Tsis Muaj Dabtsi Yuav Khuv Xim Li Khuv Xim Koj. 7/25/22

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ความคิดเห็น • 182

  • @sibphimthiajsibtauchannel7155
    @sibphimthiajsibtauchannel7155 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cov uas pheej npaj siab qee rau tej qub pob kws lwj ces mloog zaj no es rov mus hlub koj tus niam tsev thiaj tsis muaj hnub khuv xim li no nawb

  • @tongyang6314
    @tongyang6314 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Cov neeg uas pheej npaj siab ntsoov rau cov me qub nkauj qub nraug ces zoo li no xwb tiag, hlub zaum 2 ces yeej tsis zoo li qub lawm os....yus tsuas nros yus ruam, nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os....cia koj khuv xim kom tag tiam.

  • @kaoxiong6148
    @kaoxiong6148 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Bro, your girlfriend didn’t choose you at first…why you decided to divorce your wife and went back to your ex…??? Your wife had all your kids, and you decided to leave her. That is a stupid decision that a man ever made. A wise man would never leave his wife and kids for his ex…! You just lost your pearl to another man. A good lesson learn to guys who still wanna to pursue and follow your footsteps and leave his wife and kids…😩!!!

    • @zouavang1776
      @zouavang1776 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dude, live your life forward not backward. There is plenty of fishes. If it’s wasn’t meant to be, moved on. She was married and still cheated on her husband. Red flags!! Move on idiot!!

  • @ethankeukeu
    @ethankeukeu ปีที่แล้ว +58

    You do not regret losing your ex-wife. You are only regretting that it didn’t work out with your mistress and it caused you to lose everything you worked hard for. You do not miss your ex-wife, you miss the comfortable life that she provided you. That’s NOT love. If you loved her, you wouldn’t chose your mistress over her.

    • @OppoA-rg5hn
      @OppoA-rg5hn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      MV

    • @GoTEveLyn
      @GoTEveLyn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

    • @lala6836
      @lala6836 ปีที่แล้ว

      ໍໍໍໍໍ

    • @kellyxiong8476
      @kellyxiong8476 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said!

    • @Loves_DuckSR
      @Loves_DuckSR ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was going to write the same thing. But you said first! Agreed

  • @vajhawj3737
    @vajhawj3737 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    All I gotta say is..Happy wife happy life! So guys be good to your baby momma if you don’t want no drama. ✌️

  • @dianeonyxiong9457
    @dianeonyxiong9457 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Zoo kawg.... Nej cov txiv neej hmoob lub siab yeej xav tau niam dev xwb tsis yog niam tsev. You traded your gold for nothing. You want your wife to look sexy and good but you don't want to give her a hand. Hmong mem the majority act like they are king . They act like they hand no eyes no hands and no responsibility to help with the family and kids. No wonder we have no time to make ourselves look good. When they see us not looking good they find else where.

  • @susanlee7349
    @susanlee7349 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m glad your ex wife moved on and found someone that can love her. You were tested and you failed: so I agree w your ex, even if she took u back and someone can take u back so easily like your ex girlfriend than another women can at anytime. I have no sympathy for you. It’s a lesson learn. GL and I hope you find someone who can love you and let your past be a lesson

  • @pajlugtswb5341
    @pajlugtswb5341 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tu siab ntau pab tsis tau vim koj siab phem koj thiaj khuvxim……kom txog hnub tuag, I am glad you see her beautiful again.

  • @phiablauj6113
    @phiablauj6113 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Qub hluas nkauj hluas nraug ces txhob ntshaw txhob tos lawm koj ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os

  • @chouathao2122
    @chouathao2122 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    you're just ranting about your jealousy for your ex wife. you're paying for your karma. When you're no longer important to your clan, you don't get to judge others. Your kids will love you as much as you love them, so don't complain if they don't love you as much as you want.

  • @hmoophem
    @hmoophem ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The grass is not always greener on the other side

  • @touyang3403
    @touyang3403 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tus txiv tsev no- raug dab ob ceg lawm. Thiaj muab teeb qub pauv teeb tshiab. Thiab dej ntws mus. Dej tsis ntws rov. Tsis tu siab li, vim niam txiv yug tau yus tsis dig muag. Yus mus ua yus muag dig xwb.

  • @itsmaichee
    @itsmaichee ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m glad you learned your lesson but sad that you realized it too late.

