NEVER Ignore These RED FLAGS in Women!
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- In this video a doctor sent an email and explained how his ex wife destroyed his life.
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Never try to fix a woman.
Best advice. Bang on. 100%
Yeup!
You will for the better than they hate you for it.
@@benjamindixon4825 SO true!!!!!
@JustAGuy InBensalem Don't think you're the only one. We've all done it. If I think back to the effort, money and most valuable - time.......!!!!!!! What a waste. Absolute waste of my time avd efforts on birds that thought nothing about me. Not really. Still, we live and learn.
This is a horror story. These are the stories you tell your own sons at night, instead of the boogie man, because we live in a society with different kinds of monsters.
This is scarier than horror movies
Cuz horror movies are fake... And this is reality that nobody teaches
As Bill Burr said, women think the movie Titanic is romantic. Men see it as a male horror movie.
Dudes feeling sorry for himself no pity here. He was thinking with his dickhead. She did what she did because he allowed it. No sympanthy from him thinking with his dick head..
@@JDOGFTW Or he did what he was raised to believe. That he was lied to or misled. It maybe more he didn't have men in his life to tell him the facts.
A man who lacks purpose, distracts himself with pleasure.
Amen
Bro you don't have purpose too!I see your comments in every redpill content!!chill bro
@@losersbuycrypto470 yea, theyre all the same 🤣
Hahahahahha someone hurt this dude real bad
The only purpose you have in life is commenting this on every video
In 41 year's I've learned that you can chase your dreams or you can chase women. Your dreams will never wake up one day and tell you ,"I don't love you anymore."
So bloody true!!!
Or be smelly in bed or ask what you're doing in the bathroom. Or ask you what you're laughing at on your phone or the tv.
well said sir, well said.
@@mrsalviboy94 That's exactly right...your achievements will never disappoint you or break your heart.
But what if your dream is to find a good lady...
There is your paradox.
Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s
1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset
2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention.
3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone
4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date.
5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you.
6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life
7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating
8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel
9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun
10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.
That’s amazing man. I am gonna screenshot this.
Amen
@@PartTimeBallroomDancing already did 🤝
Yall guys act like male feminists
11. Always have in mind you can always dump her. If you are afraid to lose her, you lose.
This happens when people watch movies like “pretty woman”
You don’t wife up a hooker - just pay her for leaving.
@@edm-london1660 Same thing I learned in Catholic school. Even though I consider myself a lapsed Catholic, the principals served me well.
😆
Fair transaction, and cheaper in the long run than signing a contract with the state guaranteeing your bride will get half your stuff or more when you divorce
Once a whore always a whore.
Ala Charlie Harper....
Doesn’t matter how smart or rich you are, choosing the wrong woman will disorganise your life.
A wise man once said “I don’t pay a hooker for sex, I pay her to leave”.
underrated comment!
Who was this wise man ,I need a name !
@@user-jk3dz2st7u It was actually Charlie Sheen LoL
@@shaneashby5890 OH Shit, how I did I forget that 😂
I love my hookers no drama no nothing just good times
People are always surprised when doctors, lawyers etc still fall for this stuff. Being a doctor doesn’t mean you are intelligent, it just means you are specialised.
exactly
Lmao cut it out. Try even going to pre med school and see how hard that shit is.
@@Way2Raw so? Medical degrees are hard and getting them just shows that you worked your ass off for that. But that doesn't guarantee that you will have the smarts or experience to be doing anything else with as much finesse.
@@Way2Raw does not mean you have social intelligence. Intellect is not just measured at the steps of pre med, Sir.
This is why I always say to people wisdom is greater than intelligence. You can have a PhD in nuclear physics and get straight A's in school, but still make absolutely horrendous relationship decisions. Highly intelligent people tend to lack street smarts and wisdom.
"There is no limit for what a crazy woman will do within her power to destroy a good man"
Wish I'd heard this 20 years ago
Facts
Crazy is an understatement. She is an evil woman!
"Cluster B" personality disorder is worst!
@@Zlatko730 facts dated one before
I'm 55 and ditto 😎
Never discount your intuition, it’s always right.
“I wanted to fix her.” Not your job dude.
@Michael Kelly exactly
You cannot help her or fix her. Ever. Don’t you even try, you will only lose.
