This really shows how bullies and victims view their past. The bully only recounts the good days of them getting bread together and how their teacher is doing, whereas the victim talks about how he was bullied, isolated, and outed to his family. It's quite sad how the bully needed to be reminded of those days, but the victim can't forget and lives with those scars for the rest of their lives. Huge praise to the victim for being calm, trying to understand and pointing out how those kinds of "jokes" clearly would look horrible to outside perspective. I'm glad that the bully has grown and realised the error of his ways and will hopefully learn from this.
If anyone is interested, the gay guy name is Myeongkyun, he was one of the members in His man 3, a korean gay dating show, really suggest to watch it, season 1 and 2 aswell
Myeongkyun is being mean by not accepting the young man's apology. He apologize to Myeongkyun for his actions and please don't forget that he was young and impressionable in High school. Your former friend is remorseful and he apologize for what he did to you when he was young. It takes courage to face you and the public and to expose himself to being criticized and judged by the public. I emphasize with what you went through as a teenager Myeongkyun but you are an adult so you should extend Grace to this young man for stepping up and taking responsibility for his bullying. You come off self righteous and it's seems like your intention for meeting with this young man is to punish him and not to accept his apology and get clousure. Two wrongs don't make a right. How are you any better than him now that you refuse to accept his apology and just get up and walk away. Sorry you was hurt but it's time that you rise above. We accept you being gay and proud and wish you a happy life. However extend some grace to this young man and thank him for taking responsibility for his childhood actions and for trying to make amends. Young man, be acceptable and respect people's differences and live a good life. Do not allow anyone to steal your joy. Enjoy life, be happy and prosper young man.
@@karlenebartley4271 First of all it doesn't matter if you're an adult or not, I, as a gay guy i would never forgive someone even if they just outed me (told everyone i was gay without my consent) because that's just straight disrespectful, let's not use the "but i was kid" card because it doensn't matter if you're a kid, you can still be mature and don't do these things if you're well educated, if you do these things that means that you're immature and you weren't raised with proper manners. also on this channel they take stories from anonymous people and recreate them by taking other people as actors so it's not their story, both myeongkyun and the other guy are innocent and don't have nothing to do with the story, they're just acting
@@karlenebartley4271 you don't force yourself to forgive a person. You only forgive when you're ready to do so. Maybe he still has trauma in his heart & can't just forgive & ignore the past like that
@@karlenebartley4271first of all anyone can apologise but doesn’t mean you actually mean it plus he could’ve just said that because it’s awkward and second of all you don’t have to forgive someone just because they apologise to you. They’re only actors these two as well so don’t go blaming the actors.
The gay guy has left emotional scar that is still trying to heal itself. Being emotionally tortured as a child leaves so much trauma that is hard to heal even as time passes on. That bully probably understand all that he has done and he truly feels like he is sorry for what he has done to his once best friend who trusted him enough to tell his secret that only led to painful bullying and becoming an outcast in society. Hopefully both find a peaceful and reasonable way to re-connect and be friends again if that is possible. It's a shame how things turned out negative because as a kid, you did a dumb thing.
He so brave and that final statement was really quite powerful before he left. I hope in some way this was healing fir him to get it out. Kinda surprised the other guy agreed to even do this video
I was bullied at school because my parents didn't have a lot of money. I'm much older now, but it stays with you to a certain extent. It's a terrible thing to go through. Let alone having to defend yourself for being who you are.
i’m glad they could talk calmly and address their issues bullying isn’t something to be taken lightly. the man on the left took it like a champ. please, always rethink before doing something. bullying may seem fun, but it will come back to you.
please teach your kids respect and treat them well. i was some sort of a bully before high school, and i cant remember anything about it, the only reason i know its because people told me they remembered me bullying them back then. just as this guy, at the time i never thought it was something serious, in my mind i was just surviving school and social life. i was so quiet, had good grades, the teachers loved me, they would never expect me to hurt others. but i was mean. thats the part i do remember, i was mean like my mom was to me. so be kind to kids please
Being gay is not a crime but living in this society as a "Human" is straight up crime. Why do peoples think that by bullying others they become cool? I feel so bad for the people's going through all this, I just hope this world get rid of all these bullying so that every person of any race, gender, religion can live peacefully I really hope 🤞🍃
We Never Support bullying. You don‘t know how painful it is for the victim Because the Bad words will Follow you forever. However I‘m positive suprised that the bully understands that he was rude and wanted to fix that. We don‘t Need to claim the bully bc in the end he was also strong enough to sit infront of the cam and listen to the victim. Never give up. All the Bad words they Said to you makes u stronger ❤
Unfortunately, this kind of bullying will never stop. It takes a strong man to come face to face with his bully & keep a calm disposition as he lets him know that his life is good, and although what the bully did was young ... he need to be held responsible for his actions. The tension felt is to be expected, especially from the audience. It's not hard to feel the pain of bullying... even though not physical, Emotional bullying is even more dangerous. I'm proud of the young man who has made something of his life, despite the bullying he went through in life. He has the right to hold his head high & how he lives & loves privately is all that matters. His happiness that no one can control but him. As for his bully .. well at least he's working. What I saw in him, was a boy who can't face the pain he inflicted on once upon a time *good friend*.
