We're sure you have come across at least one last-born meme that made you laugh. But we discovered that there's a theory that claims that the order in which a child is born shapes their development and personality. Do you agree? Apparently, firstborns tend to be more conscientious, extraverted and willing to lead. They are also more tolerant and emotionally stable than adolescents with older siblings. We test this theory on the show today...get ready to dig in! And let us know how true this theory is for you growing up and how that compares in your children today. Come through to Golden Tulip today and discover their selection of gratifying BBQ every Friday from 6 pm to 10 pm with their fabulous Inhouse Band. #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove
Wabula the ambience leero was on fleek fleek fleek 1000%. Please keep that location. The lighting was on point. Simply amazing. But Mr. Mulondo 😂😂😂 you really showed the pampering of Bianca...Bambi we love you,Blake❤ Great show,ladies.
This brings me to tears because it brings back my childhood memories. I was a middle child of 3 and always felt alone and not enough. It was so obvious the two were favorites. It still hurts 30+ years later.
Yes Ruthie we are very kawa for some reason grace carried us through,I was so much loved by my brother that what I asked I got and it was evident for all to see! That substituted
Some of us grew up in a polygamous household, Now, that has another version to it. How nice it would be of you inviting someone who was raised in a polygamous family so others can relate . There’s a lot I’ve loved listening to this conversation but man, it takes other dynamics being raised in a polygamous home. Thanks for the show. Knowing that maama Blake was raised by a single parent , the single parents can relate to the parenting style.
Maama Blake was also partly raised in a polygamous household. She shared this bit on the show. We will definitely have someone raised in a fully polygamous household to share some dynamics. Thank you.
The ladies look loooovely!!❤ The green looks awesome on Angie, The bosom design on Pumla’s dress is mwaah. Racheal’ s hair is on another level. Rosette’s attire is cool. Manuela’s top is giving!!! Loved the stories.
put it like this; your mommy and daddy shaped your characters greatly by picking favourites. the least favourite gets all the negative words and actions while the favourite one gets the best. a pastor said hao hampedi ndio wa mungu no wonder they succeed. bu you have to shake off that negativity or it will hamper your confidence in life.
4th out of 9. 1st to graduate, get a job, sometimes feel overwhelmed and feel like I grew up so fast. Am so quiet, always looking out for others, thinking of what tomorrow brings 😄😄 I purpose to laugh and make myself happy now that I know better. Infact am afraid if taking risks including not yet married🤣
The topic is so real... I'm no 3, very different from my elder sisters who got a soft life....I'm very independent...can be mistaken like care free but I'm OK with myself. This has made me to be very close to my kids who appreciates me every other day!!!! Thanks Kim and Mike!!!
Growing up , I have always felt the less loved ... And growing up as an illegitimate child and first , it became worse . One moment I will never forget is when ... I had my phone while I had his charger as he was at school ...so he goes to village and leaves his charger with Me in Kampala ....so thieves broke into my house and robbed me including my brothers charger ofcourse...fast forward , I call my mum early morning to lament how I was robbed ( using a neighbor's phone apparently) , after listening to the story of how I was robbed...she ddnt even say sorry or anything ...she asks me " has your brothers charger been stolen too?" Guys like for crying out loud..not even feeling sorry about my life , my lost property ...a charger 😆 I have never healed 🤣🤣🤣 But regardless we move . Otherwise thanks for the show ladies and thanks for looking mwaaaaaaa💯💕...all of you look fabulous
As a middle child, I teared after listening to Nalule’s story. It’s like you are never good enough, never celebrated ehhh!!! Your achievements are obvious. Naye Nga ne cantankerous wetuli😂😂😂😂
Mwetademu time and moni❤😅. You guys look beautiful. Great discussion. We are 6 children and I realise the 1st 3 we are so different from the other 3. We are more responsible
As one of the middle children of 8 though an acting last born for 7 years and second last born for more 7, I never felt any pressure, and as we got more siblings, I think I loved being forgotten so that I could go my own way, so the attention would be else where and I never cared.
Am learning Alot today frm ma ladiea n ama tell u I will not fail as a mother wen the Right Tym comes..it will not happen....parents please, let's all learn today..treat children equaly, n don't ever teach children to go against another parent regardless of any constraints please..mu tusasire bamikwano😥❤️🙏🏼
Thanks the GOATS for the show. Naye some of us are still recovering from PTSD of being the first born, it even "worser" when the parents were just having fun [ as in young] n then u decide to interupt. You become an experiment of sorts.
Our position in our family among siblings also has a huge impact in our marriages banange. If you're a 1st born woman married to a last born man, your dynamic will be different from a middle child married to a middle child....etc
Wooow!!!! This was such a profound episode. As a middle child, i celebrate you Nalule~~~ Alot to learn from there on how to raise children. What has stood out for me is to raise children with an equal share of responsibilities but treat them according to their personalities!!! This episode is one for the books, loving your conversations lately and the lengthy discussion!! Ladies y'all look FABULOUS!!!
