I stopped buying Christmas presents 4 years ago and told everyone I don't need nor expect anything. I truly want to spend time together instead... PRESENCE instead of presents. It's wonderful!
my great grandma gave us a package of under wear for christmas and our great grandpa gave us 1.00 worth of pennies more than they should of and the only thing he ever owned was a fiddle and a horse
Excellent video Bob, you have a great way of getting the point across. I thought I really understood the way things work because I have been seeking happiness for half a century and thought I understood how it all works. This video turned on a couple more lights for me and I thank you for it. I have known for quite some time that WE are a product of OUR ENVIRONMENT and I have proven that many times in my life so I know that well. I have been working on changing my environment for many years because I want to change the product (myself). I'll tell you something you already know but it takes time and it is a great journey. Every time a new light turns on it just blows my mind. I find it so hard to believe it took so long for me to understand. Once you get it, you get it and it's soooooooooo simple. Getting past all those years of brain washing is difficult but not impossible. Thank you again Bob, you are a fantastic voice for FREEDOM! Hope to meet you all at the RTR this year (finally)! Have a great day!
WannaBFree Yes our environment I found really affects us Im renting in Orange County because family is out here but the busy ness of people and them always driving fast is causing me unneeded anxiety so I bought a SUV and will move up north to a more rural small town area I may rent a room at first but will SUV dwell as well but just want to get away from the busy ness of this surburb
Thank you Bob for this video! I am the black sheep of my family for many reasons. I have always enjoyed buying second hand or receiving any hand-me downs. I'm happiest when I can reuse an item that others would find out of style. I feel consumerism is out of control. I don't need the newest and greatest. I have a wonderful job and love what I do but one day I would like to live a more simple life. I did not have a good childhood so I do have a few fears. I also have let go of expectations of others and just work on myself. Your videos have really helped me see how a simple life can bring so much happiness. Thank you for all you do!
Love your videos Bob. As a Christian don't let the expectations of giftgiving hamper the joy of the season. Now we have options of going online and never having to visit a store if that's your choice. Some of the best gifts I've ever received has come from the heart and not the wallet. Keep pumping out those great videos Bob you've been a great inspiration. My favorites are when you interview individuals and how they share their own stories
You got that right, Bob- 100%. If you learn about most of the indigenous peoples all over the world, who live simply and communally...you will find the most giving, kind, happy and spiritually peaceful people in the world. They are secure and connected to the Earth (who I feel is out mother). This is why I am going Nomadic.
Thank you so much for this! I learned much of it long ago, but think I need to re examine. I live in a senior apt. I am so thankful for it. Really think gratitude and that childlike wonder have carried me. Thanks again and Happy Holidays!
Bob,I am a Christian and I celebrate Christmas, but my family and I have gotten away from the "buying" part of it. It's more about getting together with family and friends and celebrating the birth of Jesus. I refuse to buy into the commercialism of having to "buy things" for family members as we used to do growing up and by doing that it has relieved a lot of stress around this time of year.... that said, Merry Christmas Bob and keep up the good videos. I totally agree with you. Less "things" in your life is better and healthier for you.
Thank You Bob, I wish You the Best too. Good Message-glad I finally have realize that Life is more than expectations. I am very Happy with little and with who I am now.
Thanks for sharing your message Bob I couldn't agree more mate Im heading away in my truck We call them "utes" down under in Australia lol , for the holidays and I will be using all the tips and tricks you have taught me through watching your videos
I have been watching you since before this video was posted and yet not seen this one until today. I have known all of the things you have said here for years and been working for all this time to rid myself of worthless possessions that tie me in place like heavy chains. I am so glad that you managed to escape the slave to consumption world that we are born into in this country. Hope to meet you on the trail someday.
This was an excellent video. I have known that material things will not bring me happiness, for a long time. I am surrounded by friends who enjoy buying new furniture, etc. I am happy for them, but I don't need to do the same, I am happy with what I have right now. I feel rich all the time, surrounded by family, my dog, my cat, that I don't need to seek happiness from stuff.
I no longer "celebrate" Christmas and didn't buy one gift...because "I give all year long"...and the gift I received was a photo from my x-roommate's new home/food forest...a photo of a green frog to be exact...recycled frames...and I LOVED IT!!!! I loved it because he discovered the richness of Mother Nature while living here, with my food forest....and watching me turn into an 8 year old every time I played in my forest...and now this big burly he-man is captivated by Mother Nature himself...shows like yours influenced me years ago to bug-out of the tinsel town lifestyle I was living in this affluent NC banking center...yes, I was a banker with the big pension and promises for my obedience....now, pursuing simplicity...growing my own food, debt free, not buying items containing or packaged in petro, and unwinding my addictions to genocide foods, creams, and chemicals...for example...check this out...what the heck are we even eating these days???? th-cam.com/video/I5UwoqSpAJc/w-d-xo.html
Good morning Bob, it's not quite Christmas here but it's Happy Halloween here. And my birthday is just 2 days away. My fiance always asks what I want for my birthday, I always say let's go out to eat Chinese food and buy a mocha latte. My 9 year old son bought me a Beta fish. I have my home and my family. I'm happy with what I have. I have dreams and hopes but I'm content with less gifts. Love your message.
The people who think pooping in a bucket probably never experienced a hurricane or tornado or homelessness. The crash in 08 left people who were once well off devastated, they were living in closets, small office spaces, coucj surfing. Many people poop in buckets in the woods where main stream society can't see them. I personally know people who have this s--tty attitude, if the shtf they would be clueless as to how to survive. I am thankful I have had experiences as a child that taught me many survival skills. Thanks Bob for keeping it REAL.
