Truth is sometimes I do feel things I shouldn't. For example sometimes I may think to myself, "Now I'm worthy to be here." Sometimes dressing nicer commands more respect when you go into places of business. I feel entitled as a they should take me seriously when I go somewhere. When I go someplace in sneakers it's a whole nother story.
I totally agree. I love to dress up but no one at my work does. I slowly started dressing casual so they wouldn’t perceive me as trying too hard. It’s sad, and I mostly cared about what the ladies thought of me. But after watching this, I’m going back to being true to myself. I shouldn’t care what other people think and should wear what makes me happy. And honestly, I love looking and dressing as a professional; it makes me more productive at work too.
Roena Skates I didn’t know when you put clothes on, you blend with the colors. You’re not only weird but also slow. There are colors that don’t look good with dark either. 🤷🏼♀️ black and white are both neutral. Sounds like you got issues but that’s not my problem
I feel Adrienne on a wholllleeeee other level. There's been times where girls will give me dirty looks or go out of their way to not talk to you just because I like to over dress and love to look good, it makes me uncomfortable. So many times this has happened and it makes me feel guilty because I can't help how you feel or the insecurities you carry. I use to be so insecure and I worked on it and now I've blossomed and I will never not shine for anyone's negativity.
Well...... are you those girls that shows to much skin like all the time? Because if you are other girls are going to feel intimidated right away by you.
Mel 21 That’s their problem. Everyone is in control of how they feel and how they respond. If someone feels “intimidated” by another person looking good they need to work on their security in themselves.
Adrienne was being the most authentic here. Lets be honest, as women, we have all had atleast one moment in which we encountered a beautiful woman and felt 1) automatic jealously, dislike towards that woman or feelings of insecurity and/or 2) desire to be that woman's friend/liked by her
S W correct! And a lot of us aren’t honest enough to say this. We instantly compare and want to see how we measure up. It’s so toxic. Focus on yourself and your unique beauty. It’s not easy to do especially in this society. But it takes time. Spending time with God helps too.
No lol I can't stand when people don't have style. If I see someone else looking good im like okay yes a fellow fashionista. People really just roll out of bed and think it's ok
Hmm nope. Guess cuz my family looking fly is the norm so i am used to it. No jealousy, just admiration. And i want to be everybody's friend until they do something i don't like. Sooo no not every woman.
And she is nasty too but nonetheless..she is pretty.. she dont wash her hands when she us the bathroom when she is home.. but i do completely other females cause women in general are beautiful..
Stop perpetuating the damaging stereotype of girls hating other girls because they’re pretty. Society has been pitting woman against each other for centuries by promoting the idea that the source of the conflicts can be linked to outward appearances. Appearances that have been arbitrary set as standards to have men tell us our worth. Sis, we are far too complex for that. Don’t sell yourself short. 😘😘😘 Btw you’re beautiful and I love your smile!😍
Exactly, thats why people allways try to foccuse on the negative things about her, like "shes not as intelectual our as articulate as the other women" our she dosent have enough "depht". Its just insecure people who reflect that on others, in this case her. It happens people
Go Yolie! - agree! If a girl tells me I’m beautiful I feel more confident. When a guy tells me I look good I automatically think to myself “mmmhhhmmmm what does this guy want?!? 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐” LOL! 🤪
Same! It feels more meaningful to me when a female compliments me. I remember a friend told me that she didn't like me at first because I appeared stuck up but then when she got to know me she said I'm like the sweetest person she knows. I actually received similar comments from a few female friends. I think because I wore makeup, colored contacts, dyed my hair, and dressed up for high school and that was considered early to do. I think girls are different now though but in my generation it wasn't common.
Zara M I hate being stared at too and I’ve become more insecure. In my younger years I was all about sexy and I felt comfortable that way. I don’t now. That’s one reason I dress down a lot because I don’t want attention. I’m trying to change that because I have all these cute clothes I buy.
I moved to the south from the east coast 3 years ago. I noticed women overtly stare and will give a lot of compliments freely in the south! It’s quite a different feeling
I used to be like that - actually pretty recently but now I don't give a damn. Honestly, just go for it! You'll eventually get used to the stares and I kinda just not pay attention to them. People are always judging, so I mean, might as well do you!
I loved the way Amanda voiced her difference in opinion from Jeannie's opinion about being "naturally insecure". Respectful and eloquent. Glad to see the improvement in the dymamics between the girls.
@Galva Tron That may be a matter of opinion. I'm not taking her comments as facts. I also dont think that women are naturally insecure. Insecurity is a natural human emotion/feeling in general.
@Galva Tron I agree with you. People are insecure, that includes women too. Some women will become territorial, unkind or dismissive when interacting with a woman who makes them feel insecure, others may feel a bit sad or bad about themselves but WON´T be unkind to the other woman. You can be insecure without taking it out on the other woman. But no point in denying insecurity exists.
Never, their are crazy people in this world keep your private parts covered to avoid being a target and to respect yourself ass, titties, breast never should be on display they are private
I’m definitely a “girls girl” like A, I love women I am always down to be another woman’s hype man. I just hate when women are in competition with one another! Let’s uplift one another, team women ALL DAY 👯♀️
i agree 100% but i think that's only something pretty women say because they don't have a reason to be jealous/insecure. the ugly women who hate themselves yet don't work on their self-improvement are the ones who need to have this mindset.
The Leo in me wants to look presentable everywhere I go, even if I’m just going to the supermarket. At home I wear pyjamas at all times (still matching pyjamas tho) my friends embrace it and are absolutely stunning regardless of what they wear, we always hype each other up.
🗣🗣🗣Adrienne is speaking facts!! Women who dress nice and feminine are told by other women; “Why are you so dressed up”?! This happens to me a lot because I wear sun dresses and skirts a lot!! This is my daily wardrobe BUT women think that you’re over dressing!!!
Adrienne should dress how ever she wants! Dont dim your light for anybody!❤❤ Plus people will judge either way. If ypu dress nicely they dont like it. If you dress modest they dont like it either. Its more about their insecurity than about you.
@@gaila.9852 No. But it just proves that just because you look pretty it doesn't mean that you are clean. If a person doesn't care enough about the health of others except how good they look, that is pretty conceited and selfish.
I dress modestly to represent my relationship with Christ. Jeannie is right that your outfit sends a message. I definitely want to draw more attention to Christ than myself!
Ebony you don’t have to dress sexy you can dress modestly and have a little bit of makeup on and everything just fits you right and some women unfortunately hate on you.
@@شعيبشعيب-ط2ن No u need to wake up and stop living in your delusional world and worship your paedophile prophet. And who are you to say your religion is right and others wrong?
@@herantomastekeste1184 Oh please, he was no pedophile. On the other hand, maaaaany priests of your religion are. And read your Old testament that justifies the killing of innoncent babies because of their parents' sins.