As a middle child,5th born out of 7. My father loved me and I could feel it, we used to talk and joke but my mom on the other hand never loved me, not even cared a bit about me, which have made me strong and not care to be honest.
Being the only girl and the last born for almost 18 years, my parents were so protective of me, my movements and visits to place and people were restricted to only few places and this with alot other things like being the priority at home in almost everything i believe played a big part into who I am today.
Great stuff always Angie is that big sis my experience I was the head girl my brother still believes I mother too much till now i still believe his still that child hes never outgrown being the lastborn sadly dont know if he will ever change 30yrs later
Thank you Racheal for always stirring the topic on course. You usually answer the topics.Manuella reminded me of me.Rossette turned out like our second born.Angie too.😂😂😂
Let me just say, I love love love your hair Racheal. You all look so so nice. This topic came just on time. My middle child told my first child that I never listen to her, so she is always talking to her toys. So I am trying to reach out to her more
I am a middle child. I never got anything new. Things were always passed down to me when old or broken. 😂. So I learnt how to fix things. At my home I am a plumber, mechanic,electrician you name it, I can fix it. When I was 8 months pregnant I climbed on a chair to fix a bulb and my DH wasn’t amused. He said I make him feel inadequate sometimes when I fix things. Unfortunately it’s just my nature to do such things.
I am an only child brought up by a single mom because my dad passed away when I was a baby. My mom was very conscious that I have no siblings so she brought me up to be very independent and responsible. Yes she spoilt me but would also ensure that I know how to survive in the world without her. Her passing 6 years ago broke me but I am appreciative of how she brought me up.
Oh Brenda. Your comment has stung a little because it has hit close to home. Your mom seems like she raised you the way I am raising my only child Teja. I wish I could speak to you on what worked and what you think could have been done better. P
Very good topic and comes at the right time, it's very easy to let it pass as a parent bse you've done so much with the first ones. May God give us grace.
Pumla u look amazing.......you look so smart. I celebrate your Sister Nalule ......and thanks for being open and acknowledging the lack of recognition of her achievement in the past. Pumla I just love you from a far...love from a sister🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Me am the first and last born the only mum's daughter for the last 25years , loved by mum because she is all I have , dad abardoned us the very day I was born buh we thank God he is still alive and God has been greatful for mum to raise me, pay fees upto College en now working,praying to make her the best mum ever.
I have a feeling Pumla will get pregnant and it will shock her with all the science there is and the confidence she has ...she might and is likely to get a miracle baby...nze kave wano.......
Ladies lets discuss about the signs of having a baby girl or boy while pregnant it will be an interesting topic of discussion I assure you..kindly please please ❤❤
Hey ladies you look absolutely stunning Angie that green looks amazing on you ,Manuel you look amazing too with that pink top and the pony,pumla mukwano the dress is gorgeous,racheal that lipstick I love me some and rosette that outfits looks great on you! I love the topic as a second last born Bambi attention was little
Pumlaz submission btn minute 53 and 56 is 100% true and brilliant analysis...I have 3 sons and I can relate to what she has said 100%. I seem to be showing more love now to my first born much as I would not publicly admit coz I had him while young and the circumstances then were limiting factors. Love u bump love
😅 u people nze nalaba ebizibu..am the Second Born out of 5kids ,but both my parents treated me differently..my father loved the first born the most!..nga he could buy new shoes for her thn he gives me what she's been putting on (old)😢..ate mom loved us equally but sometimes she could give me much work mbu to keep me busy 😏..Anti nga EDALU lyali linji 😂..nga akugamba jangu oyoze ebintu yet it's not yo Day to wash!..Awo nokaaba, noyomba nakubusa obade ogenda kolachi?!..nga school fees tata asoka sasulila first born choka nga i was clever nga ye ali dull naye nga tata ebyo tonyumya😅..but guess what?!...AM THE G O A T💪..naye era me and my father tetuli close bulyomu akola bibye..now i have one kid naye since have been thr before..am super ready to handle thm equally ,give them equal chances
Goodness yall are glowing not sure if it's new production equipment wow wow the makeup!!!! Wardrobe!! Pumla stand up need see more of that banger dress
Best ov the best laughed soooo hard loved all ur stories Pumla’s having a girl n her mum curse was so hilarious n Rossette’s lugezigezi daughter left me rolling on the floor mbu she would jump out of her bed to give orders even wen she’s dozing 😂😂😂😂😂
By far my best. Very educative especially for children who grew up in polygamous families where the children compete for attention or others become withdrawn. Thank you.
I missed you ladies so much, it feels like it's been a while since I saw all of you together... you have no idea how much I enjoy your show. Much love from Namibia ❤
I had to write another comment because thank you for this episode BUT thank you for really putting effort into how you show up; absolutely gorgeous!!!! Like you make me not want to show up shabby for sure.
