This is wickedness of the highest level. Let her get married to her business because she never loved you at all. How can she manage the businesses secretly.
First of all All of una wey dey this comment session get too much ego Under this T pain economy, i find out say my wife na potential multi millionaire running 2 legal registered business and i am angry with her for not telling me😅 omo i will embrace my wifee, i will kiss her, i will love x2 because she isn't a liability but a financial back up patner And for crying out loud is not like every married man tells thier wife exactly how much is in their accout or how many accounts they have. Y all see nothing wrong with a man not telling his wife about his entire account because u dont trust her but u will jump to conclusion and say she doesn't love him because she is doing well for herself which means she is doing well for her family. Like it or not when her pikin need help like skul fees or feeding money, it is her that will provide without looking for where to get the money if the situation at that point is tight just like now the husband didn't hv enough money to pay the house rent. I admit she didn't tell her, but is not like she was cheating on him or anything like that. All she was doing was building a finaice that will sustain the family even when things are hard. Try dey look at the other person perspective, no dey judge like fools.
Don’t rush into marriage! A responsible man should understand that many women today are focused solely on their own interests. Marriage has become transactional and business like, and if both partners aren’t equally contributing, it’s not worth it. You can achieve all the benefits of marriage without actually getting married, especially to this type of woman. Protect yourself and prioritize your well being first.
These are the things men will hear and starts shivering from the word 'marriage'. Watching your significant other struggle in pain with bills and you're not bothered is cold, mehn! 😢
Exactly what I just think about as a guy now that I going to find it difficult to marry Infact I'm now adding 1 plus 1 now like marriage is a scam i will just get a lady pregnant and be sending upkeep money.
@@Amos-y6n so getting a lady pregnant and sending upkeep and welfare to my child is bad guy in Nigeria as far as u have the money to take care of both mother and son financially then everyone will be ok. I'm I impotent that u will be saying I should adopt I want my own blood so guy u aren't me that's my own opinion and u can't change it just From mere TH-cam u hear.
One thing I've learnt over time about women, is that they always have their own Agenda. They hide their character overtime just to achieve their agenda... Which most times is selfish
If you have children, kindly run and rush faster than normal to conduct a DNA TEST, to find out if those children are yours or not before it's too late.
She may not have told him but the fact that she harassed this man about the money used to pay for a house rent in which she dwelled too is very ugly and gross !!!! She doesn’t love him and I can say she is staying there for people to say she is married.
Men stop stressing yourselves. There are too many women out there to be stressed about one. Work hard, pray and take care of yourselves first brothers.
I will advise you guys should consider a marriage counseling and see how you both can works out your differences. This should not brake up the marriage. Let her explain why she's been hiding things. She might have had bad experience before. God help you guys
Exactly my dear. Some men when they know their wives have money, they will shift responsibility to the woman. That might be her fear, but every couple must plan their home and be open to each other. Guy, this is not enough reason to leave your marriage please. Just sit down with your wife and plan your expenses, let her know which areas she can be helping in the bills. Please don't break your marriage.
God has shown him early. If he doesn't run, whatever he sees in the future, he shouldn't blame anyone. I will run far away from a woman like this. What concealing are you taking about you most abroad.
Until she cooks for him and poisons him then you will understand she's not interested in the marriage but just wanted a man's protection. What's the man's usefulness to her?
@@EuniceOkpalanozie-br6kfSome of you will say most men don't support their wives to fulfil their potentials but when they do and become more successful, you don't want to contribute to the wellbeing of your own family. Who ever said the husband must be richer than the wife?
@myztroogeegibson3568 We are saying the same thing, that's why she does not love him.. She sleeps with him, stays with him but chooses the woman she stays somewhere else... 😢
First of all All of una wey dey this comment session get too much ego Under this T pain economy, i find out say my wife na potential multi millionaire running 2 legal registered business and i am angry with her for not telling me😅 omo i will embrace my wifee, i will kiss her, i will love x2 because she isn't a liability but a financial back up patner And for crying out loud is not like every married man tells thier wife exactly how much is in their accout or how many accounts they have. Y all see nothing wrong with a man not telling his wife about his entire account because u dont trust her but u will jump to conclusion and say she doesn't love him because she is doing well for herself which means she is doing well for her family. Like it or not when her pikin need help like skul fees or feeding money, it is her that will provide without looking for where to get the money if the situation at that point is tight just like now the husband didn't hv enough money to pay the house rent. I admit she didn't tell her, but is not like she was cheating on him or anything like that. All she was doing was building a finaice that will sustain the family even when things are hard. Try dey look at the other person perspective, no dey judge like fools.
This is not a wife material and any man who married this kind of a woman shall always be in pain. This lady is in love with someone else and it's that guy who gave her money to start a trade. This lady is not meant to be under any man.
