I appreciate the way she opened this video by sharing she has met some of the most miserable people in paris. It's important to remember the realities of our shared existence- that even in the places we think are superior to where we're currently living, it can still be challenging.
I have been daydreaming of moving somewhere else (Paris, for instance), projecting my happy self there, but I realized it is pure escapism. I have chosen to stay and learn to be happy where I am now, which is such a wonderful place in so many ways. Deep inside I know the solution is not to move but make peace with myself here.
Same! I've been seeing a lot of videos by Americans living in Paris talking about the rampant xenophobia towards Americans and the general rudeness of parisians and it has given me a reality check. Now I just want to become fluent in French to watch the movies I enjoy, listen to the music I enjoy, and be able to get into fluent arguments with parisians if I were to ever visit.
Love it... I have been sober for over 30 years and I am SO GRATEFUL and could care less what others think... my life is for me :) and really I prefer sober people to hang with :) I love to our my energy into creating, same with dating- my energy is precious to me :)
Until now I was having a bad day myself but after watching your video I truly feel lighter. I loved the way you intuitively accepted the fact that it was a bad day. Not forcing it to be something it is not. Not pushing away a feeling that wants to be felt. You just let the day be a day. Accepted its natural flow. And at the same time you still reminded yourself of how to deal with it and to not forget the bigger picture.
Thank you so much for this video. I have had a rough two weeks dealing with my husband being sick. I was so frustrated feeling helpless trying to get him the needed Dr. appointments that I just felt like smashing some plates “Deal with the hurt of being a human” I need to remember when things are difficult to offer it up to God. I love that you incorporate dance and play to try to switch your mood around. “Dance like you’re happy to be alive” is something I always remember. I bought some tap dancing shoes to make cleaning and cooking more fun. Must put them on before I start my to do list. Thank you Shayna for being a beacon in the world!
What a trip! Tap dancing shoes for cleaning and cooking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!wellthattakesthecake!!!!!!!(Do you use them for baking, too?)
something i use for rejection is literally just being happy i dont have to do it, even if i wanted to. like im creative but im also lazy, so yay i dont need to spend my minimal spare time on another project, yay!!
I relate to several things here. I also go through periods of sober months. I don’t drink a lot anyway, about once a week, but I come from a family of addicts, so I’ve always been very aware of how alcohol effects people. So I try to control myself with it as much as possible, literally telling myself I can drink once a week max, and only two drinks. I also do sober months here and there just to challenge myself. As for anxiety, going on walks really helps me sometimes. I’m sure you already do that a lot living in Paris. But fresh air always helps me when I start drowning in my anxiety. Thanks for bringing us along on a bad day. Social media is so full of highlight reels that it’s nice to see a not so stellar day sometimes. Hope you’re feeling better.
I Am 5.29mins in and I just love this! Thank you for making me laugh and look to embrace the bad days with such empowering human comedy. So much love to you. I ‘ve had anxiety this weekend, hormones all over the place, lots of crying and emotions and seeing this just made me laugh. You’re one of a kind
Wow, I really needed to see this vlog today; your timing is impeccable😊seeing how you deal with anxiety or having a bad day is so inspiring! I instantly felt better💜😊 thank you so much for being vulnerable and brave to share your life with us Shayna! You are helping more than you know!
Not me pausing the video to say one thing I love about myself and then I hit play and hear “I love that about you too bestie “ these videos feel like we’re on FT and I love it 🥺💜
Just want to applaud you for looking at the pros & cons of drinking. On 6/6/22, I quit cold turkey once I realized the negative impact alcohol was having on my physical & mental well-being. Self care became more important to me than what my peers might think. Bonus: I was pleasantly surprised to see the “pebble effect” it had on several of my friends who also decided to become “alcohol free”. I’ve recently been told by bartenders that “alcohol zero” is a new social trend, and they are happy to serve “alcohol zero” drinks when given free rein to come up with one of a kind drinks that draw oohs and aahs from admiring onlookers. Remember, too, that your true friends will have your best interest at heart & will support your efforts to make physical & mental health a priority over your past social habits. You go, girl! 👏👏👏
Stopped drinking 5 years ago. I was never a drinker but occasionally I would have a couple of beers. People do react to it as if you do something wrong. And push you like "oh come on just one beer". To me this feels like a smoker tells you "oh come on just one cigarette l" but then that's a problem right? Listen to your body and don't apologise Shayna! Most people drink to have a good time cause they can't otherwise.