Me as a firstborn in my mother's wonb i feel responsibilities are still following since childhood. I was always blamed for my siblings mistakes infact i would get serious canes. I used to be served last because am old i can wait. Even buying clothes would be not easy because they have to cover the young ones first. I was a person who couldn't left home because am old. I would pay for my mistakes and my four siblings. 😢 But right now my parents shows that they love me so much but it's hard for me to believe. I remember 2019 i was in senior three and my young sister was in s1 but she became my spy at school. She could borrow teacher's phones and calls mum lie and tell her what goes through my life by the time i call for pocket money or school fees i find when she is already annoyed of me😢😢😢. I would even end the term without completing school fees due to my sister that never loved me for the reasons that i don't know. I remember one time she mis placed her plate she cried for hours and the H M decided to call mum when she reached explained what happened and teachers did the same but MY OWN MOTHER BEAT ME FOR A FULL HOUR. everyone around tried to explain and defend me but she didn't listen😏😏😏. The woman gave me 😢😢😢😢😢. Latet asked her if she was my mother 😅 and she got more angry with me that was another hour on me. Remember she doesn't give me any coin When she left i ran from school i went to the main road such that cars should knock me and i die but it didn't happen. It's where i meant a guy who looked to caring and he became a friend to me ended up dating at the end of the day i got pregnant because i knew nothingabout sex. He broke my virginity and got me pregnant on the same day. He planned with his friends and helped me to abort 😢 i was in senior two. He kept providing me with everything like school materials andup keep until they changed me school. And there it was senior four. Thet didn't give registration fee and school fees for the whole year . Until it was August and i was sent home for School fees of two terms and my parents couldn't give me i meant another guy who promised me a job and i decided to go without telling anyone . But getting me a job again i had to his girlfriend and we slept together and i got pregnant again but i never knew so i started working after a month i got my 400k i went back to mbarara coz i was working in Kampala. I bought one bread and 1kg of sugar i went home abd they welcomed me well later i went for s4 third term but i was pregnant. I managed to study but unfortunately we didn't do exams because the director ate the money and promised us to study again for free same class Next year 2020😢. But i was still demanded school fees for last year. So i reportex back to school but i felt different because of the pregnant 😢. I ran from school and called the responsible person he welcomed me in Busia it's where i gave birth to my boy In 2021 i got a chance and came to Saudi Arabia and started working. But in that period i never communicated to any one home. After a few monthd i called them we talked . Up to now. BUT UP TO NOW I HAVE NEVER TOLD THEM ABOUT MY BABY HE IS MAKING 3YEARS IN APRIL 😂😂. I feel like i should never tell anyone including my mother 😅😅 . Up to now i feel am not loved as other siblings 😢😢 that why i prefer strangers than my family. They talked to me with a reason . My dad wants me to give him everytime he can't appreciate 😢😢😢 . I regret being a first born in that family😮😢😢
Oh Shallot love. What a story! So much happened but - You are loved. Believe it. The fact that you are here to pen down your situation so others might relate with it says that you were meant to be here to speak up. Lots of hugs honey. P
Oooh Shallot, I send you cyber hugs, as a first born I have been where you are, parent toxicity is real I wish @Bumblove speaks about it. But I chose my self, selflove and selfawarness the trauma from parentification is real and it takes long to heal because the perpetrators don't accept and the victims can't believe they faced it all from the people who are supposed to protect them. As a mother now I am very conscious about my action and how I treat both my children. Through them and doing better as a mother, I am healing. Shallot you still have the trauma, you need to heal and have peace. Lots of love J
I am the first born and my husband is the last born.He is sensitive but very responsible and in his family it's as if he is the first born and God has been so good to him.
I am a second last born in a line of 8 and I so can relate to Angie… from a sickly childhood, to having an achieving last born to seeking attention…lol!
Growing up and being the first born girl, I was always beaten more .I really hated being the first girl because my parents thought I had to be examplory to my younger sister. it however shaped me in a way. Thanks to my parents.
I am a mother of two. My first born is a boy and my second is a girl. With a spacing of one year and 11mths. Close to two since they are born in the same month but one is early may and the other late may. You pple, having such a combination is hard to control. At mine, the girl is high high while the boy is calm and collected, caring for the sturbon sister who doesn't really give much of a damn as long as she is happy. The boy is more sensitive and caring. While the girl is hmmm... However, they all are active in chores despite the age. Valeria is making two on 6th March. While Anthony is making 4 on 30th May. Chores are not so much big but you see both of them involving themselves... Washing utensils, Valeria wants to rinse. Making breakfast, Anthony wants to make ngano for chapati... Washing clothes, they want to get involved... Though, their dad is more intetional with the boy ... And he feels the girl is covering him up. Anthony had delay in speech coz he begun speaking kinda clearly this year when he went to school. Val on the other hand is very fast coz she is already communicating. so, generally, the girl seems more active. Though with responsibility, the boy is. 👍. But they are still growing... we shall see coz I can't judge Valeria's responsibility for now. Oh, Val is also sensitive and caring but not as gentle as Anthony 😃... coz when she gets something while the brother is away, she keeps a portion for him ... She says sorry when she isn't reminded... though she loves being told sorry too. So,.. Let me watch the space.😃
Am a middle child and I follow boys who did so well in school life was always about them and I felt like an underdog and my grades were not so good compared to theirs but I just kept trying and pushing through until I made it. My parents loved me but was never the focus. I don't even rem anyone asking me what I wanted to be in future but with my brothers it was clear .I wasn't an easy teenager so I acted out n got the attention I needed 😮
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I wanted to be a lawyer or a doctor but am none of those . Now that am grown up & discovered who Iam I wdnt be happy as a doctor perhaps a lawyer but what I do now is so much fulfilling and kinda involves advocating for the least vulnerable and that's similar to the reason I wanted to be a lawyer.
