Dina said she doesn’t have anyone, i think one of the things that distinguishes Dina from other social influencers IS that she doesn’t have anyone and she doesn’t need anyone! Dina, there may be many people on instagram looking and playing the game but none of them are you! You bring something that’s unmatched and incomparable. I remember watching you when I was in school, and i’ve watched you for years, no one interests me the way you do. It’s actually so refreshing to see someone who started off being different and still is different. Point is, no one does Dina the way Dina does dina 😂 also i pray Allah makes motherhood and all other aspects of life easy for you inshallah ❤️
Omg you took the words right out of my mouth ive followed Dina since years and I'm same age as her she is different and relatable and genuine and at tht time a few years ago she was the most influential stylist in her market type shes epic ❤️
Dina please make a podcast, honestly this talk was really nice to listen to in the background of what I was doing today. Really insightful, hope this is something you will consider. x
@@Sali-yw1rd no. It’s added extra. Set up, record, edit a podcast upload to various websites spotify or whatever. Iidk maybe I appreciate the candidness of her recording and I don’t feel it needs to set up in a specific way?
I am so surprised to hear you describe the exact order of how I prioritize these things in my life. I have felt so guilty that my marriage comes after our son and work. Thank you 🙏🏾
I really appreciate your and Sid’s honesty. Nowadays- I know it’s very difficult for anyone doing TH-cam to have an opinion, or feel ok to give their opinion. But I want you to know your “non-advice” resonated with me. Anytime you hear a woman (especially women who have career goals) confirming that hey- I dont know wth I’m doing half the time either, that is so wonderful. Being able to laugh about it, or just have that solidarity of yeah my husband is a titty baby when he’s sick too and I do everything. Lmao.... definitely makes me feel not alone.
I can understand her reality and appreciate her honesty but at the same time I don't know what to think about putting your husband/wife as the last priority. I think my children are in my care temporarily and they will leave once they can take care of themselves, have their own lives and so on. But my husband will be with me when they all leave and Im scared to have to 'rebuild' that connection because I have(in a sense)neglected it for so long. Also, I know its hard to prioritize myself when I am a mum but I think I need to put me first and my connection with my husband because the kids will benefit from that as well. But also I understand that at different stages in life, the priorities can be different and maybe thats ok. But yeh this has left me a little confused and lost. Does anybody see what i mean?
Not even a mother but I think is so great to have your honest opinion about it. 👍🏾Today there is this mental burden around women and mothers through the organisation of the home, family life, household chores, appointments, grocery.. And unfortunately it is often society that pushes women to do it and to do it perfectly, what forces mothers to postpone their own career plans, marriage or to take care of themselves. It is important to admit and normalised the fact that balance is complicated and we dont expect perfection. Love from Paris 🇫🇷❤
Oooh I felt that so deep in my spirit!!! Being a mother can be so overwhelming and isolating. Worth every last heartache and frustration, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy.
There’s this black hair shampoo my aunt brings from Africa, but I think it’s imported from an Arab country on account of all the Arabic written on it. But that shampoo is like $5 and makes your hair suuuupper black. It’s in green packaging if that helps 😅
I really felt in the moment with you when you were chatting in your kitchen. Very open and transparent the way you came across in the video. Just yourself 🥰💕 like a friend you chat to.
I absolutely enjoy your content lately.. it feels so honest and real, nothing too much blablabla and entertaining but rather just really conforming to see someone online so real and honest .. love that transformation ❤️
Ohh and I don‘t mean by that that your content was in the past bad or so, NOOO I absolutely love you since day one on facebook and that stuff but I absolutely enjoy your Videos lately, like more than ever ❤️❤️❤️
It's great to hear that it's possible to do well without all the 'networking' & sucking up etc - I'm rubbish at all that stuff too for the exact same reasons you said. I'm older now and would have loved to have heard someone I respected saying that when I was younger like you're doing now - so much pressure to do things one way. That could be your next book, 'business success the anti-social social media way' - lol at least i'm anti-social don't mean to speak for you too. I just like the people I like.
