Ryan, you are a man of dignity. With all her shouting, he still kept his coolness. Time heals wounds if she let him be and if his life is still connected to hers but for now, bye girl
Having a child is not an issue, guys still get married to women with 2 children. Tell your partner about your past and let them know before it gets outside so they can defend you
@@koffividavidbernardkolegui10 because she is a wise fool are you not seeing how she is displaying her backwardnes in video as if she is right not knowing she is wise fool
The truth is very important in a relationship. Girl to your next man start day one to tell him you have child. The man will understand and will love you with your child. Under the sun nothing can be hidden. Is not because you have a child that the man walked away from you its because of your lies
The problem with this girl is that she is uncultured. Even after that 1st mistake, the thing still dey her body. Let her learn her lessons and how to behave well. Imagine all her attitude before the guy burst her bubble. She's the controlling type.
I love the fiance's statement that she lied to him and still lied to Bencash. That lady has no iota of honesty in her. She never planned telling him. She planned keeping it from him as long as forever.
Firstly she is ranting as if she can fight the full street. Secondly as she heard the full topics Her mouth and voice was cold like an ice block. 😒😒 Just dey play there 😂😂😂
"She was planning to tell him".......... No she wasn't ! What is wrong with these girls really? 7yrs of courtship and you didn't deem it fit to tell such a lovely guy this secret? You scattered your relationship yourself. How can he trust you now? The most annoying thing is that it came from his own parents. I can imagine the shock, shame and embarrassment he felt. The first time your going home to your parents to make a decision like a man on your own, he blew it bcos of you. Damn !
😂😂😂and the way she was shouting. She couldn't imagine that her secret could be the reason for the guy's attitude. When they say nothing is hidden under the sun, people think it is just a say.
I love this guy cool and composed even when he should be angry at the lies of Favour. Favour didn't do well at all to hide the identity of her daughter and her family will still take part of the blame for deceit. Who then is the father of Mirabel since she bears her grandpa name?
Look at a deceiver! A few minutes earlier, she was the loudest and most disrespectful to her man. She dragged him to a public forum, intending to show how 'useless' he was, while she was the one being deceptive. What did she now want to discuss in private? Liar! Deceiver!! She deserves no consideration, just like the Devil, the father of the lie, deserves none!
Ben cash u suppose to ask the guy one or two questions,like since they started courting has she lied to him if not then u can talk to him from that angle, that is why I love deacon famous in most of this cases, honestly deacon famous is the best
Now she is going to reject that girl...😭😭😭😭😭😭.. why should you lie against your child? Is it not your BLESSINGS? Devil you destroy people like that innocent girl..
Girl let the man go and please make amendment correct yourself no more lies...live with honesty...you will be okay...don't beg for love who does not want you anymore...have dignity...you won't die without love.
People we should treating each other as fools,you know how painful it is? Sometimes everyone knows,they turn a blind eye so you don’t blame others for interfering.Girl you were so loud & rude,your guy was cool.You really planned to continue fooling him but knew his heart,blood & sweat spent on your child for another man you most likely seeing secretly.Girl u are caught red handed!
The guy is handsome and we'll put together. This lady look older facially and physically. Few years time in marriage, she would have been a bad market.
Females speak loudly from the onset if you have a baby as guys like myself don’t give a “hoot” if you had the child at home or previously married. Finding out without being told by my woman is a huge challenge and energy draining. This touches on trust betrayal which is the next hardest issue. Having a baby is proof that my lady is fertile and will provide me with babies. Nonetheless, anger will fizzle away and love will rebuild any setbacks in the process of family restoration. The culture of castigating or betrayal of single motherhood has to be reprimanded if the society has to make any amble progress. On the other hand women must be able to discover and work with the mind of men. Therefore, I encourage women to be respectfully honest from the beginning as any good man will stay and not be taken unaware. This is my take. Checking in from New York City.
Well, apart from lying and hiding away the truth, it shows you are not proud of your daughter. Being a single mom is not the end of the world. For sure, you will get someone who will love and accept you the way you are. Just look at the end result.
Well, the problem that majority of our girls have is that they are always scare that if they open up about their past that the man may not like it. You know in Nigeria it's a taboo being a single mother but ladies it high time to be opening up about your past because majority of cases like this get worst because girls keep it as secret ...
