betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor - I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective for trauma recovery. BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication. BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week. You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid. You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor - I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective for trauma recovery. BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
@@davidcoppotelli3957 Yes...no heart and never say sorry...it makes no sense...they did all the lies and secrets with GAMES and Evil... sleep at night like no big deal....True Evil...
Narcissists only come back when they fail to replace you. They don't really want you, they just want the grade A supply back. The best thing you can do it leave them behind and move on because they never change
She told to another collegue with such a rage that i dont talk to her anymore,she came back with him to make me talk to her,such a stupid trick,they make me sick. I stand my ground,i have nothing to talk to her,i smell her lies and see her mirroring,she make me sick such a false woman.
What a waste that people act this way. They have a beautiful friend who is willing to do anything to make a relationship work, and they abuse that person until the friend leaves. What a waste.
Yes, I had some Latin friends do the gaslighter thing and lies and secrets and drop them like bad habit, lol..called me racist, said nope, DNT use race card, your games are up and people get AWAY with it till it gets crystal clear that the company is not good, bad company is TOXIC to your health and happiness..
I never rejected him! He gave me no choice! He rejected me! I loved him but he didn’t like my affection being displayed! And I don’t know how to be different! I’m an emotional person! I love him, I want to tell him, and the world! I’m crazy about him! But he has a problem with wanting to sleep with everyone! I don’t think I can deal with that! But I never have a chance to talk to him! He won’t call me, and I (can’t call him!, am Blocked from texting and calling him) so what can. Do?
@@patriciaearney3133 sweet heart,learn to live and love yourself unconditionally. please get PAST that ENTITY!! You can and will do 💯 percent BETTER!! I Don't REGRET ANY DECISIONS I MADE in WALKING AWAY,it was such a great thing for me to do. I HAVE GAINED SOOOOOO MUCH MORE!!! And I'M TRULY HAPPY and very IMPRESSED with MYSELF 💃💃💃! YOU are on YOUR WAY, PROMISE!
I don't want to hurt anyone, my mom used to say don't lower yourself to their level. I just want to take care of me and be happy. I am happier with myself then I've ever been.loving my life feels great. That's my power!
My ex said to me I don’t want to give you anymore grief, then later that night his stepson called me a f****** bitch, my ex said nothing to him, he just let him get away with it and later my ex decided to abuse me in front of others. If that wasn’t giving me more grief I don’t know what was. I walked away at that point, and have never looked back.
Say bye bye and don't look back! While I don't like hurting people, if they hurt me enough, it's time to close the door, lock it and throw away the key.
With all due respect to Narc Survivor who’s helped me vastly in therapeutic ways, I’ve learned narcissism is a spirit. Because it’s an evil spirit it will leave you feeling constantly overwhelmed, upset, like you’re falling apart. Nothing hurts the narcissist and never will until you turn them over to Christ. He and only He has overcome the world and them, and can restore your life back to you.
I told him this and he brought in our apartment different young girls. I don't give a s... t on that but hepays the girls and not alimony to our kids. When I told him this, he told me that jelousy is eating me alive 😆😆😆. They just doesn't believe you that you don't want them. So Crazy they are
The hurtful and harsh words they tell you to hurt you is only the reflection of who they are , their insecurities , their jealousy that they cannot be like an empath , they don’t have love for anyone , they are empty like a rock … I am better and in peace without that selfish narcissist in my life and away of toxicity … thank you God 🙏🙏
Yes..we are better off without them, the TOXIC people who are interested in using our good heart and tear us down at the same time...We are strong and trust is number one priority in all relationships, if there is no trust, there is no reason to continue..All done in the dark will come out to the light, no one can mock Jeh God and be blessed.....💪
You are right, they just want to receive attention and you validation but you don't receive the same. They suck you dry until you begin to lost your self-esteem and beg them and chase them. They just want us to chase them.
@@iamaprilabatas88 had me chasing him all over like chicken with my head cut off just to be ghosted gaslighted more them all levels of abuse crossing line physically leaving me for dead by his hands hearts broken for life
No one like rejection, but the narcs take it to the highest level, pulling mega tantrums and are left feeling like what they really are pieces of crappy doodles!!
There are like a 2 years old child with temper tantrum.They are awful people.Animals act better than them.Mines say he is not a animal, but they treat people like crap💩.Some day they will reap what they sow.
I boomed into the narc and his supply for all I know, she could have been around. And chile, I’ve never seen a more miserable person. Beard all crusty, couldn’t looked me in the face. Kept his face glue to the ground Chile
Yes they do know. My ex said in the beginning he would probably mess up our relationship because he usually did in the past. Wish I had listened to the only truthful thing he ever said and left then and there.
You are 1000% correct, I'm a living proof; what I achieved 3 months after leaving my covert Narc husband even being 6 months pregnant at the time and 3 kids, I did not achieve it in 9 years of marriage with him. Thank you Jesus for giving me the strength. Also thanks for channels like yours for your support and encouragement!
Thank u for comment. I'm barely a week in after leaving her narrscist cheating low life ass. I accomplished things I haven't achieved in almost a year. God Bless you 🙏
I swear on God, them Nercicists are out of the question, I still have to find the strength to leave this man after giving my 7 years sentence of living with his twisted mind, he's sick, he needs help, and believe me I am going to counseling because of him, I am planning my way out already. This is not a life, this is hell on wheels. I only pray to the Lord to clean up my mistakes and to open a clear road for me and my kids.
@@SunFlower-hh6vd pray for JEH God to help you, go to domestic aide or a family that can help..no one can deal with TOXIC people...your kids will have damage if you have no plans, it causes them issues in the future..
Yes! Even if you're forced to be around the narcissist.. work for example..just act like they're invisible except when you absolutely have to interact with them. Even then only say as much as necessary..NO personal information that they can twist and use against you. You are dealing with the enemy! Act accordingly.
I rejected and discarded my ex girlfriend who is malignantly narcissistic almost 2 years ago. I never expected the hoover attempt, but it happened twice. It failed twice. I went no contact a month after leaving and my life immediately improved. My best life started the moment NO CONTACT started
Underdeveloped... That's a good description! And it's true. They didn't get to develop well in all ways, so they're left with areas of their life that don't function
There's a part of me that feels sorry for narcissistic people, much like I would feel sorry for someone who has been bitten by a vampire and turned into a vampire (if vampires were real). I can feel sorry for them but at the same time, know that there is no way I can expect them to be a safe love interest or even a safe friend. And there's nothing I can do too help them either. It's a done deal. Some things you just must avoid in order to have a chance at a good life.
