Lovely parents . They really tried to console her when she was crying . Dad was so gentle and was comforting his daughter, And when mum was tickling baby she didn’t forget the older girl . ❤
And then she had a beautiful happy life. Loved seeing her updated videos..she could never have had the amazing life she's had, had she not gone through these upsetting moments.
How beautiful! Every time I watch an adoption video I’m so invested emotionally. I know EVERY child is of God and of great worth! It breaks my heart to think of how many are disposed of .. actually sickens me. I think about these things too deeply and while I’ve seen parents longing for children I know it’s also the children who are given an opportunity for a life filled with love and belonging. Nothing is as beautiful as this. It makes me so sad to see their fear of unknown. I know as her parents your hearts must have been so sad for her. After all, I’m convinced if I have such strong emotions just watching ( to love , soothe and protect) how much more you must have felt and I’m convinced that this love is so strong and powerful that it’s the perfect Earthly example of Our Heavenly Fathers love for us!
Congratulations!!! I hope your family is adjusting well now! My husband & I are waiting for travel approval right now & hope to be in China by mid Nov. Can't imagine how I'll react on our gotcha day! I've cried watching your video! lol God bless your family!
The nannies should leave the child with its parent. Not interfere and act like they want to hold the child, and they miss the child. If that's the case, then they should adopt a child.
Этот ребёнок постарше, чем был первый, поэтому и реакция более эмоциональная, как она сильно плакала. А воспитателю надо было уйти после передачи ребенка родителям, она же видит её и поэтому не может успокоиться. А первая девочка уже так подросла, стала хорошенькой. Дай им бог здоровья и счастья в новой семье.
The nannies need to leave and allow the parents to deal with their new child. Stop shoving things in the baby's face to make her happy when her new parents are trying to calm and bond with her. She's going to cry at first, but she will be fine. The parents are capable of looking after their new daughter.
je suis contente qu'au final elle ne pleure plus.elle a une gentille maman et une grande soeur pour jouer.je vous souhaite à tous beaucoup de bonheur.💙🍀🥰🙋♀️
Poor little baby...it's a shame that most of them have to go thru this awful transition where they're so upset and terrified, before they reach their happiness!!! Xxxx
Absolutely. Unfortunately it is a heart wrenching thing with no real solution. It has been tried many ways, but the child almost always gets horribly upset. Fortunately, in most cases the child adapts quickly, with love and patience from the parents.
@@DwimbleVideosestas tres nenas y que alcanza la felicidad porque son muchos eh muchas le alcanzaré por favor la mayoría pero aquí hay dos papás aquí aquí hay un papá y una mamá que no las dejan ni respirar es que es que es que está todo tan aprovechado de verdad me gustaría que siguierais esto porque su padre y su madre en lo que destacan en todas las apoyar en todo sacan lo mejor de ellas en qué le pueden que les gusta que. LES gusta. SABEN. MUY bien. Estos papás. Que las tres son. Buenísimas. Y. MUY. Listas. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I thought the same thing. She was VERY angry. Her nanny/nannies must have loved her much. This couple are truly amazing parents I love their other videos.
@@michellecollins290 Absolutely Michelle, she’s screaming with rage, no tears, but showing she was defiantly not at all comfortable with being placed into strangers arms! And who could blame her? Great that parents showed her three days later! Happy and giggling!
Ha ha...it really was the worst. We wanted so bad for them to leave her alone but there really wasn't anything we could do about it. As soon as we could finally get away from them and out the door she stopped crying.
@@DwimbleVideos : The nanny’s were particularly annoying with this baby. I’m certain they don’t act this way normally. They could not run to every baby that cries and wipe tears and offer snacks. Just could not happen in an institution setting. I’ve watched your videos with Nadia. You are a wonderful mother so this baby is in great hands.
@DwimbleVideos Yes we have! Our Gottcha Day was Nov. 21, 2011! It was very caotic but the most precious moment ever! I hope to post a video soon. She is adjusting so good. It's amazing! Pray your family is as well! Thanks for asking! :)
It's such a shame that the poor babies are taken from who and what they know when they're not infants. As they get older they understand what's going on being handed over to strangers. The government needs to expedite the adoption processes. It will be so much easier for the babies .
