How To Overcome Bitterness, Heartbreak, And Betrayal

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  • @shantlehughes89
    @shantlehughes89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    A soft answer turns away wrath,
    But harsh word stirs up anger.
    Proverbs 15:1

    • @zens9669
      @zens9669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for this =)

    • @sharonmcgee4069
      @sharonmcgee4069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen

    • @theresadavis9891
      @theresadavis9891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      AMEN!!!

    • @jonasteuma3219
      @jonasteuma3219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Some people only get angry when after being chronically abused, nagged or provoked, whether the perpetrator or others recognise and admit this reality or not.This is righteous wrath, not an anger management problem. Others, on the other hand, are just chronically angry towards the weak and get away with it because their victims are weak. Chronic anger,perpetrated by the strong, is the mental illness or character flaw that goes ignored and unpunished, until the victim, no matter how weak, cannot take it anymore, and snaps. This is righteous wrath.

    • @sunniski195
      @sunniski195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes Jonas!!! 😥😥

  • @selinasaunders
    @selinasaunders 5 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    True talk! It’s happened to me. My marriage, and husband was one of the most difficult things that I had to fight for, but thank God I got converted to the faith when I did, and decided to fight instead of dip out. His soul was worth all the fight. He is saved now and we are both growing together. Marriage is amazing and sacred, and it’s the gospel you are preaching to your babies! 👑Fight for IT!🥊🥊🥊

    • @narademendez8559
      @narademendez8559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen!

    • @kdhawk2276
      @kdhawk2276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm right there with you. Nothing in my life thus far has compared to this walk I'm on with Christ. My marriage is not restored yet but it will be in Gods timing!

    • @flamingmagenta955
      @flamingmagenta955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      We have to actually make sure our marriages and relationships are approved by God before we fight for it...

    • @selinasaunders
      @selinasaunders 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Contend sister! My husband was addicted to meth, alcohol, and so many other things. It was Hell being married to him, and took 6 years, but during this process I would receive words that he would be saved and converted IF I remained faithful but not just to him, but my new faith , and I held on to those words and decided to buckle down and began to fight on my knees! I use to get jealous of godly women and their Holy marriage because I wanted it so bad, and now, I have it. All glory to Jesus.

    • @flamingmagenta955
      @flamingmagenta955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@selinasaunders I hope so! If not, I suggest you accept the truth (jesus) and learn from your choices.

  • @mwh459
    @mwh459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Pride is the biggest destruction of all relationships!

    • @get2knowfaith
      @get2knowfaith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I wish I could like your comment 1000xs

    • @lynharvey4185
      @lynharvey4185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly right.... PRIDE..... 😥

    • @rwr166
      @rwr166 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen! Say it again!

    • @beautifulwonderfullymade.2662
      @beautifulwonderfullymade.2662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes pride can either make you or break you. If we learn to put our pride aside some times we will be OK. If we are to prideful, then we could miss out on a blessing or a life lesson.

    • @lynharvey4185
      @lynharvey4185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@beautifulwonderfullymade.2662 so.... true....

  • @joanrena1
    @joanrena1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I was married and divorced from my 1st husband but after 15 years of over coming pain from the divorce.I remarried my first husband again. Our relationship now is sweet !

    • @TheJackierose1
      @TheJackierose1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Joan Meeks Amen. God is doing the same for me too. I married my husband in 2000, separated in 2001and divorced him in 2007. In 2017 God told me to contact him and ask for forgiveness and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not kept in contact but our God is amazing and told me to enter is full name into a google search. I couldn’t believe it when his new company was displayed with his home address. I did what God said and a week later he sent a text asking if he could call. We talked like we have never spoken before. He is now sorting things out and God is preparing the both of us. I still couldn’t believe it until x3 prophets confirmed a Word that God has given directly to me. I would never have thought that this was possible but again our God has proven that with him ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. Jacqui

  • @flamingmagenta955
    @flamingmagenta955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Yes! We have to accept that God never ordained these toxic relationships to begin with. Stop ignoring red flags and being desperate.

    • @springtyme77
      @springtyme77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😥😢😢😢😥😢😢😥😥😢

    • @brittanyburns7045
      @brittanyburns7045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I married a guy that i was in a toxic relationship wit.. but booy i tell ya. I got into God faithfully. I prayed for my husband and became an godly example according to 1 peter 3. Not only God worked on me and transforming me he did the same for him. Halleluyah! Can he do it? I didnt hv to divorce him. All we needed was God.

    • @Kelly-ew9vf
      @Kelly-ew9vf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I swear there's a spirit of codependency. It grips you to feel guilty and the other person to feel the deep desire to control you.