WOW ! This must have been so painful for you. You can hear it in his voice and see it in his mannerism. I hope he truly loves himself. Continue to prove that others' judgments CAN NOT hold you back. You graciously faced your classmate and left him to face his consequences. I hope he does read these comments and will strive to be a better person. On another note..very bad ass of you to leave him sitting there !!!!! FIGHTING !!!!!!!!
“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” - Maya Angelou
There’s a lot of toxic behavior in S. Korea with bullying, bigotry towards anyone different, shallowness, toxic masculinity, misogyny…the list goes on. I’m not saying it doesn’t exist elsewhere too, but S. Korea’s emphasis on looks and materialism make for a very toxic culture. And I’m speaking as a Korean about my own people. It’s quite sad, and I hope change will come with future generations ( though this video shows two pretty young guys, so I don’t kmow).
You know very well the model guy looks way better. The bully felt inferior all along and this why he had to destroy the model's public reputation. Not that being gay is wrong. I have been bullied myself for being LGBT and I have no pitty for such horrible people. And who knows...maybe the bully was seeing in the other guy is own issues. One of my bullies tried to seduce me years later. I know what I'm talking about....
I think it was brave of both of them to show up. Because the bully knew what he did, but he showed up to acknowledge his wrong doing and to apologize. They were both young and we do stupid things when we're young. It doesn't excuse his behavior, but it's a fact, we do stupid things. We can't turn back time to undo them, but we can try to become better people and we can apologize to the people we hurt. I feel the bully felt genuine remorse over his actions. Otherwise, he wouldn't have shown up and agreed to let the world see this video. I hope the man who was bullied, will let this go now and never think about it again. B/c he turned out to be a tall handsome man with a modeling career. Don't let this one moment ruin you. Let the baggage go, stop carrying it around. You've said what you wanted to say to the bully. So it's time to move forward. This is coming from someone who was severely bullied in high school. You've got to let it go now.
I hope that bully suffers because of what he did. That was really horrible. He should have lead the conversation with a heartfelt apology. The victim of the bullying, you are not defined by that mean boy that bullied you. I am proud of you to have the courage to stand up to him.
Well, mabe not all handsome, but remember when we that are gay look in the mirror we look at someone who's gender we are attracted to, so we judge ourselver very harshly, and therefore (many of us) take care of ourselves, trying too look good, and maybe even younger.
To ask that stereotyped question is just about as bad as bullying someone who is gay. It shows a lack of understanding, and a lack of trying to understand. It is just not true, gay people come in all shapes and sizes just like straight people.
Why try to hurt someone because you can't handle their preferences. The young man is full of grace and courage even though he is in pain from being deeply betrayed by a former friend. The other man seems stuck in adolescence.
This was a painful video to watch. I've been there. It took me many years to forgive my bullies and I did it for me not them. I don't feel animosity toward them anymore.
just because someones young doesnt make there actions okay. its not something you do as a joke they shouldn't use that as an excuse for their actions because if you were that young and you couldn't think properly how were others that were the same age not also bullies. Im glad the guy who got bullied didn't care for an apology and left him like that.
If you are reading this, thank u for going to the show and liste to what he had to say. Everyone has different point of view of their moments in high school
This was a very good video. He said he wants to apologize, but it doesnt matter anymore. he did the damage. He has no right to be forgiven. But i am glad that through giggle he was able to reflect on himself.
Bet the bully left a scar or a fear on him now. hope the other person is okay. like I'm gay and i love boys it is hard to open up to someone close because something like that can happen to anyone and can affect them mentally for ages
8:12 "We're on a show, so look at the camera" This is more humiliating and I kinda feel bad for the bully! 😢😬💔(But I mean, what goes around comes around) I feel bad for the victim too, because it left a scar on him for years😢💔.