First of all All of una wey dey this comment session get too much ego Under this T pain economy, i find out say my wife na potential multi millionaire running 2 legal registered business and i am angry with her for not telling me😅 omo i will embrace my wifee, i will kiss her, i will love x2 because she isn't a liability but a financial back up patner And for crying out loud is not like every married man tells thier wife exactly how much is in their accout or how many accounts they have. Y all see nothing wrong with a man not telling his wife about his entire account because u dont trust her but u will jump to conclusion and say she doesn't love him because she is doing well for herself which means she is doing well for her family. Like it or not when her pikin need help like skul fees or feeding money, it is her that will provide without looking for where to get the money if the situation at that point is tight just like now the husband didn't hv enough money to pay the house rent. I admit she didn't tell her, but is not like she was cheating on him or anything like that. All she was doing was building a finaice that will sustain the family even when things are hard. Try dey look at the other person perspective, no dey judge like fools.
Guy, please forgive her. She didnt do well, but please let it slide. Dont allow it break your marriage. Woman, reorganise your home, be truthful to your husband. You can actually manage the businesses with him instead of your sister and mother. Please build your home with wisdom of God. May love reign and prace be given a chance in your marriage
My friend, don't take any decision right now that you very angry. I was once divorced, and it isn't a good path I must confess to you. You already have a kid together. Now that you know your stand, it is for you to know how to redirect the course of the chart in your home. Do not forget, before you came into their lives, the business was already in existence, not forgetting that your wife was and is wrong in all ramifications. As you relax, think, give it some few weeks, a good solution will come to your mind. I hope this suffices for now. Decisions taken in haste always lead to disaster!
Bro most women your money is for both of you but her money is her money so bro, Thank God that you have known the type of person you are dealing with don't end the marriage only know you are alone in terms of hustling
I would not say he should desolve his marriage because of this, I understand his feeling because I have this same experience with the person I leave with at home but not business. If the lady ask for forgiveness and she want to be in the marriage just forgive her and let her continue with her business. Make sure you ask her to keep everyone her business makes to her self and continue to work hard and provide for your family one day you will break even. Things are never what they seem. It’s hurts so bad but what can you do.
Guy, call family meeting for her, nor be friends go solve this problem, she what to destroy her life because of greed. I believe that her mum is the bigger issue, she has pollucted her daughter heart.
This is a lesson.....it happened to me as well.... Pls anyone man getting marry now.... should pls calm down and prank her to know the type of woman he's getting knot with.... Bcos woman can pretend to be an Angel
What is your business about your wife business. My mother couldn’t read and write and she has 4shop selling fish in Apapa.my father never took a penny from my mother when I was 18years old she took me to bank and put my name in the account all the property she built was in my name not my father name today she is 92 years and I am 66years old so it is not compolsary that she has to tell you please I have never ask my wife in the last 40years about her finances I am not interested
Oga your parents case is different from this one..at least let your husband know about it because if along the line something bad happens to the business she will be emotionally traumatized and the husband will be at the receiving end.
Men are not always grand when you open up to them. She even had a child, if you say she takes pills to avoid preg and has 2 secret businesses, I for think otherwise... oga some of our men feel jealous, spiteful, and bitter resentment when women do bigger 😢. Experience too much of this type, let me not talk all....😢😢😢
This is height of deception 😎. She's not to be trusted. She don't honestly love this man. She need to be investigated weda she's even sponsoring a lover outside her marriage
I think the woman noticed she earns more than the man but really love to be with man so she was afraid if discloses it that the man will feel inferior to her, is just like how men avoid marrying rich ladies
This take is flawed and the video has proven it already. If she loved him like you claim, she wouldn't literally be choking the man for the money she supposed burrowed for thier rent especially if it came from a place of love. This woman is a leech and other women know this but this gender can lie for Africa until it affects their own person. Peace.
This is reason why a man should marry a woman who is in his league. If your family didn't have a business then don't marry from a family with businesses because her financial acumen is at a higher level than yours. In business we manage financial risk even subconsciously and the way the husband is reacting so emotionally he is too controlling hence a high risk to the business. Three years is more than enough to study your spouse's behaviour and maybe that's the reason why this business was kept a secret to him. The husband should have approached this with wisdom and reason and not emotionally, as the head of family and then turn this to the advantage of the family. To me this woman is wise and should he decide to divorce her the husband will be the loser.
My brother just run for your life coz these people can butcher u , just imagine someone being too secretive like that meaning that what you know about her is very little.and it's written in Matthew:19.5 and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?but your case is the opposite. Proverbs:18.22 He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.we don't deny the fact that she's hard working but she isn't good how could she leave you to struggle alone and yet she had the ability to back u up
Meaning you all are the same ? If not they should be better once out there .her action is one of the worst and there is no better one out there no need marrying then
Brother, please don't end the marriage because you have invested in it in a way. Please find a way to forgive her and iron out things because of your child 🙏 😔 😢. What she did wasn't good but at the same time correction can be made a’d amended because from what I can see she is truly sorry because she too the wrong advice from someone very close which lead to this.
