when my brother was a kid, he climbed the tree in our front yard, dressed as spider-man, and wanted to give out candy to kids that came by. i don’t remember the specifics but he came back in not long after crying saying that some kids had come by and attacked him in some way. i’m only 4 years older than him, i had to have been around 9 i imagine... i went back out and waited for the kids and gave them a tongue lashing when they came by to mess with him some more. they didn’t come back after that. it still breaks me heart to this day that all he wanted to do was be a sweet kid and he got beat on for it.
@@ice1cube some days i feel i don’t do enough for him and i look back on all the moments i hurt him or fought with him and it eats me up. but there is nobody in my life whose wellbeing i care about more. there isn’t a thing i wouldn’t do for him. it just comes with the territory of being an older sibling, i’m sure you can relate... i wish the best for you and yours as well. and congrats, you have a new subscriber in me. :)
@@hamilcross thank you so much ivanka!! I totally agree with you, the best we can do is take those lessons and treat them the best we can moving forward. much love to you and your brother my friend thank you so much for your kindness!
@@ice1cube I been thinking about my childhood as well, I am also a shitty person. There's more to my story that'll literally take to long to explain. Just wanted you to know that I am interested in a 1998 Mitsubishi 3000GT VR-4 with a big turbo and a tune also as well as other modifications, maybe some time after 2022 we can race '98 Mitsubishi GTO aka Japanese Ferrari vs your Toyota Supra or Honda NSX
This opened my eyes to acknowledge how selfish and inconsiderate I was to my brother. Since I'm not an adult, I want to fix my actions and become more considerate of my family.
Im 11 and I dont have siblings yet I feel like I still have to fix my anger issues. Most of the time if my friends make fun of me I will just laugh it of yet sometimes they make jokes that I really don't like, leading me to swearing at them. I really need to fix this
....this hit me hard. When I was 14, I watched my little brother get held down and hit by my birth mother’s husband. She said she wouldn’t help him when my brother called out her name. I had just gotten out of the shower and climbed up the basement stairs. I’m now 21 and that event changed my life. I moved out with him that same day and stayed at my dads place permanently. After a year I came out as a lesbian to my birth mom, and she called it disgusting. Ever since then I’ve realized that family is what you make it. I started to take martial arts to protect my real family. Never again will he lay his hands on my brother. Never again will I stand aside and watch it happen. Never again will I be threatened by him for who I am. Mom you once told me that “this is love.” Ive grown since then. I’m old enough to know what real love is. I found a woman who I love with all my heart, and a family who loves me for who I am. Thank you for bringing me into this world.
we might wanna kill our siblings but if anyone else tries to, their life will end. I remember when I was 16 and my brother was 10, he got beat up by some 12, 13 year old dudes. I punched those kids in the eyes and made them nosebleed real hard. Brotherly Love.
even though am the younger sibling, i have a story. so this was almost 2 years ago, i was about 10 ane he was 13. we were at a camp where you could learn to program, code, make games and things like that. it was break time and my brother was outside with a few kids around his age. i was inside when i looked out the window, and saw a stuck up, 12-13 year old blonde brat push my brother on the floor. i completley ran outside, and started smack talking her, and snapped and pushed her on the floor. i feel so proud whenever i think of that. nobody can bully my brother, except for me.
Bruh XD you realize you pushed a girl right? you realize that they are 100x weaker than you...how the fk did you're brother fall over a GIRL im so sorry but its just embarrassing xd...just saying...how could you feel proud of pushing a GIRL XD You're A DAMN MAN LMAO
Same, white white kids were bullying my brother and I told them to stop. They were scared of me because I was way stronger than them but they didn’t admit it. They said they were stronger than me so I asked to to a arm wrestle but they said they were “tired”. I knew I was way stronger, I really hate people like this
Better still, us older siblings end up having more patience as we grow up! I’m now the ‘authority figure’ my sister would rather turn to if something went wrong
usually parents expect older siblings to be in charge of the rest, parents don't even bother teaching their older kids on how to take care of them. they expect the older ones to already know how to do things, but they don't even teach them, yet they expect a good job. with that either the older siblings become bad examples or become mature enough by themselves to take care of their smaller siblings
@@joeyyew4144 lmao ikr? They can insult you and you can insult them back, they can yell at you and you can yell at them back and will be ok afterwards without a reason 💀
So this video just" randomly" popped into my feed and this video just hits home so hard . My dad grew up in an orphan, his mother died at birth and his dad said no thanks . He never knew what a family" was" until he had a wife and kids. I fought with one of my sisters so hard and never knew how much that hurt him til it was to late ! He was gone and I couldn't say I'm sorry
I've mistreated my sister. I was the oldest and had the stress of taking care of my siblings since I was 15. I insulted her, shamed her for hanging out with her friends, destroyed her confidence, and much worse. I was angry all the time. Year's later I feel guilty. I don't like to talk about how I treated her. Out of everyone in my family, she helps me out the most. My son loves her like a mom. I care about my sister and I want to rebuild our relationship. I just don't know what to say.
You know what you just said to us? Say it just like that. Tell her how sorry you are and how deeply you regret it. The rest will go as it will, but it's better than saying nothing and ending up regretting it later
@@SoccerIsLife599 I am so sorry to hear that but you must admit, your sister sounds like a very toxic person. She is emotionally manipulating and she tried to guilt trip you using suicide. I suggest that you give her some space, but please don’t let go of her, be there for her all the time, no matter how much she pushes you away, try to let her know that her family is always there for her. I wish you the best and I hope your family will find well in your lives.
Don't mistreat your siblings. Don't mistreat anyone. You never know who's going to be around to give you your last drink of water. At the end of the day all you have is family and a lot of times it's your siblings who will be your only ride or die.
I once too had let my little brother get beat up by some kids and did nothing about it. I was also surprised when my parents took it so seriously, because that was not what they raised me to be. I still regret not sticking up for him that day, but at the same time it taught me that I must stick up for my family and now my relationship with him is very close. This video is probably the one I’ve related with the most so far.. this channel is awesome
My sister let her friends beat me up several times. Anytime someone talked bad about her or threatened her, I was always there to defend her. I even stepped between her and a police officer. She still let her friends beat me up several times throughout my life and actually treated them more like blood than myself.
If it's still happening you need to do something. Just because someone's family/blood related or been in your life for a long time doesn't give them the right to step over you, mentally or physically harm you. I'm not saying you should raise hands or whatever, but try talking to her, if that doesn't work get an adult involved.
I think this was sent to me by God himself. I had seen this video get recommended to me but added it to my watch later list. Today I had a fight with my little sister and just as I opened youtube, suddenly this video got recommended to me again....I feel so ashamed at myself, at the back of my head I knew it was my fault but I made her say sorry. You have inspired me & taught me a listen. I hope I never do this again. May God forgive me for my foolishness. (Ameen).
I’m the younger brother at 18. My big brother is now 20. I remember one day when school was over and were riding home at the bus,( I was in 4th grade and he was in 5th) I got in a fight with a 5th grader and he ended up slapping me in the face hard. My brother was furious. The next day after school my brother took out our gamecube controller out of his back bag and threw it at the 5th graders head very hard, and all the kids were laughing. After that day, the 5th grader never bothered anyone again and always sat in the front of the bus. Life Lesson: big brothers are huge jerks at times, but only he is allowed to bully you. 😳
Honestly do you have thousands of hours of footage?? and also, isn't it hard to get it from the old video recorders onto the computer in the proper format?
I'm not sure about thousands but it might be in the low hundreds. I did all this converting a long time ago before I started making TH-cam videos so all the hard work is done
@@ice1cube I'm glad for you that your parents took so much video of your childhood. I always think back to mine and while i have some video and some pictures... the fact that you have so much video is amazing. I'd watch it all day honestly! It would bring back many memories good and bad.
@@ice1cube I think it’s so cool u have so much footage of your childhood I like seeing these videos and watching the footage bc I don’t really have any videos of pictures of me but I’m 12 so I guess there is still time but I really love ur channel thanks for the upload :)
That’s true my big brother always punches me for no reason (but not hard) but when someone else hits me one time he even brought a stick to hit the guy that hit me but our neighbors stopped him
I was just scrolling through the comments and I realized that almost all the comments have been responded to by the creator, and it shows how much effort and time you put into your channel. Thank you, you made me feel important today and you made my day!🥰👐
@@Teeco10 that’s literally when self honesty is the most important. People justify their regret, they ignore it, they blame others, and they avoid it. It’s through self honesty that people grow from their mistakes.
Nobody realizes how important sibling relationships really are. As kids, we would think that they are annoying and you would wish you could get rid of them.. But then at one point, they could be the reason you are alive right now.
I don’t know how this popped up on my feed but I am so touched by this video. My mom had dementia and als. I now have two little boys of my own and try my darnedest to teach them that they are each other’s best friends for life.
@@sanasuoh9709 well i am a good person im saying back then as a kid i was not good person thats what i ment pretty much i hurt his feelings i ment to say not violently. Cause as a kid i use to bully him around at 14 and i remmber when he forgave me for it when both of our parents find out i was cursing at him and they got mad that day so i apologize cause i felt bad and he forgave after. He's is a good brother so back then i was too much
@keemochee to bad. It’s not your family. If the younger brother forgives the older brother then it’s not your problem whether you hate him for stuff he did a long time ago.
@keemochee you shouldn’t hate the older sibling if the younger brother doesn’t because it’s not even your family is what I was going for but I guess some people don’t get that.
As an older sibling I honestly needed this. Also I love how you were honest and didn’t sugar coat anything. Your life definitely has a purpose, and your making a positive impact on others.