Such courage. I was the fat kid. Guess what? I am a fat grandma now! Funny thing is that when I hear from people from the 1960’s, they tell me that they remember me as funny, nice, caring. No one said fat.🧑🏻🎄🤟❤️
Hm, it does seem like there has been too much commotion going on between the both of them in their past as well too. But I do hope they get over it overtime though, bullying is definitely not something that should happen that much longer, especially when you’re doing it to someone who’s gay ❤
The way you handled their experiences is bullying the bully. You allowed no room for mutual growth and that growth is the very reason souls come into this human form. To grow. On a spiritual level the way this was handled is no better than the original bullying and creates a cycle that will have no peaceful end. We are at a point in human history that is shedding such ways. Please reflect on what was accomplished and what was created here.
Yıllar sonra gelen " özür dileme" şuan hiçbir şey ifade etmiyor. Çünkü o küçük çocuklar hala geçmişte ve biri zorbalık yapıyor, diğeri ise kalbi kırık ve ağlıyor....ve tam da o anda zaman sonsuza dek donmuş..
I was bullied too never have I been able to face my bullies because our whole school was bullies. Small town and it was like they had nothing better to do. I can say honestly that it has followed me and I still have depression. They dont care but I think where did this emotional damage start and it was being bullied for stupid stuff I couldnt control as a child. Or because I couldnt comprehend stuff as well because I was in the hospital often as a kid. So I would come back and coupd never catch up. I could never catch up before getting sick again. Kids are cruel as heck. We had a suicide at our school because of bullies in 8th grade. She was in 8th grade. She was super sweet but bullied for her looks. SUPER sad. I cried so hard when she was gone because I really liked her and always yelled at people picking on her. Idk why people need to be mean to others to make themselves feel cooler because in the end it doesnt.
Great acting Myeongkyun, if it was actually acting. If it’s not, this is heartbreaking. But it does bring the topic to the forefront. STOP BASHING SEXUAL MINORITIES!
실제인지 배우와 함께한 것인지 매우 감탄할 만해네요.. 한국에서는 많은 사람들이 왕따를 당하고 동성애에 대한 인식이 안타깝게도 여전히 좋지 않아요. 그 남자는 내면에 큰 상처가 있는 것 같아 안타까요. 빨리 회복되길 바라요.. 게이인 것도 괜찮고, 성소수자인 것도 괜찮고, '비규범적'인 것도 괜찮아요. 우리 모두는 같은 종류의 존중을 받을 자격이 있어요. 사회가 타인에 대해 더 공감하는 사회가 되기를 바라요. 트라우마와 그로 인한 깊은 상처를 직시하고 이를 극복하려는 용기에 박수를 보내요... (한국어가 서툴러서 죄송합니다. 한국어가 모국어가 아닙니다// By the way, sorry if my Korean doesn't sounds good, its not my mother tongue. I hope you guys will understand)
To be young is no excuse for this behave to other people. Everybody have Feelings, so bei nice to each other. To Bull someone is weak and without Respekt.
I was bullied, I live in the UK so , as a Asian who lived a a city with not as many brown people around it was really hard . For me, I wish I could now sit infrint of my builes and ask why did u do that to me .
You can't blame it on being young. If you were actually sorry for your disgusting behaviour you would have apologized to him long before this show. That being said, it took either courage or regret to knowingly meet him in front of a camera, knowing how you treated him. My guess is, he wanted you to read these comments for two reasons. The first reason is to help you understand what you truly did to him, and the second is to educate yourself. I hope you realize that those good memories you hold of your past friendship are painful for him to recall because the person in those memories, that he cared about so much and trusted with his deepest secret, destroyed parts of him that can never be healed. If I could give you one suggestion it would be to reach out to anyone else that you regret bullying and let them know it. If you truly regret what you did to him you should let him know privately as well.
I had a gay teacher and i love him but some of my classmate from time to time made jokes about it and he always stopped them when they were doing it. But i always imagined what would happened if it wasnt a teacher? If he were a student the one being bullyied?
This is acting based on the true story, right? like the other "I met... 10 years ago" vids on this channel? It's really good acting, you can feel the emotions behind their eyes
I feel that S.Korean society hasn’t really developed in accepting gay rights. Not everyone is homophobic there but it seems majority of them are. I mean I’m sure you all have heard what happened to the Love in the big city show. People protested because they were extremely homophobic and sending death threats and bullying to the cast. That’s is just unacceptable!! Why is being gay still a problem? You shouldn’t have to hide who you are or be afraid to be accepted? Everyone should feel safe to love whoever!! ❤
If they are not actors, then this discussion doesn't seem very pragmatic. are we here to get revenge on the bully? or to sort out the problems facing us? seems both parties are not interested in fixing anything and are just there for our entertainment
Im not sure but from what i've read most of the people say its acting If not then its a sad story but they should have put a warnig sign there that it's just acting
something like this shouldnt be done in front of a camera this is something many young people have to go through young people get bullied for many different reasons and often the bullies regret it when they get more mature, what the victim did here wasnt exactly right either to say read the comments because especially nowadays these places are very toxic and can hurt someone too, the bully clearly also had a hard time and showed that he is reflecting he did something wrong but thats no reason for him to get bullied now too or have to suffer for the rest of his life but more important to learn something from it.
