Don't do it too often, not healthy for your airways and brain to sniff anything with solvent chemicals in it. I cannot get rid my body of toxins fast due to a genetic variant, so I really get woozy just by using Sharpies.
@@brianna6134 Oops I didnt know that you consider a brain dead person as legally dead but yeah you're right. That day must have ruined her permanently 😟
@@aidanschram9652 Well, they’re technically not. Someone who is brain dead is usually connected to life support, which is what keeps them alive. Once they pull the plug though, they’re gone. But yeah, couldn’t imagine experiencing that.
Same thing happened to me and same reason. I was dusting, not vacuuming though. Thank gawd #1 I was at home and #2 I was wearing sweat pants with elastic around the ankles. Was 20+ years ago and haven’t trusted a fart since.
My secret is that 2 months ago I almost fainted in public, but instead of feeling anxious or scared I was happy because random people were stopping to make sure I was okay and were taking care of me. I felt loved and cared for and I kind of want it to happen again so people will finally care about me, even if it's just for a few minutes
I have fainted twice.. once when I was in kindergarten and again when I was 12 years old . Ngl I actually liked the love and care I received. I would love to faint again lol 🤣
Have a look at Münchhausen syndrome and realise there are healthier ways of getting attention and affection than through faking illness. Trust me, it can become pathological.
@@classicambo9781 oh yes of course, even if I felt good in that moment, I'd never actually hurt myself because I know it's wrong and it would only make things worse for me and for others too
I read this right after a Sistine Chapel comment and thought you had written, "I almost farted in public," and was wondering why people stopped to see if you were okay. I'm glad you were, though.
the girl who’s bf died. that broke me. “trying to be a functional member of society” whoever that is please give yourself more credit. you are doing fantastic.
Advice to the guy who is leading on two people: Just don’t choose anyone from them, start a new relationship with a whole different person because if you really loved one of them you wouldn’t have another choice Edit:spelling
@@Nyanchama_ I think being a cheater isn't really a pre-req for a poly relationship. He obviously has character flaw. To lead two people on for so long and not feel any remorse is problematic.
@@marcusscottbalahari7198 Agreed, and blaming it on their orientation (bi) was kinda shitty, IMO. It plays into the stereotype that bisexual people are unfaithful by default, which perpetuates its stigma.
I’m so glad someone mentioned this!! Giving yourself a tool to help you meet a goal, even if that goal is weight loss, don’t ever feel ashamed. Surgery is not as easy or a light decision. No matter what, taking health into their own hands is a beautiful thing that should be celebrated no matter if they needed a little help.
Agreed, as soon as he said that I thought "Ummmm....bisexual is NOT synonymous with being an unfaithful liar". Really curious to know if he came clean with the people he was leading on.
@@gianamani8 poly doesn't imply u can cheat tho. his partner's should know if he's open to dating more than one person but he said that he's not seeing anyone else to them.
Just turned 24 and same. No regrets about it though. Some people are totally happy being single, or at least waiting until they actually fall in love, instead of getting involved with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship to fit in. So no pressure!
Watching these videos about people and their secrets reminds me that we are not perfect and we fuck up as humans but it's okay because we grow and mature and continue to grow since life is a continuous journey.
@@GS-st9ns No , It's so clear that you never read nor the bible nor the Quran . Adam and Eve weren't perfect at all . They sinned by placing their desires above what God had told them and through this act sin entered the world. SO plssss don't say things unless you're sure .
I guess I will share: My mother abusive towards me both physically, sexually, and emotionally. I am at the age I want to confront her about the abuse she did towards me. However, she is getting older in age and her memory is on the decline. Not sure what I am supposed to do? Also she treats my children better than she ever did my sister and I. For the life of me I don't understand why someone who worked in the field of Social Work (who protected children against their abusers) was abusing her own children. I never knew it was sexual abuse until I moved out of her and upon reflection of my childhood I recalled some unpleasant memories (that play on repeat in my mind to this day) that made me realize the way I grew up was NOT normal.
@@tess1350 Nope, I don't know if I ever will? The memories are slowly fading but I am just confused as to why someone would think it's okay to abuse their adoptive child? At time I wish I remained in my birth country.
@@florjean965 yeah some parents abuse their OWN biological children. You're not going to gain anything from confronting her I guess. It's better to seek a therapist to talk out all the memories so they slowly fade out. It will get better a day at a time x
@@annaheya2109 Yes, that is true. Unfortunately, I am not in position to afford trauma counseling. I have sought out therapy on a intermittent basis. However, I am at the point of wanting to do prolonged therapy.
I've been commenting that on all her videos for weeks, still no response. I hope she sees your comment and answers or someone else who may know what happened. They were my favorite and I have gone back to them multiple times when I was feeling down, I would really like for them to be back 😞
Yeah! I miss those videos! That’s why I started watching. I do enjoy some of the more serious question videos but please bring back the Strangers call their crush!
@@David-kn1hf man idk but your comments were unnecessary asf. This guy is appreciating a human being for showing strength and courage. You are the one who should calm down. Please log off and do something better with your life.
@@David-kn1hf are you kidding ? Abusive relationships can be extremely hard to go through my guy. Loving someone so much that you can't leave them even though they abuse you can be devastating to the psyche If you can't comprehend that, it shows a lack of empathy so i dunno why you would watch this video in the first place
@@David-kn1hf um. Maybe you don't know any better but this is actually not how abusive relationships work. Of course the factors vary from one relationship to another but most of the time it feels like you can't escape or like everything is your fault because your partner is manipulating you into thinking so. She spoke up about what happened and cleary states that she still suffers the consequences to this day. I don't think you meant to be rude with your comment. But when someone speaks up you should listen before disbelieving their troubles.
25 years old and never been kissed? Perfect! Save it for someone you really care for who deserves you! Being a virgin is not shameful - it might well be about abstaining from being just another consumer of the hyper-sexual pop-culture of the West today.
Yeah, I’m the same way, I don’t like hugs and even get uncomfortable with someone’s arm around me. The only time I give hugs is if I have a deep emotional connection with that person (like when my best friend moved away). I’m not really sure why I don’t like to be touched, I’ve never been abused or anything, I guess I’ve always kinda been that way.
Beatrice Alina Dobre : i’m already claustrophobic, touch makes me feel trapped and reminds me of abuse i suffered in the past. It freezes me up and hurts me lol. But thats just my personal reason. Its weird though because even though i hate touch, i wanna be comforted and loved. Idk its weird.
@@beatricedbr just in case the original commenter doesn’t answer you, the main reasons for that are because of sexually abused/molestation history, claustrophobia, germaphobic, asocial or social anxiety, and psychopathic.
just imagine being one of these peoples friends. like just clicking on one of these videos and finding something crazy out about one of your close friends. that would be crazy
None of it is too crazy though. I think of secrets like something other people would not be able to understand and would to some extent change their image of you. Most of these are just human situations.
I totally resonated with the girl who was in an abusive and toxic relationship. Girl it get better trust me. Of course there are days where you still sometimes stings, but they start disappearing. You learn to love yourself even more than before and you are going to meet incredible people. Just keep pushing, you will get there with time.
My secret is, when I was 3 I went for a tour of elvis's mansion with my family. Somehow I got a red crayon and drew on his white steps. We left immediately
2:22 Well! Nobody is talking about this girl so I will! I was particularly touched by this story because I have a friend who has the same thing. It was a little painful for me at first because I thought I wasn't close enough to him but then he told me all this. It's amazing how tremendous effect our parents can have on us!
