Yeah, usually voicing my fears or opinions result is awful backlash on how wrong I AM, not on how can we/they help or make it better or how THEIR opinions or advice is the right way, the only way. Really builds a wall quite quickly.
In collective cultures (such as mainland China), trust is absolutely at the heart of the relationship. In my opinion, so much so that acceptance into the core of any group (be it family, work or other) requires that members reinforce their commitment through continuously demonstrating that there is no transactional boundary in your commitment.
Because they follow Confucius philosophy And have done for 600 years. Even though the authorities made it illegal Religious or spiritual understanding is the foundation stone of all thinking patterns
@@RK-su4hs collectivism is also paramount in many other asian cultures that don't follow Confucian philosophy - even where there is less diaspora Chinese
For me when I'm going through something that requires courage I need to be alone. When I share my experience wit people I have noticed they tend to have opinions and ideas that I do not always believe in and that is likely to upset me coz I feel misunderstood or I'm being told the idea is too wild. And if it wont cause lifetime damage I will never get to a place where I'm satisfied knowing there's was once a path I saw and believed in and didn't get to try it coz someone else especially family said I was not being realistic. Ive grown to really hate the word "realistic" by the way
You can do anything you commit yourself to doing. Nothing is beyond realism when you fully believe it is possible. Be the person you will be, not the person your friends and family think you are. Don't lose focus. You can achieve your dreams and then inspire others to achieve their own. I believe in you. Let nothing be a regret!
Nothing left to lose means there are no negative consequences for your actions. Which doesn't really seem courageous. However getting into that mindset might work as a crutch to get past the invisible barriers we put in our own way. But it seems like a dangerous mental place to put yourself in - one where you aren't rationally evaluating risks but instead pressing ahead regardless.
I respectfully disagree Courage comes from A knowing that our objective (business, relationship etc etc Is honorable And B The spiritual source of Life itself The more successful I have become the more the people I considered my friends have tried to discourage me and pull me down I was very disappointed and hurt at first Now I have accepted and adjusted (kind of It is my experience that a part of the journey must be made alone
Funny he mentions friendship is believing that that friend will be there for you when you need them. My friend wasn't so we're not friends anymore haha.
Experience and another point of view. Also the personal intrinsic willing to succeed in that matter. Usually it's also easier to remind other people to avoid tripping hazards then to remind oneself to watch out.
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Yeah, usually voicing my fears or opinions result is awful backlash on how wrong I AM, not on how can we/they help or make it better or how THEIR opinions or advice is the right way, the only way. Really builds a wall quite quickly.
Hi Steve, in order to get through tough times I need my friends and YOUR PODCASTS ... Thanks for the podcasts. Best, B.
Steve??
Thank you
"God has given us the gift of rationalization"... now I want to know how his Spirituality has impacted his personal and professional growth.
In collective cultures (such as mainland China), trust is absolutely at the heart of the relationship. In my opinion, so much so that acceptance into the core of any group (be it family, work or other) requires that members reinforce their commitment through continuously demonstrating that there is no transactional boundary in your commitment.
Because they follow Confucius philosophy
And have done for 600 years.
Even though the authorities made it illegal
Religious or spiritual understanding is the foundation stone of all thinking patterns
@@RK-su4hs collectivism is also paramount in many other asian cultures that don't follow Confucian philosophy - even where there is less diaspora Chinese
@@michaelbishop9157 which countries?
For me when I'm going through something that requires courage I need to be alone. When I share my experience wit people I have noticed they tend to have opinions and ideas that I do not always believe in and that is likely to upset me coz I feel misunderstood or I'm being told the idea is too wild. And if it wont cause lifetime damage I will never get to a place where I'm satisfied knowing there's was once a path I saw and believed in and didn't get to try it coz someone else especially family said I was not being realistic. Ive grown to really hate the word "realistic" by the way
You can do anything you commit yourself to doing. Nothing is beyond realism when you fully believe it is possible. Be the person you will be, not the person your friends and family think you are. Don't lose focus. You can achieve your dreams and then inspire others to achieve their own. I believe in you. Let nothing be a regret!
So true!
To me courage comes when you have nothing to lose
I think takes even more courage when you have everything to lose...
@@BehindtheBrand mm. It's hard to imagine
Nothing left to lose means there are no negative consequences for your actions. Which doesn't really seem courageous. However getting into that mindset might work as a crutch to get past the invisible barriers we put in our own way. But it seems like a dangerous mental place to put yourself in - one where you aren't rationally evaluating risks but instead pressing ahead regardless.
I respectfully disagree
Courage comes from
A knowing that our objective (business, relationship etc etc
Is honorable
And
B The spiritual source of Life itself
The more successful I have become the more the people I considered my friends have tried to discourage me and pull me down
I was very disappointed and hurt at first
Now I have accepted and adjusted (kind of
It is my experience that
a part of the journey must be made alone
Funny he mentions friendship is believing that that friend will be there for you when you need them. My friend wasn't so we're not friends anymore haha.
maybe he never was
(This is meant to be humorous) A friend bail you out of jail, a REAL friend will say, "I can't believe we did that last night!"
If I can find that r that was stolen from our friendship this fiend will find her long lost friendship... Thank you for being you
Watching this in 2021 and wondering why they are so close together.
lol
It’s an illusion
Do a video on how to escape the crab bucket
Good one
But the question is : how can you consider a person who struggle from the same thing as you as qualified to help you . Isn't it absurd ?
Experience and another point of view. Also the personal intrinsic willing to succeed in that matter. Usually it's also easier to remind other people to avoid tripping hazards then to remind oneself to watch out.
Gave a thumbs down only because the title had nothing to do with the video, at all. It wasn’t about confrontation.
Sorry, SIMON. !!!
thanks
he sounds pompous.
You sound stupid.