This woman is not even remorseful over what the husband is saying and I'm not sure this woman love this man maybe she just married him just because of marriage sake, see the attitude or because of the money now she now feeling far more better than the man she can't even apologize...na wa oooo man make una dey investigate any woman wey una wan marry before water go pass Garry....des is rubbish now.
Oga you want to live your wife because you found out that she has business she's been running before you both got married. Well she would have told you but never the less, she has her reasons.... Maybe you wouldn't be serious or work hard to take responsibility as the husband of the house. Maybe you might want to be lazy and always putting your eyes in her money.... be sincere, most men are doing it. It's not that your wife won't assist you when needed..... because some Nigeria men will continue wanting their wife's to pay for this , pay for that, when ever she assist to help him. Assuming it is you that have businesses/bank accounts your wife no nothing else about... would your wife say the marriage is over and will not want to marry you aga.. Now that you know you can plead your wife and ask for assistance in paying one or two bills.... and she will . Not that you will want to be controlling her money because she is your wife. You weren't there when she and her sister started the business. So Oga cheer
@SAGuy-ru6dv interesting or not, this is just a 2years marriage... if she was not running business before wouldn't you pay the house rent. Like I said there's nothing wrong if she assist you willingly, and not by force. Oga what you are doing is wrong and obviously seems like you wouldn't want to be taking your own responsibility .... what I see here is, you trying to be in control of the business or put fear in the heart of your wife.... this isn't good mr husband . Don't try to use this means to manipulate your wife over her business . For you to be reacting like this, you are jealous of your wife because she's making money... please try and remove your mind from that business....money. also I believe she'll invest on her children life financially..
My husband doesn't know I run my own business because when he knows I have money he keeps borrowing without paying back and if I refuse to borrow to him then I won't have peace so I'm also doing it the same way,I'm I also wrong? So don't blame her she has her reasons
Don't mind all these men in the comment section talking rubbish. My sister is a victim of this too. Even as a corper, she didn't enjoy her allowee for one day. Once salary is paid, the husband will start asking her for her ATM card and if she refuses, problem don start be that.
The truth is there is no love in your marriage.Love gives.You need to explain to your husband that his actions can collapse your. Business and you both will not have money.If he is sensible he will understand,if he doesn't,no love in him for you
You people just cap nonsense. If the man was doing well, would this thing even be a conversation? If a woman is doing well she can't help her husband when he is down? If trust is broken for me that marriage is over. You are even pressing him on top say you no he no get,women collect money from men all the time and no the pay back but we no the send if it reach una turn now una go the make nonsense you people have turn marriage to competition. God help women of this generation
You people just cap nonsense. If the man was doing well, would this thing even be a conversation? If a woman is doing well she can't help her husband when he is down? If trust is broken for me that marriage is over. You are even pressing him on top say you no he no get,women collect money from men all the time and no the pay back but we no the send if it reach una turn now una go the make nonsense you people have turn marriage to competition. God help women of this generation
Life is full of surprises, womans are selfish she borrowed money for her business without informing the husband, after the husband found out now she's begging him to forgive her, if she did loose that money she was going to tell the husband to help her to pay the money he don't know about, and peoples are saying Man love your wives how can a Man can love this kind of woman who don't want to share with the husband, don't get married when you're not yet ready, don't impress peoples to show them you're married while you're ready live your life and stop stressing someone else.
She made a big mistake, but this issue can be solved, she should promise never to keep any secret again, and he should forgive her, money issue shouldn't scatter the family, he should be happy his wife has businesses, for him to have said she earned more than him is very wrong, he shouldn't have said that, her only offence was that she didn't disclose to him that she has a business, now he's aware, he should forgive her and life continues, he does not have peace because he's still angry with her, he should forgive her and then he will have peace of mind, what will he gain by leaving her and meeting the next one that he's not even sure maybe she will do worse than what his wife has done.
Let's not judge her, I feel she carried her embargo of bad relationships she had before meeting the genuine man. Let's not forget some men are gold digger. Immediately they see you earning more than themselves, they will be so relax. Madam apologize to your husband and please oga once you accept the apology, prove to your wife that no matter what she is earning, you're still the boss
If it's a lady saying all this about pulling out of the marriage people will be calling her a golddigger. Try an find out why she kept that secret, counsel her, show her love , build the trust with her. An stop ranting you can not be in that kind of marriage it's annoying. Remember her mom an sister is the first family she knows an trust first, make her trust you too .
I believe that if you can't have a sense of trust with your partner then you should not marry that person. Marriage is union where both people come open to each other. The moment you start hiding things from your spouse, just know that a time will come when that marriage will collapse. Remember once trust is broken it's difficult to build back. I don't blame the man if he wants to dissolve his marriage because he thought he knew a lot about her but he is found out all along that he was leaving with a stranger.