  • @maipha8560
    @maipha8560 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Oyo, one man trash is another man treasure. It's all your doing, you're too shallow and only see what's on the outside. True love and beauty are from within. Sadly, there's too many people who falls into this trap. Lust is only temporary and when reality sets in, it's too late then

  • @wbkevzoo6188
    @wbkevzoo6188 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yog lawm os thaum kev hlub tas lawm ces tsi nco khuv xim li

  • @kerjin3604
    @kerjin3604 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yog lawm os...nrog koj tu siab os tu nus

  • @pajlisyaj1716
    @pajlisyaj1716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Zoo kawg rau nej cov txiv tsev es pheej ntxeev siab rau yus tus zoo niam tsev na paub lawm pos yog nej ntxeev siab rau peb ces peb yeej ua ib siab Lawm nawb hos nej ces kawg Lub khuv xim xwb tiag ,

  • @evabhmongocadventure9831
    @evabhmongocadventure9831 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Good for people that always have hope for your exes and dumping your spouse for your ex. The second time is not the same as the first time. You are a looser that’s all is not your fortune.

  • @maivxeemthoj2344
    @maivxeemthoj2344 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kv pab like rau koj lawm o

  • @phouayang7313
    @phouayang7313 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yam khoom yus taus tsis muaj qhis ces zaum nos poob raus luag tes ces tsis rov los lawm mog txiv neej hmoob nej saib taus yam yus muaj

  • @sombunman5551
    @sombunman5551 ปีที่แล้ว

    Niam ntsuab teev Cas koj yuav txawj hais lus ua luaj ?

  • @zetunai1375
    @zetunai1375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Water your own grass and stop worrying about other people's grass

  • @Yajsuab
    @Yajsuab ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What you don't value will be another man's treasure and you just trade your gold for a fake gold.

  • @beckyherr9607
    @beckyherr9607 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You get what you get that’s all I can say… niam qhua ntxiv xwb os so don’t complain.. men always thinks grass is greener on the other side until it’s to late for them smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @mangtvang920
    @mangtvang920 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ua tsaug rau tus Txiv Tsev uas koj tseem los qhia qhov tseeb rau peb ib tsoom Txiv Tsev thiaj paub.

  • @bliaxiong9563
    @bliaxiong9563 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kuv ntxub cov txiv neej zoo lis koj. Thov kom cov txiv neej siab phem tuag kom tag hauv lub ntiajteb no mus. Nyob los nyhav av xwb, nyob los tsim txom poj niam siab ntsws xwb.

  • @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb
    @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb ปีที่แล้ว

    yog lawm

  • @diannaxiong693
    @diannaxiong693 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hmoov tag lawm os yawm txiv aw.

  • @c.lee-soulisak327
    @c.lee-soulisak327 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's sad to have regrets after you've made a horribly bad decision because you though the grass was greener on the other side..because you didn't appreciate the wife you had. But you made that bad decision and now you can't get your old life back.
    You just have to move on because that was your intention in the first place when you destroyed your marriage. I feel sorry for you because you realized top late. Good luck to you brother.

  • @sarahfang9550
    @sarahfang9550 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nyiam qhuav ntxim xwb os....cov txiv neej ua tus niam muab yus txhawb2 tus zoo tub neeg hwm tus tes yus ua phen rau luag nas.. ...

  • @xongyang4392
    @xongyang4392 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vim koj ntseeg koj tus qub hluas nkauj dhau lawm koj thiaj npam thiaj rov qab khu xim koj tus niam tsev

  • @pailor2296
    @pailor2296 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow qhuas koj siab kawg koj ces npam ntag tab tom phim xwb os

  • @baoyang6565
    @baoyang6565 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Brother, you're not the only Hmong man that make this stupid mistakes. Unfortunately men never learned. You get what you deserved.

  • @maiyengjohnvang
    @maiyengjohnvang ปีที่แล้ว

    Txiv neej tsis sawm zoo. Nov yog kev kawm rau koj zwb os.

  • @pangher8903
    @pangher8903 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ua cas zaj dabneeg twg los yog cov niag txiv dev rhuav lub neej tas li xwb. Will hmong men ever learn from these txiv devices? Enough hmong men!!!!

  • @nkaujhmoob1164
    @nkaujhmoob1164 ปีที่แล้ว

    Txhob tu siab tau tus zoo niam tsev es tsis xav yuav es thiaj muab pauv tus niam dev ne

  • @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb
    @NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb ปีที่แล้ว

    koj yuav khuv xim qub hlua nkauj ma khuv xim cov mu ua neej zoo2 thiaj

  • @shanexish
    @shanexish ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cov txiv neej es siv lawv rab yaj phom los txiav txim tso lawv tus zoo niam teej cuab tseg li no ces nyuam qhuav ntxim li no xwb.

