Fun fact: no one hated season 1-2 Elena. That was when she was with Stefan. Season 3 Elena was getting worse, but she wasnt completely hatable yet. That was when she was jumping between Salvatores. Season 4-6 Elena is who we hate. That was when she broke up with Stefan and got with Damon.
people always hate a woman who date brothers. it's part of the story that she dates both of them, and part of her character to be morally challenged. dislike of her character and elena's own dislike of herself was bound to happen as no one likes the fact that her feelings caused a rift between the brothers. it's not her fault that she felt the way she did for both of them and she tried so hard to keep it from happening and to do it in a way that hurt them the least. in the end a strong woman must choose to value her own happiness. it's sad people fail to acknowledge the point that elena ever since she arrived till the very end is what drew the brothers together and kept them together, healing their hundred year family trauma
@@nobodysXghost i personally don't hate Elena because she was with Damon, but because she is too self-centered, like everything is about her. She slept with Damon, but angry at Stefan because he was hanging out with Rebekah, she insulted Katherine for being involved with both of the Salvatore's, but later on she did the same thing, Caroline mom was dying and she made it on herself and kissed Damon while Caroline, her supposed to be best friend, was crying, she was angry with Rebekah cause she killed her (to save her family tho), when she did the same when Bex thought they were actual friends, she said Damon that he was trying to bring Bonnie back because he wanted to win Elena back when Damon and Bonnie were besties... I mean, she is an hypocritical, self centered and annoying character to me.
@@jasmine62997 i can understand those reasons to dislike her, i'm not a fan of it either. but i relately deeply with a person that is resentful against qualities in people that they find in themselves. id be angry if someone killed me even if i had done the same to them. i think she was right to be angry w stefan for getting close with the person that was the reason he was 'so tormented' the whole first half of season 4 due to elena being a vampire-i mean he essentially colluded with rebecca on that bridge to allow elena to die and then sleeps with her. elena assuming everything is about her is annoying but i do have to say people sure as hell make it that way, they center everything around her a lot of the time. she hated herself for having feelings for both of them and faught it so long out of fear of being like katherine, her doppelganger-the myth of the doppelganger is not wanting to be like that evil twin but being bound to. she is highly imperfect and annoying but i think she knows that
@@nobodysXghost she was not on the position to judge tho, Rebekah killed her to protect her family, everyone on the show would have done the same. Elena slept with Damon, her ex's brother the day after they broke up, she got close to Damon when Stefan was away with Klaus to save both Damon and Elena's life, so meanwhile Stefan was losing everything, Damon is the guy who killed Jeremy, who abused Caroline, who killed Lexi... I mean SHE'S NOT in the position to judge Oh and Stefan was tormented cause she told him she didn't want to be a vampire, she was crying all over Stefan saying that she hated being a vampire so he was trying to help her and when she said that he was treating her like a broken toy i literally jump on my chair and said "BITCH WTF IS WRONG WITH YA?!" 😂
@@jasmine62997 elena certainly judges but she also sympathizes as well, (she sympathized with rebekah) she has sympathized with pretty much everyone on the show which i really like about her, unlike anyone but perhaps bonnie. you can sympathize with people but that doesn't mean you have to want to be near them when they've abused you. there are characters like caroline, for example, that judge all the time instead of sympathizing, in denial that they are judging what they have in themselves. elena had been clear to stefan beforehand how much she didn't want to be a vampire, and did express it after she turned, but wasn't hellbent on trying to cure it the way that stefan was. i didn't see her crying all over him about it. once she fed she accepted her fate and stefan just refused to let go of what was his fault. i saw stefan trying to push his way of feeding on her over and over and forcing things to be the way they were, in his typical 'nice guy' stefan way of course so it doesn't seem that pushy to an undiscerning eye, but i definitely can see elena risking her own life to please stefan and do it his way. she loved him and didn't want him to feel more guilt than he already did. this was her fault of course but i can empathize with her feelings. of course she told him she didn't want to hurt anyone, but he wasn't able to explain to her that she could feed without hurting them as he didn't know how to do that himself. also stefan chose to keep working with klaus after he was set free, and even states himself that it was purely for revenge. i will never jump on the bullshit pity and enable stefan train when even he himself would not stand by that.
Delena shippers only can say “Stelena was boring” but when you grow and compare the relationships more u can see how toxic Delena it was, you don’t need to fight, broke up and comeback many times, discuss and being the completely opposite than your partner to make the relation works, real life is not like that, real relationship’s like Delena didn’t end good
No but like, Stelena wasn’t even boring??? Like, that argument makes no sense. They had a 100x more passion and chemistry than Delena. Like dude, sorry delena fans the only obstacle in YOUR fav’s relationship is theirselves. While, Stelena actually had external forces against them and they came out stronger than ever because of those forces.
@@klaystels6559 yeah they become stronger and stronger as a couple and time went by. Stelena had so much overwhelming chemistry it was unbelievable. Even in the first episode. Most of all they were happy. Most of Stelena's iconic moments Elena is smiling which she didn't do that with Damon. It was more fighting and sex than anything with a few actually cute moments sprinkled in-between. Imagine how powerful Stelena would have been as a couple of they pulled through to the end. Imagine how powerful Delena would have been as a best friends. In my opinion although it was teased Damon liking Elena and Elena possibly liking Damon also the whole Elena chosing Damon kinda came out of nowhere.
@@trustfratedinfires6325 EXACTLY! Totally agree with you! Delena as best friends would’ve been iconic! Sadly, they didn’t see that and immediately gave them romantic undertones :(
@@klaystels6559 And it's not that I don't like Damon or anything like that because I do. He's definitely make me laugh more time that I can count or say for Stefan and I do feel bad that he waited and loved Katherine for so long only to find out she never loved him and "it was always Stefan". Katherine and Elena did that the same day and I did feel sad for him. Playing second fiddle to your little brother all the time must be annoying but he should have just let go of his feelings for his brothers happiness. The writer's had the best opportunity for Damon's character development if he had let go of his feelings for Elena for Stefan instead of forcing Stefan out of the picture. Which he was heartbroken and lost for so many seasons after. I'm just glad when Silas was pretending to be Stefan and kept making comments about Damon stealing Elena, Damon never tried to defend himself. He sat there a took it. If I had it my way Damon and Elena would have been the best of friends. Stelena would have pulled through till the very end and Damon would have found his happiness romantically in someone else.
they only say it’s boring bc their relationship actually had a good emotional & deep connection unlike deltuna. they loved each other deeply and understood each other on a personal level. they didn’t rely on sex to answer all their issues, that’s why people think stelena is boring.
When I first watch TVD Stefan and Elena's romantic chemistry was overwhelming. I felt it flooding through the screen. I felt their love and connection with each other in my bones. Halfway through season 2 first watch I ended up finding out that Elena chose Damon over Stefan and I was in pure shock. When Delena first were together I did feel any chemistry. I wasn't feeling anything. I was just reading between the lines at to what I see on the screen. than the end of season for when Elena chose Damon and they kissed I felt their chemistry for the first time and I felt so bad because I don't like them as a couple. Then it showed Stefan crying I nearly balled my eyes out but I think the only reason why I started to feel their chemistry is because I knew due to the internet that Stelena (sadly) never gets back together. Like don't get me wrong. I get the whole Damon look. He's funny and has made me laugh more times than I could count or say for Stefan. He definitely is one of my favorite characters of the show but Delena I don't get at all. no matter what it was always inevitable seeing how obsessed Damon was with Katherine at the time of hanging around Elena a lot by virtue of Stefan's girlfriend but I like Delena better as friends. They are so much more powerful as friends. A lot of fans started shipping Delena when Damon danced with Elena at the miss mystic falls but I didn't see it that way at all. I was thinking of the cool parallel that Stefan got to dance with Katherine the last time and now Damon gets to dance with Elena (the look a like Katherine) doing the same dance at the same event. Damon's character has already opened up and shown his soft side many times before and Damon's character deserved the character development in which he would have gotten if he let go of his feelings for the sake of his little brothers happiness. Stefan absolutely loved Elena more than anything aside from Damon and Damon and Elena shouldn't have forced Stefan into months of heartbreak. I've never seen Stefan so happy and in love than he was when he was with Elena. And the sad parallel to that is I've never seen him more sad, and heartbroken and hurt and lost for so long than when Elena chose Damon. Yes, it was Stefan who chose to walk but he didn't really exactly have a choice. Stefan Salvatore deserved better. Stefan Salvatore was the better brother. Stefan Salvatore was a true hero. If I had it my way Stelena would have never ended. Damon and Elena would have been the best of friends and Damon would have found his happiness romantically in someone else. This are just my opinions. Sorry, I got a little carried away there. I can talk about this subject all day.
when i see stelena fans open up about their reasons when not in attack mode to pull down delena (which is almost the only thing i ever see from stelena fans), it seems like the 'who has best chemistry' thing is almost a difference in what turns you on personally. because you started to like d/e when you liked the way they kissed in 4x22 and i didn't really feel the 'chemistry' there as much as their other kisses. i think most people can admit, regardless of what couple you like, that stelena's kind of chemistry was a lot more sweet, more fairytale-like and more young love and casual type of vibe. some people absolutely love that and perhaps that's what they want in a relationship or how they like to kiss and date. i'm a delena fan and i can see how me preferring their vibe/chemistry over stelena's makes sense with my personality. i have never been in to stelena types of couples, or stelena type of kissing or dating even in my own life. i intentionally look for couples that have banter and friction in media and i am attracted to people with whom i can have intellectual banter with who question my beliefs. i think it's kind of a personality thing and depends on what point you are in your life
@@nobodysXghost yeah, I completely understand what you say. I have watched romance show after romance show and I've never been in a relationship before but whenever I watched all these romance show I always ship them with the one she met first that's something that's the main lead. Yes it was discovered that actually she met Damon first but I'm talking in terms of watching. I think over time I learned to accept them as a couple. At least isn't as Delena isn't as nearly as weird as Caroline and Alaric. 😂 Also I may be a little jealous that Delena got the iconic romance scenes in any movie or show. 😂 Kissing in the rain, on the other side of the same door with hand on the same place, and dancing in the street. Anyways Delena stan, I hope you have a nice day.