@@mariaafubera5129 what are you saying Maria? If you must enjoy sex as a woman get marry, otherwise use condoms. Or you marry your baby father..it's a woman fault to pick a wrong person for sex , because woman control the access to sex
@@mariaafubera5129 that system or lifestyle is still exist it depends how mostly the women or ladies play their individual games for example if this lady let the guy know that she has a child at so time and year and this is how it happened if the guy really likes her he will continue with the relationship but if he does not OK another guy can come in but this lady did not instead she told this guy that the girl in question is her younger sister instead of her daughter, even in hongkong some family act like that when they find out that the girl or lady they son want to marry have a child or children they will stop it
It's pure stupidness to deny your own child because of a relationship...is a child a piece of paper you can just throw under your bed? I can only imagine what the child is going through, being programmed by mother and grandparents to call her own mother "sister "🤔
I hate to see these 2 lovers break up like this. It's obvious the Guy loves her, but the Guy felt embarrassed Infront of his own parents because he had to found this out from them. My advice to her is, she should go to seek forgiveness from the guy parents and try to convince them that she will make a good wife to their son. And if his parents forgive her then she can ask the parents to talk to him to convince him to take her back.
The way out is let go she should find her way out if not what she did will continue to hurts her she is the one that close her door by her own self as for family of the guy there is nothing they will do for her because she have killed the man that would have stand up for her
@@denniskcobi3470 My Guy, there are far worse things a woman can do to a man. Have you seen the kind of women there are to pick from. The adds of finding a good woman in today's age is very low. So, if this is the only offensive thing this girl ever done to him during their 7 good years relationship than I think he's too making a mistake by leaving her.
@@mallucnoel4427 well I understand you were the guy is finding it difficult and hurting him is that the news of his girlfriend child come from his parents if it come from outsiders yes he can stand by his girlfriend if his parents find out to me if the lady still wants the guy she should look for the guys parents and beg them if they welcome her than the guys parents will help her to get the guy back to her where by the lady will have a free stand in the family without fearing again
My boyfriend doesn't only provide for my son,he has be been a father figure to him.there,s no point lying about ur kids my gender,it's a lot to lie about,a whole child.
Walk away bro, she is not your wife. She is wicked, look at how she was rude when she turned up. Forgive her, but you don’t have to marry her. The deceit is what break me, let her go fam.
Why are we not open to say the truth always rush to forgiveness Please if you were the one putting these shoes would talk about forgiveness did you see how she was at frist what about the time she will be the wife she so challenging if you start marriage with forgiveness there will be no pure love but instead douting each other let guy follow his heart or his parents 's wishes and will help him to keep on his parents 's blessings
Guy run for your dear life a lady that can hide her own child to a man who wants to keep her for rest of your life is not good woman, the worst is that the guy heard it from his parent's mouth.
Lesson learned! Let watch closely,anytime you see an aggressor in a civil case most times they are the trouble.I saw the lady sweating & restless.She is controlling & aggressive.God help this man for a civil partner.This woman will choke him in public just for suspecting him down the line….this man is as cool as a cucumber!
Who knows if she is still hiding other secrets. My guy, this is not your wife. If a woman with child fell in love with a man, let him know about the child. It is left for him to decide if he wants to marry you or not. There are many men who will gladly accept you and your child if he loved you but why lying for 7 years. This woman disrespected him so much.
But this stuff is real bro. This happened in my neighbourhood, the lady in question had 3 children before the marriage she is currently and has four children with her recent partner with him having no idea about the other three children. The shock from him when he found out about the whole charade. The stuff blew wide open..
When was she planning to tell him 😠, after wedding?? Ladies please respect yourselves. Let the man know all about you when you first met, probably 2nd or 3rd official date. If he loves you, a child will not change his mind. Some will run 🏃🏿 though but some won’t.
Say the truth and be free ,who will be with you will be with you
Exactly
One thing i will NOT deny is my child.
Ryan, you are a man of dignity.
With all her shouting, he still kept his coolness.
Time heals wounds if she let him be and if his life is still connected to hers but for now, bye girl
When we say you're a man we mean this salute you big brother 🤸🤸🤸🤸🇲🇼🇲🇼🇲🇼🙏🙏💪🏋️
You made a big mistake of hiding such from him.its a big lesson for u and other single mother's. Truth should always come in any relationship
People should be transparent in a relationship abeg!