I learned to no longer give a crap about what others think about what I wear. What matters to me is if I feel comfortable in what I’m wearing, not others thoughts.
If someone actually gets mad at you for dressing up, don't worry, they're likely just projecting their insecurities onto you. You have the right to dress however YOU want.
@@lilchristuten7568 I had someone ask me why have I been wearing slacks lately instead or scrubs at my workplace. I thought it was a peculiar question considering everyone wears either one. I just chalked it up to them displaying their own insecurities onto me. I do get complimented more often when wearing slacks rather than scrubs. 🤔🤷🏾♀️
Love what Tam said about feeling inspired by seeing another beautiful woman rather than feeling threatened. There’s nothing wrong with telling another woman she is beautiful, I’m all for it , us women should be uplifting each other ! 💕
Bria Barrows everyone is insecure so I reject the popular opinion that it’s insecurity that is to blame for women being nasty to each other. I think we’re literally just conditioned to see other women as threats all the time. That said, I’ve luckily been sparred from this foolishness and have always been a girls girl! I love women and want nothing more than for them to succeed
Adrienne is very beautiful, I'm sure she makes insecure people upset when they see her. I'm sure she's had a lot of moments like the ones she's describing.
Anyone who puts that much effort on their hair make up and clothes will look beautiful periodt. Don’t come for me its a surface statement. I do love that she does it for herself. I believe in the same concept just not that much make up.
I believe you Jessica but I think that Loni does care. (See my earlier comment) In addition, her body language and facial expressions betray her words. Fortunately, the other Hosts go out of there way to be gracious and kind to her.
seeyouagain911 I’m only 23 so technically I’m not old too, but I meant to say it as like I’m an adult & shouldn’t waist my time caring what other woman think of me(:
I agree. I consider myself kinda modest but not to the point where I’m wearing just black or bland colors. I love bright colors and bold prints but I also like to be covered up. No boobs or booty showing lol and usually my shoulders are covered too.
I completely understand how Ade feels!! I get that all the time from other women it's really sad.....I tried to dim my light for years and I was miserable. I'm glad I'm submerging out off it. I just want to be happy at the end of the day
I was at a dinner party with my husband and some friends. The waitress kept smiling at me the whole time 😊 she patiently waited until the party I was with exited to tell me she admired my sense of style and my makeup was gorgeous 🤩 it was really sweet! It matters ladies! These young girls are looking at you! Keep yourself looking up to the part always!!! You never know who you’re inspiring
I was at the hair salon about two weeks ago..After I had finished getting my hair blown out and wrap, a young lady said to me, you have beautiful hair.. I responded I do, thank you”... (typing this I want to 😢😢cry).... then after I said that I was like why did you say I do like you don’t have pretty hair or don’t believe you have pretty hair... The problem is and I realize it that day.. after being involved with a narcissist, who put me down and would tell me my hair never looked good even after getting it done, nails done.. I was put down so much in that relationship... but when the young lady told me that.. I had to believe it cause I always did love my hair as a kid and as a young lady
O B I A N U J U thank you.. being with a narcissist is very crippling.. I am Out of that relationship 6 months now..thank God.. everyday I tell myself I am good enough, I deserve love, I deserve to be loved the right way etc
SWOOP SWOOP Aw the fact that that relationship made you second guess her compliment makes me sad. But I’m glad you’re out of the relationship and you remembered how beautiful you are ! He was the wrong one, I’m sure everyone else sees the beauty in your hair, your overall appearance and in your heart because I can see it from this comment. Remember to pay those compliments forward and make someone else’s day also☺️. God bless 💕
I'm so glad you recognized your own beauty. I know also what it feels like being with someone who Will try and put you down. But, God has better in store for you. Keep loving yourself and I'm so happy you left that man. I did as well God bless you on your journey and always remember God made us beautiful.
Absolutely not. I don’t dim my light for anyone. If I wanna get cute, 🤷🏽♀️ thats my prerogative! If a woman is upset that I look good I think thats a personal problem she’s gonna have to deal with on her own...
Ive always admired other girls. I grew up a Tom boy so to see a pretty girl looking super girly I’d be inspired to get to that level. I still to this day compliment women for how they look. I know it takes work to carry yourself well.
Adriana Antonio what makes you to be a Tom boy? I was just talking recently with my BF about something that I noticed. There is a woman at work who dresses like a man and to be honest I not pay attention to her body until one day I caught myself thinking “ oh she got a big belly” like realizing that she’s is fat and that’s something usually I just realize at first on a woman. either by thinking she’s fat, skinny tall or short. But with Tom boy woman I don’t pay attention on how they are physically (body type ) at first maybe because it’s part of we don’t judge man hard as we judge woman so a woman looking like a man gets the day treatment that I get to man 🤷🏻♀️.
Yes Adrienne, 1000%. In my former church everyone used to watch me sideways because I dressed nicely. But eventually I just decided to be me and dress up because I love too.
I dress modestly if the event calls for it - family gathering, church, barbecue, ect. But I do not dress modestly on a regular if I'm going out with friends or my bf. I usually dress sexy, not always showing skin but usually something figure hugging and when you got curves, you got curves. BUT I always carry myself in a respectable manner and speak like a lady, so I'm never judged by my outfits and people usually think I'm actually very conservative.
Nah. I started dressing modestly once I learned to respect myself. When I dressed sexy, I didn't care what others thought and I still don't care LOL But I do care how God views me! That's just me though!!
I didn't know God judges people based on how they dress. Last remember we are born naked and created without clothes. Shame is a human thing. Peoples bodies are beautiful and awesome. It's our inability to just see bodies as bodies and respect them as such that brings this futal obsession with oversexualising people, trying to control ourselves by projecting our insecurity and weird repressed socialization with our own bodies and sexuality.
Abigail Owusu , she did her time let her keep reminding us. Sis, you know how your people be forever reminding the rest of Africa that you on top😩😂😅. But I say, let y’all have your shine. You’ve earned it.
Yess, I’ve always felt that other womens low self esteem was my responsibility, but if they have confidence I feel that we can both be free and be ourselves.
Robyn H no because they said they couldn’t relate which I understand. But I just sound it interesting that they at least never heard of this issue. That’s all I was saying.
Amanda has become nicer with the girls or warmed up, more accepting of their opinions and delivery is much better, makes her more like able, Loni however has become intolerable of the other girls
I think because she's lost her place because she's not the funny one or the pretty one or the smart one every one of the ladies represents something except her unless you want to count oldest
I agree 100%. All the New Age feminists are about to call you a "pick me" and say that women shouldn't make decisions to please their husbands because they're men.