@@trustfratedinfires6325 thanks this was such a positive interaction and it's nice to see we can recognize that people just like what they like and it doesn't mean one has more chemistry than the other or one is more toxic than the other. i understand i have ships that i am sad never played out the way i wanted. have a nice day stelena stan ❤
You pointed it so perfectly and said everything perfectly❤️ I absolutely agree with everything and I am a die hard Stelena shipper and Damon is a selfish dick for falling in love with his younger brother‘s girlfriend and giving him pain and heartbreak. That was so disgusting and gross of Damon. Damon should have found his happiness in another woman. Stefan and Elena should have been endgame no matter what. Stefan was and always will be the better man. It‘s so heartbreaking but Stefan deserved so much better. He got the worse ending of everyone. It was so unfair and annoying I can’t believe they did that to Stefan…he will always be my comfort character and my absolute favorite fictional character of all time. I will always love and adore Stefan. He is the perfect man.
@@nobodysXghost I'm a Stelena stan and wonder if you'd agree with me Damon and Elena had more chemistry in the first 3 seasons. She had chemistry with both brothers. And the idea of Damon hopelessly looking at Elena and messing up constantly while yearning for her was lowkey sad. But the way the show made them get together was badly executed. The sire bond? Really? And they make damon sleep with her knowing she was sired? They make Elena say stuff like "Do you think Damon and I will ever be able to talk like this?" And everytime they "broke up" and had sex right after was...goofy. I blame Julie Plec honestly This is the reason why I don't like Delena. They had to change Elena's personality for this. Her old good girl like personality had a way better charm and appeal when it comes to Damon's character. And how Elena didn't realise bonnie was dead and Damon didn't know his lil bro was suffering and drowning because they were too focused with each other. That irks me. It was so unnecessary and portrayed the relationship in a bad light.
For Elena to even fall for Damon...it goes completely against her character and doesn't even make any sense. They had to change Elena for even that to happen. It was completely annoying and useless. It came out of nowhere as well because episodes ago Elena clearly CHOSE STEFAN. She said "I was coming back for you Stefan". Why even make that scene in the first place if she was going to "fall" for Damon after?? The writing was all over the place
This is what infuriates me so much. She fought for him through all of season 3. She had to choosd and she choose Stefan. "It's always gonna be Stefan" . "Choosing you was the best decision I ever made." And then a few episodes later she started dating Damon. 🤦♂️🤦♂️ Julie Plec ruined it so much.
It will never make sense to me. There is no morsel in my brain that could find the life math to dictate why Elena Gilbert would leave the most endearing and perfect man for a toxic dark haired man with mommy issues.
The fact is Stelena wasn't perfect but it was thousand times better than disease ship that has ever made to please ho r ny teens of Twitter. I can't believe I lose my Stelena for some teen fetish over a toxic couple
totally...i dont see stefan any happier with anyobody....be it caroline or katherine...i dont hate damon but i never ever liked delena together...even i tried to force myself to see the chemistry...but i didnt...i dont know why..stefan elena had so much potential...it was like a delight to watch them together...i got bored watching delena and would fast forward the delena naked gross scenes...
Delena argument: Stefan is boring and Ian is so much hotterrr and funny and they have hot sex scene (sexual tension which they call chemistry 🙄) This is teenage girls logic
The whole story is suppose to be about Stefan in general. And at many points in the story they dived too much into the Delena ship instead of giving us ORIGINS about how RIPPERS came to be and more lore on Stefan Salvatore SPECIFICALLY in general
I fucking hate everything that happened after season 2 but I always make my heart with "you know if Nina wouldn't have left tvd , the endgame would have been stelena ❤️❤️" so yea just to make myself not sad I think that . . And no one said this but you made an incredible video...this made us realise so much more about how pure stelena was ❤️❤️ thank you so much
Frankly tbh no need to give so many reasons. Stefan is obviously the best without any argument. Damon did few good things ...no big deal...but Stefan is the hero . He's the one who always sacrificed Mature people always go for Stefan . Delena was utter non sense, toxic, immature teenage lovestory which had no sense at all Irl a girl like elena would never fall for damon especially when she had her Stefan 🥰
Exactly! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Mature people will choose Stefan and childish immature horny teenagers will choose Damon. Damon is so toxic and selfish it‘s disgusting.
Thank u! At least someone agrees with us Stelena fans! Stefan is the better man, the better boyfriend, and the better brother. This is why I would choose Stefan over Damon any time, any second of the day. If I was around their age, acting in this show too, I would have the writers keep Elena and Stefan together. (Me as Elena) . No matter what anyone says, I would always be a Stelena fan always and forever. I agree with u, and so thank u! Not just for agreeing but making this video. I needed it.
@@the_edit.diaries 😂😂 Np. I will always choose them. I’ve chosen and liked them ever since I saw the show when I saw clips, and when I was watching the show, at first.
SAME AND PREACH❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Stefan and Elena should have been endgame no matter what and If I would have played Elena in the show I would have fought for the ending of Stefan and Elena to be endgame and happily ever after no matter what it takes. Would have insisted and made valid points and even powerpoint presentations haha Stefan was the better man and I would have chosen him in a heart beat. He is the perfect man and I will always love Stefan no matter what.
Well stelena is a true and cute epic love and sweethearts, but they broke up that's how people move on everyone got mad when elena cheated on Stefan and I got mad to but damon cheated on elena and nobody said anything so nobody is perfect or away meant to be
Stelena Always and Forever ❤💗😍 He respected Elena’s decisions including when she chose Damon and their relationship; Damon never did that for them and tried to win, steal or force himself on Elena, tried to make her a vampire against her will several times, so did Stefan once but he regretted and apologised for it. Stelena was what true love is and I am to this day heartbroken that they weren’t endgame
Same I am extremely heartbroken they were not endgame and on top of that killed Stefan like WTF😭 I am currently rewatching the show bc I never finished Vampire Diaries but I am kinda scared to watch it all bc I know I will just cry all the time and be super disappointed…
For me, the two really unforgivable things Stefan and Damon did to Elena were: - Stefan pretending to drive off the bridge where her parents died - Damon killing Jeremy when she rejected him And guess what? - Stefan would have never actually drove her off the bridge, he scared her and it was f up but the situation would have never created any permanent harm to Elena. - When Damon snapped Jeremy's neck, he admitted to Elena he didn't know he was wearing the ring in that moment, which means he would have killed Jeremy and he would have caused permanent damage to Elena. THAT'S who Damon is. They tried to redeem him to appease fans but they never actually pulled it off, because at his core, Damon is, as he loves to say time and time again, selfish.
shes a whore that broke stefans heart yet he protected her at all costs and damon and no remorse by getting in-between him and elena fed on him soon as she turned into a vampire damon got what he wanted but yet stefan continued to protect her and loved damon more than he got the love back. damon has no respect or appreciation for stefan. the whole group prefers stefan over damon. glad caroline got hiim in the end. elena and damon are toxic and misrable
To be fair, scaring the hell out of Elena and making her relive her trauma DOES cause permanent damage, just not that obvious. I actually don't wanna compare those things but killing her brother because ... I don't know, he was bored or annoyed or something (I can't remember) is ... a different level. Not saying worse but ... yeah.
also stefan never compelled elena or played mind tricks with her, the only time he was in her head was when he said goodbye to her at the end of S6. remember when elena said "I'm not gonna be one of those pathetic girls whose world stops just because of some guy." in S1? then she became exactly like those pathetic girls in S6 when she thought her boyfriend was dead. the show writers absolutely destroyed her character.