Facts
"Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved" - J Cole
Actually he got that from 36 Mafia
Thats the job of the indoctrinated brainwashed police...
Project Pat my guy
Facts
This is a horror story - wow
I'm actually sitting here shaking with anger for this poor guy.
Ruining his life and god knows how many others due to stressing him out and hindering his neurosurgery practice - those guys are in high demand. She's dragging him through $3M of lawyers fees and court dates when he could be doing brain surgery on a child's tumor.
Indeed. It was not just her either. Family Court was on her side, his own lawyers milked him dry with zero result. If this does not convince someone not to get married I don't know what will.
You're not the only one mad as hell about this...compared to this guy, I got off easy.
My heart rate is through the roof just hearing this..
@@jakeb5010 Actually same. That was bone-chilling.
He did that to himself 🤷🏼♂️
This is what my friends and I call hardcore simping. Learn from this guy, so you don't become a living documentary of him to your friends.
I dated my ex for three years. Her mental illness didn’t come out until our daughter was born a year into marriage. Now I pay $700/month CP and eat minimally, my daughter won’t speak to me, and my ex is on meds and won’t work while living better than I do. They will take anything you manage to make, no matter your income, and will do nothing to earn their lifestyles. She even got the house I paid for before marriage.
Take warning, you younger guys. The state hates you
2 things in life:
1. You either learn from other people’s experience(s) or
2. You learn from yours.
Either ways, you learn. What you do after that is all that matters. Most people start as SIMPs actually due to the society, they never just admit it.
So, to every SIMP out there, you still have a chance. REDEMPTION awaits you on the other side. Good luck 🍀
True, but there still exists a 3rd group: People who don't learn at all. You can recognize them by the many times they divorced.
Time is always ticking remember life is countdown is not a stopwatch
@@IbrahimHassanDayTrade This is deep facts
sadly , I am #2. but it is such a valuable lesson learned , probably the most important lesson, I have learnt so far , if only I could tell my 19 year old self about this
Even the mafia would have some mercy at this point, not her obviously.
They call it a shake down.
Lol
Lmao
Embezzlement, extortion, psychological torture lmao bitch gave dog the works 😭💀😂
'The Godmother' ?
I was once asked by a young man how do you know you are marrying the right women? As a woman I said image you are in an accident and you lose the ability to care for yourself relying on that woman to care for you if you were incapacitated. If you cannot imagine that woman caring for you then she is not the one.
I injured my back and was in incredible pain. Eventually I had to have surgery. My ex-wife was too busy to take me to doctor appointments. A friend had to come get me. While I was in surgery, my wife was at work. Her excuse was that, not being a doctor, there wasn't anything she could do to help me. I wonder what her reaction would have been if I had gone to work while she was in labor. After all, I'm not a doctor.
Truth.
@@redshark9537 good women are out there. My sister has been with her man for 32 years and always goes with him to all his doctors appointments (he's had cancer) and advocates on his behalf to make sure he gets proper care. Love happens.
@@suzannas.4965 No doubt a few are, but not nearly enough to go around.
@@pennyappellatia It's simple math: there aren't many good women; the demand for good women greatly exceeds the supply. An abundance mindset does not increase the supply.
This dude lost more than I will ever have. I hope he recovers better than ever befor!
Yer, like 13 times over he lost.
Dont worry he will make loads of money over his lifetime...he will be targeted by gold diggers though. He needs to get better at recognizing neurotic, sociopathic, narcissitic women...je will,either learn those lessons or not...many physicians have multiple ex wives because
they were targeted by gold diggers but most women are not golddiggers. If a woman is obsessed by her appearance to the exclusion of all else...if a woman has had many relationships and loves to party, if she NEEDS to be looked at and admired, if she is manipulative run. If ine single thing she says turns out to have been a lie...run.But you better be honest too because good women follow these rules too.
Marrying a borderline can be a fatal mistake. No exaggeration. Best case outcome is permanent injury, physical and mental. They say stress can kill you. They're right. It can also cause permanent damage. PTSD is no joke.
some bpds are pathological liars and don't mention their condition .
@@ozansimitciler5781 mine didnt … It was hard to tell until the red flags popped up
HOW CAN YOU KNOW?? please give me some tips. my gf might be this.
