A beige belt... Not the worst thing in the world, and not the most expensive item.It seemed liked a good idea to have a black and beige belt (as I do own black ad beige trousers) however I never reach for it. The tag is till on the belt, but I tossed the receipt thinking I would keep it.It'll probably be donated to charity.
Not necessarily impulse purchase because I have been eyeing the items for a bit, but I just bought 2 pairs of shorts that I won't fit into since I'm 8 months pregnant. 🙈 I was worried about them selling out but I have no idea what my size will be postpartum 😬
The best piece of advice I ever received was: 'Always go shopping wearing one of you're most favourite outfits. Then, when you're in a store's fitting room trying on new pieces, if you don't love the outfit you're trying on more than you love the outfit you're already wearing, don't buy it!' Since I started following that advice I've made more considered - and fewer impulse - purchases.
Ive learned over the last 10 years after going to stylists and colour experts and editing my wardrobe endlessly and trying to make that magical capsule wardrobe of correct colours that, in essence we like to shop because we feel we aren't beautiful, we don't look like we want to look or we aren't stylish enough or we aren't happy, etc., etc., etc., and we believe if we can just get our clothes right or our house right or our jewellery or style or makeup etc., right, we will feel right, but it just costs us money. Seeing if we have something similar sounds practical but it won't satisfy the feeling that lurks inside which sends us on the shopping merry-go-round and you know what? Designers and stylists know that. They make their money from our insecurities.
"Do I have something at home I'd rather wear?" This is an amazingly revealing question! I think you've just saved me from some future impulse purchases lol! Thank you!
I never understood people who are lazy to return their items. the only thing that motivate me to return is I get my money lol. I have a friend who always buy fast fashion, it's part of her hobby. when she doesn't like the piece, she just kept them that eventually pile up in her wardrobe. in fact the tag is still there! I ask her why don't you return them?? she said she was lazy and hassle to return. like I can't brain her 💀💀
I too can never understand why people wouldn’t return things. I am delighted when I find an item new with tags on a pre loved site or in the charity shop but I do wonder at the mentality of the person who bought it originally. More money than sense in my book.
A lot of it for me is the social rejection aspect. I fear that the employee won’t take the return for some reason, and then risk the embarrassment of having to walk away with it anyway, or to have the employee shame me or accuse me of trying to scam. It sounds really silly because I know they don’t care, but it’s hard for me to work up the courage to make a return, so it’s not always about laziness.
The most eye opening to me is "Do I have something at home that I would rather wear". If the answer is yes then I will most likely never wear the new item. Excellent video.
One of the best tips I ever got was start with the shoes. If you are trying something on be sure you know what kind of shoes you can wear with it. Or if it is reasonable to think you can find them and purchase them.
I end up finding more in shoes than I do in tops or clothes!!! But I found the cute green dress to go with these multicolored shoes that I absolutely adore and then I found another shirt in my wardrobe that goes with it with a pair of white jeans so I noticed many things go with it!
Really great suggestions. I appreciate you emphasizing not to abuse the buy-and-return loop. And the tip to consider if there’s something you already own that you’d rather reach for instead is a great one; I often pass on pieces because I don’t want to “cannibalize” wears from things I already own and love.
Yes! With a clothing app or other kind of tracker, it also incentivizes and “game-ifies” that kind of minimalist, economical, environmentally-friendly approach.
I am blonde and never thought I could wear this color I tried one on at Zara a few days ago and bought it ..both the blazer and a matching blouse. I buy very very little.
A vintage 90s fluffy supersoft Angora short sleeve sweater... In purple. I never wear purple. Or short sleeve sweaters. Fantasy me does? It is super soft though, like patting a bunny. So I still haven't given it away 😆
@@lizasoliman723 it probably will be, but with a long sleeve top underneath. I get cold really easily 😆 Hmmmm... A very 90s look: dark wash jeans, aubergine fluffy short sleeve sweater and long sleeve Breton top underneath....
If you have high waist pants or skirt that type of jumper can work in an office environment where the air temperature is just a little on the cold side.
I wish I'd had this advice YEARS ago! Thank you! I have a stuffed closet with nothing to wear! I'll be watching your Decluttering video next! Freedom and fashion at last!