Simply amazing the understand these babys have the presence of these Americans is a serious situation. I don't understand how they realize its not just some random person holding them before they go back to there buddies at the orphanage but they absolutely know its over. Life as they know is done. How can they know?
They are well prepared. They look at photos, in a small album and posted over their cribs. They recieve care packages from the adoptive family. The nannies do their best by constantly reinforcing "mamma" and pappa."
No it does not look simple to me!, it is a bitter sweet experience bitter as they are full of fear, sweet as they get a far better life than they would ever know!, what you have done is beautiful, however it is the adoption policy of the country I challenge, your reaction was based on the environment you were in, I understand that, my view point was from that of Amelie.to observe and not be involved is distressing, I get annoyed when the nannies piush them forward mumma mumma. and the time span in which to get to know them is too short,
Indeed it is so painful when the nannies hands over the child in a rush and lingers ..or hangs on to the child too long ..attempts to hand the child to the parents & when the child starts screaming before the parents gets a chance to take the babies, they cuddle them some more appearing pleased the child feels more comfortable in their arms..and so it goes until an agency supervisor/director steps in..I observed that children 2years+ from foster care families are better prepared and the foster mother's knows their roles.. just saying..moi, canada 🇨🇦
That’s one angry 😤 baby. You tell them kid, the indignity of it all. These parents are brilliant, they adopt Dani next time, she wasn’t quite as mad, nearly but not quite😊
I would have asked for the nannies to leave. The baby is being adopted, she's not their responsibility anymore, and the baby needs to bond with her new family. She will cry it out, have a nap, and adjust to her new life.
Why are the nannies hanging around. In so many other vedios they give the parent to the child then leave. This is so upsetting to see the baby cry. And the couple that are adopting the baby are so nice and kind. The baby will have a wonderful life with the new parents, all the very best to them.
Please read about adoption. And perhaps focus on what's ok. Circumstances are different in every scenario; sometimes they cry harder when they leave right away. It's all ok
It is called Amniotic Band Syndrome (ABS). She has had several surgeries on her hands and feet to help her use them better. There are several other videos showing her using her hands, videos before surgery, having her cast removed, and so on.
It's always pointed out the next day or 3 days later they are laughing etc. The point is why do they insist on the baby being traumatized at all? I got beat by my dad when I was young but I guess it doesn't matter because I was happy a few years back later when he was gone? No how about not putting them through it in the first place? Simple changes would completly avoid this
You think it would all be ok with just a few simple changes?! I had family that recently adopted and it was handled differently than this and you know what happened....this. They are leaving all that they know. It's going to be hard initially. I'm sorry you were beaten, but doesn't compare at all.
Sembra che provino piacere a fare piangere i piccoli, che crudeltà, insensibilità, quanto soffrono questi bimbi. Queste assistenti non sono in grado di gestire la situazione.
@@DwimbleVideos , por favor, escreva em espanhol ou português. Não quis ofender, só uma observação. Com certeza deve ser muito feliz junto aos seus. Abraços.
@@mariabernadetemendes9160 Não falamos espanhol nem português. Usei translate.google.com para ler sua mensagem. Não ficamos nem um pouco ofendidos. Obrigado pelo seu comentário.
So you think handing over a scared toddler to a stranger is the same as just handing over any piece of merchandise? These nannies have been around these toddlers since the babies were newly born - don't you think there's a strong emotional bond to consider? Go away with your insensitive comments!