She kept on saying please don't leave me and after his death she still trying to lie to herself that damon is alive which resulted her in hurting people
Elena didn’t even remember when Damon killed Jeremy, she forgave him for killing Aaron (dahec), and how he allowed Enzo to walk over everybody. Throughout the series I tried giving Damon a chance to be ok with him, but the final straw was in S6 when he killed a PREGNANT woman. Also, killed Tyler, Vicki, and gave Aaron and Sarah miserable lives, what the hell was Stefan thinking letting him live or not telling Klaus to mess with him after Damon let Enzo do the same, so glad Stefan killed him btw. This whole drama began bc Stefan had more game with women and Damon was ungrateful of getting supernatural powers, jokes on him Stefan still got married earlier than him, I was ok that he and Caroline hooked. Also guys, a Delena fan made an article called “22 reasons why Damon was the better brother and I was laughing at how stupid it was.”
u forgot Lexi...Damon killed lexi infront of his brother's one and only best friend and that on his birthday...and said it was part of the plan...then in s5 i guess,writers forced us to think that he was a good man when damon said she was a walking talking reminder of how horrible person i was...so i killed her...like seriously?? and then he kept simping for elena...and eventually got stefan's gf...
@@chefdavidrivoli stefan was yet hesitated to yank enzo's heart out...but enzo pulled himself away...cuz enzo turned his humanity off..didnt want to feel sad for that maggy girl...who damon had killed on jf kennedy day...
If we really want to be precise, Stefan didn’t actually stalk her. Damon did. Stalking is, according to the internet, “to harass or persecute someone with unwanted and obsessive attention”. Stefan never once harassed or scared her off, neither did he force her to change her routine because she felt threatened or persecuted. Damon was the one to stalk her, not Stefan.
At the bottom of heart, Elena knew Stefan was the better man. She developed feelings for Damon & had to leave Stefan, otherwise it would be disrespectful for Stefan. But vice versa, Damon has no respect, everyone knows. Elena always knew Stefan understood her best & for whom, she lives a good life. ❤️
Elena and Stefan were soulmates and no one can ever tell me otherwise. Their souls and goals were the same and human Stefan and human Elena were perfectly made for each other. Stefan was always very selfless with Elena and respectful and cared for her feelings deeply and loved her unconditionally and would have done everything for her. They both had the same personality and values in life and aligned each other. Unfortunately as selfless and loving and protective Stefan was he sacrificed himself to Klaus just so that his brother could live. He did everything so that Damon could live but had to sacrifice his soul and values and humanity for him and gave himself up for Damon. Meanwhile Damon took advantage of that and kissed Elena and he also ALWAYS came between Elena and Stefan, kissed Elena, flirted with Elena and even killed ppl bc he wanted Elena. What type of brother does that?! Stefan was an amazing and beautiful soul despite him being a vampire he was the best character on the show and everyone truly loved Stefan. Elena backstabbed Stefan too which infuriates me so much. She gave up on Stefan when he needed her the most. I understand Elena‘s hurt and that she can‘t keep waiting for Stefan to become human again, it was also Stefan‘s fault since he didn’t fight enough for Elena too and gave up so easily and pushed Elena from him which was a great mistake. They both gave up but never once did Stefan stop loving her. They had such an unfortunate love story and Damon was a big reason of Stefan‘s pain and horrible life. Damon really made Stefan‘s life miserable and as a big brother he was a terrible guy. They did Stefan extremely dirty and Stefan and Elena should have ended up together meanwhile Damon should have died. It was Stefan‘s diary. It was his life with Elena and they made a terrible mistake of killing him in the end. It was so unfair and I am still very heartbroken about it especially since I am rewatching the show currently and my heart hurts so much for Stefan. Stefan and Elena were soulmates but unfortunately to many people kept getting between them and destroyed their lives. In another life they could have been happily ever after…He deserved the world, Stefan was a beyond wonderful and kind and loving selfless person❤️
Omg u wrote whole paragraph I absolutely love stelena too I felt bad for stefan he saw his own brother fall in love with his lover and elena choose DAMON over STEFAN
Im so glad i stopped watching this series after season 2 because the storyline with demon and elena and how they fucked Up her charakter would have driven me mad for sure. Stelena was so much better!!!
🤣 Nina didn’t want delena… Ian didn’t want delena… Paul didn’t want delena but went along with whatever ship he was in ..but he stayed wanting stelena..when everyone in your cast is saying one thing.. Julie listen… 😂 because if she had been fair to everyone I don’t think Nina would have left or kat or Ian.. she literally killed her own show
Elena is not someone who would be head over heels to someone that she would sacrifice and risk her relationship with everyone for a guy. They really did her character dirty just to force Delena because the fans loved it. But watching seasons 1-2 gives you the real Elena, the compassionate Elena who is objective and who would always choose her friends than her bf.
I honestly think because the actors dated in real life VPD capitalized on it. In the book I think Stefan and Elena end up together. Either way as I keep watching it just seems like after they broke up in real life the writers still had to continue the love story, like no backing out now. A love that “consumes you” is toxic.
The only argument Antis have against Stelena is the bridge scene and him “stalking” her. But, did you forget that your fav stalked, scared and harmed her in the process? Not to mention, y’all antis TALK sm about the bridge scene yet, it slips your mind the amount of crap Damon put Elena through. Oh, and him being “morally grey” is 0 justification periodt.
Stelena always and forever 😊 The scriptwriters have completely changed the character of Elena in Vampire. the other characters by becoming a vampire, their qualities were amplified but not Elena. she forgets that her boyfriend killed her brother, abused her best friend and does not respect her choices. no logic this toxic relationship
I was so sad he cared and loved her when she just loved Stefan a little and Damon Damon did not save her Stefan did when Stefan died 40% of my heart was sad I wish they came out together
When I found out that stelena wasn’t the endgame I started CRYING so much because their love was amazing and pure . I feel like toward the end they just took everyone that was still alive and put them together because delena mad me mad but steroline made me REALLY mad I feel like they didn’t have any chemistry and like J said just put them together because they were still alive. But yeah STLENA FOREVER
Finally, someone who put all what i was thinking about delena into one video delena is toxic very yes stelena did sometimes have ups and downs but you can't deny that stefan's respect towards elena was the best he didn't go all crazy when she did some dumb stuff she hurt stefan so many times and he was always loyal to her stefan is the better brother he turned himself over to Klaus for his brother left everything behind to save him and damon went behind his back and started to flirt with his brother's girlfriend he never respected their relationship but stefan did even if it hurt him he blames himself for how his brother turned out so he did everything for him to try to make it up to him even if he couldn't have the happy ending people don't give enough respect towards stefan he was going to risk his life to save elena and his brother better brother better boyfriend better husband
A mistake was even made he never stalked her. Stalking is when you follow someone around scaring them. Damon was actually the one who stalked her whit his crow and going into her room to watch her sleep
Thank you for making this video! The way Delena's story unrevelled is so unsettling. And being with Damon is literally against Elena's character and values. I mean, I enjoyed their chemistry but they worked only as those flirty pals, not as an actual healthy couple with a future and shared worldview. That's why they killed her in her human (reasonable) form and even made her sired to Damon to make her "choice" to leave Stefan and be with Damon at least a little bit plausible. I really enjoyed a few first seasons but starting with season 4, it's just a downfall. I watched scenes from later seasons and Elena is so different there. Their relationship with Damon is 90% kissing and having sex and 10% arguing while her and Stefan were so aligned in their core values and desires. Such a shame to kill a beautiful pairing with mutual respect and great support for each other and create a one based solely on passion and longing for "adventure and danger". And the way Damon put Katherine and Elena before Stefan is so disgusting. Stefan literally sacrificed his freedom for him in season 3 and Damon cared more avout Elena than helping his brother. Not to mention how he constantly tried to win Elena over while they were together or how he slept with her literally a day or two after she broke up with Stefan. He also terrorized Stefan for over a century because Katherine was into him and made him a vampire even though Stefan was compelled throughout their relationship! Like, it's your brother, not some random dude, how dare you treat him like that
I'm really disappointed when Elena chooses Damon over Stefan. When she become a Vampire, they say that her feelings for Damon magnified? How about how she feels for Stefan, it doesn't magnified? Is it more romantic in the story that even Stefan lose control of him self, Elena still choose him because she love him so much. And no matter what happen they will still be together. If TVD writters really want Nina & Ian to be partners , they can do it with Damon & Katherine. Two badass vampire fell inlove with each other.
