i bet you can guess how I feel about marriage....😬🌹 The pipe cleaner curls were a pass and gave me an idea for a hair style, which may be coming soon. Thank you for sharing and inspiring me. 🌹🌹🌹
I can definitely guess what your stance is on marriage 🥰🥰 you have a beautiful marriage, Ms. Jean🥰 I can't wait to see what you come up with😍😍 I appreciate soooo much for your continued support ❤❤❤
I'm sooo glad you did this video! I've only seen this done on people with SUPER long hair (who've had locs for like 5-10 yrs) & was worried it wouldn't look right on my hair, BUT your hair turned out beautiful!! 😍😍
Hey girl! Thank you soooo much! and yes, I've mostly only seen people with longer locs pull off this style. I sprayed plain 'ol Rosewater in my hair before twisting. I appreciate you for your continued support ❤❤❤
Marriage isn’t always for everyone. To each it’s own. Do what makes you happy and don’t let business be the only reason why you get married. Look into other avenues to protecting your assets safe for you, your significant other, and your children. Live Your life to the fullest! You have to life your life for you, not for anyone else. Great video and loving the hair❤️
Hey girl! Thank you and you are absolutely right! I don't want the business aspect to be the only reason 😔 We really love each other, but im afraid i may jinx it if we get married... we have a really good thing going😊 I appreciate you so much for taking the time to comment ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful 💜 As for your relationship... it's just that YOUR RELATIONSHIP! So with that said you have to not just find what works for you both but Live your life. Blessings on 19yrs and beyond!
My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married for 8. We did it for the business reasons because it was already understood that neither of us were going anywhere and we would be together forever. We don’t live near our family and we wanted to make sure that in the event of an emergency we could make decisions for each other. The other side was taxes and our daughter’s last name. It was more for ease of communication than anything. Also, your hair turned out cute 😊!
Hi Tinikia! I totally agree with the business reasoning behind marraige and I feel you, because I'm not going anywhere and he isn't either.... we're in this for LIFE, girl! I appreciate you soooo much for taking the time to comment ❤❤❤
The pipe cleaners are a yes for me! Looks good.. 2 weeks is about standard time and yes honey… the volume it gives is an added plus! As far as marriage advice in the end do what works best for the both of you. To answer your question, I do believe in marriage
Hi Ms.O! Thank you soooo much! We really are trying to do what's right.....its just.....A LOT! you know what i mean? I really appreciate you taking the time to comment and give advice because I'm really at a loss❤❤❤
Hi Krystle! A domestic partnership does sound like something we should look into. Is this something that would legally tie us together other than marriage? I appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I believe it mimics marriage and allows for legal rights. Prior to the lgbtq community being granted the right to marry, this concept was introduced. It’s definitely something to look into if your state has it. I have a friend that has been with someone for 30 years and they have everything set up legally for him or her to make medical decisions, etc.
@@TheKrysd85 Thank you Krystle! THAT'S what I'm talking about as well! I want him to make medical decisions for me (if the time comes) and vice versa. When my mom passed she set up everything to be left to us (her children), but her husband fought it....and won, so that's why im like, yeah, we probably need to get married for legality reasons❤❤❤
I was never one that cared about marriage…until after I got married. My parents divorced when I was 9 and my mother never remarried, so I didn’t grow up believing in an idealized vision of marriage. I can’t explain why or how, but we do have a deeper bond since marrying and, dare I say, I feel more secure and maybe even happier. As you say, the “business” side of marriage may be a consideration as you have children and assets and want to make sure things are handled accordingly if something happens to either of you.
