Dating Someone From A Different Class | Normal People On iPlayer Now
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 มิ.ย. 2020
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Marianne lets Connell know she is aware that they met only through her family employing Connell's mother.
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God, I love this scene. I honestly prefer the talking scenes to the sex scenes. They depict those moments in life when you connect with another person, the magic of a quiet moment in a beautiful place.
@@simonh7025 I love the first two of the series, but the third traumatised me.
@@GrainneMhaol what first two in the series?
@@susufray3601 1. Before Sunrise, 2. Before Sunset...and then came 3. Before Midnight
There was a little too much sex in the show in my opinion! My fiancée thought that I would have loved it but it was actually quite gratuitous at times.
@@Saintinthecity-wh9nl soft
I love that it's implied that the e-mails were better because they were written for her. So romantic!
I know, right! That's what I thought. Smitten!
when you're young, you assume everything is about money; when you're older, you know it for sure
like Oscar Wilde :)
Simply not true IMO. Money is essential much like food, water but it's not everything. True fulfilment comes from within. A lot of it comes down to the Human mind, the most complex, adaptable known object in the Universe and how we are made to forget its power.
@@isao2952 money allows you to think about and do the other stuff...
"it's not everything" well, humans are not made of 100% water, but it is 60-70% and without it we're dead
“When you are young they assume you know nothing”
" money is the reason we exist, everybody knows it is a fact kiss kiss"
This show is so beautifully written. It is moments like in this clip that makes you fall in love or despise someone. Is the organic talk, empathy, and humility of the other person, or maybe the arrogance and apathy. Other shows aren't really showing moments like this, real and organic. I love it truly.
It’s actually a book. And the book is much better than the TV adaptation.
@@mcbusted1985 strong disagree
@@mcbusted1985 the book was good but the series blew my mind I loved it soooo much and they felt so real, better than how I imagined them while reading.
I'm so distracted by the ice cream regenerating again and again.
The continuity is off. Their script supervisor should have caught that.
The cycling/Italy scenes were the last scenes shot for the film. What a beautiful way to end the series hey
Where were they filmed?
@@parlay-music Stimigliano, Italy according to Google. Near Rome.
Not a film, it's a show
@@screamsfromhell yeah I meant show lol
@@gigglemaniarunninwild2207 ah is that so? Not sure why the producer and actors mentioned in a few interviews that the last shooting was in Italy
I love those last lines.
“How are the stories going, I’d love to read them?”
“Eh. Not as good as the emails.”
this was one of my favorite scenes, the conversation feel so mature so honest and you get to see how much they are growing and how they are so honest in their thoughts of life. beautiful scene and the location is mesmerizing.
I like rusty spoons
I thank my lucky stars everyday I found that
No. Sex is everything.
sex outside of marriage should not be promoted on government founded channels
@@Baltasarmk lol
@@LM-vp5do what’s is funny here?
Connell wow what a fantastic actor he really played his character perfectly from start to finish. well done bloody brilliant.
“It’s money though, isn’t it? The substance that makes the world real.” Connell, the socialist icon we need
Well, capitalists believe that too, so we wouldn’t know
Xiaoyi Ren the book is a communist book as the author said and both characters are heavily influenced from reading Marx. So no, they’re definitely not capitalists.
Dan Cater The author literally is a communist and said the book is communist literature. The point was not missed
…or maybe, it's just a stupid thing to say.
Dan Cater wins the lottery my family
Typically the "higher" class partner tries to hide the relationship. This was a good change of pace.
Well he was of higher social class- she was of economic.
@@nimeshsingh4943
Yep, you’re right. He was popular. She was an outcast
@@nimeshsingh4943 in university she was more popular and he had no friends
@@nimeshsingh4943 There is also the pennlyless Aristocratic high social class .
@@nimeshsingh4943 you do know that being popular doesn't make you belong to a different social class?
In fairness, she nailed the accent .. and Connell.
This is my favorite episode. It was all about reconnecting and the opening shot of Connell going to the house in italy was beautiful
Did this scene remind anyone else of the _Before_ trilogy?
Yes. the scene in italy was very familiar with that in before midnight
yes omg this whole series has a kind of realism that I loved In the before trilogy
Is that a book?
