Your right Joe, that part of you that would entertain them , or, think romantically about them is dead. The irony is , they are the ones that killed it.
nothing is a coincidence, they are calculated creatures. if they randomly bump into you it’s intentional otherwise they would avoid you and disappear. that’s what mine did.
I literally changed my number this week. Crazy timing! I answered a painful hoover only a handful of weeks ago, and realized I can’t have any contact with this person at all, whatsoever, going forward. She can have fun manipulating other men, but not me, ever again.
Freaky you mention that as I changed my number last weekend to escape my narc ex girlfriend and now it’s been email after email from her. They just don’t stop.
I dated a narcissist single mom for a year. I realized after about 3 months that I had made a big mistake. I downsized the relationship until I could not take it any more. She was too demanding and controlling. I knew she was not going away quietly. She continued to drop by my home un-invited and calling me at least once a month for 20 years. There was about a 3 year gap where she stopped calling because she found husband #3. When that marriage turned into divorce, the calling started up again. I finally got her to stop calling me when I asked her to pay back some of the money she had "borrowed". She blew up. Its been peaceful here for around 7 years now. She is trolling the internet dating sites searching for husband #4.
@@northernsegageorge6510Textbook Narc behavior. They really do use the same playbook, at the end of the day. I’ve been with a few narcs over the last 10 years and each and every one of them use other methods of contact in order to reach out to us. It’s gross behavior and shows how desperate/pathetic they are. Let them lie in the rotten beds they’ve made, because they will receive no help from me.
@@racebannon96Dude, I literally just got out of a year long relationship with a single mom! No bullshit. That’s why I changed my number. Insane, man. What are the odds. Narc single moms end up being the worst out of the bunch. This one is frequently pimping her child on Instagram through posts and stories showing her audience that “he means everything to me” and is “her world”. LMAO. She’s also the one who left her husband without much of a warning, which automatically discredits her as being a stable individual. Her ex husband is from the Netherlands, so he was trying to bring her up on international kidnapping charges once she ran back to the states with the kid! LOL. Just an absolutely dangerous train wreck on every level conceivable. She has also slept with over 100 guys throughout her life so far, so make of that what you will. 😂
Why would I risk my peace and healing to hear them out or see them one more time? They don’t deserve it and I don’t owe it to them. I’m expecting the Christmas Hoover but it will go unanswered.
You've touched a nerve with this one. To accept with an open heart. To surrender with a strong heart. To forgive ourselves and to forgive others. To wake up from the ocean of illusion... Our healing.
That’s what I keep saying when these people figure people out that they love and are with and keep going back. WHY! Once you figure them out your brining yourself down to their level helping them destroy you. I will never understand why people that do go back and do such a thing. It makes zero sense to me.
It’s because they are so trauma bonded! It’s an addiction- one of the worst kinds! Plus it’s hard to realize they don’t think like we do and they don’t care! It’s broken my heart that l was in a relationship with someone for over 40 years and then to find out they aren’t real! 🥲❤️🩹still healing
Found your channel yesterday & have been binge listening… My NPD sister sent a Christmas card after discarding me over 15 years ago; this is her first interaction. The serendipity of your channel appearing reaffirmed my NO CONTACT resolve. Thanks!
Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This The Worst Thing That I Ever Did Was Give The Narcissist Access To Me He Destroyed My Life Especially My Health I Have Severe Anxiety Depression PTSD Elevated Blood Pressure Tinnitus .I Can’t Go On And On Narcissistic Abuse Is The Absolute Worse Abuse To Ever Endure..
I know exactly how u feel. The health decline is unreal what our bodies do because of the poisonous energy we take i. Through being with narcs. I’m 6 months no contact and all is getting better with time. I have still to come to terms with forgiving myself for staying so long in that demonic place. God bless, we will be ok. This is my first Christmas in peace without his negative doom and gloom at Christmas times. Peace be upon you 🙏🏽
Times up. No contact. No FEELING sorry. No wanting to go run and help. 0. FEELING better EVERY day. Finding your channel was a godsend ❤❤❤❤ meaning you ARE giving me that final lap to the winning circle...😎💪🙏...
You are so right, my narcissist is trying to make me change my mind about divorce, I decided not to talk with him; but he said that he needed to have a meeting with him, turned out if I said anything, he dismissed it as it's all in my head, he was the perfect husband, that I have imagined it the wrong way. If he ever asked for a meeting (we are in the same house); I shall call the police. The best is never to give them a chance in any way. They a just full of themselves. I am happy that I have distanced myself and hopefully not married to him. 🙏
I have no hoovers and no contact. Life is so blessed. I am under the Shadow now of the Almighty who will protect me under His wings. I am now hidden. I am not on social media, deactivated FB. I picture myself as a little bird, safely tucked now under God's protection.