I have a little brother, we were 13 years apart, we were close right until age 15, he started guitar lessons, then he started to hang with the wrong groups, my biggest regret was not being there, because he didn't want me around anymore, I told my parents that this hobby is great, but it also comes with drugs problems, no one believed me, til the day he went mentally ill, I love my brother so much but my heart cracks when he doesn't remember his family and walks around in circles talking to himself, I blamed myself for not being there, let him do whatever he wanted. Now I have a son and I will godly try my best to raise him. If any of you guys have a little brother, please spend more time with him, he seeks guidance, not from your parents, but from you.
I feel you. I have a homosexual brother & he lives a very.. extroverted lifestyle. I want to make sure he’s safe with aids being a problem in that community but I really don’t know how to talk to him about such a sensitive subject. If anyone has advice I’ll be more than grateful.
wrong. they need guidance from the parents. not us older siblings (except if you are so much older and wiser than him). because I remember and regretted the way I treat my brother and never truly taught him every little wisdom I know, because I was a stupid child that had no such guidance from my parents either, I just treat him as immaturely as I was at that age and now I regretted for ever thinking like a kid at that age and regretted for not being old enough or wise enough then. It baffles me for parents to expect older siblings by few years to educate and nurture their younger children.
My older brother was always pretty jealous of me. Being 6 years younger and being the baby of the family got me a lot of attention. Unfortunately a lot of times he took that out on me. He was never very brotherly. We fought like cats and dogs, hardly ever got along, never really spent quality time with each other (although I really wanted to). So when i got a bit older and he asked me if I wanted to play a game with him, i was pretty excited and happy to see he finally wanted to spend time with me. That "game" was doctor. And it was the start of years of sexual assault/molestation that didnt end fully until I was 17. When he had a job and could buy things he would bribe me with things he said he'd buy if I did him favors. I'm 23 now and I've never talked to my brother about this. Idk if we will ever have a good, stable relationship.
I'm so sorry to hear that my friend, please get the help you need as this sounds like an incredibly bad situation and an abusive relationship that needs professional attention. please seek help and guidance
I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s extremely likely that he was also molested. Based on your age difference, I wouldn’t be surprised if he was still doing this to other children. Please consider getting help and outing him as an abuser. Don’t expect to ever have a good relationship with him. Never leave your future children alone with him and at least warn other family members that he can never be trusted with children.
@UCn7aE3UFFfjSHfa5OPnSRCg I have before years ago. My mother knows about it. But nothing came of it. She essentially said "I'm sorry that happened :(" and life went on. She never told anyone else (that I know of)
I admit I never really defend my younger sisters when they face problems. It’s not from the lack of care, but because I want them to resolve it themselves. My parents always told me to protect my younger siblings, I thought my job was to look out for them while my parents had my back. But then one day I had my cousin over. He was upset about something and decided to take it out on me, he bit my stomach and ripped my flesh off then bit me again refusing to let go like an animal. I punched him in the face and broke his nose in self defence. But instead of defending me, my parents made me apologise to him because they didn’t want conflict with my extended family. It was because I hit the only grandson in my family, they wanted me to believe I was in the wrong saying a girl should never be violent. I really felt my parents had failed me and my sisters because they witnessed how awkward and helpless I felt in that situation. I decided my parents can’t give me the protection I need, so I’ve grown to be very strict and independent. I just want my sisters to be able to stand up for themselves, but still understand that I care about them and that I’m always ready to defend them in dire situations.
That’s messed up I’m sorry about that. I hope one day you mother and father will realize the mistakes they have made and the impacts they have also made before it’s too laye Edit: late*
There is a reason that they can talk about the personality of the oldest child, the middle child etc... most parents do this type of stuff. The oldest child is the one that has responsibility. The middle child feels ignored. The baby gets away with everything.
Ehh. I dont see it as a big deal. They dont make u full time parents but they make sure you are able to take care of your siblings w they ate not around. And if for some reason they are not around anymore youd have Atleast some knowledge and control over your siblings. Thats just how i look at it.
@@gawdlysiinz5134 true. At the end of the day though the oldest who is now tasked to parent the younger ones end up with stress in early adulthood. A parent tasking their kid to parent the others when theh are the ones that birthed them in the first place is like shifting their own responsibility to a less able teacher being the oldest. When they in themselves are still learning.
i only have pictures of my childhood. your parents are very thoughtful and cherish the moments that you guys had while growing up. I have a sister 17 years later and because of the lack of my childhood memories, i recorded my sister progression every day. I keep them safely and double backup them videos. nothing much but cherish.
Damm bro this made me so emotional. I'm a big brother too and I was just like you. It wasnt until this year that we became very very very close and I told him I was sorry for everything I did. We have a great relationship now and I love and admire him so much. I'm 21 and I'm so happy that I did it sooner. I was such a shitty person but I'm happy I was able to move on and appologize to him... I still havent forgave myself. I dont think I ever will. What I did to him all those years breaks my heart.
Don't hate yourself, I know it's not easy but think that at least you have changed. That person is not here anymore you are the one who is here now. Be happy about the fact that now you and your brother are close. I may not understand you bc I am the youngest (16y/o) but if I put myself at your brother place I would be sad for you and I would like you to know that you don't need to fee guilty anymore. You were just "ignorant" at that time. But I admire how you admitted your fault, not everyone would do it
Me and my younger sister used to fight a lot. from my pov she got everything especially attention, i hated her for it out of jealousy of what i wanted. one day we were fighting again and i said “I wish u were never born” “I hate u” i got in trouble for it but from then on every time we fought she would bring those sentences back up again all the time i always thought “why couldn’t she just let it go at the end of the day it’s just words...”. years later we still fought not as much tho, my sister started to change and ended up acting a lot like me, started to not eat, and just seemed off in general later on we find out she was self harming and was diagnosed with depression, when my mom asked her what happened to cause some of these feelings for her she brought up those sentences again it was then when it hit me, it wasn’t just words for her it was a lot more it was hurting her so much that she decided to self harm the other reasons were cause of school bullies and stuff but the fact that i was a reason made me feel guilty to this day, If i would’ve just kept my mouth shut my sister wouldn’t have to feel pain thinking abt those sentences again while getting insulted every day all she wanted was for me to be a friend and not a rival after me apologizing multiple times i showed thru my actions that i never meant those hurtful words now every time she’s feeling down or anything she comes to me and i help her i’m so happy that i’m comfort to her now and i hope our bond gets stronger from here on. i still had no right to say what i said but, all i wanna do is not tell her but show her how important she is to me and our family i won’t stop till she feels loved again
So a little story time: I had two younger brothers, they always laughed and played with each other- never ever fought- they were like a team that didn't need anyone else. Five years ago, one of my youngest brothers died- leaving emptiness in our hearts forever. Our lives changed completely, and now I know that nothing will be the same especially for my other brother and my parents. To cut it short, cherish your family because you never know what turns life can take and thank you for posting this 💖
He is with you and your family always. I am sorry that you had to to through, ehat you weng through. If you ever need someone just hit me up. Much love from Sweden❤
The part when he was hugging and helping his elderly mom with his eldery dad got me... With the soundtrack from UP playing in my head where the old guy's wife's health declined 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
That's beautiful man! At least u learned & grew from your errors, some people don't & continue on the same old path. Regardless of culture, religion, class, etc. there are things that we all share in spite of our differences...
Whenever I went to my friends house I played fifa and whatever my friends younger brother played on his ps4 and always lost to him but it didn't matter because he was always so happy he was like 6 and I was 13.
The burden of being the oldest brother is a harsh and brutal journey. Your parents have too many high expectations and lave a lot of responsibility upon you. You have to share your most precious items with your siblings and be patient about it at an early age.
@@lavonnealexander6936 Annoying or not, we gotta love them, they love us too. We have to be there role model i make sure my little brother does right the things i did wrong.
Just got this recommended out of nowhere, now I’m all emotional. I have 2 sisters whom I secretly used to loath all because I wanted a brother when I was a kid. I only tolerated them. The game changer for me was when someone hit my immediate sister and I went all Bruce lee on the person. I have never taken any self defense classes and I was pretty surprised about my combat skills. The antagonist in question is a bulky kid whom was a bully at Quran classes. I was 13 and he was around 16. I hardly got along with my sister before that incident. I would lay down my life to protect my sisters, most importantly we lost our mom 6 years ago. It hurts, life sucks. I’m 21 now, working 2 hospital jobs and schooling just to provide for me and my sisters and support my dad. It’s really draining.
This happened to me except instead of my brother, it's a good friend of mine. Me and my friend were walking through town and some dude we were walking past called me a chink. I don't like conflict as a person and I have learned to just brush off racist comments. However, my friend decided to stand up to the bully. They went face to face, staring each other down. I was standing to their side, trying to separate them with one arm but not physically getting in between them. Then the guy punched my friend straight in the eye. After that moment, I saw how selfless of an act it was. He didn't have to defend me, but he did it anyways, because that's what it means to be a friend. To stand up for the people that are dear to you. I feel ashamed because I could have done more to help my friend. But from that moment, as someone who doesn't have many friends, I've now gained a deep appreciation for the people around me. I've learned that I must do my best to stand up for others, because if someone is willing to go out their way to defend me, then I'm sure as hell going to do the same. Thank you for sharing this story. It means a lot to people like me who can relate to your experience. Best wishes Frank.
You finally made me clear my class called me a momma's boy and cuz of that I've never been kind to anyone else other than my friends and my family but now i will learn to live and ignore those hate to become the person i want to be.