I love wearing heels and dressing up. I used to wear heels just going to the shops but I got so many dirty and judging looks from women that it stopped me so now I don’t do it anymore and I miss it. I should start it up again
You definitely should do you sis 💪🏽 wear your heels because if you’re anything like me I have waaaaay too many pairs of shoes 🤣 I wore my heels to the grocery store a few weeks ago! Men were with their women on a Sunday trying not to stare 🙄 yes, on a Sunday
Story of my life , and I had to realize that if people have a problem with it , it’s their problem not mine. I used to feel so insecure when all I am trying to do is feel good about myself. I learned to love me and I want people to love themselves too
Amanda has really brought new life to the show. The discussion is more spirited and well informed. It's improved significantly. I love them all even more.
As someone who also loves to dress up and look put together, I completely understand Adrienne cause I've done it multiple times. Don't want to step on toes etc.
I agree with Amanda n Adriane there r women who judge are feel u think your better when most of the time the women is just being who they are and they shouldn’t feel uncomfortable for being themselves !!!!!!
RubyRim same! And some women are very surprised when I do. Lol I’m just open like that. I’ll meet you at a store and be like hey beautiful! You gotta spread that positive energy. And if a girl is giving me the side eye my first instinct is to remind that woman she is bomb.
I LOVE THIS VIDEOOOO!!. God i’m a teen and i love telling girls they are pretty all day wether they are stranger or not. It’s a short but beautiful moment between women.
People say im intimidating, my face is like that but im actually goofy.. So I end up meeting a lot of my women friends in sweatpants and the girl looks like she came from a magazine and i always feel underdressed. So i totally like this, inform them with the dress code thing 🤣👍
A woman told me never dumb down for other people. If your lights too bright for them they can get some shades. Life is too short for me to dress for other people I’ll wear what I’m comfortable in
I feel adrienne 100. I dont care which job im hired at, Im coming with my hair/makeup/outfit on point because thats what type of girl I am. Other woman use to stay throwing little shade.. and idk if I was naive bc I never caught it, other plp would have to tell me like girl she was definitely hating lol. like adrienne said DONT HATE, BE INSPIRED!
I gotta say I was hardly insecure, even when I had a little chub chub belly. It was CUTE on me and always has been, and the Devil really did tried me. He wanted to make me hate everything about me but it just made me love myself more. I was picked on, harassed and hated but praise be to God I raised above it all. And God came into my life at 21 years old and nothing has been the same from there on. Amen.
It is interesting to think that beauty either sparking love or hate. Addressing Adrienne's comment, I think that it is problematic to think that a women will either love or hate you. We have to stop looking to people to show or withhold love or approval. We socialize women to look for the approval of people. Church people will judge you regardless. Pray for yourself, pray for them if you have time. Loni was telling the truth, you can also not care sometimes.
The only time I really dress up is for church or when I'm broadcasting in the studio at my college. I have a very basic sense of style. I like my denim jeans and a sweater, with my rubber boots and a warm jacket.
I understand what Adrienne is saying but how they feel is not your problem. If they don’t want to approach you or be your friend cause they’re judging you, you don’t need that person in your life. I’m not gonna be fake and not be myself to get someone to like me
I agree with everything Adrienne said. In high school I wud literally have girls bump, trip, & even try to fight me because of how I dressed. & the next week they’ll have the exact same outfit on. Fast forward to adulthood and I even get grown women staring at me up & down and giving me dirty looks. It’s absolutely crazy how u can be treated based off of your clothes.
Yo this segment spoke to me on so many levels! It was like dropping gems into my ears 💎💎for 2020 let’s appreciate eachother more as women and stop being so hard on ourselves and eachother! In the words of Tamera, stop being threatened by a pretty woman and instead be inspired✨✨
Jeannie does have a point though. People are in general insecure and that includes women. Yes, society reinforces that insecurity but there's also a very primitive instinctual mechanism. Just google Intrasexual competition (male or female). Jeannie had quite a strong point there.
Im with Loni on this ion care 🤷🏾♀️ y’all ain’t paying my bills/clothes. I believe in looking presentable in the right situations but trying to look cute for him she them, I’m good
This week, at my supermarket, I’ve notice people are slightly more dressed up because here in Ireland, there is no where else to go really, with social distancing. I think it shows people are placing a lot of value on getting on the house & as not suppose to loitering in store and chit chatting, it’s a silent way to say “I’m ok”. Fashion and style are powerful communicators and while we always should freely show our style, there is no harm in knowing your audience too and amending for them, you can still keep your style but it just shows you recognise the vibe of where you are going & who you are hanging with.
I don’t care how people feel about how I dress. If my croptop and mom jeans offend you I don’t know what to tell you love. Sometimes I’m covered head to toe sometimes I’d like for my thangs to thang. If you’re stacked you’re gonna be stacked modest or not. 🤷🏾♀️ I’m always complimenting women on their purses, makeup, shoes, outfits, you name it modest or not. I don’t care what you do with yourself it has zero effect on my life, who am I to tell you what to do when I don’t know you from a can of paint?
I totally agree. I love to dress up but no one at my work does. I slowly started dressing casual so they wouldn’t perceive me as trying too hard. It’s sad, and I mostly cared about what the ladies thought of me. But after watching this, I’m going back to being true to myself. I shouldn’t care what other people think and should wear what makes me happy. And honestly, I love looking and dressing as a professional; it makes me more productive at work too.
YASSS JEANNIE! Discussing dress code is SO important. I went out to eat with my friends and wore a cute trendy outfit but they wore jeans and a t shirt and not in a trendy way so I felt super overdressed. I don't see how some people go on "surprise dates" where the guy won't tell you where you're going so you don't know what to wear.
I agree with most of the things they said, but one thing I believe is, you shouldn’t have to dull yourself down so another women can feel better about herself. We can all shine together! And you shouldn’t have to let other women know you’re not in competition with them, if they want to create something that isn’t there, don’t feed into it.
I'm gonna be honest, I was a little worried when Amanda first came on the show bc I felt like these 4 girls have been with each other for years so I thought it would be weird to just bring another girl in the mix BUT I actually love Amanda on the show!! I think she fits in perfectly and brings a whole new element to it which I love ❤️❤️❤️
@@JohnneseP because it overrules her, she uses her beauty as a dumb weapon to say and do things that is nasty and beyond normal , she says the stupidest things she acts like she is dumb to the real world and she overdo everything, if you say sex , she does the most , if you say I carry paper in my panties ,she does that , if you had a man that was bad to you , she experience that , if you was poor growing up ', she was poor to , if you take down your pants and pee in down town square she did that ,Adrienne is a make up wined up puppet , she has style and beauty that she thinks give her the ticket to wherever and thus it being a curse to her and she dont know, she wants to be a Kardashians, a JLo a cardi B a Arianna , and a fake. She suppress the real Adrienne, she said that her mom told Israel thanks for bringing my daughter back , but because he is just as fake as her , her mom probably still looking for the real Adrienne.