Hi MrsB! My parents divorced when I was a young girl as well so I do believe this contributed to my distaste for marriage. I think its beautiful that you guys have s deeper bond now that you're married🥰🥰 I really appreciate your advice and i thank you so muchb for commenting ❤️❤️❤️
Hey girl! Thank you so much! I enjoyed doing this style😄 Its truly a blessing when you find someone that you can be 'YOU' with and they love you for who you are. Im so happy that you've met the person to have the time of your life with...THAT is a blessing🥰🥰 I appreciate you stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
Pipe cleaner curls are cute 🥰 on you. I personally would not live with a man for 19 yrs and not be married. But I understand how u feel about the CB marriage ceremony. However you both are raising young black men. And hopefully they will fall in love one day and want to marry and raise a family of their own. Your beliefs will be instilled in your children that will be extended down to your grandchildren and great grandchildren etc. Its your family dynamics and you both decide the rules, guidelines and life path your family will journey. Good luck and God bless your family.
Thank you, Ranella! I understand where you're coming from. I really didn't think about how my sins will view marriage as they get older...i definitely don't want to deter them from marraige if its something they choose to do.... you gave me a lot to think about. I appreciate you, girl❤❤❤
@Lena’s Lovely Locs You 8:26 should look into creating a trust. If done right you would not have to go through probate. As far as marriage I say do what works for your home.
I believe in marriage, we just celebrated 25 years. We have 5 kids and 3 grandchildren. If you’re staying with someone, you’ve already committed your heart to them, get the full blessing.
Thank you so much!! We got Married in August of 2022🥰 I’m soooo happy I did. I appreciate you so much and thank you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
My 2cent... I completely agree. Marriage is for suckers. However, I just got remarried lol. I made the decision because someone drop in my spirit... We make so many commitments. We commit to buy a car and signing contract for it, we commit to buying a house and sign contracts for it... but we struggle committing to the love of our life? I'm not saying that you are not committed, because you been doing it for 19 years, but what's stopping you from that next level of commitment? You said "if it ain't broke, don't fix it"... well, hopefully people are not getting married because something is broke in the relationship, lol.... However, I totally agree... marriage is for the birds... but if it's something your man wants, you should dig deeper on why it's important to him. Well, it's late and I'm just typing lol. I know you will make the best decision for you, and I hope everything will turn out well.
Hi Lester! Lol, now I didn't say marriage was for suckers😄🤭 I don't think there is anything stopping me from going to the next level, but you definitely gave me something to think about. I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
I don’t think my hair is long enough for pipe cleaners but I bought them a while back and can’t wait to do them. Now about not thinking anyone will come challenge you about the Will and what not. The thing is death can sometimes bring the worst in people. Also when someone is grieving you are not getting a rationale person. It’s a different sometimes beast. I’d be careful with that.
Hey Lesly! Yes, try them when you get a chance! You are soooo right about that.... you NEVER know what goes on in another person's mind when a death is invloved....I witnessed it 1st hand when my brother and I had to fight my mother's husband in probate over her Will....it was a huge mess. I really appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
You definitely got nice results with the pipe cleaners. As per your rant, Judge Judy would say you guys are playing house together. I guess a break up could bring undesirable financial implications. You might want to consider a civil partnership.
Hey girl! Thank you so much! Judge Judy would ABSOLUTELY state that we're paying house😩. I am SERIOUSLY considering a civil/domestic partnership. I really appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
I love your video and I agree with your view on marriage. Frankly, I belief people tend to follow the laws of the land and European standards out of fear of judgement or criticism. However, a commitment is a commitment if that is who you are as a person. I am choosing to get married because of the legal side that you also mentioned. It just makes it less complicated. The world has many followers. I for one have never been a follower of, not of jesus or man. I believe in living based on standards and beliefs that work for me. Don’t allow anyone to pressure you. No one has the right to judge. My father is a pastor and I was raised inundated with religion. Church folks always want to point fingers when they really should take a hard look at themselves. Nevertheless be well and be love and light.