Personally, I think a lot of covert narcs are misdiagnosed with BPD, making it an even more risky proposition. I have a solid understanding of psychology, especially in the realm of cluster B personality disorders, and even I ended up with a histrionic Narc who I thought had BPD. That said, it only took me about 3 months to figure this out… and yeah, even by then the PTSD symptoms were present. My life was falling apart rapidly… ride of my life though, I’ll give her that
I'm a married women and I'm just here for the stories and each time I come here, I feel more and more sorry for men.
Are all women this bad?
So you are a good wife?
And women will call you insecure for looking through their phone 😂 lol I’ll stay single thank you very much
Funny but if they do that to you you’re not supposed to say anything 🤣🤦🏾♂️. They think they can fool us
There is nothing wrong with looking through a woman's phone. Any women who freaks over that is a cheater or is planning on it. Any decent woman would not only mind it, but welcome it. Because it's an easy test she can pass if she's loyal.
@@zsuzsuspetals I agree my girlfriend lets me use her phone all the time, best relationship ive ever been in. Every relationship were they were defensive of their phone they were doing questionable things and the relationship was unstable due to their bullshit.
Yup, I know my guys passcode and he knows mine. If he wants to look through my phone he'll find memes and cat pictures 😂😂😂
@@zsuzsuspetals My ex wife went through my wallet. I should have realized she was checking to see what she thought I would do if I was her.
I’m forty one, I needed this when I was eighteen.
Damn bro. Late learner I guess.....
Better to be late to the party than be stuck with the same crazy broad lol
Big Money Will
17 😎
your will to spell those number in words amaze me
I’m 22 single and no kids longest relationship was 2 months, glad I’m learning about women early rule number 1 never get married..
If that's your rule #1 than make rule #0 to not have kids.
I got married, divorced and don’t want to ever get married again. So if you ask me you are thinking in the right path for a 22 year old. Lol
@@prahyectzeh7031 why not? Kids are just kids. You don't marriage to be happy....
Best and only chance of it working and even then no guarantees is if you guys share the same faith and you're both legit into it separately for yourselves. The old saying that if you want to find a good girl look in church carries some truth to it...SOME. If she's there for any reason other than her love of God then it zeros out to the same as any ordinary woman of the streets, possibly even worse haha.
Ivanzter, Make 100% certain ALL the time about birth control -- unless you want kids who will be raised by the various women that you impregnate and who will be after you for money. Get a vasectomy as soon as possible, and remember it's not safe to go raw until a urologist certifies sterility, usually a month and a half to two months after the procedure. And don't listen to lies that your little man won't work anymore. It'll work fine.
Just because you went to University doesn’t make you smart, it gets you educated.
The life of hard knocks wins all the time.
As someone who experienced firsthand a woman with borderline personality disorder....it really, really changes you...
Me too brother. Mine was a covert narcissist and one of the most abusive people I have ever had the misfortune of having in my life. They really do change your perspective on future relationships.
Truth!
Can confirm, the constant lack of any love , care or respect really got to me after 20 years .
Borderline personality disorder isn’t real, it’s merely women exercising their nature because they’re absolved of all responsibility and consequences.
Fuck yeah it does, dear God man, we go in strong and optamistic, and out a wreck
I was with a crazy woman for 4 years and it definitely took its toll on my mental, emotional and physical health. I lived alone with a trusty dogue for 4 years after that while I went through a healing process and a period of introspection. This is good advice to heed.
Just got out of a 5 year relationship with a crazy (BPD) woman ! I hope it doesn’t take that long to heal … sheesh! (I’m 25 now
I’ve just got out of a toxic relationship also slowly healing but looking for a puppy now lol I love animals more loyal than humans that’s for sure.
Yes good advice bro but the crazy chick sex was amazing. This I know too much 😎
Your story sounds exactly like mine. Except I’m only at the one year and eight months point since separation. Still going through a horrible divorce with this nut job that’s turning it into a clown show circus. It’s ridiculous! I live with my two dogs now and it’s so much more peaceful.
@@MrKokoboy your average snake is more loyal than a human
One of mine from experience, when talking about why her and her ex broke up… “he was controlling”. Means: “I was being shady and he called me out on it”.