@@wandaengelhardt6617 Correct and unfortunately narcissistic individuals create toxic drama that attempts to bring everyone down to their level... best to walk away, let them play out what they created in their own delusional demented underdeveloped mind. Have a great day Wanda...
Two strong beliefs of people pleasers 1. Everybody is basically good. (A magical-thinking spell of protection) 2. If I treat others well, they will see my worth and will treat me well. (A recipe for a lifetime of being used by narcissists and opportunists.) Humility is the first rung on the ladder of spiritual development. But even the greatest masters had boundaries that were appropriate or even mystifying to those who would transgress, ensnare, or manipulate.
Its because they don't feel comfortable in there own skin. They are very disturbed people. I could not have really understood all this till I found you. Be proud of yourself you are a life saver. Thank you.😊❤
My ex husband is an Narrisist and don't engage with him he behaves like a toddler, my Grandkids have more manners, we not on the same level and saw that long time ago, my advice is to leave them to their pathetic behaviour their compluse lies and their cheating, rise above them they only shells nothing inside and they are extremely damaged themselves and project all the pain they have onto others, leave them off and live a HAPPY GOOD LIFE,.
Freeing yourself through rejection is the best thing to do. It only hurts them because they are disempowered - they can no longer manipulate & hurt you!
In my case, it was his exposure...to the police, employer, family members, neighbors. I also had him arrested, jailed and restrained from me - for future divorce court evidence. His exposure is the only way to corner this vampire and weaken him, so you can regain your strength and take action. Everything has been documented, mostly in notes that will stand tall in court. Expose the sucker and let him know.
arguing with the irrational is like playing chess with a pigeon, they'll knock all the pieces over, shit all on the board and strut around on it like they won anyway just to hurt you, it's pointless
I found you on TH-cam after getting rid of that narc and it's been 7 months now. I went no contact about 6 weeks after he left. I will continue to go no contact. Thank you so much for doing what you do. Your videos are so edifying. The chains are being BROKEN here on this channel! 💯🔥🙏🎵 Narc Survivor 💜
I agree this is your best video ever to date…..It clarifies everything and is straightforward…..They will NEVER change!!!…..Stop thinking they will!!!…..Plus it’s so INSPIRATIONAL and UPLIFTING!!!…..I am going to listen to it again and any time I start to doubt myself and my capabilities…..Thank you so much NS!!!…..God Bless You for helping so many people who have suffered for so long…..Sending much gratitude and hugs from the USA ❤️
Thanks dear, ooh may this man is so uncomfortable around me with him for one year but living in my house for nine month, and this man behave as if he just came to live with me, every day he do this
True. They aren't on your level, and they have no right to be there. Reject them and move on to a more promising future. It makes perfect logic, but it's considerably more difficult to implement when it comes to marital assets and children. You can still reject them without establishing physical distance between yourself and them by going deep gray rock.
@@morenitascorp9246 Absolutely! And we must not, in the first place, fall for their love bombing and fall into their trap. That's the one option that's even better than rejecting them.
This is such a good video, thank you. I told my ex I wanted nothing more to do with him and I went no contact, I’m sure this shocked him because I always ended going back to him, but no more, when I’m done I’m done and life is so much better without him.
@@sufisufi2260 yes he did 6 weeks later, and I endured another nightmare with him for around a month. I have now blocked him I wasn’t able to do that before, long story. But I have now and peace reigns again in my life.
I left my narc last night.... for the final time after 3 years of his BS.... I can't anymore... I never knew about narcissism until a few months ago and I thought I was entirely the problem and going crazy.... I felt like I was losing my mind. I thought I was hearing things and never thought about suicide until being with him. I finally put up security cameras and low n behold.... I wasn't hearing things... it was him all along and saying I was losing it because he didn't hear what I was hearing even though he was the one saying things and lying about it. The final straw is when he finally let me go back to work and upon returning home (and showing him proof of when I clocked in & out for the day) I heard him on my ring Doorbell telling my young children.... the sluts home from work... the slut is here... etc.
I can't move on. No family or money. God watches over me. I need these videos. He hates me because I can't leave. At least I know what they are about. He will never change. I don't try. I have not forgive him . I just breathe.
@@rickibrown4543 such people destoy your inner peace...they deserve no love. They use all against you and he destroyed my smile. What l did ...isn't never enough...no grateful...
I really understand the message. YOU DONT NEED A PERSON WHO IS NARCISSISTIC BECAUSE FROM THE START U DO YOUR OWN .SELF RELIANT IS THE KEY TO FIGHT NARCISSIT
As my therapist told me, "She is dangerous"...I have found out just how true that is! My advice to anyone who realizes they are dealing/suffering with these vicious people---run, don't walk away from them before you suffer more.
I've been through all of the trauma they believed they were dishing to me. Everything they've ever put me through I've incredibly overcome with ease including almost being murdered. They just simply don't know when to quit. They've also tried breaking down my character to even future prospectives back then to even utter to my next partner that I, was crazy and a hooker.
“They’re undeveloped people… all they can do is destroy you… they can only bring you down to their level… they can’t pull you up because they don’t have the means… MOVE ONTO BIGGER & BETTER THINGS WITHOUT narc… they want you to doubt yourself “ 🙏💪❤️🩹🌱🌻
Yeh I noticed that, that the narcissist is just a immature child in an adults body! So emotionally stunted, I’ve never experienced anything like it in my life, before, ever!
My Ex-Narc gave me the silent treatment after a narcissistic injury. I jumped on that occasion to discard that narc forever. You will identify them by their gaslighting and silent treatment.
Thank you 🙏 for this information, I’ve never experienced anything like this before! I never thought it would happen to me! I just ended a 4 year relationship with a Narcissistic psychotic psychopath sociopath and now it’s time to heal! He’s correct silence is Golden! Don’t weaken stand your ground no matter what happens! God bless everyone who’s experienced such an evil person! Never again !!