Ive already liked a few of the top positive comments but i think i might aswell add to it You are the only and i dont say it for the sake of it, but the only youtuber i like. I have watched you since i was in college and you were just single and you’d do your hijab styles, look for less etc ones. I think you are the OG hijabi youtuber. I still wear hijab but i remember back in the day when it wasnt trendy to wear lose clothes, you would give all the alternatives with layering etc and different hijab styles. In the process of trying to make hijab more wearable for yourself, you did the same for me and im sure manyyy others. For that reason, i hope Allah rewards you abundantly. You removing it, didnt “lead me astray” but i hope you are able to return to it You are so chill, so REAL, you dont filer out yourself or your life to be a fairy tale, you are so relatable to the average person/muslim or non muslim with the topics you and sid discuss and the way you go about life. Your outlook is so refreshing and you have no idea how glad i am that you have not been tainted by this “social media fame”. Like seeing you married and as a mother and all is so wholesome and you with your fitness journey, it is so motivating. Thank you for all that you do and for bringing us along on the journey with you for so many years. 🥺🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️
I have to say after watching this I feel much better about my relationship- I thought I was the only one who doesn’t get a break. Nice dose of reality check for many married women/mothers. It’s ok it’s life & we’re doing great in our own ways 👍🏻 x
After watching this video, I don’t know if I should get married or have kids. Is it really worth the mental exhaustion? Why is life soo hard man! 😭😭 Thank you Dina for always being honest 💯
Her life is not like everyone's life. It's different for everyone! I have a small baby and it's mad difficult but it's SUPER worth it! Marriage is not always easy as well but it's the best thing ever! We did everything the halal way and we can see the baraka so it's the best advice: do the halal way and you will be happy ❤️ Assalam aleykoum
ManshaAllah may Allah bless your family. But I am not sure that is what I want for myself. It just seems like a lot. Life is hard as it is without adding kids and responsibilities. But I guess it comes with some type of fulfillment that makes it worth it. As for staying home, I don’t think that is an option for me because I am a medical student. ❤️❤️
Hi, Dina! That dark hair color too looks really good on you. You look cute without makeup: lika a little girl. Thank you for being honest and sharing this with us. I honestly feel I don't have energy for the kids and marriage.
Not a mom yet but it’s true what you’re saying. Have to ask my husband to do stuff, he can’t think of it himself. He get the work done but it’s just exhausting to ask each time...
A lot of women feel that 'a good man' should be able to read your mind. Reality is that no man can do that. It all boils down to communicating. Sometimes dreadful, boring, spelling it out. Most men don't tend to listen by the way, so sometimes it also entales repeating the same things over and over 🤣 it goes both ways though. We, women hardely ever realy understand our men without communicating. After being with my man for over 6 years, he finally explained why he does not like being yelled at (like when I get frustrated, I tend to speak louder 🤣), so the deeper explanaition other than: I don't like it/ just stop it.' I can finally be more aware of it and prevent myself from lashing out because I understand it won't have the effect I'm hoping for. It will take a lot of effort, but keep talking as often as possible to learn about each other.
That was a very interesing vlog. I haven't watched for a while. Life seemed to take toll on you and I am not different. Im so happy to see that you are showing people that you are human, with a normal life; normal feelings. I wish you and your family nothing but the best x x
To get rid of the Orange tone u need to dye it an ash tone. If u want it really dark go for a level 4 or 3 then the ash tone which is /1...... So 4/1 or 3/1. Wella koleston is a good choice can buy it on Amazon , use with a 6% (20%) peroxide. Keep in mind that the koleston perfect always comes out abit darker than normal, so go for the 4/1 first maybe.
I literally felt like you were describing me especially when you were talking timelines (I am a sahm who wants a creative outlet but also wants to go back to what I left work to become a sahm for) and social anxiety and no friends or people I am 💯 % comfortable with right now. It’s total hierarchy of mom life, then wide life/home life and I am lucky because I am facing a lot of marriage issues right now I can focus some energy each week on mental health AH, but I want to exercise and get back on to working, but I have a lot to be grateful for
I think the reason I`ve been followin you, Dina, is because I can totally see myself in you! I might not into social media or the creative industry but I totally get you on soooo many levels! I don't like to make people or companies or anyone like me. I am sooo bad at networking and I am such a lone wolf. The only people I love being around is my family. I share a really deep bond with my sisters and mum. That sums up my social life. This appears weird to others but that's how I like it. It so easy being around family, there is no pretending or anything. You can be yourself and your family has to deal with it. Watching this video of yours reminded me why I like watching your vlogs, even when you might call them boring. They appeal to me. You represent a realistic lifestyle. I dont like watching VLOGS of people who are super outgoing and stuff! So thanks for your content! Have ben in love for it for years now! Love xo Ammara
Enjoyed this video dina..was thinking how much you have matured..i am much older than you...have enjoyed you immensely through the years...i wondered if your deciding to "change your style" made you more independant..i know maturing is a natural process..but still i see much different aspects of YOU than i ever imagined and in just a few short years...hope this doesn't sound like bla Bla bla! Take care..you have such beautiful hair ..how lucky you are!!!