My family looks at me crazy when I stand my ground against marriage. This is worse than any horror I can imagine in my suburban life
Same friends and family think I'm crazy when I saw marriage is completely beneficial to women and the opposite for men. It's very risky for guys.
Date for two years? Nooooo. Man, a women can bottle up the crazy for ten years, fifteen years through marriage and beyond. But have that baby and at last, she'll let it out and never put it back.
As a woman with three sons, I'm extremely concerned about the options available to them. So many women are taking men to the cleaners out of bitterness. I was married before, and didn't take any material thing of his with me, not even the house. Requested that we both have joint custody of our children, and didn't want any child support because he takes care of his children. My ex-husband was unfortunately very toxic to me (abusive and cheating behind my back), but I still didn't railroad him. For this reason, I just don't understand why a lot of women are behaving this way.
You sound like one of the good ones. Could you be 25 again and jump into my world? 😂
There is always a good one and a bad one..gender doesn't matter...
Rare it is to have a good one and another good one..
evil man+good woman
or
evil woman + good men.
people who are not trained to see evil, will see good as evil
This is common...Women that are nice met narrcisstic men, and the men railroad them. Men..that are good, get railroaded by WOMEN..I saw it over the years 100 percent of the time...ALWAYS..however, the legal system in the video is ACCURATE, men at are a disadvantage in the courts and so on. Mine was an exceptional case since, I had my ducks in a row, and she was so outlandish. AMD I won. But many men arent so lucky. Here is the thing, narrsiissts dont go with narrsiissts, and co dependants dont match with co dependances, the waltz MUST be played by players from BOTH sides, figure out who you are and be careful, if your co dependant, be careful who you waltz with.
It’s really turned into a clown show circus. It’s really ridiculous nowadays. I feel sorry for these younger guys.
Did you cheat all or stopped having sex with him? Trying to understand.
Marriage contracts should penalize infidelity..
Women most affected
Well yer, once they did.
A marriage “contract” is a business agreement between two people. The business of making a product = children. The business makes children for the “State” aka, future tax payers. That’s all it is. “The Law & Contract” do not care about your feelings, sexuality or infidelity, only the “child product” &/or if there was fraud of finances against the contract. This was/is the fight for equality under the law for women. A truly equal separation of marital “business assets” didn’t happen until recently. Law always favored the male because they were the money earners and could care for the children (Product). Now, women are big money earners and can take care of the children w/help from government run daycare/schools, etc. Law always favors the best interest of their product (children). - Wake Up.
Best deal is to not get married. If you really love her, have a live-in relationship. When the love fades you can decide what to do.
What laws do the courts uphold definitely not God's laws.
I am very grateful to discover this channel at the age of 28. I am not saying I won't get married, but I will definitely be more aware of the so-called modern women. My uncles always told me to watch out for women since I am a wealthy person due to family inheritance. It is sad for me to see many men get screwed over. Thank you for all these information you are sharing.
Do not risk your inheritance!!!!
Be very wary of any female getting close to you. Do they like you for you or the inheritance they could siphon from you. Glad you’re at least aware, it has already saved you from potential destruction.
Don't get married bro wtf
Steven, Keep your wealth 'inconspicuous'. Drive a Honda or a Ford pickup instead of a BMW. Live below your means. Have a nice 2 bdrm apt or condo instead of a house. Condos are a good bet when single, because you can be gone for extended periods without worry of break-in. If you own a house, move out and use it as a rental property while living in that condo or apt. Don't patronize expensive restaurants. There are lots of great places to eat for less than $20 a person. Become familiar with them all. Unlike most men here, I do think there are trustworthy women out there, but you've got to vet them well, and keep your wealth below the radar as much as possible.
Don't settle! But dont forget to get laid either. Just smash and pass, enjoy your life like a bachelor. If you want a child, go pay a Russian woman to have your offsprings. I have a businessman friend (he's gay) he's paying Russian girls to get pregnant with his seeds, he has 6 kids already from different Russian mothers
I realize how lucky I am to have found this type of content in my early 20s. Jesus christ. I almost got hitched with a single mommy
Run, Forrest, Run!
That would have been a huge mistake.
Lol
Watch out! For your biology.