When you say "No!" and you make them take responsibility for their screw ups. They are heartbroken, sad, shocked, and know now that folks aren't going to help them. They tried but all they did was take advantage of you. You got fed up and rightfully so, and now they are up the creek without a paddle.
I never had left her texts and voice notes in «seen» before. Now, therapy, good friends and these videos gave me the strength to do it. I know she’ll be back eventually, but I’m ready to tell her to comunicate as an adult or otherwise to leave me alone.
I thought he changed… until last night and today. I can’t believe someone I felt so close to, could say such hateful things to me. It’s almost like he’s always secretly hated me, and it’s killing me every hour.
They hate everyone including themselves. Mines lost everyone including his adult daughters dad and brother. All he's got now is his social media attention and his dog and weed!
This is true. I block people like this on my cellphone and I avoid them totally. If I see them face to face, I don't talk to them unless they want to repent. Even if thry have repented,, I just feel excluding them from my life is for thr best. I can forgive them but I don't have time to waste and I am not opening that door again.
This Empath went NO CONTACT forever! Period! Tada! I feel terrific, happy, free, living the best life ever! Karma is a bitch and he’ll find out soon enough! TY God for letting me live on separate coasts😇🙏❤️ love the song by Beyoncé “ The best thing I never had” 🥰 The last words my Narc said to me on the phone were “Shut up “! Then hung up! I burst out 😂 laughing felt like I just talked to a toddler and THAT was the LAST time we EVER spoke ! I WAS DONE FOREVEVER!
I am currently living with a man who is a survivor of an aggressive narcissist who he had been married to for 12 years. He unfortunately can’t completely rid himself of her as they have a set of 15 year old twins together that he is a very devoted father to. But she abused him so badly that she would stand over when he was in bed, 2” from his face and scream at him for hours! Just to name one thing she did. But after being away from living in the same house, he STILL occasionally suffers from night terrors! It used to be nightly. When we got together 2 years ago, he was always trying to convince me that he could accomplish things. Like paint a room, wash dishes or do laundry. This was heartbreaking for me as we had lived together in the past (from 1987-1990). We had broken up because he was chasing the dream of being a famous rockstar. To which he did have some success. So I already knew that he had many talents I didn’t need any convincing to see. He was also always apologizing for everything! He was practically apologizing for breathing! But I have always been in love and care deeply for and about him. So I continue to love and support him daily. He has come so far now. The point of all this is to illustrate the damage that a narcissist can do. Even to a very talented, strong, kind, generous and loving man. She never hit him, but the scars she left on him are deep. So if you are involved with a narcissist, run don’t walk, run far and fast! Find yourself again surround yourself with only positive people and trust your instincts. You are a good person and you do deserve happiness in life. Go for the dream!
This is true. As much as you want to respond to texts and emails with an insult, silence speaks louder. To a narc, any response is better than no response. A response, no matter what it is, gives them the dope hit they so badly need from you. Keep them in the perpetual state of going through withdrawals. My narc still sends multiple texts and voicemails per year for the last four years. I take immense satisfaction knowing that I don't have to do anything to cause him pain.
Very true! I never needed a narcissist! Who would ?! Very weak, insecure , empty, chaotic, fake & sick people . Ignorance , complete distancing & rejecting are the only way to get rid of that virtual insanity.. Then freedom and personal growth pop up before you like a new crystal dawn. Practically, then life begins in all its glory, fulfilment and success. A glittering prize ✨ 💫 🌌 🏆
I am very thankful for my experience with my ex narc.it taught me how strong i was and afresh outlook at how being ignorant is not bliss.i needed it to ascend to another livel in my spiritual growth.so i have no regrets just thanks.lok life is soooo wonderful with both good and bad.narc good for spiritual war practice to strenghten the chosen to be full warrior of light.
It's just what is happening to me, 7 years went down the drain. He is a Narcissist and an out of control person, that made me feel inferior to him. The humiliation, his control. Not long ago I started to work a job. I am very happy I have a job, and he got mad because he lost control over me. I am planning to leave him, I ignore him, I don't call or text him, even if we are still under the same roof. I have changed alot with him, now I have confidence on myself. There were times were I used to cry, stress and went into depression because of him. I am very proud of myself on getting a job, and soon he won't see me here with him. I pray to God that I find my way out . I work and use his truck to commute, then, he says ... you're not using my truck no more, find your own ride, I am searching for a car for me, because soon he will not let me use his truck. Anyways, I only focus on the kids and me. I don't want my children to get traumatized by him. Then, when I don't have the chance to keep up with the house, he's taking pictures and threatens me to show it to DCFS. That puts me under more stress, I work 3rd shift , I have to sleep to and the only time I have to clean is on my days off. Gives me panic attacts and what not. I hope that I will end this soon, and ignoring him the situation gets worst, but I do ignore everything that he does. He says that he has a new female on the side, and my response to him is this... Congratulations, I really hope that you find that someone special to you who will fulfill your needs, I am more than happy for you.
Very powerful video. I look forward to everyday. They are very dumb people, they can't take a hint, the only way to get your message across is to cut them off completely.
They get it. They just keep pressing to see how long we allow them to steal our peace. They get a kick outta that and then come back around apologizing to set you up all over again.
It's true a lot of them r not very intelligent, they just think they r in their pea sized brains! The less educated ones r the worst to deal with, talking or reasoning with them is like trying to get a blind person to locate a pin in the grass in the dark.😂🤣😂 It's bad enough that these creatures r evil to top it off they're incredibly stupid n devoid of emotional intelligence!! Cursed creatures they r
I told him lately during an argument Just go and leave me alone, he replied :you'd be lost without me I thought :Well actually i am lost With you 🙄😏 Indeed i never needed him and he sure held me back...
Yes I believe you SURVIVAL it happen to me same say your will never survive without me I told him Really! Try me 👊🙏⚓🙏👈 after 32 year of marriage now when I answer him he yes look at me like what that B***tc 🤣🤔😳💃🤲😊 TO ALL MY SURVIVAL DON'T GET DESTROYED BY A NARCISSIST!🤲👈🌎✌ GOD BLESS 🙏☘👈
it's like they have a contract with the devil. they pretend to be nice so they can suddently attack you and take away your peace, joy... feelings are what they are after.