친밀하다고 생각하는 상대방에게 신뢰하고 솔직하고 싶은 마음이 잘못된걸까요. 그 솔직하고자 한 용기와 신의를 배반하고 자신의 유희거리로 소문낸 사람이 잘못인가요. 소문낸 내용이 사실인지 아닌지는 중요하지 않습니다. 그 소문이 퍼졌을 때 친구한테 해가 될 수 있는지가 중요하죠.
Such courage. I was the fat kid. Guess what? I am a fat grandma now! Funny thing is that when I hear from people from the 1960’s, they tell me that they remember me as funny, nice, caring. No one said fat.🧑🏻🎄🤟❤️
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This really shows how bullies and victims view their past. The bully only recounts the good days of them getting bread together and how their teacher is doing, whereas the victim talks about how he was bullied, isolated, and outed to his family. It's quite sad how the bully needed to be reminded of those days, but the victim can't forget and lives with those scars for the rest of their lives. Huge praise to the victim for being calm, trying to understand and pointing out how those kinds of "jokes" clearly would look horrible to outside perspective. I'm glad that the bully has grown and realised the error of his ways and will hopefully learn from this.
I feel so sorry for him. The way he looks at the bullie and talks with him is full of silenced emotions😢 The tension is crazy.
True they’re doing a great job acting it out really realistically
Woah his last words was a power move…😳 that must’ve felt refreshing to him after all those years of bullying.
If anyone is interested, the gay guy name is Myeongkyun, he was one of the members in His man 3, a korean gay dating show, really suggest to watch it, season 1 and 2 aswell
Myeongkyun is being mean by not accepting the young man's apology. He apologize to Myeongkyun for his actions and please don't forget that he was young and impressionable in High school. Your former friend is remorseful and he apologize for what he did to you when he was young. It takes courage to face you and the public and to expose himself to being criticized and judged by the public. I emphasize with what you went through as a teenager Myeongkyun but you are an adult so you should extend Grace to this young man for stepping up and taking responsibility for his bullying. You come off self righteous and it's seems like your intention for meeting with this young man is to punish him and not to accept his apology and get clousure. Two wrongs don't make a right. How are you any better than him now that you refuse to accept his apology and just get up and walk away. Sorry you was hurt but it's time that you rise above. We accept you being gay and proud and wish you a happy life. However extend some grace to this young man and thank him for taking responsibility for his childhood actions and for trying to make amends. Young man, be acceptable and respect people's differences and live a good life. Do not allow anyone to steal your joy. Enjoy life, be happy and prosper young man.
@@karlenebartley4271 First of all it doesn't matter if you're an adult or not, I, as a gay guy i would never forgive someone even if they just outed me (told everyone i was gay without my consent) because that's just straight disrespectful, let's not use the "but i was kid" card because it doensn't matter if you're a kid, you can still be mature and don't do these things if you're well educated, if you do these things that means that you're immature and you weren't raised with proper manners. also on this channel they take stories from anonymous people and recreate them by taking other people as actors so it's not their story, both myeongkyun and the other guy are innocent and don't have nothing to do with the story, they're just acting
@@karlenebartley4271 its up to him if he wants to accept or not its not rude for him not to
@@karlenebartley4271 you don't force yourself to forgive a person. You only forgive when you're ready to do so. Maybe he still has trauma in his heart & can't just forgive & ignore the past like that
@@karlenebartley4271first of all anyone can apologise but doesn’t mean you actually mean it plus he could’ve just said that because it’s awkward and second of all you don’t have to forgive someone just because they apologise to you.
They’re only actors these two as well so don’t go blaming the actors.
The gay guy has left emotional scar that is still trying to heal itself. Being emotionally tortured as a child leaves so much trauma that is hard to heal even as time passes on. That bully probably understand all that he has done and he truly feels like he is sorry for what he has done to his once best friend who trusted him enough to tell his secret that only led to painful bullying and becoming an outcast in society. Hopefully both find a peaceful and reasonable way to re-connect and be friends again if that is possible. It's a shame how things turned out negative because as a kid, you did a dumb thing.
Not him calling him cool now..
Ikr
Kudos to the good looking guy who made his bully reflect on himself & totally humiliated him in the process.👏👏
no one should be humiliated, bad actions makes bad people
He so brave and that final statement was really quite powerful before he left.