It's still tickin'. 🕚💨
The worst mistake of my life was marrying a chick that was incredibly hot, freaky in bed, and highly successful in college. When I found myself eventually thinking of ways to get away with murdering her - I knew it was time to call it quits. But I was so close it's hard to describe. Years later, I'm single and own my home (outright) and do pretty much anything I want. Last time I heard she married had kids and got divorced (one of my girlfriends was Facebook stalking her) and nothing makes me happier than thinking of her being a single mom and trying to use her blown out snatch to lure some poor schmuck into being a step-dad to whatever fucked up kids she brought into the world. I'm so lucky to have gotten out when I did, and to not be legally bound to that psychopathic narcissist.
Then she tries to shame betas into providing resources to her child by saying only real men takes care of another man's genetics. You're not a real man if you don't do as she says lol. I've heard so many shaming language I've become numbed to them.
ALPHA SEED, BETA NEED!
Blown out snatch? She still could be hot looking and good in bed. Men cannot resist that and ignore red flags.
also, you got that snatch while it was still tight and firm. good for you bruh.
you got out just in time. I always tell people, know when to walk out at the 1st warning sign you see.
dont even wait for 2nd and 3rd warning. when shytt3 hits the fan, you dont wanna be anywhere around her.
That snatch will be looking like the Holland tunnel
Due diligence failures will get you every time. I've had people with impressive degrees retain me, and those with nothing - thinking with your heart, and not with your head will cost you every single time.
women be like that
Excellent advice sir , you are correct. I am trying to think this way
Won’t cost me another dime or degree of sanity. With all due respect, I will not be needing the services you provide ever again. Marriage is a joke. A relationship with a female is a joke.
Every man needs to watch this video prior to getting married. Do what Rich says - vet your woman for at least two years. If she shows red flags, end the relationship - do not negotiate. After you are married, it doesn’t matter what she does or how many lies she tells. Short of her beating up the kids, family court will always side with her. She and the court will work together to destroy you. Fair warning.
Bro WTF! That's crazy. Women like that need to be held responsible by society. That's why they keep doing sh!t like that.
Facts bro
@@AyoCoat for real
Narcissists don't fear consequences
The moment a woman begins “demanding” anything from you, that’s the moment as a man where you gotta stop and think: “do I really want my life being dictated by this chick?”
Lol facts. I was talking with a fwb. Until I realised I was giving way too much attention to her. And she was most likely cheating on her bf with me (we had sex before), but even though I was not certain about that, I decided to go cold and barely reply. She then texts me “where’s my attention”. Blocked and removed her number.
@@v380riMz I’m not advocating treating women poorly. I think my main objective in life is keeping myself from being fucked over by anyone.
@@v380riMz good bro. The moment a woman starts saying "attention" its time to dip. If you genuinely arent giving them the attention they deserve then they will leave. If you are giving them the attention they deserve but theyre acting like youre not then they dont deserve you.
This same thing happened to me except the amount! It’s a perfect mirror of my situation! Where do these women come from? It’s got to be hell! When real evil is from!
I have such empathy with this surgeon, because my story after 24 years of marriage (which ended in 2015) is almost a verbatim copy.
Wow!
Oh you poor man.
And I was selfish enough to just think my modest story was worth a book. When there are millions of tales!
Why didn't it stop at year 1?
Spot on. Modern women are certifiable. I had a woman I was actually engaged to tell me, to my face, "promises aren't always meant to be kept" when caught in a pattern of lies and broken promises. Needless to say, I took the ring back and ended the engagement on the spot.
Ouch! They never disappoint I swear! Ive never been through this married however, I've ended multiple relationships after experiencing the same red flags. They always reveal their true self once the "I'm a good Girl" Fades.. Back to the streets you go
Yep, you got past 'The Representative'.
If she's willing to sleep with you before marriage she's not a good girl
File this under ‘Mandatory Viewing’ for young men
What a horror story!! My God I got so much stress and anxiety listening to this story. I can only imagine the hell this poor guy went through. If you’re reading this, I’m so sorry my brother about this nightmare you went through. You absolutely do not deserve this! Unbelievable. Hope you are doing better these days. 🙏🏻
Much better now
At least he got kids out of all of this. It's just sad it had to be this way
My advice to you guys, is to marry a woman with high empathy. They make great mothers and care about the family. I’ve dated loads of women, I had a lingerie company when I was in my 20s, been with models, business type women. They’re awful partners.