  • @Sandra-wj4on
    @Sandra-wj4on 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I was in an devastating marriage, where my husband not only abused me physically and mentally, but he cheated on me and then lied to his family and friends to make me appear to be the bad guy. Not to mention he 'gaslighted' me by trying to make me believe I was crazy when I confronted him with his infidelity. (BTW, he ended up leaving me and marrying this 'non-existent' girlfriend. LOL!) By my marriage end, I was the Walking Wounded and ready to commit suicide.
    BUT GOD.
    He came to me one midnight when I was about to slit my wrists. He helped me through that devastating period in my life. At first, I was so hurt, next so angry, I was calling down lightning bolts from Heaven to destroy my ex! (LOL!)
    BUT GOD!
    Even in the midst of my rage, I desperately knew if I didn't learn to forgive my ex and move past the pain, I'd die first spiritually, then mentally, and finally physically. Yet how? How to forgive something so devastatingly painful that I wanted to no longer exist? One of the ways The Lord helped me through was to have me release the responsibility of my ex-husband's actions. At the time I would randomly burst into tears, asking Him "Why did he abuse me?" "Why did he cheat on me?" "Why did he lie on me?" One day The Lord placed in my spirit: "As long as you own these things, you can never get past them." Confused, I then asked: "What do You mean?" The Lord: "Instead of saying 'He cheated on me' say: 'He is a cheater'. Instead of: 'He abused me' say: 'He is an abuser'. Replace 'He lied on me' with 'He is a liar'. By thinking of it this way, you relinquish hold on what he did to you - and place it back on the person truly responsible: him. You are stuck because you are holding on to guilt for what he did during your marriage."
    This revelation was so life-changing enlightening! I hadn't realized the reason I couldn't forgive and move on because I hadn't first forgiven myself for being in such a dysfunctional relationship. Once I released the burden of my own guilt, forgiven myself and handed my abuse back to my abuser, I was on my way to total healing. During that period The Lord also made me see who I was as well, which wasn't very pretty, let me tell you! He then instructed me to pray for my ex and his girlfriend/wife. (LOL! Went kicking and screaming into that one! But the more I prayed, the easier it got. This also helped me heal. God knew exactly what He was doing!)
    That was more than 20 years ago and I haven't looked back since. I pray my testimony helps someone. May God bless you all!

    • @lalavargo
      @lalavargo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can really relate to this! God bless you sis, Thank you for sharing, it's powerful! Please keep me in prayer as I'm struggling to forgive myself for.

    • @Sandra-wj4on
      @Sandra-wj4on 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lalavargo God Almighty, I touch and agree with Your Holy Spirit for Your precious child. Pour out Your favor and cover their situation with the blood of Jesus Christ. I speak total healing and ultimate peace over Your child. In Jesus Christ mighty name. Amen! God bless you, love!

    • @lalavargo
      @lalavargo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sandra-wj4on Amen!!! Thank you Lord! God Bless you sis, Thank you for taking the time to respond, I'm honoured.

    • @Sandra-wj4on
      @Sandra-wj4on 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lalavargo Back at ya! :)

    • @Sandra-wj4on
      @Sandra-wj4on 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Azureblu 50 You know, it was only after I got out of my own way and truly listened to God, was I redeemed. God bless you! 😊

  • @tamarahawkins9542
    @tamarahawkins9542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I ignored and reaped what I sowed I have to take responsibility I was warned from God through his vessels

    • @TonyaA7
      @TonyaA7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Good answer . We ignore and we reap a harvest of not listening /obeying the voice of the father.

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TonyaA7 that is very true !

    • @tamarahawkins9542
      @tamarahawkins9542 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well I was warned about my ex husband and I started back talking to him he stated he wasn’t married anymore I was vulnerable started back messing with him I went to his house told his wife that he doing her the same way he did me cheated and he told her to have me put in jail and she did

  • @phylliswilliamson8844
    @phylliswilliamson8844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'm married 24 years separate six. I didn't leave because I promised til death do us part, but finally God put it on my spirit that we put ourselves together he didn't. I asked him to leave and he did. We have two kids together, so I knew that I had to be an example for them. I forgave him, and he eventually knew it was the right decision. We were both wrong. He said I'm his best friend and only friend. After we separated God blessed me more than I deserve. I make it a point to thank God and talk to him daily time I open my eyes. It really makes a difference when you put God first in every aspect of your life.

  • @AngelFreeney
    @AngelFreeney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    What I love about you is you keep it real ! 💯 You tell us what we NEED to hear . NOT what we want to hear. You stepped on my toes in this video but I’m glad you did !
    Some people can’t take stuff like this. Either we gone receive it and do better OR be immature and stay in the same place.
    You’re a true blessing 😭💕❤️ thank you for letting Yahweh use you . Sending Love from LOUISIANA 🐊

  • @nicholasmonchak947
    @nicholasmonchak947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No one should give you bad comments because you are a TRUE BLESSING and there is a reason I found you on youtube!!!!! And you are spot on with everything you said because I see now the signs but I ignored them, but I blame myself for the relationship failing because I messed up, lied, drank, and now, because of hearing you I realize it was my fault.....

  • @corierupert9755
    @corierupert9755 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Praise God ,thank you Lord for leading me here today ..Amen Thank you Jesus..