EXCELLENT video Bob and I can't agree more!! I also think people often don't realize WHY they are trying to get MORE. And, sometimes people trying to get more is simply due to HABIT. We are so used to just acquiring things that it becomes an unconscious habit. I am so glad I woke up to this habit a couple of years ago and I am working to downsize and replace my old bad habit of acquiring things with new good habits. Have a happy holiday Bob!
Thank you Tami, you are so right, most of us just live mindlessly doing what we are told to do. It sounds like you woke up and have decided to live mindfully in the here and now.
Merry Christmas, Bob! Thank You for a great Christmas gift! No, I'm not a bucket pooper but your words ring so true. "Unless you become as a little child ... ." Can't wait to meet you at RTR.
Thanks Ray. Yes, the bucket was mostly metaphorical about an attitude that says "There can be no change in my life, it MUST STAY EXACTLY THE SAME" It's that attitude that locks us in misery.
THANKS! While it may sound trite, I think you are a very wise man. You've obviously thought about this for a long time and thought about it carefully. For the most part, I agree with you.
Great video Bob. Thanks for your time and knowledge. The words you speak are true. And I'm sure you are helping people to wake up with new light in there hearts. And hope. Witch is everything. Thanks
I just bought a 35' Class A motorhome for $50 and am happy in it with my mom and 3 dogs . I'm still working to catch up on bills and pay them off before building my own fuleless generator .I have a full size tower pc that i built and a 32" tv for the monitor plus my older game consoles .and I'm happy now that I've downsized from a one bedroom house that i was renting for $450 a month.
Bob, you are so correct .. I'm a believer (aka Christian) and, after the children grew up and moved out, I stopped doing the world's version of "Christmas" .. a true beliver of Christ knows that His birth, death and resurrection is celebrated everyday ... I feel no pressure at all to get caught up in the madness ... a few gift cards for the grands and I'm done ... LOL ... enjoy your happiness during this season and for many years to come!
Thank you. Felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel. No way "back". Simple way to start over .... Become childlike .... Thank you thank you. :-)
I disagree that Christmas is a bad thing. I think the problem certainly can be in expectations, and in lack of self control, not being able to slow down, peer pressure. But I do become childlike at Christmas, enjoying the lights, enjoying getting a gift for my loved ones, however small. Even if it's just a card I like the excuse to show them how much I care about them. And I enjoy the Christmas spirit of people out shopping or wherever; they are friendly and happy and I like that. So I think it is what you do and what you focus on, not the holiday itself. Keeping it simple does add to the experience. It adds to the experience of life!
The Buddhists teach that attachment is the issue. We are attached - lustful desire - for things or situations or experiences. Calm detachment is their philosophy. I might have that slightly wrong, but mostly right I think.
Sprigg had a post office for about 100 years, but it had to be taken out. (believe me--it was for the best), Williamson handles our mail so we use it's zip code. Everyone concerned has been really good to us over this. we live about 6 miles from Williamson, our county seat, in Hatfield & McCoy country.
Well said on teaching kids on joy. My girls, played with what is around.they are grown. and make what they want.Now, as uncle Wayne, kids just come to me just showing them what the bugs are doing, or to.kick a ball around. Then go back to grandma and beg for toys and games card. I set that straight.just by example.
True embracing of the Christmas spirit, on the road and making do with a stable! Yep shake off and out our subsequent expectations. I freed myself of Christmas laden with gifts and expectations and gave all those that expected I pay for the food and cook and wash up after an extended family of over 20, with no help, some years back with the gift of my mum's Christmas recipes all documented and simply said, it's now up to you. Go forth and do what you will, but I would rather be alone than enslaved to a kitchen for at least 24 hours with little thanks or appreciation and expected to buy gifts as well. My mum may have enjoyed doing this, but I sure as hell didn't. Freedom to choose and define life for yourself is the path to happiness. I must say though, as a child I loved my Barbies and Lego and was pretty attached to my teddy!
you are reminding me of a bumper sticker that read...if you think money won't buy happiness...then you obviously don't know where to shop!..not that I believe that cause I don't...but that's what makes it funny...and it's hilarious ....woodsmn
Much of what you say is very true. I do take some exceptions with the idea that items of comfort will stand in the way of happiness. I can be extremely happy having a toilet that flushes and flushing my Black tank every two weeks. I don't need to revert back to using an outhouse like I had to in my youth to be happy. While you used the Native American example of having possession was something they shunned is not completely true. Having things that did not enhance life were worthless to them but having more than one horse was good, having many horses to them was better. It enhanced the way the could travel, it enhanced the way the could hunt and they could use their horses to obtain other items through trade that made the Nomadic life easier. That can be the same way in our Nomadic life today. Just as you choose to live in a newer van instead of a tent and use a bucket instead for digging a hole. One can be find happiness through conveniences that a Class C or another type of RV Offers. Greed is evil but there is no evil having those temporal items that gives an individual comfort that enhances their Nomadic life. Each of us has a limit to how far they should go to live the Nomadic lifestyle. Working and waiting to reach that minimum gives a much better chance of success That minimum is different for each person or couple that takes up this life. We must be honest with ourselves for if we lie to ourselves and just to get out there, misery and failure could be what we meet. I like your videos because they make me think! I do agree with much more than I disagree with. Please know that I am very grateful for the efforts you put forth, your are a great help to many including myself.
Bob your insane... ly intelligent and I really agree wish I could own a piece of property in the mountains and live free but in our society you really never own land you just lease it until you can't pay the taxes and they take it. How is that ownership in the true sense of the word. And I do agree with Christmas and hope to see you soon. Thanks
This mesg sounds lile my relationships. Never had a relationship that made me happy. Had alot of boy friends but just end up walking away. Have a man now that buys me everything but affection. The ine before him gabe me alot of attentiin was affevtiinate but had no money. Had gorgeous men but they were dumb as a rock even went outa the box and dated the ugliest man ever and he still ended up being unloyal. I really realy just want to guy myself a nice van and make myself a beautiful home of it. and my cat thats it! I want to he a van dwelling cat pady ❤
I think we would be more willing to try this lifestyle if we had a community to go to. I'm 50 yr old female and too scared to do this alone. I wish I new of van dwellers in my area or nearby areas that we could travel together. I don't know how to meet up with those ppl. Can you advise me?