While we get moments where we miss FB and all that, the relief that will eventually come is palpable. I'm glad for you that you are tasting some of it. I loved what you said about a little bird safely tucked under God's protection. I will try and remember that gem. Made me smile.
Merry Christmas Joe🎄🎅 I ended it with a narc 2 days ago. I saw the light finally all the signs and synchronicities were there, it's my final act, the show is over.
Stay strong, right now will be the most difficult time but keep using these resources on youtube, these Narc explainer people on here saved me too 😂 that was a year ago but i still find myself watching this stuff from time to time just to keep my guard up. No contact is your weapon and superpower so USE IT!
@@POOFAYMANN Hi I got back from Christmas with friends and family and this morning I found a present and a couple of my belongings inside it with a note...😏 I know he will keep trying...Thank you for your support. X
Happy holidays Joe and survivors this is what i am doing for months almost a year ,i cut off all access nothing wont even react when he sees me in the street they dont deserve anything from us at all 🤓🙏🏾
Merry Christmas, Joe! I discovered your videos back in November and I’ve been binge watching them. I discarded the narcissist I was dealing with 6 weeks ago. He was only in my life for 7 months but it still hurt what he did to me. I’m slowly recovering. It does feel difficult now during the holidays. When this person promised you so much. All false hope. It was an illusion all fake. It wasn’t real. I went NC, unfollowed him and removed him from SM. What does he do send me a LinkedIn request 2weeks ago. What a joke of a person he is. Anyways, thank you for your videos. They are educating us all now how to deal and prevent us from ever getting close to these lost souls again. I wish I had seen your videos 7 months ago. Would have saved me so much time. You live and you learn.
Merry Christmas Joe, and to all who have had experience with a Narcissist. May your understanding grow , and healing be complete. Take care and be kind to yourselves.
Your videos have been extremely helpful, and I've found them to be an immeasurable resource to heal. Thank you for taking time and having the presence of thought to contextualize the dynamic and pattern of abuse in these types of relationships. I believe many people will benefit from watching the content you provide. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and New year.
Hi Joe. Thank you so much for this video. I'm three months out of the pit and still struggling. My ex narc discarded me for a woman of such low moral integrity that she thought it was acceptable to pursue the husband of a disabled woman in a wheelchair. Right in front of my face! We had been together for fifteen years. Your video reminded me that being with a narcissist is very much an addiction and needs to be treated in the same way. Much like the alcoholic must never have another drink. I'm trying to take one day at a time and it's hard but I never want to be back in that pit again. The thought of it is horrific.
Merry Christmas Joe!!! Your videos have helped me so much through out these last 3 years of my life getting out of my 30 year old marriage. Everytime he tries to come back I play one or two or twelve of your videos and they save me, you seem to know what my heart needs to hear. Thank you so so much for who you are and being that light at the end of that tunnel for me. I am not done healing yet but I know I am on my way with your insight, God's help and support from my girlfriends. God bless take care and have a beautiful Christmas and happy new year.
Merry Christmas! love your videos Joe. God bless you! Can't afford a therapist, but your videos are like therapy, thank you for the work & effort you put into them...
Merry Christmas to youuu toooo 🥳🎄☺️ This Christmas is narc~free for meeee, whoop whoop 🥳🥳🥳 Thank~you for being integral to my healing journey and I wish everyone peace, inner and outer... 💟
No contact with narcissists…One (past person) a year ago and other (my mom and her children) yesterday on Christmas Eve…So I’ve separated from each and every narcissist/enabler that caused and contributed to my trauma
Merry Christmas! I greatly appreciate your content. It certainly helps me overcome the system im dealing with...3 months no contact😆Happy New Year to this whole community of strong souls🥳🥂🥂🥂
Merry Christmas, Joe. Like a few people I came across your channel in the last couple of weeks. I was discarded 7 mos ago and although some days are hard I know I have many better days ahead. After being with an alcoholic narcissist I had no idea of the chaos and turmoil that waited for me in that situationship. I want you to know that I appreciate your calming voice, the serenity of your videos and the info you provide. I want to say thank you for keeping the swearing to a bare minimum as the narc I was with trained me to accept his vulgar cussing saying it’s the way he grew up even though I asked him many times to stop he crossed the boundaries. Glad he’s gone and I’m on my recovery with channels like yours and restoring my relationship with God.