Love love your vlogs . Thanks for the pep talk even if you think you didn’t offer any advice.... you did and it helps women/ mums who need inspo during these hard times
Loved the conversation and thank you for sharing, i think its always useful and great to see that everything in life needs a lot of work for it to be successful or even “normal” . This is what peolple dont see from social media, they only see the final results and dont think about whats behind Also the theme about pleasing people to “use” that network in the future etc... i totally agree with your point of view. ❤️
Girl you really hit it on the head with asking for help. The concept is called “Mental Load”, there’s a piece on it called “Why Didn’t You Just Ask?” Check it out!!
"Was he licking the sushi?" Expecting the camera to answer "Yes he was!!" 😂❤😘😘😘
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I actually moved my head up n to the side to check but Dina's head is in the way to even see lolll, im only looking thru the screen. If it was live then we could've told her
Love the insights and sincerity ❤️. And I find the music you had on when the workout began very uplifting. What is it could you share please? Thanks! 😘
House tour please! Im so flakey on ideas, i start a theme and then change my mind. Ive gone from mismatched to minimilastic, elegant, scandi/boho and now looking at industrial 😓 please help. I love your walls, i want them. See what i mean 🤭 im so indecisive
Love watching you so real an true It’s very true what you say there is no balance juggling working motherhood and marriage it’s exhausting no rest or time for us moms
Love this vlog. Thanks for sharing your honest opinion, as always. Totally relate to it as a mother who's been told I'm too "career-minded" lolz. Work comes 2nd for sure
Hey guys my name is Rahima pls make dua for me that I get a better job as I’m currently struggling in my current job Carnt leave cos of the pandemic sadly :( ... and also that I get married to in sha Allah .... love watching Dina and sid videos x
At first its an adjustment. Have an open mind and know that it will be hard. Any change in life can be hard at the best of times but you just need to roll with the punches. Marriage is a beautiful thing, you need to be willing to put in the effort. Communication, patience and compromise is key 👍
@zahra saani honestly, don't let yourself get put off. There are a lot of people who are happily married. Alhamdulillah I wouldn't give it up for the world. We fight like cats and dogs the best of times but i don't regret getting married. Could you imagine married life just being happy all the time? Sometimes you need a shake up 😂 Nothing is every rosey in life, whether its work, family or friends. Ultimately you know whats best for you and what will make you happy. I hope your life filled with nothing but blessings ❤
@zahra saani i‘m also scared of it but as the other person said i also know many people that are happily married with kids. it‘s kinda rare i think tbh but seeing for example my friend like that makes me less worried
Ok so we are all basically living the same life in our own unique ways😳 the neverending list in my head ohh man I wish men could understand that list and why it HAS to be in that order! Thanks Dina for the very relatable chat.
I disagree. When I'm ill and my husband is fine then he will look after OUR kids. And vice versa. If we are both ill then we will have to tag team. Creating an understanding that the kids are BOTH parents' responsibility should be discussed BEFORE kids come around. Issues arise when mothers are so "selfless" that they do not allow themselves to be ill. Or to give themselves time.