You say your not a Christian, I too do not consider myself a Christian but a believer in The Father and follower of Yeshua the Messiah. I hold no aleigence to a denomination or organization. I get my instruction from the Bible and the Bible only. Where do you get your instruction or influence from?
Butch, I was an active Christian most of my adult life but it failed me. I rejected it and made a search of all the world's religions and tried to adopt the best from each.
bob, i have been living that way without really realizing it...after a divorce and loss of a son, 10 years ago i had moved onto a old boat (living space of 200 sq, ft) it unfortunately it sank (hitting a deadhead) and moved into a 160 sq. ft. of rv trailer and never thought of it as a minimalist life style, it's just what i did !!! i live so cheap, my pension covers everything i 'need' , my rent space is $200 monthly (on a river and 1 mile from the ocean in a farm area in the country) and my truck and canopy is set up for camping, so i believe i'm really free and i'm happy !!! Merry Christmas
Right on Bob! The only thing I would add is: Even if someone doesn't want to do the Van lifestyle, at least, find the middle ground; live in smaller house, buy smaller car, work less, spend time with family, etc.
Oh yes yes yes I agree... My brother struggles to pay a huge mortgage cos his wife wants the house for their kids inheritance.. But my bro is deeply depressed, overwhelmed by money issues as he doesn't earn enough... I hate to see it... I lost everything twice, and it hurt like hell but actually it's helped me get a real grip on life... What's really important!!!
But Bob, it's not a bucket. It's a chamber pot and that Is acceptable as well as being historically minded. See, if you write Chamber Pot at the bottom edge of the bucket it changes what the bucket is. I can imagine that would even cause smiles in the RV community. It would make me smile, I like cheeky little things like that. : )
I drive a 1985 Toyota Land cruiser, The other day a person come up to me & said why don't you trade or sell this bucket or bolts. I smiled & told this person ' it's all I need.
Craig Cottingham o my gosh my ex has a old Toyota land cruiser. one in million can't even find parts for it. he has been offered big bucks for it, but he would rather go a bit hungry or stay a bit colder if Thats what it takes to not sell it. That thing was one of the reasons I fell for him. learned to drive stick shift in it. I miss it more than him. I don't know how old it is but I know it is older than the 80s. probly a 70s model.
Craig Cottingham. well he has to do all that now, he is my ex, but thank you. I'm sure he knows all that. I will tell him though, just in case. may be not something he thought of
Rachel K wow I would have a very hard time imagining a person that generous Rachael, I honestly don't know taking something that cost so much would really blow my mind.🙏🏻
Expectations are not just materialistic - but with family too... That is where I have had my biggest let downs, wanting to be wanted or needed and not having that - Your video is so true about letting go of expectations. I need to start saying: I am happy today and let go of my expectations of expecting other people to make me happy - wonderful philosophy!
You are very right. In fact, if you do a google search on expectations, most of it is focused on relationships where it is especially unhealthy and hurtful. But I needed to stay on a narrow focus here. Hopefully, there was something here you could use on relationship expectations as well.
You did a great job Bob, expectation is a deep subject that permeates every aspect of life. I was taught long ago that every situation in my life that i (or anyone else) was not satisfied with, came down to three things; expectation, perception, and judgment (with judgment being a two sided coin of condemnation and discernment). The older I get, the more obvious that truth becomes.
Was just out at Wal Mart helping my gf get what little she could for her kids, her nor I believe in the huge machine it has become. The crowds are insane, extremely rude and annoying most having sub human manners...we both have PTSD and the crowds just kill us in several ways, anxiety goes through the roof. But I can agree with you on the insanity of all the materialism, I believe in simplicity and calmness and strait thinking in life. I feel like an alien and I do not belong to the masses they drive me nuts, call me anti social but I have my reasons and there good enough for me to avoid much of it...I seek a simple life outside the box, I don't care for most of the bs ppl THINK is important these day's...and is one of the reasons I am wanting an rv and when I discovered this lifestyle...I instantly became attracted to it.
Moon Dancer I agree with you anything handmade and from the heart is so much more important this year my grandsons and I made crystals to go on people's trees or they can hang them buy a fireplace or anything place where the light is that can touch them so they can go glow.. super easy to make out of pipe cleaners borax and boiling water and food coloring...
christians are leaving traditions after finding out their pagan roots. you're right, it's all about expectatations...it's harder when you have kids or a large family. But unrealistic expectations have been high because of TV Land too. The older I get the more I am enjoying minimalism.
I found out the 'Truth Of The Gospel' 4 years ago and walked away from the traditions of men and the cultural pagan belief system we are taught. Christmas is not Jesus's birthday for starts, he was more likely born during the fall time, likely during The Feast of Tabernacle's (Sukkot) due to the shephard boy grazing sheep, well December would be in winter and would not be grazing anything in dead of winter, it's amazing to me I didn't figure that out till I was in my 50's..lol. Oh well I know now. So Bob is exactly on point here. Christmas is a burden as well. Buy.. Buy... Buy.. Excellent video, We are planning our escape to the Cheaprvliving, Bob you are right on target here.