It's important to be married for the legacy that yall are building, if either of you get ill or something happens if you aren't married. Family get funny when money and assets are involved. Just as protection for you, him and the boys
Hi Malinda! Thank you so much! you're definitely right, it isn't for EVERYONE! what's going onn with your hair that it won't start loc'd? I appreciate you for taking the time to comment, girl!❤❤❤
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I have fine low density hair and tons of slippage. I will begin having retie, grooming appoints me ever 2wks. Hopefully that will help
What you should do is get the legal paperwork done. Everything that's for your children should be put in a trust and its safe, Life insurance policies included. Also make you have legal documents for custody in the event either of you go b4 the other. Hair is cute!
Hi Ms Kris! You are absolutely right, I was told about doing a Trust Gund a couple of weeks ago and I think this is the route we are going...we have a lawyer and we are going to have all of our assets set aside for our children. I appreciate your advice, girl, and thank you soooo much for visiting my channel and commenting❤️❤️❤️
If you want to avoid probate court then create a living trust.......also you got married six months after this rant?!?!?!😆😆😆😆😆p.s. i love how your locs grew into a swinging bob thats better than being able to fit into a ponytail
Hey Raquel!! Girl, I knoooow, lol. I swore up and down I wasn’t gonna get married😩😂 Thank you so much, my hair is so uneven because of my HIHS, that it broke off into a bob( ima mess, smh). I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
It's a pass for the pipe cleaners. You and Michael do what works for yall. People will still talk if you get married or not. I'm not married. The older I get(in my 4?) I don't want to get married but still want the championship of a marriage. For my kids....yes a trust.
Don’t get married!! It’s not for everyone n that’s ok, u have one life n it’s up to you to make the best choices for you. Me myself I’ve been married 35yrs n I’m 53 n it’s has its ups n downs but over all it’s been good!! Ur life choices are not negotiable for others❤
Hey, Tina! I did end up getting married, girl!!! I don’t regret not doing it sooner, but I’m happy we did 🥰🥰 you are absolutely right, there are ups and downs but the ups outweigh the downs and I post that it continues to do so. I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting❤️❤️❤️
Marriage just a word or legal presentation. You’re already married spiritually and shared marriage energy. It’s your choice but I feel if he wants to marry you why not. My reply is a year later did you get married ???
Hi Angela!! you are absolutely right!! We were already married spiritually and definitely share that energy. And to answer your question, we got married last year in August! This Saturday on the 26th will be our one year marriage anniversary, and we are very happy.🥰🥰 I appreciate you so much for stopping by commenting❤️❤️❤️
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 Congratulations to you both! And Happy 1yr Wedding Anniversary. I got married last year as well 12/30. Thanks for replying may you both have many more years of happiness together 💜💜
Yes on the style however not for me. I do not have the patience to install the pipe cleaners. OAN You have to do what feels right for you and your house. Setting up a trust for your kids instead of a will could be an option as well. This is executed upon death without going through probate.
Hey Tiffany! I totally understand you regarding the time it takes for this style, lol! Setting up a trust is next on our list to do...this is sooo imperative because, unfortunately Wills are just a piece of paper😔 I appreciate so much for this advice 🥰❤❤❤
Do what you feel in your heart. Your relationship has worked this long you and your partners way....do you! On the asset side, talk to a lawyer about the right thing to do for the kids or your significant other in the case something happens to either of you.
Hi Stack! Thank you so much and that was my thinking, "Why change a God thing?" I've been working with the probate lawyer that I used for my mom's estate to help me with legalities. I appreciate your advice and I thank you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
Love your videos. You're detailed, but don't "drag on and on" - you get right to the point. Hairstyle looks nice, but wouldn't flexirods achieve the same look with less time? As for marriage, I say do it! 😊 You're building a legacy and setting an example for your children. You guys can do something small and private at the courthouse or at your home.
Hi Ms. Juliana! We actually got married August of 2022!! I’m so happy that I did and I’m kinda upset that I didn’t do it sooner😔God is so good to me…even when I’m not so good to myself 🙏🏾Marriage is beautiful ❤️ I appreciate you so much for stopping by my channel and commenting ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
I believe in marriage. I am a biblical minded person so…yeah. I care about what God thinks. Do not let that spirit of fear to deter you from being Micheals wife and him your HUSBAND. It is fear keeping you from wanting to be married.