Haha love that one cat goes down and the other jumps up 🤣 so cute. Mine is very much motherhood - me - work - marriage 🙈 I would absolutely go crazy not looking after myself and getting me time in 😑 Struggle is very real
well look, people consider certain things a mile stone in their lives. Their jobs, their family, marriage and their houses. We are defined by others and we look at our successes and failures by comparing ourselves to others. I myself do not agree with this but that is the society we live in. As a man I am defined by my job and assets by others. If i were looking to get married my money and achievements would be looked at first. If i was single and in my 40s people would consider that strange and for a women its considered much worse. People would think there is something wrong with you. We are all defined by many things, some reasonable and others unreasonable. As a man I think its unreasonable I am defined by my money, I find it superficial and most women that put high importance on money feel entitled . But it leads to many other character flaws which attracts other people with character flaws. We hear many women say all men are dogs or bad, or cheaters. But y answer to that is when you find a guy that ticks your boxes please remember that excludes other boxes or categories of them. So keep that in mind. Another thing I want to point out is this..... There are people who are superficial and selfish and put importance in money, remember that when you attract or choose a person of the same mind frame be prepared to get your own medicine. It will bite you in the backside. I know many stories of people marrying doctors, accountants etc etc and they have turned into nightmares. Doesn't make any of them the good side, both can be as bad as each other and make it hard for both of them. Its the same for the wealthy man that wants to get the tall model as a trophy wife, you think shes suddenly going to become mother Teresa once shes married.....she will still want to get all the men's attention and flirt or even cheat potentially. But at the same time the rich guy also knows the influence he has and knows his money attracts the opposite sex. In the snake pit all the snakes get bit in the back and there isn't an innocent snake in the pit. So those people who are deemed not worthy , who pushed out or walk away I call doves, doves don't bite and even a snake needs something they can trust who doesn't bite them in the back. But the nature of the snake will never be around doves.
I always appreciate your unfiltered conversations about the realities of life. By the way, your hair looks great Dina!
Dina said she doesn’t have anyone, i think one of the things that distinguishes Dina from other social influencers IS that she doesn’t have anyone and she doesn’t need anyone! Dina, there may be many people on instagram looking and playing the game but none of them are you! You bring something that’s unmatched and incomparable. I remember watching you when I was in school, and i’ve watched you for years, no one interests me the way you do. It’s actually so refreshing to see someone who started off being different and still is different. Point is, no one does Dina the way Dina does dina 😂 also i pray Allah makes motherhood and all other aspects of life easy for you inshallah ❤️
Omg you took the words right out of my mouth ive followed Dina since years and I'm same age as her she is different and relatable and genuine and at tht time a few years ago she was the most influential stylist in her market type shes epic ❤️
Dina please make a podcast, honestly this talk was really nice to listen to in the background of what I was doing today. Really insightful, hope this is something you will consider. x
Lol she’s explaining how she has too many things to do and now you want an added podcast. >_
@@Sali-yw1rd no. It’s added extra. Set up, record, edit a podcast upload to various websites spotify or whatever. Iidk maybe I appreciate the candidness of her recording and I don’t feel it needs to set up in a specific way?
I am so surprised to hear you describe the exact order of how I prioritize these things in my life. I have felt so guilty that my marriage comes after our son and work. Thank you 🙏🏾
This unfiltered honesty / stream of consciousness was appreciated so much. I can relate now and for a future me. Thank you for being so genuine.
Amen. He said the man is your milk and honey!! th-cam.com/video/DW4rR3LXFm4/w-d-xo.html
Such a real, raw and unfiltered video..really looking forward to seeing a video of following you around for a day lol. That should be fun!
0:22 "Catch our child? Are you mad!?" "Hold on I've got to catch our child" 🤣😂🤣
Haha
Png Bule cxxx the 😢❤❤😅😊
I really appreciate your and Sid’s honesty. Nowadays- I know it’s very difficult for anyone doing TH-cam to have an opinion, or feel ok to give their opinion. But I want you to know your “non-advice” resonated with me. Anytime you hear a woman (especially women who have career goals) confirming that hey- I dont know wth I’m doing half the time either, that is so wonderful. Being able to laugh about it, or just have that solidarity of yeah my husband is a titty baby when he’s sick too and I do everything. Lmao.... definitely makes me feel not alone.
I can understand her reality and appreciate her honesty but at the same time I don't know what to think about putting your husband/wife as the last priority. I think my children are in my care temporarily and they will leave once they can take care of themselves, have their own lives and so on. But my husband will be with me when they all leave and Im scared to have to 'rebuild' that connection because I have(in a sense)neglected it for so long. Also, I know its hard to prioritize myself when I am a mum but I think I need to put me first and my connection with my husband because the kids will benefit from that as well.
But also I understand that at different stages in life, the priorities can be different and maybe thats ok. But yeh this has left me a little confused and lost. Does anybody see what i mean?
Agreed work on you and your husband kids learn from this plus taking care of kids is a 50 50 job anyway
Same. Me, 2nd my husband and then the kids.