Gaining a Child Mind is So Important! And Yes, school, television and life Beats the child out of you, brainwashes you, teaches you to be a good corporate person. This information is Golden!
you sound a lot like me. I just do not fit in, but I do not care. I am more in control of my life now and it is empowering. It is good to hear form like minded people . best wishes from scotland )
Paul states I have found to be content in what ever state I'm in. contentment is not a societal norm . that's why each year black Friday and the #1 gift of the year get more and more outrageous . take away all that and live content and things loose there power. to many things become gods for many coasting us time money efforts and happiness. trying to protect stuff that decay and rot and are temporary emotional fixes leaving us empty expecting more.
Thank you Bob. Great words, wisdom and thoughts to share to the world. I am almost ready to join your joys of life, release the old and begin a new. Looking forward to change. Hope to meet you soon.
Thank you Bob for your advise, I'm just beginning to change my life around from a home to an RV so I will be following your blogs. very well put and said with the truth about society. Happy Holidays my new friend.
Merry Christmas Bob. I want you to know that your videos have been extremely helpful both mentally and informatively. My goal is to get out of the rat race and live a simple fulfilled life. Thank you so much for the help.
Thanks for sharing this Bob! Little by little I am working toward what you and other “nomads” on TH-cam have been advocating. My transition to the “nomadic” lifestyle has been progressing gradually-and for the first time in my life, my thinking about my future fills me with joy! (I think it’s the Freedom that makes me so happy).
No apologies needed. Loved watching this. Walking outside the lines of "normal" makes society nervous. Sometimes I wonder if they look at the nomad life and realize these people are happy and for the most part have chosen this life and it scares them. Some people live in their boxes and are happy, more power to them if so. A lot of people are not but will not break the "rules" to try something different. Thank you for 2016 and your videos. See you at the RTR 2017 in January. Looking forward to seeing & meeting the tribe.
I’m assuming that you shared this in December of 2016. I’m watching the video for the first time in October 2018. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I drank the kool aid for years but I finally realized that I was going nowhere. I’ve been watching your channel for about 3 months. I’m thrilled to have stumbled upon it. I’ve learned so much as, I progress toward becoming a fulfilled nomad and pooping in a bucket! Be well and safe travels to you and Cody.
Great video, Bob! I completely agree. I just listened to a podcast about 5 days ago and one of the quotes from the podcast was "love people and use things, because the other way around never works." Merry Christmas, Bob!
I absolutely love this video! Especially when Bob emphasizes that we have to pay for the house that the toilet is in! "Break the rules!" My Grandsons live 2 hours away in a BIG modern house! When they spent the night in "CraZyGraNnies" tent, got to dig their own poop holes and pee wherever(away from the cactus!), they didn't want to leave. They loved my lifestyle. "Be childlike".
I stopped buying Christmas presents 4 years ago and told everyone I don't need nor expect anything. I truly want to spend time together instead... PRESENCE instead of presents. It's wonderful!
Very wise Wendy. That's a great saying!
Beautifully said.
I’ve been saying that for a few years myself.
my great grandma gave us a package of under wear for christmas and our great grandpa gave us 1.00 worth of pennies more than they should of and the only thing he ever owned was a fiddle and a horse
when i buy gifts I always buy food, something nice they can stuff in their face
Excellent video Bob, you have a great way of getting the point across. I thought I really understood the way things work because I have been seeking happiness for half a century and thought I understood how it all works. This video turned on a couple more lights for me and I thank you for it. I have known for quite some time that WE are a product of OUR ENVIRONMENT and I have proven that many times in my life so I know that well. I have been working on changing my environment for many years because I want to change the product (myself). I'll tell you something you already know but it takes time and it is a great journey. Every time a new light turns on it just blows my mind. I find it so hard to believe it took so long for me to understand. Once you get it, you get it and it's soooooooooo simple. Getting past all those years of brain washing is difficult but not impossible. Thank you again Bob, you are a fantastic voice for FREEDOM! Hope to meet you all at the RTR this year (finally)! Have a great day!
WannaBFree Yes our environment I found really affects us Im renting in Orange County because family is out here but the busy ness of people and them always driving fast is causing me unneeded anxiety so I bought a SUV and will move up north to a more rural small town area I may rent a room at first but will SUV dwell as well but just want to get away from the busy ness of this surburb
WannaBFree also a great video on youtube is 5 rules for the game of life by Brandon Burchard
I know exactly what you mean, I feel the same way. I hope you can make the RTR!
Thank you Bob for this video! I am the black sheep of my family for many reasons. I have always enjoyed buying second hand or receiving any hand-me downs. I'm happiest when I can reuse an item that others would find out of style. I feel consumerism is out of control. I don't need the newest and greatest. I have a wonderful job and love what I do but one day I would like to live a more simple life. I did not have a good childhood so I do have a few fears. I also have let go of expectations of others and just work on myself. Your videos have really helped me see how a simple life can bring so much happiness. Thank you for all you do!
Thanks Chris, you have my sympathy for your childhood, and my admiration that you can rise above it.
Love your videos Bob.
As a Christian don't let the expectations of giftgiving hamper the joy of the season.
Now we have options of going online and never having to visit a store if that's your choice.
Some of the best gifts I've ever received has come from the heart and not the wallet.
Keep pumping out those great videos Bob you've been a great inspiration.
My favorites are when you interview individuals and how they share their own stories
You got that right, Bob- 100%. If you learn about most of the indigenous peoples all over the world, who live simply and communally...you will find the most giving, kind, happy and spiritually peaceful people in the world. They are secure and connected to the Earth (who I feel is out mother). This is why I am going Nomadic.
Thank you so much for this! I learned much of it long ago, but think I need to re examine. I live in a senior apt. I am so thankful for it. Really think gratitude and that childlike wonder have carried me. Thanks again and Happy Holidays!
Being reminded is always a good thing!