I never wanted to get married or children because my childhood and teenaged years were shitty. Family was always broken up. After growing and traveling the world and learning new things, I see the beauty and importance of friends and family & how they make life so full & wonderful, when the love is there. I hope someday I can raise my own loving family. I want to heal my own trauma first, so I can build a strong foundation of love for whoever my family becomes. Someday. Thank you for this video. Made me tear up.
As an older sibling you MUST protect and care for siblings. They might get you into the worst trouble but use your head, One day you or they will not be always be around
Stopped caring about my younger "brother" once I got enough of him being an asshole to me, telling me to kill myself and it would be better if I was dead, even as children he told me he wouldnt care if I died. We barely even talk now and its a LOT of negative interactions, I care about family if they dont treat me like I'm a piece of trash.
@@eoozy2617 just think dude think why you are in their house think why they bought you an device think why they are giving food you just think why they are keeping you alive ok ?
7:12 this is so touching and sad, but very honoring. I watched my mother hurt for years with addiction and passed away recently. Being able to care for your mother after years of her caring for you though is amazing and is making you who you are meant to be- don’t show sadness each time because she loves you and appreciates everything you do. This is beautiful.
I remember having that much anger towards my younger brother. it makes me want to cry thinking about how much of a piece of sh*t I was to him. we have such an amazing relationship now
Honestly this was very hard to watch. I am very protective over my brothers and my sister no matter what and no what our age differences were I would and will always stand up for them no matter what. We aren’t even close but I understand the true meaning of family they’re forever. It hurts more because my siblings never stood up for me but no matter what I knew not only would I feel guilty if I don’t stand up for them but I would know it’s wrong. Glad you shared this story and you changed from that experience
My older brother watched when I got beat up by an older kid but I’ve learned valuable lesson that day. I had to fight for everything on my own and learned to be independent.
I let my moms boyfriend hit my younger sister once. A couple of years later, she got herself in trouble and he wasn’t having it. He hit her with a cord so I threw a dumbbell at him. It hit him on his toe. I got my butt whooped but it was worth it. Once I was old enough to support myself I took my sister with me. We never looked back. Best of friends from that moment on.
that's horrible and I'm so glad you protected your sister and eventually got out of that abusive situation. much love to you and your sister my friend, thank you!
my bio dad was very abusive towards me and my sister growing up. we would always be there for eachother when he hurt one of us but we never spoke about it, just distracted eachother by doing silly things. we’re away from him now, ill be turning 21 this year and she’ll be 18. sometimes i wish i did things differently and wish i did more to protect her, but also i was a kid and there wasn’t much i could do. im glad you got yourself and your sister out of that situation too.
This video was in my recommendations it just reminds me how much I miss my little brothers everyday seeing them grow up so fast when I remember them coming from the hospital as babys. I’ve never had a good relationship with my mom but my brothers always called me mom but seeing such a good relationship with a mom makes me happy to see
I lost my lil brother bcus of brain tumor and his lost made me a musician ❤️..and yes I also treated my lil brother not so good n I regret it soo much. This video made me emotional
I remember my little sister got smacked by another girl, and my step-mom got mad that my brother (he's younger than me but older than my little sister) didn't do anything about it or defend her. I was in highschool and they both went to elementary school together. If the roles were switched between me and my brother, I would have slapped that girl for hitting my sister.
as someone who’s never had a relationship with my older brother, ( we live together but he verbally bullied saying things like “i wish i had a brother instead” and “i hope you get hit by a car” ) i always got jealous of the people who had better relationships with their siblings, my parents wanted the same thing for me and my brother, although my parents did break up, and so did my brothers ( my mother broke up with his father then the same thing happened with my parents) having good relationships with your siblings is very important, and you’ll regret it later if you don’t.
I don’t think you should take this these things as seriously as you are (Your brother’ comments I mean). I mean, you probably are just being really dramatic like a lot of kids but still.
@@outis439-A Some words really hurt, especially if they are coming from someone you really love. My brother himself has said the same comments to me when I was younger, both of us despised each other but thankfully now, our relationship has gotten better, you just have to forgive and forget. I was really pessimistic but I realized instead of looking for a happy positive person in my life, I should be one. That's how I live now, optimistic and carefree, Alhumdulillah. But yeah long story short, words like that stick with you your whole life.
@ Hornswoggle Lover39 there’s no reason to be dramatic about something that can ruin your mental health like it did mine, im doing better now but what my bother said to be still sticks with me no matter how much i hate it not all stories about siblings are “overdramatized” or “fake” this is a true story and to this day i still don’t talk to my brother, let alone look at him.
i know exactly what you fucking mean. currently going through that now. but we cant really force our siblings to care about us. i dont want to butt in on my brothers life cuz its clear he doesn't want me in it. but i know ill always be there for them throughout everything, and a small part of me hopes one day they'll realize how much they truly mean to me.
I was literally just talking to someone about cherishing family time and loving them while you have them close. Glad I came across this, I love my brothers even though we get into multiple fights a week but I just look back at our great memories and all negativity fades and all I feel is love and joy to have them in my life.
I apologized to my brother many times for how shitty I was, he never says anything, he still holds resentment till this day even sometimes I get the feeling that he really hates and despises me. I have tried to make it right, I just pray that some day I will
Me too I always feel guilty when I hit my brother about little things he does that I did as a kid, the last time I hit him was really long time ago because I feel sooo guilty :((
@keemochee I'm not bitchy and self centered 🤬🤬, but your older siblings love you still, they're probably sorry but they don't know how to own it up to you
i am they type that is slow at getting angry, but is also slow at forgiving people when i get really pissed. so when you mentioned your brother holds resentment, i can kinda relate. i don't want to be unforgiving so i struggle a lot trying to forgive ppl. i hope your brother heals with time(as soon as possible). holding resentments only hurts the one that is keeping it in themselves.
I'm a middle child, I've experienced both perspectives, I'm bitchy to my younger sibling, but also love her a lot. She used to side with me, now she sides with my older brother at unesscesary times, she'd do his chores for him, she'd lie for him(for no reason) just cause he told her some of his sob stories. Sometimes I'd even cry alone , I don't know the reason why they decided to go against me. I only cry alone because I cry iver stupid reasons , it's hard to explain why you're crying to your parents just because of a stupid thing. And for 4 years now, I've been avoiding my older brother, I don't remember what caused it,maybe because my parents let him off the hook easily when he emotionally harms me(like leaving no food for me, actually making fun of me with my parents as a "joke", he's pretentious as fuck, an angel when our parents are there,but is a demon when they aren't, he's a close minded fuck, he'd ask questions during our fights but never lets me speak) There is a saying that people can forget what you did to them ,but they can never forget how you made them feel.
I can see the love in your mom’s eyes when she looks at both of you. Thank you for being honest about how you felt towards your little brother when you were young. I’m very happy that you guys have such a great relationship now. Blood is thicker than water.
Thanks for sharing Frank. I'm so happy that you're back on youtube and have been uploading videos every Sunday lately. I'm watching from the UK, and I usually get a notification of your upload around 11pm UK time just before I go to sleep. Your story always gives me a fresh perspective and positivity before the start of the working week. I've always had a strenuous relationship with my siblings, but your video reminds me that it doesn't have to be this way - no one is perfect, so a little bit of understanding and love can go a long way. I'm happy that you have such a wonderful relationship with your family, even during these difficult times with your mum. Coincidentally, it's mothers day in the UK today - so the ending segment was really relevant and touches on a lot of the things I've been thinking about today when reflecting on my own mum. My mum is really awesome, she came to the UK when she was 30 with no qualifications and zero english. She ended up having 3 kids and always made our education and comfort her top priority. She took us to church and showed us how unwavering faith and love for God can change lives. She somehow managed to provide for us and get us all into university despite having a low-income job. Heck - she even had the foresight to get a mortgage on our apartment, which we've also literally just paid off this weekend. Mothers are amazing, I don't know how they do it. I'll be praying for you and your family as always - and remember that God is good!
Thanks for sharing this video. I also have a little brother, and I think back to all these times I was so wrong to him. We fought a lot, mostly my fault. The time he was saying “asha asha!” (The ‘Extra’ chant) and I punched him because I found it annoying and my grandmother punished me. The time he was playing one of my video games without my permission and I kicked him in the nose and stormed out of his room. He was even bleeding and crying... and at the time I didn’t even care. All I cared about was my stupid video game being touched and how angry I was at him for just trying to have some fun. I was so greedy and selfish. The time my sister’s stupid ex boyfriend convinced us we should fight each other so we did and he was so enraged.. I feel like a monster for the way I treated him. It’s only now that I’m older, wiser and more mature that I think about these times and how awful I really was. I was abusive, not just to him, but I even kicked my poor dog out of anger one time when she did absolutely nothing to me. I was such a hot head. I still am, and I still get angry and yell, but only when no one else is around. I’ve been able to control myself not to hurt anyone or anything else when I’m upset because even my dog seems to be less excited to see me ever since I did that to her. When you bring pain on someone you love, it’s never the same. My brother and I don’t talk much. We lived together for a few months last year when the pandemic hit and he wasn’t very close with me. I think he still vividly remembers the wrongs I’ve done to him and it makes him more wary of me. I can never undo that. It breaks my heart and I wonder if we would be close and talk more often if I was better at controlling my anger as a kid. Now, I’m not close with either of my siblings. We go months to years without speaking and when we do, it’s never like it used to be. Things are so different now. I don’t live near them. I call my mom often because she helps me cope with the never ending pain of existence and I appreciate her so much for doing whatever she can to be there for me. I just wish I didn’t destroy my relationships with my siblings. I feel like there’s no fixing them. I’ve tried saying sorry but I guess it just isn’t enough. So treat your family well. When you mess up, it can be really hard to fix it, maybe impossible, and it’s made me a lonely, remorseful adult.
hey ty thank you so much for sharing your story. I just want to say that its never too late. it'll be hard and the walls are built up high but if you are willing to try its never too late. sending you and your family and your siblings so much love. I hope your relationships with them reach the level you want them to be. much love to you my friend
@@ice1cube hey thanks a ton that’s a really supportive and kind response and I appreciate you understanding. Of course I’m ashamed of my past but it’s relieving to know other people go through these things too. I wish the best with your family. Maybe this video is what a lot of people needed to see to mend some past relationships and pain so I appreciate people like you putting out real stuff like this. I hope you and your family are closer than ever.
