@@emadag6750 that’s hilarious bc I thought 💭 to myself something similar. I have six sisters and they often point out things myself and my seven brothers might have missed in real time.
Regretting things is pointless. It's part of a past that you cannot change. It's better to use the past as lessons learned or positive moments. Seize the current moment, and take action towards what you want. Also, this is important, enjoy the process. Enjoy friends.
*"Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present." - Marcus Aurelius*
Regret is a waste of energy. I told myself when I was a teenager I would never regret any decision I made IF given the exact same knowledge and information I had at the time I would make the same decision again. No hindsight. No "If I knew then what I knew now." Hell, OF COURSE I'd make a different decision NOW. But that's what makes regret so pointlessly toxic. Time moves in one direction and life is Trial & Error.
There are lots of homeless people who follow advice like this. Sometimes you say no to an opportunity because you sense it's a wrong turn or a trap. Some people don't regret shutting out family members because those family members are toxic.
Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy, you can't build on it, it's only for wallowing in. Katherine Mansfield.
Regret is part of our developmental process. The psychosocial stage described by Erik Erickson clearly stage that in the later part of life people contemplate, retrospect, reflect, and regret is part of it. I find that to be true as per my observation. But it is not to say that life is entirely fully of regrets, its a mixture of counting all the blessing and being thankful for it as well. Thanks for this beautiful content.
Don’t trust anybody even family. But stay nice and kind. It is Human nature to have jealousy and envy. Keep secrets to yourself. Discipline yourself & control your emotions & reactions.
When people say chase your passions, I get it but you have to consider reality. The landlord isn't going to care that your artwork didn't sell enough this week or that your design for a new portable ice cream maker didn't attract any investors. It's not even about big paychecks or a luxurious life, you need to make ends meet in order to stabilize yourself and then you find a way to carve out time for your passions. Also while it isn't everything, talent does count for something, I could be passionate about basketball but that doesn't mean I'm going to make it to the NBA and have an accomplished career like Kobe or Jordan.
My mom and grandma (her mom) didnt speak for 2 or 3 years cause over a dispute, they were both stubborn as ever. One day i came home and my mom was on the floor crying in apologies to her mom, as was my grandma crying the same tone on the other line. So 3 years of no contact the reconnected, about a year later my mom got deathly ill and passed away preddy sudden. And growing up i learned never to hold a grudge, cause time is precious and they wont ever get that back
These kinds of reminiscences, regretful memories, are so stupid. Regret, especially at the end of life, makes no sense. Either there's a life after you die or there isn't. If there isn't, regret is peak stupidity. Your life happened. You're memories are all you have. No one's else remembers 1/10th what you remember about you, not even your parents or siblings. Your past is gone. It doesn't exist. There's no point in feeling bad about it. Unless... If there is a life after death, feeling bad about things you did in the past only makes sense if you will suffer consequences for what you did. In which case regret is the wrong emotion you should be feeling. You should be feeling REMORSE: sorrow for the wrong and shameful things you did. Why? So you can REPENT while there is still time. The original Greek word translated "repent," means to "change one's mind, attitude and purpose," and carries in its root the sense of pain, so repenting from past wrong and shameful actions doesn't simply mean an academic change of mind, but a heartfelt transformation of one's mind, attitude and purpose away from your past bad behaviors, which if genuine, will lead to the transformation of one's actions away from FUTURE bad actions, in the next life.
Try not to regret your life: 1. Don't chase money, chase passion. 2. Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. You don't have to trust the wrongdoer ever again but don't hold grudges. 3. Don't procrastinate. Live today. Be brave. Time is of the essence. 4. Be vulnerable if you ever want real connections. 5. Don't stay in any toxic relationship. You deserve a good friend. 6. Tell the truth, especially to yourself. Self betrayal is the worse. 7. Dont miss exciting opportunities due to fear. Say yes. 8. Express your emotions; say what you feel. 9. Don't settle for less. There's no such thing as failure. 10. Don't violate trust especially by gossiping.
This video is perfect. Thank you for your advice, i will minimize the regret for the future. Just like what jeff bezos said: "A regret minimization of framework"
I never walked away from a great opportunity. In fact I tried to make my dreams come true but the whole world stood against me. At least I can say I tried. The game here is rigged. No point in playing a game you can't win.
So if a family member treats you like dirt, doesn't care about you, betrays you, you should go crawling to them trying to reach out. That's the worst thing you could do. Sometimes certain family members will ruin you. If they are toxic you should cut them out and keep them out.
