Being A Player Will Leave Your Dating Life In Shambles Here’s Why

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  • @phillydee1004
    @phillydee1004 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I'm a retired player now happily married , being a player is exhausting and time consuming, find that special woman and repent you'll be fine.💪. you'd be surprised what you can do when you put god first🙏🙏

    • @phillydee1004
      @phillydee1004 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Izzyrodthegod No homie my god is not on TH-cam 🙏🙏🙏

    • @phillydee1004
      @phillydee1004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you could read you would know I never said he was.🐐

  • @Edo-cii7957
    @Edo-cii7957 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Absolutely 💯 correct. Just as having lots of body counts for a female makes pair-bonding difficult or impossible, so a guy who is a gamer/player finds it difficult to settle down with a lady. Our positive or negative experiences always leave a mark on us. Good job Melli.

    • @Edo-cii7957
      @Edo-cii7957 ปีที่แล้ว

      @kzaggin20 (Manhood Is A Skill Set)
      What then is your point???
      Your one-type google copy and paste is inadequate to debate an erudite scholar with over 300+ articles on these things. The word pair-bond is actually as old as chemistry it self, and evolved through the years into a broad-spectered interwoven subjects. When you learn to define words by etymological origins (ORIGINAL PURPOSE), you'd begin to understand how chemistry terminologies evolved and controls every aspect of humans; socially, biologically, psychologically etc.
      Note example: The fact that the internet is the most recently developed form of communication does not in any way make it inferior.
      So you need to study same topic via different subjects to a point of doctoring your own hypotheses to become theories before you can understand the depth of each of my word and statement. Good luck with your lazy illiterate research and parochial set mind.
      To understand me I'd recommend that you begin with a depth study of the chemistry of pair bonding, and how chemistry controls every facet of your life beyond your understanding. Good luck with your illiterate mindset (aka SET-MIND). By the way set minds are to lazy to engage in independent research.

    • @luhohnel
      @luhohnel ปีที่แล้ว

      @kzaggin20 (Manhood Is A Skill Set) so is the pairbonding being difficult thing a myth?

  • @terrymacafee8226
    @terrymacafee8226 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    A lot of the problems come from individuals not being 💯! I'm not a player..I love being real if you down for me or not! I tell the truth 🎯🗝️💎👑

    • @cosmicconcious
      @cosmicconcious ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯 fuck all these fake ass mf 💯💯

  • @freefromillusions
    @freefromillusions ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kelly takes these women and their opinions too seriously. Most women don't know what they want, and aren't even worthy of monogamy.

  • @RealStevenMOB
    @RealStevenMOB ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy sounds like the guy who was wearing a red durag during the pineapple show 😂😂💔everyone in the comments was like "Wtf are you wearing"😂😂he removed it and everyone was like "put it back on"🤣💔

  • @orangewarm1
    @orangewarm1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A player isn't in the game for dating, but sex. However, I knew a player and he had a total nervous breakdown. My brother too. Its just not good karma.

    • @freefromillusions
      @freefromillusions ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't blame players, most women nowadays are only good for one thing. I used to be naive too like the caller back when I was 21, but then I learned the truth the hard way.

    • @skillsphere9245
      @skillsphere9245 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol ye nervous breakdown theres is man everyday killing themselves who where married dont know where this women talkes you guys into getting soft already never let your guard down thats how these other men ended they trusted that women untill after coming back from the army to see a man busting her down wanna bet those numbers are higher
      Its all how u do it a real player doesnt stress they aint real players if its stressing them u can lose all your kids with them your house your money i had huge debts coz of a women never again never that risk u dont need to play just tell them u got more women and be honest the anxiety comes from hiding shit ye ofcourse if your dating 5 bihes and you lied what u expect peace and tranquility🤣🤣 women are so vindictive and spitefull nothing more dangerous then a scorned women

    • @RichardJohnson-ll2du
      @RichardJohnson-ll2du ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@freefromillusions what happened if you don't mind me asking?

  • @itz_akuma
    @itz_akuma ปีที่แล้ว +10

    im not a player : I just crush alot hahahaha

    • @Lupo32
      @Lupo32 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Big Pun

  • @michaeljohnson1877
    @michaeljohnson1877 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If your real life is in shambles your dating life will be also. 21 you got a lot of learning to do.

  • @playafees7030
    @playafees7030 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This dude new to this 😂 that comes with the game, women see men who are attractive as someone who has a lot of women. What she sees in you, other women see it as well.

    • @davechappele7416
      @davechappele7416 ปีที่แล้ว

      He has no game a dude can be attractive as hell but if he has no game it doesn’t matter how many chicks he talks or pulls he won’t hook up with none of them without any game…. Tell
      Me I’m wrong ☠️

  • @bboohhmmaann
    @bboohhmmaann ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thats Hotboi talking😂😂😂

  • @dandan4132
    @dandan4132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kelly only 21 years old, man chills out and date women, travel , invest, property and no baby strap up..

  • @robinsonmbapah2049
    @robinsonmbapah2049 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great as usual

  • @satveersingh7
    @satveersingh7 ปีที่แล้ว

    One Day we all have to Grow the F*%K Up, all the Moments in our Life have Positive/Negative Energy. Every Time you make move ask yourself is it Correct/Incorrect are you Positive or Negative?!