I hope in some way this was healing fir him to get it out.
Kinda surprised the other guy agreed to even do this video
Well they’re actors so the actual people saying these things aren’t here but they did a great job with this as actors
I was bullied at school because my parents didn't have a lot of money.
I'm much older now, but it stays with you to a certain extent.
It's a terrible thing to go through.
Let alone having to defend yourself for being who you are.
the tension is crazy
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i’m glad they could talk calmly and address their issues
bullying isn’t something to be taken lightly. the man on the left took it like a champ.
please, always rethink before doing something. bullying may seem fun, but it will come back to you.
please teach your kids respect and treat them well. i was some sort of a bully before high school, and i cant remember anything about it, the only reason i know its because people told me they remembered me bullying them back then. just as this guy, at the time i never thought it was something serious, in my mind i was just surviving school and social life. i was so quiet, had good grades, the teachers loved me, they would never expect me to hurt others. but i was mean. thats the part i do remember, i was mean like my mom was to me. so be kind to kids please
Being gay is not a crime but living in this society as a "Human" is straight up crime. Why do peoples think that by bullying others they become cool? I feel so bad for the people's going through all this, I just hope this world get rid of all these bullying so that every person of any race, gender, religion can live peacefully I really hope 🤞🍃
Same 😢❤
Same 😢❤
i feel so bad for myeongkyun- i never knew he went through all of that. hes come so far
He didn’t, he’s acting. It’s other people’s story and he’s just there with another actor acting it out
@@kimbapbekidding1522 ohhh that explains a lot
We Never Support bullying. You don‘t know how painful it is for the victim Because the Bad words will Follow you forever.
However I‘m positive suprised that the bully understands that he was rude and wanted to fix that. We don‘t Need to claim the bully bc in the end he was also strong enough to sit infront of the cam and listen to the victim. Never give up. All the Bad words they Said to you makes u stronger ❤
That's true, when he acepted he kind of knew they were going to talk about it.
Unfortunately, this kind of bullying will never stop. It takes a strong man to come face to face with his bully & keep a calm disposition as he lets him know that his life is good, and although what the bully did was young ... he need to be held responsible for his actions.
The tension felt is to be expected, especially from the audience. It's not hard to feel the pain of bullying... even though not physical, Emotional bullying is even more dangerous.
I'm proud of the young man who has made something of his life, despite the bullying he went through in life. He has the right to hold his head high & how he lives & loves privately is all that matters. His happiness that no one can control but him.
As for his bully .. well at least he's working. What I saw in him, was a boy who can't face the pain he inflicted on once upon a time *good friend*.
Nobody deserves to be bullied. You will never know what they are going through and how painful this is. To be kind is not a hard thing to do. Be kind.
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WOW ! This must have been so painful for you. You can hear it in his voice and see it in his mannerism. I hope he truly loves himself. Continue to prove that others' judgments CAN NOT hold you back. You graciously faced your classmate and left him to face his consequences. I hope he does read these comments and will strive to be a better person. On another note..very bad ass of you to leave him sitting there !!!!! FIGHTING !!!!!!!!
“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” - Maya Angelou
There’s a lot of toxic behavior in S. Korea with bullying, bigotry towards anyone different, shallowness, toxic masculinity, misogyny…the list goes on. I’m not saying it doesn’t exist elsewhere too, but S. Korea’s emphasis on looks and materialism make for a very toxic culture. And I’m speaking as a Korean about my own people. It’s quite sad, and I hope change will come with future generations ( though this video shows two pretty young guys, so I don’t kmow).
You know very well the model guy looks way better. The bully felt inferior all along and this why he had to destroy the model's public reputation. Not that being gay is wrong. I have been bullied myself for being LGBT and I have no pitty for such horrible people. And who knows...maybe the bully was seeing in the other guy is own issues. One of my bullies tried to seduce me years later. I know what I'm talking about....
Bullies never realize that same day, some how, somewhere they will have to atone for their actions.
I hope the victim doing well now
The way that he ignores all the bullies he had done to the other guy is so annoying..ih.
I think it was brave of both of them to show up. Because the bully knew what he did, but he showed up to acknowledge his wrong doing and to apologize. They were both young and we do stupid things when we're young. It doesn't excuse his behavior, but it's a fact, we do stupid things. We can't turn back time to undo them, but we can try to become better people and we can apologize to the people we hurt. I feel the bully felt genuine remorse over his actions. Otherwise, he wouldn't have shown up and agreed to let the world see this video. I hope the man who was bullied, will let this go now and never think about it again. B/c he turned out to be a tall handsome man with a modeling career. Don't let this one moment ruin you. Let the baggage go, stop carrying it around. You've said what you wanted to say to the bully. So it's time to move forward. This is coming from someone who was severely bullied in high school. You've got to let it go now.