Do you think public responder type career girls fit this mould, people of service. Like nurses. Or is it more general?
@@gregorysagegreene I’m sure they do. Women are generally more interested in people, men are interested in things. I would say someone who puts the family first and has a high priority to take care of others. A lack of empathy in my opinion makes a terrible family environment, and family is important if you don’t want to be lonely when you’re old.
Great advice. I also dated some lingerie-models. For some reason model girls seems to like me more than other girls, no idea why though but i dont complain.
But the level of male attention they get have totally messed with their brains and they often only chase status, money or generally dont know what they want.
So my question how do you select and spot those high empathy women? Do you ask any specific question at dates and so on?
@@born1in1a1sauna generally they put other before themselves. My wife cries at sad movies etc. She considers family to be the most important rather than money.
That all being said I guess it’s hard to explain, though the models really only care about wealth and status, it’s very odd isn’t it. Though they’re good fun and they’re always hungry so a date isn’t hard to get.
@@gregorysagegreene be extremely cautious of nurses homie. Nurses in my experience fit into 2 categories: The nicest most caring people in the world, and mean girls from highschool who never grew up and are using nursing to make others think theyre caring. The problem with going for "caring people" is a lot of people can fake empathy surprisingly well
My mother hit me. Made me walk on a floor with glass. Fed us chips... as all meals. My dad finally won custody. And ...and after he died ... she claims she was never abusive
Back when I was still looking for someone, I decided to not pursue relationships and started to remove myself from the scene. I later realized I had dodged a bipolar one (she said so afterwards). You never know what kind of minefield you're walking into.
This is what happens when a broad doesn't respect the man in the relationship she will constantly push all boundaries cause she knows hes too much of a simp to stand up for himself lol
Heery heeray we know label this doctor the KING OF SIMPS!
The guy had 0 self esteem. How the hell you don't break up with someone you learn was lying to you?
If someone tried to screw me over big time, I can guarantee you that this person will 'mysteriously' dissappear. I'm not an evil person, but don't make me turn in to one.
You need to watch Stevie Wright's song clip, 'Black Eyed Bruiser'.
Sounds like she was a narcissist too.
*Marriage after 2 mos. - Love Bombing Stage
*Abuse during marriage - Devaluing Stage
*Divorce - Final Discard
It’s not marriage that will ruin your life, it’s the people you get involved with.
The reality of people and their sin is shocking. The lies, the deceit, the pathological lack of empathy.
Truly a nightmare scenario.
I hope this guy finds happiness.
Lord Jesus help us all!
side note don't count long distance relationship as time towards the 2 years. They can easily hide who they are long distance
This video sums up perfectly why men and more specifically husbands/ex-husbands have such high suicide rates.
without these male spaces we would never hear these stories, only experience them first hand.
Um, yer.
I think coach red pill was talking about one thing that stuck in my head: "Woman have to fear you". And we're not talking about just beeing afraid of getting punched in the face. We're talking about deep respect. Fear of consequences. Like a child that stops misbehaving when dad looks/talks in a certain way. Everytime I hear storys like told in the video I can't stop asking myself "If she feared/respected her man. Would she dare to act like she did?". Well.. I'd guess it takes some time to obtain this "Aura" or find the answers. I am glad I have priceless content like this. Thank you for that and greetings from Germany
@iVGizatullin what CRP video was it? Sadly it sounds true, heard so many times Fear is the best motivating factor for people aka sheeple 🐑
Trust me. He could have been a cop or President of the US, and she STILL would have behaved the same. This isn't about that he cannot command respect, this is more about that the woman was EVIL by nature, and she was GOING to have HER WAY weather he was tough or tender. Until you have dealt with a person like this, men or woman, you will not heed the gravity of the situation. God forbid that you become ensnared by a woman like this, because it is truly sinister and hell. ✌️
Man muss es sie einfach wissen lassen dass man größere Ziele und Erwartungen vom Leben hat als eine Frau und dann verhalten sie sich automatisch differenziert (meine Erfahrung) Ich denke mir immer "i want them to either love me or hate me" in beiden Szenarien bin ich in deren Kopf und nicht umgekehrt
This is the most traumatic divorce story I've heard in a while...