Its incredible to witness some of their behaviour. Children, in an adult body. Its just so sad and whats worse for them is they are completely hopeless and cant be helped. Their lives must be pure hell
NS…Brilliant on point .. I hope this video goes viral .. narcissist don’t deserve our presence .. no contact was the best thing I did for me in that unhealthy one - sided crap ! Good riddance a lesson never to be repeated .. out of sight out of mind .. thank you NS .. I think of him as a toilet that’s the best relief 🤣🥳🥳🥳
Well said. Sadly your words resonate deeply here. Thank you for your help. Yes, they are always working overtime to make us doubt who we are. It’s insane. I wonder if they know what they are. And I can’t thank you enough for this video.
"If you do not defeat them, you give them the opportunity to defeat you" .Youre right. Oh, feel my detachment. Lord defend me & mine from sabotage. Got sucked back in. Never thought I'd be stuck forever...
Thank you, NS! Miss you. Took a break from the videos for a little while. Needed to. But, will never totally leave you or any of my fellow survivors! TYSM for all you have given me and hope I gave back...I will continue to do so.
GOD is my only help. Made me so so strong in GOD you guys. Cry to him and see what happens. GOD is real and he is there for us. But you must choose. are you going to obey the narc or GOD? Trust in GOD and teach yourself to hear GOD all the time when he tells you do some or say certain things. Listen
Fan-f-ing-tastic comment 2:00 to 2:30 !!! Her exact words were, " If that (sex/intimacy) is so important to you, why have you stayed?" My heartfelt response of "because I love you, loyalty, thought it would get better", though true, sounded hollow and empty, even to me, and I'm pretty sure they meant nothing to her. I'm bummed but optimistic now that I'm beginning to understand. Thank you for your channel.
I have watched MANY videos on dealing with a Narcissist and this is the BEST one! Thank you.My sister is a Narcissist and we haven't spoken in almost 7 months.
I left my narcissist of 3 years 3 weeks ago. She violated my boundaries for the 1000th time so while she was out I packed my things, changed my cell number, I have NO social media and left her to come home to our apartment with 90% of my things gone (the other 10% are disposable). I left her 3 times before only to be lured back with promises and praise. Some days I feel good but some days it makes me crazy that she's happier without me. Why do I care? I fantasize about her reaching out to me so I can "lace into" her and ask "why she cares after losing me but didn't care enough to change when I was next to her in our bed???" I'm sure you know, but it is so hard to think that after 3 years of memories you're just replaceable or that they are better without you 😓.
Naaah she be back if u r strong enought to dont give a fck about her.she gonna wait until the entity that is using her tell her u have healed than bam she will be back with smiles and sweet talk when she does laught in her face and see what happens.
betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
- I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective for trauma recovery.
BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week.
You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid.
You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
- I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective for trauma recovery.
BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
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The first time a person shows you their true colours, is the time you MUST STOP painting new pictures of them!!!!
No 2nd chances here. Learned the hard way!
Boom right there, amen to that sister.
Boom
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@@amandakropen3273
same here...
You deserve someone who loves you 💘 not to destroy you they are evil to the core
Martha MY DEAR. you are 100% Correct.
Yes so True!!
@@davidcoppotelli3957 Yes...no heart and never say sorry...it makes no sense...they did all the lies and secrets with GAMES and Evil... sleep at night like no big deal....True Evil...
Thank you
Yes indeed and lie to your face calling you crazy 😧
Narcissists only come back when they fail to replace you. They don't really want you, they just want the grade A supply back. The best thing you can do it leave them behind and move on because they never change
Rejection equals revenge towards a narcissists.
Exactly...
I did rejection an exposure
True, sunner or later!
She told to another collegue with such a rage that i dont talk to her anymore,she came back with him to make me talk to her,such a stupid trick,they make me sick. I stand my ground,i have nothing to talk to her,i smell her lies and see her mirroring,she make me sick such a false woman.
@@elocho6652 amen sister..me too
“You’re not going to get a different result.” AMEN! Don’t even try.It’s a total waste of energy.I learned this the hard way.
yesss,
Me too
I’m on this train right now
What a waste that people act this way. They have a beautiful friend who is willing to do anything to make a relationship work, and they abuse that person until the friend leaves. What a waste.
Yup
So true 👍🏾
Yes, I had some Latin friends do the gaslighter thing and lies and secrets and drop them like bad habit, lol..called me racist, said nope, DNT use race card, your games are up and people get AWAY with it till it gets crystal clear that the company is not good, bad company is TOXIC to your health and happiness..
It is sooo disheartening 😔
HEALING something they can't do respectfully 🧡 stay encouraged survivors we made it another glorious month.
Bless up
KEEP SOARING QUEEN!! NO LOOKING BACK!
Oh YEAH GIRLE SWEET
Hi Arlene
AMEN
YOU just LIVING, BEING HAPPY!! LISTEN your no longer a VICTIM, BUT a BEAUTIFUL SURVIVER ❤️❤️
Bless up 🙏🙏🙏
@@Real2k25 🌹
Survivor that’s no longer dealing with that shit
I never rejected him! He gave me no choice! He rejected me! I loved him but he didn’t like my affection being displayed! And I don’t know how to be different! I’m an emotional person! I love him, I want to tell him, and the world! I’m crazy about him! But he has a problem with wanting to sleep with everyone! I don’t think I can deal with that! But I never have a chance to talk to him! He won’t call me, and I (can’t call him!, am Blocked from texting and calling him) so what can. Do?
@@patriciaearney3133 sweet heart,learn to live and love yourself unconditionally. please get PAST that ENTITY!! You can and will do 💯 percent BETTER!! I Don't REGRET ANY DECISIONS I MADE in WALKING AWAY,it was such a great thing for me to do. I HAVE GAINED SOOOOOO MUCH MORE!!! And I'M TRULY HAPPY and very IMPRESSED with MYSELF 💃💃💃! YOU are on YOUR WAY, PROMISE!
I don't want to hurt anyone, my mom used to say don't lower yourself to their level. I just want to take care of me and be happy. I am happier with myself then I've ever been.loving my life feels great. That's my power!
Yes...they want us to do it all but they don't give anything positive...