  • @leechang1814
    @leechang1814 ปีที่แล้ว

    May aw...koj muab tus txiv neej yawg no lub neej coj los ua ib zaj xem nem qhia rau peb tau khaws coj mus ua lub neej es thov qhuas thiab ua koj tsaug os mog!!!

  • @maryly09
    @maryly09 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm glad u got a second chance with your ex-gf so koj thiaj li paub and koj siab thiaj li nqeg. U wouldn't know and wouldn't learn if u didn't get a second chance.

  • @lisvajhuam3553
    @lisvajhuam3553 ปีที่แล้ว

    thaum hluas twb aim muaj aim txaus lawm tseem tig rov nrhiav aim ntxiv ces kawg yus khub hnyiab

  • @diayang8949
    @diayang8949 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's too bad. It's your lose. Lig dhau lawm lau

  • @chiliayang5832
    @chiliayang5832 ปีที่แล้ว

    Peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces niaj hnub mus phov ces kawg li no xwb

  • @7stars2love
    @7stars2love ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kawm nawb cov txiv tsev uas ua ua hluas es xav tias yus tus niam tsev tsis zoo txaus na.

  • @cocopha5778
    @cocopha5778 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nyuam qhuav NTxim xwb Nej Cov txiv neej na tuag tsis tuag yom

  • @panouthao6350
    @panouthao6350 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are absolutely right. You cannot build a happiness on someone’s else sadness and hurting especially when they are your life partner.

  • @GoldenDragon1984
    @GoldenDragon1984 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tus txiv dev laus aw koj ces tsim nyog tuag lawm laus 🥶🥶🥶

  • @yiahawj4789
    @yiahawj4789 ปีที่แล้ว

    Txiv dev tshuab. Cuab.

  • @hmoobheroe
    @hmoobheroe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This story is a great reminder that we individually create our own fate by the decisions that we make and choose. The theme of these Hmoob husband and Hmoob men is very disappointing. They're not only husband's, but fathers to their children. They preach and teach their children to be good people in life, but yet they're doing the very opposite and are terrible role models.

  • @vivohp9472
    @vivohp9472 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hai kom tus tswv zaj dab neeg no qhia tus saub saib hmoov tus foos rau peb xav saib thiab o

  • @kazouaher2496
    @kazouaher2496 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zoo kawg koj tus qub hluas nraug dag koj kom koj lub neej puag lim ib yam li nws lub xwb. Cov txiv tsev hmoob cas koj txawm yuav qhia tuag ku los lawv yeej tsi nteeg li tsaug leej twg nws thiaj paub xwb.

  • @user-zm7ni8wz1f
    @user-zm7ni8wz1f ปีที่แล้ว

    neeg siab phem ces txawm tig los yeej rov ua phem dua yeej tsi ua zoo li os

  • @ViVo-km1jg
    @ViVo-km1jg ปีที่แล้ว

    Yauv ua ca kv thb hu tau 6 kj os niam ls

  • @chiatxiablaujchannel
    @chiatxiablaujchannel ปีที่แล้ว

    Zoo kawg li os py aw cas tu siab kawg li os

  • @Lifemoments54
    @Lifemoments54 ปีที่แล้ว

    Neeg siab phem ces zoo no tiag. Saib tus neeg hlub koj tsis muaj nqes nes.

  • @leejmuam1
    @leejmuam1 ปีที่แล้ว

    When leej Muam dai siab is so strong 🤣🤣🤣 wrong moves.

  • @neejkhuamsiabyang2944
    @neejkhuamsiabyang2944 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tu....siab los yog Tim koj siab dub mag koj niag qub hluas nkauj dag Tau koj .

  • @qhaubnoom
    @qhaubnoom ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I applaud you for acknowledging and admitting your mistakes. I hope your story will help open the eyes of many. I pray that you will find peace within yourself. Good luck!