Oh my Pumla... Nalule... You now look so alike I thought it was Tina. Well done Nalule. I'm not sure I met her but Brenda used to talk about her a lot. Well done Nalule.
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We're sure you have come across at least one last-born meme that made you laugh.
But we discovered that there's a theory that claims that the order in which a child is born shapes their development and personality.
Do you agree?
Apparently, firstborns tend to be more conscientious, extraverted and willing to lead. They are also more tolerant and emotionally stable than adolescents with older siblings.
We test this theory on the show today...get ready to dig in!
And let us know how true this theory is for you growing up and how that compares in your children today.
Come through to Golden Tulip today and discover their selection of gratifying BBQ every Friday from 6 pm to 10 pm with their fabulous Inhouse Band.
#HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove
First born daughters need a support group naye. And I absolutely love Yolisa - so honored to have met her in this life ❤
I don’t know if it’s the makeup or lighting, you all look radiant ❤❤❤
Very true😊. I had to increase the brightness on my phone to enjoy it more😅
Thank you Digna. I'm hoping it's a mix of both. Lol. P
Yes the ladies looked lovely.
Yes, they look amazing! Pumla's dress is really lovely.
This show was so lovely, I was smiling all thru .. I enjoyed it much
Just when I thought Pumla was the smartest and all, I heard of Nalule. 😮. Such a wonderful bunch to relate with.
Hahahahaaaaa! My siblings are the smartest people I know. I'm literally bottom of the family pyramid. P
Oooh I celebrate nalule.
I was never celebrated tooo yet I was and still the smartest among my siblings.
But I celebrate myself
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I will never forget Nalule's kaluuluu on her hubby's PHD
😄 i also honestly thought Pumla was the smartest , love you gal. you just bring a certain good and real energy to the discussions.
Love you Pumla🎉
Wabula the ambience leero was on fleek fleek fleek 1000%. Please keep that location. The lighting was on point. Simply amazing. But Mr. Mulondo 😂😂😂 you really showed the pampering of Bianca...Bambi we love you,Blake❤ Great show,ladies.
This brings me to tears because it brings back my childhood memories. I was a middle child of 3 and always felt alone and not enough. It was so obvious the two were favorites. It still hurts 30+ years later.
Oh dear, sending hugs
I get you dear!
Hugs Rita ❤. Send them this link and try speaking openly about it with your family. P
hio ni kawaida my dia. just distance yourself from people who make you feel inadequate
As a middle child, I can confirm that Nalule’s experience is our life! But we learnt to deal so we are kawa 🤗
Hugs. Hugs. Hugs. P
Yes Ruthie we are very kawa for some reason grace carried us through,I was so much loved by my brother that what I asked I got and it was evident for all to see! That substituted
Some of us grew up in a polygamous household, Now, that has another version to it. How nice it would be of you inviting someone who was raised in a polygamous family so others can relate . There’s a lot I’ve loved listening to this conversation but man, it takes other dynamics being raised in a polygamous home. Thanks for the show. Knowing that maama Blake was raised by a single parent , the single parents can relate to the parenting style.
Maama Blake was also partly raised in a polygamous household. She shared this bit on the show. We will definitely have someone raised in a fully polygamous household to share some dynamics. Thank you.
The ladies look loooovely!!❤ The green looks awesome on Angie, The bosom design on Pumla’s dress is mwaah. Racheal’ s hair is on another level. Rosette’s attire is cool. Manuela’s top is giving!!!
Loved the stories.
Aaawwwww thanks Erone. P
100% right, being a first-born am literally a deputy parent upto now and it's challenging that you have to shoulder all that bagage
put it like this; your mommy and daddy shaped your characters greatly by picking favourites. the least favourite gets all the negative words and actions while the favourite one gets the best. a pastor said hao hampedi ndio wa mungu no wonder they succeed. bu you have to shake off that negativity or it will hamper your confidence in life.
Pumla, you are a good sister, you celebrate your sister's achievements genuinely. Nalule is so lucky to have you.
Thank you for recognizing.
Nalule is so easy to celebrate. She truly is the GOAT
4th out of 9. 1st to graduate, get a job, sometimes feel overwhelmed and feel like I grew up so fast. Am so quiet, always looking out for others, thinking of what tomorrow brings 😄😄 I purpose to laugh and make myself happy now that I know better. Infact am afraid if taking risks including not yet married🤣
The topic is so real... I'm no 3, very different from my elder sisters who got a soft life....I'm very independent...can be mistaken like care free but I'm OK with myself. This has made me to be very close to my kids who appreciates me every other day!!!! Thanks Kim and Mike!!!
