviaH62 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ Happy Friday to you and your as well

  • @marvelouslee3284
    @marvelouslee3284 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    👋🏾 family, speaking from personal experience I remembered leaving my two daughters ages 6 & 3 I left them with their father after 3 years when my daughters came to the US at ages 9 & 6 they couldn't read at their age level I have to get educational skills and help for them thanks be to God that the resources they needed was available. Long story short the girls are academic accomplished. Why my girls experience learning disability there were no (Tyler) let's leave it at that.
    The critical age for learning for children is from birth to around age 5 where the brain is most receptive to absorbing information and developing new skills, language and motor functions. That is why Andre and Mahrez is at that age level to learn. Congratulations Andre with obtaining A on your school report. Keep up the good grades, I told Tyler if you continue to do good in school I will reward you so something is coming your way. I see that😂 love ❤ you more Andre kisses back to you. You captured those facial expression very well you are alright in my book 😅 Tyler I can feel your frustration and the lime tree finally did it. sending you hugs 🫠

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Many thanks Miss Lee! In a good place and the little wins are always that much more enjoyable when they happen. Even the puppies betrayed me that day…the lime tree didn’t stand a chance. But the show must go on, and perspectives are always being adjusted. Appreciate you sharing and glad things worked out. Can’t imagine having to do 3 years apart. It took Sonia a year and a half to get through immigration and that was rough, but she was with her kids the whole time, so not even a comparison. Hope your daughters appreciate your sacrifices. Happy Friday.🥰🤙

  • @racquelyapp9259
    @racquelyapp9259 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I think there should be no phone no iPad during the week, I did that with my kids just weekends

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We're definitely getting to that point...right now it's only in the evening after chores and homework is done, but I agree, we'll see how it goes next few days...=)

  • @marvafrancis8524
    @marvafrancis8524 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hey, Tyler and Sonia continue to put in the work I. Hope, as they grow older, the brain will develop more are more understanding and I. Hope craig would improve. As he grow older.
    Not bad Dave.. I'm waiting on junior report. Good job Andre

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Fingers crossed for the future!🙏

  • @veronamarteifio4592
    @veronamarteifio4592 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Hi from London. I have watched you and Sonia's new chapter of life for a long while. Today i just want to encourage you both .... parenting at various points can be challenging and frustrating. This generation of teen children are different 😅 I have five spaced out over several years and I've found a lot of schools have become purely a social ground for some sadly. Know that yours and Sonia's nurture and intervention has raised your boys status forever. Your vision for their futures are brewing inside of them and is being established in ways even they cannot articulate. Your doing your best...no parent has all the answer so we hope and pray that something will stick. Its all about whether they care enough about themselves. They should understand that education is their currency/investment in themselves. But as you know as an educator...its all down to the students attitude. They will definitely get it - we know the sooner the better and greater they will be. One day when you hear or see them do a Tyler - esc or Sonia - esc thing.... you will quietly smile and will be satisfied with your reward. May the Lord strengthen your endeavours. Keep doing what you are doing.😊

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Blessings and thanks for the continued support...and so true. Andre already is picking up some of my mannerisms and sayings it's too funny (and endearing) to hear my words out of his mouth. Enjoy the evening. =()

    • @empressmalaya
      @empressmalaya 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯 agreed. You are spot on

  • @taragayle-rhoden4793
    @taragayle-rhoden4793 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think its simply about application. Craig is not applying himself in school at all. As the teacher said, he knows what to do, where to get help, but there's just no effort. You can bring the horse to well, but you can't force it to drink!

  • @BarbaraAlliman
    @BarbaraAlliman วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey Tyler and Sonia your doing great it isn’t easy to have young ones in this generation. Be firm and loving removing the phones and electronics absolutely a must. Have them read create a goal for reading and reward them for completing at the end. Tyler it will all work out just do your best that’s all you can do in the end the children have to want it

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      🥰🤙

  • @normalegister3786
    @normalegister3786 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I feel your frustration. I have been thinking that maybe the boys need a reality check. As harsh as this may sound they need to see how fortunate they are and what happens to you without an education or skill. Maybe a visit to a children's home and them having to give away something that they have to someone less fortunate. It might increase their insecurity or produce some ambition.😊

  • @royyapp
    @royyapp 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tyler sent me back a response.I am really interested in them.I watched the block every night before.I go to bed to see their response

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Happy Friday 🥰🤙

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tell them as it is Tyler.Dont take any loose talk from them