Kids are insane little narcissists. My older brother would torment me so much when I was young but hey I’ll admit I didn’t the same to my younger brother. Wasn’t until we all grew up, aren’t going through puberty, that we all get along and respect each other
kids are not insane little narcissists. Some kids are taught to be insane little narcissists, it's different. It's the society and the parenting the problem. It's the common thought, especially in eastern countries, that the younger sibling has to respect the older one. It is always a matter of education.
@Sequoiah Dreams Agree. Luckily we are finally making some changes (ecology, green choices, veganism, feminism, antiracism antisexism..the list is beautifully long) tho there is still A LOT to fix
@@bebaios i think its just common sense to respect your older siblings unless they do something not worthy of that respect. Because 9/10 theyre gonne be the first ones to help u, comfort you, etc the list goes on. When ur mom is gone.
@@gawdlysiinz5134 I am from a western country in which it doesn't work like this, that's why I find it odd. With this I don't mean to impose my thoughts or costumes at all. But I personally think that yes, an older sibling can be a huge help to a younger one, but the respect should be reciprocated. From both sides. I think it would be the best to teach to respect. Period. When you respect anyone, as the younger sibling you learn to respect the older sibling because he/she is more experienced and can take more responsability, and as the older sibling you respect the younger one too because he/she is still a human with his/her needs. I don't know...I simply think equality should be taught, because when you recognize someone as your equal that respect you as much you respect him/her, you are willing to...be respectful and to behave for the best. Maybe it's an idealistic point of view, but I think education has to be realistic but also based on neutral and "clean" principles, which are idealistic.
This makes me grateful for my elder brother... My parents left me at home with him for months and while yes he did yell he was always there... I can understand it's stressful.
I love the ending of your mom talking about your brother and footage of her comforting him at his football game. I think every sibling can relate to this. Thank you for sharing 💛
Taromlk on insta recommended this channel, so I came by. You are a decent person, good son, brother, friend and amazing story teller. You are a good human being, so I am sure that your parents are good people too. They passed you their legacy, thank you for sharing with it. All the best from Kazakhstan 🖤
Frank - watched you years ago in the early days of TH-cam and am watching you so many years later - you are so good at story telling and making your videos like you're talking to an old friend.
At first I used to hate my sister a lot especially for her shortcomings and I felt really embarrassed at the time but I learned that love is beyond that and I was able to see the goodness in her which is why I support her to this day
man just watching the progression of these videos makes me cry knowing how much I haven't appreciated those near me as much as I should have. I hope more people watch this and get a dose of beautiful reality and get a change of heart
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@@canyonmoon4741 lmao u think you're hard? Stop acting like an edgy kid.
And everyone thinks i record to much lol
@@canyonmoon4741 ....
when my brother was a kid, he climbed the tree in our front yard, dressed as spider-man, and wanted to give out candy to kids that came by. i don’t remember the specifics but he came back in not long after crying saying that some kids had come by and attacked him in some way. i’m only 4 years older than him, i had to have been around 9 i imagine... i went back out and waited for the kids and gave them a tongue lashing when they came by to mess with him some more. they didn’t come back after that. it still breaks me heart to this day that all he wanted to do was be a sweet kid and he got beat on for it.
much love to you and your brother ivanka! I'm so glad you guys have each other.
@@ice1cube some days i feel i don’t do enough for him and i look back on all the moments i hurt him or fought with him and it eats me up. but there is nobody in my life whose wellbeing i care about more. there isn’t a thing i wouldn’t do for him. it just comes with the territory of being an older sibling, i’m sure you can relate... i wish the best for you and yours as well. and congrats, you have a new subscriber in me. :)
@@hamilcross thank you so much ivanka!! I totally agree with you, the best we can do is take those lessons and treat them the best we can moving forward. much love to you and your brother my friend thank you so much for your kindness!
@@ice1cube I been thinking about my childhood as well, I am also a shitty person. There's more to my story that'll literally take to long to explain. Just wanted you to know that I am interested in a 1998 Mitsubishi 3000GT VR-4 with a big turbo and a tune also as well as other modifications, maybe some time after 2022 we can race '98 Mitsubishi GTO aka Japanese Ferrari vs your Toyota Supra or Honda NSX
That’s so heartbreaking! I hate when people are mean to kids. I’m glad you sticked up for your brother.
This opened my eyes to acknowledge how selfish and inconsiderate I was to my brother. Since I'm not an adult, I want to fix my actions and become more considerate of my family.
much love to you and your brother my friend!!!
I can literally relate to this. Im only 13, but damn I had pretty bad anger problems..
Im 11 and I dont have siblings yet I feel like I still have to fix my anger issues. Most of the time if my friends make fun of me I will just laugh it of yet sometimes they make jokes that I really don't like, leading me to swearing at them. I really need to fix this
yes alwasy treat your siblings with respect
....this hit me hard. When I was 14, I watched my little brother get held down and hit by my birth mother’s husband. She said she wouldn’t help him when my brother called out her name. I had just gotten out of the shower and climbed up the basement stairs. I’m now 21 and that event changed my life. I moved out with him that same day and stayed at my dads place permanently. After a year I came out as a lesbian to my birth mom, and she called it disgusting. Ever since then I’ve realized that family is what you make it. I started to take martial arts to protect my real family. Never again will he lay his hands on my brother. Never again will I stand aside and watch it happen. Never again will I be threatened by him for who I am. Mom you once told me that “this is love.” Ive grown since then. I’m old enough to know what real love is. I found a woman who I love with all my heart, and a family who loves me for who I am. Thank you for bringing me into this world.
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Good essay can u make a TH-cam vid on how to fight because I get bullied at school and by my friends I always let them step on me I need help 😭
@@justanaveragemuslim5013 punch them in the eye
Isn’t that too deadly
@Mr. Abe I don’t really know how to fight but tell the teacher or tell them exactly how you feel
we might wanna kill our siblings but if anyone else tries to, their life will end. I remember when I was 16 and my brother was 10, he got beat up by some 12, 13 year old dudes. I punched those kids in the eyes and made them nosebleed real hard. Brotherly Love.
“Nobody kills you but me” - Sabretooth
Monke strong-albert einstein
Respect!
Loba with revenant in apex legends in a nutshell
well not my sister, she literally bully me and bully me with my aunties then laugh after i cry?! it's been a decade and im still hurt
even though am the younger sibling, i have a story. so this was almost 2 years ago, i was about 10 ane he was 13. we were at a camp where you could learn to program, code, make games and things like that. it was break time and my brother was outside with a few kids around his age. i was inside when i looked out the window, and saw a stuck up, 12-13 year old blonde brat push my brother on the floor. i completley ran outside, and started smack talking her, and snapped and pushed her on the floor. i feel so proud whenever i think of that. nobody can bully my brother, except for me.
🤣🤣🤣🙏 much love to you and your brother Ava
yep. im just 4 years younger than him. I would REALLY hate to see anyone bullying him D:
Bruh XD you realize you pushed a girl right? you realize that they are 100x weaker than you...how the fk did you're brother fall over a GIRL im so sorry but its just embarrassing xd...just saying...how could you feel proud of pushing a GIRL XD You're A DAMN MAN LMAO
Same, white white kids were bullying my brother and I told them to stop. They were scared of me because I was way stronger than them but they didn’t admit it. They said they were stronger than me so I asked to to a arm wrestle but they said they were “tired”. I knew I was way stronger, I really hate people like this
@@s6hizo Some kids as well misunderstand the word "bullying" even tho some "bullies" are teasing...could you explain what they did to your brother?
Older siblings are just a second or third parent with no patience.
Better still, us older siblings end up having more patience as we grow up! I’m now the ‘authority figure’ my sister would rather turn to if something went wrong
usually parents expect older siblings to be in charge of the rest, parents don't even bother teaching their older kids on how to take care of them.
they expect the older ones to already know how to do things, but they don't even teach them, yet they expect a good job. with that either the older siblings become bad examples or become mature enough by themselves to take care of their smaller siblings
Yep, once my brother chased me with a knife
i love my older sister more than my mom
@@joeyyew4144 lmao ikr? They can insult you and you can insult them back, they can yell at you and you can yell at them back and will be ok afterwards without a reason 💀
So this video just" randomly" popped into my feed and this video just hits home so hard . My dad grew up in an orphan, his mother died at birth and his dad said no thanks . He never knew what a family" was" until he had a wife and kids. I fought with one of my sisters so hard and never knew how much that hurt him til it was to late ! He was gone and I couldn't say I'm sorry
sending you and your sister so much love my friend!!!
Wait your dad committed suicide because you and your sister fought
@@user-rq1fc8pc6v no his grandfather left his dad
@@user-rq1fc8pc6v it happens all the time... especially tuesday's
@@user-rq1fc8pc6v I think they meant there dad is dead. Doesn’t mean it was suicide. But it is definitely a sad truth.