YES! especially their conversations.
@@susufray3601 no it's a movie! Check out Before Sunrise!
And yet she never tried to hide what they had because of his lack of money, whereas he hid what they had because of her lack of popularity. I'm still not over how badly he treated her, and I don't think he apologized enough :(. He didn't even THINK to ask her to prom!
Yeah but it's never presented as a good thing ever throughout the entire show. They both knew it was an awful thing for Connell to do but they were both able to move on from it and it led to a lot of growth from Connell that shone through in his treatment towards Marianne in the future.
I doubt that he didn't think to ask her. It's just the childish side of him, you know like peer pressure especially how insecure he is as portrayed from the beginning
He wrote in his diary about it
@@paulaalcantara9299 is this in the book version?
No, she never acknowledged her class privilege or tried to understand his circumstances.
there is always something about people eating ice cream in films.. like, we can all see it's a different amount every time she licks it :D
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I can see why Kit Connor says this is his most enjoyed series. I might have to watch more of it. Seems quite well done.
I think we all know, even the ones who don't know because actually they know that there are many things more meaningful and intimate than sex. This scene is just a clearly evidence of that
Such a beautiful show
lol, I just eat the ice cream, i don't lick
Hahahaha me to!
😂
She is a lady. She licks.
Chewing ice cream is not that good for your teeth
it’s so contra intuitive to sit on a bike with an unfinished ice cream
I have done that before and I do not recommend ...
A magically regenerating ice cream!
Has a tub in her bag.
It so beautiful place is so nice to have a chat to a friend togerther.
Such a good show
Even though this series is more famous, or rather, infamous, for its sex scenes, the scenes set in Italy and Sweden are especially picturesque and gorgeous. 😍🇮🇹🇸🇪
As are the scenes where Connell and Marianne are simply opening up to each other, and being themselves. ❤️
Though I thought the beach scenes in Sligo with the Atlantic Ocean in the background were lovely too
Wot and Ireland isn't
Infamous? They have some of the most wonderful sex scenes ever put in television, they had an intimacy coach, they felt safe and empowered doing them... i don’t think “infamous” is the word i would use to describe it🤔
Triana Q - did you actually watch the series?! If you did, what a bizarre comment. If you didn't, what a bizarre comment. (p.s. the Swedish scenes, in particular, were depressing and horrible and Sweden looked very uninviting ...) And I don't know where you're from, but the sex scenes are honestly not that important in my part of the world ...
@@joselocalau123 empowered. That word makes me nauseous in actorly terms. They just got their kit off and faked sex. Man, half the women in the world do that
yeah but they really didn't get the continuity with that ice cream very good did they
My favorite series ever. I read the book and watched the show like 5 times.
What's the name please?
@@anabachukwunyere1016 the name of the book is Normal People. I will leave below the link for the channel where I watched all the episodes.
@@anabachukwunyere1016 The channel that had all the episodes has been removed :( but you need to watch the series to understand the book because the book is very confusing. I highly recommend this show is so beautiful and the actors are just another level of good acting. Everything is on point. I hope you can find the episodes.
Thank you. I suppose the series is also named "Normal People", will look for it.
@@anabachukwunyere1016 Yes
NEVER DO IT. IT WILL END BADLY ALWAYS.
The amazing growing cone!
Baz Wax That was in episode 2.
it's funny to think, like, both Paul and Daisy started out from this show and Paul is now a great rising star (not to say that Daisy isn't as amazing it's just obvious he climbs up much faster now) and a member of the Academy! almost feels like what Connell and Marrianne would be when Connell turns into a hotshot writer in NY
Her accent sounds more British at 0:48 and 0:51 and especially the “you’re a better student” part.
Great scene and meaningful discussion, only wished they would have given her something else to hold instead of the never ever gonna melt ice cream cone.
0:33 magically gets an extra half scope of ice cream
This is so nice😎
its not that much diffcult provided thre is understanding.
The ice cream bothers me. Continuety disrupted 😬
Intriguing
Paul Mescal is honestly my biggest inspiration
Which episode was this from? I don’t remember it.
I believe it was 8
Where in Italy is that
He talks like Niall Horan same voice and accent lol
The ice cream!!! continuity ???