I deleted my last comment because I use the F word I’m sorry I didn’t mean to be disrespectful to anybody but if those nannies would’ve just quickly passed her off to her parents that flew we know 15,000 miles to get there little girl it would’ve been so much easier you know she’s a mom she knows what she’s doing You know that’s what they’re there for just to pick up their baby and take them home and give them a wonderful life and this mother has given these girls an amazing life. This is one of my favorite families of these gotcha days but this one is a cutie she was she wasn’t she was mad she wasn’t sad. She was just mad but like over like she said, jammies and stacking cups always work their magic like with little Dani and Little Miss Nadia, DeMello, boss, sister, she’s like the voice of reason when they grow older she’ll be the one to like call me everybody down, and again, I loved how she was explaining, lord of the rings, when she looked like she was about to I’m assuming in this video forever I’m sad or depressed. I just watch that video and it puts a smile right back on my face. Nobody deserve these beautiful children more than this family and the mother. She’s just a queen she’s amazing I’m so happy for them. God bless and they’re gonna do great in this world they already have. 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️🌸🌸🌸👩🏻👩🏻👩🏻
I hate the way they throw those innocent babies to The arms of total strangers telling them thats moma n dada it sucks ,the way its done, is so wrong in so many ways, they have been abandoned n wth the only love they ever known.watching other kids do the same being handed over like adopting a dam puppy so loud and too much going on.poor babies how awful it must be they should not do this
It may seem horrible and wrong, but no matter how it is done it may be traumatic for the child...or not. Our first adoption was done in a very crowded and chaotic room, with about a dozen other families. Our daughter had no difficulty and everything went fine. This one had about three families and was very difficult for her. Our last was done quietly, in private, but it was also traumatic for her in a different way. No matter how it is done it will typically be difficult for the child.
@@DwimbleVideos I get that, I really do,but all that noise,the camera,handing them all these toys and telling the child to call them dada n moma ,its too much.I think they should be able to see the child a few times before they are thrown into a family of complete strangers.And I also get that their life will be better,but its so hard
While you wait to get the ok to travel to get these babies, I dont understand why you people dont learn a few words or a few sentences. Come on. It should be mandatory.
Bonnie Beams Agreed they wait sometimes years. And I don't understand why they aren't required to arrive two weeks early and visit the child daily at the orphanage. That's how it is in Eastern Europe and those babies are so happy to be going home with the parents after that. Then there's the Chinese method like ripping off a band aid I guess
Many do at least try. It's an extremely difficult language and what you suggest means that these babies are left in the orphanage even longer while adoptive parents struggle with a language they may never really pick up
Well bless these people they have adopted three that I have seen on TH-cam. However and not just these babies or this adoption but many I have seen are so unprofessional! With the Nannie’s I mean. This nanny is crying and lingering when if there is a tight connection they should send the babies with another nanny not so invested with the child because it’s not good for the babies or in baby’s best interest. Not to mention the nanny is putting herself through torture saying goodbye to baby. I saw one that nanny taunted the baby away from Mom and of course child wanted the nanny. The parents should get their child and go out in hall if nothing else but staying where nanny is just tortures all of them.
Most horrable thing there is..Grab a baby from the only parents they have known. A toy is nothing to this child. This is so cruel i cant stand it. There are better ways to prepair by letting them get use to the people. with the care giver in the room. Ive watched some of them. There are no words. That baby is terrified.
We had zero options or control over the process in China. In any case, without going into any detail in a public forum, despite the difficulties she was better off with us than spending one more day in the place where she was.
The nanny's job is to care for the child until adopted. Once the children are adopted, they are the responsibility of the new parents. It's best to hand them over and leave. Hanging around only confuses and upsets the child as they wonder why the nanny is there and not helping. Once the children are left with their new family, they cry it out, fall asleep, and once post their nap, begin to bond with their new family. At that age, they respond to who is providing them with care, attention, and food. The following day, babies look to their new parents for their needs.
oh for GODS sake give this child some space I cant believe your all so selfish she is scared and upset, and needs room its not rocket science, think how you would feel at that age, coax dont invade!!!