Not even a mother but I think is so great to have your honest opinion about it. 👍🏾Today there is this mental burden around women and mothers through the organisation of the home, family life, household chores, appointments, grocery.. And unfortunately it is often society that pushes women to do it and to do it perfectly, what forces mothers to postpone their own career plans, marriage or to take care of themselves. It is important to admit and normalised the fact that balance is complicated and we dont expect perfection.
Love from Paris 🇫🇷❤
Mothers aren't allowed to be ill, full stop. When your partner is ill, the world needs to stop.
Exactly!!!
Literally
Oooh I felt that so deep in my spirit!!! Being a mother can be so overwhelming and isolating. Worth every last heartache and frustration, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy.
There’s this black hair shampoo my aunt brings from Africa, but I think it’s imported from an Arab country on account of all the Arabic written on it. But that shampoo is like $5 and makes your hair suuuupper black. It’s in green packaging if that helps 😅
I really felt in the moment with you when you were chatting in your kitchen. Very open and transparent the way you came across in the video. Just yourself 🥰💕 like a friend you chat to.
I absolutely enjoy your content lately.. it feels so honest and real, nothing too much blablabla and entertaining but rather just really conforming to see someone online so real and honest .. love that transformation ❤️
Ohh and I don‘t mean by that that your content was in the past bad or so, NOOO I absolutely love you since day one on facebook and that stuff but I absolutely enjoy your Videos lately, like more than ever ❤️❤️❤️
So honest and real! You are empowering every mother out there facing the same difficulties! THANK YOU❤️
9 years on and I still feel like I'm watching myself when I watch your videos. (The amount of times I've been told Dina Tokio reminds people of me 🙈)
Love that you had a good heart to heart at the end. You spoke on topics that affect all people of all ages. Thank you
It's great to hear that it's possible to do well without all the 'networking' & sucking up etc - I'm rubbish at all that stuff too for the exact same reasons you said. I'm older now and would have loved to have heard someone I respected saying that when I was younger like you're doing now - so much pressure to do things one way. That could be your next book, 'business success the anti-social social media way' - lol at least i'm anti-social don't mean to speak for you too. I just like the people I like.
Ive already liked a few of the top positive comments but i think i might aswell add to it
You are the only and i dont say it for the sake of it, but the only youtuber i like. I have watched you since i was in college and you were just single and you’d do your hijab styles, look for less etc ones. I think you are the OG hijabi youtuber. I still wear hijab but i remember back in the day when it wasnt trendy to wear lose clothes, you would give all the alternatives with layering etc and different hijab styles. In the process of trying to make hijab more wearable for yourself, you did the same for me and im sure manyyy others. For that reason, i hope Allah rewards you abundantly. You removing it, didnt “lead me astray” but i hope you are able to return to it
You are so chill, so REAL, you dont filer out yourself or your life to be a fairy tale, you are so relatable to the average person/muslim or non muslim with the topics you and sid discuss and the way you go about life. Your outlook is so refreshing and you have no idea how glad i am that you have not been tainted by this “social media fame”. Like seeing you married and as a mother and all is so wholesome and you with your fitness journey, it is so motivating.
Thank you for all that you do and for bringing us along on the journey with you for so many years. 🥺🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️
I really enjoy your videos. they are very refreshing in the sense that they are absolutely real. thank you for that.
Wow. This talk hit deep. As a fellow wife and mother I hear you. 🤚🏽 Thank you for showing self-compassion 💜
I have to say after watching this I feel much better about my relationship- I thought I was the only one who doesn’t get a break. Nice dose of reality check for many married women/mothers. It’s ok it’s life & we’re doing great in our own ways 👍🏻 x
This conversation honestly made me feel like I am not alone
Amen. He said the man is your milk and honey!! th-cam.com/video/DW4rR3LXFm4/w-d-xo.html
You’re iconic Dina!! We all LOVE YOU
Amen. He said the man is your milk and honey!! th-cam.com/video/DW4rR3LXFm4/w-d-xo.html
Real talk yes Dina 👏 you’re an amazing mother and human!