Jackie Agard wow, who hurt you boo. You don’t know her. To even have the audacity to say everything you just said is beyond me. How can you pick at someone you don’t even know. Making assumptions about her like this. The Kardashians, JLO, and all the other people she admires are REAL people and she has a right to befriend them and love them for who they are as a person just like anyone else does. Secondly what her Mama said about Is bringing the real Ade back to her can be true. You nor did I raise Ade. So if Mama Nilda says Is brought her Ade back to her than who are you (we) to say that isn’t true. If you see her beauty as a cure than you need to look into yourself and ask why. Her story is her story, just like yours belongs to you, and my story belongs to me.
@@JohnneseP well you ask for it and now the answer offends you , who hurt you boo??? , I form my assumption/my opinion, like you did yours, but mine hurts you badly .
I agree with Adrienne! I am the friend where I absolutely love being dressed up. Even if it's brunch, lunch, dinner, small gatherings. It helps with my confidence and helps me feel beautiful. I typically haven't noticed myself wearing something different for someone to like me. My experience is very different I gained confidence recently in the last 8 months. Since graduating college, working and doing my own thing.
For ten years I did just what Ad said but ! Now hell nah I’m trying to do me if I show up in high heels and you’re in flats and sweat pants girl that’s your business !
I get Adrienne, people for some reason feel like being “overdressed” means you think you’re better than other people.
Truth is sometimes I do feel things I shouldn't. For example sometimes I may think to myself, "Now I'm worthy to be here." Sometimes dressing nicer commands more respect when you go into places of business. I feel entitled as a they should take me seriously when I go somewhere. When I go someplace in sneakers it's a whole nother story.
Insecurities
I totally agree. I love to dress up but no one at my work does. I slowly started dressing casual so they wouldn’t perceive me as trying too hard. It’s sad, and I mostly cared about what the ladies thought of me. But after watching this, I’m going back to being true to myself. I shouldn’t care what other people think and should wear what makes me happy. And honestly, I love looking and dressing as a professional; it makes me more productive at work too.
Roena Skates what a weird comment lmfao like what? The insecure jumped out
Roena Skates I didn’t know when you put clothes on, you blend with the colors. You’re not only weird but also slow. There are colors that don’t look good with dark either. 🤷🏼♀️ black and white are both neutral. Sounds like you got issues but that’s not my problem
I feel Adrienne on a wholllleeeee other level. There's been times where girls will give me dirty looks or go out of their way to not talk to you just because I like to over dress and love to look good, it makes me uncomfortable. So many times this has happened and it makes me feel guilty because I can't help how you feel or the insecurities you carry. I use to be so insecure and I worked on it and now I've blossomed and I will never not shine for anyone's negativity.
green houston I’ve felt this for sure. Like sis own your light. We all have beauty.
Well...... are you those girls that shows to much skin like all the time? Because if you are other girls are going to feel intimidated right away by you.
green houston GURL SAME
Don’t let nobody’s darkness dim yo light!! (old wise black woman voice)
Mel 21 That’s their problem. Everyone is in control of how they feel and how they respond. If someone feels “intimidated” by another person looking good they need to work on their security in themselves.
Adrienne was being the most authentic here. Lets be honest, as women, we have all had atleast one moment in which we encountered a beautiful woman and felt 1) automatic jealously, dislike towards that woman or feelings of insecurity and/or 2) desire to be that woman's friend/liked by her
S W correct! And a lot of us aren’t honest enough to say this. We instantly compare and want to see how we measure up. It’s so toxic. Focus on yourself and your unique beauty. It’s not easy to do especially in this society. But it takes time. Spending time with God helps too.
It’s human nature. It’s animal instincts. It’s natural to feel it - It’s just something that always needs to be worked through.
No lol I can't stand when people don't have style. If I see someone else looking good im like okay yes a fellow fashionista. People really just roll out of bed and think it's ok
Hmm nope. Guess cuz my family looking fly is the norm so i am used to it. No jealousy, just admiration. And i want to be everybody's friend until they do something i don't like. Sooo no not every woman.
Damn that’s deep 🗣
“When you see a beautiful woman don’t be threatened by her, be inspired by her” ❤️
Love it
Krissy Lee I would be more inspired though by inward beauty not necessarily outward. Because outward beauty is God given
RiRi Okoye facts
Yes.
its about what she says and who she is as a person not her being beautiful
Amanda's outfit is so flattering on her and she looks absolutely stunning in this episode.
Gorgeous🥰🥰🥰🥰
I loveeeee her blouse
No, girl. That ugly green color and the shirt bow is terrible.
Jay Rogers jealousy
@@jayrogers7779 I love that bow. That blouse is bomb. To each their own
Adrienne is gorgeous so she probably deals with a lot of haters.
Bria Barrows exactly!! She’s gorgeous and she’s very well styled!! All the time!
And she is nasty too but nonetheless..she is pretty.. she dont wash her hands when she us the bathroom when she is home.. but i do completely other females cause women in general are beautiful..
Stop perpetuating the damaging stereotype of girls hating other girls because they’re pretty. Society has been pitting woman against each other for centuries by promoting the idea that the source of the conflicts can be linked to outward appearances. Appearances that have been arbitrary set as standards to have men tell us our worth. Sis, we are far too complex for that. Don’t sell yourself short. 😘😘😘
Btw you’re beautiful and I love your smile!😍
Exactly, thats why people allways try to foccuse on the negative things about her, like "shes not as intelectual our as articulate as the other women" our she dosent have enough "depht". Its just insecure people who reflect that on others, in this case her. It happens people
Bria Barrows and she’s girly so people HATE
Lol! A woman told me I look like a model and it made my week. If a guy tells me that I’m pretty or something, I’m like “ya ya ya, I know...” haha
Okkkkk
Hahahaha “...I know”
Go Yolie! - agree! If a girl tells me I’m beautiful I feel more confident. When a guy tells me I look good I automatically think to myself “mmmhhhmmmm what does this guy want?!? 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐” LOL! 🤪
Same! It feels more meaningful to me when a female compliments me. I remember a friend told me that she didn't like me at first because I appeared stuck up but then when she got to know me she said I'm like the sweetest person she knows. I actually received similar comments from a few female friends. I think because I wore makeup, colored contacts, dyed my hair, and dressed up for high school and that was considered early to do. I think girls are different now though but in my generation it wasn't common.
I'm the same exact way lmao compliments from men make me uncomfortable, but if it's from a woman my day is made
I dress modestly because I’m an introvert who hates when people stare at me
Zara M period...I hate that tho like I still wanna dress up but like don’t stare
Zara M I hate being stared at too and I’ve become more insecure. In my younger years I was all about sexy and I felt comfortable that way. I don’t now. That’s one reason I dress down a lot because I don’t want attention. I’m trying to change that because I have all these cute clothes I buy.
I WAS WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO SAY THIS. I want to look good but I dont want the stares...
I moved to the south from the east coast 3 years ago. I noticed women overtly stare and will give a lot of compliments freely in the south! It’s quite a different feeling
I used to be like that - actually pretty recently but now I don't give a damn. Honestly, just go for it! You'll eventually get used to the stares and I kinda just not pay attention to them. People are always judging, so I mean, might as well do you!