I FUCKING LOVE THIS SHAYNA yes this girl is the coolest. I can see how someone might think ur losing it lol I'm glad you post this shit its art. you make me wanna live.
lol thanks for keeping ME company while I got ready for work when I was really tired. I put on a crazy (for me) outfit and did my makeup and have committed to ALSO being extra dramatic in my personal narrative about today being a bad day, which has made things more fun :D
I decided not to drink this year and it feels great. I just replace alcohol with kombuchas and juice mixes. It feels great to be aware of the surroundings and feel everything deeply when I am sober. The one thing I miss is margaritas 😂but I am planning on making alcohol-free ones
Great vid, as always! Its a coincidence that I reluctantly cleaned up my space this week as well. haha...but having done that, it gave me a mood boost and i alllmost immediately began working on something.
I really like your Pierrot clown painting, it's very dreamy, almost as if floating or melting away in water at midnight, very surreal. It should be the cover of your next journal. I would buy it. Housework can be a real drag unless one is energized, feeling motivated, or in the mood. In saying that, I keep my place clean because as you said, it uplifts the spirit. One can't be happy or artistic unless our environment inspires us. I love the metallic two-toned dress you wore during your cleaning spree:-) As far as rejection goes it stings, but look what happened later in the day. As one door closed another door opened:-) Taxes are worse than housework, I feel for you on that....but it too shall pass....🧚✨💫
I hope you consider my suggestion, Shayna. I have a feeling that this Pierrot clown could be your best seller yet. My personal favorite was your first journal which I love. It has a prominent place in my living room. I'm partial to the journals with faces. In saying that, all of your journals are beautiful, but I have a feeling this one could do the best out of them all in terms of sales.
Girl my stress and anxiety has been THROUGH THE ROOM lately, there must be smt in the air with Capricorn signs 🫠 I’ve had to make the SUPER hard decision on whether to stay in Seoul or move back to Canada. But you know what, I moved all the way here to create an online community and film and I’ve decided that IM NOT GIVING UP 🥹 hopefully I’m making the right decision
Just passed 1200 days sober. I’m here to tell you that you’re not feeling anxious when hungover just because you’re sensitive. Wishing you the very best Dry Julune. ;)
"Rejection is protection" We said that at the same time!! ❤️ Thank you for sharing this video sister. I'm glad you're doing well. If you can share details on your September festival, I'd be intrigued to visit! Always with love 🫶🏻
I think me and my ocd would actually love to have someone invite me over to tidy with them... have definitely taken to tidying to deal with anxiety, one thing I love about myself is that I can be introspective and I love your videos always, feel like your the creative internet big sister/ bestie and the comments section on your videos is the best which is a rare find
ive def had friends invite me over to clean, but ive invited them to do the same for me! its an act of care when were going through tough times and need a lil help with tasks :) i guess it depends on if youve agreed to do that or not though, would be a bit weird for it to be a surprise
I haven’t seen for awhile. I think you look radiant and I love the way put yourself out there and pull yourself out of a shitty place. And I love your hair! ❤
I always thought it was weird of me that washing other people’s dishes was really fun and interesting, while doing my own was a dreaded chore to put off as long as possible. If I had the right friend, I’d love to say we’d swap places for a cleaning session (with guidelines if desired, of course) If I was in your area Shayna, I’d be happy to wash your dishes, straighten books, etc... and then the fresh joy of returning to a magically cleaned space! I dream this will happen to me someday, but so far, no luck... I’m with you- find a creative way to just deal with my messes! Best results when I tell myself that by cleaning and clearing clutter, I’m opening space for Something Wonderful to come in! Like your festival invite!!! You manifest it!! Way to go!!!🎉💖🥂🥰
It’s nice to have a glass of wine 🍷 at dinner but mocktails have come a long way in recommend trying if u haven’t already…and it’s great ur paying attention how it makes u feel and that ur listening to ur body 🫶🏼
Vrai. Un espace propre libère votre esprit. Et je dis aux gens que je ne bois pas… ils sont choqués mais s’ils continuent de s’en vouloir à mon sujet, j’en prends note mentalement et je les sors de ma vie. Yeah, NO I don't clean for people because 1) I don't let folk visit my home, energy is something to be aware of 2) I am special so if I can work for some one else I can for sure clean (respect) myself...with that said "YOU GOT THIS!"