Having a child is not an issue, guys still get married to women with 2 children. Tell your partner about your past and let them know before it gets outside so they can defend you
So true
Why thé woman didn't told it to thé guy
@@koffividavidbernardkolegui10 because she is a wise fool are you not seeing how she is displaying her backwardnes in video as if she is right not knowing she is wise fool
My brothers wife was a single mother , the woman told my brother before they started dating and they later got married .
the right way👍🏿
The truth is very important in a relationship. Girl to your next man start day one to tell him you have child. The man will understand and will love you with your child. Under the sun nothing can be hidden. Is not because you have a child that the man walked away from you its because of your lies
The problem with this girl is that she is uncultured. Even after that 1st mistake, the thing still dey her body. Let her learn her lessons and how to behave well. Imagine all her attitude before the guy burst her bubble. She's the controlling type.
Guy ruuuuuuuun!!!!!!!! Very calm and intelligent guy.
He deserves better. Ran away
I like guys that are very matured and principled.
He maintained his cool and communicated the best way possible.
Let the girl move on
Please
I love the fiance's statement that she lied to him and still lied to Bencash.
That lady has no iota of honesty in her.
She never planned telling him. She planned keeping it from him as long as forever.
Kai, girl you messed up big time!
Thank God, the guy found out the truth sef, this lady is even too loud and looks like a troublesome person.😊
And she was running her mouth like spoilt tap. Be open in any relationship you find yourself. Most Men/ladies of now are just wicked
You destroy your relationship by yourself
that is well said all she had to do is tell him and if he does not accept it then je is not the one for you😮
Firstly she is ranting as if she can fight the full street.
Secondly as she heard the full topics
Her mouth and voice was cold like an ice block. 😒😒
Just dey play there 😂😂😂
U are shouting before now u are calm
This is heartbreaking. 7 years of deception, even as a woman if a man keep this from me for 7years, heaven knows I am done.
I Agree 💯💯💯💯, With You, That would definitely Be A Wrap!!! Over, Done and Finished....
Sorry ooo make sure you tell the next hubby , don't keep it to yourself it will still leak out sorry ooo
@@sylviasmith2557🤣🤣🤣
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She was even trying to fight the Guy.
This man is like my brother I pray god will help him he seems to be a nice guy
"She was planning to tell him".......... No she wasn't !
What is wrong with these girls really? 7yrs of courtship and you didn't deem it fit to tell such a lovely guy this secret? You scattered your relationship yourself. How can he trust you now? The most annoying thing is that it came from his own parents. I can imagine the shock, shame and embarrassment he felt. The first time your going home to your parents to make a decision like a man on your own, he blew it bcos of you. Damn !
😂😂😂and the way she was shouting. She couldn't imagine that her secret could be the reason for the guy's attitude. When they say nothing is hidden under the sun, people think it is just a say.
Something you can't hide is a Whole Human Being.That"s the biggest lie.Leave her
Man run. This Lady is dangerous. She has funny attitude. She came at first and started talking harshly at him. No no.
And she was shouting 🤦♀️🤦♀️ having a child is not bad why keeping it for the guy that loves you
She started very aggressive and now she's on her begging. That's Nigeria women
The relationship should be over, ì support the boy
This is really heartbreaking 💔
The truth 🙌 💯 and nothing but the truth much love ❤connel from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱
Please forgive her for God sake, take the child as yours
I love this guy cool and composed even when he should be angry at the lies of Favour. Favour didn't do well at all to hide the identity of her daughter and her family will still take part of the blame for deceit. Who then is the father of Mirabel since she bears her grandpa name?
I so agree. He’s so cool. He didn’t raise his voice and he spoke eloquently the entire time.
This guy is a son of his father respect
This lady even without the deception is loud and uncouth
Look at a deceiver! A few minutes earlier, she was the loudest and most disrespectful to her man. She dragged him to a public forum, intending to show how 'useless' he was, while she was the one being deceptive. What did she now want to discuss in private? Liar! Deceiver!! She deserves no consideration, just like the Devil, the father of the lie, deserves none!
Ben cash u suppose to ask the guy one or two questions,like since they started courting has she lied to him if not then u can talk to him from that angle, that is why I love deacon famous in most of this cases, honestly deacon famous is the best
Deacon Famous and untouchable
Always say the truth!! If you can keep this from.a man. You can do worse. You can start a relationship based on lies!! You should have told him!!
Now she is going to reject that girl...😭😭😭😭😭😭.. why should you lie against your child? Is it not your BLESSINGS? Devil you destroy people like that innocent girl..
Wow I totally understand how this young man is feeling
The relationship is definitely over. She was ranting not knowing she is the bad person.
If you have a skeleton in your cupboard, don't come online to resolve issues.