I just wanted to share this , I'm in the emerging adulthood and I constantly face this problem , my parents love me but they're abusive to each other . They are constantly fighting and I'm a single child , I feel very insecure about sharing my problems with them . If I try to explain my mom about her behaviour she'll yell at me ! I can't even write this without crying and my hands are trembling . The sole purpose of writing this text is to vent my emotions. I had a traumatic adolescence and I fear that will I also become a same person as them when I'm a parent ?! I can't tell anyone what I'm feeling right now .I can't even believe that I thought to harm myself . Why parents don't understand that by being abusive to each other they're only punishing their children ?
Everyone goes threw hell but it gets better. I was sexually abused when I was little by my step grandpa, my dad spoiled me the most until my parents got a divorce when I was in middle school he pretty much ghosted us, my brothers especially when I was growing up were ass holes and made fun of me because I was in special ed, mind you other kids making fun of me, shaved my head because my lice wouldn't go away then everyone called me a boy, my ex I was with cheated on me constantly and gave me an STD, my aunt died last year. And plenty more life sucks but their are some good parts. My fiance and myself are getting married this year, he is the most amazing person that I cant believe is mine.
My mother left us when I was about to go to the high school. My mom and dad, they were constantly fighting as your parents do. I stayed at the dorm next to my school during this tough times, always thought about my little siblings. My dad have little& no income at that time. I suffered a lot. Please dont be sad. I have been thought more than those things. I also thought about harm myself. But this is what I tried to say: please dont let them make you sad. I know it's so hard. But just dont. Even your parent are decides to divorce or smt, this is not end of the world. Find the thing that you are going to live for. (Sorry for grammar mistakes btw. I am not native)
"People always tell me they're super proud of me and I am super strong after everything I have been through and I honestly really hate that ...." couldn't 👏 agree👏 more! 👏.
My secret is, i have really, r e a l l y hard time with my mental health right now. But i seem to be fine on the outside.. i do have people who i can talk to, i also go to therapy, but right now i feel like anxiety is much stickier than it was some time ago. And it is absolutely exhausting. Sending love to everyone who struggles.💗
@Stella Aster I know.. you are right. I just hope it was as simple as it is to say that. But defenitely working on that "those are my thoughts and feelings, not my reality" -way of thinking (kinda telling myself that i'm doing much better than i t h i n k i am) etc. Sometimes it is easier, sometimes harder. But i have defenitely made progress.. it just takes time. Mental health is a complicated thing. Thank you for your words!
I think for me since I’m class of 2020 “graduate” graduation is a touchy subject I get really sad whenever it comes up.Or whenever I think about it or how all of class of 2020 got to graduate I end up screaming about it and crying and I live right by a high school so I had to hear class of 2021 graduate and see them with their caps and gowns on .I’m happy for them and everything don’t get me wrong but it just hurts seeing what could’ve been thank you for reading if you read all the way through.
My secret - I was seconds from hanging myself... I got a phone call, answered and my mom told me she randomly was going to come visit me at college and would be there in 6 hours. (She lived 7 hours away and the phone call was at midnight).
I hope you decide to stay, Sean… Two of my friends have lost their college age sons to suicide. Seeing their pain is heartbreaking. Please, reach out for help. I’ve been suicidal myself, and even tho it’s hard to see outside the vortex of doom when you are choosing to leave, but remind yourself, it ALWAYS passes-that feeling of hopelessness. Send those thoughts away and know that you are strong enough to beat depression. I’m 55 now and I’m glad I stayed. Much love, dear one. I wish you great happiness and success.
Thoraya, I have a suggestion. :D I don't know if you have done it, but why not to ask students to share their secrets? People from school, college or high school? I think it could be pretty interesting. Love your videos ❤️
You can't let him win. You have to fight like hell for your happiness, trust me it's worth it I knew my ex was the person I didn't want to have kids with so I'm good on that part but he treated me like shit for the majority of almost 12 years. But once I let him go I was free, I was already getting over him the last 2years I was with him so exactly 6 months to the day meet my fiance. ❣
I came out of an abusive relationship over a year ago I also have a child with him. It's hard but you can be happy these times are hard I'm sure but there will be a day that you'll feel that happiness I promise.
To the girl who hates being touched, same here. My parents always told me to stay away from people and don't let adults go near me. The impact that the covid lockdown had and not being able to see my friends, I realise now how important touch is. Especially from a loved one. And It's something I want to try doing more this year.
My secret is that i have felt socially anxious for the past one year and still do and no one knows not even my family knows. I kinda wanna tell somebody but I'm scared that they will think differently about me or call me crazy.
My secret is that I don't have self esteem, confidence, or hope. I am depressed and want to be gone, but I act happy because I may not care about me, but I care about the people around me
I just want to give some of these people the biggest hugs!! I’ve been through some really hard times and abuse.. I just want to be there for others who are struggling. No one should ever feel alone..,it’s the worst feeling. 💜
1:27 disliking your parents, I had moments like that, almost as if they're your enemy, but in the end, deep down I feel really bad about it, like this is my family no matter what.
this was SUCH a good episode and I am sending so much love and good vibes to the girl who was in the abusive relationship she is absolutely beautiful and I hope she can heal!!!
Thoraya, honestly thank you for your content because I’ve been able to relate to so many people in some of your videos and it helps me feel less alone:)
Kudos to Thoraya for picking up that "I feel like a passive participant in my own life,” is a common trauma response and not to be ashamed about. She compassionately asked the right follow-up, namely- what (abuse/ptsd/cptsd) caused flight to kick in Vagal work is a very quick way to safely move through unprocessed “stuff,” the shame that it often bears with, and to find you energy and will again good luck
I almost broke down in tears with the girl whose boyfriend was murdered because I know what it is like to have someone I love die. I lost my mom this past December to sudden heart attack and I am still grappling with it almost 6 months later
The one that caught me off guard was the that said she was in a toxic relationship and now she away from that and learning to love herself. I feel this is important my heart goes out to her.
My first gf broke up with me 4 months ago, saying she needed time. The last girl who said she needed time ghosted me. I got super sick the following week and ended up bothering her cause I was so confused and in the end drove her away I feel like. Like I said it’s been 4 months and I can’t forgive myself
You have nothing to feel bad about those women never cared about you best you forget and never speak to them again and just move on. They did you a favour. keep looking and you'll find someone else
You interviewed me in California, and I told you that the most painful thing I was told was how babies where made, this was at least 1 year ago, and I was wondering if you still have the footage.
@@Zayloxithe i actually researched it a little and i think its the jessie simpson story . Absolutely horrific . He needs ongoing hospital care for the rest of his life. On facebook there is a go fund me for him Its called jessie simpson summer fundrasier. if you would like to donate . My heart breaks for him.
First time in San Diego this week! Im visiting a childhood friend, who goes to SD state. I am from Santa Barbara, valley area, but I moved away during high school. I thought of you during this visit. I visited Balboa Park on Sunday, and all I could think of was running into my favorite TH-camr. I loved San Diego and the park. I will return for another trip back in July. I hope to meet you someday! You are a special human 🤍 and it would have been so wonderful to meet you. I thoroughly enjoyed the Museum of Us.