Women usually marry who is ready and not necessarily whom they love. Marriage is another level of family politics. Men should understand and get prepared for the hidden antics and secrets of marriage. The woman's money is for herself, her children, her father, her mother, her sibblings, before her husband. Meanwhile, the husband usually spends his money on his wife, his children, before his parents and sibblings. Men should understand this basic truth and enjoy their marriages and themselves.
Be thankful your wife is hard working and willing to help you with "loan". Your reaction reveals why she probably hasn't told you. Are you jealous she earns more than you or what? Show her your support and be the man of the house and not loaf off her money. You will build trust that way.
Honestly some men are wicked when they know that their wives have money. I am talking from experience. They either bring her down or make her machine. You are lucky she is industrious, anything she gets belongs to your children. Just forgive her and move along. Anything she can use to help the family. At least you didn't marry her to exploit her. Normally you have to take care of your family. That is it, men don't like wives to more than what they have. Relax man be friendly with her.
@obn1459 You are correct, according to 1 Corinthians 11:8&9. But verses 11 and 12, Says, Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the LORD. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man by the woman; but all things of GOD. 1 Corinthians 7:4, The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the woman. This also applies to their personal personal properties such as phones.
This man is crazy, most women are like that. You cannot get angry with your partner for having weaknesses because you are there to accept her for who she is and to guide her. You must man up.
Brother leave this matter, Focus on yourself and make good money for yourself .Though it is inappropriate for your wife to be hiding vital information from you,but you have to appreciate the fact that most of our women nowadays do the samething.It is not advisable to end the marriage just like that based on this fact alone.
Hmmm, o boy better go hustle and leave this mean woman with her money. She's more articulate, composed, intelligent and secretive than you think. She's not even remorseful and ready to change, but you don't allow this to cause you divorce.
This woman actually loves her money more than her marriage.
This is wickedness of the highest level. Let her get married to her business because she never loved you at all. How can she manage the businesses secretly.
Ogas easy. Because u talk remember May Yul Edochow. Men are ....
@DydcuDHzuv
You are right bro,but my
only advice is never trust
these women of time.👍
Women nature always selfish when it comes to money and expect men to be generous
First of all
All of una wey dey this comment session get too much ego
Under this T pain economy, i find out say my wife na potential multi millionaire running 2 legal registered business and i am angry with her for not telling me😅 omo i will embrace my wifee, i will kiss her, i will love x2 because she isn't a liability but a financial back up patner
And for crying out loud is not like every married man tells thier wife exactly how much is in their accout or how many accounts they have.
Y all see nothing wrong with a man not telling his wife about his entire account because u dont trust her but u will jump to conclusion and say she doesn't love him because she is doing well for herself which means she is doing well for her family.
Like it or not when her pikin need help like skul fees or feeding money, it is her that will provide without looking for where to get the money if the situation at that point is tight just like now the husband didn't hv enough money to pay the house rent.
I admit she didn't tell her, but is not like she was cheating on him or anything like that.
All she was doing was building a finaice that will sustain the family even when things are hard.
Try dey look at the other person perspective, no dey judge like fools.
This is sheer wickedness.She cannot be trusted.Please,be wise oga
Don’t rush into marriage! A responsible man should understand that many women today are focused solely on their own interests. Marriage has become transactional and business like, and if both partners aren’t equally contributing, it’s not worth it. You can achieve all the benefits of marriage without actually getting married, especially to this type of woman. Protect yourself and prioritize your well being first.
And all this while she has been a full house wife contributing nothing to the house.She is extremely wicked.
She's not even remorseful. She doesn't care
She din love you oga ,see this woman eh she love money than her marriage run oooo
These are the things men will hear and starts shivering from the word 'marriage'. Watching your significant other struggle in pain with bills and you're not bothered is cold, mehn! 😢
Very cold hearted 😢
Exactly what I just think about as a guy now that I going to find it difficult to marry Infact I'm now adding 1 plus 1 now like marriage is a scam i will just get a lady pregnant and be sending upkeep money.
@brojoshua
Do not treat another man’s child like that. Go and adopt a child and take care of the child yourself.
@@Amos-y6n so getting a lady pregnant and sending upkeep and welfare to my child is bad guy in Nigeria as far as u have the money to take care of both mother and son financially then everyone will be ok. I'm I impotent that u will be saying I should adopt I want my own blood so guy u aren't me that's my own opinion and u can't change it just From mere TH-cam u hear.
One thing I've learnt over time about women, is that they always have their own Agenda. They hide their character overtime just to achieve their agenda... Which most times is selfish
Please, let her go, I don’t see this lady ready for this marriage. She is mean, cold and calculated.Run Run 🏃Run
If you have children, kindly run and rush faster than normal to conduct a DNA TEST, to find out if those children are yours or not before it's too late.
She may not have told him but the fact that she harassed this man about the money used to pay for a house rent in which she dwelled too is very ugly and gross !!!!
She doesn’t love him and I can say she is staying there for people to say she is married.
That's my point
This is REALLY A BAD OMEN. Guy, RUN for your dear life.
She is in love with her business and the husband.