Merry Christmas from United Kingdom Joe🇬🇧...Thanks for your vidoes - they really help to educate on how to deal with the narcs in this world and how to get on the healing path
if the narcissist is a kind of 'pretty cute thing' (as they probably objectify themselves let alone others to cover up insecurities) then its easy for them to trigger feelings of jealousy or say some sort of 'sexual-pain' in you which as an empath we must learn to suffer consciously and heal it (healing jealousy, objectification, possessiveness, lack of self-worth and such pains) rather than be taken over by it --use the foolish narcissist as a healing chance for you--go through healing phase spring season is sure to come, slow but sure. Thanks for the video. Nice background. Perfect New Year.
I'm so glad I don't have a Facebook & never will & my Instagram is private. He's already sent out a few messages through family, but they were clearly messages to stir up jealousy. As much as it hurt me at the time, he kept me separate & basically secret from his friend group, so that will never be an issue. I will be remaining no contact for the rest of my days. The thought of ever hearing his voice or seeing his face makes me feel repulsed. I'm slowly healing from our four yesr relationship & the insidious manipulation and lies. Finding peace more & more each day. Wishing everyone a happy new year 🎉
Merry Christmas to you late. Just now listening to this video. And yes, my ex narcissist still to this day does everything he can to figure out where I am bike racing at and he makes sure and shows up with his new supply and he has got her into bike racing and has got her to go against me and my bike races Where she is standing right next to me at the start line. He has done everything he can to make me miserable even though I have been solid no contact at all for almost a year and a half. People just don’t understand the stalking he does because he wants to make sure and just show up wherever i am to make my day horrible and affect my racing.And to put me in that mind space. I really don’t want to have to sell my condo and move and leave my successful career here but I’m not sure what else to do. I have gotten rid of pretty much all of the flying monkeys, which were initially my friends, not his, but demonstrated in the break up that they were now his flying monkeys. It’s really sad that he just can’t leave me alone after the discard. He just can’t stand that I won’t be part of his harem garage.
Merry Christmas and thank you for having told us the truth with such clarity, since doubt is our biggest enemy. This sealed it for me, once and for all. Thank you from my ❤
Great video, Joe!!! I love the BEAUTIFUL pictures & the music at the end ❤🎶 You making my heart melt!❣️ You have been so helpful, positive, & knowledgeable about NPD & other cluster B's. You truly have contributed to my recovery. You keep me so vigilant & discerning on NPD and what I experienced. It's so very validating. Thank you for everything You continue to do for Us all! God Bless ✝️🤍 I hope you have a wonderful holiday. Merry Christmas 🎄❤️💚😌
Merry Christmas Joe!!❤ Everything you have said resonates.. May All of our hurts will be healed and personally I'm taking my healing seriously so I can find my purpose why I chose to incarnate in this gulag like planet as they said... damn..
Merry Christmas. I feel like I am in the process of healing, but six months into my relationship with the narcissist, I continue to dream about him. I’m not interested in what’s going on in his life, I don’t follow his social networks and don’t think about him. Sometimes I think about him, but it’s as if these thoughts are not in the foreground and do not cause anxiety. But some pain point and fear remained, that all my happiness and sense of integrity, freedom, that all this has a fragile balance. I probably need more time.
Merry Christmas! I just found your channel and this is awesome stuff, good insights. Ive been ruminating alot lately because my ex keeps showing up in my department. (we work at the same company now, different departments, but mine is basically the breakroom so i keep seeing her) I blocked her a year and a half ago, havent spoken to her, and i ignore her every time she shows up at work but now shes trying to talk to me, hitting me with the hoovering shit so ive been brushing up on this stuff again 😂 your videos are just what i needed so thank you!
"Gloriah, en excelsus deo!" Hallelujah! HE IS BORN! He also is our strength in impossible times, such as those the narcissist has tested us with. Thank you Yahshuah!
Hi Joe and a very Merry Christmas to you! I just found you a few days ago and have been binge watching. I just LOVE your videos and they really resonate with me. I truly appreciate the time and effort you put in for all of us. ❤
Merry Christmas, Joe. This is my first time commenting on anything on TH-cam. Your videos have helped me greatly the last several months. Thank you! I hope 2024 brings you peace and happiness.
You have created by far the best channel on Narcissism I have come across on YT. Thank you so much for sharing all of your knowledge in such a clear and efficient way. Merry Christmas Joe, and a Happy Narc-free New Year ✨🤍✨ Cheers!
Merry Christmas to you Joe! And wish you a happy new year. Thank you for your thoughts and musings. For people in recovery, these videos provide clarity. And encouragement to carry on! A lot of us carry guilt and shame and conflicted feelings. May your words help others as they help me.