  • @sombunman5551
    @sombunman5551 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tus neeg hmoov ge cais xav tau Los paub lig lawd ! Pab koj tiab su os

  • @yilengyang3325
    @yilengyang3325 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nco nco qub kiav roj ces Thaum rov mus noj nas has haw quav tuag ces yog koj ntag nawb tus kwv tij Txhob xav xav raub qub kiav roj noj thiaj tsi haw quav nawb Peb hmoob tsi hais poj niam los txiv neej tag nrho

  • @maryher262
    @maryher262 ปีที่แล้ว

    lg

  • @chiliayang5832
    @chiliayang5832 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cov neeg uas npaj mus yuav tub qub ces zoo li no ntag mas

  • @vkaotxia7779
    @vkaotxia7779 ปีที่แล้ว

    Txiv neej ruam ces yog koj ntag tus poj nrauj yeej tsis zoo cuag koj tus niam tsev ib sim mog txawm koj tus qub hlub los yeej tsis cuag koj tus niam tsev lawm nawb es lwm tiam mam txhob ruamruam mog

  • @meganxiong3324
    @meganxiong3324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To the man who not think about the good wife he only think about the ex girlfriend you deserve what you did to your wife now ending have nothing left for you the most times man think about the other woman not the one they with not you lost everything you have to someone who there for your wife you got what you deserve

  • @myprecious6751
    @myprecious6751 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    IT IS TOO LATE TO HAVE REGRETS BROTHER....YOU CANNOT TURN BACK TIME....YOU DIVORCED YOUR WIFE AND KID'S. YOU CAN BE A FATHER TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND HER KID'S BUT YOU NEGLRCTED YOUR CHILDREN. SO YOU CANNOT BLAMED THEM FOR NOT LOVING YOU OR GIVING THE RESPECT DUE AS THEIR FATHER. YOU CANNOT CLAIMED THEIR BRIDAL DOWRY AND YOU DIDN'T LIFET A SINGLE PENNY FOR YOUR SON'S WEDDING.

  • @sombunman5551
    @sombunman5551 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tau nyab zoo Los phem tub cais ua ib siab ncaim mus tag niam txhiab ib txhi mog

  • @Taumliab
    @Taumliab ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry grass is not greener on the other side. Sad that you thought your spouse loved you for so many years. You lived with lies. That's so hurtful. I can't look back, but to move forward knowing that he never loved me, but used me only. It will not work for him because she's got her ex husband that trained her differently. It's hard for him to train her back. For the ex wife, move on, there's lots of good blessings coming your way.

  • @tinayang548
    @tinayang548 ปีที่แล้ว

    Txoj twg los cas txiv neej khuv xim poj niam xwb,txiv neej yuav tau hlub poj niam nawb

  • @hlubvimkojusa2140
    @hlubvimkojusa2140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Koj cas ua poj Ruam xwb mas??…Hahaha

  • @kevinlee4631
    @kevinlee4631 ปีที่แล้ว

    1 tug txiv neej ntxeev siab zoo koj ces kav tsij puag koj rab yaj phom pw 1 leeg xwb zoo dua

  • @iaducel6518
    @iaducel6518 ปีที่แล้ว

    Txiv neej hmoob lub siab lim hiam ces li no tiag.tsis sawm zoo.

  • @thaevang5369
    @thaevang5369 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kwv tij koj yog 1 tug ntawm 1 pab uas kuv pheej hais tias tsim nyog mus npuav phom lawm. Koj ces kawg yuav tau npuav phom thiaj li tsis mob siab lawm xwb.

  • @Shoua608
    @Shoua608 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Haha tsim nyog qhov koj khuv xim koj tus qub hluas nkauj tiam no lawm mas. Koj tsuas phim hom poj niam zoo li koj tus qub hluas nkauj no xwb. Thaum koj poj niam nyob ntawm koj sab tes koj saib nws tsis muaj nqi. Koj tus poj niam yog neeg zoo txawm nws yuav tau tus txiv dev xwb los nws yeej muab tsa tau los ua txiv tsev.
    Tos thaum koj tus niam tsev Nrog koj nyob nws tsis zoo rau koj los koj twb tsis hlub tsis txhawb nws. Noj thiab hnav los koj twb tsis pub nws noj hnav zoo nws thiaj tsis zoo. Tsim nyog qhov koj muab koj thooj kub mus pauv thooj txhuas

  • @maikouxiong7786
    @maikouxiong7786 ปีที่แล้ว

    Qhua ntxim xwb… nej cov txiv neej muaj plus…

  • @melanieyang8075
    @melanieyang8075 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nej cov txiv neej uas tsuas xav ua neeg xwb es tsis xav ua neej ces zoo li ko mas, nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os.

  • @neejkhuamsiabyang2944
    @neejkhuamsiabyang2944 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha paub Li ntawv cas hos tsis hlub tej poj niam es saib tsis tej poj niam Li.

  • @hlubkojforever1901
    @hlubkojforever1901 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zoo kawg… Koj tseem tseem yog txiv dev.