  • @yvonnemiller1284
    @yvonnemiller1284 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It seems evident that Andre is from a nurturing home. Unfortunately, for the boys it seemed less so. Consequently, their entire social, educational, psychological construct with limited positive collaborative interaction sadly has impeded their development; in human relation, discipline etc. Being accustomed to bare minimum and having to fend for yourself makes it difficult to articulate your needs, emotions, and attachment. Issues. It’s been a year, and the struggle and frustrations are real. Yes, their life circumstance has changed, but they are still experiencing the residue of benign neglect/ trauma etc. I hope this talk will the boys will help and begin to foster a more positive outcome in school/ grades, attitude/ respect for each other etc. I hope for a great outcome. Continued blessings.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Slowly but surely…🥰🤙

  • @ValerieDouglas-b5w
    @ValerieDouglas-b5w 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Andre is a smart boy, goooo andre

  • @dianneevans7325
    @dianneevans7325 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    uncle Tyler i think you should have contact with Craig school at all times i am not sre how its done but i think each class have a form teacher and you can get some form of information from them and sometimes just make an appointment without being called and check on them to see what they are doing especially when they lie.and.say they don get home work

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's been an interesting learning curve...we have the group text on WhatsApp with the form teacher, but individual subjects are hard to reach. There's no real website or email contact information...it's a wonder how they keep things together from my foreign perspective.

  • @Smag5580
    @Smag5580 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Smag5580 amen…

  • @handymom1966
    @handymom1966 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Hi Tyler and Sonia I know you both are doing your best and trying to give these boys the best of what you have but please bear in mind that all the years prior to these boys (Craig) was not living with you who knows what kind of brain stimulation they had and nurturing from their family so maybe the questions you are asking Craig his brain cannot comprehend and so he’s doesn’t know how to respond, yes I agree with others he should be put into a vocational school like HEART maybe I’m not GOD but just suggesting to hopefully help him have a future

  • @elizabethhall1527
    @elizabethhall1527 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow, wow, the school has failed this child immensely.
    I think he needs to start a new. Remove all the luxury (electronics, trips, monetary incentives) and get back to basics. Reading and writing from grade 1 level while still keeping up with homework. He knows his performance is not good. Let's hope he meet the challenge.
    I think he'll surprise us soon.
    Tyler, I think you can ask the teacher for the syllabus for the term/year to see what will be covered.
    Keep the faith, you will see much improvement. Once he gets his reading ability up to grade level he'll gain confidence and will excel.
    Congratulations Andre! Keep up the great work.
    Congratulations Dave, you have made great strive. Keep it going.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Slowly but surely🥰🤙

  • @A-zb8lu
    @A-zb8lu 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tyler, Craig is a teenager and may be going through changes. He is definitely not a special needs child. He needs encouragement and consistency. It seems there needs to be a push for all the kids to read more and expand their intellect. Dictionaries are great to study. Maybe they can join the local library? The librarians are usually really good with kids and they have workshops. Get him more engaged and disciplined with reading and practicing his school work and he will be fine.
    How about you create weekly to do list for each child and apart from chores and homework, incorporate interesting things in it. At the end of each week, hide something and let them seek it. What you hide could be the catalyst for a discussion or a reward that motivates. How about the occasional drop off to school with car chronicles? More one and one time at home?. Show them more affection. Poor Junior is dying for some of the attention you show Andre.
    What about them learning to play instruments? On your next outing maybe you can take them to the Kingston side to the zoo at Hope Gardens, the stadium for a sporting event, the National Art Gallery? Your wife seems to be such an amazing person.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate the insight...Junior's actually headed to the library today on a field trip, so could be a good start! Enjoy the weekend. =)

  • @dianneevans7325
    @dianneevans7325 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Uncle Tylerand Aunty Sonia i think you both should take away the children phone and games during the week and only after chores and homework done on weekends they can get the gadgets back i did that with my son and then my grandson and it worked out for me

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No more trips until there is improvement in their scholl work but at the sa e time i dont want them to prevent you from enjoying your retirement

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s an interesting balance for sure…Happy Friday! You an early bird too😁🤙

  • @carolhenry9056
    @carolhenry9056 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Can you try to spend some more time with him academically

  • @joanfamewo8418
    @joanfamewo8418 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tyler, what happen to the brown dog.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He found a girly friend down the street…but still comes by time to time!😅

    • @joanfamewo8418
      @joanfamewo8418 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thanks for replying.