  • @aprilc1077
    @aprilc1077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Forgiveness doesn't mean they didn't do a wrong it just means that you're releasing them from owing you anything for it.

    • @ralphdagod652
      @ralphdagod652 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t believe in forgiveness for the same person over and over I loved this women been my friend 4 years took care of her and children and she hurt me so as of now I hate her she just lose me karma will come back in the end I do pray that god can bring me around to forgiveness

    • @Tiffany_3x
      @Tiffany_3x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ralphdagod652
      I pray God helps you to heal and love again! ❤ 🙏 🕊

    • @ralphdagod652
      @ralphdagod652 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tiffany_3x thank you 🙏🏿 I really feel that I can never love again

  • @eimymorales704
    @eimymorales704 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes! Putting myself in that spot where I realized what I also did wrong was so healing and humbling. We don’t have the right to not forgive others. God forgives us everyday and we may not deserve it. We need to humble ourselves and think about what the other person is struggling with as well. That is loving each other. Caring and not tearing down

  • @sw-en7wb
    @sw-en7wb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Who's the common denominator in each of our failed relationships? See the mirror. Women treat your husband like the man he can be, (compliment him, be kind) men treat and love your wife like Christ loved the church. My grandparents lived that for 59 1/2 years and I never heard them argue, raise their voice, or insult the other (they lost 2 sons at young ages, lost everything in their 60s to a hurricane). The opportunity for bitterness, anger and self pity knocked at their door, but they did not let it in.
    TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE A THOROUGHBRED AND SHE WILL NEVER GROW INTO AN OLD NAG.

  • @lissetcontreras1821
    @lissetcontreras1821 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I really need to hear this . thank you.

  • @godschosen__1
    @godschosen__1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love u my brother in the Lord, I look forward to ur videos,they always uplift my spirit

  • @JESUSCHRISTMYSAVIOR
    @JESUSCHRISTMYSAVIOR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Wow, thank you Jesus for this message!

  • @lisamcphaul3602
    @lisamcphaul3602 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are preaching brother!!!

  • @katrinapritchett6241
    @katrinapritchett6241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Brother, this video is delivering my soul from years of bitterness and having victim’s mentality. Truth be told, the Lord showed me Every Time that people I dealt with were not right but I ignored His voice, thus got hurt. This video is the Truth!!!
    John 8:32 - And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.

  • @joanholliman673
    @joanholliman673 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    MARCUS, YOU ARE INSPIRING!!! DON'T LET THE HATERS GET TO YOU.

  • @MakeupJules
    @MakeupJules 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It take a lot of maturity to admit your part in doing or causing a disagreement. Thank you you help me I needed to here this!

  • @FYEYE
    @FYEYE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Sometimes you just want to be seen and understood. Compassion goes a long way.

    • @streetsofgold378
      @streetsofgold378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was too long winded the video. But, I still love what you are doing for The Kingdom, Brother Marcus. I do like your messages. But, Tell people to pray more. We have to take our issues, needs, and wants to The Lord JESUS CHRIST in Prayer, Period!!! ~Ms. Royal

    • @marlaharmon1297
      @marlaharmon1297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@streetsofgold378 ikr

    • @iprincessirene
      @iprincessirene 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Give it and you shall receive it in return

    • @jonasteuma3219
      @jonasteuma3219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chronic Lack of consciousness/situational awareness, chronic lack of empathy appropriate to the situation, chronically arrogant, condescending and dismissive of a person's disadvantage, deprivation, frustration, suffering etc. will eventually drive even the most docile and gentle of souls to righteous wrath. The * temporary, situational, RIGHTEOUS WRATH * of the GOOD soul is SEEN, and PATHOLOGISED and CONDEMNED. The *** chronic, insufferable ABUSE and NEGLECT * of the BAD soul that PROVOKED it, is NOT. In most cases, most of the time, the most serious Evil, and the most serious Suffering, is INVISIBLE, Insidious, Subtle, and CHRONIC.

    • @heather77
      @heather77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is true, just a little bit of acknowledgement and kindness like a simple 'how are you doing' goes a long way. Bitterness comes from hurt, I need God to help me let go of this cause it's getting worse, I'm supposed to be getting better as a Christian and I feel like I'm a worse person than before I was a Christian.

  • @aaronwallace3580
    @aaronwallace3580 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I went through something like this in my past relationship. Her and I both had our faults, but I had thought her fault was so much greater than mine. I was blind in my pride... Thank you Jesus for forgiving me. Thank you for opening my eyes & teaching me forgiveness in her and in myself. God bless you all. Pray and ask for wisdom & position in your life, whatever it may be. Thank you, Jesus.