Most of them are like this 😅, your kids night not even be yours but they wont tell you 😂😂
Men are in LOVE, females are in BUSINESS.
This act ...mostly many marrige woman does it ...woman are wicked ooh
Oga the house may be your wife own
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If that business collapsed who is going to pay the loan? The husband is the collateral.
Abi ooo. He has been having headache for another person money
No secret under the sun
Watching from Johannesburg South Africa
That’s the reason I will support Gehgeh online 😊😊
Men stop stressing yourselves. There are too many women out there to be stressed about one. Work hard, pray and take care of yourselves first brothers.
I will advise you guys should consider a marriage counseling and see how you both can works out your differences. This should not brake up the marriage. Let her explain why she's been hiding things. She might have had bad experience before. God help you guys
Exactly my dear. Some men when they know their wives have money, they will shift responsibility to the woman. That might be her fear, but every couple must plan their home and be open to each other. Guy, this is not enough reason to leave your marriage please. Just sit down with your wife and plan your expenses, let her know which areas she can be helping in the bills. Please don't break your marriage.
God has shown him early. If he doesn't run, whatever he sees in the future, he shouldn't blame anyone. I will run far away from a woman like this. What concealing are you taking about you most abroad.
Until she cooks for him and poisons him then you will understand she's not interested in the marriage but just wanted a man's protection. What's the man's usefulness to her?
@@EuniceOkpalanozie-br6kfSome of you will say most men don't support their wives to fulfil their potentials but when they do and become more successful, you don't want to contribute to the wellbeing of your own family. Who ever said the husband must be richer than the wife?
councelling? wow
Problem here a lot of us don't marry our soulmate.!!! Word for the wise!!!
She is not a wife material. Quietly divorce her.
Pls doio oooo
At least she is financially stable and capable of training her daughter 😊
No remorse at all..
Its very painful sha
This woman don't love this man, Mr. Run from this wife and her mother, I will say it again and again she doesn't love you
She might love her but of the advice of her mum...
@myztroogeegibson3568 We are saying the same thing, that's why she does not love him..
She sleeps with him, stays with him but chooses the woman she stays somewhere else... 😢
First of all
All of una wey dey this comment session get too much ego
Under this T pain economy, i find out say my wife na potential multi millionaire running 2 legal registered business and i am angry with her for not telling me😅 omo i will embrace my wifee, i will kiss her, i will love x2 because she isn't a liability but a financial back up patner
And for crying out loud is not like every married man tells thier wife exactly how much is in their accout or how many accounts they have.
Y all see nothing wrong with a man not telling his wife about his entire account because u dont trust her but u will jump to conclusion and say she doesn't love him because she is doing well for herself which means she is doing well for her family.
Like it or not when her pikin need help like skul fees or feeding money, it is her that will provide without looking for where to get the money if the situation at that point is tight just like now the husband didn't hv enough money to pay the house rent.
I admit she didn't tell her, but is not like she was cheating on him or anything like that.
All she was doing was building a finaice that will sustain the family even when things are hard.
Try dey look at the other person perspective, no dey judge like fools.
Run 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ and never look back that's wickedness.
This is not a wife material and any man who married this kind of a woman shall always be in pain. This lady is in love with someone else and it's that guy who gave her money to start a trade. This lady is not meant to be under any man.
How did u know someone gave her money osheree seer
There's no deception in love. As a matter of fact, Love is sacrifice.
There is not sacrifice in this oh
First of all
All of una wey dey this comment session get too much ego
Under this T pain economy, i find out say my wife na potential multi millionaire running 2 legal registered business and i am angry with her for not telling me😅 omo i will embrace my wifee, i will kiss her, i will love x2 because she isn't a liability but a financial back up patner
And for crying out loud is not like every married man tells thier wife exactly how much is in their accout or how many accounts they have.
Y all see nothing wrong with a man not telling his wife about his entire account because u dont trust her but u will jump to conclusion and say she doesn't love him because she is doing well for herself which means she is doing well for her family.
Like it or not when her pikin need help like skul fees or feeding money, it is her that will provide without looking for where to get the money if the situation at that point is tight just like now the husband didn't hv enough money to pay the house rent.
I admit she didn't tell her, but is not like she was cheating on him or anything like that.
All she was doing was building a finaice that will sustain the family even when things are hard.
Try dey look at the other person perspective, no dey judge like fools.
My son run a way from this family,they are dangerous.
Run
Legs outside in front of the presenter
She's not even showing remorse or saying anything.Na waoh
True
Guy, please forgive her. She didnt do well, but please let it slide. Dont allow it break your marriage. Woman, reorganise your home, be truthful to your husband. You can actually manage the businesses with him instead of your sister and mother. Please build your home with wisdom of God. May love reign and prace be given a chance in your marriage
Na wa o!
People dey o!