I've mistreated my sister. I was the oldest and had the stress of taking care of my siblings since I was 15. I insulted her, shamed her for hanging out with her friends, destroyed her confidence, and much worse. I was angry all the time. Year's later I feel guilty. I don't like to talk about how I treated her. Out of everyone in my family, she helps me out the most. My son loves her like a mom. I care about my sister and I want to rebuild our relationship. I just don't know what to say.
Just take a quiet moment one on one, you and her and basically tell her what you wrote here. No more no less. The best to you! 🙏🏼💜🍀
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You know what you just said to us? Say it just like that. Tell her how sorry you are and how deeply you regret it. The rest will go as it will, but it's better than saying nothing and ending up regretting it later
@@SoccerIsLife599 I am so sorry to hear that but you must admit, your sister sounds like a very toxic person. She is emotionally manipulating and she tried to guilt trip you using suicide. I suggest that you give her some space, but please don’t let go of her, be there for her all the time, no matter how much she pushes you away, try to let her know that her family is always there for her. I wish you the best and I hope your family will find well in your lives.
@@KimChi-iy7jd just remember to stay honest 😁
This channel is a much needed dose of reality
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Yeah, it's really raw.
A channel of Life lessons
It's a kids show for adults
HOLY SHIT FR
I wish I had this much footage of my childhood
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for real like!! I don't have any footage from childhood, like literally nothing XD
@@yuwenseunie9075 same
@@yuwenseunie9075 i only have pictures :(
@@shammisjumahali4777 I don’t even have that
Don't mistreat your siblings. Don't mistreat anyone. You never know who's going to be around to give you your last drink of water. At the end of the day all you have is family and a lot of times it's your siblings who will be your only ride or die.
agreed!!!
Family or not they don’t give a fuck anybody could snake u
I will have to keep that in mind...
"don't mistreat anyone"
U have a nice point but what about people who abuse their kids? And parents not raising their child as a child
So... ur saying don’t mistreat people so u can use then for ur benefit and not bc u actually love them?
I love that he's actually taking care of his mom.
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I watched my brother get beaten on a bit and I intervened and really hurt the other kid. But it felt good. If anyone beats on my brother it’s me.
If anyone beats on my brother it's me" spoken like a true older brother
That's what we're here for 😤
Ye 😌
@@vintagerock547 hell yeah xd
I think they mean beat up not little hits, like you really want to hurt them
I have 6 siblings and I'm the oldest so I basically have an army
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Damn I was expecting a "we have a Hulk"
@@GOD-lf7vg lol I love your username and profile pic
@@ice1cube lmao thanks bud
But, can they fight?
I once too had let my little brother get beat up by some kids and did nothing about it. I was also surprised when my parents took it so seriously, because that was not what they raised me to be. I still regret not sticking up for him that day, but at the same time it taught me that I must stick up for my family and now my relationship with him is very close. This video is probably the one I’ve related with the most so far.. this channel is awesome
Why didn’t you defend your brother?
@young Anakin Skywalker chill, he was a kid...
@young Anakin Skywalker I should have, but the experience taught me a priceless lesson.. better late than never
@young Anakin Skywalker nope, even if kid knows whats right5 or wrong, doesn't mean they'll act on it
@@hggbjvnuvjcnygunkuhjij6961 bruhhh, yall need to chill frfr
My sister let her friends beat me up several times. Anytime someone talked bad about her or threatened her, I was always there to defend her. I even stepped between her and a police officer. She still let her friends beat me up several times throughout my life and actually treated them more like blood than myself.
Ure such a sweet person for continuing to defend her. Hope she learns to appreciate u in the future
Seems you haven’t learned. Just bc someone is your family doesn’t mean they have your best interest.
@@sanasuoh9709 they’re just a good person
Is this still continuing? If it is, I think you need to take some sort of action.
If it's still happening you need to do something. Just because someone's family/blood related or been in your life for a long time doesn't give them the right to step over you, mentally or physically harm you. I'm not saying you should raise hands or whatever, but try talking to her, if that doesn't work get an adult involved.
I think this was sent to me by God himself. I had seen this video get recommended to me but added it to my watch later list. Today I had a fight with my little sister and just as I opened youtube, suddenly this video got recommended to me again....I feel so ashamed at myself, at the back of my head I knew it was my fault but I made her say sorry. You have inspired me & taught me a listen. I hope I never do this again. May God forgive me for my foolishness.
(Ameen).
much love to you and your
sister my friend, sending you and your family so much love
Amen
Uhh mines the opposite my sister is mean as fk
welp, every sibling dissagrees
apoologize at leasst :)
I’m the younger brother at 18. My big brother is now 20. I remember one day when school was over and were riding home at the bus,( I was in 4th grade and he was in 5th) I got in a fight with a 5th grader and he ended up slapping me in the face hard. My brother was furious. The next day after school my brother took out our gamecube controller out of his back bag and threw it at the 5th graders head very hard, and all the kids were laughing. After that day, the 5th grader never bothered anyone again and always sat in the front of the bus. Life Lesson: big brothers are huge jerks at times, but only he is allowed to bully you. 😳
😅😅🙏 much love to you and you brother my friend
Is the controller still working
he did it for the feeling not u
@@raggy7183 stfu
Wait you guys are weaker than your older sibling?
Honestly do you have thousands of hours of footage?? and also, isn't it hard to get it from the old video recorders onto the computer in the proper format?
I'm not sure about thousands but it might be in the low hundreds. I did all this converting a long time ago before I started making TH-cam videos so all the hard work is done
@@ice1cube I wish I had my life documented to this level of detail
@@ice1cube I'm glad for you that your parents took so much video of your childhood. I always think back to mine and while i have some video and some pictures... the fact that you have so much video is amazing. I'd watch it all day honestly! It would bring back many memories good and bad.
@@hollywoodjay thank you jay!!
@@ice1cube I think it’s so cool u have so much footage of your childhood I like seeing these videos and watching the footage bc I don’t really have any videos of pictures of me but I’m 12 so I guess there is still time but I really love ur channel thanks for the upload :)
Me when I( use too always) punch my brother: “HAHAHA crybaby”
Me when someone else punches or hurts my brother: “So you have chosen death”
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That’s true my big brother always punches me for no reason (but not hard) but when someone else hits me one time he even brought a stick to hit the guy that hit me but our neighbors stopped him
@@6cheater0 damn, what a savage brother
Its because when we punch our brother its call fist of love
@@adamhakimi8490 right
When I lost my baby sister, I couldn't hate my little brother anymore, even as a joke, you mess with him you're dead, basically.
I'm so sorry for your loss my friend
My condolences
Sad..
Condolences, sorry for your lost.
Condolences,its sad that your lil sister died💀
Lmao he was sad about it at school and used it to score pity points from a girl he liked, SAVAGE AF lmao
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@@ice1cube I do that too dw
@@cloudrz yo
@@cloudrz Thats not something to be proud of...
@@nai.mp4536 hes underage
I was just scrolling through the comments and I realized that almost all the comments have been responded to by the creator, and it shows how much effort and time you put into your channel. Thank you, you made me feel important today and you made my day!🥰👐
thank you so much vibha!! it means a lot to me 🙏🙏
its great that the creator replies :)
The amount of self honesty this man has is something to envy.
@@Teeco10 that’s literally when self honesty is the most important. People justify their regret, they ignore it, they blame others, and they avoid it. It’s through self honesty that people grow from their mistakes.
@@erichong7534 better words than the other guys like there’s a difference between a bad person and a bad person who wants change
how do you have all this footage lol. as an older sibling I feel this ❤️
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love ur vids
😅😅 just fortunate my dad filmed a lot of our family
yooo don't take this the wrong way but I completely forgot about you. gonna go binge some of your newer videos lol
@@Aneeq 😅😅😅😅
Nobody realizes how important sibling relationships really are. As kids, we would think that they are annoying and you would wish you could get rid of them.. But then at one point, they could be the reason you are alive right now.
indeed they are very important
I don’t know how this popped up on my feed but I am so touched by this video. My mom had dementia and als. I now have two little boys of my own and try my darnedest to teach them that they are each other’s best friends for life.
much love to you and your kids gigi, and sending you love for your mom also
I thought I was the only one who was a horrible person as a kid...
Same here i was not a good sister as a kid pretty much hurt him i wish i didn't : (
@@MINGH_LEE2000 you’re prob still not a good person.
@@sanasuoh9709 well i am a good person im saying back then as a kid i was not good person thats what i ment pretty much i hurt his feelings i ment to say not violently. Cause as a kid i use to bully him around at 14 and i remmber when he forgave me for it when both of our parents find out i was cursing at him and they got mad that day so i apologize cause i felt bad and he forgave after. He's is a good brother so back then i was too much
same here
well that makes two of you now
I’m a young mama of 2 boys and this spoke to me so loudly. Thank you 🙏🏽
much love to you and your sons lely!!
:) I hope they are nice too each other
At least you had admitted to it, and forgave and forgot, mad respect
thank you !
@@ice1cube May the Lord bless you and your family! I’m glad that your brother forgave you! I wish you well! Stay safe!
@@Tc-rn8lh thank you so much
I am de spy
yeah no, i feel extremely bad for his younger sibling.
@keemochee to bad. It’s not your family. If the younger brother forgives the older brother then it’s not your problem whether you hate him for stuff he did a long time ago.
of course man its terrible what happened but remember THEY WERE KIDS be glad now that they love respect and appreciate each other🙏🏾❤️
@keemochee you shouldn’t hate the older sibling if the younger brother doesn’t because it’s not even your family is what I was going for but I guess some people don’t get that.
@keemochee putting laughing emojis when your mad makes you look SO silly and small and tiny and pathetic.