Narcissists are essentially jailers. They don't like us breaking out.
Merry Christmas everyone!! 🎅 🌲⭐️🌟❄️
Merry Christmas Joe ❤
Have a wonderful Christmas with your loved ones!😊
Merry Christmas Joe! Thank you 😘
Merry berry bluesy Christmas))
A Joyful Peaceful Merry Christmas everyone ! 🎄🌟❤️🌟❤️🌟❤️🎄
Your right Joe, that part of you that would entertain them , or, think romantically about them is dead. The irony is , they are the ones that killed it.
Narcissists try to separate good peoples souls from their bodies.
nothing is a coincidence, they are calculated creatures. if they randomly bump into you it’s intentional otherwise they would avoid you and disappear. that’s what mine did.
I literally changed my number this week. Crazy timing! I answered a painful hoover only a handful of weeks ago, and realized I can’t have any contact with this person at all, whatsoever, going forward. She can have fun manipulating other men, but not me, ever again.
Freaky you mention that as I changed my number last weekend to escape my narc ex girlfriend and now it’s been email after email from her. They just don’t stop.
I dated a narcissist single mom for a year. I realized after about 3 months that I had made a big mistake. I downsized the relationship until I could not take it any more. She was too demanding and controlling. I knew she was not going away quietly. She continued to drop by my home un-invited and calling me at least once a month for 20 years. There was about a 3 year gap where she stopped calling because she found husband #3. When that marriage turned into divorce, the calling started up again. I finally got her to stop calling me when I asked her to pay back some of the money she had "borrowed". She blew up. Its been peaceful here for around 7 years now. She is trolling the internet dating sites searching for husband #4.
@@northernsegageorge6510Textbook Narc behavior. They really do use the same playbook, at the end of the day. I’ve been with a few narcs over the last 10 years and each and every one of them use other methods of contact in order to reach out to us. It’s gross behavior and shows how desperate/pathetic they are. Let them lie in the rotten beds they’ve made, because they will receive no help from me.
@@racebannon96Dude, I literally just got out of a year long relationship with a single mom! No bullshit. That’s why I changed my number. Insane, man. What are the odds. Narc single moms end up being the worst out of the bunch. This one is frequently pimping her child on Instagram through posts and stories showing her audience that “he means everything to me” and is “her world”. LMAO. She’s also the one who left her husband without much of a warning, which automatically discredits her as being a stable individual. Her ex husband is from the Netherlands, so he was trying to bring her up on international kidnapping charges once she ran back to the states with the kid! LOL. Just an absolutely dangerous train wreck on every level conceivable. She has also slept with over 100 guys throughout her life so far, so make of that what you will. 😂
Why would I risk my peace and healing to hear them out or see them one more time? They don’t deserve it and I don’t owe it to them. I’m expecting the Christmas Hoover but it will go unanswered.
You've touched a nerve with this one. To accept with an open heart. To surrender with a strong heart. To forgive ourselves and to forgive others. To wake up from the ocean of illusion... Our healing.
That’s what I keep saying when these people figure people out that they love and are with and keep going back. WHY! Once you figure them out your brining yourself down to their level helping them destroy you. I will never understand why people that do go back and do such a thing. It makes zero sense to me.
For me it's that face and wide hips , but I blocked and erased her # .The look on her face as I ignore her 😊
@@trickywily2823you have to look past the physical and see WHO they really are. The heart is ugly ❤
Trauma bond and rose coloured glasses
@@trickywily2823 souls mater more than looks will ever. Clearly you figured that out.
It’s because they are so trauma bonded! It’s an addiction- one of the worst kinds! Plus it’s hard to realize they don’t think like we do and they don’t care! It’s broken my heart that l was in a relationship with someone for over 40 years and then to find out they aren’t real! 🥲❤️🩹still healing
Found your channel yesterday & have been binge listening… My NPD sister sent a Christmas card after discarding me over 15 years ago; this is her first interaction. The serendipity of your channel appearing reaffirmed my NO CONTACT resolve. Thanks!
I appreciate your comment ❤
Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This The Worst Thing That I Ever Did Was Give The Narcissist
Access To Me He Destroyed My Life Especially My Health I Have Severe Anxiety Depression PTSD Elevated Blood Pressure Tinnitus .I Can’t Go On And On Narcissistic Abuse Is The Absolute Worse Abuse To Ever Endure..
I know exactly how u feel. The health decline is unreal what our bodies do because of the poisonous energy we take i. Through being with narcs.