After watching this video, I don’t know if I should get married or have kids. Is it really worth the mental exhaustion? Why is life soo hard man! 😭😭 Thank you Dina for always being honest 💯
Her life is not like everyone's life. It's different for everyone! I have a small baby and it's mad difficult but it's SUPER worth it! Marriage is not always easy as well but it's the best thing ever! We did everything the halal way and we can see the baraka so it's the best advice: do the halal way and you will be happy ❤️ Assalam aleykoum
(I should add machallah lool)
Also should add that, although I graduated from uni, I chose to stay at home. Makes it easier to focus on my family and all the work it requires! Kiss
ManshaAllah may Allah bless your family. But I am not sure that is what I want for myself. It just seems like a lot. Life is hard as it is without adding kids and responsibilities. But I guess it comes with some type of fulfillment that makes it worth it. As for staying home, I don’t think that is an option for me because I am a medical student. ❤️❤️
I hear everything you've talked about! I have a 5 year old girl and now 1 month old boy and the struggle of LIFE and marriage 😩
Amen. He said the man is your milk and honey!! th-cam.com/video/DW4rR3LXFm4/w-d-xo.html
Hi, Dina! That dark hair color too looks really good on you. You look cute without makeup: lika a little girl. Thank you for being honest and sharing this with us. I honestly feel I don't have energy for the kids and marriage.
Not a mom yet but it’s true what you’re saying. Have to ask my husband to do stuff, he can’t think of it himself. He get the work done but it’s just exhausting to ask each time...
A lot of women feel that 'a good man' should be able to read your mind. Reality is that no man can do that. It all boils down to communicating. Sometimes dreadful, boring, spelling it out. Most men don't tend to listen by the way, so sometimes it also entales repeating the same things over and over 🤣 it goes both ways though. We, women hardely ever realy understand our men without communicating. After being with my man for over 6 years, he finally explained why he does not like being yelled at (like when I get frustrated, I tend to speak louder 🤣), so the deeper explanaition other than: I don't like it/ just stop it.' I can finally be more aware of it and prevent myself from lashing out because I understand it won't have the effect I'm hoping for.
It will take a lot of effort, but keep talking as often as possible to learn about each other.
That was a very interesing vlog. I haven't watched for a while. Life seemed to take toll on you and I am not different. Im so happy to see that you are showing people that you are human, with a normal life; normal feelings. I wish you and your family nothing but the best x x
To get rid of the Orange tone u need to dye it an ash tone. If u want it really dark go for a level 4 or 3 then the ash tone which is /1...... So 4/1 or 3/1. Wella koleston is a good choice can buy it on Amazon , use with a 6% (20%) peroxide. Keep in mind that the koleston perfect always comes out abit darker than normal, so go for the 4/1 first maybe.
Dina reminds you of that one friend you had in school that said anything and was always fun and real. Hope you make more videos 💗
I literally felt like you were describing me especially when you were talking timelines (I am a sahm who wants a creative outlet but also wants to go back to what I left work to become a sahm for) and social anxiety and no friends or people I am 💯 % comfortable with right now. It’s total hierarchy of mom life, then wide life/home life and I am lucky because I am facing a lot of marriage issues right now I can focus some energy each week on mental health AH, but I want to exercise and get back on to working, but I have a lot to be grateful for
I think the reason I`ve been followin you, Dina, is because I can totally see myself in you! I might not into social media or the creative industry but I totally get you on soooo many levels! I don't like to make people or companies or anyone like me. I am sooo bad at networking and I am such a lone wolf. The only people I love being around is my family. I share a really deep bond with my sisters and mum. That sums up my social life. This appears weird to others but that's how I like it. It so easy being around family, there is no pretending or anything. You can be yourself and your family has to deal with it. Watching this video of yours reminded me why I like watching your vlogs, even when you might call them boring. They appeal to me. You represent a realistic lifestyle. I dont like watching VLOGS of people who are super outgoing and stuff! So thanks for your content! Have ben in love for it for years now! Love xo Ammara
Dina I really wish u would appreciate how nice u look for a mum of 2.
Enjoyed this video dina..was thinking how much you have matured..i am much older than you...have enjoyed you immensely through the years...i wondered if your deciding to "change your style" made you more independant..i know maturing is a natural process..but still i see much different aspects of YOU than i ever imagined and in just a few short years...hope this doesn't sound like bla Bla bla!
Take care..you have such beautiful hair ..how lucky you are!!!
'Nobody listens to Mama'.. Same as my household too😂
Totally relate. Life of a mama is bloody Extremely HARD!