Growing up , I have always felt the less loved ...
And growing up as an illegitimate child and first , it became worse .
One moment I will never forget is when ... I had my phone while I had his charger as he was at school ...so he goes to village and leaves his charger with Me in Kampala ....so thieves broke into my house and robbed me including my brothers charger ofcourse...fast forward , I call my mum early morning to lament how I was robbed ( using a neighbor's phone apparently) , after listening to the story of how I was robbed...she ddnt even say sorry or anything ...she asks me " has your brothers charger been stolen too?" Guys like for crying out loud..not even feeling sorry about my life , my lost property ...a charger 😆 I have never healed 🤣🤣🤣
But regardless we move .
Otherwise thanks for the show ladies and thanks for looking mwaaaaaaa💯💕...all of you look fabulous
Eh!!! Charger 🤣🤣🤣🤣 sorry dear
Aaaaaawwww Brenda. Hugs. P
As a middle child, I teared after listening to Nalule’s story. It’s like you are never good enough, never celebrated ehhh!!! Your achievements are obvious.
Naye Nga ne cantankerous wetuli😂😂😂😂
You must be celebrated. Hehe! P
Very interesting topic.
The outfits are on point.❤
We certainly need an episode on sibling rivalry - does it follow us into adulthood???
Mwetademu time and moni❤😅. You guys look beautiful. Great discussion. We are 6 children and I realise the 1st 3 we are so different from the other 3. We are more responsible
And what is your position? P
I just wanted to acknowledge Manuela dressed in color. She looks pretty in Pink.
As one of the middle children of 8 though an acting last born for 7 years and second last born for more 7, I never felt any pressure, and as we got more siblings, I think I loved being forgotten so that I could go my own way, so the attention would be else where and I never cared.
Oh Joan...My sister Yolisa shared this advantage with me. The episode was however too long so it wasn't featured here. P
Am learning Alot today frm ma ladiea n ama tell u I will not fail as a mother wen the Right Tym comes..it will not happen....parents please, let's all learn today..treat children equaly, n don't ever teach children to go against another parent regardless of any constraints please..mu tusasire bamikwano😥❤️🙏🏼
We appreciate you for learning ❤. P
Pumla thank you for sharing. I always felt bad about being middle kids. I feel celebrated now. Thank you guys
Naye Pumla,i thought you're the genius but Nalule ampiseko,you guys are blessed
Hahahaaaa! Me a genius???? Not at all but I receive the blessings. P
Thanks the GOATS for the show. Naye some of us are still recovering from PTSD of being the first born, it even "worser" when the parents were just having fun [ as in young] n then u decide to interupt. You become an experiment of sorts.
Bambi first borns. You really suffer. Come for a hug. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 nga neyanziza. We are heroes..🤣
Banange Golden Tulip should be the home for Bump Love. The set looks extremely dope.
Thank you Diana
Amazing set-up for the show. Great conversation!!
Our position in our family among siblings also has a huge impact in our marriages banange. If you're a 1st born woman married to a last born man, your dynamic will be different from a middle child married to a middle child....etc
Wooow!!!! This was such a profound episode. As a middle child, i celebrate you Nalule~~~ Alot to learn from there on how to raise children. What has stood out for me is to raise children with an equal share of responsibilities but treat them according to their personalities!!! This episode is one for the books, loving your conversations lately and the lengthy discussion!!
Ladies y'all look FABULOUS!!!
I agree that this was the biggest take away. P
As a middle child,5th born out of 7. My father loved me and I could feel it, we used to talk and joke but my mom on the other hand never loved me, not even cared a bit about me, which have made me strong and not care to be honest.
Hi Doris. Why do you think your mom didn't love you? That's such a strong statement to make. P
The picture on the thumbnail looks dope i thought pumla is a twin🤣🤣🤣🤣
Where should i begin This conversation, these outfits, makeup and jewerly🔥🔥🔥!!!! Welcome back Pumla🥰🥰
WOW......just a few minutes in and I can relate with Nalule, middle child syndrome. Nice work ladies. This is by far one of my favorite episodes.
This show is really based on honesty. Am staying here.. Amazing
And elder siblings should stop telling us lastborns to wash dishes please. Suffering is not for us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. DEAD. Okay diya. P
Being the only girl and the last born for almost 18 years, my parents were so protective of me, my movements and visits to place and people were restricted to only few places and this with alot other things like being the priority at home in almost everything i believe played a big part into who I am today.
Parents are so protective of their daughters. But excuse me - another child came 18yrs after you? P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 yes and this explains why got complications while giving birth but with time, Alhamdhulillah she recovered well.
@@ugandankitchen. Oh! Alhamdulillah 🙏🏾. P
I honestly want to appreciate you ladies for Sharing your hearts and realities. You're amazing!
Great stuff always Angie is that big sis my experience I was the head girl my brother still believes I mother too much till now i still believe his still that child hes never outgrown being the lastborn sadly dont know if he will ever change 30yrs later
My God!!! Rachel Mwiine’s hairdo😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I'm feeling it too😜. Thank you❤
Ladies, you look amazing.