I can relate to the young lady that doesn't like being touched...the silver lining of COVID for me. But, for a different reason. My whole family has never been 'touchy', so I never had hugs or any physical contact growing up. I come close to a panic attack when someone tries to touch me. With my husband it's different...but it took a while. And, my son gets lots and lots of hugs and kisses. I don't want him to be like me. And, I can always tell if actors and actresses like each other. The ones that do, will hug someone with their hands fully open, those that don't, have a closed fist...just like I hug. Pat attention, you'll see what I mean.
Would it be possible to say exactly when a secret can be a trigger or a very sensitive topics ? I love these videos, but since having PTSD, I am to scared to watch the video and to fall on something that's going to make me have a crisis. So I just won't watch it eventhough I'd love to
My heart longsssssss to go hug these people and tell them they are strong enough and capable and important and loved and beautiful. Everyone has their own story, be a good person, love your neighbor, listen to them and tell people you appreciate them. Make a positive difference in the world
To the woman who lost her best friend to a senseless act of violence please forgive yourself for this was not of your doing..you did not ask for this.Move forward with a loving heart for your friend who is longer here..he would want you to be free of any heavy burdens ...you are blessed...truly blessed.
To the guy who’s mom is an immigrant. I know how you feel, my dad is an immigrant and we have these troubles too. He’s been fired from several jobs because of it and it’s been cause if some troubles recently. Hope your mom gets to stay.
My secret is… that I feel trapped, because everyday I try my best to be what my parents want me to be, and I feel like the second I’m going to truly be myself, I might disappoint them. They’re truly amazing people- but sometimes, it’s hard to just keep smiling. Sometimes, smiling feels more like a burden than an option, to be honest. And I feel horrible because I messed up a couple months ago- I just got mixed up and I explained everything and I cried in front of one of my friends. I didn’t know her that well- we’re besties now though, and while she may be a bit mean sometimes(in a teasing way) and sometimes she wants to end it all(life wise), I will always be there for her, because that one moment of weakness- she was the only person in the world who saw me like that, and she accepted me- she kept my secret- she doesn’t treat me any different, and she looks up to me- and it makes me feel strange. I feel like I might like her, and it makes me feel even worse about myself- what would mom and dad say? Would they approve of the relationship? Are they fine with my sexuality(I don’t know my sexuality yet tbh, but I know for a fact I’m not straight-)? And are they fine with me talking to others about my problems? What about my siblings- will they see me differently? Would they still love me as their oldest sibling, as their big sister? Or will they just decide I’m not worth the time? What about people at school- my relatives- friends- heck, even strangers. I feel like if I stray off my parents ideal path for just one second, I’ll be fed to a pack of wolves- they might not realize the pressure they put on me, because I remember my younger brother arguing with my mom, and while it didn’t get heated, he pointed out a lot of things that he thought she did was wrong, one of them being putting all this pressure on me. My parents refused they did such things, but then all of my siblings started pointing out all this stuff they did differently with me, and I remember my mom getting really shocked and walking out of her room. My dad got quiet and left the room too- but surely it wasn’t that bad right? And then I think about the future- alot, too much. I think of every little detail that could happen from one of my actions. I think of my siblings future alot too- as their oldest sibling, I constantly wonder, what can I do to form a better path for my siblings? And then I think, hey, maybe that’s why I’m always worrying, I take up every expectation from my parents so my siblings can do what they want- and I hate that about myself, because I’m living this life where I can never be myself, so I lock it all in a cage, and throw it away. I want to make my parents, my friends, my relatives, and even my neighbors and others proud of me, and whenever I ‘accomplish’ and receive praise, I just don’t feel worth it, because how can someone be proud of someone whose never been proud of themselves? Most people don’t know me- the me that plays video games, the me that’s a total weeb, the me who’s that therapy friend that needs the most therapy- most importantly, they don’t know the me that isn’t perfect. They always see me as the perfect girl whose always aceing her classes, finishing high school and college early, the me that’s always smiling, they always see me so positive that others envy me for it, they all think I’m living the perfect life, and I am- and I don’t deserve it at all. Even snide comment I make in my head, every confident lie I’ve ever told. I’m no better than a spoiled brat, I’m just very good at hiding it. And I feel like that I just cause to much stress- when people leave me, was it my fault? It always is, right? Whenever my parents argue, that’s my fault, right? I must’ve messed up huh???? And then there’s so much more that I would love to say- love to talk about, express about, but this comment is getting too long and it’s more of a vent. Thanks for staying till the end guys. In the end, I feel like the problem is one of multiple things: I care to much about what others think, Im too sensitive, I cherish others more than myself, and that Im unable to come to terms with the fact that not everything revolves around my parents. Once again, thanks for reading. Also- is anyone else feeling the same? I need to know that Im not the only outsider on this planet lol
Don't think like that. You know, every parent should be there to take care of their children and guide them properly at the beginning of their life . Being as perfect as possible is important in life but do you know what kind of people live out there, all their actions and way in which they perceive life... Your parent put way too much pressure on you, they are just doing the wrong thing. They are making a mistake. You know, adults can do that too. Nonetheless, you have to continue with your work, work does make a change... Take it easy with your sexuality, it's just your thing, your body, your " property", it's not the thing of your parents...If you are not ready to say it confidently, let some more time pass. . And it's never your fault, all that people around you are already proud of you, you are doing great, even if your feelings are 'messed up', I feel like that very often. You know, everyone does, just people don't talk about it, it can be scary, no? You have to accept these feelings in life too. You can work on yourself secretly if nothing else to make yourself stronger, and as frivoluos as this might sound right now, you have to be patient more, much more. I don't know how old you are but changing things takes time. You are not brat, you are hardworking, and overloaded with worries. That's fine too. I'm sure you are strong to continue your road, many things will change, and waiting is hard indeed ... I don't know does this make sense to you? I would like to know...
Stranger, you may not know how much you just made my day. Thanks for the advice- and yeah, it does make a lot of sense. I’m glad I’m not the only one out there that feels like this, but I also wish no one else to feel the way I do. I hope your doing well wherever you are, and I hope you have a great rest of your life! ^^
@@alysuum2589 I am beyond happy to hear that. I was going through similar things while growing up, and although it's better now , back then I had to figure out things about life and people's mind on my own and I wish I had some guidance... I know how it is when you are questioning yourself and your life but you can figure it out, like I did. Mostly, no... I still go through a lot, but I learned it's just how life functions. Trust me, it's an integral part of life's journey. Don't call me a stranger, we are probably very similar in our minds, and that makes you a friend. ☺ At the end I am constantly mentally 'training' myself for better things that are yet to come, for me, for you, people we love and people who need so... We won't accept anything less ☺💗
@@alysuum2589 I'm happy you find my words worth hearing. It makes me feel rather nice and comforted also. You know, you made my day brighter too, I'm glad you called me your friend ^^
this really gives you a feel for how wide a range there is for what people go through. i mean it could be anywhere from “i smell sharpies” to “i’m bisexual and cheating and i deserve anything bad that happens” to “i took extra antidepressants and my body couldn’t handle it”
Missing a deadline for something really important has caused me to be terrified of deadlines. Whenever there’s a deadline hanging over my head I lose my shit, I panic and I don’t do anything. I’ve had a summer full of panic attacks and anxiety because of that and now I have a couple of huge overdue projects that I cannot get myself to work on. Teachers yell at me daily and my mother criticises me for it because they all just think I’m being lazy but I cannot explain to them that whenever I try to work on one of this projects I get a stabbing pain in my stomach for the next few hours. I’m honestly not that far behind on most of them but I keep feeling like I’ve done everything wrong and I cannot tell anyone because no one will take it seriously
My secret is I over think everything, to the point where I can't react to certain occasions, like when I am "angry" at my parents or siblings I cry for some reason? Idk why tho?