Another thing which a person often regrets later in life when reaching maturity is each and every time they tried to force solutions to a problem instead of letting go what they could not change on their own initiatives. Because what good is refusing to hold onto a grudge while continuing to see another person as being forevermore until kingdom come less capable, less able, less moral, etc. while believing that person for their own good needs to be controlled? -- That is called lying to oneself not refusing to hold a grudge.
No.2 doesn’t apply to me. One of the best things I did for myself was to distance myself from my family. To all u who are or suspect u are of narcissistic family members and gaslighting, do yourself a favour. Leave them ASAP before u find yourself drained mentally, emotionally and even financially, incapable then of living your fabulous life. If u can’t leave, aim to distance yourself in some way.
I'm happy with my life, I help as many people I could, I got myself betrayed by many people even the loved ones, win some lose some, I'm getting older but wiser and if I die I have the last laugh, I don't have real state properties or wealth, I have experience and some supplies, some money for rainy days, and I work the things I love as motorcycle mechanic, got videogames, a guitar, I'm 41 and free, I can play creep the STP song, btw I'm Asperger's
@@emadag6750 feels like the time is running faster than before, not the same energy as 30 and like I saw on the book roadwork from Stephen king ....in the 40's you know you're not young anymore... A= Seasoned.
@@emadag6750 reading books of scifi, technology interesting stuff, play guitar, learn different languages , still picking one or two comic books I found decent, my favorite hobby consist in learn as much of American muscle cars, but also like new technologies such as electric cars and green tech, retro videogame hardware, also Vintage PC Software, I'm a boring geek it's difficult to find people of my likes and hobbies, so I don't have much friends maybe just one at this time, but hey I'm happy one is better than cero 😸
So do i. I had a friend betray me recently. Basically ghosted for no reason. So now I've learned my lesson. Ill stick with my wife and kids and forget the rest
Thank you so much for this! Cause Ive been scared to enter spot trading, fearing that I would lose all my money. Now I decided to enter it and not afraid of failure🙏 Wish me luck!😁
Learn to recognize dysfunctional people and leave them even if you are married to them. Don’t think they will change. Time is too precious. Don’t waste it Get comfortable with the word NO Learn to be a bit selfish and look after number one
I have gone through the experience of forginess Dr Ramani I know it doesn't work with the Narc. He will do it worst next time I Keep my distance hoing gray rock he asks forgiveness and he never discuss anything or give dome short of promise. Next time is coming in anger again he is bothered when I say good things for another successful person
May I venture to ask? What is the best way to get rid of a toxic relationship between a good son and an unscrupulous father, who keeps on milking his only son in a bid to compel his only son to compensate for all the so called losses suffered by that damn biological father.
Oh I have to disagree with the family grudge one. My life is most definitely a hell of a lot better because I’ve cut out toxic family members. Absolutely no regrets at all snd it’s been over 20 years. I have peace in my life unlike other relatives that believe you can’t cut out family snd are in constant chaos snd drama full of heartache snd betrayals. No thank you! I have only 1 regret. A mistake I made.
I regret not spending more time with my doggy. I worked a lot and would give anything to have more time with her. Please spend all your spare time with your fur baby.
Point 2 is dogshit, if somone treats you like shit cut them out of your life. Holding onto grudges can be bad but if somone treated you like shit dont go back to them just fucking dont. Becaus they are just gonna do the same stuff again, dont listen to that one.
Regret is mental pollution. Itll drive u crazy and in a negative mood all the time. That woulda coulda shoulda trope, dead it. I regret not investing in bitcoin in 2011, hey i got over it...🤷🏾♂️
1. Neglecting passion
2. Familial grudges
3. Procrastinating dreams
4. Rejecting connections
5. Toxic relationships
6. Internal dishonesty
7. Missing opportunities
8. Expressing emotions
9. Fearful decisions
10. Violating trust
The human condition in a nutshell
Thank you! I wasn’t taking notes 📝 but you highlighted the bullet points. Thank you again👌🏾🕺🏾
I made a Video “Why Women Are Great Talkers”
@@emadag6750 that’s hilarious bc I thought 💭 to myself something similar.
I have six sisters and they often point out things myself and my seven brothers might have missed in real time.
@@knockoutdrywall2289 Jesus ur dad is a gee tho😂😂 13 kids .. respect that man bro😂
Regretting things is pointless. It's part of a past that you cannot change. It's better to use the past as lessons learned or positive moments. Seize the current moment, and take action towards what you want. Also, this is important, enjoy the process. Enjoy friends.