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 you are not alone as well. I have a cousin that was with his gf 24 years before they decided to tie the knot. It only solidified them so much much to their surprise. Having the title wife or husband comes with benefits and less judgements. You will no longer feel the need to explain yourself to people all the time. This urging is from the Lord.
I guess why not get married if you plan on spending a majority of your life with your partner? Why do you say marriage is not for you? Any specific reasons?
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 ahh congrats!! I’m curious what has changed since you got married? Do you think there is a difference with marriage compared to what you thought before?
@@deboraha6696 girrrl, absolutely nothing has changed! I still love him (if not, more), we’re trying to make more time for ourselves. I do love saying my ‘Husband’ vs. ‘My life partner’ whenever I talk about him or when anyone asks me about him 😆
You can't live your life by stats. Marriage is what you make it. You should consider it because your life partner wants it. There is give and take in all relationships. There is a different feeling when your a wife I can't describe it. It comes with more responsibility believe it or not.
Hi Lecresha! You are absolutely right. I feel you when you say there is a different feeling once I become a wife…..We got married back in August!!!!! I’m soooo happy, girl!!! I appreciate you stopping by and commenting 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Get married. Lord forbid anything happens to one of you guys . Family will be coming in to take over and you wouldn't have a say in it, because you are not legally married. If you love him, why not married him.
Hi Nova! You are absolutely right. Ive seen first hand how people act with finances when a death occurs. We love each other so much, which is why getting married is becoming more clear to me🥰 Thank you so much for your advice, girl and I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
I agree…get married. Marriage has benefits…as stated, if something happens to your partner you can get his social security, transfer of property, etc. you make all of the decisions not his next of kin…if your children are under age, it would be his living parent. Nineteen years, receive the benefits you rightfully deserve. Love ❤the video. 🙏🏽
i bet you can guess how I feel about marriage....😬🌹 The pipe cleaner curls were a pass and gave me an idea for a hair style, which may be coming soon. Thank you for sharing and inspiring me. 🌹🌹🌹
I can definitely guess what your stance is on marriage 🥰🥰 you have a beautiful marriage, Ms. Jean🥰 I can't wait to see what you come up with😍😍 I appreciate soooo much for your continued support ❤❤❤
I'm sooo glad you did this video!
I've only seen this done on people with SUPER long hair (who've had locs for like 5-10 yrs) & was worried it wouldn't look right on my hair, BUT your hair turned out beautiful!! 😍😍
Also, what are you spraying as you're doing it?
Hey girl! Thank you soooo much! and yes, I've mostly only seen people with longer locs pull off this style. I sprayed plain 'ol Rosewater in my hair before twisting. I appreciate you for your continued support ❤❤❤
Hello Queen, OMG 19years is a Lifetime, Wow poor guy🤣. Those pipe cleaners a lot of work but Cute afterwards 🤣
Hey Linda!! I knoooow, I gotta do better😩 and yes, it was some work but really worth it in the end😊 I appreciate you, girl! ❤❤❤
Marriage isn’t always for everyone. To each it’s own. Do what makes you happy and don’t let business be the only reason why you get married. Look into other avenues to protecting your assets safe for you, your significant other, and your children. Live Your life to the fullest! You have to life your life for you, not for anyone else. Great video and loving the hair❤️
Hey girl! Thank you and you are absolutely right! I don't want the business aspect to be the only reason 😔 We really love each other, but im afraid i may jinx it if we get married... we have a really good thing going😊 I appreciate you so much for taking the time to comment ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful 💜
As for your relationship... it's just that YOUR RELATIONSHIP! So with that said you have to not just find what works for you both but Live your life. Blessings on 19yrs and beyond!