the person who is rebuilding themselves after the abusive relationship is so so so beautiful omg. their eyes are so kind, i wish them all of the good in this world
Here is mine-well my family has always been super open with me and my sister about everything that’s going on and our dad left when we where Very young he started doing drugs and alcohol and he always had problems,now he is somewhere in jail I haven’t seen him in years he is getting out soon but I’ve always acted like I didn’t care,like it just didn’t bother me but I it’s hard and I still just push it down inside me. No one knows that I feel that way because I have anxiety and I think my family will judge me. Thanks 😀
I was 13 when I packed all my possessions in a black trash bag to go live with my father because my mother was crazy enough to kill me. What I remember most about that day is 1. My father knew what was going on and didn't want to take me and 2. I raised my fist and threatened to hit my mother when she tried to stop me from taking the birdcage that my bird lived in. My bird was my only friend. Years later, I finally kicked my mother out of my life for her abuse.
I'm sorry that that was something that you had to go through. I bet it took a lot of strength to cut your mother out of your life and I'm glad that you could take that step and get space from a figure who caused you harm and pain.
![[Live] : ONE 169 วันนี้!! "อนาโตลี vs อูมาร์"](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/IK3YZVWuFJg/mqdefault.jpg)
"Um... sometimes.. I smell sharpies."
**emotional music plays**
fyck tha was so funny
Don't do it too often, not healthy for your airways and brain to sniff anything with solvent chemicals in it. I cannot get rid my body of toxins fast due to a genetic variant, so I really get woozy just by using Sharpies.
@foxquee same tho although I don't actually held it close to my nose. I guess it's kind of a bit of guilty pleasures
@foxquee I got that you were joking. My reply was meant for the secret guy. I couldn't figure if he was joking or not.
I do that *bruuhhhhh*
That poor girl on the date whose bf died, I'm so sorry
He didn't die but yeah still very sad
@@aidanschram9652 Yes he did… She said that he was declared brain dead.
@@brianna6134 Oops I didnt know that you consider a brain dead person as legally dead but yeah you're right. That day must have ruined her permanently 😟
@@aidanschram9652 Well, they’re technically not. Someone who is brain dead is usually connected to life support, which is what keeps them alive. Once they pull the plug though, they’re gone. But yeah, couldn’t imagine experiencing that.
@@brianna6134 The one good thing about being brain dead is that you can donate organs and help keep other people alive.
I love the soft piano music in the background when someone says something about them shitting themselves
XDD while reading that I imagined a symphony by Beethoven in the back of a taco bell with diarrhea
Or stealing ribeye steaks.
"smells like the dog pooped I'll clean it" SORRY LOL
Same thing happened to me and same reason. I was dusting, not vacuuming though. Thank gawd #1 I was at home and #2 I was wearing sweat pants with elastic around the ankles. Was 20+ years ago and haven’t trusted a fart since.
@@hinotefanatic Maybe yall should eat more fiber? Add sweet potatoes, broccoli, and bananas to your diet.
I love that some of these are like “I committed a murder” and some are like “… we were the sewer boys.”
Pretty much all of these are Sewer Boy level in my opinion but I get what you mean.
@@melissashanfield1028 i think some are definitely way more serious. Especially the girl who’s boyfriend died.
And then there's the guy with sharpies
that sistene chapel one really caught me off guard LMAO
Kinda looked like Elton John
So many tense secrets and、"I farted" XD I like that guy.
@@Tania-fx4uz that’s what I thought!
@@Tania-fx4uz IKR
I don’t think feeling anxious every time you go to visit your parents is uncommon.
To the man who said, “Sometimes, I smell Sharpies”, I hope you get over this. We are here for you.
Literally 😂
Hey sharpies smell good 😕
It’s very depressing…
I do it too
it's a good smell actually, i agree with him
girl who's never been kissed is GORGEOUSS
She’s super pretty!
And I love her voice !! Makes me comfy
I know right! Wass up with that?
that’s what i said she’s gorgeous 🥺
@@trn228 that’s the first thing I noticed, very calm.
My secret is that 2 months ago I almost fainted in public, but instead of feeling anxious or scared I was happy because random people were stopping to make sure I was okay and were taking care of me. I felt loved and cared for and I kind of want it to happen again so people will finally care about me, even if it's just for a few minutes
I can imagine how comforting that felt.
I have fainted twice.. once when I was in kindergarten and again when I was 12 years old . Ngl I actually liked the love and care I received. I would love to faint again lol 🤣
Have a look at Münchhausen syndrome and realise there are healthier ways of getting attention and affection than through faking illness. Trust me, it can become pathological.
@@classicambo9781 oh yes of course, even if I felt good in that moment, I'd never actually hurt myself because I know it's wrong and it would only make things worse for me and for others too
I read this right after a Sistine Chapel comment and thought you had written, "I almost farted in public," and was wondering why people stopped to see if you were okay. I'm glad you were, though.
the girl who’s bf died. that broke me. “trying to be a functional member of society” whoever that is please give yourself more credit. you are doing fantastic.
I’d say bf who was murdered, Jesus that story was awful. Why would any human take a random innocent life like that.
It's okay to not always be functional
The young woman who was in the toxic relationship and is rebuilding herself...love her💜
She seems like a she would make a relationship toxic I hope,the guy is doing better
@@mrbeastlover7237 dude
@@mrbeastlover7237 wtf dude
@@mrbeastlover7237 wtf
@@mrbeastlover7237 wtf your name
NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT THE SEWER BOYS! FUNNIEST THING IVE EVER HEARD 😭😭😭😭
YES! I want to read that comic series so bad
"Adventures of the Sewer Boys"
I know like why does he hide that
I had to rewind when the sharpie guy came up, I felt like it was so random lol.
lmao that one made me actually laugh cause it reminded me of something Charlie from Always Sunny would say.
Advice to the guy who is leading on two people:
Just don’t choose anyone from them, start a new relationship with a whole different person because if you really loved one of them you wouldn’t have another choice
Edit:spelling
I really like that idea
Yes, or explore polyamory which is a more ethical way of having multiple partners
@@Nyanchama_ I think being a cheater isn't really a pre-req for a poly relationship. He obviously has character flaw. To lead two people on for so long and not feel any remorse is problematic.
@@marcusscottbalahari7198 Agreed, and blaming it on their orientation (bi) was kinda shitty, IMO. It plays into the stereotype that bisexual people are unfaithful by default, which perpetuates its stigma.
PERIOD.!
Nothing wrong with a gastric sleeve. It's still hard work.
I’m so glad someone mentioned this!! Giving yourself a tool to help you meet a goal, even if that goal is weight loss, don’t ever feel ashamed. Surgery is not as easy or a light decision. No matter what, taking health into their own hands is a beautiful thing that should be celebrated no matter if they needed a little help.
@Lalogue that's why I declined weight loss surgery. I need to work on so much more.