😂
These ladies and money. We are many in similar situations
My friend, don't take any decision right now that you very angry. I was once divorced, and it isn't a good path I must confess to you. You already have a kid together. Now that you know your stand, it is for you to know how to redirect the course of the chart in your home. Do not forget, before you came into their lives, the business was already in existence, not forgetting that your wife was and is wrong in all ramifications.
As you relax, think, give it some few weeks, a good solution will come to your mind. I hope this suffices for now. Decisions taken in haste always lead to disaster!
Bro most women your money is for both of you but her money is her money so bro,
Thank God that you have known the type of person you are dealing with don't end the marriage only know you are alone in terms of hustling
Dude, cut your losses and run. This is a wicked woman. Sad😮😮😮
I would not say he should desolve his marriage because of this, I understand his feeling because I have this same experience with the person I leave with at home but not business. If the lady ask for forgiveness and she want to be in the marriage just forgive her and let her continue with her business. Make sure you ask her to keep everyone her business makes to her self and continue to work hard and provide for your family one day you will break even. Things are never what they seem. It’s hurts so bad but what can you do.
Guy, call family meeting for her, nor be friends go solve this problem, she what to destroy her life because of greed. I believe that her mum is the bigger issue, she has pollucted her daughter heart.
Lol.... The woman is not remorseful .... She nor send her Husband... She is clearly not sorry at all 😂😂...
This guy don marry
This is how some of them are bro. When you don't have money to feed the family, most of them can't bring out money to feed the family.
The man is paying rent & upkeep money while shes earning and saving hers for when she'll leave him.
This is a lesson.....it happened to me as well.... Pls anyone man getting marry now.... should pls calm down and prank her to know the type of woman he's getting knot with.... Bcos woman can pretend to be an Angel
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That's how many people are. They get into marriage with hidden intentions,so secretive.
Once a woman is lying to you like that leave her
She doesn't love u,run for ur life bro.A woman with such secrets can equally plan ur funeral before ur eyes.
My brother run oh. God show you early. As man, you will work, work, and work. A woman is by the corner calculating all your moves.
😂 yep he was just another source of her income .
@@AyindeOladeyi713probably her 3rd Business 😂😂
@@jesseakpan6407 😂 exactly
What a wicked wife 😮
I pity this man 😢
What is your business about your wife business. My mother couldn’t read and write and she has 4shop selling fish in Apapa.my father never took a penny from my mother when I was 18years old she took me to bank and put my name in the account all the property she built was in my name not my father name today she is 92 years and I am 66years old so it is not compolsary that she has to tell you please I have never ask my wife in the last 40years about her finances I am not interested
U are just a fool at 66….
But your father knows about the business, he's not interested in his wife's money his pain is not knowing that his wife owns a business
Oga your parents case is different from this one..at least let your husband know about it because if along the line something bad happens to the business she will be emotionally traumatized and the husband will be at the receiving end.
God bless you sir, I should tell you so you will shift the whole responsibility. From the way this man talks, you can tell he is a trouble maker.
Ona dey get comprehension issue, did your father not know about his wife's business?
Men are not always grand when you open up to them. She even had a child, if you say she takes pills to avoid preg and has 2 secret businesses, I for think otherwise... oga some of our men feel jealous, spiteful, and bitter resentment when women do bigger 😢. Experience too much of this type, let me not talk all....😢😢😢
Yes nau. Y is he after her money
This is height of deception 😎. She's not to be trusted. She don't honestly love this man. She need to be investigated weda she's even sponsoring a lover outside her marriage
Mama that's too bad na , why hide it from your hubby
low IQ and very stupid stance, the painful part is she is supported by her mum and sister...very sad!
She is wicked ben
I don't think. Let's consider her past experiences
I think the woman noticed she earns more than the man but really love to be with man so she was afraid if discloses it that the man will feel inferior to her, is just like how men avoid marrying rich ladies
This take is flawed and the video has proven it already. If she loved him like you claim, she wouldn't literally be choking the man for the money she supposed burrowed for thier rent especially if it came from a place of love. This woman is a leech and other women know this but this gender can lie for Africa until it affects their own person.
Peace.
This is reason why a man should marry a woman who is in his league. If your family didn't have a business then don't marry from a family with businesses because her financial acumen is at a higher level than yours. In business we manage financial risk even subconsciously and the way the husband is reacting so emotionally he is too controlling hence a high risk to the business. Three years is more than enough to study your spouse's behaviour and maybe that's the reason why this business was kept a secret to him. The husband should have approached this with wisdom and reason and not emotionally, as the head of family and then turn this to the advantage of the family. To me this woman is wise and should he decide to divorce her the husband will be the loser.
Guy she is just playing time with you. Some mothers are something else. If it was the mans mom heaven will breal loose. Run for your life.
My brother just run for your life coz these people can butcher u , just imagine someone being too secretive like that meaning that what you know about her is very little.and it's written in Matthew:19.5
and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?but your case is the opposite.