It's best to be happy with someone else if your in a relationship..that's the point of understanding narcissism..I hope you you never experience it
My ex said to me I don’t want to give you anymore grief, then later that night his stepson called me a f****** bitch, my ex said nothing to him, he just let him get away with it and later my ex decided to abuse me in front of others. If that wasn’t giving me more grief I don’t know what was. I walked away at that point, and have never looked back.
one day at a time..The next person will be going thru worse...it gets worse with age.. older they get more problem with no respect.💪
When you're content with yourself and your life, you don't have time for those toxic people! Amen!!
Please don't go back watch the video over and over until you get it 🙏
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Right
Thank u..I definitely will.
Say bye bye and don't look back! While I don't like hurting people, if they hurt me enough, it's time to close the door, lock it and throw away the key.
I need mote strenth, his sccusatins keep hurting
His fist hurts me
@@mariaalfonso685 Talk to your family and friends, maybe they can help you. If he is violent, try not to anger him.
Yes very Correct They SUCK. NARC FREE BABY.
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Just move on they’ll never own up to shit even with proof … success is where is at.
True words. They never own up and cover lies with lies.
All I've heard, I've lived through it.,Thank God for keeping me alive
@@jennifermarine6028 the same exact thing happened to me...Stupid me stayed 10 yrs😔
I feel sorry for what you went through..I truly understand
Facts
With all due respect to Narc Survivor who’s helped me vastly in therapeutic ways, I’ve learned narcissism is a spirit. Because it’s an evil spirit it will leave you feeling constantly overwhelmed, upset, like you’re falling apart. Nothing hurts the narcissist and never will until you turn them over to Christ. He and only He has overcome the world and them, and can restore your life back to you.
Very true!
Amen
Amin.😔🙏♥️
A narc wrote the bible.
Amen🙏🏽
Moving on and laughing at them. Telling them that you won’t ever return because I don’t ever want her back
Ive been beaten down by him accusing me of cheating
Well done Callum 🥰❤❤
I don't want him ever again in my life
♥️ Excellent idea. This is so true and just what I needed to hear. My turn to turn and walk away.
I told him this and he brought in our apartment different young girls. I don't give a s... t on that but hepays the girls and not alimony to our kids. When I told him this, he told me that jelousy is eating me alive 😆😆😆. They just doesn't believe you that you don't want them. So
Crazy they are
Themselves... Nothing hurts the narcissist more than themselves.. and they're not smart enough to understand this sadly.
Silence is better than revengeful rejection. Walk away in silence.
The hurtful and harsh words they tell you to hurt you is only the reflection of who they are , their insecurities , their jealousy that they cannot be like an empath , they don’t have love for anyone , they are empty like a rock … I am better and in peace without that selfish narcissist in my life and away of toxicity … thank you God 🙏🙏
Yes..we are better off without them, the TOXIC people who are interested in using our good heart and tear us down at the same time...We are strong and trust is number one priority in all relationships, if there is no trust, there is no reason to continue..All done in the dark will come out to the light, no one can mock Jeh God and be blessed.....💪
You are right, they just want to receive attention and you validation but you don't receive the same. They suck you dry until you begin to lost your self-esteem and beg them and chase them. They just want us to chase them.
@@iamaprilabatas88 had me chasing him all over like chicken with my head cut off just to be ghosted gaslighted more them all levels of abuse crossing line physically leaving me for dead by his hands hearts broken for life
When he broke up w me he called me a hoe and I will never be nothing and that he wanted me to die did he really mean it 😔
@@ShapeddByT leave him alone. Show him that you respect the breakup and go no contact..
I've learned THAT REJECTION IS A VERY VERY POWERFUL EMOTION
No one like rejection, but the narcs take it to the highest level, pulling mega tantrums and are left feeling like what they really are pieces of crappy doodles!!
All about the tantrums.....LOL to think about how stupid they look having their tantrums!
There are like a 2 years old child with temper tantrum.They are awful people.Animals act better than them.Mines say he is not a animal, but they treat people like crap💩.Some day they will reap what they sow.
They are!!!!
I boomed into the narc and his supply for all I know, she could have been around. And chile, I’ve never seen a more miserable person. Beard all crusty, couldn’t looked me in the face. Kept his face glue to the ground
Chile
@@MegaLadylove2012 🤭😂😂
They know exactly what they are doing.
They ALL play the same game!
They do know when they do wrong!
They know why you want NOTHING to do with them!
Yes they do know. My ex said in the beginning he would probably mess up our relationship because he usually did in the past. Wish I had listened to the only truthful thing he ever said and left then and there.
Sure do , they sense it when we're letting go.
You are 1000% correct, I'm a living proof; what I achieved 3 months after leaving my covert Narc husband even being 6 months pregnant at the time and 3 kids, I did not achieve it in 9 years of marriage with him. Thank you Jesus for giving me the strength. Also thanks for channels like yours for your support and encouragement!
Thank u for comment. I'm barely a week in after leaving her narrscist cheating low life ass. I accomplished things I haven't achieved in almost a year. God Bless you 🙏
I swear on God, them Nercicists are out of the question, I still have to find the strength to leave this man after giving my 7 years sentence of living with his twisted mind, he's sick, he needs help, and believe me I am going to counseling because of him, I am planning my way out already. This is not a life, this is hell on wheels. I only pray to the Lord to clean up my mistakes and to open a clear road for me and my kids.
@@SunFlower-hh6vd ♥️🙏🙏🙏
@@SunFlower-hh6vd be strong 💪🏼
@@SunFlower-hh6vd pray for JEH God to help you, go to domestic aide or a family that can help..no one can deal with TOXIC people...your kids will have damage if you have no plans, it causes them issues in the future..
“there’s no incentive for them to act right”💯
No because they have gotten away with this crazy behavior their whole lives
It's such a sad existence but glad to be free from the toxicity.
Yes! Even if you're forced to be around the narcissist.. work for example..just act like they're invisible except when you absolutely have to interact with them. Even then only say as much as necessary..NO personal information that they can twist and use against you. You are dealing with the enemy! Act accordingly.
I rejected and discarded my ex girlfriend who is malignantly narcissistic almost 2 years ago. I never expected the hoover attempt, but it happened twice. It failed twice. I went no contact a month after leaving and my life immediately improved. My best life started the moment NO CONTACT started
Underdeveloped people is by far the best description of a narcissist....
And immature..!!
Like they should.