Nalule we celebrate you& delight in this success.
I didn't want this to end 😂😂 I love you ladies good to see you all.
Middle children are always remembered at last
Somebody please tell me what brand of lipstick Angie is wearing because wow...
Thank you Racheal for always stirring the topic on course. You usually answer the topics.Manuella reminded me of me.Rossette turned out like our second born.Angie too.😂😂😂
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Let me just say, I love love love your hair Racheal. You all look so so nice.
This topic came just on time. My middle child told my first child that I never listen to her, so she is always talking to her toys. So I am trying to reach out to her more
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I'm so happy that this episode is allowing us to be better with our children. Thanks Caroline ❤. P
I am a middle child. I never got anything new. Things were always passed down to me when old or broken. 😂. So I learnt how to fix things. At my home I am a plumber, mechanic,electrician you name it, I can fix it. When I was 8 months pregnant I climbed on a chair to fix a bulb and my DH wasn’t amused. He said I make him feel inadequate sometimes when I fix things. Unfortunately it’s just my nature to do such things.
This is so hilarious
I am an only child brought up by a single mom because my dad passed away when I was a baby. My mom was very conscious that I have no siblings so she brought me up to be very independent and responsible. Yes she spoilt me but would also ensure that I know how to survive in the world without her. Her passing 6 years ago broke me but I am appreciative of how she brought me up.
Sending hugs your way 🫂
@@penelopeanyanzire7301 thank you 🙏
Oh Brenda, it is well ❤
Oh Brenda. Your comment has stung a little because it has hit close to home. Your mom seems like she raised you the way I am raising my only child Teja. I wish I could speak to you on what worked and what you think could have been done better. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 yes of course I would love to share with you how I was brought up. You can let me know how best to contact you.
These ladies look awesome ❤Rosette, Rachel , Pumla, Manuela and sweet Angie you all look lovely ❤
Good to see Angie even before we start. I love her demeanor beautiful intro... Now let me go back and listen.
Hahahaaa! Kwegamba you commented after the beautiful intro 😅. P
The gals look so cool this new year! something new must be happening in your lives gals.
Very good topic and comes at the right time, it's very easy to let it pass as a parent bse you've done so much with the first ones. May God give us grace.
Pumla u look amazing.......you look so smart. I celebrate your Sister Nalule ......and thanks for being open and acknowledging the lack of recognition of her achievement in the past. Pumla I just love you from a far...love from a sister🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Oh! Thank you Shanice. My sister Yolisa deserves all her flowers. She truly is an amazing woman! P
Me am the first and last born the only mum's daughter for the last 25years , loved by mum because she is all I have , dad abardoned us the very day I was born buh we thank God he is still alive and God has been greatful for mum to raise me, pay fees upto College en now working,praying to make her the best mum ever.
Bless you and your mom Allen. P
Awesome beautiful conversations Ladies, I relate much with Rosette' experience. Y'all look elegant. 🤗
I have a feeling Pumla will get pregnant and it will shock her with all the science there is and the confidence she has ...she might and is likely to get a miracle baby...nze kave wano.......
Hahaahaaa! The problem you forget that I am pro-choice. So that same science can terminate pregnancies too. Era bambi vawo wano please! 😅 P
Angie dammmmmn you look so rejuvenated n very young. Wherever uv been plz take us along next time
I also told her
Ladies lets discuss about the signs of having a baby girl or boy while pregnant it will be an interesting topic of discussion I assure you..kindly please please ❤❤
I agree. Let's note it down. Thanks. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668thank you,thank you I can't wait🎉🎉🎉
You ladies make this journey beautiful. Thank you.
I have to become intentional about the middle child!
Hey ladies you look absolutely stunning Angie that green looks amazing on you ,Manuel you look amazing too with that pink top and the pony,pumla mukwano the dress is gorgeous,racheal that lipstick I love me some and rosette that outfits looks great on you! I love the topic as a second last born Bambi attention was little
Oh Dorah! Thanks a lot for the all round compliments ❤. P
Can't wait to hear my children share...