Loved the tips, especially the ‘do I have some thing I prefer to wear in my wardrobe’. A question I’m learning to ask myself more often whilst shopping. Btw the pink blazer looks so lovely - I think the colour saturation makes it look more ‘expensive’ than the other H&M ones!
Genuinely good advice and I was happy to see that some of the things you recommend are tips that have been helping me for years. Like asking if you already have something that could serve the same purpose.
I love oversized long blazers but they just make me look short. I can't pull them off at all and always reach for a fitted one instead as it just flatters so much more..... work with that you've got :)
But the yellow linen top DOES compliment your white skirt. It's nice having a couple of options you love, not necessarily 18 of those same things. One question I ask myself is do I NEED this VS do I WANT ? And WHY? In my new style journey I've come up with several questions to prevent over purchasing, purchasing things that are not in my style or color pallette and within my budget for the item.
@@NajaSierra So do you wash it immediately after wearing it? What if you want to wear a linen shirt twice in one week and the white one needs washing? I would find it extremely annoying to have to carve out extra time to stop and take care of laundry if I don't ordinarily do it then.
@@edennis8578 @E Dennis Then I have another white shirt. And then in black, beige, blue and blue striped as well, that I would likely also pick over yellow.
I absolutely love your videos, your style, your criteria and thinking process for choosing and curating your wardrobe! I am binging your videos for days already, and must say your attitude is truly inspiring for me as I'm working my way into a much more thoughtful approach to clothing, and to minimalism in general. THANK YOU and warm hugs from a fellow Zürcher ❤✌
What a good question - do I have something I'd rather wear instead - I wish I'd gone armed with this earlier. I am trying to check my tendency to buy things which I think will be useful but where I already own something better. The key question is always "do I love it'. If not don't bother - likely you already own something you could wear
This is so useful , i could've used this , you described it so well , i have some trendy pieces in my wardrobe that i didn't even wear and they are not my style . Also looking back I did purchase similar things while I could've just worn what i have ; indeed yes i was searching for that newness feeling . Thank you so much ❤️ . I'm saving this video.
This is my favorite video of yours so far, the perfect set of questions to avoid mistakes - I’m saving it to my library. I do use most of these questions when shopping, and when I don’t, that’s when I buy stuff I regret!
This is all such good advice. I love the proof of concept idea and also asking yourself if you have something in your wardrobe that you could wear instead. Thanks Naja!
I cleaned out my closet today and found that I own 4 black blazers yet I always find myself looking at them when I'm out thrifting (which is my favorite way to acquire them). I also went through all of my jeans and trousers and realized that I have more than enough of those as well. When out shopping I always ask myself if it's a WOW. If not then I don't buy it. Also important is to make sure it's in a color that suits me and my wardrobe. Your list is so good that I just typed your questions into my phone so I can refer back to them as a reminder. Thank you!!!
Najaaa! I thought about you yesterday because I came across "your" orange Sandro blazer, which was 40% off.. I had only seen it online but now I can say, the texture is insane! 😍 you look so good in this fucsia one, is the one by Zara you showed in another video? 😉 my latest crow brain purchase has to do with my fantasy self and it's a pair of espadrilles with a little wedge. I thought I wouldnt stop wearing them but in the end Im not thst much in the french vibe and I aslways wear my flat sandals, but I will keep them anyway to somewhat special occasion. One thing I learned since watching your channel is to sharp my wishlist, and maybe this makes the crowbrain gets educated, because I have no regrets on two dresses I bought in an impulse. I think the yellow linen shirt can be the case and can give you so much play. I also regret, sometimes, to buy the same exact thing in two or three colous. But in general I think my shopping habits have improved and finally found my go to for summer, by changing jeans for demim skirt. Great video! Thanks and looking forward yo next! Keep up the good work and have fun! 🌻😊
great questions to ask yourself before you buy. I will play that advice in my head now when I look to buy fashion. thank you from CA. (Love your hot pink blazer on you!)
The best tips I have heard of they make so much sense thank you really makes me think about what I need to add to my closet instead of just over buying I enjoyed your video
Salut from a fellow foreigner in Switzerland. I have a naughty habit of justifying my purchases by telling myself I only by secondhand...but it's still an addiction. Thanks for the reminder to be more mindful. I'm going home to Japan in October and I tend to go overboard there as there is a secondhand store near my parents' place that I like to saunter over to when jetlagged. I'm going to aim to limit my purchases this year to one of each clothing type max, with a total of only 5 things. Wish me luck haha. Thanks for the no nonsense inspiration!