Probably the best decision I ever made in life was and is to never get married . I had my own business and retired at 54 .. I'm now 63 and all of my friends are married or divorced .. everyone of them tell me I'm the happiest person they have ever met ... well that's a no brainer on why .. haha
And how you fill your sexual needs?
I can’t even imagine being betrayed by your wife so deeply, then having her sue, turn your kids against, have to pay her. How these wives and judges are able to just walk away like they did nothing is astonishing.
I going to leave my wife, when my son was 5. He wrote a letter to Santa, ask for no presents, but his family stay together. I could C how stressed he was. I promised him I would never leave. He 18 now. I wish I left 13 years ago, for him
This is why 'red flags' are so important to a lot of us. Accepting that there are people who do not experience empathy, is probably the hardest pill to swallow. Especially if you are the type who think they have enough love to 'cure' that type.
Hardest pill to swallow was that God exists, but so does the Devil and he has many of his minions here on Earth..Those are the people without empathy that you speak of.
@@DwyaneWadeCounty Am told its the lack of love & care from their parents. It's like an empathy circumcision. We are lucky, that wasn't performed on us.
I had a lucky escape after 1 year, but not without intense stress and many attempts to get rid of her. Stories like this are so infuriating if you've been through it yourself.
Facts
I'm hurting while listening to this it's sad so sad
Getting married in AMERICA is a straight walk to the SLAUGHTERHOUSE for MEN, I could be a Millionnaire by now.
Ka Ching $, Ka Ching $.
In my next life I want to be a woman in America who takes half of every man's money. Have the welfare and justice system protect me.
Classic Narcissism.
Devastating
Prenups are insurance policies for the man who has his shit together; marriage is insurance for the fefail who knows her SMV can easily go once she acts up...
prenups arent sh1t. they get thrown out by a gynocentric judge, each and every day
@@Ascension_3030 marriage is a state or provincial jurisdiction. If it was executed properly, you should not have a problem. A prenup is a contract. It should be prepared and executed as a contract.
Pre nups are nearly useless in North America.
A judge can tear your prenup up in front of you and tell you to wipe your ass with it.
If a woman challenges it, it’s not worth the paper it’s written on. Not saying some judges won’t honor it, but none are obligated to.
Womens' 'Plan B' is always their 'A Game'.
she rushed him so he wldnt see her flaws
This is the most shocking story I’ve ever heard!! Thought mine was bad.
We only have our selves to blame guys.
I honestly feel like crying for this dude
He stuck around for too long.
Sad man
He caused it himself. Doctor Simp.
This SH!T makes me sick to my stomach! I got off good with a ex-wife that didn't go after me for everything but family law still heavily favored her and here I am paying for several years in order to still support her and another 10+ year to support my children who are actually with me most of the time, when I had no choice in the divorce just because she decided she was in love with some ex-boyfriend.
Imagine you are a hiring manager at a local Bank. You interview a guy and ask him to describe himself and his hobbies. He tells you that he LOVES stealing! He's a hard-core thief. He steals from everyone, his parents, girlfriends, past employers....he thinks it's fun and likes to brag about it. He says that over the years he has probably stolen about 13,000 dollars from different jobs he's had. But, now he wants to work for you....and he wants you to pay NO attention to his past thievery......because his past shouldn't matter. Would you hire him??
Spot on. There is no limit.
This guy paid the price so I don't have too. I'm 32 and I own my house, cars, boats etc. I never married, keeping it bachelor all the way! And I'm glad I learned this before I made that mistake. Because man its easy to do when its happening.
A neurosurgeon got his cheeks busted in. lol.
Thanks to the MD who shared this. And good point at the end about the extent that women are willing to go. Helps keep bad situations in perspective.
Unbelievable, but true!
Main lesson here is do not rush into any relationship.
Take your time and test her.
Unbelievable. I feel gracious my ex left and I never heard from her again. Not even when the divorce was finalized
@Michael Kelly you are correct. She wanted nothing, she took what she wanted, we had no kids. As much as it hurt I think it made the process "easier (for lack of better terms)". If we were in contact or she stayed till it was over it would have sucked even more.