I'm like A, I loooove dressing up and I dress for me. If someone doesn't like it, IDGAF! I'll help you get fly too
Yep! I will wear heela to the grocery store. I dont care!
@@JM-fo2qn😂😂😂
Avia Browne Yes ma’am, I could not agree with you more!
I wish had your attitude my girls but!
I’m learning to not care about what others think.
@@ajohonly3721 Same, girl, same
I loved the way Amanda voiced her difference in opinion from Jeannie's opinion about being "naturally insecure". Respectful and eloquent. Glad to see the improvement in the dymamics between the girls.
@Galva Tron That may be a matter of opinion. I'm not taking her comments as facts. I also dont think that women are naturally insecure. Insecurity is a natural human emotion/feeling in general.
Galva Tron
She was right.
M Muss
You’re wrong.
@Galva Tron I agree with you. People are insecure, that includes women too. Some women will become territorial, unkind or dismissive when interacting with a woman who makes them feel insecure, others may feel a bit sad or bad about themselves but WON´T be unkind to the other woman.
You can be insecure without taking it out on the other woman.
But no point in denying insecurity exists.
Adrienne is pretty af
They all are!
i agree!
Agreed. She's doing something right lately. She's never looked this beautiful.
B. K Must be that vegan life...💪🏿👍🏿👌🏿
@@ggtracy02 you know what? probably.
No Matter What A Woman Chooses To Wear, She Deserves To Be Respected. People Will Always Judge So Dress For Yourself Only.
i cOMPLETELY aGREE wITH yOU oN tHIS oNE bUT i tHINK tHAT’S eASIER sAID tHAN dONE. iT’S hARD nOT tO cONSIDER wHAT oTHER pEOPLE tHINK.
bYE aSHY iTS hARD tO jUST wAKE uP aND lOVE yOURSELF
Exactly
Never, their are crazy people in this world keep your private parts covered to avoid being a target and to respect yourself ass, titties, breast never should be on display they are private
@Bye Ashy ok and when a sicko murders you and your body is never found then what, have some damn morales!!! People are crazy
I’m definitely a “girls girl” like A, I love women I am always down to be another woman’s hype man. I just hate when women are in competition with one another! Let’s uplift one another, team women ALL DAY 👯♀️
Amen 🤗
There should be more of you
Aw I like that. And ur gorgeous btw
i agree 100% but i think that's only something pretty women say because they don't have a reason to be jealous/insecure. the ugly women who hate themselves yet don't work on their self-improvement are the ones who need to have this mindset.
Me too. Hell maybe I can learn something new from another woman.
I’m definitely the one who is “extra” in the group and I have gotten that reaction of “where are you going?” 💁🏽♀️✨🙌✨
Yes. Same for me as well.
Me too
The Leo in me wants to look presentable everywhere I go, even if I’m just going to the supermarket. At home I wear pyjamas at all times (still matching pyjamas tho) my friends embrace it and are absolutely stunning regardless of what they wear, we always hype each other up.
Moyie Rivera same my friends have learned not to ask me “ the dress code” cause I am ALWAYS “overdressed”
Moyie Rivera many many times!
🗣🗣🗣Adrienne is speaking facts!!
Women who dress nice and feminine are told by other women; “Why are you so dressed up”?!
This happens to me a lot because I wear sun dresses and skirts a lot!! This is my daily wardrobe BUT women think that you’re over dressing!!!
Same. I normally dress down when I really want to show out. I don't want to be team too much
Same honestly I find joy thinking of what to wear... like not my fault you come in wearing sweats and sneakers daily
My life my lifeeee
I agree with 100%. I dress very feminine all the time, I don't wear tennis shoes, jogging pants, etc. My real friends know that just me.
Same here. I get hated on for dressing up.
I don’t think about nobody else when I’m getting dressed
I am Meci 😂
Keep that energy sis!!!!!
Same!!!
Riiight, appreciation to you! 💖🙌🏾
Right lol. Me too
Aww I love that moment Tam had with Adrienne. They love each other. Be inspired. Not threatened.
right? their pure moments, esp as friends, make me love this show :)
“When you see a beautiful woman don’t be threatened by her, be inspired.”
-Tamera
Adrienne should dress how ever she wants! Dont dim your light for anybody!❤❤ Plus people will judge either way. If ypu dress nicely they dont like it. If you dress modest they dont like it either. Its more about their insecurity than about you.
you're right.. what's hard is when this happens at work and the person that's the mean girl is your boss. horrible experience.
@ Hannie Cht Just make sure Adrienne learns how wash her hands after she goes to the bathroom regardless of how she dresses 😑.
diva70smusic Are y’all gonna mention this on every single video?
Needed to hear this!!🙏
@@gaila.9852 No. But it just proves that just because you look pretty it doesn't mean that you are clean. If a person doesn't care enough about the health of others except how good they look, that is pretty conceited and selfish.
I dress modestly to represent my relationship with Christ. Jeannie is right that your outfit sends a message. I definitely want to draw more attention to Christ than myself!
Ebony you don’t have to dress sexy you can dress modestly and have a little bit of makeup on and everything just fits you right and some women unfortunately hate on you.
Wake uuuuup stupid...jesus is only a messenger....follow god...follow allah...follow mouhamed and waake up
@@شعيبشعيب-ط2ن No u need to wake up and stop living in your delusional world and worship your paedophile prophet. And who are you to say your religion is right and others wrong?
@@شعيبشعيب-ط2ن lol step aside with those Muhammed tales. Live life through Christ.
@@herantomastekeste1184 Oh please, he was no pedophile. On the other hand, maaaaany priests of your religion are. And read your Old testament that justifies the killing of innoncent babies because of their parents' sins.
I learned to no longer give a crap about what others think about what I wear. What matters to me is if I feel comfortable in what I’m wearing, not others thoughts.
SAME!
Well said! I work for my money. Nobody gives me money so (to ass) was their opinion, about dressing
Yup, Costco sweats all day baby
If someone actually gets mad at you for dressing up, don't worry, they're likely just projecting their insecurities onto you. You have the right to dress however YOU want.
There is a difference between getting mad at them and being disgusted with or feeling a need to avoid them.
@@lilchristuten7568 I had someone ask me why have I been wearing slacks lately instead or scrubs at my workplace. I thought it was a peculiar question considering everyone wears either one. I just chalked it up to them displaying their own insecurities onto me. I do get complimented more often when wearing slacks rather than scrubs. 🤔🤷🏾♀️
SmartLadyLab I wouldn’t even be friends or around someone like that. They sound miserable.
Am I the only one noticing the sheer sleeves Adrienne, Amanda & Tam are wearing
You're not. I love it!
Love it! I wish they shared their outfit details on the videos or website!!!
Why is that important
At least two of them be having similar outfits pretty often.