Love love your vlogs . Thanks for the pep talk even if you think you didn’t offer any advice.... you did and it helps women/ mums who need inspo during these hard times
I love your vlogs so much ❤️ I loved hearing you talk about the struggles.
Love listening to you thinking out loud. You have made many valid points x
Loving the cat content 🤣
15:20
"sorry I'm getting a bit passionate here!"
😂😂😂😂
We love to see those!
Don’t worry about us getting bored, we are all here waiting 🙌🏼
Amen. He said the man is your milk and honey!! th-cam.com/video/DW4rR3LXFm4/w-d-xo.html
Before I continue watching the video, lemme tell you that your hair looks beautiful Ma shaa Allah. It's a bit ombre'-ish and I like it 😁
Loved the talk, can fully relate to the networking part ❤️
That was such a great discussion , love watching you openly talk about these things. You’re such a cutie!!! 💕💕
Loved the conversation and thank you for sharing, i think its always useful and great to see that everything in life needs a lot of work for it to be successful or even “normal” . This is what peolple dont see from social media, they only see the final results and dont think about whats behind
Also the theme about pleasing people to “use” that network in the future etc... i totally agree with your point of view.
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Girl you really hit it on the head with asking for help. The concept is called “Mental Load”, there’s a piece on it called “Why Didn’t You Just Ask?”
Check it out!!
this was an amazing insight! thank you Dina x
"Was he licking the sushi?" Expecting the camera to answer "Yes he was!!" 😂❤😘😘😘
I actually moved my head up n to the side to check but Dina's head is in the way to even see lolll, im only looking thru the screen. If it was live then we could've told her
Spot on Dina 🙏🏻 no matter what a mother has to pull through for everyone and everything. We need Credit where credit is due 👏🏻👌🏻
I completely agree with mum chat Dina, I totally understand
Love the insights and sincerity ❤️. And I find the music you had on when the workout began very uplifting. What is it could you share please? Thanks! 😘
I really appreciate what you said about mum life.
I appreciate your vlogs SO MUCH , thank you ❤️
House tour please! Im so flakey on ideas, i start a theme and then change my mind. Ive gone from mismatched to minimilastic, elegant, scandi/boho and now looking at industrial 😓 please help. I love your walls, i want them. See what i mean 🤭 im so indecisive
You are a true inspiration dina
Can anyone help me out - where can I find a chair like at 4:29?
i've been watching you guys for about 7yrs now and have similar family to yours.
Love your videos ♥️
I know exactly what you talking about Dina.
Thank you for this talk I can relate to what you saying
Love watching you so real an true
It’s very true what you say there is no balance juggling working motherhood and marriage it’s exhausting no rest or time for us moms
Dina its admirable how hardworking you are barakallh honestly speaking being hardworking is dieing in people
You're doing fine Dina, really, you know what's important and your doing your best. It'll all be kheyr IA.
And a yes for a day in the life video!!!
Amen. He said the man is your milk and honey!! th-cam.com/video/DW4rR3LXFm4/w-d-xo.html
Loved this Dina❤️ from start to the very end
Your hair looks perfect with touches of brown
Are you doing Ramadan vlogs this year? Really looking forward to it 💓
Great truths there dina. Love it
I think you’re doing better than you realise you are 💗
Love this vlog. Thanks for sharing your honest opinion, as always. Totally relate to it as a mother who's been told I'm too "career-minded" lolz. Work comes 2nd for sure
NEW MEMBER! SO GLAD TO JOIN YOUUU
Ah dina, been here since your tesco job days. Not about to go anywhere ❤
Hey guys my name is Rahima pls make dua for me that I get a better job as I’m currently struggling in my current job Carnt leave cos of the pandemic sadly :( ... and also that I get married to in sha Allah .... love watching Dina and sid videos x
Chip is ridiculous! I can’t with him! 🤣😍
Real talk I know EXACTLY what u mean u said it perfectly!