Hey girl! Thank you so much! I appreciate your advice. we're definitely living our lives🥰😁 thank you so much for your continued support ❤❤❤
Your hair came out amazing!
Hey, girl! thank you so much! I appreciate you! ❤️❤️❤️
My husband and I have been together for 16 years and married for 8. We did it for the business reasons because it was already understood that neither of us were going anywhere and we would be together forever. We don’t live near our family and we wanted to make sure that in the event of an emergency we could make decisions for each other. The other side was taxes and our daughter’s last name. It was more for ease of communication than anything. Also, your hair turned out cute 😊!
Hi Tinikia! I totally agree with the business reasoning behind marraige and I feel you, because I'm not going anywhere and he isn't either.... we're in this for LIFE, girl! I appreciate you soooo much for taking the time to comment ❤❤❤
The pipe cleaners are a yes for me! Looks good.. 2 weeks is about standard time and yes honey… the volume it gives is an added plus! As far as marriage advice in the end do what works best for the both of you. To answer your question, I do believe in marriage
Hi Ms.O! Thank you soooo much! We really are trying to do what's right.....its just.....A LOT! you know what i mean? I really appreciate you taking the time to comment and give advice because I'm really at a loss❤❤❤
Lena's Lovely Locs I know what you mean. It’s always good to get other opinions, especially since you have the platform to ask. 👍🏽
What about a domestic partnership? Just for the legal/business part of it.
Hi Krystle! A domestic partnership does sound like something we should look into. Is this something that would legally tie us together other than marriage? I appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I believe it mimics marriage and allows for legal rights. Prior to the lgbtq community being granted the right to marry, this concept was introduced. It’s definitely something to look into if your state has it. I have a friend that has been with someone for 30 years and they have everything set up legally for him or her to make medical decisions, etc.
@@TheKrysd85 Thank you Krystle! THAT'S what I'm talking about as well! I want him to make medical decisions for me (if the time comes) and vice versa. When my mom passed she set up everything to be left to us (her children), but her husband fought it....and won, so that's why im like, yeah, we probably need to get married for legality reasons❤❤❤
I was never one that cared about marriage…until after I got married. My parents divorced when I was 9 and my mother never remarried, so I didn’t grow up believing in an idealized vision of marriage.
I can’t explain why or how, but we do have a deeper bond since marrying and, dare I say, I feel more secure and maybe even happier. As you say, the “business” side of marriage may be a consideration as you have children and assets and want to make sure things are handled accordingly if something happens to either of you.
Hi MrsB! My parents divorced when I was a young girl as well so I do believe this contributed to my distaste for marriage. I think its beautiful that you guys have s deeper bond now that you're married🥰🥰 I really appreciate your advice and i thank you so muchb for commenting ❤️❤️❤️
How long did you leave the pipe cleaners in before removing them?
Hi Latasha🥰 I left them in over the weekend, so about 2 days. I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Great video! I’m going to try the pipe cleaners! I truly believe in marriage. I’m on my second marriage and I’m having the time of my life!💕
Hey girl! Thank you so much! I enjoyed doing this style😄 Its truly a blessing when you find someone that you can be 'YOU' with and they love you for who you are. Im so happy that you've met the person to have the time of your life with...THAT is a blessing🥰🥰 I appreciate you stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
Pipe cleaner curls are cute 🥰 on you. I personally would not live with a man for 19 yrs and not be married. But I understand how u feel about the CB marriage ceremony. However you both are raising young black men. And hopefully they will fall in love one day and want to marry and raise a family of their own. Your beliefs will be instilled in your children that will be extended down to your grandchildren and great grandchildren etc. Its your family dynamics and you both decide the rules, guidelines and life path your family will journey. Good luck and God bless your family.