Thank you for asking what I love about myself and for this video. It helped me so much you have no idea. I love you and wish we could drink tea together. Love love love to yooou
Does anyone know what kind of search term you could use to find a dress similar to the purple one she's wearing? Is iridescent the right word? it's so beautiful :)
a bit unrelated but i remember watching one of her (your?) videos about buying or not buying an apartment which had dirty neighbors which could then pose a problem. Did she (you?) end up buying it?
I wrote something that hadnt qualified: im replacing it with a divine decree from my fav high priestess Sandra Walter: I qualify all thoughts feelings emotions words actions and creations with the wisdom of my divine heart infinitely. I set forth these qualified electronic ⚡️ flows into the unified field (aka collective consciousness) to amplify and accelerate the collective organic ascension. I’m back on my morning pages and thank you for this deep dive. Loving you!!
I appreciate the way she opened this video by sharing she has met some of the most miserable people in paris. It's important to remember the realities of our shared existence- that even in the places we think are superior to where we're currently living, it can still be challenging.
"This girl is so cool, I'm so glad I get to be myself! YES Girl and we love you too!
🥹♥️♥️♥️
Yes i too liked this video! Wana come over and clean?
I have been daydreaming of moving somewhere else (Paris, for instance), projecting my happy self there, but I realized it is pure escapism. I have chosen to stay and learn to be happy where I am now, which is such a wonderful place in so many ways. Deep inside I know the solution is not to move but make peace with myself here.
Same! I've been seeing a lot of videos by Americans living in Paris talking about the rampant xenophobia towards Americans and the general rudeness of parisians and it has given me a reality check. Now I just want to become fluent in French to watch the movies I enjoy, listen to the music I enjoy, and be able to get into fluent arguments with parisians if I were to ever visit.
this is a lovely outlook :) "wherever you go, there you are"
Love it... I have been sober for over 30 years and I am SO GRATEFUL and could care less what others think... my life is for me :) and really I prefer sober people to hang with :) I love to our my energy into creating, same with dating- my energy is precious to me :)
Wow that’s amazing ! Congrats !!
Until now I was having a bad day myself but after watching your video I truly feel lighter. I loved the way you intuitively accepted the fact that it was a bad day. Not forcing it to be something it is not. Not pushing away a feeling that wants to be felt. You just let the day be a day. Accepted its natural flow. And at the same time you still reminded yourself of how to deal with it and to not forget the bigger picture.
Okay I'm obsessed with the idea of a bad day dress. I think it's time for a trip to the thrift store...✨
you listening to your own music while sweeping ICONIC
Thank you so much for this video. I have had a rough two weeks dealing with my husband being sick. I was so frustrated feeling helpless trying to get him the needed Dr. appointments that I just felt like smashing some plates “Deal with the hurt of being a human” I need to remember when things are difficult to offer it up to God. I love that you incorporate dance and play to try to switch your mood around. “Dance like you’re happy to be alive” is something I always remember. I bought some tap dancing shoes to make cleaning and cooking more fun. Must put them on before I start my to do list. Thank you Shayna for being a beacon in the world!
What a trip! Tap dancing shoes for cleaning and cooking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!wellthattakesthecake!!!!!!!(Do you use them for baking, too?)