I’m watching the full serie. Because the first time I tried to see it,I stopped it completely when she started getting close to Damon. That was when I was 15 years old, now I’m 24. And I’m trying hard to see it and not get depressed again, I tell myself that I have to accept it.
stefan deserved better! he was nice and caring and damon was nothing but toxic and basically tried to kill her but like imagine how stefan felt after she literally dated him then got with his brother 💀
omg tysm ❤️❤️ like seriously you mentioned all the reasons why stefan >>>>>> Damon and why Stelena >>>>>> Delena , now I can send it to all my Delena shipper friends and say this is where I rest my case 😂❤️
Thank you so much for this video and stating all the facts. I used to be in guilt sometimes that may be I am different that I am unable to ship Delena despite 95% of audience ships them. I have watched TVD thrice and never been able to like Delena at all, its totally toxic. And we can clearly see the difference between Elena's personality that she became cringe after going into relationship with Damon. They have tried to display delena as imperfect epic sort of love but it is so so stupid. In real life no one can stand a guy like Damon literally I am telling you even the ones who are supporting delena can't live with a character like Damon. I don't know what to say, each and every clip you have added is exactly what I compare and there may be few more. Stefan is a green flag and Damon is jealous, toxic and red flag. I don't hate Ian and he himself says that Damon was a toxic character. Julie Plec is a wanna be woman who tried to show that Elena wanted adventure in her life (I still never understood what kinda adventure she had with Damon lol). Stefan gave Elena respect and even he respected all her relationships, her family, friends and fellows. I don't even blame Stefan for the bridge scene honestly sorry because he was mad with anger, he recently came back surviving his blood lust alone (nobody helped him, not elena or Damon), he was protecting Elena from Klaus and brought cure for Damon and what they did to him. He knew he had lost Elena already because he could clearly see Elena getting jealous when Damon was flirting with Rebekkah. Still Stefan never harmed Elena. He lost everything because he went with Klaus and he lost Elena and himself in process. I hate Julie Plec, I say it again that I hate Julie Plec. She ruined everything. She herself is a toxic woman who just tried to portray a toxic guy as becoming a hero for his love and tried to fancy delena and make it look like the main ship but the ones who are sane know this that Stelena was perfect green flag relationship and delena was shit toxic.
The relationship between Stefan and Elena was always pure love, while Delena was just about sexual chemistry and these stuff! I've chosen Stelena always and forever.
I was a Delena fan back there in 2009. I’m watching again this month (2023) and I’m all Stelena now. No doubt. That made me think. It’s my age, I grew and understood that relationships could be Nice, easy, calms…but in 2009 i was trapped in a relationship with “a damon” so how could i think different back then? Maturity comes from the time we spend making mistakes…sadly, some of us Will never learn. Stelena Team now! 💙💪🏻💪🏻
Je suis Fan de votre émissions de vanpire daireis c'est vraiment une émissions que j' aime beaucoup de tout mon cœur 💋 merci beaucoup pour votre émissions 💋💋
As much as I’ve come to terms with Damon and Elena being endgame. I still can’t help but coming back to both Stelena and Forwood moments. I’ve been thinking about writing a fanfiction that makes them both endgame.
Damon snapped her brothers neck in front of her. Walked it off with ease. Let’s suppose it really was Catherine but it was “his” deed. He had no remorse. What’s needed more than this-
Stelena>delena, stefan and Elena should have become humans together (damon stay a vampire) & have kids together,like the hallucinations they had because of the Travelers that will have been the perfect ending for them.
Wanna add that when Stefan was compelled to hurt Elena, Klaus had to compel him TWICE because the first time Stefan resisted it out of sheer love for her.
Stelena will always have my heart. They were literally the definition of pure love. Not gonna lie delena did have passionate moments but for me that was just it only. Elenas personally completely changed when she got with Damon. SHE LITERALLY kept defending Damon when he made bad choices. Season 1-2 Elena would never allow a guy to change her morals and beliefs. Instead of elenas character to develop within the series she just kept getting worse and worse...
It's sad how people mistake Elena being a better person and more selfless with Stefan as her not loving him, simply because she's not picking him over everyone else that she loves.
I love the video but as a stelena fan you should know that Stefan didn't stalk Elena he just watched her to make sure she wasn't Katherine, he didn't follow her to the graveyard Damon was the one who stalked and terrorized her I don't know if you've heard of her but Zal on Tumblr and she's a stelena fan and she explains everything better and believe me if you're a stelena fan already you will underatand and fall more in stelena it's zalrb
As a Stelena I know he STALKED her because he's a vampire but he watched her because she looked like his ex girlfriend and wanted to know more about her because she could be the only reason of his miserable existence. He even said he wanted to leave town maybe he would but he couldn't leave without knowing her. I'm a Stelena Stan but I'm not in denial or not gonna lie to myself that he didn't stalk her because he DID.
@@stelenaaesthetic2009 okay I have read numerous comments and I have to say that stefan didn't stalk elena. I looked up the definition of stalking g and it involves threatening and causing harm which stefan didn't do. At least I don't remember stefan causing any harm.. He did not harass or 0ersecute her in any way. He simply observed her from afar.
I was most of the way through this when I had an epiphany Elena was a massive hypocrite in season 3 whenever she criticized Jeremy for wanting to retain an attachment to Anna who was dead, when she in season 6 was taking hallucination witch herbs so that she could love a ghost herself.
In Damon's defense, he DID save Elena's life at least twice while she was with Stefan. Once when she was in the car and the other vampire made her crash the car and tried to attack her. Damon saved her and took her to Georgia to keep her safe. He saves her from being shot by taking an arrow in the back for her in the second season. Damon is the one who saves Elena from the hospital when she is being used by Klaus for her blood. All of this BEFORE she turned into a vampire and fell in love with him.
To be honest, they literally destroyed Elena character, and also other characters only to make it look like Damon is better…. Elena character such a amazing beautiful character, but they destroyed her completely changed her personality only so that she could be with Damon
who is responsible for making damon and elena get together is it the producer(s)? the scriptwriters? how does it work? worst thing to ever happen idc how hot damon is delena makes me barf it ruined the show and it broke stefans heart for what reason? so delena can break up every 2 episodes joke ting!
I will always choose Stefan and Elena. Such a shame they didn't get back together. For Damon he needs Elena to do the right thing. Whereas Stefan actually acknowledges the wrong that he has done.
Stelena should have been Endgame.... Stefan was the best thing that happened to Elena he is loving, caring and selfless and always respects her decisions unlike Damon
Honestly, I think we all want Stefan to end up with her in our imaginations because we all want the good guy to end up with the good girl. In a perfect world that's how it would happen. But we live in an imperfect world. Where the bad guy ends up with the good girl, all the time.😮😂
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Fun fact: no one hated season 1-2 Elena. That was when she was with Stefan. Season 3 Elena was getting worse, but she wasnt completely hatable yet. That was when she was jumping between Salvatores. Season 4-6 Elena is who we hate. That was when she broke up with Stefan and got with Damon.
people always hate a woman who date brothers. it's part of the story that she dates both of them, and part of her character to be morally challenged. dislike of her character and elena's own dislike of herself was bound to happen as no one likes the fact that her feelings caused a rift between the brothers. it's not her fault that she felt the way she did for both of them and she tried so hard to keep it from happening and to do it in a way that hurt them the least. in the end a strong woman must choose to value her own happiness. it's sad people fail to acknowledge the point that elena ever since she arrived till the very end is what drew the brothers together and kept them together, healing their hundred year family trauma
@@nobodysXghost i personally don't hate Elena because she was with Damon, but because she is too self-centered, like everything is about her. She slept with Damon, but angry at Stefan because he was hanging out with Rebekah, she insulted Katherine for being involved with both of the Salvatore's, but later on she did the same thing, Caroline mom was dying and she made it on herself and kissed Damon while Caroline, her supposed to be best friend, was crying, she was angry with Rebekah cause she killed her (to save her family tho), when she did the same when Bex thought they were actual friends, she said Damon that he was trying to bring Bonnie back because he wanted to win Elena back when Damon and Bonnie were besties... I mean, she is an hypocritical, self centered and annoying character to me.
@@jasmine62997 i can understand those reasons to dislike her, i'm not a fan of it either. but i relately deeply with a person that is resentful against qualities in people that they find in themselves. id be angry if someone killed me even if i had done the same to them. i think she was right to be angry w stefan for getting close with the person that was the reason he was 'so tormented' the whole first half of season 4 due to elena being a vampire-i mean he essentially colluded with rebecca on that bridge to allow elena to die and then sleeps with her. elena assuming everything is about her is annoying but i do have to say people sure as hell make it that way, they center everything around her a lot of the time. she hated herself for having feelings for both of them and faught it so long out of fear of being like katherine, her doppelganger-the myth of the doppelganger is not wanting to be like that evil twin but being bound to. she is highly imperfect and annoying but i think she knows that
@@nobodysXghost she was not on the position to judge tho, Rebekah killed her to protect her family, everyone on the show would have done the same. Elena slept with Damon, her ex's brother the day after they broke up, she got close to Damon when Stefan was away with Klaus to save both Damon and Elena's life, so meanwhile Stefan was losing everything, Damon is the guy who killed Jeremy, who abused Caroline, who killed Lexi... I mean SHE'S NOT in the position to judge
Oh and Stefan was tormented cause she told him she didn't want to be a vampire, she was crying all over Stefan saying that she hated being a vampire so he was trying to help her and when she said that he was treating her like a broken toy i literally jump on my chair and said "BITCH WTF IS WRONG WITH YA?!" 😂
@@jasmine62997 elena certainly judges but she also sympathizes as well, (she sympathized with rebekah) she has sympathized with pretty much everyone on the show which i really like about her, unlike anyone but perhaps bonnie. you can sympathize with people but that doesn't mean you have to want to be near them when they've abused you. there are characters like caroline, for example, that judge all the time instead of sympathizing, in denial that they are judging what they have in themselves. elena had been clear to stefan beforehand how much she didn't want to be a vampire, and did express it after she turned, but wasn't hellbent on trying to cure it the way that stefan was. i didn't see her crying all over him about it. once she fed she accepted her fate and stefan just refused to let go of what was his fault. i saw stefan trying to push his way of feeding on her over and over and forcing things to be the way they were, in his typical 'nice guy' stefan way of course so it doesn't seem that pushy to an undiscerning eye, but i definitely can see elena risking her own life to please stefan and do it his way. she loved him and didn't want him to feel more guilt than he already did. this was her fault of course but i can empathize with her feelings. of course she told him she didn't want to hurt anyone, but he wasn't able to explain to her that she could feed without hurting them as he didn't know how to do that himself. also stefan chose to keep working with klaus after he was set free, and even states himself that it was purely for revenge. i will never jump on the bullshit pity and enable stefan train when even he himself would not stand by that.