  • @lengvang2348
    @lengvang2348 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nrog koj tu sib mog phooj yeh.

  • @hlubyang4072
    @hlubyang4072 ปีที่แล้ว

    Txhob khuv xim koj tu niam tsev os hauv koj lub siab nws twb zoo tsis txaus rau koj, koj thiaj li nrauj tawm yog nws tseem nrog koj nyob lo koj yeej tsis hlub ho cia nws mus hloov dua tswv tshiab...tab sis nws yog tu niam tsev zoo ces txawm leej twg yuav lo yeej tau tu zoo niam tsev....koj thoob kub uas koj khaws rov lo thaum kawg na ha yog tooj daj thiab txhuas xwb puas yog nab....nej ib hom txiv neej yeej nyiam nyiam khaws quav tooj quav hlau ne...

  • @yuxianlee2864
    @yuxianlee2864 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ho yom thaub aw tim koj pheej nco nco qub kiav roj ntag Lau koj lub siab tsis tuag rau nws ne koj neej thiaj tsis ntseg lau. Pliag ib thooj kub lawm koj ces ua ib siab xwb o.

  • @mayvang5902
    @mayvang5902 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tus tij laug thov koj muab tus saub ua koj tau hais los no tus nab npawb xov tooj koj muab rau niam ntsuab teev kom nws hais ua tsaug

  • @mouavang3371
    @mouavang3371 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your influential story brother. Thanks for sharing.

  • @neejkhuamsiabyang2944
    @neejkhuamsiabyang2944 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vim pheej saib tsis taus Tus koj tau es koj saib tsis taus luag.

  • @brendayangvang9756
    @brendayangvang9756 ปีที่แล้ว

    Koj ces liam2 nyuam qhuav haum

  • @hanhsung8440
    @hanhsung8440 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zoo mloog heev li so kuv yog tus tib ib

  • @vahchuat
    @vahchuat ปีที่แล้ว

    Cov muam es yus cov nus twb muaj neej khov kho lawm los tseem muab yus tej nus tej phone rau tej poj nrauj thiab cov muam no tsis ntxim hlub li os

  • @cocopha5778
    @cocopha5778 ปีที่แล้ว

    Npam os Cov niag neeg ntxeev siab

  • @ntxhivajpajdahlia7691
    @ntxhivajpajdahlia7691 ปีที่แล้ว

    Txoj me dab neeg no zoo kiag li kuv txoj ntag

  • @luckyyang79
    @luckyyang79 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Same story different day

  • @sayyang767
    @sayyang767 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thaub Kuv mloog koj hais mas koj yog cov neeg yuav ruas tsi ruas yuav tsev tsi tsev nias ob ces tsi pleg.

  • @theevaj9923
    @theevaj9923 ปีที่แล้ว

    Koj hai zoo

  • @nancychao9738
    @nancychao9738 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy blamehis ex gf. 🤣

  • @youwatchme3631
    @youwatchme3631 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hmoob lubneej qhov tseem ceeb thiab qhov loj yog xavkom muaj npe noj mov cuavzos xwb los?

  • @Loves_DuckSR
    @Loves_DuckSR ปีที่แล้ว

    May this story help others

  • @suelo617
    @suelo617 ปีที่แล้ว

    Qub nkauj nraug ib feem rov sib ntsib los yog los nyob ua ke ces zoo ib yam mus yos hav zoov es mus nrog phis nyuaj yais ua rog seb leej twg yog tus yeej xwb vim neb ob leeg muaj qhov tias thaum ub yog tim koj tim kuv thiaj plam los yog phem li ko koj niag thiaj muab koj nrauj zoo tshaj plam ces cia plam ua lub chaw nco mus ib sim zoo dua

  • @yaseeyasee6227
    @yaseeyasee6227 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nyias muaj nyias ntu mob

  • @ViVo-lr4fs
    @ViVo-lr4fs ปีที่แล้ว

    Niag txiv dev tsua nro yu ruam2 xwb nyua qhua hau

  • @meexiong9961
    @meexiong9961 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cov niag ntsej muag txiv tshob cuab quav dev qias neeg ...nej ces tsuas zoo ntawm tus zoo niam tsev tshaj Haj txhais tes xwb o...thaum dhau ntawm nws mus lawm ces nej tsuas yog khib nyiab lawm xwb o...

  • @TMoua79
    @TMoua79 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hoyo…pab tsis tau lod.

  • @xiongvang9584
    @xiongvang9584 ปีที่แล้ว

    I sometimes wonder if these couples are the same ones talking about each other