  • @quyonariley2604
    @quyonariley2604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m trying so hard not to cry 😢 thank you 🙏🏽 God for this message I need to let my past go ♥️

    • @peterguildford5848
      @peterguildford5848 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Quyona Riley very important 🙏🏾👸🏽✨

  • @monicafox8648
    @monicafox8648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’ve been through so much heartbreak and betrayal I pray all the time for the Lord to give me the strength to forgive others. Please pray for me as well💕 God bless y’all

  • @sharonfelicia121
    @sharonfelicia121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Thank you Brother Marcus, you are absolutely right, I ignored the warning signs because of the potential, and made so many excuses on their behalf because I was nieve. I know Christ has forgiven me but it is hard for me to forgive myself for allowing it to happen. Through christ all things are possible and peace will be my portion this 2019. Amen

    • @hghly-fvrd1819
      @hghly-fvrd1819 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you are not alone. We have all done it at some point, regardless if we admit it or not. You will forgive yourself, recover and grow from it. Be blessed sister.

    • @sharonfelicia121
      @sharonfelicia121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hghly-fvrd1819 Thank you. Stay blessed

    • @ajalaraine3218
      @ajalaraine3218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes

    • @pamelawebb2328
      @pamelawebb2328 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sharonfelicia121 yes being naive is the road to bad endings

  • @rosierich6561
    @rosierich6561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You see the crown but don't see the cross! Powerful ..

  • @kdhawk2276
    @kdhawk2276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Standing for my marriage after betrayal. God is working in me right now and I am learning to let go of my husband and let God do his work in both of us. I was ready to divorce him but God......He said no, you will stand and you will forgive. So much peace in that choice.

    • @janicejanice9277
      @janicejanice9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm A Israelite Women! I'll be Married 36 Yrs In a few Day's! The Most High Is Trully A GOD Of RIGHTEOUSNESS! We Can Make It If We Except Who We Are As Women! His Design For US AND WHO HE Say We Are! We Must Continue To Follow The Law! The Statue's! And Commandment's! Become Virtuous Women! Ill Pray For You Please For Me! Read Enoch, Jasher,Jubilees,The Testimony Of The Twelve Patriarch. So Power. WE Women In America Must Come Out Of Babalyon! SHALOM!

    • @TheJackierose1
      @TheJackierose1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      #DoreenHawkins, you are so right. My husband betrayed me the day before we got married i.e he was unfaithful. I found out 9 months later and we split. I divorced him 7 years later. A year ago God spoke to me and told me I had to write to him and forgive him. I had no idea where he was as we had not spoken for 14 years. God TOLD me how to get his address. I obeyed God and wrote to him and a week later he called me. God is bringing us back together after 18 years. ONLY OUR God can do this. He is an amazing God. Jacqui.

    • @irma7133
      @irma7133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      be strong sister stay in the word , Walk in love , that's Gods love . read 5 love languages gary Chapman, sacred marriage by , gary thomas . pray for God to show you what you need to work on in yourself. God bless you

    • @buzzingbee6380
      @buzzingbee6380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Doreen Hawkins
      I haven't heard God say if we will be restored but when he was grabbing his stuff and leaving for his much younger co worker I said God do something and I heard a firm no. Is thus forever? I also heard him say trust me and others who have prayed for me said God is moving things around . some say its God protecting the kids and I. What should I believe. I don't know if I should hold on or heal????

    • @TheJackierose1
      @TheJackierose1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Buzzing Bee Both. God has walked with me over the last 18 years and I never thought that he would bring my ex back as I had forgotten about him and pursued our God but God is faithful x

  • @BeautifulDaphanie
    @BeautifulDaphanie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Thank you. I just had a great cry. My last relationship I basically wanted it to be my way. I had stopped talking with God and praying for guidance and thinking I could have it all my way. I built a house on sinking sand and when it fell, I was left pregnant and alone. Now 39 weeks pregnant, the father of my child is trying to communicate with me and I just wanted him to leave me alone. I see now that for me to succeed I must forgive. I didn’t listen to no one when they told me to slow down before I shacked up with him. I didn’t pay attention to the signs that he we wasn’t meant to be. I didn’t start to listen till I realized there was a baby growing inside me. Now I have to forgive him and it hurts so bad. I was on my way to a bitter road and was ok with it! I wanted him to suffer for the hurt and abandonment during these last 9 months. But God is greater than my hurt 😔. I am truly humbled and needed to hear this. Thank you for allowing the Holly Spirit to speak through you🙏🏾.

    • @BeautifulDaphanie
      @BeautifulDaphanie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glen CoCo I hear you. But that decision would be mad from my hurt and anger. He is the father and I can’t keep him from seeing the baby. Now there are things like he won’t be alone with my child but if he want to build a relationship with baby, who am I to stop it?

    • @ilatina1032
      @ilatina1032 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate you saying this I'm in the same boat actually but I'm in my first trimester.

    • @shandranewell2837
      @shandranewell2837 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Forgive yourself first

    • @michellemykelhouse1590
      @michellemykelhouse1590 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      TSUNAMI ágape

  • @narademendez8559
    @narademendez8559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Very wise words...God bless you in your ministry and keep making videos your words are very encouraging

  • @amber9738
    @amber9738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I needed this today ❤❤❤ Thank you Marcus.