Jheez that ice cream 👀
This reminds me so much of Before Midnight.
The continuity people failed with Marianne’s ice cream.
After watching this series I m confused that what is true LOVE?
attention + time
@@AnnaGirardini + money
How did this bird get the west of ireland accent off so well..
A dialect coach possibly
Found out her mother is irish dad Scottish
Bird? Don't think I've heard that one since the 1970s.
Well John my olde stock its a West of ireland saying
@@ericthemauve lmao
I think all Europe is beautiful
thank
@@Thomasomc why? Did you build all of Europe?
@Cian MacGana it's a beautiful continent that I want to visit. I have always want to go there, and hopefully I could visit in 2022. Hopefully, I will have enough money Savings by then, and I will just walk around the big cities appreciate the architectures, old churches, art museums and so on while eating breads or a long ass baguette.
Which episode is this ?
Anyone know ?
Episode 8
What's the city?
Stimigliano
Is there a way I can watch this even im from Asia? Thank you.
You can find it on youtube
The whole series is in soap2day!!
Whole series is on openload
@@fionamcc2315 Is that an app?
@@crtamsrce what's that?
It's a bad idea...
Stimigliano
So who's the normal guy?
I wish I could be the ice cream
i knew some working class people when i volunteered in a charity shop. they had a strange nobility
Normal people on I player 😎
Bruh
Nah, they are both middle class, or upper middle class from a first world country, where social distances are extremely low, compared to the rest of the world.
Access to college? That, in fact, is NOT, someone form a different class. Not talking of money, of course, but of educational background.
She’s upper class he’s working class. Big difference
@@Ilovegymnastics-ks4ii does working class have access to college? again, not talking about money.
@@johnnyofthesticks7260 yes, the way the student loans system works in Ireland and the uk means anyone of any economic background can attend. It’s not like in the states which has an appalling system which means many people of lower economic backgrounds can’t go to college.
@@noodle9993 again, you re talking about money. Thats not my point.
🤠🤠
Me as an African watching this: But but but they are both White and they are both supposed to be rich :S
What do you mean man? From my perspective as an African, yeah, they’re both rich and have no idea what life in the global south is like. Is that what you meant?
@@chasingthesun90 Y0u souND aBoUt 12 YEarS olD
Not all white people are rich. Many white people who are dirt poor. You just dont hear about it cuz it destroys the narrative of white elitism.
I agree as long as the woman are the ones starting to date down as it’s not sly ALWAYS mend dating women from a lower class and then getting destroyed by the legal system afterwards.
That sounds like a very British problem.
Very Irish problem
so f ing slow
dont do it took a working girl to a cocktail party she had no idea what gentlemens relish is ... imagine that
I love that the novel is communist literature and the show kept true to those themes as well ❤️
Yes, because Communism is soooooo great.
It’s not communist literature, it’s a piece which can be viewed through a Marxist lense.
It is not communist literature.
No such thing as class these days. There are tradesman I know who've been able to buy a house at the age of 23 whilst silver spoons who consider themselves "middle class" struggle to get on the housing ladder after years at uni and working in admin roles/ teaching.
Not true. Although class has shifted completely in the UK and what we deem as working, middle and upper class has changed and counties to do so we still have a working a middle and an upper class. They just look different today.
For example owning your own home is something many middle class people really struggle to achieve like you said, where a few decades ago they would have been on the property ladder well before 30. But home ownership isn't the only consideration.
Income inequality is worse now than it was then, levels of poverty are rising year on year and most working class people worry about the same shit they always have. Figuring out how to pay the rent and out food on the table.
Sure that working class might look different. They might no longer be made up of those traditional working class trades, and be full of people who work in retail, customer service, hospitality and care.
Either way as long as there are a small number of people with a lot and a large number of people with less or in some cases close for nothing there will be a thriving class system in the UK.
Money doesn’t buy class. Class in British society is still down to job role and values.
Also, you sound very snobby- there’s nothing wrong with admin roles or teaching.
@@elio6037 show is not set in the UK
@@friendgray1 True I know many working class millionaires from trades. However, they still speak poor English, have low academics, read and watch trashy material.