Bob,I am a Christian and I celebrate Christmas, but my family and I have gotten away from the "buying" part of it. It's more about getting together with family and friends and celebrating the birth of Jesus. I refuse to buy into the commercialism of having to "buy things" for family members as we used to do growing up and by doing that it has relieved a lot of stress around this time of year.... that said, Merry Christmas Bob and keep up the good videos. I totally agree with you. Less "things" in your life is better and healthier for you.
I wish you a Merry Christmas as well!
Thank You Bob, I wish You the Best too. Good Message-glad I finally have realize that Life is more than expectations. I am very Happy with little and with who I am now.
Christine, I'm sure that was a difficult journey to that knowledge. Treasure it, it's the most valuable thing you will ever own!
Thank you Bob for being true...I'm thankful to have found your site. Keep teaching& sharing. 🤗👍🌱🏇
Thanks for sharing your message Bob I couldn't agree more mate
Im heading away in my truck We call them "utes" down under in Australia lol , for the holidays and I will be using all the tips and tricks you have taught me through watching your videos
Have a great trip!
I have been watching you since before this video was posted and yet not seen this one until today.
I have known all of the things you have said here for years and been working for all this time to rid myself of worthless possessions that tie me in place like heavy chains.
I am so glad that you managed to escape the slave to consumption world that we are born into in this country.
Hope to meet you on the trail someday.
Not all who wander are lost...
It has gotten to commercial(ism) But it is the season of giving tho...aka God gave us Jesus. Have good weekend!
This was an excellent video. I have known that material things will not bring me happiness, for a long time. I am surrounded by friends who enjoy buying new furniture, etc. I am happy for them, but I don't need to do the same, I am happy with what I have right now. I feel rich all the time, surrounded by family, my dog, my cat, that I don't need to seek happiness from stuff.
I no longer "celebrate" Christmas and didn't buy one gift...because "I give all year long"...and the gift I received was a photo from my x-roommate's new home/food forest...a photo of a green frog to be exact...recycled frames...and I LOVED IT!!!! I loved it because he discovered the richness of Mother Nature while living here, with my food forest....and watching me turn into an 8 year old every time I played in my forest...and now this big burly he-man is captivated by Mother Nature himself...shows like yours influenced me years ago to bug-out of the tinsel town lifestyle I was living in this affluent NC banking center...yes, I was a banker with the big pension and promises for my obedience....now, pursuing simplicity...growing my own food, debt free, not buying items containing or packaged in petro, and unwinding my addictions to genocide foods, creams, and chemicals...for example...check this out...what the heck are we even eating these days???? th-cam.com/video/I5UwoqSpAJc/w-d-xo.html
Thanks, you are very lucky to have woke up and escaped!
Good morning Bob, it's not quite Christmas here but it's Happy Halloween here. And my birthday is just 2 days away. My fiance always asks what I want for my birthday, I always say let's go out to eat Chinese food and buy a mocha latte. My 9 year old son bought me a Beta fish. I have my home and my family. I'm happy with what I have. I have dreams and hopes but I'm content with less gifts. Love your message.
Wow you make me feel better every time I watch one of your videos. Thank you Bob for what you do.
The people who think pooping in a bucket probably never experienced a hurricane or tornado or homelessness. The crash in 08 left people who were once well off devastated, they were living in closets, small office spaces, coucj surfing. Many people poop in buckets in the woods where main stream society can't see them.
I personally know people who have this s--tty attitude, if the shtf they would be clueless as to how to survive. I am thankful I have had experiences as a child that taught me many survival skills.
Thanks Bob for keeping it REAL.
EXCELLENT video Bob and I can't agree more!! I also think people often don't realize WHY they are trying to get MORE. And, sometimes people trying to get more is simply due to HABIT. We are so used to just acquiring things that it becomes an unconscious habit. I am so glad I woke up to this habit a couple of years ago and I am working to downsize and replace my old bad habit of acquiring things with new good habits. Have a happy holiday Bob!
Thank you Tami, you are so right, most of us just live mindlessly doing what we are told to do. It sounds like you woke up and have decided to live mindfully in the here and now.
Hey Bob! You be safe, wish I was there to share with you. Agree TOTALLY..... Darren & Debbie, Halifax, NS
Merry Christmas, Bob! Thank You for a great Christmas gift! No, I'm not a bucket pooper but your words ring so true. "Unless you become as a little child ... ." Can't wait to meet you at RTR.
Thanks Ray. Yes, the bucket was mostly metaphorical about an attitude that says "There can be no change in my life, it MUST STAY EXACTLY THE SAME" It's that attitude that locks us in misery.
THANKS! While it may sound trite, I think you are a very wise man. You've obviously thought about this for a long time and thought about it carefully. For the most part, I agree with you.
Thanks Philip! I appreciate that.
Great video Bob.
Thanks for your time and knowledge. The words you speak are true. And I'm sure you are helping people to wake up with new light in there hearts.
And hope. Witch is everything.
Thanks
Santa Clause talking about Christmas. Love it
Well said sir! REAL TALK
Thanks for watching Tony :)
Fabulous Bob! I can't wait to share this! Bravo!
Thank you so much!
Thank you very much ....good message really.
Thanks!
Yes, and the "stuff" I kept in storage , after one year, it was very easy to get rid of too.
I don't know anyone who kept stuff in storage who didn't regret it and got rid of all of it.
I can't love this video enough....thank you so much! This felt like a most wonderful Christmas present. :-)
love hearing that Marion, thank you!
Great video. You're a wise man. Thank you for your continued honesty and wonderful topics. Have a safe holiday.
And the same to you!
OMG man, you always say the right things.
I just bought a 35' Class A motorhome for $50 and am happy in it with my mom and 3 dogs . I'm still working to catch up on bills and pay them off before building my own fuleless generator .I have a full size tower pc that i built and a 32" tv for the monitor plus my older game consoles .and I'm happy now that I've downsized from a one bedroom house that i was renting for $450 a month.