Thank you, Ranella! I understand where you're coming from. I really didn't think about how my sins will view marriage as they get older...i definitely don't want to deter them from marraige if its something they choose to do.... you gave me a lot to think about. I appreciate you, girl❤❤❤
so pretty 😍
Thank you!!❤❤❤
Definitely a pass! I'll be trying this for my cruise.🔥
I saw one comment about domestic partnership and I think that's a good idea. 😊👍
Hey, girl! Thank you so so much! I think it'd be a good idea as well, I appreciate you taking the time to comment 🥰❤❤❤
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@@capricornwoman6726 this style is definitely 'cruise material!' You're gonna have beautiful curls for the beach! Enjoy your trip, girl!!❤😎❤😎❤😎
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 yes...I can't wait! 😊
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Beautiful, Lena!
Hi Taneisha! Thanks so much, girl!
@Lena’s Lovely Locs You 8:26 should look into creating a trust. If done right you would not have to go through probate. As far as marriage I say do what works for your home.
I believe in marriage, we just celebrated 25 years. We have 5 kids and 3 grandchildren. If you’re staying with someone, you’ve already committed your heart to them, get the full blessing.
Thank you so much!! We got Married in August of 2022🥰 I’m soooo happy I did. I appreciate you so much and thank you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Amen!!
My 2cent... I completely agree. Marriage is for suckers. However, I just got remarried lol. I made the decision because someone drop in my spirit... We make so many commitments. We commit to buy a car and signing contract for it, we commit to buying a house and sign contracts for it... but we struggle committing to the love of our life? I'm not saying that you are not committed, because you been doing it for 19 years, but what's stopping you from that next level of commitment? You said "if it ain't broke, don't fix it"... well, hopefully people are not getting married because something is broke in the relationship, lol.... However, I totally agree... marriage is for the birds... but if it's something your man wants, you should dig deeper on why it's important to him.
Well, it's late and I'm just typing lol. I know you will make the best decision for you, and I hope everything will turn out well.
Hi Lester! Lol, now I didn't say marriage was for suckers😄🤭 I don't think there is anything stopping me from going to the next level, but you definitely gave me something to think about. I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful
Hey Sonya! Thank you, girl! I Appreciate you for stopping by and commenting ❤❤❤
I don’t think my hair is long enough for pipe cleaners but I bought them a while back and can’t wait to do them. Now about not thinking anyone will come challenge you about the Will and what not. The thing is death can sometimes bring the worst in people. Also when someone is grieving you are not getting a rationale person. It’s a different sometimes beast. I’d be careful with that.
Hey Lesly! Yes, try them when you get a chance! You are soooo right about that.... you NEVER know what goes on in another person's mind when a death is invloved....I witnessed it 1st hand when my brother and I had to fight my mother's husband in probate over her Will....it was a huge mess. I really appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
You definitely got nice results with the pipe cleaners.
As per your rant, Judge Judy would say you guys are playing house together. I guess a break up could bring undesirable financial implications. You might want to consider a civil partnership.
Hey girl! Thank you so much! Judge Judy would ABSOLUTELY state that we're paying house😩. I am SERIOUSLY considering a civil/domestic partnership. I really appreciate your advice, girl❤❤❤
I love your video and I agree with your view on marriage. Frankly, I belief people tend to follow the laws of the land and European standards out of fear of judgement or criticism. However, a commitment is a commitment if that is who you are as a person. I am choosing to get married because of the legal side that you also mentioned. It just makes it less complicated. The world has many followers. I for one have never been a follower of, not of jesus or man. I believe in living based on standards and beliefs that work for me. Don’t allow anyone to pressure you. No one has the right to judge. My father is a pastor and I was raised inundated with religion. Church folks always want to point fingers when they really should take a hard look at themselves. Nevertheless be well and be love and light.
It's important to be married for the legacy that yall are building, if either of you get ill or something happens if you aren't married. Family get funny when money and assets are involved. Just as protection for you, him and the boys
Do you honey...marriage is a contract that isn't for everyone. Your hair is lovely. Im struggling with keeping my hair loc'ed.