It may look simple to you, but it's not. Having been through this three times now and seen MANY others go through it as well, virtually every small child gets hysterical and screams at that time, no matter what you do. Our oldest didn't cry at all, which is incredibly rare, and that was with about 40 people in the room and a dozen babies being adopted and screaming at the same time. Our youngest, however, screamed like crazy and it was in a quiet hotel room with only us. This is a traumatic and confusing moment for these children, which is thankfully usually over with very quickly.
den kent they have adopted before and did a great job..they knew what to do. Today she is a very happy, well adjusted baby who is very happy (see follow up vids)
This is all so bloody heartbreaking ! After watching these gotcha days I didn’t realise what had gone on with the Chinese government in how they were correcting their policy on childbirth ! I have seen in the Uk Russian & Romanian adoption within the Uk with Uk parents and it is so much more humane ! I have also watched Chinese adoptees later on in life in America ! And they all seem to want to go back and see their heritage ! Which is natural x
Poor kids given over to strangers who they can't understand no wonder they scream the nannies also get upset bloody new parents so sodding selfish shoving toys and food at them ffs
Marilyn Luckhurst - It is traumatic for the child no matter how the transfer is done. It is painful for everyone...the child, because she it too little to understand what is happening, and for the new parents because they are there to help her but are powerless to spare her that initial pain. Amelie is now 8 years old, has had all of her medical needs met, and is a very happy child in a completely loving home.
Marilyn Luckhurst Selfish? That’s the last thing they are. Did you want them not to adopt her? She’s happy and healthy and safe. She would still be crying if she was still in the care system. It was always gonna be hard at first but babies do cry. I get your point about the snacks and toys being shoved at them, I don’t like that either but I’ve watched a lot of gotchas and in most cases it works! It’s amazing how fast a child can turn the tears off for some Cheerios! 😭😁❣️
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Lovely parents . They really tried to console her when she was crying . Dad was so gentle and was comforting his daughter, And when mum was tickling baby she didn’t forget the older girl . ❤
Un bijou !!! quel amour !!!! une perle de Chine !!!!
And then she had a beautiful happy life. Loved seeing her updated videos..she could never have had the amazing life she's had, had she not gone through these upsetting moments.
How beautiful! Every time I watch an adoption video I’m so invested emotionally. I know EVERY child is of God and of great worth! It breaks my heart to think of how many are disposed of .. actually sickens me.
I think about these things too deeply and while I’ve seen parents longing for children I know it’s also the children who are given an opportunity for a life filled with love and belonging. Nothing is as beautiful as this.
It makes me so sad to see their fear of unknown. I know as her parents your hearts must have been so sad for her. After all, I’m convinced if I have such strong emotions just watching ( to love , soothe and protect) how much more you must have felt and I’m convinced that this love is so strong and powerful that it’s the perfect Earthly example of Our Heavenly Fathers love for us!
baby amelie is so adorable..
Congratulations!!! I hope your family is adjusting well now! My husband & I are waiting for travel approval right now & hope to be in China by mid Nov. Can't imagine how I'll react on our gotcha day! I've cried watching your video! lol God bless your family!
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I hope all is well for you and your new child. Please, please don5allow the nanny to hurt you're baby
The nannies should leave the child with its parent. Not interfere and act like they want to hold the child, and they miss the child. If that's the case, then they should adopt a child.
You’re 100% right!
If the nannies would just walk away and let mommy and daddy handle baby
She feels the love once you'se are back in apartment Away from so many people + having Nadia there helps ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
well, the audio quality is GREAT!!! just excellent video - you are to be commended in showing the real heartbreak and joy of all parents!!
Этот ребёнок постарше, чем был первый, поэтому и реакция более эмоциональная, как она сильно плакала. А воспитателю надо было уйти после передачи ребенка родителям, она же видит её и поэтому не может успокоиться. А первая девочка уже так подросла, стала хорошенькой. Дай им бог здоровья и счастья в новой семье.
e duro e traumático al princípio para papa mamã e baybe 🤔😌💔😭😭😭😭😭
The nannies need to leave and allow the parents to deal with their new child. Stop shoving things in the baby's face to make her happy when her new parents are trying to calm and bond with her. She's going to cry at first, but she will be fine. The parents are capable of looking after their new daughter.
Once they give them to the adoptive parents they need to go away-they just make it worse hanging around.
Brave little baby * amazingly patient parents ...
Das Kind ist traurig und sehr wütend. Bei der vielen Liebe wird es aber gut. Es braucht immer etwas Zeit.
je suis contente qu'au final elle ne pleure plus.elle a une gentille maman et une grande soeur pour jouer.je vous souhaite à tous beaucoup de bonheur.💙🍀🥰🙋♀️
Tbose nannies need to leave her alone. They are pushing too hard. They are making me nervous!