I'm a single mum of 2 kids and I'm happy 💪💪💪💪💃💃💃
This girl for carry this secret go grave ooo omo
Girl let the man go and please make amendment correct yourself no more lies...live with honesty...you will be okay...don't beg for love who does not want you anymore...have dignity...you won't die without love.
Am proudly with my kids can't lie to aman to get him ,having a baby is not a crime gals be honest with ua lover
Sharp-tongued dangerous woman!
Pls forgive her pls watching from Gambia
A person like her can get pregnant for another man and put it on her fiance's head
The women here saying they are done 😂 easier said
Women will first destruct themselves. There is no smoke without fire. Always define your relationship from the onset.
Guy remove your shoes and run as far as your leg can carry you this lady is evil. Hiding her child from you there is more to it.
When you have skeleton 💀 in your cupboard, think twice before you accused anyone.
People we should treating each other as fools,you know how painful it is? Sometimes everyone knows,they turn a blind eye so you don’t blame others for interfering.Girl you were so loud & rude,your guy was cool.You really planned to continue fooling him but knew his heart,blood & sweat spent on your child for another man you most likely seeing secretly.Girl u are caught red handed!
Man run run 😅😅😅 lie .man go❤❤❤
I'm SPEECHLESS 😶 7 YEAR?!
7 years is too much to let go nah guy, dis is not abomination, God use to forgive us our sins soo pls forgive her for what she did pls😢
The guy is handsome and we'll put together. This lady look older facially and physically. Few years time in marriage, she would have been a bad market.
This girl has no respect for the guy. She only started begging when she realised that the truth had come out. I don't like someone like this girl.
Too much secrets will always destroy you, people should learn how to be transparent.
This woman is not patient at all, this guy is so calm but same can not be said of her
Ryan this girl is a no no no red flag 🚩. She’s never going to be faithful or loyal.
Say the truth and be free ,who will be with you will be with you
The Ego from the beginning shows.... she is a wicked soul for 7years.... NAwa oooo
My brother run for your life
Deception
A baby is something u cannot hike. The earlier the better. He didn't hear it from u rather from his family. Shame on you girl.
Don't trust her pls. Some women's hrt is deeper than ocean
Females speak loudly from the onset if you have a baby as guys like myself don’t give a “hoot” if you had the child at home or previously married. Finding out without being told by my woman is a huge challenge and energy draining. This touches on trust betrayal which is the next hardest issue. Having a baby is proof that my lady is fertile and will provide me with babies. Nonetheless, anger will fizzle away and love will rebuild any setbacks in the process of family restoration. The culture of castigating or betrayal of single motherhood has to be reprimanded if the society has to make any amble progress. On the other hand women must be able to discover and work with the mind of men. Therefore, I encourage women to be respectfully honest from the beginning as any good man will stay and not be taken unaware. This is my take. Checking in from New York City.
Anything person do in this life person will must see the benefits of that.
Thank God for the family of the man
Bro a second chance is still possible please sir,dis life there is nothing new
Well, apart from lying and hiding away the truth, it shows you are not proud of your daughter. Being a single mom is not the end of the world. For sure, you will get someone who will love and accept you the way you are. Just look at the end result.
where is the father of that child let him marry you and return all the money this humble guy spent on the child
For you not telling him that you have a child he will not trust you again
Well, the problem that majority of our girls have is that they are always scare that if they open up about their past that the man may not like it.
You know in Nigeria it's a taboo being a single mother but ladies it high time to be opening up about your past because majority of cases like this get worst because girls keep it as secret ...
No, normal man will accept a woman with a child, called a step father.
@@mariaafubera5129 what are you saying Maria? If you must enjoy sex as a woman get marry, otherwise use condoms. Or you marry your baby father..it's a woman fault to pick a wrong person for sex , because woman control the access to sex
@@mariaafubera5129 that system or lifestyle is still exist it depends how mostly the women or ladies play their individual games for example if this lady let the guy know that she has a child at so time and year and this is how it happened if the guy really likes her he will continue with the relationship but if he does not OK another guy can come in but this lady did not instead she told this guy that the girl in question is her younger sister instead of her daughter, even in hongkong some family act like that when they find out that the girl or lady they son want to marry have a child or children they will stop it
YOU SHOULDNT HAVE LIED ABOUT YOUR CHILD WEATHER YOU HAVE OR MAN OR NOT THATS YOUR CHILD AND NO MAN COMES BEFORE A CHILD YOU ALREADY HAVE BEFORE HIM
It's pure stupidness to deny your own child because of a relationship...is a child a piece of paper you can just throw under your bed?