  • @vincentbrooks5037
    @vincentbrooks5037 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning melli

  • @jomoemmanuel4250
    @jomoemmanuel4250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sunday dose of frenchie.

  • @IMenace42
    @IMenace42 ปีที่แล้ว

    You got your whole life ahead of you don't be selling out for these girls find you a dream job get on your feet then try to talk to them.

  • @djkingmagneto1792
    @djkingmagneto1792 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey *Melli* I'm Not A Player No More , And I Don't Even Crush A Lot No More Either , Cause It's Against My Religion. Maybe I'm Saving All My Energy And Power. ⬅️👑🐉🌟7️⃣

  • @vincentbrooks5037
    @vincentbrooks5037 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you ever get to New York???

  • @tjsmoove83
    @tjsmoove83 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's different spirits/archetypes that you can adopt in the datin game and I do agree bein a player from both sides of the sex coin is definitely different from the male side it's all about givin women false hope of long-term romantic partnerships all the while gettin sex from em the female side is all about convincin men that they actually want em for em instead of what they can do for em most women at least do care about that to a certain degree and ya definitely can't fault em for it and as long as you do it from a strong and not a simp perspective to the degree that women actually benefit more than you is to the degree to where you'll never actually get back what ya give to women but what they'll do if they really want you is at best give just a little less than you give em that's facts because female nature ain't evil but it's selfish so in order to get the best response from women is to give em control while you establish leadership and to give em what they want to ensure that you get almost the same amount back in every situation someone's gonna benefit more than the other

  • @mikegbeats8439
    @mikegbeats8439 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No game 😂

  • @johnfort290
    @johnfort290 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PLAYERS GET PLAYED , DON'T BE A PLAYER, TELL THE WOMEN WHAT YU WANT AND FOR EVERY ONE THAT SAYS NO IT'S TWO WHO WILL SAY YES

    • @1986Glory
      @1986Glory ปีที่แล้ว

      💯 I done seen it happen,Guys might want to hear that truth

    • @johnfort290
      @johnfort290 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@1986Glory YO GLORY ....MEN HAVE THIS TERRIBLE FEAR OF BEING ABOUT THE TRUTH, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO THE WOMEN, IT'S ABOUT BEING TRUE TO YURSELF, I LET A WOMAN KNOW OFF THE TOP WHO AND WHAT I LIVE, TAKE IT OR LET IT GO, BECAUSE I'MA BE JUST FINE,.... IT'S CALLED HAVING THE KNOW HOW 💯🔥👑✌🏿

  • @pesocheco
    @pesocheco ปีที่แล้ว

    I stop being a playa years ago cuz going into a drought drives u crazy desperately always wanted women to play games with

  • @mikegbeats8439
    @mikegbeats8439 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Frozen yogurt

  • @davidm2778
    @davidm2778 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello...

  • @silkyslim903.
    @silkyslim903. ปีที่แล้ว

    We can go to frozen yogurt

  • @TripleCubedTriune
    @TripleCubedTriune ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💯🤌🏾

  • @ADoseOfGame
    @ADoseOfGame ปีที่แล้ว

    Yall really going to let a woman talk you out of having options and being a confident player? You hate to see it. Smh. Being a player is about taking control of the dating game. But hey believe what you want but these women are going to eat half of you guys for dinner.🥶It's a cold game.

  • @lifeslooker
    @lifeslooker ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wtf is the deal with the body count thing? This means a man/ woman has experience. Why does this be an issue? Do you want an inexperienced mechanic who hasn't worked on many cars? Or an inexperienced plumber who's not seen many pipes/ boilers/ etc to fix a leak? You want a doctor to not have experience on working on many hearts/ limbs/ etc? get off a dat. Immediately. Makes no sense. Leave it where it is. You wanna be a player, crack on. Know how your conscience will play with you knowing you lie to others ( and yourself ). Ain't da one. Playa's need to tnink on that one. And think how many lives you're hurting, doing what you do. Change your ways, cause good women are v hard to find

    • @1986Glory
      @1986Glory ปีที่แล้ว

      Nobody wants nothing who done been with millions of guys

  • @mikegbeats8439
    @mikegbeats8439 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂

  • @ericridgeway3834
    @ericridgeway3834 ปีที่แล้ว

    Females are players now

  • @DestroAzureDx
    @DestroAzureDx ปีที่แล้ว

    Nah this is cap. Dont fall for it man theyre just trying to change you and feel less insecure about themselves. Dont be concerned with appearing as a player.

    • @luhohnel
      @luhohnel ปีที่แล้ว

      I think what it is is. She liked him but he didn’t make a move so she doesn’t know how to take it.

  • @radioraheem1555
    @radioraheem1555 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is that hotboy?

  • @jcclassybro9426
    @jcclassybro9426 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Dissapointed with you Melli...had much respect for ypou but after that Shananigan with the iphone supposedly I won and you wanted scam me money.... Wow...very dissapointed thought you had more class then tyhat....

  • @mikegbeats8439
    @mikegbeats8439 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