Amen They aren't going to be with her for the next 20 years, so go away!!
Yes, they are particularly annoying in this video.
💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭. Arme Babys. Zuerst werden Sie von der Mutter getrennt dann von den Nannys und all denen die kennen.
Ihrer Meinung nach wäre es das Beste, wenn diese Kinder ihr ganzes Leben lang allein wären, ohne Vater oder Mutter, ohne Familie, nicht wahr?
If only these beautiful children new what lay ahead for them you are amazing people who adopt them i pray 🙏 that you have a wonderful life together
Воспитатели не понимают , что ребенок рыдает из-за них?
Стресс от неизвестности , от смены обстановки, от разлуки с китайским персоналом...
😮😮😮😮
Piccolini hanno bisogno d amore 😥😥✌✌🙎♀️🙎♀️
Bless her sweet little heart!!
@Te'Onna Gibson - Bay Area Adoption Services in the San Francisco area. You don't have to live in that area though... we are in Texas.
Poor little baby...it's a shame that most of them have to go thru this awful transition where they're so upset and terrified, before they reach their happiness!!! Xxxx
Absolutely. Unfortunately it is a heart wrenching thing with no real solution. It has been tried many ways, but the child almost always gets horribly upset. Fortunately, in most cases the child adapts quickly, with love and patience from the parents.
@@DwimbleVideosestas tres nenas y que alcanza la felicidad porque son muchos eh muchas le alcanzaré por favor la mayoría pero aquí hay dos papás aquí aquí hay un papá y una mamá que no las dejan ni respirar es que es que es que está todo tan aprovechado de verdad me gustaría que siguierais esto porque su padre y su madre en lo que destacan en todas las apoyar en todo sacan lo mejor de ellas en qué le pueden que les gusta que. LES gusta. SABEN. MUY bien. Estos papás. Que las tres son. Buenísimas. Y. MUY. Listas. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Che meraviglia
Just ignore the ignorant comments from some people. From what I've seen, you two are the greatest parents on earth.
amazingly enough, the baby wasn't just terrifed- she was ANGRY. and she must have gotten enough love to be brave enough to even let that
emotion show!
I thought the same thing. She was VERY angry. Her nanny/nannies must have loved her much. This couple are truly amazing parents I love their other videos.
They never get love in orphanages 2 ⁰many of them
@@michellecollins290 Absolutely Michelle, she’s screaming with rage, no tears, but showing she was defiantly not at all comfortable with being placed into strangers arms! And who could blame her? Great that parents showed her three days later! Happy and giggling!
Legend has it the girl is still crying and the nanny is still hovering with food to shove at her
Ha ha...it really was the worst. We wanted so bad for them to leave her alone but there really wasn't anything we could do about it. As soon as we could finally get away from them and out the door she stopped crying.
The dad comforted her more than mom..
She doesnt need food and toys now, she needs hugged and comforted
@@DwimbleVideos : The nanny’s were particularly annoying with this baby. I’m certain they don’t act this way normally. They could not run to every baby that cries and wipe tears and offer snacks. Just could not happen in an institution setting. I’ve watched your videos with Nadia. You are a wonderful mother so this baby is in great hands.
@Crishutch have you been to China yet? I hope it all went well
You have the difficult time at first God bless you
Love the transition - sort of felt bad you during that tantrum but alls well that ends well
that was the longest heartfelt crying I have ever seen poor little girl.
What adoption agency did you use? @DwimbleVideos
Piccolina 😥😥😥✌✌✌🙎♀️
E triste o choro inicial.!!!
@DwimbleVideos Yes we have! Our Gottcha Day was Nov. 21, 2011! It was very caotic but the most precious moment ever! I hope to post a video soon. She is adjusting so good. It's amazing! Pray your family is as well! Thanks for asking! :)
@imhorseymad very sweet, glad that you got 2nd place
It's such a shame that the poor babies are taken from who and what they know when they're not infants. As they get older they understand what's going on being handed over to strangers. The government needs to expedite the adoption processes. It will be so much easier for the babies .