This has been soo sweet😊 and I must say; you guys’ looks have been super eye-catching❤ keep it up
Pumlaz submission btn minute 53 and 56 is 100% true and brilliant analysis...I have 3 sons and I can relate to what she has said 100%. I seem to be showing more love now to my first born much as I would not publicly admit coz I had him while young and the circumstances then were limiting factors. Love u bump love
Thank you Rose for sharing. P
😅 u people nze nalaba ebizibu..am the Second Born out of 5kids ,but both my parents treated me differently..my father loved the first born the most!..nga he could buy new shoes for her thn he gives me what she's been putting on (old)😢..ate mom loved us equally but sometimes she could give me much work mbu to keep me busy 😏..Anti nga EDALU lyali linji 😂..nga akugamba jangu oyoze ebintu yet it's not yo Day to wash!..Awo nokaaba, noyomba nakubusa obade ogenda kolachi?!..nga school fees tata asoka sasulila first born choka nga i was clever nga ye ali dull naye nga tata ebyo tonyumya😅..but guess what?!...AM THE G O A T💪..naye era me and my father tetuli close bulyomu akola bibye..now i have one kid naye since have been thr before..am super ready to handle thm equally ,give them equal chances
2nd born children are more rebellious. Eddalu linji. LOL. Naye kasita you are the GOAT. Well done! P
Goodness yall are glowing not sure if it's new production equipment wow wow the makeup!!!! Wardrobe!! Pumla stand up need see more of that banger dress
Hahhaaaaa! Thank you Elizabeth. P
Best ov the best laughed soooo hard loved all ur stories Pumla’s having a girl n her mum curse was so hilarious n Rossette’s lugezigezi daughter left me rolling on the floor mbu she would jump out of her bed to give orders even wen she’s dozing 😂😂😂😂😂
Mwana gwee😂.. Olemwa
I also apologize to my bro for taking by beating as well 🤣😂😂
Hehe! We are many 😅.
Iam a first born and now I confirm all first borns are reserved.
By far my best. Very educative especially for children who grew up in polygamous families where the children compete for attention or others become withdrawn. Thank you.
We need to have a full conversation on polygamous raising. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I look forward to that. Thank you.
Extremely interactive. well done ladies..You did give us a lot to ponder and reflect
Thank you ladies, important discussion, thank you for tackling it❤
I missed you ladies so much, it feels like it's been a while since I saw all of you together... you have no idea how much I enjoy your show. Much love from Namibia ❤
Aaaawwww much love right back at you Victoria. P
Not Angie matching her lipstick with her glasses patiently waiting for the lipstick shade
Great discussion ladies!!!
I had to write another comment because thank you for this episode BUT thank you for really putting effort into how you show up; absolutely gorgeous!!!! Like you make me not want to show up shabby for sure.
It's a Ugandan thing😂
Last born.
I'm basically Rachel's little brother
I love you Pumla 😂😂😂 You are such a vibe.
Me as a firstborn in my mother's wonb i feel responsibilities are still following since childhood.
I was always blamed for my siblings mistakes infact i would get serious canes.
I used to be served last because am old i can wait.
Even buying clothes would be not easy because they have to cover the young ones first.
I was a person who couldn't left home because am old.
I would pay for my mistakes and my four siblings. 😢
But right now my parents shows that they love me so much but it's hard for me to believe.
I remember 2019 i was in senior three and my young sister was in s1 but she became my spy at school. She could borrow teacher's phones and calls mum lie and tell her what goes through my life by the time i call for pocket money or school fees i find when she is already annoyed of me😢😢😢.
I would even end the term without completing school fees due to my sister that never loved me for the reasons that i don't know.
I remember one time she mis placed her plate she cried for hours and the H M decided to call mum when she reached explained what happened and teachers did the same but MY OWN MOTHER BEAT ME FOR A FULL HOUR.
everyone around tried to explain and defend me but she didn't listen😏😏😏. The woman gave me 😢😢😢😢😢.
Latet asked her if she was my mother 😅 and she got more angry with me that was another hour on me.
Remember she doesn't give me any coin
When she left i ran from school i went to the main road such that cars should knock me and i die but it didn't happen.
It's where i meant a guy who looked to caring and he became a friend to me ended up dating at the end of the day i got pregnant because i knew nothingabout sex.
He broke my virginity and got me pregnant on the same day.
He planned with his friends and helped me to abort 😢 i was in senior two.
He kept providing me with everything like school materials andup keep until they changed me school.
And there it was senior four.
Thet didn't give registration fee and school fees for the whole year . Until it was August and i was sent home for School fees of two terms and my parents couldn't give me i meant another guy who promised me a job and i decided to go without telling anyone .
But getting me a job again i had to his girlfriend and we slept together and i got pregnant again but i never knew so i started working after a month i got my 400k i went back to mbarara coz i was working in Kampala.
I bought one bread and 1kg of sugar i went home abd they welcomed me well later i went for s4 third term but i was pregnant.
I managed to study but unfortunately we didn't do exams because the director ate the money and promised us to study again for free same class
Next year 2020😢.
But i was still demanded school fees for last year.
So i reportex back to school but i felt different because of the pregnant 😢.
I ran from school and called the responsible person he welcomed me in Busia it's where i gave birth to my boy
In 2021 i got a chance and came to Saudi Arabia and started working.
But in that period i never communicated to any one home.
After a few monthd i called them we talked . Up to now. BUT UP TO NOW I HAVE NEVER TOLD THEM ABOUT MY BABY HE IS MAKING 3YEARS IN APRIL 😂😂.
I feel like i should never tell anyone including my mother 😅😅
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Up to now i feel am not loved as other siblings 😢😢 that why i prefer strangers than my family.
They talked to me with a reason .
My dad wants me to give him everytime he can't appreciate 😢😢😢 .