I hope that bully suffers because of what he did. That was really horrible. He should have lead the conversation with a heartfelt apology. The victim of the bullying, you are not defined by that mean boy that bullied you. I am proud of you to have the courage to stand up to him.
This is so sad, i feel so sorry for him
It's giving "The glory"
The show?
@qxzv yeah
The glory was based on a real bullying case.
Well yea because the glory was based on a real case of bullying a girl experienced in SK
(주어없음 ^^) 관상만 봐도 지금도 쎄한 느낌이 든다 ㅋㅋㅋ 지금도 절대 반성 안할듯
꼭 성소수자 아니더라도 누군가 약점 잡았다 생각하면 기회 안놓치고 이용해먹을 관상임 진짜 얼굴 꼭 기억하고 거를게요
The body language analysts are going to have a field day with this one!
this made me cry sm oml
The tension is crazy😢😢😢ohmygod
I have a question guys .Why do most gay are always handsome?
Because overall gays put more effort to take care of them selves
Well, mabe not all handsome, but remember when we that are gay look in the mirror we look at someone who's gender we are attracted to, so we judge ourselver very harshly, and therefore (many of us) take care of ourselves, trying too look good, and maybe even younger.
To ask that stereotyped question is just about as bad as bullying someone who is gay. It shows a lack of understanding, and a lack of trying to understand. It is just not true, gay people come in all shapes and sizes just like straight people.
Myeongkyun is such a sweetheart I can't understand how anyone could bully him. Smh
Why try to hurt someone because you can't handle their preferences. The young man is full of grace and courage even though he is in pain from being deeply betrayed by a former friend. The other man seems stuck in adolescence.
This was a painful video to watch. I've been there. It took me many years to forgive my bullies and I did it for me not them. I don't feel animosity toward them anymore.
the victim was so brave for this, i understand both sides but the bully... he tried to change the topic again and again
😯🤩🤩🤩 excellent acting, Splendid Myeongkiun!!!!!🏆👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
just because someones young doesnt make there actions okay. its not something you do as a joke they shouldn't use that as an excuse for their actions because if you were that young and you couldn't think properly how were others that were the same age not also bullies. Im glad the guy who got bullied didn't care for an apology and left him like that.
If you are reading this, thank u for going to the show and liste to what he had to say. Everyone has different point of view of their moments in high school
This was a very good video. He said he wants to apologize, but it doesnt matter anymore. he did the damage. He has no right to be forgiven. But i am glad that through giggle he was able to reflect on himself.
Bet the bully left a scar or a fear on him now. hope the other person is okay. like I'm gay and i love boys it is hard to open up to someone close because something like that can happen to anyone and can affect them mentally for ages
개무섭...댓글 꼼꼼히 읽어봐...
진심... 살인인데.저거...아웃팅.....
8:12 "We're on a show, so look at the camera"
This is more humiliating and I kinda feel bad for the bully! 😢😬💔(But I mean, what goes around comes around)
I feel bad for the victim too, because it left a scar on him for years😢💔.
I think they’re all actors to protect identities
What??
Such courage. I was the fat kid. Guess what? I am a fat grandma now! Funny thing is that when I hear from people from the 1960’s, they tell me that they remember me as funny, nice, caring. No one said fat.🧑🏻🎄🤟❤️
Hm, it does seem like there has been too much commotion going on between the both of them in their past as well too. But I do hope they get over it overtime though, bullying is definitely not something that should happen that much longer, especially when you’re doing it to someone who’s gay ❤
I hope everyone knows they’re just actors but the story is real
The way you handled their experiences is bullying the bully. You allowed no room for mutual growth and that growth is the very reason souls come into this human form. To grow.
On a spiritual level the way this was handled is no better than the original bullying and creates a cycle that will have no peaceful end. We are at a point in human history that is shedding such ways. Please reflect on what was accomplished and what was created here.
Ok Giggle, pack it up, it's getting a bit too real out here..
im sobbing as someone who went throurough simmilar it hurts
Yıllar sonra gelen " özür dileme" şuan hiçbir şey ifade etmiyor. Çünkü o küçük çocuklar hala geçmişte ve biri zorbalık yapıyor, diğeri ise kalbi kırık ve ağlıyor....ve tam da o anda zaman sonsuza dek donmuş..
"Old school friend" bullying him for being gay, he was never a friend.
unfortunately in south korea you are friends with someone who has same age as yours even if you don't get along
I hope there is a follow up to this video. I would like to see redemption because the bully seems to be struggling with his thoughts and emotions too.
