trust me, someone has liked you, even if your some quiet kid in the back of the class someone will still like you. and if you want more to like you, maybe if you think they arent obvious enough, simply talk more, be louder, dont be afraid to make a joke or comment on something. I know someone who says super corny things and everyone still accepts him as part of society, even if we all dont find him funny. being loud is better in most cases
@officerbug7089 Listen, I understand you're trying to help, but platitudes don't help. Once upon a time, sure. In fact it was horrible in my youth to have worked my way up from fat little twerp to average plus, because it illuminated how much abject hatred is sent towards the unattractive. These days, the last person that liked me decided they liked cocaine more and fucked their dealer. Please, PLEASE don't repeat the lie that there's something for everyone because mathematically, statistically, historically, this has NEVER been true. It's a boomer myth from the free-love era and no one else throughout history has been deluded enough to believe it.
There is a saying I've made almost a mantra to myself "better off alone than in ill company", the world isn't a good or fair place, but the same way the world doesn't own us satisfaction neither do we to it. As long as you understand yourself and values yourselves more than this stupid world, then you'll never really be lonely, because you'll have yourself, because you already have all you needed. I believe in you, brother
Now step it up, Graham went through 2 lives to achieve the wisdom he show you. This is just the 1st life in correct path of his. Beware of the 'nothing matters' or 'one should be above' traps.
The number one thing that deters a decent guy is a lack of reciprocity; I liked a girl and she liked me back, but she simply couldn't engage in a conversation with me and I just had to give up after a few months of almost zero connection, despite knowing that she liked me. She did the same thing with a friend of mine who I also knew she liked, and she told him so. He ended up doing the same.
@@jimvenanzio6561In the decay of the Feminism infected world, there is a reason for the disillusionment. The divine dynamic between men and women has been hideously disrupted and distorted by modernity. Until the divine *BALANCE* is restored. The struggle will remain and grow worse ...
I am in a similar situation, ive been thinking about telling this one girl that i like her for about a week or so, but i am not totally sure if she likes me or not, because i dont know if the treatment that i get is just the treatment that she has with her overall friends, and it might also be nothing and im just thinking this because ive never had such close relationship with someone. But i really cant anymore, this is a thing in my mind that just takes all of the space and i cant stop thinking about it. If you guys have any advise, i would really appreciate on whatever it is, thank you for reading this!!!
You only live once, go for it. Better to do it, ask her out and live with the short term disappointment if she says no, than live with the eternal regret of never asking the question.
Thank you for the advices guys, really made me look that its better to just say it to just leave and stay with the long regret of not asking it. I will talk to her about it in the next few days and i will keep you guys updated. Thank you!!!
I'm engaging in the Trans question right now and I couldn't agree more. Love is not as difficult as I was told it was. The only hope I have is that it's not pulled away from me as quickly as I find it.
What helped me was understanding biology. I questioned my own gender for a few years and struggled to accept that I'm a man because I wanted to be beautiful and in studying the body learned that my beauty was my strength and because I am strong I am beautiful. I always was. All the feelings I had felt against myself weren't because I wasn't beautiful, it was because I wasn't cultivating strength to achieve beauty. In speaking with women I learned that their strength is their beauty. And because I was brave enough to ask myself these questions and speak of them with others I learned that everyone is beautiful and strong, and maybe more in different ways than others but everyone is worthy of love. Even if sometimes it's hard to find someone that loves you as you want and need to be loved, they do exist, and you do deserve it. You just have to love yourself as you are and be beautiful and strong whatever that looks like or is for you. I hope this helps. It's a summation of my own journey in asking and answering the question.
@@BigBoyXP4014 I believe I found *my* answer as it is, but I appreciate the advice! I recognize it as genuine and true! I still consider myself a staunch ally, though
Life isn’t a Disney movie, it’s more about opportunity than fate. I’ve missed quite a few opportunities while chasing fate.
Loved the way you put this !!
This is literally what I do and it works. Best thing to do is to be direct and if a will isn’t there then don’t try to force it
Great action !!! It's the only way!
This is true, it's just that no one likes me, and that's why life is difficult.
trust me, someone has liked you, even if your some quiet kid in the back of the class someone will still like you. and if you want more to like you, maybe if you think they arent obvious enough, simply talk more, be louder, dont be afraid to make a joke or comment on something. I know someone who says super corny things and everyone still accepts him as part of society, even if we all dont find him funny. being loud is better in most cases
@officerbug7089 Listen, I understand you're trying to help, but platitudes don't help.
Once upon a time, sure. In fact it was horrible in my youth to have worked my way up from fat little twerp to average plus, because it illuminated how much abject hatred is sent towards the unattractive. These days, the last person that liked me decided they liked cocaine more and fucked their dealer.