Excellent advice!! I hope you have a fabulous New Year!!
Thanks, and the same to you!
Beautifully said
Excellent! Thank you for sharing this message. ☺
Thanks!
Beautifully stated. Bob, thanks for the Xmas Gift.
My pleasure!
Thank you for that insight.
Thank you for sharing.
You hit the whole "Expectation" thing on the head.
Thanks, I tried!
Bob, you are so correct .. I'm a believer (aka Christian) and, after the children grew up and moved out, I stopped doing the world's version of "Christmas" .. a true beliver of Christ knows that His birth, death and resurrection is celebrated everyday ... I feel no pressure at all to get caught up in the madness ... a few gift cards for the grands and I'm done ... LOL ... enjoy your happiness during this season and for many years to come!
Thank you Michele, and the same to you!
Thank you.
Felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel.
No way "back".
Simple way to start over ....
Become childlike ....
Thank you thank you.
:-)
I was out riding my bike in the mountains today and I had to no bucket! and used my underwear for toil paper LOL I was very happy :)
I disagree that Christmas is a bad thing. I think the problem certainly can be in expectations, and in lack of self control, not being able to slow down, peer pressure. But I do become childlike at Christmas, enjoying the lights, enjoying getting a gift for my loved ones, however small. Even if it's just a card I like the excuse to show them how much I care about them. And I enjoy the Christmas spirit of people out shopping or wherever; they are friendly and happy and I like that. So I think it is what you do and what you focus on, not the holiday itself. Keeping it simple does add to the experience. It adds to the experience of life!
Love this video! I was smiling as you spoke about Christmas because you resemble Santa Claus. HoHoHo!
One of the best videos ever👍 Denmark
Wise words, indeed! Wishing you a wonderful holiday season and a happy, healthy 2017!
Thanks, and the same to you!
very well said.bob, I will be out there soon,don't have solar yet. have to save money for that. happy trails to you.
Beautiful. Some of it I’m glad for, like going to college, then going to art school. But after that I felt trapped though.
The Buddhists teach that attachment is the issue. We are attached - lustful desire - for things or situations or experiences. Calm detachment is their philosophy. I might have that slightly wrong, but mostly right I think.
Sprigg had a post office for about 100 years, but it had to be taken out. (believe me--it was for the best), Williamson handles our mail so we use it's zip code. Everyone concerned has been really good to us over this. we live about 6 miles from Williamson, our county seat, in Hatfield & McCoy country.
Well said on teaching kids on joy. My girls, played with what is around.they are grown. and make what they want.Now, as uncle Wayne, kids just come to me just showing them what the bugs are doing, or to.kick a ball around. Then go back to grandma and beg for toys and games card. I set that straight.just by example.
Great video Bob. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
I hope they help!
I will be extremely thrilled once I figure out the bucket thing. Essentially once I figure out how to encapsulate and incinerate.
True embracing of the Christmas spirit, on the road and making do with a stable! Yep shake off and out our subsequent expectations. I freed myself of Christmas laden with gifts and expectations and gave all those that expected I pay for the food and cook and wash up after an extended family of over 20, with no help, some years back with the gift of my mum's Christmas recipes all documented and simply said, it's now up to you. Go forth and do what you will, but I would rather be alone than enslaved to a kitchen for at least 24 hours with little thanks or appreciation and expected to buy gifts as well. My mum may have enjoyed doing this, but I sure as hell didn't. Freedom to choose and define life for yourself is the path to happiness. I must say though, as a child I loved my Barbies and Lego and was pretty attached to my teddy!
Beautiful dog!
Voice in the Wilderness. Common sense and a belief in what you say.
Thanks much! You're very kind!
That was an excellent video!
Bob, if someone calls you an animal, consider it high praise! All the best to you.
Very good point!!
you are reminding me of a bumper sticker that read...if you think money won't buy happiness...then you obviously don't know where to shop!..not that I believe that cause I don't...but that's what makes it funny...and it's hilarious ....woodsmn
Much of what you say is very true. I do take some exceptions with the idea that items of comfort will stand in the way of happiness. I can be extremely happy having a toilet that flushes and flushing my Black tank every two weeks. I don't need to revert back to using an outhouse like I had to in my youth to be happy. While you used the Native American example of having possession was something they shunned is not completely true. Having things that did not enhance life were worthless to them but having more than one horse was good, having many horses to them was better. It enhanced the way the could travel, it enhanced the way the could hunt and they could use their horses to obtain other items through trade that made the Nomadic life easier. That can be the same way in our Nomadic life today. Just as you choose to live in a newer van instead of a tent and use a bucket instead for digging a hole. One can be find happiness through conveniences that a Class C or another type of RV Offers. Greed is evil but there is no evil having those temporal items that gives an individual comfort that enhances their Nomadic life. Each of us has a limit to how far they should go to live the Nomadic lifestyle. Working and waiting to reach that minimum gives a much better chance of success That minimum is different for each person or couple that takes up this life. We must be honest with ourselves for if we lie to ourselves and just to get out there, misery and failure could be what we meet. I like your videos because they make me think! I do agree with much more than I disagree with. Please know that I am very grateful for the efforts you put forth, your are a great help to many including myself.
Bob your insane...
ly intelligent and I really agree wish I could own a piece of property in the mountains and live free but in our society you really never own land you just lease it until you can't pay the taxes and they take it. How is that ownership in the true sense of the word. And I do agree with Christmas and hope to see you soon.
Thanks
Truth is true regardless if it comes from Christianity, philosophy or Bob Wells.
Very true Carl, like the hub of a wheel, they all merge at the core.
