How To Deal With A Child With An Attitude Problem

Parents are sometimes scared of their children, especially those with attitude problems. But as parents, we must be the person in charge and help our children become the best person they can be. Stay tuned as I give you my tips on how to deal with a child with an attitude problem
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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government
Key Moments in this Episode
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01:20 What constitutes an attitude problem?
04:34 Pre-teach for success
05:50 Skills
06:49 Calm corrections
08:03 The Rule of Three
09:28 Look at them with love and understanding
11:58 Don't take things personally
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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?
Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system - Teaching Self-Government - can help you turn chaos into calm.
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Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.
In 2009, Nicholeen and her husband starred in the BBC reality TV show, “The World’s Strictest Parents” (watch here: bit.do/Strictes.... She became an overnight sensation by turning around two out-of-control teenagers from England after just one week - without shouting, threats or manipulation. Her amazing success comes from the positive parenting techniques of using calmness, effective communication and principles of self-government.
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Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
Has parented many troubled foster children.
Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.
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[@frankiebob1191]

Thank you so much for your video. My 8 y.o. Daughter has recently been defiant and disrespectful at times. It’s been pushing me to my limit to where I don’t want to be. Frustrated, angry, about to lose my patience, stressed… but thank you for your advice. Made me feel like there’s hope yet…

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

You're so welcome. Yes, there is hope! The skills and principles of self-government can help anyone!

[@kristenheuer5676]

My 5yo has recently has had a horrible attitude. It's started just a few months ago. I've been racking my brain trying to figure out what's causing it.

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

There could be multiple factors playing into your son's attitude problems. Media he's watching, people he spends time with that are modeling that behavior, friends, wanting more control in his life, etc. If he's given and taught proper skills that are consistently used in the home, the attitude problem should resolve itself.

[@jamielovinitt]

My 7 year old son has started having a horrible attitude, talking back and lack of respect & I am at my Witt's end ugh

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

That is quite the situation! The full response to your comment is too long to type up here, but I'd love to learn more about your situation and have the opportunity to answer your questions on one of my weekly Support Group calls that happen Wednesday mornings at 8am MST. That way, other people that have similar questions and concerns to yours can hear the answer too!
If you’re interested in talking with me more about it, check out the link for more information:
teachingselfgovernment.com/store/support-group/
I hope this helps!

[@rosemadder5547]

I fixed my attitude when I was like 18. On my own, somehow. Im trying to get my son to understand what a good attitude can do, without invalidating his feelings. He never had one temper tantrum as a toddler, and he almost never breaks rules, he's always good. Then sometimes, this attitude.

[@rachelwalker-davies4420]

Can I bring my son over to you for a few weeks and see if you can sort his attitude problem out? 😂 I’m so worried about him. Even his youth councillor isn’t really sure what to do with him. It’s heartbreaking watching him fall down the rabbit hole and trying everything you can to help but it doesn’t make any difference.

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

Wouldn't that be so nice? I do do a couple home visits a year, but those are very draining (mentally for me and financially for you). The next best thing would be to come to one of my Parenting Mastery Trainings (either online or in person) or to take our online TSG Parenting Course with him. If you'd like more information on those things, here are a couple of links that could be helpful:
Parenting Mastery Training: teachingselfgovernment.com/parenting-mastery/
TSG Parenting Course: teachingselfgovernment.com/tsg-parenting-course/
I hope this helps!

[@thedarkhairedone7672]

Do you think you would have tried to say ok and be ok if your parents had explained that to you? Or do you think you were willing to consider trying it because it came from someone outside your family circle? Thanks!

[@TeachingSelfGovernment]

Being as stubborn as I was, it definitely helped that it didn't come from my parents. It came from an adult that I respected and willingly listened to, which wasn't my parents at the time.

[@love-centeredlearning7295]

This is great! We are big fans of yours, would love to interview you sometime for our channel, check out out and let us know if you'd be willing to get involved or share!

[@rajuvaripetpatelkumon36]

I think a child’s attitude problem has to do with horrible parenting

[@EVH9208]

That is not the only reason. Perhaps the child is having big problems with his or her peers.