  • @TonyaA7
    @TonyaA7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It happened to me in friendships. I heard a small soft voice several times say leave them alone and even show me warning signs. I reasoned with the voice saying what if I'm just being judgemental, what if it's just me and not God.
    Honestly had I not gone through those situations I wouldn't have learned to discern the voice of God.
    One was a friend or what I thought was a friend for 34 years only to get betrayed long story short God warned me more than once and I didn't listen .
    Then God showed me it never would've worked because I'm his child and she's of the world and loves darkness and he told me even in friendships we are NOT to be unequally yoked.
    Then there was a few others who wronged me who claimed to be of God again God kept says leave them alone tried to warn me .
    So through them 4 situations as much as it hurt and I was angry and bitter at first until God helped me see truth and come to it repent and forgive them not for them but for me . At times I catch myself thinking about it or talling of it then I remind myself I forgave which frees me . The hard part is they live around me and the so called friend of 34 years hangs around one of the others .
    Letting go is the hard part for me I want to it's just hard. So I been seeking God for healing and help to move on .
    Today I dont have people friends I have my family and most of all Jesus Christ. Walking alone is hard at times but better than fake friends .
    I'm trusting God to vindicate and heal me . Today I pray for them and when I see them smile and give a lil wave to be nice .
    I trust that God has taken the trash out the stumbling block out so I can sore with him on wings of eagles. Honestly they were distracting me from God and I was allowing them to have negative influence in my life .
    I trust God for better and know if he allowed it hes working it for good and better things to come.
    God Bless You brother this word is true .

    • @annabrooks5591
      @annabrooks5591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for saying this I am going through something very similar

    • @TonyaA7
      @TonyaA7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annabrooks5591 ,to God be all the glory. Your welcome .. It's a blessing when what I've been through helps others . It's all the Grace of God that brings us through to true victory and helps us to step over the mountain and when we look again we realize it was an ant hill. We must let God have his way and nail emotions to the cross.. God Bless you

    • @patriciaking7892
      @patriciaking7892 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tonya A, it's hard to be alone cause God didn't create humans to be alone. We're living in critical times hard to deal with 👌. Take it one day at a time in prayer 🙏. Stay Blessed 💘.

  • @ElohimsLily
    @ElohimsLily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great word! Much needed!

  • @lichiacoleman2997
    @lichiacoleman2997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thank you a million times over. You have been a blessing to me and I tell the world about you. I forward this to someone who is hurting right now.

  • @time2live337
    @time2live337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Young man, you are absolutely on point with this message. Keep preaching and teaching the will of The Most High Almighty God .I'm very proud of you and thank God for you.

  • @dahooper7407
    @dahooper7407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are always on point! Thank you for being obedient to God!! #TGBTG (to God be the glory)

  • @johnnydelrome
    @johnnydelrome 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just discovered this man, and I’m sure glad I did. Everything he said hit close to heart.
    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @frannycave533
    @frannycave533 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen brother! I watched 1of your videos and I been hooked ever since. I enjoy the word you share, and I admire your love for God.

  • @ValerieK1971
    @ValerieK1971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Forgive yourself also.

    • @84legit
      @84legit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thats the part I havent figured out

    • @sonkissed8719
      @sonkissed8719 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wade Is Legit You and me both 🤦🏾‍♀️🙏🏾

    • @Tiffany_3x
      @Tiffany_3x 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@84legit
      🙏 have you figured it out yet?

  • @beatrizromero756
    @beatrizromero756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I did.. I let go and I ran to Jesus. It was so hard but God helped me get over this bitterness and anger.

  • @arianna2679
    @arianna2679 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praise YESHUA Ha Maschiach, What's Good with You today? You are right on target. I have been on THE island of isolation for about 5 years and it has been Peace that surpasses all understanding. Through my pain I experienced growth and Faith.. Shalom to Everyone....

  • @ngrady2
    @ngrady2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm letting the house fall with my marriage. My husband left me as soon as I got deeper with God. He fell away from the faith and doesn't want to be with me anymore.There were other things I've could've done better as a wife. I'm also letting the house fall with my finances always worrying about how I'm going to pay this and that with the little bit I have especially now that I'm by myself. This was so on time! God bless you Marcus!

    • @patriciaking7892
      @patriciaking7892 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love Truth, I know the feeling! I'm surrendering my 20 yr old grandson and my finances up to go. However the outcome, I pray for strength to endure. Stay Blessed 💘.

    • @patriciaking7892
      @patriciaking7892 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love Truth, I meant to say up to God! Excuses typos 😂.

  • @thewalker124
    @thewalker124 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Keeping on preaching brotha! Thank you for this video. Bitterness can really affect your relationship with the Lord. Especially your prayer life.