Damon would've killed her the night they met if she didn't look like katherine as he was laying in the middle of the road looking for his victim.
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Delena shippers only can say “Stelena was boring” but when you grow and compare the relationships more u can see how toxic Delena it was, you don’t need to fight, broke up and comeback many times, discuss and being the completely opposite than your partner to make the relation works, real life is not like that, real relationship’s like Delena didn’t end good
No but like, Stelena wasn’t even boring??? Like, that argument makes no sense. They had a 100x more passion and chemistry than Delena. Like dude, sorry delena fans the only obstacle in YOUR fav’s relationship is theirselves. While, Stelena actually had external forces against them and they came out stronger than ever because of those forces.
@@klaystels6559 yeah they become stronger and stronger as a couple and time went by. Stelena had so much overwhelming chemistry it was unbelievable. Even in the first episode. Most of all they were happy. Most of Stelena's iconic moments Elena is smiling which she didn't do that with Damon. It was more fighting and sex than anything with a few actually cute moments sprinkled in-between. Imagine how powerful Stelena would have been as a couple of they pulled through to the end. Imagine how powerful Delena would have been as a best friends. In my opinion although it was teased Damon liking Elena and Elena possibly liking Damon also the whole Elena chosing Damon kinda came out of nowhere.
@@trustfratedinfires6325 EXACTLY! Totally agree with you! Delena as best friends would’ve been iconic! Sadly, they didn’t see that and immediately gave them romantic undertones :(
@@klaystels6559 And it's not that I don't like Damon or anything like that because I do. He's definitely make me laugh more time that I can count or say for Stefan and I do feel bad that he waited and loved Katherine for so long only to find out she never loved him and "it was always Stefan". Katherine and Elena did that the same day and I did feel sad for him. Playing second fiddle to your little brother all the time must be annoying but he should have just let go of his feelings for his brothers happiness. The writer's had the best opportunity for Damon's character development if he had let go of his feelings for Elena for Stefan instead of forcing Stefan out of the picture. Which he was heartbroken and lost for so many seasons after. I'm just glad when Silas was pretending to be Stefan and kept making comments about Damon stealing Elena, Damon never tried to defend himself. He sat there a took it. If I had it my way Damon and Elena would have been the best of friends. Stelena would have pulled through till the very end and Damon would have found his happiness romantically in someone else.
they only say it’s boring bc their relationship actually had a good emotional & deep connection unlike deltuna. they loved each other deeply and understood each other on a personal level. they didn’t rely on sex to answer all their issues, that’s why people think stelena is boring.
When I first watch TVD Stefan and Elena's romantic chemistry was overwhelming. I felt it flooding through the screen. I felt their love and connection with each other in my bones.
Halfway through season 2 first watch I ended up finding out that Elena chose Damon over Stefan and I was in pure shock. When Delena first were together I did feel any chemistry. I wasn't feeling anything. I was just reading between the lines at to what I see on the screen.
than the end of season for when Elena chose Damon and they kissed I felt their chemistry for the first time and I felt so bad because I don't like them as a couple. Then it showed Stefan crying I nearly balled my eyes out but I think the only reason why I started to feel their chemistry is because I knew due to the internet that Stelena (sadly) never gets back together. Like don't get me wrong. I get the whole Damon look. He's funny and has made me laugh more times than I could count or say for Stefan. He definitely is one of my favorite characters of the show but Delena I don't get at all.
no matter what it was always inevitable seeing how obsessed Damon was with Katherine at the time of hanging around Elena a lot by virtue of Stefan's girlfriend but I like Delena better as friends. They are so much more powerful as friends. A lot of fans started shipping Delena when Damon danced with Elena at the miss mystic falls but I didn't see it that way at all. I was thinking of the cool parallel that Stefan got to dance with Katherine the last time and now Damon gets to dance with Elena (the look a like Katherine) doing the same dance at the same event.
Damon's character has already opened up and shown his soft side many times before and Damon's character deserved the character development in which he would have gotten if he let go of his feelings for the sake of his little brothers happiness. Stefan absolutely loved Elena more than anything aside from Damon and Damon and Elena shouldn't have forced Stefan into months of heartbreak.
I've never seen Stefan so happy and in love than he was when he was with Elena. And the sad parallel to that is I've never seen him more sad, and heartbroken and hurt and lost for so long than when Elena chose Damon. Yes, it was Stefan who chose to walk but he didn't really exactly have a choice.
Stefan Salvatore deserved better. Stefan Salvatore was the better brother. Stefan Salvatore was a true hero.
If I had it my way Stelena would have never ended. Damon and Elena would have been the best of friends and Damon would have found his happiness romantically in someone else.
This are just my opinions. Sorry, I got a little carried away there. I can talk about this subject all day.
when i see stelena fans open up about their reasons when not in attack mode to pull down delena (which is almost the only thing i ever see from stelena fans), it seems like the 'who has best chemistry' thing is almost a difference in what turns you on personally. because you started to like d/e when you liked the way they kissed in 4x22 and i didn't really feel the 'chemistry' there as much as their other kisses. i think most people can admit, regardless of what couple you like, that stelena's kind of chemistry was a lot more sweet, more fairytale-like and more young love and casual type of vibe. some people absolutely love that and perhaps that's what they want in a relationship or how they like to kiss and date. i'm a delena fan and i can see how me preferring their vibe/chemistry over stelena's makes sense with my personality. i have never been in to stelena types of couples, or stelena type of kissing or dating even in my own life. i intentionally look for couples that have banter and friction in media and i am attracted to people with whom i can have intellectual banter with who question my beliefs. i think it's kind of a personality thing and depends on what point you are in your life
@@nobodysXghost yeah, I completely understand what you say. I have watched romance show after romance show and I've never been in a relationship before but whenever I watched all these romance show I always ship them with the one she met first that's something that's the main lead. Yes it was discovered that actually she met Damon first but I'm talking in terms of watching. I think over time I learned to accept them as a couple. At least isn't as Delena isn't as nearly as weird as Caroline and Alaric. 😂 Also I may be a little jealous that Delena got the iconic romance scenes in any movie or show. 😂 Kissing in the rain, on the other side of the same door with hand on the same place, and dancing in the street. Anyways Delena stan, I hope you have a nice day.
@@trustfratedinfires6325 thanks this was such a positive interaction and it's nice to see we can recognize that people just like what they like and it doesn't mean one has more chemistry than the other or one is more toxic than the other. i understand i have ships that i am sad never played out the way i wanted. have a nice day stelena stan ❤
You pointed it so perfectly and said everything perfectly❤️ I absolutely agree with everything and I am a die hard Stelena shipper and Damon is a selfish dick for falling in love with his younger brother‘s girlfriend and giving him pain and heartbreak. That was so disgusting and gross of Damon. Damon should have found his happiness in another woman. Stefan and Elena should have been endgame no matter what. Stefan was and always will be the better man. It‘s so heartbreaking but Stefan deserved so much better. He got the worse ending of everyone. It was so unfair and annoying I can’t believe they did that to Stefan…he will always be my comfort character and my absolute favorite fictional character of all time. I will always love and adore Stefan. He is the perfect man.
@@nobodysXghost I'm a Stelena stan and wonder if you'd agree with me
Damon and Elena had more chemistry in the first 3 seasons. She had chemistry with both brothers. And the idea of Damon hopelessly looking at Elena and messing up constantly while yearning for her was lowkey sad. But the way the show made them get together was badly executed.
The sire bond? Really? And they make damon sleep with her knowing she was sired? They make Elena say stuff like "Do you think Damon and I will ever be able to talk like this?" And everytime they "broke up" and had sex right after was...goofy. I blame Julie Plec honestly
This is the reason why I don't like Delena. They had to change Elena's personality for this. Her old good girl like personality had a way better charm and appeal when it comes to Damon's character.
And how Elena didn't realise bonnie was dead and Damon didn't know his lil bro was suffering and drowning because they were too focused with each other.