I was bullied too never have I been able to face my bullies because our whole school was bullies. Small town and it was like they had nothing better to do. I can say honestly that it has followed me and I still have depression. They dont care but I think where did this emotional damage start and it was being bullied for stupid stuff I couldnt control as a child. Or because I couldnt comprehend stuff as well because I was in the hospital often as a kid. So I would come back and coupd never catch up. I could never catch up before getting sick again. Kids are cruel as heck. We had a suicide at our school because of bullies in 8th grade. She was in 8th grade. She was super sweet but bullied for her looks. SUPER sad. I cried so hard when she was gone because I really liked her and always yelled at people picking on her. Idk why people need to be mean to others to make themselves feel cooler because in the end it doesnt.
I love everything about this comment section
Great acting Myeongkyun, if it was actually acting. If it’s not, this is heartbreaking.
But it does bring the topic to the forefront. STOP BASHING SEXUAL MINORITIES!
it can be both too
damn myeongkun clocked his tea lmaoo
실제인지 배우와 함께한 것인지 매우 감탄할 만해네요.. 한국에서는 많은 사람들이 왕따를 당하고 동성애에 대한 인식이 안타깝게도 여전히 좋지 않아요.
그 남자는 내면에 큰 상처가 있는 것 같아 안타까요. 빨리 회복되길 바라요..
게이인 것도 괜찮고, 성소수자인 것도 괜찮고, '비규범적'인 것도 괜찮아요. 우리 모두는 같은 종류의 존중을 받을 자격이 있어요. 사회가 타인에 대해 더 공감하는 사회가 되기를 바라요.
트라우마와 그로 인한 깊은 상처를 직시하고 이를 극복하려는 용기에 박수를 보내요...
(한국어가 서툴러서 죄송합니다. 한국어가 모국어가 아닙니다// By the way, sorry if my Korean doesn't sounds good, its not my mother tongue. I hope you guys will understand)
@giggle is one of the best channel on youtube with always new and different content 🙂
someone who tell others that you a gay is not bully, you are a bully when ur gayself and you tell other, what ur purpose told him
To be young is no excuse for this behave to other people. Everybody have Feelings, so bei nice to each other. To Bull someone is weak and without Respekt.
Why do they look familiar?
They are actors .... the channel bring actors to act the real life story of the people who had this
Black coat one is Myungkyun from his man 3.....a gay love reality show
@@raghadalashoor6650thanks for explaining. 😊 wish they would say this in the beginning tho 🙈
@@raghadalashoor6650 so this was only a reenactment? Still very powerful and hopefully a lesson to be learned.
@@michelleomealy1389 most definitely
I feel like it doesn’t matter if you’re kids adults or even in your 90s it’s still wrong that you’re bullying someone for being gay
Okay, to me this video just looked like 8:51 minutes of awkwardness
I was bullied, I live in the UK so , as a Asian who lived a a city with not as many brown people around it was really hard . For me, I wish I could now sit infrint of my builes and ask why did u do that to me .
Isn't he myungkyun from his man 3 ?
He is!
@@varusez2251 I knew I recognized him !!!!!!
wow i didn't recognize him I just noticed now because you mentioned that
If this interaction is real 😢😢it's a crazy life then😵💫
well ppl change over time
Is not this myeongkyun member of that show his man 3 … ?
Actors, real story
That bully havent changed at all the way he talks is just someone who doesnt regrets anything thats just ew
You can't blame it on being young. If you were actually sorry for your disgusting behaviour you would have apologized to him long before this show. That being said, it took either courage or regret to knowingly meet him in front of a camera, knowing how you treated him. My guess is, he wanted you to read these comments for two reasons. The first reason is to help you understand what you truly did to him, and the second is to educate yourself. I hope you realize that those good memories you hold of your past friendship are painful for him to recall because the person in those memories, that he cared about so much and trusted with his deepest secret, destroyed parts of him that can never be healed. If I could give you one suggestion it would be to reach out to anyone else that you regret bullying and let them know it. If you truly regret what you did to him you should let him know privately as well.
Totally agree w u
I had a gay teacher and i love him but some of my classmate from time to time made jokes about it and he always stopped them when they were doing it. But i always imagined what would happened if it wasnt a teacher? If he were a student the one being bullyied?
Y’all think this is not acting???
헐 난 도저히 용서못해서 얼굴 보기도 싫을것같은데 ....