Well Loni did say they like to be coordinated! 😁 All of them were wearing long puffy sleeves minus Loni.
Love what Tam said about feeling inspired by seeing another beautiful woman rather than feeling threatened. There’s nothing wrong with telling another woman she is beautiful, I’m all for it , us women should be uplifting each other ! 💕
Lauren I agree. I’m quick to give a woman a compliment especially when I’ve had a few cocktails and I’m in the bathroom lol.
Lauren I agree. But I also feel like some people can’t do that if they feel insecure within themselves. Work on yourself as well.
I stay giving other women compliments
Bria Barrows Yes! I agree with you that’s very important also. We’re all uniquely beautiful and should recognize our strengths 💕
Bria Barrows everyone is insecure so I reject the popular opinion that it’s insecurity that is to blame for women being nasty to each other. I think we’re literally just conditioned to see other women as threats all the time. That said, I’ve luckily been sparred from this foolishness and have always been a girls girl! I love women and want nothing more than for them to succeed
Adrienne is very beautiful, I'm sure she makes insecure people upset when they see her. I'm sure she's had a lot of moments like the ones she's describing.
Right! Maybe the others really cant relate because Ade STAY slaying everywhere she goes!!
Deborah Sedem ikr. And outside of having a beautiful face, she has a bomb body too, so I know women probably stay hating on A.
Anyone who puts that much effort on their hair make up and clothes will look beautiful periodt. Don’t come for me its a surface statement. I do love that she does it for herself. I believe in the same concept just not that much make up.
So true!! Adrienne would be my best friend! Love confident women like her who like to dress up like me. Lol. Haters will always hate.
Deborah Sedem I just said this.
I’m just like Loni, I simply don’t care what other women think about me. I’m too old to spend my time caring too much
I am not old but I dont care too.
I believe you Jessica but I think that Loni does care. (See my earlier comment) In addition, her body language and facial expressions betray her words. Fortunately, the other Hosts go out of there way to be gracious and kind to her.
@@Vortex2654 She often looks uncomfortable. She's also surrounded by young, beautiful, thin women. Says she doesn't care but wears spanx.
seeyouagain911 I’m only 23 so technically I’m not old too, but I meant to say it as like I’m an adult & shouldn’t waist my time caring what other woman think of me(:
Rolanda Flowers Yeah I can see that. Especially when Tamar was on the show, it was like Loni was so desperate for her approval
Everyone has a different perspective on modesty
true and that’s perfectly fine☺️
I agree. I consider myself kinda modest but not to the point where I’m wearing just black or bland colors. I love bright colors and bold prints but I also like to be covered up. No boobs or booty showing lol and usually my shoulders are covered too.
Same as we all have a different perspective on “ not covering up”
I completely understand how Ade feels!! I get that all the time from other women it's really sad.....I tried to dim my light for years and I was miserable. I'm glad I'm submerging out off it. I just want to be happy at the end of the day
I'm so happy Adrienne brought that up. I've felt the same way sometimes!
I was at a dinner party with my husband and some friends. The waitress kept smiling at me the whole time 😊 she patiently waited until the party I was with exited to tell me she admired my sense of style and my makeup was gorgeous 🤩 it was really sweet! It matters ladies! These young girls are looking at you! Keep yourself looking up to the part always!!! You never know who you’re inspiring
🗣🗣🗣YES TAMERA!!!
When you see a beautiful woman be don’t be threatened by her; be INSPIRED by her!!!! 💕💕💕
I appreciate Adrienne’s honesty.
I was at the hair salon about two weeks ago..After I had finished getting my hair blown out and wrap, a young lady said to me, you have beautiful hair.. I responded I do, thank you”... (typing this I want to 😢😢cry).... then after I said that I was like why did you say I do like you don’t have pretty hair or don’t believe you have pretty hair...
The problem is and I realize it that day.. after being involved with a narcissist, who put me down and would tell me my hair never looked good even after getting it done, nails done.. I was put down so much in that relationship... but when the young lady told me that.. I had to believe it cause I always did love my hair as a kid and as a young lady
You were and are good enough for your Creator, who is he? Listen, YOU are your Creator’s greatest desire. ✨
O B I A N U J U thank you.. being with a narcissist is very crippling.. I am
Out of that relationship 6 months now..thank God.. everyday I tell myself I am good enough, I deserve love, I deserve to be loved the right way etc
SWOOP SWOOP Aw the fact that that relationship made you second guess her compliment makes me sad. But I’m glad you’re out of the relationship and you remembered how beautiful you are ! He was the wrong one, I’m sure everyone else sees the beauty in your hair, your overall appearance and in your heart because I can see it from this comment. Remember to pay those compliments forward and make someone else’s day also☺️. God bless 💕
I'm so glad you recognized your own beauty. I know also what it feels like being with someone who Will try and put you down. But, God has better in store for you. Keep loving yourself and I'm so happy you left that man. I did as well God bless you on your journey and always remember God made us beautiful.
“Don’t be threatened by her, be inspired by her” ‼️‼️‼️
Yes!!
Absolutely not. I don’t dim my light for anyone. If I wanna get cute, 🤷🏽♀️ thats my prerogative! If a woman is upset that I look good I think thats a personal problem she’s gonna have to deal with on her own...
Exactly!
I feel like no woman should be upset if another woman looks cute...like damn COMPLIMENT HER instead of hating😊
Exactly! It’s weird to care.
@@refugeofthoughts8870 i wouldnt say its weird but she definitly should not care. She is pretty, who cares what others think!❤❤
I love Adrienne's top in this, her whole look is on point
I agree it's really cute
*wear what you wanna wear!*
*i don’t gaf what anyone thinks*
*of me. if they’re judging me,*
*that’s THEIR problem* 🤷🏾♀️
Ive always admired other girls. I grew up a Tom boy so to see a pretty girl looking super girly I’d be inspired to get to that level. I still to this day compliment women for how they look. I know it takes work to carry yourself well.
Adriana Antonio what makes you to be a Tom boy? I was just talking recently with my BF about something that I noticed. There is a woman at work who dresses like a man and to be honest I not pay attention to her body until one day I caught myself thinking “ oh she got a big belly” like realizing that she’s is fat and that’s something usually I just realize at first on a woman. either by thinking she’s fat, skinny tall or short. But with Tom boy woman I don’t pay attention on how they are physically (body type ) at first maybe because it’s part of we don’t judge man hard as we judge woman so a woman looking like a man gets the day treatment that I get to man 🤷🏻♀️.
Yes Adrienne, 1000%. In my former church everyone used to watch me sideways because I dressed nicely. But eventually I just decided to be me and dress up because I love too.
I dress modestly if the event calls for it - family gathering, church, barbecue, ect. But I do not dress modestly on a regular if I'm going out with friends or my bf. I usually dress sexy, not always showing skin but usually something figure hugging and when you got curves, you got curves. BUT I always carry myself in a respectable manner and speak like a lady, so I'm never judged by my outfits and people usually think I'm actually very conservative.