    • @thewalker124
      @thewalker124 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Glen CoCo what is it that your bitter about. In times like these I try to remember "I will not be bitter, I will be better". Bitterness doesn't nothing to the other person. It only hurts you. Don't allow yourself to be imprisioned by it. The truth(Jesus) shall set you free and you will be free indeed.

  • @Pattylovesjesus77
    @Pattylovesjesus77 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If they don't love Jesus, How will they love you 🙏🏼

  • @humblepiekimmalesinski3883
    @humblepiekimmalesinski3883 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is living water flowing from your belly brother Marcus...I'm taking a big drink....I was dying of thirst and am now satisfied with this sweet water that Christ led me to. Praise God!

  • @ErikaF8
    @ErikaF8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It's tight but it's right. 🤦🏽‍♀️😔 #Amen 🙏🏽❤️

  • @DavidPerez-fx6nm
    @DavidPerez-fx6nm 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep this Brother in deep prayer. He keeps it real. That's what I look for. Test the spirit! His motives are just.

  • @jenigibbs5061
    @jenigibbs5061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely love every single word you spoke about for I needed this enduring this exact situation at this moment when I was left a week ago and I have been doing what you are saying about seeing my contribution to the actions of my partner/husband before God. I was always faithful and made some sacrifices but not the most important sacrifice that a Godly woman is supposed to do, I let our home turn into filth and just quit caring because I focused too much on what he didn’t contributed. Now I’m alone I realized I still have this mess to clean and I could have just cleaned my house better and prevented some things for sure. I already started to work and two days straight cleaned and still cleaning. I’m not far from being finished but that’s what God said to do. Already I have peace.

    • @jenigibbs5061
      @jenigibbs5061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen, I’m walking in Faith and I’m letting go and letting God fix my mess.

  • @TheGlossyLife222
    @TheGlossyLife222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes Lord!! You’re telling the absolute truth!!!

  • @ilovejesusshorpe8176
    @ilovejesusshorpe8176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Real talk, Brother Marcus! Holy Spirit at work again through you.

  • @emmalee4146
    @emmalee4146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Holy spirit led and filled message... this is exactly what I needed to hear today!! Wow... thank you Jesus and thank you Bro. Marcus

  • @ajalaraine3218
    @ajalaraine3218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so needed this message. This is me right now. Thank you so much. This thing here has been a constant battle.

  • @verniceblackmon5142
    @verniceblackmon5142 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen! So true! We must release those who did wrong to us! Another way to make it easy to forgive is to pray for them. Thank you for that teaching! You are truly God's disciple!

  • @repentorperish6414
    @repentorperish6414 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen, thank you for these words. I was severely injured by a quack chiropractor in Florida. I had so much negative emotions built up, but I knew I had to forgive even though theyre not sorry & falsified they're medical records to cover up themselves. Forgiveness is truly for your own good, our Lord & Saviour told us to do this for a reason. I needed this, it needs continual reinforcement. Thanks!

  • @gilventura6820
    @gilventura6820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God be with you brother Marcus!!

  • @MrSonnyblack23
    @MrSonnyblack23 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are wise beyond your years Marcus. What a great message!

  • @6309Jmos
    @6309Jmos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Holy for speaking through bro Marcus and guiding me here for the answer to my situation. I will take heed.

  • @crwnofenlightenment
    @crwnofenlightenment 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for allowing God to use you and deliver this message. To God be the glory!

  • @theresar7251
    @theresar7251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you. God loves you. Thanks for being so real

  • @pclare7477
    @pclare7477 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise God for this truth. Very important Marcus. My husband got attacked on our property by some of our neighbors who had it in for him and they are not remorseful in the slightest. I have to see that family every day at school so it's been a struggle to forgive but it is what God commanded, it is a journey. I agree wholeheartedly. Thank you.

  • @angelinagermenis4013
    @angelinagermenis4013 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brother Marcus this is the 5th random video you've uploaded that I've come across since I've repented after many yrs of being backslidden and struggling to serve God.. And in every message is where God has set me free and has revealed these mindsets and sin one is in this message and to mention another is false doctrine..It's the first time I'm walking in victory and hearing His voice and being obedient to His direction when it seemed i could never pass a certain plateau. I wanted to thank the Spirit of God for the work He is doing within His Kingdom bc I was in the darkest places I could of never imagined and I want to share that there is nothing impossible Jesus! God bless

  • @magnus073
    @magnus073 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tour ministry is such a blessing to me daily

  • @oneblessedladyallsbrook1057
    @oneblessedladyallsbrook1057 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thank God for your ministry. I say thank you to you my brother in Christ for your truth, wisdom and honesty.

  • @brandonburrell8517
    @brandonburrell8517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Forgive no matter what. Pride is the only thing that prevents it.