Yes, please don’t give people false information. What if someone sees you as an inspiration, but beat themselves up because they can never achieve it.
100%
That's what I'm saying too. Losing a lot of weight isn't easy, whether you use surgery to help or not
I’m sorry but did he say, “I’m bi like that” 😂 this is why we bisexuals get a bad wrap that we can’t be faithful because we like more than one gender
EXACTLY
Agreed, as soon as he said that I thought "Ummmm....bisexual is NOT synonymous with being an unfaithful liar".
Really curious to know if he came clean with the people he was leading on.
I actually get him and I’m bi as well but furthermore I might be poly, so maybe he is just poly too.
@@gianamani8 poly doesn't imply u can cheat tho. his partner's should know if he's open to dating more than one person but he said that he's not seeing anyone else to them.
I think he said that in reference to him talking to a male and female at the same time bc he's attracted to both genders
I'm 24 and never been in a relationship or kissed too! Nice to see some representation.
It's totally okay♡
26 and sameee
i’m only 17 but same
19 and same😌
Just turned 24 and same. No regrets about it though.
Some people are totally happy being single, or at least waiting until they actually fall in love, instead of getting involved with someone just for the sake of being in a relationship to fit in. So no pressure!
Guy who farted in the Sistine chapel.. YOU ARE A LEGEND
Hahaaa..is the way he look at the camera and walk off.. hehe soo funny
Yesss legend no cap
It's nice that that's the worst thing he was hiding.
Hey I’m kinda dumb what’s a Sistine chapel
YES LEGEND
Watching these videos about people and their secrets reminds me that we are not perfect and we fuck up as humans but it's okay because we grow and mature and continue to grow since life is a continuous journey.
underrated comment
Yeah man...
Brian, Adam and Eve were perfect and we are messed up. So don't use imperfection as an excuse. We have free will
@@GS-st9ns No , It's so clear that you never read nor the bible nor the Quran . Adam and Eve weren't perfect at all . They sinned by placing their desires above what God had told them and through this act sin entered the world. SO plssss don't say things unless you're sure .
@@GS-st9ns you’re so dumb. It was because of Adam and Eve that sin is now filled in this earth. That’s why wickedness can never stop in this earth.
I guess I will share: My mother abusive towards me both physically, sexually, and emotionally. I am at the age I want to confront her about the abuse she did towards me. However, she is getting older in age and her memory is on the decline. Not sure what I am supposed to do? Also she treats my children better than she ever did my sister and I. For the life of me I don't understand why someone who worked in the field of Social Work (who protected children against their abusers) was abusing her own children. I never knew it was sexual abuse until I moved out of her and upon reflection of my childhood I recalled some unpleasant memories (that play on repeat in my mind to this day) that made me realize the way I grew up was NOT normal.
I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you are recovering.
I hope you’re doing okay ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@tess1350 Nope, I don't know if I ever will? The memories are slowly fading but I am just confused as to why someone would think it's okay to abuse their adoptive child? At time I wish I remained in my birth country.
@@florjean965 yeah some parents abuse their OWN biological children. You're not going to gain anything from confronting her I guess. It's better to seek a therapist to talk out all the memories so they slowly fade out. It will get better a day at a time x
@@annaheya2109 Yes, that is true. Unfortunately, I am not in position to afford trauma counseling. I have sought out therapy on a intermittent basis. However, I am at the point of wanting to do prolonged therapy.
If I may ask. What happened to the "Strangers call their crush" series?
I've been commenting that on all her videos for weeks, still no response. I hope she sees your comment and answers or someone else who may know what happened. They were my favorite and I have gone back to them multiple times when I was feeling down, I would really like for them to be back 😞
Yas pls 💘🔥
Thoraya please ❤️🙏🏽 listen to us .. I really enjoyed them too they were very comforting..
Yeah! I miss those videos! That’s why I started watching. I do enjoy some of the more serious question videos but please bring back the Strangers call their crush!
Blow this comment up?
To the girl whose bf died from an attack with a baseball bat, go to greif counseling. Get on the other side of this darling.
1:55 she is such a beautiful woman. The fact that she turned around even though she went through so much really shows how strong she is
U act like she went through hell, calm down
It was her choice
@@David-kn1hf man idk but your comments were unnecessary asf. This guy is appreciating a human being for showing strength and courage. You are the one who should calm down. Please log off and do something better with your life.
@@David-kn1hf are you kidding ? Abusive relationships can be extremely hard to go through my guy. Loving someone so much that you can't leave them even though they abuse you can be devastating to the psyche
If you can't comprehend that, it shows a lack of empathy so i dunno why you would watch this video in the first place
@@David-kn1hf um.
Maybe you don't know any better but this is actually not how abusive relationships work. Of course the factors vary from one relationship to another but most of the time it feels like you can't escape or like everything is your fault because your partner is manipulating you into thinking so.
She spoke up about what happened and cleary states that she still suffers the consequences to this day.
I don't think you meant to be rude with your comment. But when someone speaks up you should listen before disbelieving their troubles.
25 years old and never been kissed? Perfect! Save it for someone you really care for who deserves you! Being a virgin is not shameful - it might well be about abstaining from being just another consumer of the hyper-sexual pop-culture of the West today.
Don't like to be touched at all too, when my best friend hugs me i feel like throwing up. Social distancing has been such a relief for/to me.
Do you know why you dont like it.... ? I am genuinly curious.
@@beatricedbr lol me too
Yeah, I’m the same way, I don’t like hugs and even get uncomfortable with someone’s arm around me. The only time I give hugs is if I have a deep emotional connection with that person (like when my best friend moved away). I’m not really sure why I don’t like to be touched, I’ve never been abused or anything, I guess I’ve always kinda been that way.
Beatrice Alina Dobre : i’m already claustrophobic, touch makes me feel trapped and reminds me of abuse i suffered in the past. It freezes me up and hurts me lol. But thats just my personal reason. Its weird though because even though i hate touch, i wanna be comforted and loved. Idk its weird.
@@beatricedbr just in case the original commenter doesn’t answer you, the main reasons for that are because of sexually abused/molestation history, claustrophobia, germaphobic, asocial or social anxiety, and psychopathic.
just imagine being one of these peoples friends. like just clicking on one of these videos and finding something crazy out about one of your close friends. that would be crazy
None of it is too crazy though. I think of secrets like something other people would not be able to understand and would to some extent change their image of you. Most of these are just human situations.
Pleaaaaaaase
I totally resonated with the girl who was in an abusive and toxic relationship. Girl it get better trust me. Of course there are days where you still sometimes stings, but they start disappearing. You learn to love yourself even more than before and you are going to meet incredible people. Just keep pushing, you will get there with time.
My secret is, when I was 3 I went for a tour of elvis's mansion with my family. Somehow I got a red crayon and drew on his white steps. We left immediately
That's iconic
#girlboss
I admire you
"I feel like a passive participant in my own life."
me too.
2:22
Well! Nobody is talking about this girl so I will! I was particularly touched by this story because I have a friend who has the same thing. It was a little painful for me at first because I thought I wasn't close enough to him but then he told me all this. It's amazing how tremendous effect our parents can have on us!
Aw! Thanks for talking about it, I thought no one was going to mention it
I was at this park a few weeks ago hoping I’d run into you 😭
Awww ❤️
Where is this park? What city?