@@garbage4638 true
As an older sibling I honestly needed this. Also I love how you were honest and didn’t sugar coat anything. Your life definitely has a purpose, and your making a positive impact on others.
I have a little brother, we were 13 years apart, we were close right until age 15, he started guitar lessons, then he started to hang with the wrong groups, my biggest regret was not being there, because he didn't want me around anymore, I told my parents that this hobby is great, but it also comes with drugs problems, no one believed me, til the day he went mentally ill, I love my brother so much but my heart cracks when he doesn't remember his family and walks around in circles talking to himself, I blamed myself for not being there, let him do whatever he wanted. Now I have a son and I will godly try my best to raise him.
If any of you guys have a little brother, please spend more time with him, he seeks guidance, not from your parents, but from you.
Damn, i feel bad for you. It’s tough for a family member to change into someone not good.
You r not wrong... u r rite to report to parents
I feel you. I have a homosexual brother & he lives a very.. extroverted lifestyle. I want to make sure he’s safe with aids being a problem in that community but I really don’t know how to talk to him about such a sensitive subject. If anyone has advice I’ll be more than grateful.
@@hurtcobain3282 tell him to not have a sword fight in bed
wrong. they need guidance from the parents. not us older siblings (except if you are so much older and wiser than him). because I remember and regretted the way I treat my brother and never truly taught him every little wisdom I know, because I was a stupid child that had no such guidance from my parents either, I just treat him as immaturely as I was at that age and now I regretted for ever thinking like a kid at that age and regretted for not being old enough or wise enough then. It baffles me for parents to expect older siblings by few years to educate and nurture their younger children.
My older brother was always pretty jealous of me. Being 6 years younger and being the baby of the family got me a lot of attention. Unfortunately a lot of times he took that out on me. He was never very brotherly. We fought like cats and dogs, hardly ever got along, never really spent quality time with each other (although I really wanted to). So when i got a bit older and he asked me if I wanted to play a game with him, i was pretty excited and happy to see he finally wanted to spend time with me. That "game" was doctor. And it was the start of years of sexual assault/molestation that didnt end fully until I was 17. When he had a job and could buy things he would bribe me with things he said he'd buy if I did him favors. I'm 23 now and I've never talked to my brother about this. Idk if we will ever have a good, stable relationship.
I'm so sorry to hear that my friend, please get the help you need as this sounds like an incredibly bad situation and an abusive relationship that needs professional attention. please seek help and guidance
I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s extremely likely that he was also molested. Based on your age difference, I wouldn’t be surprised if he was still doing this to other children. Please consider getting help and outing him as an abuser. Don’t expect to ever have a good relationship with him. Never leave your future children alone with him and at least warn other family members that he can never be trusted with children.
Did you.. speak up auro?
@@8AKI47 I... did not. It's harder than you'd think.
@UCn7aE3UFFfjSHfa5OPnSRCg I have before years ago. My mother knows about it. But nothing came of it. She essentially said "I'm sorry that happened :(" and life went on. She never told anyone else (that I know of)
i feel really bad as an older sibling now. Sometimes I just lose my patience, or don’t have any to begin with.
🙏
dont need to regret, hust change you actions
I admit I never really defend my younger sisters when they face problems. It’s not from the lack of care, but because I want them to resolve it themselves. My parents always told me to protect my younger siblings, I thought my job was to look out for them while my parents had my back. But then one day I had my cousin over. He was upset about something and decided to take it out on me, he bit my stomach and ripped my flesh off then bit me again refusing to let go like an animal. I punched him in the face and broke his nose in self defence. But instead of defending me, my parents made me apologise to him because they didn’t want conflict with my extended family. It was because I hit the only grandson in my family, they wanted me to believe I was in the wrong saying a girl should never be violent. I really felt my parents had failed me and my sisters because they witnessed how awkward and helpless I felt in that situation. I decided my parents can’t give me the protection I need, so I’ve grown to be very strict and independent. I just want my sisters to be able to stand up for themselves, but still understand that I care about them and that I’m always ready to defend them in dire situations.
That’s messed up I’m sorry about that. I hope one day you mother and father will realize the mistakes they have made and the impacts they have also made before it’s too laye
Edit: late*
Geez your parents suck. I can relate
Nice lies
You did good!!
@@donkeysauce1507 you wouldn’t know so stfu unless your her family simple
Unpopular opinion: Parents making their oldest child parent the youngest is a cop out of parental duties.
There is a reason that they can talk about the personality of the oldest child, the middle child etc... most parents do this type of stuff. The oldest child is the one that has responsibility. The middle child feels ignored. The baby gets away with everything.
Ehh. I dont see it as a big deal. They dont make u full time parents but they make sure you are able to take care of your siblings w they ate not around. And if for some reason they are not around anymore youd have Atleast some knowledge and control over your siblings. Thats just how i look at it.
@@gawdlysiinz5134 true. At the end of the day though the oldest who is now tasked to parent the younger ones end up with stress in early adulthood. A parent tasking their kid to parent the others when theh are the ones that birthed them in the first place is like shifting their own responsibility to a less able teacher being the oldest. When they in themselves are still learning.
My sibling is a legit adult so i can see why he's my third parent lol
Welcome to Asia. By the way, some kids parent their own parents too, lmao.
i only have pictures of my childhood. your parents are very thoughtful and cherish the moments that you guys had while growing up. I have a sister 17 years later and because of the lack of my childhood memories, i recorded my sister progression every day. I keep them safely and double backup them videos. nothing much but cherish.
much love to you and your sister my friend
Damm bro this made me so emotional. I'm a big brother too and I was just like you. It wasnt until this year that we became very very very close and I told him I was sorry for everything I did. We have a great relationship now and I love and admire him so much. I'm 21 and I'm so happy that I did it sooner. I was such a shitty person but I'm happy I was able to move on and appologize to him... I still havent forgave myself. I dont think I ever will. What I did to him all those years breaks my heart.
Bro acknowledging what you did to your brother at your age so soon man. Good shit man. 👌
As a older sister i relate.
Don't hate yourself, I know it's not easy but think that at least you have changed. That person is not here anymore you are the one who is here now. Be happy about the fact that now you and your brother are close. I may not understand you bc I am the youngest (16y/o) but if I put myself at your brother place I would be sad for you and I would like you to know that you don't need to fee guilty anymore. You were just "ignorant" at that time. But I admire how you admitted your fault, not everyone would do it
happy sunday dear friends! thank you @goat sheep for checking if i was still uploading!!
you too happy sunday
Thanks, you too!
GRUNT GANG
Happy Sunday mate
You're helping raise boys to become men. As always, awsome lessons.
Even tho I don't have a sibling. I just listen to this because I treated my young cousins as my siblings
much love to you and your cousins
Same.
I’m with you. But I also treat good friends like family.
cousins can be siblings too :)
@@Zxch69 Yes
Me and my younger sister used to fight a lot. from my pov she got everything especially attention, i hated her for it out of jealousy of what i wanted. one day we were fighting again and i said “I wish u were never born” “I hate u” i got in trouble for it but from then on every time we fought she would bring those sentences back up again all the time i always thought “why couldn’t she just let it go at the end of the day it’s just words...”. years later we still fought not as much tho, my sister started to change and ended up acting a lot like me, started to not eat, and just seemed off in general later on we find out she was self harming and was diagnosed with depression, when my mom asked her what happened to cause some of these feelings for her she brought up those sentences again it was then when it hit me, it wasn’t just words for her it was a lot more it was hurting her so much that she decided to self harm the other reasons were cause of school bullies and stuff but the fact that i was a reason made me feel guilty to this day, If i would’ve just kept my mouth shut my sister wouldn’t have to feel pain thinking abt those sentences again while getting insulted every day all she wanted was for me to be a friend and not a rival after me apologizing multiple times i showed thru my actions that i never meant those hurtful words now every time she’s feeling down or anything she comes to me and i help her i’m so happy that i’m comfort to her now and i hope our bond gets stronger from here on. i still had no right to say what i said but, all i wanna do is not tell her but show her how important she is to me and our family i won’t stop till she feels loved again
thank you for this beautiful story!! sending you and your sister so much love! your relationship with her will continue to improve because of you!!
My fucking eyes are watering
Beautiful story
wtf my face is leaking... but seriously, all the feels.
🙏🙏 thank you
Same
So a little story time: I had two younger brothers, they always laughed and played with each other- never ever fought- they were like a team that didn't need anyone else. Five years ago, one of my youngest brothers died- leaving emptiness in our hearts forever. Our lives changed completely, and now I know that nothing will be the same especially for my other brother and my parents. To cut it short, cherish your family because you never know what turns life can take and thank you for posting this 💖
I'm so sorry for your loss my friend, sending you and your family so much love. I wholeheartedly agree with you. ❤
@@ice1cube Thank you so much for acknowledging my comment, means so much. Sending positive vibes and prayers to you and your family. 🤗😇
@@voiceofhena4013 🙏🙏 thank you!
Sorry for your loss
He is with you and your family always. I am sorry that you had to to through, ehat you weng through. If you ever need someone just hit me up. Much love from Sweden❤
The part when he was hugging and helping his elderly mom with his eldery dad got me... With the soundtrack from UP playing in my head where the old guy's wife's health declined 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
thank you for letting me share it with you
I'm so grateful to be able to watch this video, once again reminded me of what I should do as a part of my family.
much love my friend!
When you’re the older sibling and you get blamed for literally every single thing:
😅
Mhm
I know right
Exactly even more worse when they always expect us to be good at everything then ended up yelling at u
@@luffybetterr Frrr. “LeArN fRoM yOuR lIttLe BrOtHeR oR sIstEr.” Like bish learn to shut up.