Hi Malinda! Thank you so much! you're definitely right, it isn't for EVERYONE! what's going onn with your hair that it won't start loc'd? I appreciate you for taking the time to comment, girl!❤❤❤
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I have fine low density hair and tons of slippage. I will begin having retie, grooming appoints me ever 2wks. Hopefully that will help
What you should do is get the legal paperwork done. Everything that's for your children should be put in a trust and its safe, Life insurance policies included. Also make you have legal documents for custody in the event either of you go b4 the other. Hair is cute!
Hi Ms Kris! You are absolutely right, I was told about doing a Trust Gund a couple of weeks ago and I think this is the route we are going...we have a lawyer and we are going to have all of our assets set aside for our children. I appreciate your advice, girl, and thank you soooo much for visiting my channel and commenting❤️❤️❤️
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 you're welcome!!
If you want to avoid probate court then create a living trust.......also you got married six months after this rant?!?!?!😆😆😆😆😆p.s. i love how your locs grew into a swinging bob thats better than being able to fit into a ponytail
Hey Raquel!! Girl, I knoooow, lol. I swore up and down I wasn’t gonna get married😩😂 Thank you so much, my hair is so uneven because of my HIHS, that it broke off into a bob( ima mess, smh). I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
It's a pass for the pipe cleaners. You and Michael do what works for yall. People will still talk if you get married or not. I'm not married. The older I get(in my 4?) I don't want to get married but still want the championship of a marriage. For my kids....yes a trust.
Hey La Shun! Thank you so much! You are absolutely right, people are going to talk no matter what, smh. I appreciate your advice, girl, I really do❤❤❤
Don’t get married!! It’s not for everyone n that’s ok, u have one life n it’s up to you to make the best choices for you. Me myself I’ve been married 35yrs n I’m 53 n it’s has its ups n downs but over all it’s been good!! Ur life choices are not negotiable for others❤
Hey, Tina! I did end up getting married, girl!!! I don’t regret not doing it sooner, but I’m happy we did 🥰🥰 you are absolutely right, there are ups and downs but the ups outweigh the downs and I post that it continues to do so. I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting❤️❤️❤️
Marriage just a word or legal presentation. You’re already married spiritually and shared marriage energy. It’s your choice but I feel if he wants to marry you why not. My reply is a year later did you get married ???
Hi Angela!! you are absolutely right!! We were already married spiritually and definitely share that energy. And to answer your question, we got married last year in August! This Saturday on the 26th will be our one year marriage anniversary, and we are very happy.🥰🥰 I appreciate you so much for stopping by commenting❤️❤️❤️
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 Congratulations to you both! And Happy 1yr Wedding Anniversary. I got married last year as well 12/30. Thanks for replying may you both have many more years of happiness together 💜💜
Yes on the style however not for me. I do not have the patience to install the pipe cleaners.
OAN You have to do what feels right for you and your house. Setting up a trust for your kids instead of a will could be an option as well.
This is executed upon death without going through probate.
Hey Tiffany! I totally understand you regarding the time it takes for this style, lol! Setting up a trust is next on our list to do...this is sooo imperative because, unfortunately Wills are just a piece of paper😔 I appreciate so much for this advice 🥰❤❤❤
Do what you feel in your heart. Your relationship has worked this long you and your partners way....do you! On the asset side, talk to a lawyer about the right thing to do for the kids or your significant other in the case something happens to either of you.
Hi Stack! Thank you so much and that was my thinking, "Why change a God thing?" I've been working with the probate lawyer that I used for my mom's estate to help me with legalities. I appreciate your advice and I thank you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
Love your videos. You're detailed, but don't "drag on and on" - you get right to the point. Hairstyle looks nice, but wouldn't flexirods achieve the same look with less time?
As for marriage, I say do it! 😊 You're building a legacy and setting an example for your children. You guys can do something small and private at the courthouse or at your home.