@@jomo493 Balboa Park in San Diego
That would be cool! If you were in a Thoraya video, what would you want the topic to be?
@@vjo3031 I would love to be a part of one of these videos !
My secret is ... Sometimes I smell Sharpies.
I ALWAYS sniff marker pens! No shame 😂
Lol! I didn't know what Sharpies are and thought off the context it must be some kind of underwear! So he smells felt pens? Yeah why not haha
@@rustlingtrees8987 😂
Love the smell of sharpies! Not sure why 🙃
sharpies have a chemical in it which makes it a drug, along with paint and glue! I love the smell of paint lol
@@rustlingtrees8987 haha underwear? Lol! That’s made my day, your comment is really funny 😂
The dude acting like he is passionate about his major is me ! I'm in the exact same situation !
Love this series Thoraya! So human.
I just wanted to share this , I'm in the emerging adulthood and I constantly face this problem , my parents love me but they're abusive to each other . They are constantly fighting and I'm a single child , I feel very insecure about sharing my problems with them . If I try to explain my mom about her behaviour she'll yell at me ! I can't even write this without crying and my hands are trembling . The sole purpose of writing this text is to vent my emotions. I had a traumatic adolescence and I fear that will I also become a same person as them when I'm a parent ?! I can't tell anyone what I'm feeling right now .I can't even believe that I thought to harm myself . Why parents don't understand that by being abusive to each other they're only punishing their children ?
Everyone goes threw hell but it gets better. I was sexually abused when I was little by my step grandpa, my dad spoiled me the most until my parents got a divorce when I was in middle school he pretty much ghosted us, my brothers especially when I was growing up were ass holes and made fun of me because I was in special ed, mind you other kids making fun of me, shaved my head because my lice wouldn't go away then everyone called me a boy, my ex I was with cheated on me constantly and gave me an STD, my aunt died last year. And plenty more life sucks but their are some good parts. My fiance and myself are getting married this year, he is the most amazing person that I cant believe is mine.
You will never be like them .Don't punish yourself for the things that they are doing to each other .take care of yourself.
My mother left us when I was about to go to the high school. My mom and dad, they were constantly fighting as your parents do. I stayed at the dorm next to my school during this tough times, always thought about my little siblings. My dad have little& no income at that time. I suffered a lot. Please dont be sad. I have been thought more than those things. I also thought about harm myself.
But this is what I tried to say: please dont let them make you sad. I know it's so hard. But just dont. Even your parent are decides to divorce or smt, this is not end of the world. Find the thing that you are going to live for.
(Sorry for grammar mistakes btw. I am not native)
@@hiranaeem9169 Thanks for responding !
@@jennyv385 May you have all the blessings a life can unfold Jenny ! Happy for you 💖
"People always tell me they're super proud of me and I am super strong after everything I have been through and I honestly really hate that ...." couldn't 👏 agree👏 more! 👏.
My secret is, i have really, r e a l l y hard time with my mental health right now. But i seem to be fine on the outside.. i do have people who i can talk to, i also go to therapy, but right now i feel like anxiety is much stickier than it was some time ago. And it is absolutely exhausting. Sending love to everyone who struggles.💗
Love back
@@emmvelop Thank you.💗 Feeling a tiny bit better now. One step at a time.
@Stella Aster I know.. you are right. I just hope it was as simple as it is to say that. But defenitely working on that "those are my thoughts and feelings, not my reality" -way of thinking (kinda telling myself that i'm doing much better than i t h i n k i am) etc. Sometimes it is easier, sometimes harder. But i have defenitely made progress.. it just takes time. Mental health is a complicated thing.
Thank you for your words!
Sending Love back to you too ♥
@@yhuoi1 🙏♥️
I think for me since I’m class of 2020 “graduate” graduation is a touchy subject I get really sad whenever it comes up.Or whenever I think about it or how all of class of 2020 got to graduate I end up screaming about it and crying and I live right by a high school so I had to hear class of 2021 graduate and see them with their caps and gowns on .I’m happy for them and everything don’t get me wrong but it just hurts seeing what could’ve been thank you for reading if you read all the way through.
dying at the girl who shit on the side of the road and used her sock to wipe 😂😂
gross but quick thinking. did she put it in the pocket and ran home though?
@@Regimeshifts, no she put the sock back on
@@heroinehei 🤡
@@heroinehei of course Nagito says stuff like this
I thought the Sistine chapel guy was gonna say: "i'm secretly elton john" XD
Same
people: mostly deep secrets
that one guy: i smell sharpies
Completely off topic but I love your profile picture
So funny seeing her laugh as she walked away about using the sock!
My secret - I was seconds from hanging myself... I got a phone call, answered and my mom told me she randomly was going to come visit me at college and would be there in 6 hours. (She lived 7 hours away and the phone call was at midnight).
I’m so glad you’re still here!
We are thankful you didn't leave us...
Now that's a shocking secret. I hope life has gotten better for you!
I hope you decide to stay, Sean… Two of my friends have lost their college age sons to suicide. Seeing their pain is heartbreaking. Please, reach out for help. I’ve been suicidal myself, and even tho it’s hard to see outside the vortex of doom when you are choosing to leave, but remind yourself, it ALWAYS passes-that feeling of hopelessness. Send those thoughts away and know that you are strong enough to beat depression. I’m 55 now and I’m glad I stayed. Much love, dear one. I wish you great happiness and success.
Mother’s intuition???
I have a new channel for my podcast :).. here's the link: th-cam.com/channels/t1QoCI87TAkX5uAjlIh-fg.html
1
3
4
Subscribed .
Thoraya, I have a suggestion. :D
I don't know if you have done it, but why not to ask students to share their secrets? People from school, college or high school? I think it could be pretty interesting. Love your videos ❤️
I spent 3 years in a abusive/ toxic relationship and had a baby with him. I don't think I'll ever be happy again
I hope that you will be happy again. I hope you can find joy in being a mom and in being free (I assume the relationship is in the past.)
so sorry
You can't let him win. You have to fight like hell for your happiness, trust me it's worth it I knew my ex was the person I didn't want to have kids with so I'm good on that part but he treated me like shit for the majority of almost 12 years. But once I let him go I was free, I was already getting over him the last 2years I was with him so exactly 6 months to the day meet my fiance. ❣
I came out of an abusive relationship over a year ago I also have a child with him. It's hard but you can be happy these times are hard I'm sure but there will be a day that you'll feel that happiness I promise.
@@jennyv385 No disrespect, but why did you stay for 12 years?
To the girl who hates being touched, same here. My parents always told me to stay away from people and don't let adults go near me. The impact that the covid lockdown had and not being able to see my friends, I realise now how important touch is. Especially from a loved one. And It's something I want to try doing more this year.
My secret is that i have felt socially anxious for the past one year and still do and no one knows not even my family knows. I kinda wanna tell somebody but I'm scared that they will think differently about me or call me crazy.
My secret is that I don't have self esteem, confidence, or hope. I am depressed and want to be gone, but I act happy because I may not care about me, but I care about the people around me
Same tho
“cause i’m bi like that”
same lmao
😂
ikr wtaf
@@tess1350 same :))
perpetuating steteotypes.