That's beautiful man! At least u learned & grew from your errors, some people don't & continue on the same old path. Regardless of culture, religion, class, etc. there are things that we all share in spite of our differences...
thank you brit!!!
wtf...i cant imagine going to my friends house and harassing their sibling to call me daddy..how do these people exist
I know like wtf
Hope this dude leave that friend.
@The Phantom I boutta watch my first movie on a cinema and its with my friends. Can't wait
Whenever I went to my friends house I played fifa and whatever my friends younger brother played on his ps4 and always lost to him but it didn't matter because he was always so happy he was like 6 and I was 13.
The burden of being the oldest brother is a harsh and brutal journey. Your parents have too many high expectations and lave a lot of responsibility upon you. You have to share your most precious items with your siblings and be patient about it at an early age.
🙏🙏
Smh 🤦🏿 younger siblings are annoying asf!
@@lavonnealexander6936 Annoying or not, we gotta love them, they love us too. We have to be there role model i make sure my little brother does right the things i did wrong.
Kingtastic same I get what u mean I am An older brother it’s kinda hard sometimes
yes older brothern is a hard task
Honestly I don’t even know how your brother forgave you after everything man I hope u apologized after everything
absolutely, it was a life changing event and I'm thankful we love each other so much now
He already did
Just got this recommended out of nowhere, now I’m all emotional. I have 2 sisters whom I secretly used to loath all because I wanted a brother when I was a kid. I only tolerated them. The game changer for me was when someone hit my immediate sister and I went all Bruce lee on the person. I have never taken any self defense classes and I was pretty surprised about my combat skills. The antagonist in question is a bulky kid whom was a bully at Quran classes. I was 13 and he was around 16. I hardly got along with my sister before that incident. I would lay down my life to protect my sisters, most importantly we lost our mom 6 years ago. It hurts, life sucks. I’m 21 now, working 2 hospital jobs and schooling just to provide for me and my sisters and support my dad. It’s really draining.
mans still hearting and replying to comments
thank you! I love interacting with
all of you
I now realize that I should be nice to my siblings....
much love to you and your siblings amy!!
@ice1cube thx......I wont let them be beaten up EVER....
@@amyslife345 welp No one beats me up except my Brother
This happened to me except instead of my brother, it's a good friend of mine. Me and my friend were walking through town and some dude we were walking past called me a chink. I don't like conflict as a person and I have learned to just brush off racist comments. However, my friend decided to stand up to the bully. They went face to face, staring each other down. I was standing to their side, trying to separate them with one arm but not physically getting in between them. Then the guy punched my friend straight in the eye.
After that moment, I saw how selfless of an act it was. He didn't have to defend me, but he did it anyways, because that's what it means to be a friend. To stand up for the people that are dear to you. I feel ashamed because I could have done more to help my friend. But from that moment, as someone who doesn't have many friends, I've now gained a deep appreciation for the people around me. I've learned that I must do my best to stand up for others, because if someone is willing to go out their way to defend me, then I'm sure as hell going to do the same.
Thank you for sharing this story. It means a lot
to people like me who can relate to your experience. Best wishes Frank.
You finally made me clear my class called me a momma's boy and cuz of that I've never been kind to anyone else other than my friends and my family but now i will learn to live and ignore those hate to become the person i want to be.
much love to you friend! be yourself!
alwasy be kind !!
I searched randomly about my brother then this showed up and clicked accidentally but somehow got interested, this is so pure
🙏🙏
I never wanted to get married or children because my childhood and teenaged years were shitty. Family was always broken up. After growing and traveling the world and learning new things, I see the beauty and importance of friends and family & how they make life so full & wonderful, when the love is there. I hope someday I can raise my own loving family. I want to heal my own trauma first, so I can build a strong foundation of love for whoever my family becomes. Someday. Thank you for this video. Made me tear up.
much love to you my friend, I hope things continue to improve for you!!
@@ice1cube thank you for your inspiring story of growth!@@
@@masterhide thank you!!
As an older sibling you MUST protect and care for siblings. They might get you into the worst trouble but use your head, One day you or they will not be always be around
Stopped caring about my younger "brother" once I got enough of him being an asshole to me, telling me to kill myself and it would be better if I was dead, even as children he told me he wouldnt care if I died.
We barely even talk now and its a LOT of negative interactions, I care about family if they dont treat me like I'm a piece of trash.
@@eoozy2617 just think dude think why you are in their house think why they bought you an device think why they are giving food you just think why they are keeping you alive ok ?
@@Superoofwalker1 I am not in his house though?
You dont need to do shit, your parents decided to make a child, not you, you have no responsibility over it
Siblings always forget they share a womb
Never thought of it like that
@Dungeon Eater But she said siblings, not half siblings.
okay and? im sure we dont how do you forget that...
How old are u saying womb
Not always but I see your point.
This is amazing, it really is incredible that you’re able to so blatantly admit your wrongdoings in life. Not a lot of people can do that easily.
7:12 this is so touching and sad, but very honoring. I watched my mother hurt for years with addiction and passed away recently. Being able to care for your mother after years of her caring for you though is amazing and is making you who you are meant to be- don’t show sadness each time because she loves you and appreciates everything you do. This is beautiful.
thank you so much felicia, I'm so sorry for your loss as well. much love to you my friend, I appreciate you
I remember having that much anger towards my younger brother. it makes me want to cry thinking about how much of a piece of sh*t I was to him. we have such an amazing relationship now
🙏🙏 much love to you and your brother my friend
This channel is deep AF
Im praying for your moms health man! Really put me in tears, she is adorable and the speech she had about your brother when she was younger. 😭😭
thank you!!!
DUDE, I didn't except to cry. Now I'm trying not to shed tears. You're an amazing Bro dude.
🙏 thank you
This video was recommended to me and I don't regret clicking on it, this was truly a masterpiece.
thank you so much for your kind words!!!
Honestly this was very hard to watch. I am very protective over my brothers and my sister no matter what and no what our age differences were I would and will always stand up for them no matter what. We aren’t even close but I understand the true meaning of family they’re forever. It hurts more because my siblings never stood up for me but no matter what I knew not only would I feel guilty if I don’t stand up for them but I would know it’s wrong. Glad you shared this story and you changed from that experience
thank you Sarah I definitely learned and changed, much love to you and your family my friend
yes it was very hard i am too protectful
My older brother watched when I got beat up by an older kid but I’ve learned valuable lesson that day. I had to fight for everything on my own and learned to be independent.
Well said
I let my moms boyfriend hit my younger sister once. A couple of years later, she got herself in trouble and he wasn’t having it. He hit her with a cord so I threw a dumbbell at him. It hit him on his toe. I got my butt whooped but it was worth it. Once I was old enough to support myself I took my sister with me. We never looked back. Best of friends from that moment on.
that's horrible and I'm so glad you protected your sister and eventually got out of that abusive situation. much love to you and your sister my friend, thank you!
my bio dad was very abusive towards me and my sister growing up. we would always be there for eachother when he hurt one of us but we never spoke about it, just distracted eachother by doing silly things. we’re away from him now, ill be turning 21 this year and she’ll be 18. sometimes i wish i did things differently and wish i did more to protect her, but also i was a kid and there wasn’t much i could do. im glad you got yourself and your sister out of that situation too.
He does'nt have a reason to be whooping you.
This video was in my recommendations it just reminds me how much I miss my little brothers everyday seeing them grow up so fast when I remember them coming from the hospital as babys. I’ve never had a good relationship with my mom but my brothers always called me mom but seeing such a good relationship with a mom makes me happy to see
sending you and your brothers so much love my friend
God is always there for yall. People come and go but God never leaves He loves you dearly ❤
thank you my friend!
This is sad and heartbreaking and all
Is everyone gonna ignore the fact that the kid can play flute with his nose?
I lost my lil brother bcus of brain tumor and his lost made me a musician ❤️..and yes I also treated my lil brother not so good n I regret it soo much. This video made me emotional
I'm so sorry for your loss my friend, sending you so much love
I remember my little sister got smacked by another girl, and my step-mom got mad that my brother (he's younger than me but older than my little sister) didn't do anything about it or defend her. I was in highschool and they both went to elementary school together. If the roles were switched between me and my brother, I would have slapped that girl for hitting my sister.
Relatable 🥲
as someone who’s never had a relationship with my older brother, ( we live together but he verbally bullied saying things like “i wish i had a brother instead” and “i hope you get hit by a car” ) i always got jealous of the people who had better relationships with their siblings, my parents wanted the same thing for me and my brother, although my parents did break up, and so did my brothers ( my mother broke up with his father then the same thing happened with my parents)
having good relationships with your siblings is very important, and you’ll regret it later if you don’t.
You siplings still love you
I don’t think you should take this these things as seriously as you are (Your brother’ comments I mean). I mean, you probably are just being really dramatic like a lot of kids but still.
@@outis439-A Some words really hurt, especially if they are coming from someone you really love. My brother himself has said the same comments to me when I was younger, both of us despised each other but thankfully now, our relationship has gotten better, you just have to forgive and forget. I was really pessimistic but I realized instead of looking for a happy positive person in my life, I should be one. That's how I live now, optimistic and carefree, Alhumdulillah.
But yeah long story short, words like that stick with you your whole life.
@ Hornswoggle Lover39
there’s no reason to be dramatic about something that can ruin your mental health like it did mine, im doing better now but what my bother said to be still sticks with me no matter how much i hate it
not all stories about siblings are “overdramatized” or “fake”
this is a true story and to this day i still don’t talk to my brother, let alone look at him.
i know exactly what you fucking mean. currently going through that now. but we cant really force our siblings to care about us. i dont want to butt in on my brothers life cuz its clear he doesn't want me in it. but i know ill always be there for them throughout everything, and a small part of me hopes one day they'll realize how much they truly mean to me.