1. happened to me with a white shirt, I wear my dark blue and my black one but I don't like white 2. Also guilty, as you say looking for "cool" clothes 3. No history LOL I was just "trying something new" and didn't actually try 4. terrible, because of the "fear" of "losing" 5. not sure 6. sometimes is late
Yet another pair of beige trousers 🙈 Still debating if I should return them, so probably should! They are so comfortable, which is why I haven't returned them yet.
As far as the yellow linen shirt goes, unless I wore a linen shirt only once a week, I would need more than one, and I wouldn't necessarily want two the same color. It's much too hot and humid here in the summer to wear a shirt more than once without washing it.
Considering one's realistic laundry cycle adds a whole new dimension to the question of, "How many do I NEED?" I've been trying to"declutter" since the pandemic struck(!) and will be moving soon, this question keeps coming up for me. Seasons, laundry, moods... Might be a good video topic if you have answers 😉
I actually have a tendency to buy something even if I'm not sure of it. And for the most part trying it on at home I see that it's not working for me. But I need this to convince myself. So try it on first, makes a huge difference.
I found a system that works for me. For example i picked a color pallet that i enjoy and compliments my aesthetic, skin and hair color (usually dark orange, brown, mustard yellow, deep green, beige, ecru) and i love textures like straw, string, suede and knit. I know i enjoy generally boho chic - hippie items. So for example, when i wanted to add new sleeveless blouses for the summer (i barely had any) i made a system in which i said, okay, I'll get one in each of my favorite color, and each one has to have a different shape, texture, or something to it. Each blouse went well with a majority of my pants, as well as with all my sandals and purses. I was able to do this because the last times i bought pants i focused to have them in the same color scheme. Also, i tend to enjoy pants with patterns (though i do have basic items too), so i focused on getting blouses without patterns so they would work perfectly with most pants. Heck, i have a pair of pants that has almost all my color scheme in their pattern and literally look nice with all my new blouses. The concept of "work capsule" is what inspired me to go this way about clothes. Also i had a major wardrobe revamp because i realized I was stuck in a wearing only black and dark colors bubble for *years*. After a while i realized i truly enjoy hippie, beach style clothing, unique jewelry, handmade pieces etc. All the Indian / boho attract me a ton! I'm extremely happy i made this decision but i can say that the advice found in this video is extremely useful!! Now i don't buy anymore multiple pants, shirts, blouses etc in the same exact color, and i don't go for same shape different color either. To me, the best of all worlds, is getting mixed up in both color, shape, texture as long as it fits the majority of my wardrobe.
Thanks for the super helpful tips 👍💯Ahhhhhhhhh! I went to your blog to see if you had your pearl pendant listed but I did not find it. Is it still available? ❤
A pair of high top pull-on leopard print sneakers. I thought they’d go with everything. They don’t go with anything. Didn’t meet any criteria of things I was looking for (didn’t need new sneakers). Total crow brain moment, though they are comfortable. But I haven’t worn them out once.
I have some ones similar, but low, and I always wear it with Jeans (blue, black) and neutral tops. If you avoid prints, the leo sneakers can be a real statement piece in the outfit! ;)
@@olga6644 Thank you! That’s kind of what I figured. But I’m debating whether to try to make them work (given that I have wearable favourites) or to try to resell them while they’re in new condition. (:
@@emmy8526 i would keep them if they made me feel good and confident (you said they are comfortable) and if they could be a good complementary to your fave ones. The point, in my case, is that Im in sneakers 90% of time, so leo are the 'special' ones to make my outfits a little spicy, apart from the Black and the White ones. Good luck! :)
Sorry but which brands are you talking about? I have worked in fashion for a long time, including fast fashion, and I have never ever experienced a store not restocking an item that was returned, unless there was something broken about it. Maybe buying from sheen or something? I don’t know, I don’t take those brands into consideration, I’m assuming most of you don’t shop there.
@@NajaSierra I’m not the OP but I believe that this commonly happens with larger retailers like Amazon, Target/Walmart, and the like. The sellers on retailers like those find that it’s more cost effective to dispose of the item (or even let the customer keep the item) than paying to ship it back to the warehouse and restock the item.