Hi CamTee! Thank you so much! We're leaning more and more towards matrimony 🥰 I appreciate you so much for stopping by and commenting, girl!!❤️❤️❤️
Pipe cleaners were a definite pass from me…🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾…..if you & your life partner are happy & your business is covered why change it.
Hey girlie! Thsnk you so much! You're right....why change what's already a good thing 🤔🤷🏾♀️ I appreciate you so much and thank you for this advice❤❤❤
PASS🥰
Thanks, Nicole! I appreciate you, girl❤❤❤
My dear get the full Blessings from God by getting married.God bless you 🙏🙏🙏
Hi Ms. Juliana! We actually got married August of 2022!! I’m so happy that I did and I’m kinda upset that I didn’t do it sooner😔God is so good to me…even when I’m not so good to myself 🙏🏾Marriage is beautiful ❤️ I appreciate you so much for stopping by my channel and commenting ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 Don’t be upset,It’s better late than never .Jesus Loves You.Extend my greetings to your family 🙏🙏🙏
I believe in marriage. I am a biblical minded person so…yeah. I care about what God thinks. Do not let that spirit of fear to deter you from being Micheals wife and him your HUSBAND. It is fear keeping you from wanting to be married.
Thank you so much, I needed to hear that🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾 I really appreciate your advice and continued support, Brittany ❤️❤️❤️
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 I am so happy that God has blessed you with an amazing relationship. 😊🙏🏽
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 you are not alone as well. I have a cousin that was with his gf 24 years before they decided to tie the knot. It only solidified them so much much to their surprise. Having the title wife or husband comes with benefits and less judgements. You will no longer feel the need to explain yourself to people all the time. This urging is from the Lord.
I guess why not get married if you plan on spending a majority of your life with your partner? Why do you say marriage is not for you? Any specific reasons?
Hi Deborah! We actually got married Aug. 26, 2022🥰❤️ I’m sooo happy I did!!! I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting 🥰❤️❤️❤️
@@LenasLovelyLocs1 ahh congrats!! I’m curious what has changed since you got married? Do you think there is a difference with marriage compared to what you thought before?
@@deboraha6696 girrrl, absolutely nothing has changed! I still love him (if not, more), we’re trying to make more time for ourselves. I do love saying my ‘Husband’ vs. ‘My life partner’ whenever I talk about him or when anyone asks me about him 😆
@@LenasLovelyLocs1❤❤❤ Amen!!! Happy belated 1 year anniversary!!
@@froggybugthank you so much!! I appreciate you!🥰❤️❤️❤️
Definitely a pass! 🎉
Hey girl!! Thank youuuuuu!! I appreciate you 😚🥰❤️❤️❤️
I wish you would’ve stuck to the hair tutorial instead of getting personal with strangers.
Hey Sage! Turn the volume down, girl……ALLLL the way down😄 I appreciate you watching ❤️❤️❤️
She was multitasking😂😂😂
You can't live your life by stats. Marriage is what you make it. You should consider it because your life partner wants it. There is give and take in all relationships. There is a different feeling when your a wife I can't describe it. It comes with more responsibility believe it or not.
Hi Lecresha! You are absolutely right. I feel you when you say there is a different feeling once I become a wife…..We got married back in August!!!!! I’m soooo happy, girl!!! I appreciate you stopping by and commenting 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Get married. Lord forbid anything happens to one of you guys . Family will be coming in to take over and you wouldn't have a say in it, because you are not legally married. If you love him, why not married him.
Hi Nova! You are absolutely right. Ive seen first hand how people act with finances when a death occurs. We love each other so much, which is why getting married is becoming more clear to me🥰 Thank you so much for your advice, girl and I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting ❤️❤️❤️
I agree…get married. Marriage has benefits…as stated, if something happens to your partner you can get his social security, transfer of property, etc. you make all of the decisions not his next of kin…if your children are under age, it would be his living parent. Nineteen years, receive the benefits you rightfully deserve. Love ❤the video. 🙏🏽