Please, PLEASE don't repeat the lie that there's something for everyone because mathematically, statistically, historically, this has NEVER been true. It's a boomer myth from the free-love era and no one else throughout history has been deluded enough to believe it.
@@officerbugwonderfully put! This is true.
There is a saying I've made almost a mantra to myself "better off alone than in ill company", the world isn't a good or fair place, but the same way the world doesn't own us satisfaction neither do we to it. As long as you understand yourself and values yourselves more than this stupid world, then you'll never really be lonely, because you'll have yourself, because you already have all you needed. I believe in you, brother
Do you like yourself?
Now step it up, Graham went through 2 lives to achieve the wisdom he show you.
This is just the 1st life in correct path of his.
Beware of the 'nothing matters' or 'one should be above' traps.
🤝
The number one thing that deters a decent guy is a lack of reciprocity; I liked a girl and she liked me back, but she simply couldn't engage in a conversation with me and I just had to give up after a few months of almost zero connection, despite knowing that she liked me. She did the same thing with a friend of mine who I also knew she liked, and she told him so. He ended up doing the same.
Yup! I’m glad you walked away, it’s not worth it.
So what’s the issue there and why?
thanks josha, I cant stop lying to myself and give up
Some Idiot: ViDeOgAmEs cAuSe viOlEnCe!
The Video Game:
Great advice, it's simply not that complicated
It shouldn't
This is so sad and dystopian at the same time
Hmmm
Is it though? Or is it pragmatic enough to dispel the illusion of utopia?
@@jimvenanzio6561In the decay of the Feminism infected world, there is a reason for the disillusionment. The divine dynamic between men and women has been hideously disrupted and distorted by modernity. Until the divine *BALANCE* is restored. The struggle will remain and grow worse ...
I forsook relationships long ago. I have been far more free ever since.
I understand
I love these videos keep it up
Thanks , more to come.
This is the truth
I’m going to die alone 💪😎
Good luck 🍀👍, I’m rooting for you
I am in a similar situation, ive been thinking about telling this one girl that i like her for about a week or so, but i am not totally sure if she likes me or not, because i dont know if the treatment that i get is just the treatment that she has with her overall friends, and it might also be nothing and im just thinking this because ive never had such close relationship with someone.
But i really cant anymore, this is a thing in my mind that just takes all of the space and i cant stop thinking about it.
If you guys have any advise, i would really appreciate on whatever it is, thank you for reading this!!!
You only live once, go for it. Better to do it, ask her out and live with the short term disappointment if she says no, than live with the eternal regret of never asking the question.
Ask if she’d like to get coffee, talk to her, see if she feels like you do.
Better to have asked and be done with it.
Thank you for the advices guys, really made me look that its better to just say it to just leave and stay with the long regret of not asking it.
I will talk to her about it in the next few days and i will keep you guys updated.
Thank you!!!
But im too scared to ask her,she is my friend,even her older brother is bro to me
Im afraid if i ask "the" question it would make us awkward
Do a risk and reward, of the risk is greater, probably best to walk away :)
What’s going to haunt you more? Asking or not asking?
@@RomanvonUngernSternbergnrmfvus yup
I just finished talking to my crush. I took all the courage i can to sent her a message but it doesn't seem to work out at all.
Whatever the outcome, you got it out of your chest. That counts.
Make sure you are someone that you can love before you worry about having others love you.
What do I do if the girl likes me but I'm not into her?
if you want to date her you can but if you dont you dont. thats all i know
Exactly!
Then clearly tell her you don't see her that way, be direct, be honest! This way she knows how you truly feel and she can do as she pleases.
I'm engaging in the Trans question right now and I couldn't agree more.
Love is not as difficult as I was told it was. The only hope I have is that it's not pulled away from me as quickly as I find it.
Thanks for adding your input
@@MotivationByCharacters Of course! We're all struggling in ways almost indescribable.
What helped me was understanding biology. I questioned my own gender for a few years and struggled to accept that I'm a man because I wanted to be beautiful and in studying the body learned that my beauty was my strength and because I am strong I am beautiful. I always was. All the feelings I had felt against myself weren't because I wasn't beautiful, it was because I wasn't cultivating strength to achieve beauty. In speaking with women I learned that their strength is their beauty. And because I was brave enough to ask myself these questions and speak of them with others I learned that everyone is beautiful and strong, and maybe more in different ways than others but everyone is worthy of love. Even if sometimes it's hard to find someone that loves you as you want and need to be loved, they do exist, and you do deserve it. You just have to love yourself as you are and be beautiful and strong whatever that looks like or is for you.
I hope this helps. It's a summation of my own journey in asking and answering the question.
@@BigBoyXP4014 I believe I found *my* answer as it is, but I appreciate the advice! I recognize it as genuine and true!
I still consider myself a staunch ally, though
@@DopaminedotSeek3rcolonthree Me too! Thank you.
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