Keep up the important work you are doing Rich regarding men and the social dynamics with women. You have an important voice. The nay sayers are irrelevant. Love your content.
This is such an amazing example that this behavior comes at all levels of education. Having been married to a internal medicine provider who sounds like her sister. Please listen to what this man has to say.
When a woman professes she is the breadwinner and belittling you, , GET OUT. Agree. And to have children with a woman like this is a horrific life long curse.
As I did...my father told me "it's okay for the husband to make more money, but when the wife makes more money she will throw it in your face" . THANKS DAD!
ALL women who make more money than her man never take care of her man or wont share it with him. Its a fact of life.
I needed to hear this about 15 years ago. I ended up marrying a borderline, and she tried to destroy me as well. Still to this day every now and then she still tries some bullshit.
@Michael Kelly this stuff needs to be taught to people. I was raised from two parents that were honest and had integrity. Their word was everything. When you grow up like that you tend to see all people that way because you don’t know anything else. lol now I’m much better at reading people and reading the bullshit.
I'm teaching my son on the red flags of bpd to stay away. They are out there on dating apps!
Borderline personality disorder isn’t real, it’s merely women’s nature when they’re absolved of responsibility and consequences.
@@visionforetold4568 🤣🤣 what? Bpd is very much real.
@@jaybo619 it’s a made up disorder to absolve people (mostly women) of responsibility
Never ignore the red flags guys. I got involved with a chick who was a walking red flag and I ignored all of it and it not me nowhere is except taken advantage of and used and then left for dead in the end. Idk how I fell for her, had every red flag in the book, daddy issues, covered in tattoos, tongue piercing, and overall a mental headcase she was. Unfortunately being the good man I am that cares about people I looked past all her issues and thought It was possible for her to be a relationship quality girl cause she had convinced me…. Don’t ever listen to what these types of girls say, the red flags are there, words mean jack shit.
It got me***
It has me now. Started looking into this stuff. Wish I did it sooner.
If she looks like a monster, she's a monster
A neurosurgeon has to deal with this kind of stuff!? Crazy times we r living in!!!
Never give her anything.
Wow, smh 🤦♂️
How is this possible? How can the legal system allow this ?
Legal System should always be written as "Legal System"...
Powerful video. Thanks Rich
Really good advice.. Apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree.
My fiance left a few days ago after 8 years. We were supposed to move to a new city and get married in a few months as she got a job. She left me the day i got assigned my own satellite office for my current company in said city. Im 26 so needless to say its a great opportunity. Gonna take it. Gonna be hard but hearing stories like this makes me feel like my situation is nothing. Life is scary.
So accurate. I'm 52 now I hope I watched this video 20 years ago. On behalf of guys like me who did not have their "spidy senses" thanks Rich. 👍
Shame on the legal system that stand by and do nothing while guys like these gets ripped apart. This burden is on their conscience, not on anybody else. His could have been a peaceful and abundant life, except for this woman.
Fun fact, we are living in times where they are talking about gender neutrality and equality and all that crap. Shame on the society that treats its men like this.
Thanks for sharing your story Mr. anonymous. Really appreciate this.
Absolutely the truth. The more and better you know about any woman, the more informed of a decision about what your lives will be like together long term.
One moment of appreciation for the fact most of us are alive in a timeline where we can get all this information from the internet.
Anyone who lived way before us, didn't get as lucky.
Yer like me, I'm learning after the fact, and well after learning from the pain.
The thing is the internet is kinda making this sort of behaviour more prevalent. Back in the old days women wouldnt meet a man unless her parents met that man first.
Weddings and funerals have a lot in common. Clergy and family involved,being dressed up, flowers, crying and loss of life for the man.
Thx for your site…its a comfort to see other men in the same situation..its sad though..should not be that way..that’s life’s
Glad I’m not the only one to have ever made those mistakes. So many parallels to my first marriage. Learned all of this the hard way.
This man is the reason why this content exist.
If she threatens to kill herself if you leave, you must go.. cold? Yes. Life is for the living..walk away.
I haven’t seen anyone getting married in years. Long ago you would see them outside churches, hotels, taking photos, cars decorated. I haven’t seen that in ages.
On point as usual, thank you Rich !