Proverbs:18.22
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.we don't deny the fact that she's hard working but she isn't good how could she leave you to struggle alone and yet she had the ability to back u up
Man chill ooo
No better one outside
Just forgive her
May God deliver us from women lie you two
Meaning you all are the same ? If not they should be better once out there .her action is one of the worst and there is no better one out there no need marrying then
This issue is not enough to cause divorce between two of you, it can still be sorted out. Shalom
Your wife used the 1st law of the 48laws of power 😂...
Never OUTSHINE the master
Brother, please don't end the marriage because you have invested in it in a way. Please find a way to forgive her and iron out things because of your child 🙏 😔 😢. What she did wasn't good but at the same time correction can be made a’d amended because from what I can see she is truly sorry because she too the wrong advice from someone very close which lead to this.
This woman is not even remorseful over what the husband is saying and I'm not sure this woman love this man maybe she just married him just because of marriage sake, see the attitude or because of the money now she now feeling far more better than the man she can't even apologize...na wa oooo man make una dey investigate any woman wey una wan marry before water go pass Garry....des is rubbish now.
I feel her mum is behind the scene making sure she keeps things the way it’s but every reasonable woman will like to put her marriage first.
I can never trust this kind of woman out of experience
She had a plan against u.she married u bkos u're ready for marriage,but,for love,she never Loved u
Fact💯
exactly, most Nigerian ladies marry for a reason..as they say in oyibo land. Woman marry for business, while men marry for love
Let this woman go. That's wickedness.
Oga you want to live your wife because you found out that she has business she's been running before you both got married.
Well she would have told you but never the less, she has her reasons.... Maybe you wouldn't be serious or work hard to take responsibility as the husband of the house. Maybe you might want to be lazy and always putting your eyes in her money.... be sincere, most men are doing it.
It's not that your wife won't assist you when needed..... because some Nigeria men will continue wanting their wife's to pay for this , pay for that, when ever she assist to help him.
Assuming it is you that have businesses/bank accounts your wife no nothing else about... would your wife say the marriage is over and will not want to marry you aga..
Now that you know you can plead your wife and ask for assistance in paying one or two bills.... and she will . Not that you will want to be controlling her money because she is your wife. You weren't there when she and her sister started the business.
So Oga cheer
You are really sick and I hope you get help quickly 😏😂
Your comment would have been interesting if she takes up some responsibilities and dnt ask the husband for the money she added up to the house rent.
If u allow men to know all....laziness with be their lifestyle
@SAGuy-ru6dv interesting or not, this is just a 2years marriage... if she was not running business before wouldn't you pay the house rent. Like I said there's nothing wrong if she assist you willingly, and not by force.
Oga what you are doing is wrong and obviously seems like you wouldn't want to be taking your own responsibility .... what I see here is, you trying to be in control of the business or put fear in the heart of your wife.... this isn't good mr husband . Don't try to use this means to manipulate your wife over her business .
For you to be reacting like this, you are jealous of your wife because she's making money... please try and remove your mind from that business....money. also I believe she'll invest on her children life financially..
My husband doesn't know I run my own business because when he knows I have money he keeps borrowing without paying back and if I refuse to borrow to him then I won't have peace so I'm also doing it the same way,I'm I also wrong? So don't blame her she has her reasons
Don't mind all these men in the comment section talking rubbish. My sister is a victim of this too. Even as a corper, she didn't enjoy her allowee for one day. Once salary is paid, the husband will start asking her for her ATM card and if she refuses, problem don start be that.
The truth is there is no love in your marriage.Love gives.You need to explain to your husband that his actions can collapse your. Business and you both will not have money.If he is sensible he will understand,if he doesn't,no love in him for you
Am sorry to break it out to you, you guys won't last long if you continue at this pace
You people just cap nonsense. If the man was doing well, would this thing even be a conversation? If a woman is doing well she can't help her husband when he is down? If trust is broken for me that marriage is over. You are even pressing him on top say you no he no get,women collect money from men all the time and no the pay back but we no the send if it reach una turn now una go the make nonsense you people have turn marriage to competition. God help women of this generation
You people just cap nonsense. If the man was doing well, would this thing even be a conversation? If a woman is doing well she can't help her husband when he is down? If trust is broken for me that marriage is over. You are even pressing him on top say you no he no get,women collect money from men all the time and no the pay back but we no the send if it reach una turn now una go the make nonsense you people have turn marriage to competition. God help women of this generation
Life is full of surprises, womans are selfish she borrowed money for her business without informing the husband, after the husband found out now she's begging him to forgive her, if she did loose that money she was going to tell the husband to help her to pay the money he don't know about, and peoples are saying Man love your wives how can a Man can love this kind of woman who don't want to share with the husband, don't get married when you're not yet ready, don't impress peoples to show them you're married while you're ready live your life and stop stressing someone else.