That irks me. It was so unnecessary and portrayed the relationship in a bad light.
For Elena to even fall for Damon...it goes completely against her character and doesn't even make any sense. They had to change Elena for even that to happen. It was completely annoying and useless. It came out of nowhere as well because episodes ago Elena clearly CHOSE STEFAN. She said "I was coming back for you Stefan". Why even make that scene in the first place if she was going to "fall" for Damon after?? The writing was all over the place
Ikr that's why everyone hated elena
This is what infuriates me so much. She fought for him through all of season 3. She had to choosd and she choose Stefan. "It's always gonna be Stefan" . "Choosing you was the best decision I ever made." And then a few episodes later she started dating Damon. 🤦♂️🤦♂️ Julie Plec ruined it so much.
julie plecs biggest mistake was making delena a thing .. most toxic relationship (if you would even call it that) on the show
mix of sire bond and then compulsion when she became human again
It will never make sense to me. There is no morsel in my brain that could find the life math to dictate why Elena Gilbert would leave the most endearing and perfect man for a toxic dark haired man with mommy issues.
Couldn't have described it any better
Exactly! Damon was a mummies boy through and through.
Summed up in a couple of words
The fact is Stelena wasn't perfect but it was thousand times better than disease ship that has ever made to please ho r ny teens of Twitter.
I can't believe I lose my Stelena for some teen fetish over a toxic couple
Ikr😭most of the delena fans are so immature and their arguments about their ship being better is so irrational🙄
totally...i dont see stefan any happier with anyobody....be it caroline or katherine...i dont hate damon but i never ever liked delena together...even i tried to force myself to see the chemistry...but i didnt...i dont know why..stefan elena had so much potential...it was like a delight to watch them together...i got bored watching delena and would fast forward the delena naked gross scenes...
Exactly!!! These disease shippers are only getting worse
Delena argument: Stefan is boring and Ian is so much hotterrr and funny and they have hot sex scene (sexual tension which they call chemistry 🙄)
This is teenage girls logic
LMFAOOO DISEASE 😭😭
I will never stop obsessing over them together😭❤️
The writers destroyed this show when they put Elena with Damon. The whole story is supposed to be about Elena and Stefan's love story
I my self was expecting them to be back together how foolish I was
I agree with you
it wasnt abt the love or anyones love story tvd is more of about stefan's vampire story and shit but I agree with the other part.
@jadenlenoele1752 ngl I'm lowkey curious how your ending goes
The whole story is suppose to be about Stefan in general. And at many points in the story they dived too much into the Delena ship instead of giving us ORIGINS about how RIPPERS came to be and more lore on Stefan Salvatore SPECIFICALLY in general
For me stelena ended up together as humans and had kids and I don't care anyone else would say
If you mean vampires could anyhow procreate, then yes! - certainly but then there’d be no alternate reality visions from Marlos!
the true ending..
Stefan was so humble to her throughout all the seasons. Infact I actually loved them after the break-up.
They where the best 👍🏼
I fucking hate everything
that happened after season 2 but I always make my heart with "you know if Nina wouldn't have left tvd , the endgame would have been stelena ❤️❤️" so yea just to make myself not sad I think that
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And no one said this but you made an incredible video...this made us realise so much more about how pure stelena was ❤️❤️ thank you so much
sad thing is she probably left because of ian..
Frankly tbh no need to give so many reasons.
Stefan is obviously the best without any argument.
Damon did few good things ...no big deal...but Stefan is the hero . He's the one who always sacrificed
Mature people always go for Stefan . Delena was utter non sense, toxic, immature teenage lovestory which had no sense at all
Irl a girl like elena would never fall for damon especially when she had her Stefan 🥰
Exactly! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Mature people will choose Stefan and childish immature horny teenagers will choose Damon. Damon is so toxic and selfish it‘s disgusting.
Thank u! At least someone agrees with us Stelena fans! Stefan is the better man, the better boyfriend, and the better brother. This is why I would choose Stefan over Damon any time, any second of the day. If I was around their age, acting in this show too, I would have the writers keep Elena and Stefan together. (Me as Elena) . No matter what anyone says, I would always be a Stelena fan always and forever. I agree with u, and so thank u! Not just for agreeing but making this video. I needed it.
YES YES YES THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU SOMEONE WHO PREFERS STEFAN AND STELENA
@@the_edit.diaries 😂😂 Np. I will always choose them. I’ve chosen and liked them ever since I saw the show when I saw clips, and when I was watching the show, at first.
SAME AND PREACH❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Stefan and Elena should have been endgame no matter what and If I would have played Elena in the show I would have fought for the ending of Stefan and Elena to be endgame and happily ever after no matter what it takes. Would have insisted and made valid points and even powerpoint presentations haha Stefan was the better man and I would have chosen him in a heart beat. He is the perfect man and I will always love Stefan no matter what.
@@roselamoure thanks! Same to u!
Well stelena is a true and cute epic love and sweethearts, but they broke up that's how people move on everyone got mad when elena cheated on Stefan and I got mad to but damon cheated on elena and nobody said anything so nobody is perfect or away meant to be
Stelena Always and Forever ❤💗😍
He respected Elena’s decisions including when she chose Damon and their relationship; Damon never did that for them and tried to win, steal or force himself on Elena, tried to make her a vampire against her will several times, so did Stefan once but he regretted and apologised for it.
Stelena was what true love is and I am to this day heartbroken that they weren’t endgame
Same I am extremely heartbroken they were not endgame and on top of that killed Stefan like WTF😭 I am currently rewatching the show bc I never finished Vampire Diaries but I am kinda scared to watch it all bc I know I will just cry all the time and be super disappointed…
For me, the two really unforgivable things Stefan and Damon did to Elena were:
- Stefan pretending to drive off the bridge where her parents died
- Damon killing Jeremy when she rejected him
And guess what?
- Stefan would have never actually drove her off the bridge, he scared her and it was f up but the situation would have never created any permanent harm to Elena.
- When Damon snapped Jeremy's neck, he admitted to Elena he didn't know he was wearing the ring in that moment, which means he would have killed Jeremy and he would have caused permanent damage to Elena.
THAT'S who Damon is. They tried to redeem him to appease fans but they never actually pulled it off, because at his core, Damon is, as he loves to say time and time again, selfish.
Not to mention he killed her friend tried to kill her brother again
@@aishahamma334and everyone hating on stefan saying he killed Enzo but Damon killed lexi
shes a whore that broke stefans heart yet he protected her at all costs and damon and no remorse by getting in-between him and elena fed on him soon as she turned into a vampire damon got what he wanted but yet stefan continued to protect her and loved damon more than he got the love back. damon has no respect or appreciation for stefan. the whole group prefers stefan over damon. glad caroline got hiim in the end. elena and damon are toxic and misrable
To be fair, scaring the hell out of Elena and making her relive her trauma DOES cause permanent damage, just not that obvious. I actually don't wanna compare those things but killing her brother because ... I don't know, he was bored or annoyed or something (I can't remember) is ... a different level. Not saying worse but ... yeah.
also stefan never compelled elena or played mind tricks with her, the only time he was in her head was when he said goodbye to her at the end of S6.
remember when elena said "I'm not gonna be one of those pathetic girls whose world stops just because of some guy." in S1? then she became exactly like those pathetic girls in S6 when she thought her boyfriend was dead. the show writers absolutely destroyed her character.
Exactly, elena was so strong in s1!!
Elena was so amazing in season 1 and 2 but they destroyed her character it‘s super upsetting. I am so mad…
She kept on saying please don't leave me and after his death she still trying to lie to herself that damon is alive which resulted her in hurting people
but at the time she was a vampire and us we all know if you are one your emotion is out of ur control
Elena didn’t even remember when Damon killed Jeremy, she forgave him for killing Aaron (dahec), and how he allowed Enzo to walk over everybody. Throughout the series I tried giving Damon a chance to be ok with him, but the final straw was in S6 when he killed a PREGNANT woman. Also, killed Tyler, Vicki, and gave Aaron and Sarah miserable lives, what the hell was Stefan thinking letting him live or not telling Klaus to mess with him after Damon let Enzo do the same, so glad Stefan killed him btw. This whole drama began bc Stefan had more game with women and Damon was ungrateful of getting supernatural powers, jokes on him Stefan still got married earlier than him, I was ok that he and Caroline hooked.
Also guys, a Delena fan made an article called “22 reasons why Damon was the better brother and I was laughing at how stupid it was.”
u forgot Lexi...Damon killed lexi infront of his brother's one and only best friend and that on his birthday...and said it was part of the plan...then in s5 i guess,writers forced us to think that he was a good man when damon said she was a walking talking reminder of how horrible person i was...so i killed her...like seriously?? and then he kept simping for elena...and eventually got stefan's gf...
@@chrizstele5922 oh yeah, and again Stefan killed his best friend. Karma is a b am I right
@@chefdavidrivoli stefan was yet hesitated to yank enzo's heart out...but enzo pulled himself away...cuz enzo turned his humanity off..didnt want to feel sad for that maggy girl...who damon had killed on jf kennedy day...