“When you see a beautiful woman; don’t be threatened , be inspired.” I loved that
I don’t want friends who would judge how I dress
Amen!
Nah. I started dressing modestly once I learned to respect myself. When I dressed sexy, I didn't care what others thought and I still don't care LOL But I do care how God views me! That's just me though!!
Totally agree!
Blessings!
Omg same ! ☺️❤️
Amen!!
I didn't know God judges people based on how they dress. Last remember we are born naked and created without clothes. Shame is a human thing. Peoples bodies are beautiful and awesome. It's our inability to just see bodies as bodies and respect them as such that brings this futal obsession with oversexualising people, trying to control ourselves by projecting our insecurity and weird repressed socialization with our own bodies and sexuality.
Loni will forever remind us that she’s an engineer! We get it Loni!!!!
Abigail Owusu 😂😂true and tam Will always speak about her happy marrige and her love with Adam we get it.
Y’all are funny 😄
Abigail Owusu , she did her time let her keep reminding us. Sis, you know how your people be forever reminding the rest of Africa that you on top😩😂😅. But I say, let y’all have your shine. You’ve earned it.
Abigail Owusu I want her to keep saying it I’m proud she happy about it at least she not proud of being a stripper
Yess, I’ve always felt that other womens low self esteem was my responsibility, but if they have confidence I feel that we can both be free and be ourselves.
I want all these three shirts....amanda’s, Andrien’s, and Tam’s
I totally agree with this, I am 25 and feel as tho older women are always judging me
They are but who cares!
I feel like they lying. Adrienne was real af.
ANNAHIROX I just don’t get how tam and Loni don’t get this...like y’all ain’t that sheltered.
Exactly
Bria Barrows girl ...okay, cuz what the hell was the confusion?
Robyn H no because they said they couldn’t relate which I understand. But I just sound it interesting that they at least never heard of this issue. That’s all I was saying.
Exactly, thank you
Amanda has become nicer with the girls or warmed up, more accepting of their opinions and delivery is much better, makes her more like able, Loni however has become intolerable of the other girls
I think because she's lost her place because she's not the funny one or the pretty one or the smart one every one of the ladies represents something except her unless you want to count oldest
Loni's always been that way she is who she is and she older so as u get older you just say what you need to say it is what it is attuide .
Adrienne is so honest and I have seen her multiple times going that extra mile to make another girl feel comfortable, beautiful and secure ♥️
I dress modest, because I feel like it’s lady like. I like my body to be for me and my husband’s eyes only 💁🏽♀️ #ALadyInTheStreets
She'sroyal85 This!!! Totally agree
Agreed ✨
She'sroyal85 💗
Yes same here! Lol
I agree 100%. All the New Age feminists are about to call you a "pick me" and say that women shouldn't make decisions to please their husbands because they're men.
I love wearing heels and dressing up. I used to wear heels just going to the shops but I got so many dirty and judging looks from women that it stopped me so now I don’t do it anymore and I miss it. I should start it up again
Do it girl!!! Keep that head up and stunt in those heels like the goddess you are. There are women like me who will root for you.
You definitely should do you sis 💪🏽 wear your heels because if you’re anything like me I have waaaaay too many pairs of shoes 🤣 I wore my heels to the grocery store a few weeks ago! Men were with their women on a Sunday trying not to stare 🙄 yes, on a Sunday
Story of my life , and I had to realize that if people have a problem with it , it’s their problem not mine. I used to feel so insecure when all I am trying to do is feel good about myself. I learned to love me and I want people to love themselves too
Amanda has really brought new life to the show. The discussion is more spirited and well informed. It's improved significantly. I love them all even more.
As someone who also loves to dress up and look put together, I completely understand Adrienne cause I've done it multiple times. Don't want to step on toes etc.
I agree with Amanda n Adriane there r women who judge are feel u think your better when most of the time the women is just being who they are and they shouldn’t feel uncomfortable for being themselves !!!!!!
Dress the way that makes you feel your best. Self expression is always more important than trying to please others.
Hi Amanda I love the way you put the string on the tea bag around the mug handle so it don't fall in. I now learn that.
I dress for myself tbh idc. If I want to get dressed up and feel cute I will, if I don't want to dress up I try to look decent lol
I live for complimenting women, it's always interesting to see their responses.
RubyRim same! And some women are very surprised when I do. Lol I’m just open like that. I’ll meet you at a store and be like hey beautiful! You gotta spread that positive energy. And if a girl is giving me the side eye my first instinct is to remind that woman she is bomb.
@@BriaBarrows that last part!! Your friends are lucky to have you
RubyRim ♥️
I LOVE THIS VIDEOOOO!!. God i’m a teen and i love telling girls they are pretty all day wether they are stranger or not. It’s a short but beautiful moment between women.
Why does Jeannie also sounds like she’s running out of breath?
Its the rona 👀
Coronavirus
Cause sometimes she takes too long to get to her point so she rushes
Tycker Inget and Ra y’all are wrong for that
😩😩😭
I know exactly what adrienne means!
Adrienne is speaking truth!!!!
People say im intimidating, my face is like that but im actually goofy.. So I end up meeting a lot of my women friends in sweatpants and the girl looks like she came from a magazine and i always feel underdressed. So i totally like this, inform them with the dress code thing 🤣👍
A woman told me never dumb down for other people. If your lights too bright for them they can get some shades. Life is too short for me to dress for other people I’ll wear what I’m comfortable in
Adrienne is speaking for me in this clip.
I feel adrienne 100. I dont care which job im hired at, Im coming with my hair/makeup/outfit on point because thats what type of girl I am. Other woman use to stay throwing little shade.. and idk if I was naive bc I never caught it, other plp would have to tell me like girl she was definitely hating lol. like adrienne said DONT HATE, BE INSPIRED!
Rennia MUA same! Lol 😂 I put myself together at work. If y’all wanna look bummy that’s on you! You’re gorgeous btw:)
Bria Barrows girlllllllll I Still don’t understand why me looking good would bother anyone LOL & so are you honey 💕
Seems like it bothers you more than anyone else...
I gotta say I was hardly insecure, even when I had a little chub chub belly. It was CUTE on me and always has been, and the Devil really did tried me. He wanted to make me hate everything about me but it just made me love myself more. I was picked on, harassed and hated but praise be to God I raised above it all. And God came into my life at 21 years old and nothing has been the same from there on. Amen.
Women never cross my mind when I'm getting dressed.
I dress for me. I’m not thinking about y’all, lol. And I’m always quick to compliment other women, because, why not?
I'm with Loni on this. I really don't care what people think of me. If I like how I look, I'm wearing that confidence like a crown baby
YES! So many people (women) envy you if you look good. And at work they team up agains you.
Preach!