I’ve watch a lot of the video on this and they need to let them get to know each other. Then give them to mom and dad
That baby got that jacket on and it's so big.Noone else has theirs on....
The experience was terribly sad and scary for her, but the jacket wasn't a problem. It wasn't warm in there.
Mama left and you also leaving nanny. Don't leave me. Feel sad for the kids.
Нужно усыновить когда они совсем маленькими незнают что происходить
Simply amazing the understand these babys have the presence of these Americans is a serious situation. I don't understand how they realize its not just some random person holding them before they go back to there buddies at the orphanage but they absolutely know its over. Life as they know is done. How can they know?
They are well prepared. They look at photos, in a small album and posted over their cribs. They recieve care packages from the adoptive family. The nannies do their best by constantly reinforcing "mamma" and pappa."
That nanny should stay away!! She's making it worse!!!
I agree,nanny should keep away
that nanny does not have to keep coming back, it makes sense that it is strange, the baby has to get used to it
Those nannies want them to cry. They want the parents to see the child has feelings. She is probably hungry and tired. Those nannies know it too.
No it does not look simple to me!, it is a bitter sweet experience bitter as they are full of fear, sweet as they get a far better life than they would ever know!, what you have done is beautiful, however it is the adoption policy of the country I challenge, your reaction was based on the environment you were in, I understand that, my view point was from that of Amelie.to observe and not be involved is distressing, I get annoyed when the nannies piush them forward mumma mumma. and the time span in which to get to know them is too short,
Yes. We agree with you on that. Once we were away from the nannies and all the pressure she calmed down a lot.
Indeed it is so painful when the nannies hands over the child in a rush and lingers ..or hangs on to the child too long ..attempts to hand the child to the parents & when the child starts screaming before the parents gets a chance to take the babies, they cuddle them some more appearing pleased the child feels more comfortable in their arms..and so it goes until an agency supervisor/director steps in..I observed that children 2years+ from foster care families are better prepared and the foster mother's knows their roles.. just saying..moi, canada 🇨🇦
They need to step back I know they r trying to help but they r not she knows they there
🤔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
That’s one angry 😤 baby. You tell them kid, the indignity of it all. These parents are brilliant, they adopt Dani next time, she wasn’t quite as mad, nearly but not quite😊
I would have asked for the nannies to leave. The baby is being adopted, she's not their responsibility anymore, and the baby needs to bond with her new family. She will cry it out, have a nap, and adjust to her new life.
Why are the nannies hanging around. In so many other vedios they give the parent to the child then leave. This is so upsetting to see the baby cry. And the couple that are adopting the baby are so nice and kind. The baby will have a wonderful life with the new parents, all the very best to them.
Please read about adoption. And perhaps focus on what's ok. Circumstances are different in every scenario; sometimes they cry harder when they leave right away. It's all ok
I wish the nanny would leave the family alone now the more she keeps interfering this little one will scream it’s hard enough for her as it is
Would the nannies go away
Казалось бы ну что они понимают.А для них это стресс оказывается.
Everyone on here is an expert. Understand the process and psychology that goes into this.
Ha ha...it does seem that way sometimes.
Бедная девочка так орет, новые родители обеспечит ее хорошую жизнь, чем в приюте жить.
Those Nannie’s need to walk away. They make it harder for baby and parents
What is wrong with her little hands?
It is called Amniotic Band Syndrome (ABS). She has had several surgeries on her hands and feet to help her use them better. There are several other videos showing her using her hands, videos before surgery, having her cast removed, and so on.
U have 2 daughters adopted,?
Three.
👏👍😘😭💞
The nannies sneak away
The people that bring these kids need to leave. It's just mean for them to hang around
It's always pointed out the next day or 3 days later they are laughing etc. The point is why do they insist on the baby being traumatized at all? I got beat by my dad when I was young but I guess it doesn't matter because I was happy a few years back later when he was gone? No how about not putting them through it in the first place? Simple changes would completly avoid this
You think it would all be ok with just a few simple changes?! I had family that recently adopted and it was handled differently than this and you know what happened....this. They are leaving all that they know. It's going to be hard initially. I'm sorry you were beaten, but doesn't compare at all.