When you said’ “I’m not even gona take the clothes off under it, why should I I’m having a bad day” 😂😂😅🤣🤣🤣
Isn't it still so amazing and wonderful that now you have your own apartment that you own in Paris????? Wow!!!!
Your self talk is one of my favorite things about you. It is a trait I’m working on emulating. ❤❤❤
something i use for rejection is literally just being happy i dont have to do it, even if i wanted to. like im creative but im also lazy, so yay i dont need to spend my minimal spare time on another project, yay!!
I relate to several things here. I also go through periods of sober months. I don’t drink a lot anyway, about once a week, but I come from a family of addicts, so I’ve always been very aware of how alcohol effects people. So I try to control myself with it as much as possible, literally telling myself I can drink once a week max, and only two drinks. I also do sober months here and there just to challenge myself.
As for anxiety, going on walks really helps me sometimes. I’m sure you already do that a lot living in Paris. But fresh air always helps me when I start drowning in my anxiety.
Thanks for bringing us along on a bad day. Social media is so full of highlight reels that it’s nice to see a not so stellar day sometimes. Hope you’re feeling better.
brave and vulnerable sharing yourself with us on a crappy day. sending you a warm hug from slovenia
I Am 5.29mins in and I just love this! Thank you for making me laugh and look to embrace the bad days with such empowering human comedy. So much love to you. I ‘ve had anxiety this weekend, hormones all over the place, lots of crying and emotions and seeing this just made me laugh. You’re one of a kind
I really appreciated this video. There are days when I don't know how to pick myself back up and this hit the spot. I'm so glad you're here. 😊
You got this!
Wow, I really needed to see this vlog today; your timing is impeccable😊seeing how you deal with anxiety or having a bad day is so inspiring! I instantly felt better💜😊 thank you so much for being vulnerable and brave to share your life with us Shayna! You are helping more than you know!
Not me pausing the video to say one thing I love about myself and then I hit play and hear “I love that about you too bestie “ these videos feel like we’re on FT and I love it 🥺💜
i love you so much girl your videos always brighten up my day!!! "i can't believe i get to go through life being myself" is my new favorite thing
Just want to applaud you for looking at the pros & cons of drinking.
On 6/6/22, I quit cold turkey once I realized the negative impact alcohol was having on my physical & mental well-being. Self care became more important to me than what my peers might think. Bonus: I was pleasantly surprised to see the “pebble effect” it had on several of my friends who also decided to become “alcohol free”.
I’ve recently been told by bartenders that “alcohol zero” is
a new social trend, and they are happy to serve “alcohol zero” drinks when given free rein to come up with one of a kind drinks that draw oohs and aahs from admiring onlookers.
Remember, too, that your true friends will have your best interest at heart & will support your efforts to make physical & mental health a priority over your past social habits.
You go, girl!
👏👏👏
thank u so much for this. playing to remind myself who I am excited to be is everything ❤️🩹 a hug from argentina!!!
Youre awesome !
Stopped drinking 5 years ago. I was never a drinker but occasionally I would have a couple of beers. People do react to it as if you do something wrong. And push you like "oh come on just one beer".
To me this feels like a smoker tells you "oh come on just one cigarette l" but then that's a problem right?
Listen to your body and don't apologise Shayna!
Most people drink to have a good time cause they can't otherwise.
I FUCKING LOVE THIS SHAYNA yes this girl is the coolest. I can see how someone might think ur losing it lol I'm glad you post this shit its art. you make me wanna live.
thank you for sharing about rejection
“Do not get too distracted.. you need to clean”…. Relatable 😂
My favorite part was the cute inner-child response "I just wanna show them real quick!" 😊
I love the slow songs you play at the piano! i hope you release some of those ✨
lol thanks for keeping ME company while I got ready for work when I was really tired. I put on a crazy (for me) outfit and did my makeup and have committed to ALSO being extra dramatic in my personal narrative about today being a bad day, which has made things more fun :D
You would be such a fantastic play therapist
Oh thank you ! I didn’t know that existed but I will honestly think about looking into it :)
I decided not to drink this year and it feels great. I just replace alcohol with kombuchas and juice mixes. It feels great to be aware of the surroundings and feel everything deeply when I am sober. The one thing I miss is margaritas 😂but I am planning on making alcohol-free ones
my most favourite video ever, ever, ever omg
Love it! Sweet, pure, fun, and powerful!