@@friendgray1 it’s not even really about job roles, so much of it is still about family, upbringing, inheritance, and what jobs your parents did
wait till she drops him and moves on to someone with a lot of money
Really don’t understand why everyone went crazy for watching a straight couple have sex for 8 episodes. So boring
It was a bit more than that.
Doesnt matter who one fancies for a partner; it is the dynamic relationship between people that intrigues most people. It is what is under the flesh and has nothing to do with sexual preferences.... it is the character (and characters chemistry) that brings life to any story.
It is money....isn't....
Yeah. A cheap Ryanair flight, air bnb/hotel in a country that has many competitively priced hotels, a bicycle, an ice cream.
Probably the one comment that is disconnected from reality.
It is not a lot of money.
But the author wanted to play with redundant stereotypes. It is as if the author has personal laziness, that needs manifestation.
Less than 20% of the world has been on an airplane. Just say you’re privileged and go.
Dude idk where u live but it is very expensive to take a tour in Europe.
It is a lot of money, Even living there
Great News. Normal People star Daisy Edgar-Jones ‘splits from boyfriend Tom Varey’:
About time too! Well done Daisy. The best decision of your life apart, that is, from becoming a superb actress. You have more talent in your little finger than the drip has in whole of his pathetic frame. You're just too beautiful. He's not even in your class. You'll never regret dropping that drip! The world is now your oyster.
Oh my god, you are everywhere. I'm genuinely curious why you're so invested.
Wow. They talk to each other like robots. There is not a lot of genuineness coming across. She seems quite condescending. It's an odd couple. It's also weird that they keep stating things. It's like they aren't talking to one another but making statements to each other another. It's weird. It's very PC. "I think you have a right to", "You know things are..." "Well, in that case, perhaps.." It's like a business meeting.
It would help if the guy knew how to converse.
That’s just how their characters are really
0:29 Connell's comment about money makes it obvious that he CLEARLY doesn't understand how the world really works. Judging by the support for socialism in the comments, many of you need to grow up too. What truly matters is VALUE, not money. If you make things that others value, then they pay you for it. Money is just a medium to record value and exchange it without bartering. The more value you bring to others, the more you get in return.
At least, that's how things work in a world where people are allowed to make and trade things freely.
Socialism and Communism killed millions of people in the 20th century, yet all you kids glorify it as some utopia. You're all nuts, and you need to read some history. Better yet, let the real world hit you in the head a few times.
Stalin and Mau killed millions ;)
@@TheSchemer1 A fact that many socialists brush aside casually, or don't know at all
@@bobhilton2643 I don't brush it aside and I'm a socialist meself, tbh there is no perfect system only a slightly more bearable one than the others
@@burningjamie9924?
@@bobhilton2643 i mean there's the amount of people that have died labouring in factories, homeless people, people who can't afford life saving treatment etc
Only in Britain would there be a series with this stupid title, whilst trying to come across as 'sophisticated'. What is this obsession with class and why is it so weird to date somebody richer or poorer than you? Leave 1890 in 1890.
The Future The characters are Irish! Based on the novel by the Irish novelist, Sally Rooney. So ... your comment doesn't really make much sense.
It was relevant bc his mom worked for her significantly wealthier family. It was this dynamic they'd never discussed before in their relationship. It's not that it was a taboo thing, nobody cared about that and its not talked of again. This particular episode is just showing how a vacation to Italy is normal for Marianne but super thrilling for Connell. Which leads to this scene, and the purpose is to acknowledge that although they are the same in many ways and basically grew up near one another, the amount of money you have does really shape your perspective on life.
Monse 1500 agree, makes the world readily available
I wouldn't say it attempts to seem sophisticated. It depicts two adults from vastly different spheres of life having an honest conversation about how money has changed Connell's situation so drastically. And a major point of the show is that is ISN'T weird, only made to seem that way by Marianne's toxic family and Connell's social anxiety. Don't try to criticise something you've never seen. And like everyone else has mentioned, the profundity of the conversation is compounded by the context; a time when socioeconomic divisions are more apparent than ever. You can pretend everyone is equal all you like, but this isn't and will never be the case.
Ireland isn't britian 😂
They told us this trashy channel was being disconnected. Why is it still running ?
You're about to find out the hard way what it's like for the rest of us.