This is a literal Godsend. I have been praying for help raising my HSC. He’s been diagnosed with ASD, ADHD, SPD and most recently doctors are beginning to suspect ODD…which has been an issue for us since before he could talk. Now it seems that just maybe most things can be explained by his “orchid” nature. Regardless, we have needed this insight so badly for years now and will continue doing research. In the meantime we continue having him treated for the other issues and learning what we as parents can do to nurture him better no matter what the cause of his difficulties. We aren’t discounting the other diagnoses by any means but hope that maybe we drop some of his medications if possible. We are extremely proud of the young man our little one is becoming despite many set backs and extremely difficult times. He’s the blessing we waited almost 20 years to have and we want to do right by him ❤️
Half of this video is the question and the other half is answering in riddles without concrete examples. Every video I found about hsc is like this. Nerve wrecking. I'm an orchid myself but my parents screwed me up really good and now at 35 I'm dealing with my own 2 year old very hs. I live in Belgium where there is little to no understanding for this trait. I'd love to see a longer podcast with tips for different ages especially little toddlers. Because if you screw up the beginning it's hard to fix... Please do a long podcast about this. I'd be forever grateful 🙏
Am a highly sensitive mother to a HSC age 5 and following my steps and ive had 3 PTA meetings in school because she's misunderstood at school alot. My first daughter is special 💕
I am an HSP (highly sensitive person) myself, and I have a 5 year old following close behind. This is so good. I also highly recommend reading "The Highly Sensitive Person" by Elaine Aron.
I got introduced to Elaine's website and it change my perspective on my sensitivity. That its a great gift rather than being a weakness. Now I've got a sensitive step daughter I do my best to support her, but it can be very challenging.
This episode was a big eye opener for me! Especially the fact that you both talked about the specifics and studies relating to sensitivity. I’ll certainly be sharing this one with my friends.
We have many of them highly sensitive gifted kids. Spd Adhd find out kids passion love them unconditionally. Encourage them to follow there dreams. My kids are most giving men if anyone is broke down on rd 1st one to help.
I'm assuming your child is highly sensitive. Reason I say this is because I usually don't expect to see you in places like this, and I like it! Btw I like the videos made Joe, God bless you and your family!
Yalls show is wonderful. I don't have a family yet but I enjoy planning and imagening what it could be. Could you expand on you "family block schedule"?
How do you establish a consistent routine when the child lives 50/50 with each parent? It’s difficult because my ex husband and I have completely different parenting styles and value systems. So difficult 😞
Communication is key to coparenting in separate homes I have found this out as I am helping raise a child that is not biologically mine nor was I married to my daughters mother but I’m all she’s ever known as a father and I will continue to be her father until her or her mother were to choose other wise but anyways me and my ex have very different parenting styles and some different values and/or morals but we’ve found that through communication we can kinda blend our parenting styles (I guess you could say) enough that it eventually can streamline into one style as parents you both need to realize that at the end of the day you both have to find a common ground even if it’s uncomfortable for either of you it will give comfort to the child and will also help your coparenting relationship imo. Coparenting isn’t about what’s best for either parent but what’s best for the child/children and in turn I think would bring more comfort to you both as parents in the end because you know that child is healthy mentally and the child will see that both parents love the them enough to set there differences aside even though it maybe hard.
Hey. I have a very intelligent 6 year old son. Who is very observant that can find out if i had a stressful day or im not in a good mood even if i try to mask it as much as i can. Its very stressing for him and for us.
Thank you guys for speaking on this. I have a highly sensitive daughter. She is so special to me. ❤️
glad it was helpful Chantal!
This is a literal Godsend. I have been praying for help raising my HSC. He’s been diagnosed with ASD, ADHD, SPD and most recently doctors are beginning to suspect ODD…which has been an issue for us since before he could talk. Now it seems that just maybe most things can be explained by his “orchid” nature. Regardless, we have needed this insight so badly for years now and will continue doing research. In the meantime we continue having him treated for the other issues and learning what we as parents can do to nurture him better no matter what the cause of his difficulties. We aren’t discounting the other diagnoses by any means but hope that maybe we drop some of his medications if possible.
We are extremely proud of the young man our little one is becoming despite many set backs and extremely difficult times. He’s the blessing we waited almost 20 years to have and we want to do right by him ❤️
Half of this video is the question and the other half is answering in riddles without concrete examples. Every video I found about hsc is like this. Nerve wrecking. I'm an orchid myself but my parents screwed me up really good and now at 35 I'm dealing with my own 2 year old very hs. I live in Belgium where there is little to no understanding for this trait. I'd love to see a longer podcast with tips for different ages especially little toddlers. Because if you screw up the beginning it's hard to fix... Please do a long podcast about this. I'd be forever grateful 🙏
Am a highly sensitive mother to a HSC age 5 and following my steps and ive had 3 PTA meetings in school because she's misunderstood at school alot. My first daughter is special 💕
I am an HSP (highly sensitive person) myself, and I have a 5 year old following close behind. This is so good. I also highly recommend reading "The Highly Sensitive Person" by Elaine Aron.
thanks for the tip Shannon!
I got introduced to Elaine's website and it change my perspective on my sensitivity. That its a great gift rather than being a weakness. Now I've got a sensitive step daughter I do my best to support her, but it can be very challenging.
This episode was a big eye opener for me! Especially the fact that you both talked about the specifics and studies relating to sensitivity. I’ll certainly be sharing this one with my friends.
thanks so much!
We have many of them highly sensitive gifted kids. Spd Adhd find out kids passion love them unconditionally. Encourage them to follow there dreams. My kids are most giving men if anyone is broke down on rd 1st one to help.
Thank you
I'm assuming your child is highly sensitive. Reason I say this is because I usually don't expect to see you in places like this, and I like it! Btw I like the videos made Joe, God bless you and your family!
My son is being misunderstood at school for being a highly sensitive child the sad part is that it’s his very first time in a preschool environment 😞
When you talk about routine, do u mean like for example: dinner at 7, bath time at 8 and sleep at 8:30?
Gosh, this was so timely!
Yalls show is wonderful. I don't have a family yet but I enjoy planning and imagening what it could be. Could you expand on you "family block schedule"?
How do you establish a consistent routine when the child lives 50/50 with each parent? It’s difficult because my ex husband and I have completely different parenting styles and value systems. So difficult 😞
Communication is key to coparenting in separate homes I have found this out as I am helping raise a child that is not biologically mine nor was I married to my daughters mother but I’m all she’s ever known as a father and I will continue to be her father until her or her mother were to choose other wise but anyways me and my ex have very different parenting styles and some different values and/or morals but we’ve found that through communication we can kinda blend our parenting styles (I guess you could say) enough that it eventually can streamline into one style as parents you both need to realize that at the end of the day you both have to find a common ground even if it’s uncomfortable for either of you it will give comfort to the child and will also help your coparenting relationship imo. Coparenting isn’t about what’s best for either parent but what’s best for the child/children and in turn I think would bring more comfort to you both as parents in the end because you know that child is healthy mentally and the child will see that both parents love the them enough to set there differences aside even though it maybe hard.
That’s super interesting! I wonder if a routine is good for “dandelion” children also. Is it an all around helpful thing for children?
Remember they flourish in all environments
Lindsay Madzivanzira
I don’t think there is any child that would flourish in “ALL” environments...
Hey. I have a very intelligent 6 year old son. Who is very observant that can find out if i had a stressful day or im not in a good mood even if i try to mask it as much as i can. Its very stressing for him and for us.
Church it's ok