@@chrizstele5922 yeah and he was like “if I hate you then I have nothing left,” the literal example of him being Damon’s Bitch
@@chefdavidrivoli damon didn't even treated enzo like his bsf
You made so many good points that Delena fans need to watch
I will never be not angry with the ending of the vampire dairies
Stelena’s chemistry > Delena’s chemistry (or lack thereof)
If we really want to be precise, Stefan didn’t actually stalk her. Damon did. Stalking is, according to the internet, “to harass or persecute someone with unwanted and obsessive attention”. Stefan never once harassed or scared her off, neither did he force her to change her routine because she felt threatened or persecuted. Damon was the one to stalk her, not Stefan.
At the bottom of heart, Elena knew Stefan was the better man. She developed feelings for Damon & had to leave Stefan, otherwise it would be disrespectful for Stefan. But vice versa, Damon has no respect, everyone knows. Elena always knew Stefan understood her best & for whom, she lives a good life. ❤️
Elena and Stefan were soulmates and no one can ever tell me otherwise. Their souls and goals were the same and human Stefan and human Elena were perfectly made for each other. Stefan was always very selfless with Elena and respectful and cared for her feelings deeply and loved her unconditionally and would have done everything for her. They both had the same personality and values in life and aligned each other. Unfortunately as selfless and loving and protective Stefan was he sacrificed himself to Klaus just so that his brother could live. He did everything so that Damon could live but had to sacrifice his soul and values and humanity for him and gave himself up for Damon. Meanwhile Damon took advantage of that and kissed Elena and he also ALWAYS came between Elena and Stefan, kissed Elena, flirted with Elena and even killed ppl bc he wanted Elena. What type of brother does that?! Stefan was an amazing and beautiful soul despite him being a vampire he was the best character on the show and everyone truly loved Stefan. Elena backstabbed Stefan too which infuriates me so much. She gave up on Stefan when he needed her the most. I understand Elena‘s hurt and that she can‘t keep waiting for Stefan to become human again, it was also Stefan‘s fault since he didn’t fight enough for Elena too and gave up so easily and pushed Elena from him which was a great mistake. They both gave up but never once did Stefan stop loving her. They had such an unfortunate love story and Damon was a big reason of Stefan‘s pain and horrible life. Damon really made Stefan‘s life miserable and as a big brother he was a terrible guy. They did Stefan extremely dirty and Stefan and Elena should have ended up together meanwhile Damon should have died. It was Stefan‘s diary. It was his life with Elena and they made a terrible mistake of killing him in the end. It was so unfair and I am still very heartbroken about it especially since I am rewatching the show currently and my heart hurts so much for Stefan. Stefan and Elena were soulmates but unfortunately to many people kept getting between them and destroyed their lives. In another life they could have been happily ever after…He deserved the world, Stefan was a beyond wonderful and kind and loving selfless person❤️
Omg u wrote whole paragraph I absolutely love stelena too I felt bad for stefan he saw his own brother fall in love with his lover and elena choose DAMON over STEFAN
😢😢😢I am so heartbroken. The worst series I have ever watched. Stefan deserved better
True Stefan was the best honestly
Im so glad i stopped watching this series after season 2 because the storyline with demon and elena and how they fucked Up her charakter would have driven me mad for sure. Stelena was so much better!!!
🤣 Nina didn’t want delena… Ian didn’t want delena… Paul didn’t want delena but went along with whatever ship he was in ..but he stayed wanting stelena..when everyone in your cast is saying one thing.. Julie listen… 😂 because if she had been fair to everyone I don’t think Nina would have left or kat or Ian.. she literally killed her own show
Nina and Paul ship stelena Ian shipped delena until fans started hating on his wife and then he started shipping stelena
@@safiyanadeem8711 no Ian never shipped delena.. he said he was ok with it but he always wanted bamon.. has everything since the season 2 of tvd ..
@@darnlove55Yeah you're right even though I ship Bamon and Stelena
Stefan and Elena deserved each other ❤️❤️
Exactly
Elena is not someone who would be head over heels to someone that she would sacrifice and risk her relationship with everyone for a guy. They really did her character dirty just to force Delena because the fans loved it. But watching seasons 1-2 gives you the real Elena, the compassionate Elena who is objective and who would always choose her friends than her bf.
"It's Elena" - Stefan Salvatore ❤
I honestly think because the actors dated in real life VPD capitalized on it. In the book I think Stefan and Elena end up together.
Either way as I keep watching it just seems like after they broke up in real life the writers still had to continue the love story, like no backing out now.
A love that “consumes you” is toxic.
STELENA FOREVER ❤
The only argument Antis have against Stelena is the bridge scene and him “stalking” her. But, did you forget that your fav stalked, scared and harmed her in the process? Not to mention, y’all antis TALK sm about the bridge scene yet, it slips your mind the amount of crap Damon put Elena through. Oh, and him being “morally grey” is 0 justification periodt.
I'm always going to be team Stelena forever ♾️
Stefan's love for Elena was so pure. Stefan and Elena would've been my favourite couple if they ended up together.
Even Ian Somerhalder said that he prefered Stefan and Elena together cause thay had healthy relationships,so....
Yeah I see now team Stelena we are many!! That makes me happy
Stelena always and forever 😊
The scriptwriters have completely changed the character of Elena in Vampire. the other characters by becoming a vampire, their qualities were amplified but not Elena. she forgets that her boyfriend killed her brother, abused her best friend and does not respect her choices.
no logic this toxic relationship
I was so sad he cared and loved her when she just loved Stefan a little and Damon Damon did not save her Stefan did when Stefan died 40% of my heart was sad I wish they came out together
When I found out that stelena wasn’t the endgame I started CRYING so much because their love was amazing and pure . I feel like toward the end they just took everyone that was still alive and put them together because delena mad me mad but steroline made me REALLY mad I feel like they didn’t have any chemistry and like J said just put them together because they were still alive. But yeah STLENA FOREVER
Delena fans think it’s ok when Stefan was under water cause Elena and Damon were having you know.😔all summer
Cuz Stelena have the best chemistry they hv everything that Delena don't hv.
Finally, someone who put all what i was thinking about delena into one video delena is toxic very yes stelena did sometimes have ups and downs but you can't deny that stefan's respect towards elena was the best he didn't go all crazy when she did some dumb stuff she hurt stefan so many times and he was always loyal to her stefan is the better brother he turned himself over to Klaus for his brother left everything behind to save him and damon went behind his back and started to flirt with his brother's girlfriend he never respected their relationship but stefan did even if it hurt him he blames himself for how his brother turned out so he did everything for him to try to make it up to him even if he couldn't have the happy ending people don't give enough respect towards stefan he was going to risk his life to save elena and his brother better brother better boyfriend better husband
long live stelena 😩
A mistake was even made he never stalked her. Stalking is when you follow someone around scaring them. Damon was actually the one who stalked her whit his crow and going into her room to watch her sleep
Thank you for making this video! The way Delena's story unrevelled is so unsettling. And being with Damon is literally against Elena's character and values. I mean, I enjoyed their chemistry but they worked only as those flirty pals, not as an actual healthy couple with a future and shared worldview. That's why they killed her in her human (reasonable) form and even made her sired to Damon to make her "choice" to leave Stefan and be with Damon at least a little bit plausible. I really enjoyed a few first seasons but starting with season 4, it's just a downfall. I watched scenes from later seasons and Elena is so different there. Their relationship with Damon is 90% kissing and having sex and 10% arguing while her and Stefan were so aligned in their core values and desires. Such a shame to kill a beautiful pairing with mutual respect and great support for each other and create a one based solely on passion and longing for "adventure and danger". And the way Damon put Katherine and Elena before Stefan is so disgusting. Stefan literally sacrificed his freedom for him in season 3 and Damon cared more avout Elena than helping his brother. Not to mention how he constantly tried to win Elena over while they were together or how he slept with her literally a day or two after she broke up with Stefan. He also terrorized Stefan for over a century because Katherine was into him and made him a vampire even though Stefan was compelled throughout their relationship! Like, it's your brother, not some random dude, how dare you treat him like that
His humanity was off when he hurt Elena. But Damon hurt her knowingly.
I stopped watching TVD 😭 when Elena fell for DAMON ‼️ .... I LOVE YOU 💘 STEFAN SALVATORE 😘
I started believing in love after watching stelena.the show makers ruined them for the effervescent delena as a fanservice 🥺
East and west
Stelena is the best ✌❤ I mean at least a lot better than that sirebond ship🙂🙄
Thank you so much for making this video I hate Delena they shouldn’t have ended up together Epic Stelena Forever ❤❤
facts are elena was likeable when she was with stefan.
I'm really disappointed when Elena chooses Damon over Stefan.
When she become a Vampire, they say that her feelings for Damon magnified?
How about how she feels for Stefan, it doesn't magnified?