  • @AhlivetahIsrael
    @AhlivetahIsrael 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏾👏🏾You told the whole truth👏🏾👏🏾 This is how I dealt with people that have done me wrong most of the time. I tell you the truth. The times I didn't handle it by putting it in God's hands and forgiving them, it turned out horribly for me EVERYTIME I didn't let God handle it. It effected me emotionally and I had to take up too much time trying to heal from something I could've avoided if I had only let it go. By the grace of God, I'm more patient and quicker to walk away with sound judgment. To God be the Glory and the Praise!!👑💎

  • @courtneyknepper9784
    @courtneyknepper9784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who could possibly attack you?! You speak nothing but truth and I'm so happy you uploaded again!!!❤💯

  • @whiterose4062
    @whiterose4062 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know this video was a yr ago but I'm here listening to it again. This is so awesome because I just realized that what people have done to me & even what I've learned (& still learning) about myself has given me the story of a lifetime. I'd have no stories of breakthroughs during my hardships. And this is definitely something that goes beyond just removing yourself from the person(s) who give you grief. It's a real soul/heart healing that'll set you free because you can be separated & still bitter & resentful. Man, pharaohs heart was hardened for an ultimate purpose which gave God's people victory & a real story we still tell today

  • @Starliachiappetta
    @Starliachiappetta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😳😮🤭🙌🙌🙌 Amen thank you brother for a much needed message. Praying for the Lord to bless you.

  • @accountabilitychangepeace777
    @accountabilitychangepeace777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m having a issue with forgiveness but I’m not bitter or angry toward anyone but myself.I should’ve known better but didn’t do better.This is a breath of country air.I needed to hear it.Thank you Marcus always on time 🙌🏾🙏🏽

  • @dlm2133
    @dlm2133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so right on!! Thank you Jesus!! Thank you Pastor Marcus!

  • @jojo-l7431
    @jojo-l7431 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this. My marriage is in a ugly place. Trusting it all to My Savior.

  • @me-ej9ed
    @me-ej9ed 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been watching this guy for a while now & he really speaks the truth. I definitely have been going through somethings over the years, I lost my way trying to be faithful to a man when I should've put my faith in God. I truly believe God is a jealous God because for many years he allowed me to see how my plans really work. He broke me all the way down & now I see how important it is to be faithful to God. I think this might be my greatest lesson in life because its been dragged out & now all I can do is cry thanking God for healing me & loving me & wiping my tears cause I can't seem to treat ppl bad cause of my heart. Just to express what I've been going through causes me to cry but I thank God for keeping me the whole time.

  • @icecreamtruckfamily
    @icecreamtruckfamily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen, Brother Marcus. Let God do it for you. Praise God!

  • @legacylevel
    @legacylevel 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are dropping straight knowledge on here and that molestation and soul tie teaching that was soooooooo deep and real

  • @angelasalinardi9287
    @angelasalinardi9287 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! You speak truth and some people cant handle it. I appreciate your true talk. It’s all about accountability for our actions and decisions. It always takes two. Your words are truth! It comes from The Heavenly Father. Praise Him! Thank you brother, Marcus!

  • @karendaniel1213
    @karendaniel1213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God Bless You young man May Jesus continue to shine his light on you.

  • @monicanixon5140
    @monicanixon5140 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh thank you. Amen. We need to see our mistakes differently. If the preventable mess we go through doesn't yield some lesson learnin' and humble pie eating, we're setting ourselves up and others for more painful/ sinful experiences.
    Let no root of bitterness spring up by which many are defiled.
    Bitterness directly threatens your wholeness.

  • @b.bracci9636
    @b.bracci9636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been guilty of ignoring the father .... thinking that I had all the answers instead of the father I'm so glad to know now be still and listen to him because without him I miss everything up but with him even if I missed it up it's still able to be fixed amen but yes Pastor brother Marcus Rogers yes you are very very truthful and it's so crazy because I was just trying to teach this lesson to my one of my foster daughters so I had her sit down with me and watch this because she's 12...ur lesson was extremely powerful I am so grateful that the father has placed Pastor Marcus Rogers message and Ministry in my life regardless of religion and all that extra this man mr. Marcus Rogers is a great teacher as far as I am concerned he is up there with some of the greatest as far as I'm concerned I believe he's filled with the Holy Spirit I believe that whether you honor the Sabbath or whether you do your Sunday this man is a true man of God let's not get confused with man and the sayings of them but let's listen to the sermon that comes from the father through this young man who is extremely great thank you once again brother Marcus Rogers

  • @jojobean5382
    @jojobean5382 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! I was just talking to my co-worker/friend about this. Thanks for your obedience. I am actively forgiving my ex because I don't want to hold onto that anger but I also see that I contributed, as well, to the demise of our marriage.

  • @christycaroramirez3542
    @christycaroramirez3542 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! Amen Brother!! FORGIVENESS is a MUST!! and FAITH!! Ive been married for 15 years and I know one thing for sure is that I HAD TO LOOK AT MY SELF IN THE MIRROR AND OWN IT!!! GOD has brought HEALING and RESTORATION, because of it... And we are still learning...ALWAYS LEARNING until the day we are outta here! Amen!! GLORY TO GOD! GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER AND YOUR MARRIAGE!!