@@angelaa.9915 It seems somewhat more common for 'online' vs. in-person returns (i.e., in-person its usually a matter of just hanging it back, just like they hang back things from the fittin groom). But any sustainable brand will gnerally not engage in throwing it out (and it may just end up in some sale)
@@NajaSierra It's positive that you've never experienced it but it is not always the case. Amazon’s name comes up in a lot of articles about sending returned products to the landfills including clothes. But luxury brands also has a bad reputation for burning unsold and returned clothing. Burberry revealed in 2018 that they burned unsold clothing, Coach also destroyed their returned bags in 2021. They do this because they think that discounts or donating the items will devalue their brand. Over the years, brands like H&M, Nike, Louis Vuitton, Urban Outfitters, Michael Kors, Eddie Bauer, Victoria's Secret also have been accused of destroying their products. Not specifically returned goods but brand new unsold products. For brands who sell cheap clothing, it is sometimes easier and cheaper to throw away returned items than invest time and energy to check the condition, restock and resell them. If customers can try on the clothes in the store, it is a good thing because they can make sure they want the item, and they will wear it and won’t return it. This is the most sustainable thing people can do (next to second-hand shopping, low buy and ethical shopping). Online shopping is more problematic but you can purchase consciously there too. Or if someone really wants to return something, they can give it to a friend instead or resell it online.
My latest impulse purchase is a pink puffed sleeve "boléro " ( it looks like a v neck top but is not) i did use it , i looked like Minnie and like a princess with two different dresses but still it makes me look heavier when it's closed and it's too much . It was on sale. I'll use it , it's dramatic but still pretty.
I’m low key thankful for the rona, most large shopping centers don’t let you shop without masks, and it’s so uncomfortable that I just stay home, and I don’t mess with online shopping usually, because you have no idea about the quality or the fit on you, so I’ve saved so much money >~
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What was your latest crow brain (impulse) purchase? ✨🦅
A beige belt... Not the worst thing in the world, and not the most expensive item.It seemed liked a good idea to have a black and beige belt (as I do own black ad beige trousers) however I never reach for it. The tag is till on the belt, but I tossed the receipt thinking I would keep it.It'll probably be donated to charity.
I bought a pair of Nike blazers even though I never wear hi sneakers (and I'd also choose my Reebok club c instead)
So dangerous to toss the receipt! But I’ve totally been there
Hot pink vintage jumpsuit. Only £3.50 from a thrift shop. Now I have 2 pink jumpsuits. Who needs 2 pink jumpsuits?? Haha 😂
Not necessarily impulse purchase because I have been eyeing the items for a bit, but I just bought 2 pairs of shorts that I won't fit into since I'm 8 months pregnant. 🙈 I was worried about them selling out but I have no idea what my size will be postpartum 😬
The best piece of advice I ever received was: 'Always go shopping wearing one of you're most favourite outfits. Then, when you're in a store's fitting room trying on new pieces, if you don't love the outfit you're trying on more than you love the outfit you're already wearing, don't buy it!' Since I started following that advice I've made more considered - and fewer impulse - purchases.
Fabulous advice Victoria. I've been doing this recently, and it really works. It's also about appreciating and feeling amazing in what I already have.
That's great advice, I'll keep it in mind. Thanks for sharing!
gorgeous!
I will use this , thx 😊.
That's a great tip 👍🏻
Ive learned over the last 10 years after going to stylists and colour experts and editing my wardrobe endlessly and trying to make that magical capsule wardrobe of correct colours that, in essence we like to shop because we feel we aren't beautiful, we don't look like we want to look or we aren't stylish enough or we aren't happy, etc., etc., etc., and we believe if we can just get our clothes right or our house right or our jewellery or style or makeup etc., right, we will feel right, but it just costs us money. Seeing if we have something similar sounds practical but it won't satisfy the feeling that lurks inside which sends us on the shopping merry-go-round and you know what? Designers and stylists know that. They make their money from our insecurities.
"Do I have something at home I'd rather wear?" This is an amazingly revealing question! I think you've just saved me from some future impulse purchases lol! Thank you!
"Do I have a history of..." is new to me and right on point!!
You dress so well! Perfectly stylish yet casual enough for everyday, comfy yet chic and put together! Great advice. Thanks!