  • @mushymoshy
    @mushymoshy 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tyler- So sorry about the lime 🍋‍🟩 🪴 plant you grew it from seed🫠now we know what the puppies like to chew on🤪

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🤦🏻‍♂️I know right…they’re lucky they’re cute…🤣

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    please show him all the comments Tyler. CRAIG NEEDS TO IMPROVE

  • @JaJa-qq3vu
    @JaJa-qq3vu 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Probably Craig has a learning disability, I agree with one of your subscriber who mentioned that.
    He likes fixing stuff, probably he would be better attending a vocational school that teaches auto mechanics etc.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It is something he'll need to consider...

  • @KJ-cj7zw
    @KJ-cj7zw 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Enjoy those eggs ....I looked at the 7.00 for a dozen eggs today and said no....

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow...okay, will do!!!

  • @Jeanette-d5w
    @Jeanette-d5w 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    please do not relax your expectations of the boys. However I think they need to EARN the special experiences and gifts. You and Sonia have ensured they have a meaningful family life and the foundations to be successful in future however they must put in the work. May I also suggest you challenge them to learn to be constructively talkative. How about at least 2x per week each must speak for 5 minutes on a topic of their choice. If they can chat so much at school they can do that at home.
    Andre may have a future in theatre 😅

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Take awaythe electronics and let them understand the true value of Education. These boys are joking around.Tough love please Sonia and Tyler.Honestly based on the behaviors of these 3 boys i am getting angry.They let me feel they are taking people for gra nted.Craig is a big boy.😊

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Take away everything Tyler.Leave him with only books

  • @phylliscameron
    @phylliscameron 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tyler what happen to the brown puppy

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He found a girly friend down the street…😅🤙

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No vocation school at this time he is in a technical school which is good.The boys need to be focused on their lessons be respectful,.Less time on the electronics. GIVE THEM BOOKS TO READ

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The books are all here eager to be picked up…you can bring a horse to water…😅

  • @ladyJ_000
    @ladyJ_000 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Tyler my darling; you need to stop giving the children gifts, money, trips and privileges until some profound results have been implemented by the boys.
    You are doing everything right, and they seem to not give a damn or show respect.
    If you don’t, your issues will get bigger with them in the future, end up in jail, end up with a child etc
    Perhaps, you should reward the ones that show improvement with inclusion on trips, allowance etc. gifts from subscribers should be kept in a box as well as money, until they’re earned and deserved.
    Appreciate your transparency as a father, you are doing a fantastic job even through I know you must be beyond frustrated with them!

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Jail or children may be inevitable...only joking, but kinda not really...yea, the subscriber donation thing is definitely a mixed bag, as it's coming from them, but something to consider. Honestly, I'm actually in a good place, although it's frustrating they aren't more proactive in taking advantage of the opportunity they have, it doesn't way on me emotionally as much as I think most perceive. I've setup some good emotional boundaries and acceptance that I can only do so much and the rest is up to them. All good and appreciate the continued support.

    • @cynthiabeckford5876
      @cynthiabeckford5876 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      LadyJ i would total agree with you.

    • @ladyJ_000
      @ladyJ_000 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@fireandiriethanks for always responding!
      I totally appreciate your parenting style and love you have for the boys!
      It is very evident you always have their best interests at heart!
      They are truly privileged to have you as their dad!

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How he means he doesn't know what to say?

  • @MarkAndErin-l8l
    @MarkAndErin-l8l 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Sonia and the kids seem slow in processing simple conversations 🙄

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Welcome to my world... =)

    • @maxinewildman4313
      @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please I don't think this comment of Sonia should be uttered.

  • @nadinerobinson4883
    @nadinerobinson4883 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Tyler, is there anyway you can get craig tested for learning disabilities?

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      So he’s been tested and it’s pretty apparent, but resources to accommodate are definitely lacking in this area of the community.

    • @nadinerobinson4883
      @nadinerobinson4883 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @fireandirie so sad, I wish Jamaica would invest more in education, I think in Kingston has more resources but since you guys are rural I know it's not feasible to get him the help. Maybe what you can do is definitely take away the phone, trips, and electronics, put him on a stricter schedule for bedtime, when he gets home, go over all the subjects for the day. Ask what he didn't understand and help him with it until he gets comfortable enough and his grades improve for the next semester? He looked so lost when you were talking to him. Hang in there Craig

  • @otiswilliams4577
    @otiswilliams4577 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Has craig been tested to see if he dyslexic ?

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He has, and no, he's just really far behind academically, as he missed a lot of foundational skills in his early academic years.