She made a big mistake, but this issue can be solved, she should promise never to keep any secret again, and he should forgive her, money issue shouldn't scatter the family, he should be happy his wife has businesses, for him to have said she earned more than him is very wrong, he shouldn't have said that, her only offence was that she didn't disclose to him that she has a business, now he's aware, he should forgive her and life continues, he does not have peace because he's still angry with her, he should forgive her and then he will have peace of mind, what will he gain by leaving her and meeting the next one that he's not even sure maybe she will do worse than what his wife has done.
Let's not judge her, I feel she carried her embargo of bad relationships she had before meeting the genuine man. Let's not forget some men are gold digger. Immediately they see you earning more than themselves, they will be so relax. Madam apologize to your husband and please oga once you accept the apology, prove to your wife that no matter what she is earning, you're still the boss
Lol
If it's a lady saying all this about pulling out of the marriage people will be calling her a golddigger. Try an find out why she kept that secret, counsel her, show her love , build the trust with her. An stop ranting you can not be in that kind of marriage it's annoying. Remember her mom an sister is the first family she knows an trust first, make her trust you too .
What else do you want to hear
I believe that if you can't have a sense of trust with your partner then you should not marry that person. Marriage is union where both people come open to each other. The moment you start hiding things from your spouse, just know that a time will come when that marriage will collapse. Remember once trust is broken it's difficult to build back. I don't blame the man if he wants to dissolve his marriage because he thought he knew a lot about her but he is found out all along that he was leaving with a stranger.
Did they sign join property?
But he is suppose to drop his own money for all abi? You seem mature, don't let me say you are dumb.
Oga runooooooo
The choice is yours and the conciqence is irrevocable.
Women usually marry who is ready and not necessarily whom they love. Marriage is another level of family politics. Men should understand and get prepared for the hidden antics and secrets of marriage.
The woman's money is for herself, her children, her father, her mother, her sibblings, before her husband. Meanwhile, the husband usually spends his money on his wife, his children, before his parents and sibblings. Men should understand this basic truth and enjoy their marriages and themselves.
so what is the benefit of being married then...
She might not her fault. Maybe her mother adviced her. Just talk to her and settle things with her
well she will rreturn to her mother.
Be thankful your wife is hard working and willing to help you with "loan". Your reaction reveals why she probably hasn't told you. Are you jealous she earns more than you or what? Show her your support and be the man of the house and not loaf off her money. You will build trust that way.
No. Your position is not entirely correct. It hurts , it has never happened to you that's why.
Na them. Do you think he's angry because she is doing better than him? Are you sure you watched the video at all?
The structure of African marriages affects them.A woman çannot pay rents and still be soumission to her husband. She becomes the Boss
If the marriage is two years you can. get an annulment to disolve the marriage no need for divorce
how?
If she apologize please forgive her give her second chance, but watch your back.
She is just a child, She will mature.
Honestly some men are wicked when they know that their wives have money. I am talking from experience. They either bring her down or make her machine. You are lucky she is industrious, anything she gets belongs to your children. Just forgive her and move along. Anything she can use to help the family. At least you didn't marry her to exploit her. Normally you have to take care of your family. That is it, men don't like wives to more than what they have. Relax man be friendly with her.
Even if he decided to check her phone, he has the biblical right to do so. The man belongs to the woman, and the woman also belongs to the man.
No. The Bible said the woman was created for the man and not the other way round!
@obn1459
You are correct, according to 1 Corinthians 11:8&9. But verses 11 and 12, Says, Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the LORD. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man by the woman; but all things of GOD. 1 Corinthians 7:4, The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the woman. This also applies to their personal personal properties such as phones.
Where is it written in the Bible that couples can check each other’s phone ?
this is pure wickedness
This man is crazy, most women are like that. You cannot get angry with your partner for having weaknesses because you are there to accept her for who she is and to guide her. You must man up.
A secretive and selfishness is a bad spirit, you can hardly make progress with such persons
Ben Cash, what do you mean by YOU BORROW LOAN?
u no sabi speak pidgin?
Men, prioritize urna sef. Urna no go hear.
This woman is not ready for the marriage.
She should have let her husband so that they can both invest more together.
The Lady face tells a lot. She has on interest in the man & her marriage. Are you sure, she hasn't have an other guy ?
Brother if you dont trust her now,leave the marriage, save and buy a condo,two bedroom etc,start a new family with caution. 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
Brother leave this matter, Focus on yourself and make good money for yourself .Though it is inappropriate for your wife to be hiding vital information from you,but you have to appreciate the fact that most of our women nowadays do the samething.It is not advisable to end the marriage just like that based on this fact alone.
Hmmm, o boy better go hustle and leave this mean woman with her money. She's more articulate, composed, intelligent and secretive than you think. She's not even remorseful and ready to change, but you don't allow this to cause you divorce.
She is so greedy and she might even be a witch I swear this is crazy sir divorce her please 🙏
This girl os very ungreatful and wicked
You have to run a DNA to be sure that the child she gives birth is yours or not, after then run for your life
Na she get una house too, oga
She's a wicked wife
Ever day is for the thief one day is for the owner secret bad woman.