I never understood people who are lazy to return their items. the only thing that motivate me to return is I get my money lol. I have a friend who always buy fast fashion, it's part of her hobby. when she doesn't like the piece, she just kept them that eventually pile up in her wardrobe. in fact the tag is still there! I ask her why don't you return them?? she said she was lazy and hassle to return. like I can't brain her 💀💀
Yes! Motivation! Lol
I too can never understand why people wouldn’t return things. I am delighted when I find an item new with tags on a pre loved site or in the charity shop but I do wonder at the mentality of the person who bought it originally. More money than sense in my book.
A lot of it for me is the social rejection aspect. I fear that the employee won’t take the return for some reason, and then risk the embarrassment of having to walk away with it anyway, or to have the employee shame me or accuse me of trying to scam. It sounds really silly because I know they don’t care, but it’s hard for me to work up the courage to make a return, so it’s not always about laziness.
The colour of the blazer you’re wearing is very flattering on you!
Thank you! So happy with it xx
Agreed!
The most eye opening to me is "Do I have something at home that I would rather wear". If the answer is yes then I will most likely never wear the new item. Excellent video.
Thank you ❤️
One of the best tips I ever got was start with the shoes. If you are trying something on be sure you know what kind of shoes you can wear with it. Or if it is reasonable to think you can find them and purchase them.
I end up finding more in shoes than I do in tops or clothes!!! But I found the cute green dress to go with these multicolored shoes that I absolutely adore and then I found another shirt in my wardrobe that goes with it with a pair of white jeans so I noticed many things go with it!
Really great suggestions. I appreciate you emphasizing not to abuse the buy-and-return loop. And the tip to consider if there’s something you already own that you’d rather reach for instead is a great one; I often pass on pieces because I don’t want to “cannibalize” wears from things I already own and love.
Yes! With a clothing app or other kind of tracker, it also incentivizes and “game-ifies” that kind of minimalist, economical, environmentally-friendly approach.
This video is very helpful because I'm in the middle of shopping my very first work capsule. I have to discipline myself from duplicates!
That fuschia pink blazer looks great on you btw!
I am blonde and never thought I could wear this color I tried one on at Zara a few days ago and bought it ..both the blazer and a matching blouse. I buy very very little.
A vintage 90s fluffy supersoft Angora short sleeve sweater... In purple. I never wear purple. Or short sleeve sweaters. Fantasy me does?
It is super soft though, like patting a bunny. So I still haven't given it away 😆
maybe it's a house sweater?
@@lizasoliman723 it probably will be, but with a long sleeve top underneath. I get cold really easily 😆
Hmmmm... A very 90s look: dark wash jeans, aubergine fluffy short sleeve sweater and long sleeve Breton top underneath....
If you have high waist pants or skirt that type of jumper can work in an office environment where the air temperature is just a little on the cold side.
@@PK-nf3jg So what about a cardigan over the sweater? It would tone down the purple and keep you warm. I miss my angora sweaters!
I wish I'd had this advice YEARS ago! Thank you! I have a stuffed closet with nothing to wear! I'll be watching your Decluttering video next! Freedom and fashion at last!
Loved the tips, especially the ‘do I have some thing I prefer to wear in my wardrobe’. A question I’m learning to ask myself more often whilst shopping. Btw the pink blazer looks so lovely - I think the colour saturation makes it look more ‘expensive’ than the other H&M ones!
That pink blazer with your blonde hair looks outstanding
I actually really like the yellow shirt on you, more than the white ♥️
Naja Sierra has a pearl drop necklace, so I got a pearl drop necklace. [I can't stop wearing it - it goes with everything]
Oh my god, my FAVORITE movie, thanks for quoting 😭😄💕
Genuinely good advice and I was happy to see that some of the things you recommend are tips that have been helping me for years. Like asking if you already have something that could serve the same purpose.
If I like something I usually buy them in different colors 🥴🤷🏻♀️
Lots of great advice. Doing alot of walking away from impulse buys at the moment. X
I love oversized long blazers but they just make me look short. I can't pull them off at all and always reach for a fitted one instead as it just flatters so much more..... work with that you've got :)
But the yellow linen top DOES compliment your white skirt. It's nice having a couple of options you love, not necessarily 18 of those same things. One question I ask myself is do I NEED this VS do I WANT ? And WHY? In my new style journey I've come up with several questions to prevent over purchasing, purchasing things that are not in my style or color pallette and within my budget for the item.