Underdeveloped... That's a good description! And it's true. They didn't get to develop well in all ways, so they're left with areas of their life that don't function
There's a part of me that feels sorry for narcissistic people, much like I would feel sorry for someone who has been bitten by a vampire and turned into a vampire (if vampires were real). I can feel sorry for them but at the same time, know that there is no way I can expect them to be a safe love interest or even a safe friend. And there's nothing I can do too help them either. It's a done deal. Some things you just must avoid in order to have a chance at a good life.
@@wandaengelhardt6617 Correct and unfortunately narcissistic individuals create toxic drama that attempts to bring everyone down to their level... best to walk away, let them play out what they created in their own delusional demented underdeveloped mind. Have a great day Wanda...
Two strong beliefs of people pleasers
1. Everybody is basically good. (A magical-thinking spell of protection)
2. If I treat others well, they will see my worth and will treat me well. (A recipe for a lifetime of being used by narcissists and opportunists.)
Humility is the first rung on the ladder of spiritual development.
But even the greatest masters had boundaries that were appropriate or even mystifying to those who would transgress, ensnare, or manipulate.
Rejection is the greatest gift you can ever give a Narc so GIVE IT and then live life to the fullest 🙏
Its because they don't feel comfortable in there own skin. They are very disturbed people. I could not have really understood all this till I found you. Be proud of yourself you are a life saver. Thank you.😊❤
My ex husband is an Narrisist and don't engage with him he behaves like a toddler, my Grandkids have more manners, we not on the same level and saw that long time ago, my advice is to leave them to their pathetic behaviour their compluse lies and their cheating, rise above them they only shells nothing inside and they are extremely damaged themselves and project all the pain they have onto others, leave them off and live a HAPPY GOOD LIFE,.
All true. Its still sad, to know all the years and love was wasted on someone who in the end, is unlovable.
Freeing yourself through rejection is the best thing to do. It only hurts them because they are disempowered - they can no longer manipulate & hurt you!
In my case, it was his exposure...to the police, employer, family members, neighbors. I also had him arrested, jailed and restrained from me - for future divorce court evidence. His exposure is the only way to corner this vampire and weaken him, so you can regain your strength and take action. Everything has been documented, mostly in notes that will stand tall in court. Expose the sucker and let him know.
You better put Bounds and rejection 🤣🤣🤣💪🏻👍🏻 Block your numbers from them
"Never argue with a stupid person, they'll just drag you down to their level, and beat you with experience. "
APSOLUTNO.BRAVO👍
Those are words to live by.
FOOLS 🤮🤮🤮💩💩💩
arguing with the irrational is like playing chess with a pigeon, they'll knock all the pieces over, shit all on the board and strut around on it like they won anyway just to hurt you, it's pointless
Very well said!
I found you on TH-cam after getting rid of that narc and it's been 7 months now. I went no contact about 6 weeks after he left. I will continue to go no contact. Thank you so much for doing what you do. Your videos are so edifying. The chains are being BROKEN here on this channel! 💯🔥🙏🎵 Narc Survivor 💜
Stay no contact run 🏃♀️! He's the best on these demon's. Stay strong survivor's 💪!!!
They're like a martyr for all the wrong purposes.
The best thing to do is #WalkAway & #DontReturn! 💯💯💯
I agree this is your best video ever to date…..It clarifies everything and is straightforward…..They will NEVER change!!!…..Stop thinking they will!!!…..Plus it’s so INSPIRATIONAL and UPLIFTING!!!…..I am going to listen to it again and any time I start to doubt myself and my capabilities…..Thank you so much NS!!!…..God Bless You for helping so many people who have suffered for so long…..Sending much gratitude and hugs from the USA ❤️
Still with them almost 30 years . HELP !
Thanks dear, ooh may this man is so uncomfortable around me with him for one year but living in my house for nine month, and this man behave as if he just came to live with me, every day he do this
These videos keep me strong!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH
True. They aren't on your level, and they have no right to be there. Reject them and move on to a more promising future. It makes perfect logic, but it's considerably more difficult to implement when it comes to marital assets and children. You can still reject them without establishing physical distance between yourself and them by going deep gray rock.
“underdeveloped people”
@@morenitascorp9246 Absolutely! And we must not, in the first place, fall for their love bombing and fall into their trap. That's the one option that's even better than rejecting them.
If someone shows true colours believe immediately
This is such a good video, thank you. I told my ex I wanted nothing more to do with him and I went no contact, I’m sure this shocked him because I always ended going back to him, but no more, when I’m done I’m done and life is so much better without him.
Glad it was helpful!
Did he ever try to contact you ???
@@sufisufi2260 yes he did 6 weeks later, and I endured another nightmare with him for around a month. I have now blocked him I wasn’t able to do that before, long story. But I have now and peace reigns again in my life.
@@catlady6938 thank you for replying... stay blessed ..
Same here Cat Lady! So glad God gave us the strength to leave for good!
Awesome content.
Have no mercy for the narcs.
No pity fir the narc
Ignore them with No mercy
I left my narc last night.... for the final time after 3 years of his BS.... I can't anymore... I never knew about narcissism until a few months ago and I thought I was entirely the problem and going crazy.... I felt like I was losing my mind. I thought I was hearing things and never thought about suicide until being with him. I finally put up security cameras and low n behold.... I wasn't hearing things... it was him all along and saying I was losing it because he didn't hear what I was hearing even though he was the one saying things and lying about it. The final straw is when he finally let me go back to work and upon returning home (and showing him proof of when I clocked in & out for the day) I heard him on my ring Doorbell telling my young children.... the sluts home from work... the slut is here... etc.
Silly narcissist... Tricks are for kids
I can't move on. No family or money. God watches over me. I need these videos. He hates me because I can't leave. At least I know what they are about. He will never change. I don't try. I have not forgive him . I just breathe.
@@rickibrown4543 such people destoy your inner peace...they deserve no love. They use all against you and he destroyed my smile. What l did ...isn't never enough...no grateful...
I really understand the message. YOU DONT NEED A PERSON WHO IS NARCISSISTIC BECAUSE FROM THE START U DO YOUR OWN .SELF RELIANT IS THE KEY TO FIGHT NARCISSIT
In hindsight I see his jealousy. Something perverse in him wanted to destroy everything I had. I admonish you to take jealousy seriously.