  • @anjijack5392
    @anjijack5392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Yes, brother! I completely ignored my 6th sense, & went ahead and married him anyway. When I divorced him 1 year later, I knew I hadn't headed the prompting of the Holy Spirit. I don't blame him for anything anymore. He just wasn't for me, and I didn't listen. I've forgiven both he & I. This was 3 years ago. God is good.

  • @rebekahorst
    @rebekahorst 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    True stuff! I'm saving this for those times I forget these! Thank you sir!

  • @jeannief9518
    @jeannief9518 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen Amen...brother Marcus. Keep preaching the truth.

  • @shanitaprice3414
    @shanitaprice3414 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess!! You speaking on what’s true! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 the red flags and intuition was right, but God brought me out of the mess I created..

  • @blessedhighlyfavoured3697
    @blessedhighlyfavoured3697 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have struggled with forgiveness but it is getting better, in JESUS name...

  • @flavorsweet8931
    @flavorsweet8931 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great teaching and preaching. Really enjoy your videos. Helping me to live a better Christian life. Thank you brother in Christ 🙏🏽

  • @brendaalexander4285
    @brendaalexander4285 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so soooo truth. The BEST advice ever. Omgooodness. Ive said so much of the SAME things. I’ve gotta share this. WOW. WOW. WOW.!!! Tks.😊

  • @lovetap82
    @lovetap82 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this. This is right on time. You are confirming what He has been discussing with me and what I have been searching to understand. He told me to trust Him and I was being so hard-headed, and ended up getting my feelings hurt. I am so grateful that He still comes in and tells me that everything will be okay, and to wait on Him, like He told me to do in the first place. He wants His best for me.. not what my impatience makes me settle for in the meantime. Thanks for this....

  • @lifeasiemoni
    @lifeasiemoni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You for this message, very encouraging and a reminder to keep the faith no matter what and give it all to GOD.. GOD BLESS YOU!!

  • @Joycelang2495
    @Joycelang2495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you brother Marcus had to listen to this video over and over til it got in,my spirit I surrender.

  • @NikNik0123
    @NikNik0123 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is gonna keep me in line. Thank you, Jesus.🙏🏽

  • @blessingsblathers7445
    @blessingsblathers7445 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    All I can say God is flowing through you 🙏💪... I wake up at the same time every night and I asked God to lead me to the truth of his words... your videos of great message taught me in so many areas in my walk....God bless and keep it flowing...

  • @Kelly-sl6vz
    @Kelly-sl6vz ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent word of correction AND encouragement!!

  • @kathyjackson4854
    @kathyjackson4854 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen, thank you for letting God use you, I needed to hear this

  • @danas1583
    @danas1583 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is amazing. Just found your videos right when I needed it. God bless you

  • @yahunathanoritz8298
    @yahunathanoritz8298 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man the Ruach is working through you... theres always a softening of the Heart when the Holy Spirit speaks. Shalowam Brother. Thank you for this Message.

  • @sharieubanks4490
    @sharieubanks4490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Marcus, I only started listening to your videos a few days ago. I found them to be very profound, truthful and even more than that, I have no doubt that your truth came from Yahweh. His word in you moved me so much, that I sent several of your videos to almost all of the friends and family I know. I had never felt so lead to stand for God, and to stop being a “casual Christian” Your videos brought me to my knees in repentance. for “treating Him like a bus boy, only calling on him when I needed something” as you said in one of your video’s. It was like a light came on beaming so bright lifting me up in Thanksgiving. Several others in my family communicated with me that they felt the same way. I thank Yahweh for the message he gave you to share. Marcus I must be honest,
    when I listened to your video about R Kelly, for me it sounded angry, and maybe there was more behind your message that may have had more to do with a testimony of bitterness, than a word from Yahweh. This video sounds, for me, more of you trying to explain the R Kelly video. My question to you is: Could it be that there may be bitterness in you, that you maybe dealing with? If so I would encourage you to also humble yourself, and pray about it so you may deliver Yahweh’s message in Love, and a humble heart. Marcus it takes a-lot to stand for Yahweh, and getting his word out with the vigor you have shown. We are only human and in need of prayer to continue the fight. I am praying for you for Yahweh to continue to make you strong, and to give you wisdom, and peace. May you have rest comfort, and draw strength within his word. Peace, and Love to you and your family

  • @gabriellegray9438
    @gabriellegray9438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You touched on all aspects of my life and I do forgive inspite of it all. Im really putting my all into God and this is further conformation that Im on the right track. Thank You God!!! I am so thankful that I subscribed!! Continue Gods word!!

  • @jdawgdelgado
    @jdawgdelgado 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    How I needed this!! GOD is also faithful and always on time! Thank you for being so faithful and obedient to be able to share your discernment.

  • @sadditycarroll1996
    @sadditycarroll1996 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Preach that then!!#Amen praises to the one and only Father, may God bless you and everyone watching and going thru!#Amen❤