Sembra che provino piacere a fare piangere i piccoli, che crudeltà, insensibilità, quanto soffrono questi bimbi. Queste assistenti non sono in grado di gestire la situazione.
Que criança enjoada, forçando pra chorar...espero que esteja bem atualmente.
She is well and very happy! Today is the tenth anniversary of her adoption.
@@DwimbleVideos , por favor, escreva em espanhol ou português. Não quis ofender, só uma observação. Com certeza deve ser muito feliz junto aos seus. Abraços.
@@mariabernadetemendes9160 Não falamos espanhol nem português. Usei translate.google.com para ler sua mensagem. Não ficamos nem um pouco ofendidos. Obrigado pelo seu comentário.
@@DwimbleVideos, obrigada. Thank you.
Go away Nannies....find another baby to take care....your job is done here...
So you think handing over a scared toddler to a stranger is the same as just handing over any piece of merchandise? These nannies have been around these toddlers since the babies were newly born - don't you think there's a strong emotional bond to consider? Go away with your insensitive comments!
@Judy Najar Up yours!
The nanny n red I want to push her out of he way. Dad wants to also
The nanny needs to walk away
nanny pls go away
I deleted my last comment because I use the F word I’m sorry I didn’t mean to be disrespectful to anybody but if those nannies would’ve just quickly passed her off to her parents that flew we know 15,000 miles to get there little girl it would’ve been so much easier you know she’s a mom she knows what she’s doing You know that’s what they’re there for just to pick up their baby and take them home and give them a wonderful life and this mother has given these girls an amazing life. This is one of my favorite families of these gotcha days but this one is a cutie she was she wasn’t she was mad she wasn’t sad. She was just mad but like over like she said, jammies and stacking cups always work their magic like with little Dani and Little Miss Nadia, DeMello, boss, sister, she’s like the voice of reason when they grow older she’ll be the one to like call me everybody down, and again, I loved how she was explaining, lord of the rings, when she looked like she was about to I’m assuming in this video forever I’m sad or depressed. I just watch that video and it puts a smile right back on my face. Nobody deserve these beautiful children more than this family and the mother. She’s just a queen she’s amazing I’m so happy for them. God bless and they’re gonna do great in this world they already have. 🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️🌸🌸🌸👩🏻👩🏻👩🏻
@beckyhoff You can always tell the people who have never gone through this... They know everything
Why can't the baby have a pacifirr
She never had one. She already sucked her thumb when she was adopted.
I hate the way they throw those innocent babies to
The arms of total strangers telling them thats moma n dada it sucks ,the way its done, is so wrong in so many ways, they have been abandoned n wth the only love they ever known.watching other kids do the same being handed over like adopting a dam puppy so loud and too much going on.poor babies how awful it must be they should not do this
It may seem horrible and wrong, but no matter how it is done it may be traumatic for the child...or not. Our first adoption was done in a very crowded and chaotic room, with about a dozen other families. Our daughter had no difficulty and everything went fine. This one had about three families and was very difficult for her. Our last was done quietly, in private, but it was also traumatic for her in a different way.
No matter how it is done it will typically be difficult for the child.
@@DwimbleVideos I get that, I really do,but all that noise,the camera,handing them all these toys and telling the child to call them dada n moma ,its too much.I think they should be able to see the child a few times before they are thrown into a family of complete strangers.And I also get that their life will be better,but its so hard
It's a horrible way of doing it.
While you wait to get the ok to travel to get these babies, I dont understand why you people dont learn a few words or a few sentences. Come on. It should be mandatory.
Bonnie Beams Agreed they wait sometimes years. And I don't understand why they aren't required to arrive two weeks early and visit the child daily at the orphanage. That's how it is in Eastern Europe and those babies are so happy to be going home with the parents after that. Then there's the Chinese method like ripping off a band aid I guess
Many do at least try. It's an extremely difficult language and what you suggest means that these babies are left in the orphanage even longer while adoptive parents struggle with a language they may never really pick up
the kids are usually afraid of the camera, yeah .... and that nanny has to leave right away
The monkey bad idea. Mother needed to just hold her.