As my therapist told me, "She is dangerous"...I have found out just how true that is! My advice to anyone who realizes they are dealing/suffering with these vicious people---run, don't walk away from them before you suffer more.
They flip things. Everything that they do wrong, they accused you of. They will make you feel like you're loosing your mind.
I'm not happy with negative people, & don't let them drag you down.
Your absolutely correct they will return when it suits them
She's been calling me back for more than a month . I'm not impressed about her anymore !!! My soulmate
Hahahahah
Maybe devil soulmate
Ignore her :)
Good never chooses a demonic spirit like a narcissist as your soulmate...
Omg. That's what I thought 🤔 Soul Mate my Ass loser. Goodbye 👋
I've been through all of the trauma they believed they were dishing to me. Everything they've ever put me through I've incredibly overcome with ease including almost being murdered. They just simply don't know when to quit. They've also tried breaking down my character to even future prospectives back then to even utter to my next partner that I, was crazy and a hooker.
Same, my father is a SCUMBAG!! Please, KEEP GOING AND NEVER stop fighting!!
No contact with a narc is the best
SO ACCURATE.
LET THEM BE WHO THEY ARE ...AND LEAVE...YES...THEY WILL BE...FEEL LIKE DISCOVERED . .YES!! ...COVARDS AS THEY ARE....THEY CAN NOW SEE WHAT THEY DID!!
“They’re undeveloped people… all they can do is destroy you… they can only bring you down to their level… they can’t pull you up because they don’t have the means… MOVE ONTO BIGGER & BETTER THINGS WITHOUT narc… they want you to doubt yourself “
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Yeh I noticed that, that the narcissist is just a immature child in an adults body! So emotionally stunted, I’ve never experienced anything like it in my life, before, ever!
My Ex-Narc gave me the silent treatment after a narcissistic injury. I jumped on that occasion to discard that narc forever. You will identify them by their gaslighting and silent treatment.
Thank you 🙏 for this information, I’ve never experienced anything like this before! I never thought it would happen to me! I just ended a 4 year relationship with a Narcissistic psychotic psychopath sociopath and now it’s time to heal! He’s correct silence is Golden! Don’t weaken stand your ground no matter what happens! God bless everyone who’s experienced such an evil person! Never again !!
When you say "No!" and you make them take responsibility for their screw ups. They are heartbroken, sad, shocked, and know now that folks aren't going to help them. They tried but all they did was take advantage of you. You got fed up and rightfully so, and now they are up the creek without a paddle.
I never had left her texts and voice notes in «seen» before. Now, therapy, good friends and these videos gave me the strength to do it. I know she’ll be back eventually, but I’m ready to tell her to comunicate as an adult or otherwise to leave me alone.
Magnificent description of how a narcissist is and the only way to deal with them so they don’t hurt us.
I thought he changed… until last night and today. I can’t believe someone I felt so close to, could say such hateful things to me. It’s almost like he’s always secretly hated me, and it’s killing me every hour.
They hate everyone including themselves. Mines lost everyone including his adult daughters dad and brother. All he's got now is his social media attention and his dog and weed!
This is true. I block people like this on my cellphone and I avoid them totally. If I see them face to face, I don't talk to them unless they want to repent. Even if thry have repented,, I just feel excluding them from my life is for thr best. I can forgive them but I don't have time to waste and I am not opening that door again.
Yes I have moved on and she has become worse, she tries to be nice to me now Chris, I am forever grateful to your channel brother❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Makes perfect sense to me.
This Empath went NO CONTACT forever! Period! Tada! I feel terrific, happy, free, living the best life ever! Karma is a bitch and he’ll find out soon enough! TY God for letting me live on separate coasts😇🙏❤️ love the song by Beyoncé “ The best thing I never had” 🥰
The last words my Narc said to me on the phone were “Shut up “! Then hung up! I burst out 😂 laughing felt like I just talked to a toddler and THAT was the LAST time we EVER spoke ! I WAS DONE FOREVEVER!
This video made me to think again for the decision that I am about to make. Thank you.
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Stay strong and firm !
I am on this too...
Last round... Game OVER, K.O
God Willing ! 😌☺️
I am currently living with a man who is a survivor of an aggressive narcissist who he had been married to for 12 years. He unfortunately can’t completely rid himself of her as they have a set of 15 year old twins together that he is a very devoted father to. But she abused him so badly that she would stand over when he was in bed, 2” from his face and scream at him for hours! Just to name one thing she did. But after being away from living in the same house, he STILL occasionally suffers from night terrors! It used to be nightly. When we got together 2 years ago, he was always trying to convince me that he could accomplish things. Like paint a room, wash dishes or do laundry. This was heartbreaking for me as we had lived together in the past (from 1987-1990). We had broken up because he was chasing the dream of being a famous rockstar. To which he did have some success. So I already knew that he had many talents I didn’t need any convincing to see. He was also always apologizing for everything! He was practically apologizing for breathing! But I have always been in love and care deeply for and about him. So I continue to love and support him daily. He has come so far now. The point of all this is to illustrate the damage that a narcissist can do. Even to a very talented, strong, kind, generous and loving man. She never hit him, but the scars she left on him are deep. So if you are involved with a narcissist, run don’t walk, run far and fast! Find yourself again surround yourself with only positive people and trust your instincts. You are a good person and you do deserve happiness in life. Go for the dream!
Hvala ti 🙋♥️🙏
Thank you! I'm ten years on from a 26 year marriage to a narc. Life really does get better.
This was powerful and let's me know that I have done everything correctly...👏 👏 👏 Glad I moved on...
This is true. As much as you want to respond to texts and emails with an insult, silence speaks louder. To a narc, any response is better than no response. A response, no matter what it is, gives them the dope hit they so badly need from you. Keep them in the perpetual state of going through withdrawals. My narc still sends multiple texts and voicemails per year for the last four years. I take immense satisfaction knowing that I don't have to do anything to cause him pain.
Narc survivor saved my life!!! I love narc survivor ❤😊😅
Very true! I never needed a narcissist! Who would ?! Very weak, insecure , empty, chaotic, fake & sick people . Ignorance , complete distancing & rejecting are the only way to get rid of that virtual insanity.. Then freedom and personal growth pop up before you like a new crystal dawn. Practically, then life begins in all its glory, fulfilment and success. A glittering prize ✨ 💫 🌌 🏆
I am very thankful for my experience with my ex narc.it taught me how strong i was and afresh outlook at how being ignorant is not bliss.i needed it to ascend to another livel in my spiritual growth.so i have no regrets just thanks.lok life is soooo wonderful with both good and bad.narc good for spiritual war practice to strenghten the chosen to be full warrior of light.