Even in your deathbed u do the same
@@santhoshj7568 , yes.
Well said.
👏👍🤗🙏
Well he's talking about professional regretters!🤣
“If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can’t hear them anymore.” - Michele Ruiz
I like that.
Yes
*The pain of discipline is always less than the pain of regret.*
Wow!!! This quotes inspired me. Thanks.
That's right
*"In any given moment we have two options: to step forward into growth or to step back into safety."*
Goat
*"Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present." - Marcus Aurelius*
Hello Demetri! Which book of Marcus Aurelius you want to recommend people?
Regret is a waste of energy. I told myself when I was a teenager I would never regret any decision I made IF given the exact same knowledge and information I had at the time I would make the same decision again. No hindsight. No "If I knew then what I knew now." Hell, OF COURSE I'd make a different decision NOW. But that's what makes regret so pointlessly toxic. Time moves in one direction and life is Trial & Error.
There are lots of homeless people who follow advice like this. Sometimes you say no to an opportunity because you sense it's a wrong turn or a trap. Some people don't regret shutting out family members because those family members are toxic.
Yes you are right. There are also my family members who need to watch this .
Nice to see you know a lot of homeless people and the common reason they are homeless.
Never regret in life just accept your past and move on because your past will never change but your future can change due to your present actions
This is such a good video! I learned sooooo much and will remember this advice. Everyone should take this to heart and use it to improve themselves.
This is why I hope I will develop dementia.
- No regrets from the past
- No stress for the future
.... Just thinking & being in the present
Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy, you can't build on it, it's only for wallowing in.
Katherine Mansfield.
Hello Mrs./Mr. could you tell me the last moment that regret about your life?
Regret is part of our developmental process. The psychosocial stage described by Erik Erickson clearly stage that in the later part of life people contemplate, retrospect, reflect, and regret is part of it. I find that to be true as per my observation. But it is not to say that life is entirely fully of regrets, its a mixture of counting all the blessing and being thankful for it as well. Thanks for this beautiful content.
Better than regretting take the risk now. You will thank yourself later. All the best guys 👍
Don’t trust anybody even family. But stay nice and kind. It is Human nature to have jealousy and envy. Keep secrets to yourself. Discipline yourself & control your emotions & reactions.
When people say chase your passions, I get it but you have to consider reality. The landlord isn't going to care that your artwork didn't sell enough this week or that your design for a new portable ice cream maker didn't attract any investors. It's not even about big paychecks or a luxurious life, you need to make ends meet in order to stabilize yourself and then you find a way to carve out time for your passions. Also while it isn't everything, talent does count for something, I could be passionate about basketball but that doesn't mean I'm going to make it to the NBA and have an accomplished career like Kobe or Jordan.
My mom and grandma (her mom) didnt speak for 2 or 3 years cause over a dispute, they were both stubborn as ever. One day i came home and my mom was on the floor crying in apologies to her mom, as was my grandma crying the same tone on the other line. So 3 years of no contact the reconnected, about a year later my mom got deathly ill and passed away preddy sudden. And growing up i learned never to hold a grudge, cause time is precious and they wont ever get that back
This is a great channel! I only caught sight of you folks in recent times, but it’s now among my favorite channels.
This is life changing
Greetings from the Dominican Republic, so true with #2 blessings to all & be & stay safe & 💪💪
I love Dominican Republic. I am going to do some explainer video about this beautiful country.
These kinds of reminiscences, regretful memories, are so stupid. Regret, especially at the end of life, makes no sense.
Either there's a life after you die or there isn't. If there isn't, regret is peak stupidity. Your life happened. You're memories are all you have. No one's else remembers 1/10th what you remember about you, not even your parents or siblings. Your past is gone. It doesn't exist. There's no point in feeling bad about it. Unless...
If there is a life after death, feeling bad about things you did in the past only makes sense if you will suffer consequences for what you did. In which case regret is the wrong emotion you should be feeling. You should be feeling REMORSE: sorrow for the wrong and shameful things you did.
Why?
So you can REPENT while there is still time.
The original Greek word translated "repent," means to "change one's mind, attitude and purpose," and carries in its root the sense of pain, so repenting from past wrong and shameful actions doesn't simply mean an academic change of mind, but a heartfelt transformation of one's mind, attitude and purpose away from your past bad behaviors, which if genuine, will lead to the transformation of one's actions away from FUTURE bad actions, in the next life.