Well bless these people they have adopted three that I have seen on TH-cam. However and not just these babies or this adoption but many I have seen are so unprofessional! With the Nannie’s I mean. This nanny is crying and lingering when if there is a tight connection they should send the babies with another nanny not so invested with the child because it’s not good for the babies or in baby’s best interest. Not to mention the nanny is putting herself through torture saying goodbye to baby. I saw one that nanny taunted the baby away from Mom and of course child wanted the nanny. The parents should get their child and go out in hall if nothing else but staying where nanny is just tortures all of them.
little girl, ALWAY such a tickle mother, do not do that .... give them a chance to get used to without being in a hurry ..
That dude trying to grab her out of the care takers arms I'm the first seconds should've known better than that. 12 year olds know better than this
Most horrable thing there is..Grab a baby from the only parents they have known. A toy is nothing to this child. This is so cruel i cant stand it. There are better ways to prepair by letting them get use to the people. with the care giver in the room. Ive watched some of them. There are no words. That baby is terrified.
We had zero options or control over the process in China. In any case, without going into any detail in a public forum, despite the difficulties she was better off with us than spending one more day in the place where she was.
It’s shocking!
The nanny's job is to care for the child until adopted. Once the children are adopted, they are the responsibility of the new parents. It's best to hand them over and leave. Hanging around only confuses and upsets the child as they wonder why the nanny is there and not helping.
Once the children are left with their new family, they cry it out, fall asleep, and once post their nap, begin to bond with their new family. At that age, they respond to who is providing them with care, attention, and food. The following day, babies look to their new parents for their needs.
oh for GODS sake give this child some space I cant believe your all so selfish she is scared and upset, and needs room its not rocket science, think how you would feel at that age, coax dont invade!!!
It may look simple to you, but it's not. Having been through this three times now and seen MANY others go through it as well, virtually every small child gets hysterical and screams at that time, no matter what you do. Our oldest didn't cry at all, which is incredibly rare, and that was with about 40 people in the room and a dozen babies being adopted and screaming at the same time. Our youngest, however, screamed like crazy and it was in a quiet hotel room with only us.
This is a traumatic and confusing moment for these children, which is thankfully usually over with very quickly.
den kent they have adopted before and did a great job..they knew what to do. Today she is a very happy, well adjusted baby who is very happy (see follow up vids)
Poor little mite, she doesn't understand a thing thats going on, get her away then she just drop into place in your lovely family.
This is all so bloody heartbreaking ! After watching these gotcha days I didn’t realise what had gone on with the Chinese government in how they were correcting their policy on childbirth ! I have seen in the Uk Russian & Romanian adoption within the Uk with Uk parents and it is so much more humane ! I have also watched Chinese adoptees later on in life in America ! And they all seem to want to go back and see their heritage ! Which is natural x
These nannies need to just go away. They are so upsetting to the child. Hand the baby over and leave. Stop torching this baby
Poor kids given over to strangers who they can't understand no wonder they scream the nannies also get upset bloody new parents so sodding selfish shoving toys and food at them ffs
Marilyn Luckhurst - It is traumatic for the child no matter how the transfer is done. It is painful for everyone...the child, because she it too little to understand what is happening, and for the new parents because they are there to help her but are powerless to spare her that initial pain. Amelie is now 8 years old, has had all of her medical needs met, and is a very happy child in a completely loving home.
Marilyn Luckhurst Selfish? That’s the last thing they are. Did you want them not to adopt her? She’s happy and healthy and safe. She would still be crying if she was still in the care system. It was always gonna be hard at first but babies do cry. I get your point about the snacks and toys being shoved at them, I don’t like that either but I’ve watched a lot of gotchas and in most cases it works! It’s amazing how fast a child can turn the tears off for some Cheerios! 😭😁❣️
You say mean things on every video and no matter what the parents do you call them selfish. What turned you into such a mean person?
i saw a lot of gotcha day and the babies always ate cheerios, why they have just cheerios and not another type of cereals?
She’s pissed 😡 off not 😱
@kathylow7396 Smh 🙄