It's just what is happening to me, 7 years went down the drain. He is a Narcissist and an out of control person, that made me feel inferior to him. The humiliation, his control. Not long ago I started to work a job. I am very happy I have a job, and he got mad because he lost control over me. I am planning to leave him, I ignore him, I don't call or text him, even if we are still under the same roof. I have changed alot with him, now I have confidence on myself. There were times were I used to cry, stress and went into depression because of him. I am very proud of myself on getting a job, and soon he won't see me here with him. I pray to God that I find my way out . I work and use his truck to commute, then, he says ... you're not using my truck no more, find your own ride, I am searching for a car for me, because soon he will not let me use his truck. Anyways, I only focus on the kids and me. I don't want my children to get traumatized by him. Then, when I don't have the chance to keep up with the house, he's taking pictures and threatens me to show it to DCFS. That puts me under more stress, I work 3rd shift , I have to sleep to and the only time I have to clean is on my days off. Gives me panic attacts and what not. I hope that I will end this soon, and ignoring him the situation gets worst, but I do ignore everything that he does. He says that he has a new female on the side, and my response to him is this... Congratulations, I really hope that you find that someone special to you who will fulfill your needs, I am more than happy for you.
I'm right there with you. Keep pushing..I won't stop pushing until I have my exit.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Very powerful video. I look forward to everyday.
They are very dumb people, they can't take a hint, the only way to get your message across is to cut them off completely.
They get it. They just keep pressing to see how long we allow them to steal our peace. They get a kick outta that and then come back around apologizing to set you up all over again.
It's true a lot of them r not very intelligent, they just think they r in their pea sized brains! The less educated ones r the worst to deal with, talking or reasoning with them is like trying to get a blind person to locate a pin in the grass in the dark.😂🤣😂 It's bad enough that these creatures r evil to top it off they're incredibly stupid n devoid of emotional intelligence!! Cursed creatures they r
LOVED " THEY CANNOT BREAK YOUR SPIRIT"
I told him lately during an argument Just go and leave me alone, he replied :you'd be lost without me
I thought :Well actually i am lost With you 🙄😏
Indeed i never needed him and he sure held me back...
Yes I believe you SURVIVAL it happen to me same say your will never survive without me I told him Really! Try me 👊🙏⚓🙏👈 after 32 year of marriage now when I answer him he yes look at me like what that B***tc 🤣🤔😳💃🤲😊 TO ALL MY SURVIVAL DON'T GET DESTROYED BY A NARCISSIST!🤲👈🌎✌ GOD BLESS 🙏☘👈
Projection at its finest! F them lol
Exactly
it's like they have a contract with the devil.
they pretend to be nice so they can suddently attack you and take away your peace, joy... feelings are what they are after.
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Its incredible to witness some of their behaviour. Children, in an adult body. Its just so sad and whats worse for them is they are completely hopeless and cant be helped. Their lives must be pure hell
NS…Brilliant on point .. I hope this video goes viral .. narcissist don’t deserve our presence .. no contact was the best thing I did for me in that unhealthy one - sided crap ! Good riddance a lesson never to be repeated .. out of sight out of mind .. thank you NS .. I think of him as a toilet that’s the best relief 🤣🥳🥳🥳
She’s broken my heart into many pieces with her lies give you enough just to hold onto I finally realize I have to let it go after eight years.
Well said. Sadly your words resonate deeply here. Thank you for your help. Yes, they are always working overtime to make us doubt who we are. It’s insane. I wonder if they know what they are. And I can’t thank you enough for this video.
"If you do not defeat them, you give them the opportunity to defeat you" .Youre right. Oh, feel my detachment.
Lord defend me & mine from sabotage. Got sucked back in. Never thought I'd be stuck forever...
Thank you, NS! Miss you. Took a break from the videos for a little while. Needed to. But, will never totally leave you or any of my fellow survivors! TYSM for all you have given me and hope I gave back...I will continue to do so.
GOD is my only help. Made me so so strong in GOD you guys. Cry to him and see what happens. GOD is real and he is there for us. But you must choose. are you going to obey the narc or GOD? Trust in GOD and teach yourself to hear GOD all the time when he tells you do some or say certain things. Listen
Yes! I listen to God's Holy Spirit which leads and guides. You will do and say the right thing Every time.
Best video of yours I've seen ty so much ❤
Glad you liked it!!
Fan-f-ing-tastic comment 2:00 to 2:30 !!! Her exact words were, " If that (sex/intimacy) is so important to you, why have you stayed?" My heartfelt response of "because I love you, loyalty, thought it would get better", though true, sounded hollow and empty, even to me, and I'm pretty sure they meant nothing to her. I'm bummed but optimistic now that I'm beginning to understand. Thank you for your channel.
It's because she doesn't look at love the same way you do. She is damaged goods. Stay away from her.
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I have watched MANY videos on dealing with a Narcissist and this is the BEST one! Thank you.My sister is a Narcissist and we haven't spoken in almost 7 months.
Blood is thicker than water, see her but don’t get closer to her.
I left my narcissist of 3 years 3 weeks ago. She violated my boundaries for the 1000th time so while she was out I packed my things, changed my cell number, I have NO social media and left her to come home to our apartment with 90% of my things gone (the other 10% are disposable). I left her 3 times before only to be lured back with promises and praise. Some days I feel good but some days it makes me crazy that she's happier without me. Why do I care? I fantasize about her reaching out to me so I can "lace into" her and ask "why she cares after losing me but didn't care enough to change when I was next to her in our bed???" I'm sure you know, but it is so hard to think that after 3 years of memories you're just replaceable or that they are better without you 😓.
No. your better without her! Keep moving!
Naaah she be back if u r strong enought to dont give a fck about her.she gonna wait until the entity that is using her tell her u have healed than bam she will be back with smiles and sweet talk when she does laught in her face and see what happens.
Absolutely eye opening 💯🙏
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE, THANK YOU!
Amen so true I was blind but now I see
Thanks for your support, everyone!
Blessings