I've been sober for almost 8 years now and have NEVER felt better!
4 years here (!)
watching you while doing a vision board
Omg how fun!
the way ur mind works is so inspiring
A bad day dress is such a fun idea, as a true drama queen I can’t wait to try it 😭😭😭
Love your green fireplace
just in time to watch with my morning coffee 🥰 & im planning a trip to paris !!!
How exciting ! You’re going to have the best time
Great vid, as always! Its a coincidence that I reluctantly cleaned up my space this week as well. haha...but having done that, it gave me a mood boost and i alllmost immediately began working on something.
Watching your vids is the highlight of my week every week!! Thanks for sharing
YOU made my day!
this was so needed!! been having a few bad days lately and this actually cheered me up a lot, so thank you:]
Glad I could help!
I love you so much! This is my favorite video of yours so far. Thank you ❤❤❤❤
i cherish this time too
You are so therapeutic!!! ❤
love your videos so much and LOVED this one too 💥💥
the way you talk to your self is so silly and healthy. i do the same it is magic
Totally adopting the practice of a “bad day dress”
I really like your Pierrot clown painting, it's very dreamy, almost as if floating or melting away in water at midnight, very surreal. It should be the cover of your next journal. I would buy it. Housework can be a real drag unless one is energized, feeling motivated, or in the mood. In saying that, I keep my place clean because as you said, it uplifts the spirit. One can't be happy or artistic unless our environment inspires us. I love the metallic two-toned dress you wore during your cleaning spree:-) As far as rejection goes it stings, but look what happened later in the day. As one door closed another door opened:-) Taxes are worse than housework, I feel for you on that....but it too shall pass....🧚✨💫
I hope you consider my suggestion, Shayna. I have a feeling that this Pierrot clown could be your best seller yet. My personal favorite was your first journal which I love. It has a prominent place in my living room. I'm partial to the journals with faces. In saying that, all of your journals are beautiful, but I have a feeling this one could do the best out of them all in terms of sales.
Girl my stress and anxiety has been THROUGH THE ROOM lately, there must be smt in the air with Capricorn signs 🫠 I’ve had to make the SUPER hard decision on whether to stay in Seoul or move back to Canada. But you know what, I moved all the way here to create an online community and film and I’ve decided that IM NOT GIVING UP 🥹 hopefully I’m making the right decision
youre so pure i love it
Rejection is protection❤
Starting the day with a new vlog , thank you for this 👌🫶
Happy Tuesday !
love u Shayyyy, you're amazinggg !!!! thank you for being you and inspiring usssss
Awww I love u girl !
@@thepurplepalace85 eeee
I love this cleaning vlog vibe it feels like FaceTiming with a sister!
Thank you for this realness 💗🙏🏾
Any time!
Just passed 1200 days sober. I’m here to tell you that you’re not feeling anxious when hungover just because you’re sensitive. Wishing you the very best Dry Julune. ;)
I love these videos so much!!!!
"Rejection is protection" We said that at the same time!! ❤️ Thank you for sharing this video sister. I'm glad you're doing well. If you can share details on your September festival, I'd be intrigued to visit! Always with love 🫶🏻
I think me and my ocd would actually love to have someone invite me over to tidy with them... have definitely taken to tidying to deal with anxiety, one thing I love about myself is that I can be introspective and I love your videos always, feel like your the creative internet big sister/ bestie and the comments section on your videos is the best which is a rare find
i love your brain dude
ive def had friends invite me over to clean, but ive invited them to do the same for me! its an act of care when were going through tough times and need a lil help with tasks :) i guess it depends on if youve agreed to do that or not though, would be a bit weird for it to be a surprise
from my family i have learned to laugh and have dance parties always
You’re so awesome, fun, and COOOL. Artistic Angelica doll 😅❤
🥺🥰♥️♥️♥️
Love Bad Day Barbie❤
❤ thanks for sharing!!