I can only imagine what the child is going through, being programmed by mother and grandparents to call her own mother "sister "🤔
Girl tell your partner a by yourself women learn for this mistake
Why do women have to hide their own children ? Let the man love u the way u are.
5:54 she no dey shout again 😂😂😂 foolish girl 6:05
Most single ladies with a child , majority of them needs help not Love
This woman can do worse,if she can cover a secret as this...😢😢
Girl thats ur fault you should have told him either he would accept your daughter yes are no.
That man looks way too young to have a 15 year old child wtf
I hate to see these 2 lovers break up like this. It's obvious the Guy loves her, but the Guy felt embarrassed Infront of his own parents because he had to found this out from them. My advice to her is, she should go to seek forgiveness from the guy parents and try to convince them that she will make a good wife to their son. And if his parents forgive her then she can ask the parents to talk to him to convince him to take her back.
Gbam!!! Good advice, it's embarrassing for one to such a thing from the parents.
Love based on deception
The way out is let go she should find her way out if not what she did will continue to hurts her she is the one that close her door by her own self as for family of the guy there is nothing they will do for her because she have killed the man that would have stand up for her
@@denniskcobi3470 My Guy, there are far worse things a woman can do to a man. Have you seen the kind of women there are to pick from. The adds of finding a good woman in today's age is very low. So, if this is the only offensive thing this girl ever done to him during their 7 good years relationship than I think he's too making a mistake by leaving her.
@@mallucnoel4427 well I understand you were the guy is finding it difficult and hurting him is that the news of his girlfriend child come from his parents if it come from outsiders yes he can stand by his girlfriend if his parents find out to me if the lady still wants the guy she should look for the guys parents and beg them if they welcome her than the guys parents will help her to get the guy back to her where by the lady will have a free stand in the family without fearing again
Brother, Please forgive her because of our Lord Jesus Christ
This is what some girls do ,same thing happened to me after one year I saw it in my dream, and she agreed
Why lying about your own child?, You girls should be truthful from the beginning.
Pls ladies, always tell your partner the truth.
The way the women are behaving in this time i think I will remain single.
Sorry for saying that but i prefer the truth
There are still good ladies still
@@zionvictory-ye5ti it is difficult for me to trust
My boyfriend doesn't only provide for my son,he has be been a father figure to him.there,s no point lying about ur kids my gender,it's a lot to lie about,a whole child.
Walk away bro, she is not your wife. She is wicked, look at how she was rude when she turned up. Forgive her, but you don’t have to marry her. The deceit is what break me, let her go fam.
"Lady-Olodo" you took the matter out to the public and now, you want to go discus the matter privately 😅
No be Mumu be dat😊???!!
Why are we not open to say the truth always rush to forgiveness Please if you were the one putting these shoes would talk about forgiveness did you see how she was at frist what about the time she will be the wife she so challenging if you start marriage with forgiveness there will be no pure love but instead douting each other let guy follow his heart or his parents 's wishes and will help him to keep on his parents 's blessings
Guy run for your dear life a lady that can hide her own child to a man who wants to keep her for rest of your life is not good woman, the worst is that the guy heard it from his parent's mouth.
They can never tell you they have another sun for someone
But how can these girls think that this type lie will continue forever
Lesson learned! Let watch closely,anytime you see an aggressor in a civil case most times they are the trouble.I saw the lady sweating & restless.She is controlling & aggressive.God help this man for a civil partner.This woman will choke him in public just for suspecting him down the line….this man is as cool as a cucumber!
Who knows if she is still hiding other secrets. My guy, this is not your wife. If a woman with child fell in love with a man, let him know about the child. It is left for him to decide if he wants to marry you or not. There are many men who will gladly accept you and your child if he loved you but why lying for 7 years. This woman disrespected him so much.
Funny how they become suddenly summisive after being caught in the caught is surprising
But this stuff is real bro.
This happened in my neighbourhood, the lady in question had 3 children before the marriage she is currently and has four children with her recent partner with him having no idea about the other three children.
The shock from him when he found out about the whole charade. The stuff blew wide open..
Pls guy forgive her give her a 2nd chance pls😢😢😢
When was she planning to tell him 😠, after wedding?? Ladies please respect yourselves. Let the man know all about you when you first met, probably 2nd or 3rd official date. If he loves you, a child will not change his mind. Some will run 🏃🏿 though but some won’t.
She destroyed her relationship herself 😢😂
Imagine the way Favour was winning and yelling at the handsome guy. Yet she is the cheat and liar here. 🙄, women. Fear 😨God.