I agree
Thanks so much!
This mesg sounds lile my relationships. Never had a relationship that made me happy. Had alot of boy friends but just end up walking away. Have a man now that buys me everything but affection. The ine before him gabe me alot of attentiin was affevtiinate but had no money. Had gorgeous men but they were dumb as a rock even went outa the box and dated the ugliest man ever and he still ended up being unloyal. I really realy just want to guy myself a nice van and make myself a beautiful home of it. and my cat thats it! I want to he a van dwelling cat pady ❤
I think we would be more willing to try this lifestyle if we had a community to go to. I'm 50 yr old female and too scared to do this alone. I wish I new of van dwellers in my area or nearby areas that we could travel together. I don't know how to meet up with those ppl. Can you advise me?
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Thanks
No holudays here😊
I like a big toilet but walmart, walgreens, etc have big toilets.
Indeed! Same for travel centers, rest stops, etc.
You say your not a Christian, I too do not consider myself a Christian but a believer in The Father and follower of Yeshua the Messiah. I hold no aleigence to a denomination or organization.
I get my instruction from the Bible and the Bible only. Where do you get your instruction or influence from?
Butch, I was an active Christian most of my adult life but it failed me. I rejected it and made a search of all the world's religions and tried to adopt the best from each.
Bob you are a good person who genuinely cares about other people, I admire your kindness towards everyone
bob, i have been living that way without really realizing it...after a divorce and loss of a son, 10 years ago i had moved onto a old boat (living space of 200 sq, ft) it unfortunately it sank (hitting a deadhead) and moved into a 160 sq. ft. of rv trailer and never thought of it as a minimalist life style, it's just what i did !!!
i live so cheap, my pension covers everything i 'need' , my rent space is $200 monthly (on a river and 1 mile from the ocean in a farm area in the country) and my truck and canopy is set up for camping, so i believe i'm really free and i'm happy !!!
Merry Christmas
Billy, we all just play the cards we are dealt, and it sounds to me like you played yours superbly well!
CheapRVliving Please read my post.
$200.00 a month AND 1 mile to the beach?! Are you looking for any friendly neighbors?
: )
Please, tell me where your location is. :-)
I have been thinking like a minimalist for 10 years trying to find mining to my existence im so happy to have found a name for this way of living
I feel more comfortable pooping in my bucket .90% of public toilets are in pretty bad shape.
Me too!! I know it is clean and safe!
That's a really good point!
Right on Bob! The only thing I would add is: Even if someone doesn't want to do the Van lifestyle, at least, find the middle ground; live in smaller house, buy smaller car, work less, spend time with family, etc.
raul aleman less is more!
Absolutely Raul, great point! Every step to reducing and simplifying an only bring more life satisfaction.
Oh yes yes yes I agree... My brother struggles to pay a huge mortgage cos his wife wants the house for their kids inheritance.. But my bro is deeply depressed, overwhelmed by money issues as he doesn't earn enough... I hate to see it... I lost everything twice, and it hurt like hell but actually it's helped me get a real grip on life... What's really important!!!
Excellent point! There are so many ways we can live more simple with less living expenses.
But Bob, it's not a bucket. It's a chamber pot and that Is acceptable as well as being historically minded. See, if you write Chamber Pot at the bottom edge of the bucket it changes what the bucket is. I can imagine that would even cause smiles in the RV community. It would make me smile, I like cheeky little things like that. : )
aka honey bucket
I drive a 1985 Toyota Land cruiser, The other day a person come up to me & said why don't you trade or sell this bucket or bolts. I smiled & told this person ' it's all I need.
Craig Cottingham o my gosh my ex has a old Toyota land cruiser. one in million can't even find parts for it. he has been offered big bucks for it, but he would rather go a bit hungry or stay a bit colder if Thats what it takes to not sell it. That thing was one of the reasons I fell for him. learned to drive stick shift in it. I miss it more than him. I don't know how old it is but I know it is older than the 80s. probly a 70s model.
Patty Cake Go on line you should be able to find parts that you need. Yes they are going for a good price but only if they are in good nick 👍🏻
Craig Cottingham. well he has to do all that now, he is my ex, but thank you. I'm sure he knows all that. I will tell him though, just in case. may be not something he thought of
Rachel K wow I would have a very hard time imagining a person that generous Rachael, I honestly don't know taking something that cost so much would really blow my mind.🙏🏻
Rachel K That's my point Rachael I haven't accepted it so I don't know what your point really is ????.
Expectations are not just materialistic - but with family too... That is where I have had my biggest let downs, wanting to be wanted or needed and not having that - Your video is so true about letting go of expectations. I need to start saying: I am happy today and let go of my expectations of expecting other people to make me happy - wonderful philosophy!
You are very right. In fact, if you do a google search on expectations, most of it is focused on relationships where it is especially unhealthy and hurtful. But I needed to stay on a narrow focus here. Hopefully, there was something here you could use on relationship expectations as well.
yes! all of it :) thank you!
You did a great job Bob, expectation is a deep subject that permeates every aspect of life. I was taught long ago that every situation in my life that i (or anyone else) was not satisfied with, came down to three things; expectation, perception, and judgment (with judgment being a two sided coin of condemnation and discernment). The older I get, the more obvious that truth becomes.
Saw a TEDx Talk why we're unhappy
The Expectation Gap
Nat Ware on TH-cam
Lots of people agree with you
MJ Healthy Living (Miss Judy)
that's very good advice and I agree the same is true with marriage
The best Christmas message ever. Thanks
When too much is never enough, one should try too little.
That's extremely well said!
I like that.