I just want to give some of these people the biggest hugs!! I’ve been through some really hard times and abuse.. I just want to be there for others who are struggling. No one should ever feel alone..,it’s the worst feeling. 💜
1:27 disliking your parents, I had moments like that, almost as if they're your enemy, but in the end, deep down I feel really bad about it, like this is my family no matter what.
this was SUCH a good episode and I am sending so much love and good vibes to the girl who was in the abusive relationship she is absolutely beautiful and I hope she can heal!!!
Thoraya, honestly thank you for your content because I’ve been able to relate to so many people in some of your videos and it helps me feel less alone:)
Kudos to Thoraya for picking up that "I feel like a passive participant in my own life,” is a common trauma response and not to be ashamed about. She compassionately asked the right follow-up, namely- what (abuse/ptsd/cptsd) caused flight to kick in
Vagal work is a very quick way to safely move through unprocessed “stuff,” the shame that it often bears with, and to find you energy and will again
good luck
I almost broke down in tears with the girl whose boyfriend was murdered because I know what it is like to have someone I love die. I lost my mom this past December to sudden heart attack and I am still grappling with it almost 6 months later
I’m so sorry for you loss. Just keep smiling. Think happy thoughts and everything will be just fine
@@doglover4689 thank you. Actually today is one of my good days. Thank you
All strength to you 💜
It is a common misconception that having weight loss surgery is the easy way out, but it still requires a lot of hard work and discipline
The one that caught me off guard was the that said she was in a toxic relationship and now she away from that and learning to love herself. I feel this is important my heart goes out to her.
4:30 The confession, The look, The clothing, Everything. Fucking savage.
I lost it 😅😅🤣
My first gf broke up with me 4 months ago, saying she needed time. The last girl who said she needed time ghosted me. I got super sick the following week and ended up bothering her cause I was so confused and in the end drove her away I feel like. Like I said it’s been 4 months and I can’t forgive myself
You have nothing to feel bad about those women never cared about you best you forget and never speak to them again and just move on. They did you a favour. keep looking and you'll find someone else
you didn't drive anyone away, they just don't want you
"Sometimes, *I smell sharpies.."*
*sad music intensifies*
You interviewed me in California, and I told you that the most painful thing I was told was how babies where made, this was at least 1 year ago, and I was wondering if you still have the footage.
I think she has that footage, but she doesn't use all of it (or it could come out someday in the future)
But yeah baby making is disgusting
HELP, I'm obsessed with these videos! It's so interesting. Never thought I'd find it so fascinating tbh. Thanks for the content :D
2:36 omg same. I relate to this girl. I hate hugs and I hate when people touch me so much. Even when my family hugs me I hate it
Damn... 7:39 broke my heart. Don't even know what to say
Same
that one was so heartbreaking, i couldn't even imagine going through something like that.
@@Zayloxithe i actually researched it a little and i think its the jessie simpson story . Absolutely horrific . He needs ongoing hospital care for the rest of his life. On facebook there is a go fund me for him Its called jessie simpson summer fundrasier. if you would like to donate . My heart breaks for him.
It’s sad we have to lie to that extreme for our bosses to even consider giving us a few days off . Smh . We’ve all done it .
Lmaoooo the guy who just taught the world how to steal ribeye steaks from grocery stores 😂😂😂😂
I bet he still does it... lol
A legend indeed
Thank you Thoraya, and everyone who shared their secrets! ❤️ Sending love and healing thoughts
These stories are so interesting
Okay, I love these but I wasn't excepting to almost cry. The person at 6:53 said exactly how I feel and I didn't even know I felt that way.
can we just appreciate how much work it takes to mach up the subtitles with the people talking good work
I can relate to the girl who hates being touched. The thought of hugging someone makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to hug someone properly.
First time in San Diego this week! Im visiting a childhood friend, who goes to SD state. I am from Santa Barbara, valley area, but I moved away during high school. I thought of you during this visit. I visited Balboa Park on Sunday, and all I could think of was running into my favorite TH-camr. I loved San Diego and the park. I will return for another trip back in July. I hope to meet you someday! You are a special human 🤍 and it would have been so wonderful to meet you. I thoroughly enjoyed the Museum of Us.
Your videos are useful to realize that lots of people around the world have many problems to fix.
I can relate to the young lady that doesn't like being touched...the silver lining of COVID for me.
But, for a different reason. My whole family has never been 'touchy', so I never had hugs or any physical contact growing up.
I come close to a panic attack when someone tries to touch me.
With my husband it's different...but it took a while. And, my son gets lots and lots of hugs and kisses.
I don't want him to be like me.
And, I can always tell if actors and actresses like each other. The ones that do, will hug someone with their hands fully open, those that don't, have a closed fist...just like I hug.
Pat attention, you'll see what I mean.
Would it be possible to say exactly when a secret can be a trigger or a very sensitive topics ?
I love these videos, but since having PTSD, I am to scared to watch the video and to fall on something that's going to make me have a crisis. So I just won't watch it eventhough I'd love to
Thank you for sharing these strangers perspectives. I love your work ❤💙💜
you should do another voice mail one
I agree! That way some of us can send in theirs too
@@annaheya2109 yeah
If you watch the last one she provides her number at the end so you can leave a voicemail for the next one.
That one is really deep.
Thank yo soo much . Please continue posting regularly this kind of videos . We love you and we always support you .
It's interesting to see what different people find very shameful.
My heart longsssssss to go hug these people and tell them they are strong enough and capable and important and loved and beautiful. Everyone has their own story, be a good person, love your neighbor, listen to them and tell people you appreciate them. Make a positive difference in the world
These are just so interesting and inspiring, please never stop making these
To the woman who lost her best friend to a senseless act of violence please forgive yourself for this was not of your doing..you did not ask for this.Move forward with a loving heart for your friend who is longer here..he would want you to be free of any heavy burdens ...you are blessed...truly blessed.
To the guy who’s mom is an immigrant. I know how you feel, my dad is an immigrant and we have these troubles too. He’s been fired from several jobs because of it and it’s been cause if some troubles recently. Hope your mom gets to stay.
The one who says everyone always says she’s so strong ❤️
I feel that.