The yellow looked stunning on Naja, I agree 💛
I agree it’s lovely, just don’t think I’ll pick it over the white one on many occasions xx
Agreed!
@@NajaSierra So do you wash it immediately after wearing it? What if you want to wear a linen shirt twice in one week and the white one needs washing? I would find it extremely annoying to have to carve out extra time to stop and take care of laundry if I don't ordinarily do it then.
@@edennis8578 @E Dennis Then I have another white shirt. And then in black, beige, blue and blue striped as well, that I would likely also pick over yellow.
I absolutely love your videos, your style, your criteria and thinking process for choosing and curating your wardrobe! I am binging your videos for days already, and must say your attitude is truly inspiring for me as I'm working my way into a much more thoughtful approach to clothing, and to minimalism in general. THANK YOU and warm hugs from a fellow Zürcher ❤✌
Hoi!! Thank you for letting me know, I am SO happy to hear that!! xx
What a good question - do I have something I'd rather wear instead - I wish I'd gone armed with this earlier. I am trying to check my tendency to buy things which I think will be useful but where I already own something better.
The key question is always "do I love it'. If not don't bother - likely you already own something you could wear
Love using what I have and using it in a new way. Being intentional while purchasing new things.
Those questions are key Naja. Great advice. Thank you. We need to keep reminding ourselves,of this as consumers in every area of our lives
"Dont you already have something like that?" s exactly what my husband always says 😆
Lol
This is so useful , i could've used this , you described it so well , i have some trendy pieces in my wardrobe that i didn't even wear and they are not my style . Also looking back I did purchase similar things while I could've just worn what i have ; indeed yes i was searching for that newness feeling . Thank you so much ❤️ . I'm saving this video.
This is my favorite video of yours so far, the perfect set of questions to avoid mistakes - I’m saving it to my library. I do use most of these questions when shopping, and when I don’t, that’s when I buy stuff I regret!
So glad you enjoyed it so much! xx
This is all such good advice. I love the proof of concept idea and also asking yourself if you have something in your wardrobe that you could wear instead. Thanks Naja!
I cleaned out my closet today and found that I own 4 black blazers yet I always find myself looking at them when I'm out thrifting (which is my favorite way to acquire them). I also went through all of my jeans and trousers and realized that I have more than enough of those as well. When out shopping I always ask myself if it's a WOW. If not then I don't buy it. Also important is to make sure it's in a color that suits me and my wardrobe. Your list is so good that I just typed your questions into my phone so I can refer back to them as a reminder. Thank you!!!
Always great tips. That pink blazer is gorgeous 🥰
You're one of the first fashion youtubers that I have found whose fashion style is similar to mine
Najaaa! I thought about you yesterday because I came across "your" orange Sandro blazer, which was 40% off.. I had only seen it online but now I can say, the texture is insane! 😍 you look so good in this fucsia one, is the one by Zara you showed in another video? 😉 my latest crow brain purchase has to do with my fantasy self and it's a pair of espadrilles with a little wedge. I thought I wouldnt stop wearing them but in the end Im not thst much in the french vibe and I aslways wear my flat sandals, but I will keep them anyway to somewhat special occasion. One thing I learned since watching your channel is to sharp my wishlist, and maybe this makes the crowbrain gets educated, because I have no regrets on two dresses I bought in an impulse. I think the yellow linen shirt can be the case and can give you so much play. I also regret, sometimes, to buy the same exact thing in two or three colous. But in general I think my shopping habits have improved and finally found my go to for summer, by changing jeans for demim skirt. Great video! Thanks and looking forward yo next! Keep up the good work and have fun! 🌻😊
great questions to ask yourself before you buy. I will play that advice in my head now when I look to buy fashion. thank you from CA. (Love your hot pink blazer on you!)
Buying for the newness. Nailed it!
The best tips I have heard of they make so much sense thank you really makes me think about what I need to add to my closet instead of just over buying I enjoyed your video
These are the best tips in this category I've seen
Glad you think so!
Damn girl, you look so good in these shorts!
Salut from a fellow foreigner in Switzerland.