  • @annmarieharris8886
    @annmarieharris8886 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I think Dave is not focus on his school an he thinking so hard an don’t now how to respond when u ask him questions he’s still just 14 he got 4 more years to figure out what he wants to do an yay to Andre

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Times going by fast, that’s for sure…🫣

  • @soniajohnson543
    @soniajohnson543 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    News paper. lol😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dawnleonard1982
    @dawnleonard1982 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tyler you are playing one of my favourite (ava maria) but why's it seems sad today?. Tyler I don't think Craig gets it. It's ashame because it's such a privilege for you to help them but the result is just not there. Congratulations to andre 😊.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yeah, the music and the report card mood definitely have a connection. Not sad...just disappointing...and yea, he doesn't and it's a growing frustration. Energy shifts are in the works...slowly but surely. =)

  • @sharonbryan8644
    @sharonbryan8644 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It is very obvious that Craig has a learning disability(dyslexia possibly) I am not sure if they have vocational schools in jamaica, that is something you could look into, or maybe Trade school could be an option for him. There is obvious trauma affecting the boys. What about a sit-down chat with all of them together, and ask them to be candid and express their feeling? They can express how they feel about you and sonia taking care of them,or what they don't like, maybe ask questions about their past living conditions. Bottom line You need to find out what the boys' primary issues are. Let that space feel comfortable for them when you have the discussion.

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      We've had several counseling sessions through the child services, and due to Dave and Craigs continued fighting at school, we're waiting on them to schedule some upcoming sessions...it's an interesting predicament to say the least.

    • @pwelly7717
      @pwelly7717 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Replace his Smartphone with a phone just for making calls and he may need counseling missing his dad. Is he being bullied at School because you are White🤔. There something about him being so quiet 🤔. I love Junior he wants to speak for him❤️

  • @waynegrant158
    @waynegrant158 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Boys have some work to do.....teacher sir bless up

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Just a little...enjoying the rain for now...=)

    • @waynegrant158
      @waynegrant158 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @fireandirie yup

  • @racquelyapp9259
    @racquelyapp9259 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don’t cave keep that high expectations they have it in them to do better

  • @cosmicwisdom999
    @cosmicwisdom999 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wait....so Graig talks too in school, but he barely speaks at home when spoken to?

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Crazy, right?!!

  • @handymom1966
    @handymom1966 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Tyler get 12 stones and separate into 4 so Craig sees and gets the concepts

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      been doing the facts for months...so always intriguing what sticks and what doesn't.

  • @Happey67
    @Happey67 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Five fails? Craig , you have got to do better. Lord!!!

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Amen…🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @cynthiabeckford5876
    @cynthiabeckford5876 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Tyler good afternoon for me i would take away the phone and what ever he love to have and just allow him to focus more on his School works,its very sad to see That you were there trying to talk to Craig and then he was there not answering to nothing trying to ignore everything you were saying to him as if he do not care but for me i would take away is privilage from him,what is your thought?

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s in the works and we’re finding that balance…slowly but surely.🥰🤙

  • @AAHomeGardening
    @AAHomeGardening 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bless
    Craig needs less screen time and more book time

  • @royyapp
    @royyapp 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am disappointed in the kids and their performance.
    I am going to disappoint you in the kids.

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Craig has too much talk back but he is not responding to the issues

  • @cosmicwisdom999
    @cosmicwisdom999 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So they all talk too much? Wow and unbelievable!

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Except when you ask them a question...=/

  • @samrichman1145
    @samrichman1145 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    FIRE AN IRIE Family home 🏡 vlog welcome 🙏🏿

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Big up...brace yourself accordingly...=)

  • @royyapp
    @royyapp 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😂😢😅😩

  • @toppmax
    @toppmax 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Do better Craig

  • @maxinewildman4313
    @maxinewildman4313 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tell them as it is Tyler.Dont take any loose talk from them

  • @handymom1966
    @handymom1966 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi Tyler and Sonia I know you both are doing your best and trying to give these boys the best of what you have but please bear in mind that all the years prior to these boys (Craig) was not living with you who knows what kind of brain stimulation they had and nurturing from their family so maybe the questions you are asking Craig his brain cannot comprehend and so he’s doesn’t know how to respond, yes I agree with others he should be put into a vocational school like HEART maybe I’m not GOD but just suggesting to hopefully help him have a future

    • @fireandirie
      @fireandirie  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm hoping to get them more involved in making videos and develop the technical skills to perhaps become their own creators...slowly but surely...but agreed a trade is definitely something they need to consider.