not even married but after this video i don‘t even know if i should 😃
Lol ... you will be fine. There any so many positives but there are a lot or challenges and ups and downs. And a lot of comprising 🙏🏻💪🏻
At first its an adjustment. Have an open mind and know that it will be hard. Any change in life can be hard at the best of times but you just need to roll with the punches. Marriage is a beautiful thing, you need to be willing to put in the effort. Communication, patience and compromise is key 👍
Me too fam
@zahra saani honestly, don't let yourself get put off. There are a lot of people who are happily married. Alhamdulillah I wouldn't give it up for the world. We fight like cats and dogs the best of times but i don't regret getting married. Could you imagine married life just being happy all the time? Sometimes you need a shake up 😂 Nothing is every rosey in life, whether its work, family or friends. Ultimately you know whats best for you and what will make you happy. I hope your life filled with nothing but blessings ❤
@zahra saani i‘m also scared of it but as the other person said i also know many people that are happily married with kids. it‘s kinda rare i think tbh but seeing for example my friend like that makes me less worried
I know I will be enjoying this and I haven't even started 🥰🥰
Cat lovers are just THE best humans on the planet 😻
I'm just sure I will agree with every single thing you'll say before even I hit start 😍😍😍😍😍💖😁😂😊All zeeee love Dina xx
Ok so we are all basically living the same life in our own unique ways😳 the neverending list in my head ohh man I wish men could understand that list and why it HAS to be in that order! Thanks Dina for the very relatable chat.
Would love a podcast Dina 💖💖
Loved this talk.
Dina , you’re amazing and special and beloved to Allah , don’t let anyone put you down Lyl X
I disagree. When I'm ill and my husband is fine then he will look after OUR kids. And vice versa. If we are both ill then we will have to tag team. Creating an understanding that the kids are BOTH parents' responsibility should be discussed BEFORE kids come around. Issues arise when mothers are so "selfless" that they do not allow themselves to be ill.
Or to give themselves time.
You disagree with her own personal experience?
@@fizzybizzy3790 listen to 11 mins in. She is making a general statement
Haha love that one cat goes down and the other jumps up 🤣 so cute. Mine is very much motherhood - me - work - marriage 🙈 I would absolutely go crazy not looking after myself and getting me time in 😑 Struggle is very real
Are your headphones beats or another brand ?
Can you please do a detailed workout & what i eat in a day video! Xx
6:00 on marriage motherhood work life balance
Dina when u pick the cat up I dont no if u seen this but the camera goes abit blurry and a light flashes by u 😬
Okay but why is there so less Sid in this video :( really miss watching Sid and Dina's camaraderie apart from the Ask Sid and Dina segments
Those cats are sooo cute omg what breed are they
Thank you for sharing this! This helps a lot. :)
wow you sound so calm and wiser, where is the loud and energetic dina ? is it because you're getting old or because it's late at night
Nailed it in one vid 👍
Does anyone know what kind of cat is Chaplin? Like what breed?
Maine Coon
Dina what's your mbti type?
well look, people consider certain things a mile stone in their lives. Their jobs, their family, marriage and their houses. We are defined by others and we look at our successes and failures by comparing ourselves to others. I myself do not agree with this but that is the society we live in. As a man I am defined by my job and assets by others. If i were looking to get married my money and achievements would be looked at first. If i was single and in my 40s people would consider that strange and for a women its considered much worse. People would think there is something wrong with you. We are all defined by many things, some reasonable and others unreasonable. As a man I think its unreasonable I am defined by my money, I find it superficial and most women that put high importance on money feel entitled . But it leads to many other character flaws which attracts other people with character flaws. We hear many women say all men are dogs or bad, or cheaters. But y answer to that is when you find a guy that ticks your boxes please remember that excludes other boxes or categories of them. So keep that in mind. Another thing I want to point out is this.....
There are people who are superficial and selfish and put importance in money, remember that when you attract or choose a person of the same mind frame be prepared to get your own medicine. It will bite you in the backside. I know many stories of people marrying doctors, accountants etc etc and they have turned into nightmares. Doesn't make any of them the good side, both can be as bad as each other and make it hard for both of them. Its the same for the wealthy man that wants to get the tall model as a trophy wife, you think shes suddenly going to become mother Teresa once shes married.....she will still want to get all the men's attention and flirt or even cheat potentially. But at the same time the rich guy also knows the influence he has and knows his money attracts the opposite sex. In the snake pit all the snakes get bit in the back and there isn't an innocent snake in the pit. So those people who are deemed not worthy , who pushed out or walk away I call doves, doves don't bite and even a snake needs something they can trust who doesn't bite them in the back. But the nature of the snake will never be around doves.
I can soooooo relate to this video