They are actors
This is acting based on the true story, right? like the other "I met... 10 years ago" vids on this channel? It's really good acting, you can feel the emotions behind their eyes
I feel that S.Korean society hasn’t really developed in accepting gay rights. Not everyone is homophobic there but it seems majority of them are. I mean I’m sure you all have heard what happened to the Love in the big city show. People protested because they were extremely homophobic and sending death threats and bullying to the cast. That’s is just unacceptable!! Why is being gay still a problem? You shouldn’t have to hide who you are or be afraid to be accepted? Everyone should feel safe to love whoever!! ❤
This is humanity omg ❤❤❤❤ #NoLimitForeverRecords
If they are not actors, then this discussion doesn't seem very pragmatic.
are we here to get revenge on the bully? or to sort out the problems facing us?
seems both parties are not interested in fixing anything and are just there for our entertainment
We bout to get heavy
yikesss
@@LuvinjanelleeI know… these darker videos are my fave tbh.
@@ShinMegamiTensei1 not to go off ropic, but love your pfp
@@Ravenz2303 Jesus christ… lol I came to get heavy not to be worshipped! But thank you!
Is this not the same gun in his man s3?
Mungkyun i guess
They're actors, based on real story
is he Myeongkyun from Hisman s3 ?
yes
It's never nice to bully someone because of who they are as a person, where they come from, how they choose to dress, or they are attached to.
Is this real or they just acting?
Im not sure but from what i've read most of the people say its acting
If not then its a sad story but they should have put a warnig sign there that it's just acting
Does anyone know the left guys Instagram? He is very cool and if he's a model I'd love to follow hin
something like this shouldnt be done in front of a camera this is something many young people have to go through young people get bullied for many different reasons and often the bullies regret it when they get more mature, what the victim did here wasnt exactly right either to say read the comments because especially nowadays these places are very toxic and can hurt someone too, the bully clearly also had a hard time and showed that he is reflecting he did something wrong but thats no reason for him to get bullied now too or have to suffer for the rest of his life but more important to learn something from it.
Not nad actors,been better if it show the real People
wow
🙁
Wait is this acting or real?
this is acting
@@Mandy-t2yI was freaking out! I thought it was real. Couldn’t they put a warning sign.
@@bluebirdy09 I agree they should've put a warning sign
Relax lil bru, it's not that deep😭🙏🏻
😂
아 😦
I feel like they shouldn't discuss this in front of a camera. The bully might not be honest and this is their issue. Not the public's
They're acting ....
Womp womp
Early
sorry but im gonna have to agree with the bully
How
Is this rage bait or are you a disturbed individual?
How?
‘나는 남자를 좋아한다’ 이게 사실인데?
본인이 직접 이야기를 친구에게 했고
남들에게 알려지기 싫으면 친구에게도 이야기하지 말았어야지.
오ㅐ 친구가 반성해야하지???😮
흠.... 상식적으로 남자가 남자를 좋아하는게 맞는건가??? 왜 반성하라 하고 떠남??????
친밀하다고 생각하는 상대방에게 신뢰하고 솔직하고 싶은 마음이 잘못된걸까요. 그 솔직하고자 한 용기와 신의를 배반하고 자신의 유희거리로 소문낸 사람이 잘못인가요. 소문낸 내용이 사실인지 아닌지는 중요하지 않습니다. 그 소문이 퍼졌을 때 친구한테 해가 될 수 있는지가 중요하죠.
뭐 게이가 정상은 아닌데 이게 게이 말고 다른 고민거리, 집안사정같은 걸로 대입해보면 남의 비밀 퍼트린 친구가 더 잘못이 있긴하지
@ 자신에게 해가 될 수도 있는 이야기는 친한 친구라고 해도 이야기 하면 안됩니다.
자신에게 해가 될거라는걸 본인도 알고 있지 않았나요? 본인이 동성애자라고 커밍아웃 할때 그 반응도 생각 못하고 이야기 한건가요?
동성애를 옹호할 분은 옹호하세요
동성애를 찬양할 분은 찬양하세요
동성애를 반대하는 사람은 내버려 두세요
동성애에 반대하는 사람은 반대할
자유가 있는 거잖아요.
표현의 자유와 양심의 자유가 있잖아요.
@@user-fw9wp9kd5i 그렇긴 하지만
애초에 그럴거였으면 친한 친구에게도 말하지
말았어야 합니다. 그 사람은 친한 친구가 아니었던 거고 그말한 사람에게도 책임이 있는 것입니다.
난 오른쪽이 게이인줄 ㅎㅎㅎ
Such courage. I was the fat kid. Guess what? I am a fat grandma now! Funny thing is that when I hear from people from the 1960’s, they tell me that they remember me as funny, nice, caring. No one said fat.🧑🏻🎄🤟❤️