I have a naughty habit of justifying my purchases by telling myself I only by secondhand...but it's still an addiction. Thanks for the reminder to be more mindful. I'm going home to Japan in October and I tend to go overboard there as there is a secondhand store near my parents' place that I like to saunter over to when jetlagged. I'm going to aim to limit my purchases this year to one of each clothing type max, with a total of only 5 things. Wish me luck haha.
Thanks for the no nonsense inspiration!
1. happened to me with a white shirt, I wear my dark blue and my black one but I don't like white
2. Also guilty, as you say looking for "cool" clothes
3. No history LOL I was just "trying something new" and didn't actually try
4. terrible, because of the "fear" of "losing"
5. not sure
6. sometimes is late
Your yellow button linen shirt will look great with jeans.
Yet another pair of beige trousers 🙈 Still debating if I should return them, so probably should! They are so comfortable, which is why I haven't returned them yet.
If you’re debating, it’s a good sign to send back for sure! xx
I really liked the yellow blouse!
As far as the yellow linen shirt goes, unless I wore a linen shirt only once a week, I would need more than one, and I wouldn't necessarily want two the same color. It's much too hot and humid here in the summer to wear a shirt more than once without washing it.
Not needing it in yellow, doesn't mean sticking to only one shirt.
Considering one's realistic laundry cycle adds a whole new dimension to the question of, "How many do I NEED?" I've been trying to"declutter" since the pandemic struck(!) and will be moving soon, this question keeps coming up for me. Seasons, laundry, moods... Might be a good video topic if you have answers 😉
I actually have a tendency to buy something even if I'm not sure of it. And for the most part trying it on at home I see that it's not working for me. But I need this to convince myself. So try it on first, makes a huge difference.
Thank you very helpful, now I will ask myself before I start buying anything. Thank you again.
Your comments are soooo wise, I love all the questions to ask myself. Brilliant way of defining what works and what does not, thanks!
This video is good financial advice.
Channels like these are suchhh a blessing
Excellent ! First time viewer & brand new subscriber here ! Yay ! I love blazers, too !
Such great tips!
Master returner here too!🙋🏼♀️😆
Great tips and aesthetic!
As always, so good and helpful.
So many great tips! Keep up the good work. Sending lots of love 💗
Look into your colour season. The light orange looks gorgeous on you while the other dark colours don't do the same.
I agree I hate black it doesn’t look that great on people depends on the person too many women get stuck on black.
Girl!!!! Absolutely true! Great tips!!
Great advice! x
Very helpful -thank you 🤗
I found a system that works for me. For example i picked a color pallet that i enjoy and compliments my aesthetic, skin and hair color (usually dark orange, brown, mustard yellow, deep green, beige, ecru) and i love textures like straw, string, suede and knit. I know i enjoy generally boho chic - hippie items.
So for example, when i wanted to add new sleeveless blouses for the summer (i barely had any) i made a system in which i said, okay, I'll get one in each of my favorite color, and each one has to have a different shape, texture, or something to it. Each blouse went well with a majority of my pants, as well as with all my sandals and purses.
I was able to do this because the last times i bought pants i focused to have them in the same color scheme. Also, i tend to enjoy pants with patterns (though i do have basic items too), so i focused on getting blouses without patterns so they would work perfectly with most pants.
Heck, i have a pair of pants that has almost all my color scheme in their pattern and literally look nice with all my new blouses.
The concept of "work capsule" is what inspired me to go this way about clothes. Also i had a major wardrobe revamp because i realized I was stuck in a wearing only black and dark colors bubble for *years*. After a while i realized i truly enjoy hippie, beach style clothing, unique jewelry, handmade pieces etc. All the Indian / boho attract me a ton!
I'm extremely happy i made this decision but i can say that the advice found in this video is extremely useful!! Now i don't buy anymore multiple pants, shirts, blouses etc in the same exact color, and i don't go for same shape different color either. To me, the best of all worlds, is getting mixed up in both color, shape, texture as long as it fits the majority of my wardrobe.
You sound like me. I recently realised that I feel my best when I'm wearing that laid back Californian girl look and barely wear black now.
What an awesome video! Thank you so much for this great content!
P.S. You are so pretty, Hollywood movies pretty 😍
Super questions, thank you 😃
Thanks for the super helpful tips 👍💯Ahhhhhhhhh! I went to your blog to see if you had your pearl pendant listed but I did not find it. Is it still available? ❤
Great ideas
A pair of high top pull-on leopard print sneakers. I thought they’d go with everything. They don’t go with anything. Didn’t meet any criteria of things I was looking for (didn’t need new sneakers). Total crow brain moment, though they are comfortable. But I haven’t worn them out once.
