For the friendship and toxic relationship question... I think it's important to be empathetic and understand that people will only change when they want to or it'll take time for them to see it from the outside (like you mentioned). I've learned to just have boundaries while also understanding that most people do what they want and just want to vent. I also try to understand from their socialization and how they were raised. If someone is used to chaos or observing people being in a toxic relationship... That might be their understanding of relationships and may not know anything different. Plus change even if it's positive and healthy, is very hard and most people prefer the comfort of the familiar. I'd probably walk my friend through their understanding of healthy relationships and see if they can understand that it doesn't have to be toxic or hard. But this is coming from someone pursuing a career in counseling so I view relationships from that perspective and someone not familiar with development, socialization and mental health I can see it being very difficult XD
I have also learned to let go of the expectation of people to take my advice in general! I have been both the listening friend and the friend in the toxic relationship and people really do have to discover and get out on their own pace, its my job as a friend to be there for them (if i want to be) when they finally get out of it, but also be empathetic, patient, and have/communicate boundaries regarding advice giving and venting
i love this, thank you for your words at the end! it was very comforting and i almost cried, bc like others, been thinking how i’m always behind on things or big milestones but i have to remember this is my timeline and not anyone else’s and i’m celebrating all milestones big & small when they occur~
honestly the last question really hit home bc i'm in my 20s as well but feel like everyone is moving at a faster pace than me. i just have to remember my path might be different and unique to me- not worse or better than anyone else but just different
man i wish we could all just meet up and hang out with you in real life!! i really resonate with you and all your opinions heavily, even though we’re almost 10 years apart hahaha. but you’re just the kind of person that i wish i had as a good friend in my life🥲 you’re just such a beautiful soul🫶💫 thank you always for being here on youtube!!!
my favourite person on the internet is back
where did I go 🤣🤣🤣 jk jk hope you enjoyed the video ❤🥰
For the friendship and toxic relationship question... I think it's important to be empathetic and understand that people will only change when they want to or it'll take time for them to see it from the outside (like you mentioned). I've learned to just have boundaries while also understanding that most people do what they want and just want to vent. I also try to understand from their socialization and how they were raised. If someone is used to chaos or observing people being in a toxic relationship... That might be their understanding of relationships and may not know anything different. Plus change even if it's positive and healthy, is very hard and most people prefer the comfort of the familiar. I'd probably walk my friend through their understanding of healthy relationships and see if they can understand that it doesn't have to be toxic or hard.
But this is coming from someone pursuing a career in counseling so I view relationships from that perspective and someone not familiar with development, socialization and mental health I can see it being very difficult XD
I have also learned to let go of the expectation of people to take my advice in general! I have been both the listening friend and the friend in the toxic relationship and people really do have to discover and get out on their own pace, its my job as a friend to be there for them (if i want to be) when they finally get out of it, but also be empathetic, patient, and have/communicate boundaries regarding advice giving and venting
Not even 2 minutes in “…besides captain levi he’s the only man I think about” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
i love this, thank you for your words at the end! it was very comforting and i almost cried, bc like others, been thinking how i’m always behind on things or big milestones but i have to remember this is my timeline and not anyone else’s and i’m celebrating all milestones big & small when they occur~
i love heart to heart with hana. your channel is like a cozy cove.
honestly the last question really hit home bc i'm in my 20s as well but feel like everyone is moving at a faster pace than me. i just have to remember my path might be different and unique to me- not worse or better than anyone else but just different
One of the best videos I have seen ❤
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this is so very nice Hana! ❤
Do you split finances differently now that you're married vs when you were dating?
I love these so much >>>
Ah thank you! ❤
captain levi HAHA bye thats SO real! 😂
AHAHAHAH ugh that man will always be in my heart
Hi Hana! What's the signed language app you're currently using? I also would love to learn. Thank you!
Did you design your engagement ring or was it surprise?
Jimmy designed it based on another ring I really loved!
@@HanaLee93where did he do it😍
yay finally ❤
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hanaaa! ive been trying to learn sign language too! could you share with us the sign language app you're learning from, please! 🌻
Oh yeah! It’s called Lingvano !! Idk how I like it yet but I’ll let yall know!
thank you! 🤎
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man i wish we could all just meet up and hang out with you in real life!! i really resonate with you and all your opinions heavily, even though we’re almost 10 years apart hahaha. but you’re just the kind of person that i wish i had as a good friend in my life🥲 you’re just such a beautiful soul🫶💫 thank you always for being here on youtube!!!
After so many days 🥺🫂