It is interesting to think that beauty either sparking love or hate. Addressing Adrienne's comment, I think that it is problematic to think that a women will either love or hate you. We have to stop looking to people to show or withhold love or approval. We socialize women to look for the approval of people. Church people will judge you regardless. Pray for yourself, pray for them if you have time. Loni was telling the truth, you can also not care sometimes.
The only time I really dress up is for church or when I'm broadcasting in the studio at my college. I have a very basic sense of style. I like my denim jeans and a sweater, with my rubber boots and a warm jacket.
I understand what Adrienne is saying but how they feel is not your problem. If they don’t want to approach you or be your friend cause they’re judging you, you don’t need that person in your life. I’m not gonna be fake and not be myself to get someone to like me
In love Adrienne! I love how she’s def not a hater!!!
You are so right Adrienne. Especially with other ladies. You are being so honest Adrienne.
I agree with everything Adrienne said. In high school I wud literally have girls bump, trip, & even try to fight me because of how I dressed. & the next week they’ll have the exact same outfit on. Fast forward to adulthood and I even get grown women staring at me up & down and giving me dirty looks. It’s absolutely crazy how u can be treated based off of your clothes.
I totally feel what Adrienna is saying!
Yo this segment spoke to me on so many levels! It was like dropping gems into my ears 💎💎for 2020 let’s appreciate eachother more as women and stop being so hard on ourselves and eachother! In the words of Tamera, stop being threatened by a pretty woman and instead be inspired✨✨
Jeannie thought she was really preaching and then Amanda was like “incorrect” lmaoo😂😂
Jeannie does have a point though. People are in general insecure and that includes women. Yes, society reinforces that insecurity but there's also a very primitive instinctual mechanism. Just google Intrasexual competition (male or female).
Jeannie had quite a strong point there.
Im with Loni on this ion care 🤷🏾♀️ y’all ain’t paying my bills/clothes. I believe in looking presentable in the right situations but trying to look cute for him she them, I’m good
This week, at my supermarket, I’ve notice people are slightly more dressed up because here in Ireland, there is no where else to go really, with social distancing. I think it shows people are placing a lot of value on getting on the house & as not suppose to loitering in store and chit chatting, it’s a silent way to say “I’m ok”. Fashion and style are powerful communicators and while we always should freely show our style, there is no harm in knowing your audience too and amending for them, you can still keep your style but it just shows you recognise the vibe of where you are going & who you are hanging with.
I don’t care how people feel about how I dress. If my croptop and mom jeans offend you I don’t know what to tell you love. Sometimes I’m covered head to toe sometimes I’d like for my thangs to thang. If you’re stacked you’re gonna be stacked modest or not. 🤷🏾♀️
I’m always complimenting women on their purses, makeup, shoes, outfits, you name it modest or not. I don’t care what you do with yourself it has zero effect on my life, who am I to tell you what to do when I don’t know you from a can of paint?
Big up to these Sistahs Empowering women and each other us I Salute y'all much love ladies
If anyone makes me feel like I can not be myself with them then I don’t think this friendship is going to work
I totally agree. I love to dress up but no one at my work does. I slowly started dressing casual so they wouldn’t perceive me as trying too hard. It’s sad, and I mostly cared about what the ladies thought of me. But after watching this, I’m going back to being true to myself. I shouldn’t care what other people think and should wear what makes me happy. And honestly, I love looking and dressing as a professional; it makes me more productive at work too.
YASSS JEANNIE! Discussing dress code is SO important. I went out to eat with my friends and wore a cute trendy outfit but they wore jeans and a t shirt and not in a trendy way so I felt super overdressed. I don't see how some people go on "surprise dates" where the guy won't tell you where you're going so you don't know what to wear.
Well done Adrienne for speaking up 💚💜💛
I have Never "dumbed down" or "dressed down" for Anyone... I know whose I am and I try to carry myself well...
I agree with most of the things they said, but one thing I believe is, you shouldn’t have to dull yourself down so another women can feel better about herself. We can all shine together! And you shouldn’t have to let other women know you’re not in competition with them, if they want to create something that isn’t there, don’t feed into it.
I'm gonna be honest, I was a little worried when Amanda first came on the show bc I felt like these 4 girls have been with each other for years so I thought it would be weird to just bring another girl in the mix BUT I actually love Amanda on the show!! I think she fits in perfectly and brings a whole new element to it which I love ❤️❤️❤️
Lovelovelove what A Tam and new girl are wearing! The seethrough look always been a fav of mine! Esp A’s look!!
Yesss! Ade is giving out straight facts.
Ade beauty is more like a curse than a blessing,
Jackie Agard and how is that
@@JohnneseP because it overrules her, she uses her beauty as a dumb weapon to say and do things that is nasty and beyond normal , she says the stupidest things she acts like she is dumb to the real world and she overdo everything, if you say sex , she does the most , if you say I carry paper in my panties ,she does that , if you had a man that was bad to you , she experience that , if you was poor growing up ', she was poor to , if you take down your pants and pee in down town square she did that ,Adrienne is a make up wined up puppet , she has style and beauty that she thinks give her the ticket to wherever and thus it being a curse to her and she dont know, she wants to be a Kardashians, a JLo a cardi B a Arianna , and a fake. She suppress the real Adrienne, she said that her mom told Israel thanks for bringing my daughter back , but because he is just as fake as her , her mom probably still looking for the real Adrienne.
Jackie Agard wow, who hurt you boo. You don’t know her. To even have the audacity to say everything you just said is beyond me. How can you pick at someone you don’t even know. Making assumptions about her like this. The Kardashians, JLO, and all the other people she admires are REAL people and she has a right to befriend them and love them for who they are as a person just like anyone else does. Secondly what her Mama said about Is bringing the real Ade back to her can be true. You nor did I raise Ade. So if Mama Nilda says Is brought her Ade back to her than who are you (we) to say that isn’t true.
If you see her beauty as a cure than you need to look into yourself and ask why. Her story is her story, just like yours belongs to you, and my story belongs to me.
@@JohnneseP well you ask for it and now the answer offends you , who hurt you boo??? , I form my assumption/my opinion, like you did yours, but mine hurts you badly .
I'm a 41yr old woman I've never ever ever been jealous of another woman's physical looks and I'm proud of myself for that.
So when Adrienne dresses up with makeup she’s way over what other women can offer
Shes fake
I agree with Adrienne! I am the friend where I absolutely love being dressed up. Even if it's brunch, lunch, dinner, small gatherings. It helps with my confidence and helps me feel beautiful. I typically haven't noticed myself wearing something different for someone to like me. My experience is very different I gained confidence recently in the last 8 months. Since graduating college, working and doing my own thing.
For ten years I did just what Ad said but ! Now hell nah
I’m trying to do me if I show up in high heels and you’re in flats and sweat pants girl that’s your business !
I am sooooooo here for Amanda's ensemble! (Bun, green sleeves, leather!) All day loving it!