I have some ones similar, but low, and I always wear it with Jeans (blue, black) and neutral tops. If you avoid prints, the leo sneakers can be a real statement piece in the outfit! ;)
@@olga6644 Thank you! That’s kind of what I figured. But I’m debating whether to try to make them work (given that I have wearable favourites) or to try to resell them while they’re in new condition. (:
@@emmy8526 i would keep them if they made me feel good and confident (you said they are comfortable) and if they could be a good complementary to your fave ones. The point, in my case, is that Im in sneakers 90% of time, so leo are the 'special' ones to make my outfits a little spicy, apart from the Black and the White ones. Good luck! :)
Love your content :) Have a nice day you beauty!
New never lasts 💥 so True
Sadly, a lot of returned products never get sold again, just end up in the landfills. So, returning an item is not that sustainable
Sorry but which brands are you talking about? I have worked in fashion for a long time, including fast fashion, and I have never ever experienced a store not restocking an item that was returned, unless there was something broken about it.
Maybe buying from sheen or something? I don’t know, I don’t take those brands into consideration, I’m assuming most of you don’t shop there.
@@NajaSierra I’m not the OP but I believe that this commonly happens with larger retailers like Amazon, Target/Walmart, and the like. The sellers on retailers like those find that it’s more cost effective to dispose of the item (or even let the customer keep the item) than paying to ship it back to the warehouse and restock the item.
@@angelaa.9915 It seems somewhat more common for 'online' vs. in-person returns (i.e., in-person its usually a matter of just hanging it back, just like they hang back things from the fittin groom). But any sustainable brand will gnerally not engage in throwing it out (and it may just end up in some sale)
@@NajaSierra It's positive that you've never experienced it but it is not always the case. Amazon’s name comes up in a lot of articles about sending returned products to the landfills including clothes. But luxury brands also has a bad reputation for burning unsold and returned clothing. Burberry revealed in 2018 that they burned unsold clothing, Coach also destroyed their returned bags in 2021. They do this because they think that discounts or donating the items will devalue their brand.
Over the years, brands like H&M, Nike, Louis Vuitton, Urban Outfitters, Michael Kors, Eddie Bauer, Victoria's Secret also have been accused of destroying their products. Not specifically returned goods but brand new unsold products.
For brands who sell cheap clothing, it is sometimes easier and cheaper to throw away returned items than invest time and energy to check the condition, restock and resell them.
If customers can try on the clothes in the store, it is a good thing because they can make sure they want the item, and they will wear it and won’t return it. This is the most sustainable thing people can do (next to second-hand shopping, low buy and ethical shopping). Online shopping is more problematic but you can purchase consciously there too. Or if someone really wants to return something, they can give it to a friend instead or resell it online.
Why dont they donate them to a good cause.
Very lovely. Where is this blazer from? Thanks!
My latest impulse purchase is a pink puffed sleeve "boléro " ( it looks like a v neck top but is not) i did use it , i looked like Minnie and like a princess with two different dresses but still it makes me look heavier when it's closed and it's too much . It was on sale. I'll use it , it's dramatic but still pretty.
If I keep questioning, I will end up never buying anything 🤣🤣
Good advice.
Love your videos!!
Thank you 💗
Excellent content! ❤️
My not latest impulse purchase is a big (looks like a balloon) black dress , i couldn't use it.
thanks
I don't buy jumpsuits anymore because I know I won't wear them. This is because I know I will resent them when I need to use the toilet lol.
Ikr? I think jumpsuits look beautiful, but going to the bathroom is an exercise in masochism.
@@edennis8578 Yeah! It's like you almost have to get completely undressed to pee!
I’m low key thankful for the rona, most large shopping centers don’t let you shop without masks, and it’s so uncomfortable that I just stay home, and I don’t mess with online shopping usually, because you have no idea about the quality or the fit on you, so I’ve saved so much money >~
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Did you forget to wear something under that pink blazer?
That black bird that popped up…🙃
Please show us where to buy wrap dresses 👗 😁🦘🇦🇺💝 as they don't date.
Check out her website, she has clothing links.