Is it more romantic in the story that even Stefan lose control of him self, Elena still choose him because she love him so much.
And no matter what happen they will still be together.
If TVD writters really want Nina & Ian to be partners , they can do it with Damon & Katherine. Two badass vampire fell inlove with each other.
I’m watching the full serie. Because the first time I tried to see it,I stopped it completely when she started getting close to Damon. That was when I was 15 years old, now I’m 24. And I’m trying hard to see it and not get depressed again, I tell myself that I have to accept it.
Thank god that I am not the only one who understands the body language of the actors 🙏🏽
Stefan & Elena trumps Damon and Elena ANYDAY ❤️🩹
I just love stelena 🥰 and I can't see they don't end up together😣
Last scene of stefan makes me cry 😢 😭....I love him ❤❤❤
stefan deserved better! he was nice and caring and damon was nothing but toxic and basically tried to kill her but like imagine how stefan felt after she literally dated him then got with his brother 💀
Stefan didn't even stalk her he just watched her damon was the one who kept stalking her following her
omg tysm ❤️❤️ like seriously you mentioned all the reasons why stefan >>>>>> Damon and why Stelena >>>>>> Delena , now I can send it to all my Delena shipper friends and say this is where I rest my case 😂❤️
Thank you so much for this video and stating all the facts. I used to be in guilt sometimes that may be I am different that I am unable to ship Delena despite 95% of audience ships them. I have watched TVD thrice and never been able to like Delena at all, its totally toxic. And we can clearly see the difference between Elena's personality that she became cringe after going into relationship with Damon. They have tried to display delena as imperfect epic sort of love but it is so so stupid. In real life no one can stand a guy like Damon literally I am telling you even the ones who are supporting delena can't live with a character like Damon. I don't know what to say, each and every clip you have added is exactly what I compare and there may be few more. Stefan is a green flag and Damon is jealous, toxic and red flag. I don't hate Ian and he himself says that Damon was a toxic character. Julie Plec is a wanna be woman who tried to show that Elena wanted adventure in her life (I still never understood what kinda adventure she had with Damon lol). Stefan gave Elena respect and even he respected all her relationships, her family, friends and fellows. I don't even blame Stefan for the bridge scene honestly sorry because he was mad with anger, he recently came back surviving his blood lust alone (nobody helped him, not elena or Damon), he was protecting Elena from Klaus and brought cure for Damon and what they did to him. He knew he had lost Elena already because he could clearly see Elena getting jealous when Damon was flirting with Rebekkah. Still Stefan never harmed Elena. He lost everything because he went with Klaus and he lost Elena and himself in process. I hate Julie Plec, I say it again that I hate Julie Plec. She ruined everything. She herself is a toxic woman who just tried to portray a toxic guy as becoming a hero for his love and tried to fancy delena and make it look like the main ship but the ones who are sane know this that Stelena was perfect green flag relationship and delena was shit toxic.
I’m Stefan and Stelena fan since day 1!!
i needed this video, never ever delete it
Stelena is my life
say it louder!!
literally so glad you made this video
Stelena >>>>> dullena
my fav ship forever
LOVE THIS VIDEO! Stelena Should Have Been Endgame #Stelena ❤❤❤
The relationship between Stefan and Elena was always pure love, while Delena was just about sexual chemistry and these stuff!
I've chosen Stelena always and forever.
You are my new best friend, aesthetic. A pity we’ll never meet but I’m a fan of your work whatever you bring forth on Yourube.
Stelena will always be the best ship ever.
Elena and Damon both didn’t deserve Stephen he was always there for them but they were never there for him
I was a Delena fan back there in 2009. I’m watching again this month (2023) and I’m all Stelena now. No doubt. That made me think. It’s my age, I grew and understood that relationships could be Nice, easy, calms…but in 2009 i was trapped in a relationship with “a damon” so how could i think different back then? Maturity comes from the time we spend making mistakes…sadly, some of us Will never learn. Stelena Team now! 💙💪🏻💪🏻
I don't know why they put her with Damon Stefan treat's her like a person Damon treats her like a object
Je suis Fan de votre émissions de vanpire daireis c'est vraiment une émissions que j' aime beaucoup de tout mon cœur 💋 merci beaucoup pour votre émissions 💋💋
As much as I’ve come to terms with Damon and Elena being endgame.
I still can’t help but coming back to both Stelena and Forwood moments.
I’ve been thinking about writing a fanfiction that makes them both endgame.
11:05 I’m seriously considering bringing this version of Elena back in a fan fiction series I’m working on
Damon snapped her brothers neck in front of her. Walked it off with ease.
Let’s suppose it really was Catherine but it was “his” deed.
He had no remorse.
What’s needed more than this-
I literally love this channel so much
Stelena forever, they should’ve lasted throughout the whole show. ❤
Stelena>delena, stefan and Elena should have become humans together (damon stay a vampire) & have kids together,like the hallucinations they had because of the Travelers that will have been the perfect ending for them.
Wanna add that when Stefan was compelled to hurt Elena, Klaus had to compel him TWICE because the first time Stefan resisted it out of sheer love for her.
Even I loved Elena and stefan❤️the whole destroyed when they made Elena and damon pair and Caroline and stefan
schönes Video von dir vielen Dank
Stelena will always have my heart. They were literally the definition of pure love. Not gonna lie delena did have passionate moments but for me that was just it only. Elenas personally completely changed when she got with Damon. SHE LITERALLY kept defending Damon when he made bad choices. Season 1-2 Elena would never allow a guy to change her morals and beliefs. Instead of elenas character to develop within the series she just kept getting worse and worse...
It's sad how people mistake Elena being a better person and more selfless with Stefan as her not loving him, simply because she's not picking him over everyone else that she loves.
im on your side 100% Selena was so much better, delena was too toxic and Damon never cared about human life.
amazing video im another diehard stelena fan!!
I have to be so for real delena is kinda toxic but Stelena was so amazing to me
Elean and Stefan all the way
I love the video but as a stelena fan you should know that Stefan didn't stalk Elena he just watched her to make sure she wasn't Katherine, he didn't follow her to the graveyard Damon was the one who stalked and terrorized her I don't know if you've heard of her but Zal on Tumblr and she's a stelena fan and she explains everything better and believe me if you're a stelena fan already you will underatand and fall more in stelena it's zalrb
As a Stelena I know he STALKED her because he's a vampire but he watched her because she looked like his ex girlfriend and wanted to know more about her because she could be the only reason of his miserable existence. He even said he wanted to leave town maybe he would but he couldn't leave without knowing her.
I'm a Stelena Stan but I'm not in denial or not gonna lie to myself that he didn't stalk her because he DID.
@@stelenaaesthetic2009 okay I have read numerous comments and I have to say that stefan didn't stalk elena. I looked up the definition of stalking g and it involves threatening and causing harm which stefan didn't do. At least I don't remember stefan causing any harm..
He did not harass or 0ersecute her in any way. He simply observed her from afar.
@@stelenaaesthetic2009 Watched from afar and & doing a background check on someone Isn’t Stalking. By literal definition.
I was most of the way through this when I had an epiphany Elena was a massive hypocrite in season 3 whenever she criticized Jeremy for wanting to retain an attachment to Anna who was dead, when she in season 6 was taking hallucination witch herbs so that she could love a ghost herself.
Also the fact that her friends blamed Luke for her actions. What the literal fk?!
personally i liked her and stefan and her and damon both relationships seemed very real
I was literally so mad when they broke up And even more mad when Elena and Damon Became a thing
In Damon's defense, he DID save Elena's life at least twice while she was with Stefan. Once when she was in the car and the other vampire made her crash the car and tried to attack her. Damon saved her and took her to Georgia to keep her safe. He saves her from being shot by taking an arrow in the back for her in the second season. Damon is the one who saves Elena from the hospital when she is being used by Klaus for her blood. All of this BEFORE she turned into a vampire and fell in love with him.
To be honest, they literally destroyed Elena character, and also other characters only to make it look like Damon is better…. Elena character such a amazing beautiful character, but they destroyed her completely changed her personality only so that she could be with Damon
who is responsible for making damon and elena get together
is it the producer(s)?
the scriptwriters?
how does it work?
worst thing to ever happen
idc how hot damon is
delena makes me barf
it ruined the show
and it broke stefans heart for what reason?
so delena can break up every 2 episodes
joke ting!
julie plecs fault.
5:53 delena shippers use this as defense
I will always choose Stefan and Elena. Such a shame they didn't get back together. For Damon he needs Elena to do the right thing. Whereas Stefan actually acknowledges the wrong that he has done.
Stelena should have been Endgame.... Stefan was the best thing that happened to Elena he is loving, caring and selfless and always respects her decisions unlike Damon
thank you for this you made me remember how much I hate Damon Salvatore thank you ❤
Honestly, I think we all want Stefan to end up with her in our imaginations because we all want the good guy to end up with the good girl. In a perfect world that's how it would happen. But we live in an imperfect world. Where the bad guy ends up with the good girl, all the time.😮😂