I regret being a first born in that family😮😢😢
@bump love😢😢
Oh Shallot love. What a story! So much happened but - You are loved. Believe it. The fact that you are here to pen down your situation so others might relate with it says that you were meant to be here to speak up. Lots of hugs honey. P
Oooh Shallot, I send you cyber hugs, as a first born I have been where you are, parent toxicity is real I wish @Bumblove speaks about it. But I chose my self, selflove and selfawarness the trauma from parentification is real and it takes long to heal because the perpetrators don't accept and the victims can't believe they faced it all from the people who are supposed to protect them. As a mother now I am very conscious about my action and how I treat both my children. Through them and doing better as a mother, I am healing.
Shallot you still have the trauma, you need to heal and have peace.
Lots of love J
😭i'm sending love ,hugs and healing dear ❤
@@nassakajoweria8949 i settled my mind dear and am careful about my discussions
I am the first born and my husband is the last born.He is sensitive but very responsible and in his family it's as if he is the first born and God has been so good to him.
It is actually recommended that two people of same birth order shouldn't marry each other 😂. Era well done! P
Naye Pumla how do you all look like....yall are melanin popping..You are so beautiful and intelligent
Thank you Stella. We truly all look like a combination of our parents. P
Nga your all glowing on this episode. Waooh
I am a second last born in a line of 8 and I so can relate to Angie… from a sickly childhood, to having an achieving last born to seeking attention…lol!
thank you guys for this show. i have learnt a lot and now some things are making sense about how we grew up and how am even treating my own children.
Thanks so much ladies, you all look great.
Angie your dress is so pretty and the color ♥
Growing up and being the first born girl, I was always beaten more .I really hated being the first girl because my parents thought I had to be examplory to my younger sister. it however shaped me in a way. Thanks to my parents.
Did it shape you or did it break you?
I am a mother of two. My first born is a boy and my second is a girl. With a spacing of one year and 11mths. Close to two since they are born in the same month but one is early may and the other late may.
You pple, having such a combination is hard to control. At mine, the girl is high high while the boy is calm and collected, caring for the sturbon sister who doesn't really give much of a damn as long as she is happy. The boy is more sensitive and caring. While the girl is hmmm... However, they all are active in chores despite the age. Valeria is making two on 6th March. While Anthony is making 4 on 30th May. Chores are not so much big but you see both of them involving themselves... Washing utensils, Valeria wants to rinse. Making breakfast, Anthony wants to make ngano for chapati... Washing clothes, they want to get involved...
Though, their dad is more intetional with the boy ... And he feels the girl is covering him up. Anthony had delay in speech coz he begun speaking kinda clearly this year when he went to school. Val on the other hand is very fast coz she is already communicating.
so, generally, the girl seems more active. Though with responsibility, the boy is. 👍. But they are still growing... we shall see coz I can't judge Valeria's responsibility for now.
Oh, Val is also sensitive and caring but not as gentle as Anthony 😃... coz when she gets something while the brother is away, she keeps a portion for him ... She says sorry when she isn't reminded... though she loves being told sorry too. So,..
Let me watch the space.😃
Let's watch this space indeed. Oh how they grow! P
This episode was it's own version of catharsis for the childhood I experienced and really allowed me extend some grace to my parents.
Thanks ladies 😊
This had to be a conversation. I loved it
Am an only child,I was rarely a firstborn,am the lastborn cheerfully loved
What an episode 🙇🏿♀️🙇🏿♀️ Thank you so much🙏🙏
Rosette that hairstyle looks fabulous on you
Today muwomye nyoo🥰🥰🥰very smart makeup wowowoowo
Yah middle children for sure we always have to struggle to prove ourselves to our parents
Am a middle child and I follow boys who did so well in school life was always about them and I felt like an underdog and my grades were not so good compared to theirs but I just kept trying and pushing through until I made it. My parents loved me but was never the focus. I don't even rem anyone asking me what I wanted to be in future but with my brothers it was clear .I wasn't an easy teenager so I acted out n got the attention I needed 😮
Aaaaaaaaawwww hugs to you Shanice. What did you always want to nbe when you grew up? P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 I wanted to be a lawyer or a doctor but am none of those . Now that am grown up & discovered who Iam I wdnt be happy as a doctor perhaps a lawyer but what I do now is so much fulfilling and kinda involves advocating for the least vulnerable and that's similar to the reason I wanted to be a lawyer.
Oh how I relate with Yolisa! 😞 I am trying to reparent myself and it is quite a painful and tough journey!
Hugs Pauline. P
Oh my Pumla... Nalule... You now look so alike I thought it was Tina. Well done Nalule. I'm not sure I met her but Brenda used to talk about her a lot. Well done Nalule.
Haha! Yes...we have grown to look much more alike as we've grown older. P
You`ll looking good!! change of senary has made this show appear beautiful! That`s basically my comment for today!!!
Hehe! We appreciate your comment for today. P
Thank you for this episode ladies.
ION....I'll soon be raiding your closets for those beautiful shoes 😊😊❤❤
Ladies i soooooo loved this ❤
As usual , I am learning , and taking notes 😍😍😍
Great show ladies. You all look great.... Been blessed. Love you all❤❤
Cognisant 😂😂😂 like the way Manuela