Was just out at Wal Mart helping my gf get what little she could for her kids, her nor I believe in the huge machine it has become. The crowds are insane, extremely rude and annoying most having sub human manners...we both have PTSD and the crowds just kill us in several ways, anxiety goes through the roof. But I can agree with you on the insanity of all the materialism, I believe in simplicity and calmness and strait thinking in life. I feel like an alien and I do not belong to the masses they drive me nuts, call me anti social but I have my reasons and there good enough for me to avoid much of it...I seek a simple life outside the box, I don't care for most of the bs ppl THINK is important these day's...and is one of the reasons I am wanting an rv and when I discovered this lifestyle...I instantly became attracted to it.
Moon Dancer I agree with you anything handmade and from the heart is so much more important this year my grandsons and I made crystals to go on people's trees or they can hang them buy a fireplace or anything place where the light is that can touch them so they can go glow.. super easy to make out of pipe cleaners borax and boiling water and food coloring...
Moon Dancer it's tha little things and gifts from tha heart. Corporate America has killed simple lifestyles!
I agree with ya!
I ask my two daughters give me a letter not things and essay on we're do you see your self in 5 year's
simp
Mate, what a sensational message that I think we can all relate to. Well thought through and delivered. Thank you.
christians are leaving traditions after finding out their pagan roots. you're right, it's all about expectatations...it's harder when you have kids or a large family. But unrealistic expectations have been high because of TV Land too. The older I get the more I am enjoying minimalism.
I found out the 'Truth Of The Gospel' 4 years ago and walked away from the traditions of men and the cultural pagan belief system we are taught. Christmas is not Jesus's birthday for starts, he was more likely born during the fall time, likely during The Feast of Tabernacle's (Sukkot) due to the shephard boy grazing sheep, well December would be in winter and would not be grazing anything in dead of winter, it's amazing to me I didn't figure that out till I was in my 50's..lol. Oh well I know now. So Bob is exactly on point here. Christmas is a burden as well. Buy.. Buy... Buy.. Excellent video, We are planning our escape to the Cheaprvliving, Bob you are right on target here.
So true! Thankful I've been taught that my whole life
Thanks Bob! I'm in 100% agreement with you! Can't wait until I can get a van! Hope to be well on my way on my 60th birthday, which is in 2017.
Did you get on the road 🙂
Gaining a Child Mind is So Important! And Yes, school, television and life Beats the child out of you, brainwashes you, teaches you to be a good corporate person. This information is Golden!
That vid was the best ! ! Thank you Bob and I hope to meet you soon on the road to happiness. Be safe you and Cody.
Thank you Doreen, my camp is always open to you.
you sound a lot like me. I just do not fit in, but I do not care. I am more in control of my life now and it is empowering. It is good to hear form like minded people . best wishes from scotland )
Thanks, I envy you your travels!
Brilliant, so insightful and POWERFUL.
Thanks much Kevin!
Paul states I have found to be content in what ever state I'm in. contentment is not a societal norm . that's why each year black Friday and the #1 gift of the year get more and more outrageous . take away all that and live content and things loose there power. to many things become gods for many coasting us time money efforts and happiness. trying to protect stuff that decay and rot and are temporary emotional fixes leaving us empty expecting more.
Very true Korey!
RatMan N LibertyHound Amen! 😉
I would never join a religion that would have me as a member
Good thinking Ron!
Ron Bailey It's your money that they want.
One of the best videos on the internet.
Thank you Bob. Great words, wisdom and thoughts to share to the world. I am almost ready to join your joys of life, release the old and begin a new. Looking forward to change. Hope to meet you soon.
Your videos are wonderful. I realized that everyone is not ready to wake up. I'm ready and working on downsizing and starting a new life.
Thank you Bob for your advise, I'm just beginning to change my life around from a home to an RV so I will be following your blogs. very well put and said with the truth about society. Happy Holidays my new friend.
Bob,that was a deep video. peace.
I appreciate that!
My dog owns nothing but his fur coat. He seems happy enough...
Very true and inspirational. Thanks Bob.
My pleasure!
Merry Christmas Bob. I want you to know that your videos have been extremely helpful both mentally and informatively. My goal is to get out of the rat race and live a simple fulfilled life. Thank you so much for the help.
Thanks for sharing this Bob! Little by little I am working toward what you and other “nomads” on TH-cam have been advocating. My transition to the “nomadic” lifestyle has been progressing gradually-and for the first time in my life, my thinking about my future fills me with joy! (I think it’s the Freedom that makes me so happy).
No apologies needed. Loved watching this. Walking outside the lines of "normal" makes society nervous. Sometimes I wonder if they look at the nomad life and realize these people are happy and for the most part have chosen this life and it scares them. Some people live in their boxes and are happy, more power to them if so. A lot of people are not but will not break the "rules" to try something different. Thank you for 2016 and your videos. See you at the RTR 2017 in January. Looking forward to seeing & meeting the tribe.
I’m assuming that you shared this in December of 2016. I’m watching the video for the first time in October 2018. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I drank the kool aid for years but I finally realized that I was going nowhere.
I’ve been watching your channel for about 3 months. I’m thrilled to have stumbled upon it. I’ve learned so much as, I progress toward becoming a fulfilled nomad and pooping in a bucket!
Be well and safe travels to you and Cody.
Great video, Bob! I completely agree. I just listened to a podcast about 5 days ago and one of the quotes from the podcast was "love people and use things, because the other way around never works." Merry Christmas, Bob!
That's a message we all need to hear over and over again!
I absolutely love this video! Especially when Bob emphasizes that we have to pay for the house that the toilet is in! "Break the rules!" My Grandsons live 2 hours away in a BIG modern house! When they spent the night in "CraZyGraNnies" tent, got to dig their own poop holes and pee wherever(away from the cactus!), they didn't want to leave. They loved my lifestyle. "Be childlike".
Great video Bob! I really enjoyed it.
Thanks Timothy!