What I love about this content is that not all of them will apply, but some REALLY do! Thanks for the positivity and good advice. 👍🏼💕
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Try not to regret your life: 1. Don't chase money, chase passion. 2. Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. You don't have to trust the wrongdoer ever again but don't hold grudges. 3. Don't procrastinate. Live today. Be brave. Time is of the essence. 4. Be vulnerable if you ever want real connections. 5. Don't stay in any toxic relationship. You deserve a good friend. 6. Tell the truth, especially to yourself. Self betrayal is the worse. 7. Dont miss exciting opportunities due to fear. Say yes. 8. Express your emotions; say what you feel. 9. Don't settle for less. There's no such thing as failure. 10. Don't violate trust especially by gossiping.
369 Rising those are very difficult to apply on oneself.
Thank You Very much! This will help me face the reality. I hope my life will be successful one day.
Very valuable points. Thanks for sharing 😊 👍
Thanks for helping me out!
would you mind to watch video about “Why Women Are Great Talkers?”
So much value right here ❤️
Thanx a lot top think,
I need to watch this every day 5 times a day.
Let's put it in a short and simple way
REGRET NOTHING ❤🌀🌊
Hey Lwandle , is it really possible to live life without regret?
Thanks for Sharing such a great video clip 👍👍😊😊
Very inspiring 👍 . Loved it
6:00 this point is pure gold amen ❤️🤜🏻👍🏻
Spend less than you make people
Good video 👌🏼
A very wonderful video with true points
Good video,mate.
Not that I agree with everything,but good points were brought up in this video.
This video is perfect. Thank you for your advice, i will minimize the regret for the future. Just like what jeff bezos said: "A regret minimization of framework"
I never walked away from a great opportunity. In fact I tried to make my dreams come true but the whole world stood against me. At least I can say I tried. The game here is rigged. No point in playing a game you can't win.
"Shall we play a game"
" the only winning strategy is not to play"
WarGames a movie
amazing content TT
awesome content. I also made a video like this and would you mind to be my critic?
So if a family member treats you like dirt, doesn't care about you, betrays you, you should go crawling to them trying to reach out. That's the worst thing you could do. Sometimes certain family members will ruin you. If they are toxic you should cut them out and keep them out.
Another thing which a person often regrets later in life when reaching maturity is each and every time they tried to force solutions to a problem instead of letting go what they could not change on their own initiatives. Because what good is refusing to hold onto a grudge while continuing to see another person as being forevermore until kingdom come less capable, less able, less moral, etc. while believing that person for their own good needs to be controlled? -- That is called lying to oneself not refusing to hold a grudge.
This animations awesome follow what you are talking 👑
No.2 doesn’t apply to me. One of the best things I did for myself was to distance myself from my family.
To all u who are or suspect u are of narcissistic family members and gaslighting, do yourself a favour. Leave them ASAP before u find yourself drained mentally, emotionally and even financially, incapable then of living your fabulous life. If u can’t leave, aim to distance yourself in some way.
Thank you 😭😭👍😎
Number 1 is like the most universal
The picture pretty much sums it up... 🥴😉
Never look back...
I'm happy with my life, I help as many people I could, I got myself betrayed by many people even the loved ones, win some lose some, I'm getting older but wiser and if I die I have the last laugh, I don't have real state properties or wealth, I have experience and some supplies, some money for rainy days, and I work the things I love as motorcycle mechanic, got videogames, a guitar, I'm 41 and free, I can play creep the STP song, btw I'm Asperger's
You sound like a positive cool guy, keep it up dude !
Hi Alex, after ten years i will turn into 40, is it really how 40's feel like?
@@emadag6750 feels like the time is running faster than before, not the same energy as 30 and like I saw on the book roadwork from Stephen king ....in the 40's you know you're not young anymore...
A= Seasoned.
@@Alex_Miller1980 That's nice perspective. What hobbies of yours still remain the same?
@@emadag6750 reading books of scifi, technology interesting stuff, play guitar, learn different languages , still picking one or two comic books I found decent, my favorite hobby consist in learn as much of American muscle cars, but also like new technologies such as electric cars and green tech, retro videogame hardware, also Vintage PC Software, I'm a boring geek it's difficult to find people of my likes and hobbies, so I don't have much friends maybe just one at this time, but hey I'm happy one is better than cero 😸
thanks
I regret trusting in people. I will never do it again
yes you gonna pay the price if you keep trusting them. Same experience!! Joe!!!