I was literally just talking to someone about cherishing family time and loving them while you have them close. Glad I came across this, I love my brothers even though we get into multiple fights a week but I just look back at our great memories and all negativity fades and all I feel is love and joy to have them in my life.
much love to you and your brothers!
@@ice1cube back at you man❤
I imagine my older brother making a video about me and how weird that would feel, yet at the same time how emotional I'd get about it 😭
I apologized to my brother many times for how shitty I was, he never says anything, he still holds resentment till this day even sometimes I get the feeling that he really hates and despises me. I have tried to make it right, I just pray that some day I will
Me too I always feel guilty when I hit my brother about little things he does that I did as a kid, the last time I hit him was really long time ago because I feel sooo guilty :((
@keemochee I'm not bitchy and self centered 🤬🤬, but your older siblings love you still, they're probably sorry but they don't know how to own it up to you
i am they type that is slow at getting angry, but is also slow at forgiving people when i get really pissed. so when you mentioned your brother holds resentment, i can kinda relate. i don't want to be unforgiving so i struggle a lot trying to forgive ppl. i hope your brother heals with time(as soon as possible).
holding resentments only hurts the one that is keeping it in themselves.
I'm a middle child, I've experienced both perspectives,
I'm bitchy to my younger sibling, but also love her a lot. She used to side with me, now she sides with my older brother at unesscesary times, she'd do his chores for him, she'd lie for him(for no reason) just cause he told her some of his sob stories.
Sometimes I'd even cry alone , I don't know the reason why they decided to go against me.
I only cry alone because I cry iver stupid reasons , it's hard to explain why you're crying to your parents just because of a stupid thing.
And for 4 years now, I've been avoiding my older brother, I don't remember what caused it,maybe because my parents let him off the hook easily when he emotionally harms me(like leaving no food for me, actually making fun of me with my parents as a "joke", he's pretentious as fuck, an angel when our parents are there,but is a demon when they aren't, he's a close minded fuck, he'd ask questions during our fights but never lets me speak)
There is a saying that people can forget what you did to them ,but they can never forget how you made them feel.
I don't blame him
I can see the love in your mom’s eyes when she looks at both of you. Thank you for being honest about how you felt towards your little brother when you were young. I’m very happy that you guys have such a great relationship now. Blood is thicker than water.
thank you!!
Thanks for sharing Frank. I'm so happy that you're back on youtube and have been uploading videos every Sunday lately. I'm watching from the UK, and I usually get a notification of your upload around 11pm UK time just before I go to sleep. Your story always gives me a fresh perspective and positivity before the start of the working week.
I've always had a strenuous relationship with my siblings, but your video reminds me that it doesn't have to be this way - no one is perfect, so a little bit of understanding and love can go a long way. I'm happy that you have such a wonderful relationship with your family, even during these difficult times with your mum.
Coincidentally, it's mothers day in the UK today - so the ending segment was really relevant and touches on a lot of the things I've been thinking about today when reflecting on my own mum. My mum is really awesome, she came to the UK when she was 30 with no qualifications and zero english. She ended up having 3 kids and always made our education and comfort her top priority. She took us to church and showed us how unwavering faith and love for God can change lives. She somehow managed to provide for us and get us all into university despite having a low-income job. Heck - she even had the foresight to get a mortgage on our apartment, which we've also literally just paid off this weekend.
Mothers are amazing, I don't know how they do it. I'll be praying for you and your family as always - and remember that God is good!
Children never forget
When he said “change the course of our relationship,” who else expected in a negative way? Really great storytelling.
thank you!
Thanks for sharing this video. I also have a little brother, and I think back to all these times I was so wrong to him. We fought a lot, mostly my fault. The time he was saying “asha asha!” (The ‘Extra’ chant) and I punched him because I found it annoying and my grandmother punished me. The time he was playing one of my video games without my permission and I kicked him in the nose and stormed out of his room. He was even bleeding and crying... and at the time I didn’t even care. All I cared about was my stupid video game being touched and how angry I was at him for just trying to have some fun. I was so greedy and selfish. The time my sister’s stupid ex boyfriend convinced us we should fight each other so we did and he was so enraged.. I feel like a monster for the way I treated him. It’s only now that I’m older, wiser and more mature that I think about these times and how awful I really was. I was abusive, not just to him, but I even kicked my poor dog out of anger one time when she did absolutely nothing to me. I was such a hot head. I still am, and I still get angry and yell, but only when no one else is around. I’ve been able to control myself not to hurt anyone or anything else when I’m upset because even my dog seems to be less excited to see me ever since I did that to her. When you bring pain on someone you love, it’s never the same. My brother and I don’t talk much. We lived together for a few months last year when the pandemic hit and he wasn’t very close with me. I think he still vividly remembers the wrongs I’ve done to him and it makes him more wary of me. I can never undo that. It breaks my heart and I wonder if we would be close and talk more often if I was better at controlling my anger as a kid. Now, I’m not close with either of my siblings. We go months to years without speaking and when we do, it’s never like it used to be. Things are so different now. I don’t live near them. I call my mom often because she helps me cope with the never ending pain of existence and I appreciate her so much for doing whatever she can to be there for me. I just wish I didn’t destroy my relationships with my siblings. I feel like there’s no fixing them. I’ve tried saying sorry but I guess it just isn’t enough. So treat your family well. When you mess up, it can be really hard to fix it, maybe impossible, and it’s made me a lonely, remorseful adult.
hey ty thank you so much for sharing your story. I just want to say that its never too late. it'll be hard and the walls are built up high but if you are willing to try its never too late. sending you and your family and your siblings so much love. I hope your relationships with them reach the level you want them to be. much love to you my friend
@@ice1cube hey thanks a ton that’s a really supportive and kind response and I appreciate you understanding. Of course I’m ashamed of my past but it’s relieving to know other people go through these things too. I wish the best with your family. Maybe this video is what a lot of people needed to see to mend some past relationships and pain so I appreciate people like you putting out real stuff like this. I hope you and your family are closer than ever.
so basically, if ur the oldest sibling, don't be abusive
This made me realize how when I grow older how much I am gonna appreciate my twin
I'm a twin too! What's up!
@@twin2day647 Oh hello
Same what’s up !!
@@jammiestbitofjam3798 HELLO
Respect for Dad.
For capturing these moments.
Kids are insane little narcissists. My older brother would torment me so much when I was young but hey I’ll admit I didn’t the same to my younger brother. Wasn’t until we all grew up, aren’t going through puberty, that we all get along and respect each other
It’s because younger siblings are a nuisance until they are Atleast 13 or 14.
kids are not insane little narcissists. Some kids are taught to be insane little narcissists, it's different. It's the society and the parenting the problem. It's the common thought, especially in eastern countries, that the younger sibling has to respect the older one.
It is always a matter of education.
@Sequoiah Dreams Agree. Luckily we are finally making some changes (ecology, green choices, veganism, feminism, antiracism antisexism..the list is beautifully long) tho there is still A LOT to fix
@@bebaios i think its just common sense to respect your older siblings unless they do something not worthy of that respect. Because 9/10 theyre gonne be the first ones to help u, comfort you, etc the list goes on. When ur mom is gone.
@@gawdlysiinz5134 I am from a western country in which it doesn't work like this, that's why I find it odd. With this I don't mean to impose my thoughts or costumes at all. But I personally think that yes, an older sibling can be a huge help to a younger one, but the respect should be reciprocated. From both sides. I think it would be the best to teach to respect. Period. When you respect anyone, as the younger sibling you learn to respect the older sibling because he/she is more experienced and can take more responsability, and as the older sibling you respect the younger one too because he/she is still a human with his/her needs.
I don't know...I simply think equality should be taught, because when you recognize someone as your equal that respect you as much you respect him/her, you are willing to...be respectful and to behave for the best.
Maybe it's an idealistic point of view, but I think education has to be realistic but also based on neutral and "clean" principles, which are idealistic.
This makes me grateful for my elder brother... My parents left me at home with him for months and while yes he did yell he was always there... I can understand it's stressful.
I like all of these more personal stories of people opening up more and shows the bravery of the creator.
thank you!!!
I love the ending of your mom talking about your brother and footage of her comforting him at his football game. I think every sibling can relate to this. Thank you for sharing 💛
Taromlk on insta recommended this channel, so I came by. You are a decent person, good son, brother, friend and amazing story teller. You are a good human being, so I am sure that your parents are good people too. They passed you their legacy, thank you for sharing with it. All the best from Kazakhstan 🖤
thank you so much for your kindness my friend
pov: it was in your recommended. You don’t know why you clicked it but you did and now you can’t stop
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Frank - watched you years ago in the early days of TH-cam and am watching you so many years later - you are so good at story telling and making your videos like you're talking to an old friend.
At first I used to hate my sister a lot especially for her shortcomings and I felt really embarrassed at the time but I learned that love is beyond that and I was able to see the goodness in her which is why I support her to this day
This is the level of honesty, humility and transparency we need to have with our relationship with God.
man just watching the progression of these videos makes me cry knowing how much I haven't appreciated those near me as much as I should have. I hope more people watch this and get a dose of beautiful reality and get a change of heart
Dude your honesty is good for the soul. God bless. Stay grounded with the earth.
Ur raw honesty about you inner feelings from the past is truly refreshing
thank you so much
Frank puttin out banger after banger..
that means so much to me I really really appreciate your kind words!!!