My secret is…
that I feel trapped, because everyday I try my best to be what my parents want me to be, and I feel like the second I’m going to truly be myself, I might disappoint them. They’re truly amazing people- but sometimes, it’s hard to just keep smiling. Sometimes, smiling feels more like a burden than an option, to be honest. And I feel horrible because I messed up a couple months ago- I just got mixed up and I explained everything and I cried in front of one of my friends. I didn’t know her that well- we’re besties now though, and while she may be a bit mean sometimes(in a teasing way) and sometimes she wants to end it all(life wise), I will always be there for her, because that one moment of weakness- she was the only person in the world who saw me like that, and she accepted me- she kept my secret- she doesn’t treat me any different, and she looks up to me- and it makes me feel strange. I feel like I might like her, and it makes me feel even worse about myself- what would mom and dad say? Would they approve of the relationship? Are they fine with my sexuality(I don’t know my sexuality yet tbh, but I know for a fact I’m not straight-)? And are they fine with me talking to others about my problems? What about my siblings- will they see me differently? Would they still love me as their oldest sibling, as their big sister? Or will they just decide I’m not worth the time? What about people at school- my relatives- friends- heck, even strangers. I feel like if I stray off my parents ideal path for just one second, I’ll be fed to a pack of wolves- they might not realize the pressure they put on me, because I remember my younger brother arguing with my mom, and while it didn’t get heated, he pointed out a lot of things that he thought she did was wrong, one of them being putting all this pressure on me. My parents refused they did such things, but then all of my siblings started pointing out all this stuff they did differently with me, and I remember my mom getting really shocked and walking out of her room. My dad got quiet and left the room too- but surely it wasn’t that bad right? And then I think about the future- alot, too much. I think of every little detail that could happen from one of my actions. I think of my siblings future alot too- as their oldest sibling, I constantly wonder, what can I do to form a better path for my siblings? And then I think, hey, maybe that’s why I’m always worrying, I take up every expectation from my parents so my siblings can do what they want- and I hate that about myself, because I’m living this life where I can never be myself, so I lock it all in a cage, and throw it away. I want to make my parents, my friends, my relatives, and even my neighbors and others proud of me, and whenever I ‘accomplish’ and receive praise, I just don’t feel worth it, because how can someone be proud of someone whose never been proud of themselves? Most people don’t know me- the me that plays video games, the me that’s a total weeb, the me who’s that therapy friend that needs the most therapy- most importantly, they don’t know the me that isn’t perfect. They always see me as the perfect girl whose always aceing her classes, finishing high school and college early, the me that’s always smiling, they always see me so positive that others envy me for it, they all think I’m living the perfect life, and I am- and I don’t deserve it at all. Even snide comment I make in my head, every confident lie I’ve ever told. I’m no better than a spoiled brat, I’m just very good at hiding it. And I feel like that I just cause to much stress- when people leave me, was it my fault? It always is, right? Whenever my parents argue, that’s my fault, right? I must’ve messed up huh???? And then there’s so much more that I would love to say- love to talk about, express about, but this comment is getting too long and it’s more of a vent. Thanks for staying till the end guys. In the end, I feel like the problem is one of multiple things: I care to much about what others think, Im too sensitive, I cherish others more than myself, and that Im unable to come to terms with the fact that not everything revolves around my parents. Once again, thanks for reading. Also- is anyone else feeling the same? I need to know that Im not the only outsider on this planet lol
Don't think like that. You know, every parent should be there to take care of their children and guide them properly at the beginning of their life . Being as perfect as possible is important in life but do you know what kind of people live out there, all their actions and way in which they perceive life... Your parent put way too much pressure on you, they are just doing the wrong thing. They are making a mistake. You know, adults can do that too. Nonetheless, you have to continue with your work, work does make a change...
Take it easy with your sexuality, it's just your thing, your body, your " property", it's not the thing of your parents...If you are not ready to say it confidently, let some more time pass.
. And it's never your fault, all that people around you are already proud of you, you are doing great, even if your feelings are 'messed up', I feel like that very often. You know, everyone does, just people don't talk about it, it can be scary, no? You have to accept these feelings in life too. You can work on yourself secretly if nothing else to make yourself stronger, and as frivoluos as this might sound right now, you have to be patient more, much more. I don't know how old you are but changing things takes time. You are not brat, you are hardworking, and overloaded with worries. That's fine too. I'm sure you are strong to continue your road, many things will change, and waiting is hard indeed ... I don't know does this make sense to you? I would like to know...
Stranger, you may not know how much you just made my day. Thanks for the advice- and yeah, it does make a lot of sense. I’m glad I’m not the only one out there that feels like this, but I also wish no one else to feel the way I do. I hope your doing well wherever you are, and I hope you have a great rest of your life! ^^
@@alysuum2589 I am beyond happy to hear that. I was going through similar things while growing up, and although it's better now , back then I had to figure out things about life and people's mind on my own and I wish I had some guidance... I know how it is when you are questioning yourself and your life but you can figure it out, like I did. Mostly, no... I still go through a lot, but I learned it's just how life functions. Trust me, it's an integral part of life's journey. Don't call me a stranger, we are probably very similar in our minds, and that makes you a friend. ☺ At the end I am constantly mentally 'training' myself for better things that are yet to come, for me, for you, people we love and people who need so... We won't accept anything less ☺💗
Thank you new friend. I find what you say to be rather nice and comforting- I wish you well in this world of mysteries ^^
@@alysuum2589 I'm happy you find my words worth hearing. It makes me feel rather nice and comforted also. You know, you made my day brighter too, I'm glad you called me your friend ^^
this really gives you a feel for how wide a range there is for what people go through. i mean it could be anywhere from “i smell sharpies” to “i’m bisexual and cheating and i deserve anything bad that happens” to “i took extra antidepressants and my body couldn’t handle it”
I can relate to the „i smell sharpies" tho
what does it mean?
Same! Lol
@@annacluckers1698 He smells Sharpie marker pens 😂 I do the same!
@@annacluckers1698 you can get a high from inhaling sharpie fumes for enough time
@@Cmmf_ You can??? 😲 I really didn’t know that. I just like the way they smell.
All of these people are so beautiful and handsome and the fact that they are willing to tell they’re secrets is so amazing to me
To the guy who lost 140lbs don’t be ashamed on how you lost the weight. It’s still a huge achievement nonetheless
I know right. Even if he got a surgery it’s still hard
Missing a deadline for something really important has caused me to be terrified of deadlines. Whenever there’s a deadline hanging over my head I lose my shit, I panic and I don’t do anything. I’ve had a summer full of panic attacks and anxiety because of that and now I have a couple of huge overdue projects that I cannot get myself to work on. Teachers yell at me daily and my mother criticises me for it because they all just think I’m being lazy but I cannot explain to them that whenever I try to work on one of this projects I get a stabbing pain in my stomach for the next few hours. I’m honestly not that far behind on most of them but I keep feeling like I’ve done everything wrong and I cannot tell anyone because no one will take it seriously
Nobody:
Nobody at all
That one guy: Sometimes I smell sharpies
Girl at 3:32 is literally drop dead gorgeous, how?!!
My secret is I over think everything, to the point where I can't react to certain occasions, like when I am "angry" at my parents or siblings I cry for some reason? Idk why tho?
the person who is rebuilding themselves after the abusive relationship is so so so beautiful omg. their eyes are so kind, i wish them all of the good in this world
It’s okay that we are like this. This is what makes us HUMAN
Here is mine-well my family has always been super open with me and my sister about everything that’s going on and our dad left when we where Very young he started doing drugs and alcohol and he always had problems,now he is somewhere in jail I haven’t seen him in years he is getting out soon but I’ve always acted like I didn’t care,like it just didn’t bother me but I it’s hard and I still just push it down inside me. No one knows that I feel that way because I have anxiety and I think my family will judge me. Thanks 😀
I love these 💜💜💜💜 we need more of these
Thank you for making me smile, cry, lying around
I was 13 when I packed all my possessions in a black trash bag to go live with my father because my mother was crazy enough to kill me. What I remember most about that day is 1. My father knew what was going on and didn't want to take me and 2. I raised my fist and threatened to hit my mother when she tried to stop me from taking the birdcage that my bird lived in. My bird was my only friend.
Years later, I finally kicked my mother out of my life for her abuse.
I'm sorry that that was something that you had to go through. I bet it took a lot of strength to cut your mother out of your life and I'm glad that you could take that step and get space from a figure who caused you harm and pain.
Some of these are very heart felt and the music is fitting...but when a funny one comes along, the melancholy music really hits different 😂😂😂
I’m sorry but some of these secrets got me in tears laughing 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
The antidepressants story 🥲 I wish I could give them a big hug