So do i. I had a friend betray me recently. Basically ghosted for no reason. So now I've learned my lesson. Ill stick with my wife and kids and forget the rest
This hit me hard.
The annoying thing is it costs an arm and a leg to afford basic needs now. A lot of us need money to pursue our passions.
Thank you so much for this! Cause Ive been scared to enter spot trading, fearing that I would lose all my money. Now I decided to enter it and not afraid of failure🙏 Wish me luck!😁
helpfull things in life💯💯😁❤
great video
No. 8. Too late for me. 😔
I will never regret.... destiny is already written...
# 8 is true
how come? I made a Video “Why Women Are Great Talkers”
It's true while you have the time,life is short❤
10 Things You Will Regret Later in Life
1.) Neglecting Passion: 0:13
2.) Familial Grudges: 1:23
3.) Procrastinating Dreams: 2:23
4.) Rejecting Connections: 3:31
5.) Toxic Relationships: 4:42
6.) Internal Dishonesty: 5:48
7.) Missing Opportunities: 6:51
8.) Expressing Emotions: 7:53
9.) Fearful Decisions: 8:36
10.) Violating Trust: 9:24
7:50
"What if" TH-cam channel reference.
Learn to recognize dysfunctional people and leave them even if you are married to them. Don’t think they will change. Time is too precious. Don’t waste it
Get comfortable with the word NO
Learn to be a bit selfish and look after number one
Malarkey! Some people are poisonous and family or not, you are better off having them out of your life!
I have gone through the experience of forginess Dr Ramani I know it doesn't work with the Narc. He will do it worst next time
I Keep my distance hoing gray rock he asks forgiveness and he never discuss anything or give dome short of promise. Next time is coming in anger again he is bothered when I say good things for another successful person
GUILTY!
what about the badies
hehehe
Or make money and follow your passions
11th regret is watching this video
hahaha
I already got living not alone 10 things in life
May I venture to ask? What is the best way to get rid of a toxic relationship between a good son and an unscrupulous father, who keeps on milking his only son in a bid to compel his only son to compensate for all the so called losses suffered by that damn biological father.
Not getting married , getting married
too much daydreaming only kill your days and your dream, work for it
yep like us
Second one (Familial grudge) is such a toxic advice
Oh I have to disagree with the family grudge one. My life is most definitely a hell of a lot better because I’ve cut out toxic family members. Absolutely no regrets at all snd it’s been over 20 years. I have peace in my life unlike other relatives that believe you can’t cut out family snd are in constant chaos snd drama full of heartache snd betrayals. No thank you!
I have only 1 regret. A mistake I made.
The first one seem to be not feasible at the time of pandemic. I mean, just my opinion
Haha … I am traveling the world , some of it but f’ ing COVID got in the way ..
Most of these are saying the same thing
No point regretting
Most of this is bullshit. Some people don't have friends some don't want friends.
Do you believe
intro/extrovert thing
There are many contradicting points in this video.
Even your family can be toxic.
Hi
Nothing motivates me to get up ; oh yeah my doggy
I regret not spending more time with my doggy. I worked a lot and would give anything to have more time with her. Please spend all your spare time with your fur baby.
remember to score with your fav schoolgirl when alone in her room, remove simlock . be her first
Life is a process, not an end goal. Life is written in pencil, not in pen.
It's the lemmings manifesto! 🤣
We can land on the sun but only if we arrive at night! Prez Cho Bhi Ding
It's not true when you are from a poor country. You need that money.
Point 2 is dogshit, if somone treats you like shit cut them out of your life. Holding onto grudges can be bad but if somone treated you like shit dont go back to them just fucking dont. Becaus they are just gonna do the same stuff again, dont listen to that one.
point 11 should be: taking covid vaccine
He makes appear like all u need to do is try hard. This world is unfair.
Regret is mental pollution. Itll drive u crazy and in a negative mood all the time. That woulda coulda shoulda trope, dead it. I regret not investing in bitcoin in 2011, hey i got over it...🤷🏾♂️
No "REGERTS" tattoo
Love that
I disagree with number 2.
Reason
Shoot at your first shot. Can you really rely on thing such as second chances?
Some family members don’t love you.
People live like fools for a reason.
Who tf are you to tell me what I'll regret?
lol
🤣
"WHAT IF"______?😁
Dreams? 90% of the world lives in poverty, wondering where their next meal is coming from. Dreams are for the well-off