That was literally me on Sunday 😂 6 hours of cleaning made me feel better I must admit
LOVE YOU
Umm that's not a "bad day" dress... Thats the gown Persephone wears when she retreats to the underworld to recharge 💜
I haven’t seen for awhile. I think you look radiant and I love the way put yourself out there and pull yourself out of a shitty place. And I love your hair! ❤
I always thought it was weird of me that washing other people’s dishes was really fun and interesting, while doing my own was a dreaded chore to put off as long as possible. If I had the right friend, I’d love to say we’d swap places for a cleaning session (with guidelines if desired, of course) If I was in your area Shayna, I’d be happy to wash your dishes, straighten books, etc... and then the fresh joy of returning to a magically cleaned space! I dream this will happen to me someday, but so far, no luck... I’m with you- find a creative way to just deal with my messes! Best results when I tell myself that by cleaning and clearing clutter, I’m opening space for Something Wonderful to come in! Like your festival invite!!! You manifest it!! Way to go!!!🎉💖🥂🥰
Hahaha. I L-O-V-E your Upside-Body/Downside-Body dance!!!, your "Bad-day Dress idea, a-n-d how fun you are when you're not!! (Smile)
Thank you for this..
You got this❤
i had a terrible week as well, i was coping with painting :D ciao from and italian youtuber
It’s nice to have a glass of wine 🍷 at dinner but mocktails have come a long way in recommend trying if u haven’t already…and it’s great ur paying attention how it makes u feel and that ur listening to ur body 🫶🏼
Vrai. Un espace propre libère votre esprit. Et je dis aux gens que je ne bois pas… ils sont choqués mais s’ils continuent de s’en vouloir à mon sujet, j’en prends note mentalement et je les sors de ma vie. Yeah, NO I don't clean for people because 1) I don't let folk visit my home, energy is something to be aware of 2) I am special so if I can work for some one else I can for sure clean (respect) myself...with that said "YOU GOT THIS!"
Tbh i love cleaning my friends places ! I cant help but want to sweep if there's a broom nearby
I love you❤️
She collects Rocks
I'm going to paint a bad day dress!
do it bb!!!!
Play and positive self care n talk. ❤❤❤❤ Bueatiful woman enjoy your life 😊
Thanks friend !
Love u
Thank you for asking what I love about myself and for this video. It helped me so much you have no idea. I love you and wish we could drink tea together. Love love love to yooou
Purple Palace x Chappell Roan? collab of my dreams
HELP what purple palace song is at 13:30? This oen goes out to my new bf song
please someone tell me😭 need to know
Ok side note I remember when you cut your hair and it’s sooo long and grown back already so quick lol 😍
Yes. Unhinged and hilarious
Does anyone know what kind of search term you could use to find a dress similar to the purple one she's wearing? Is iridescent the right word? it's so beautiful :)
Yes iridescent! Ikr it's so pretty!!
its thrifted and from the 90s so I think if you go to the thrift or look on depop!!
Iridescent sharkskin taffeta
i really wanna be your friend, like actually for real
💜
Youre iconic
We are both !!!
💜💜💜💜
a bit unrelated but i remember watching one of her (your?) videos about buying or not buying an apartment which had dirty neighbors which could then pose a problem. Did she (you?) end up buying it?
Nope! Got this one instead
Cheers
Hello💕💕💕💕
I wrote something that hadnt qualified: im replacing it with a divine decree from my fav high priestess Sandra Walter:
I qualify all thoughts feelings emotions words actions and creations with the wisdom of my divine heart infinitely. I set forth these qualified electronic ⚡️ flows into the unified field (aka collective consciousness) to amplify and accelerate the collective organic ascension.
I’m back on my morning pages and thank you for this deep dive. Loving you!!
Why don’t you paint your walls?
🎉
yay!!!
Courtney love vibes all the way yay
you look like fiona apple :)
So jealous of your piano. No complaining neighbours?