I’m 6 months no contact and all is getting better with time. I have still to come to terms with forgiving myself for staying so long in that demonic place.
God bless, we will be ok.
This is my first Christmas in peace without his negative doom and gloom at Christmas times.
Peace be upon you 🙏🏽
@@Tend-er-Rose Thank You So Very Much For Caring 🙏
How Did You Detach/ Disconnect?
I’m Happy That You Have 6 Months No Contact!!
I have the same physical symptoms after my narc discard.
Times up. No contact. No FEELING sorry. No wanting to go run and help. 0. FEELING better EVERY day. Finding your channel was a godsend ❤❤❤❤ meaning you ARE giving me that final lap to the winning circle...😎💪🙏...
You are so right, my narcissist is trying to make me change my mind about divorce, I decided not to talk with him; but he said that he needed to have a meeting with him, turned out if I said anything, he dismissed it as it's all in my head, he was the perfect husband, that I have imagined it the wrong way. If he ever asked for a meeting (we are in the same house); I shall call the police.
The best is never to give them a chance in any way. They a just full of themselves. I am happy that I have distanced myself and hopefully not married to him. 🙏
I have no hoovers and no contact. Life is so blessed. I am under the Shadow now of the Almighty who will protect me under His wings. I am now hidden. I am not on social media, deactivated FB. I picture myself as a little bird, safely tucked now under God's protection.
While we get moments where we miss FB and all that, the relief that will eventually come is palpable. I'm glad for you that you are tasting some of it. I loved what you said about a little bird safely tucked under God's protection. I will try and remember that gem. Made me smile.
Merry Christmas Joe🎄🎅
I ended it with a narc 2 days ago. I saw the light finally all the signs and synchronicities were there, it's my final act, the show is over.
👍👏👍👏👍
Take care of yourself dear. It will ne better. Alors remember that Jesus loves you
Stay strong, right now will be the most difficult time but keep using these resources on youtube, these Narc explainer people on here saved me too 😂 that was a year ago but i still find myself watching this stuff from time to time just to keep my guard up. No contact is your weapon and superpower so USE IT!
@@POOFAYMANN Hi I got back from Christmas with friends and family and this morning I found a present and a couple of my belongings inside it with a note...😏 I know he will keep trying...Thank you for your support. X
Merry Christmas to you and all of those that are healing through watching videos like this and the many others on TH-cam 🎄🙏
Happy holidays Joe and survivors this is what i am doing for months almost a year ,i cut off all access nothing wont even react when he sees me in the street they dont deserve anything from us at all 🤓🙏🏾
Today, on Christmas, after 124 days of NO CONTACT that I initiated. He just texted me MERRY CHRISTMAS. I didn't respond.
Sounds like he’s fishing!
Happy New Year to everyone escaping or trying to escape from a narcissist. This year will be way better for you, I promise. Much love from Australia.
I would think, that being a narcissist's rebound, to make their ex jealous, would be one hell of a rollercoaster ride!
Merry Christmas, Joe! I discovered your videos back in November and I’ve been binge watching them. I discarded the narcissist I was dealing with 6 weeks ago. He was only in my life for 7 months but it still hurt what he did to me. I’m slowly recovering. It does feel difficult now during the holidays. When this person promised you so much. All false hope. It was an illusion all fake. It wasn’t real. I went NC, unfollowed him and removed him from SM. What does he do send me a LinkedIn request 2weeks ago. What a joke of a person he is. Anyways, thank you for your videos. They are educating us all now how to deal and prevent us from ever getting close to these lost souls again. I wish I had seen your videos 7 months ago. Would have saved me so much time. You live and you learn.
Merry Christmas Joe, and to all who have had experience with a Narcissist. May your understanding grow , and healing be complete.
Take care and be kind to yourselves.
Your videos have been extremely helpful, and I've found them to be an immeasurable resource to heal. Thank you for taking time and having the presence of thought to contextualize the dynamic and pattern of abuse in these types of relationships. I believe many people will benefit from watching the content you provide. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and New year.
Thank you so much for your support, appreciated ❤
Merry Christmas and a happy and peaceful new year to you and all escapees lol ☘️☘️☘️
Merry narc-free Christmas, Joe! Have a great new year as well.
Hi Joe. Thank you so much for this video. I'm three months out of the pit and still struggling. My ex narc discarded me for a woman of such low moral integrity that she thought it was acceptable to pursue the husband of a disabled woman in a wheelchair. Right in front of my face! We had been together for fifteen years. Your video reminded me that being with a narcissist is very much an addiction and needs to be treated in the same way. Much like the alcoholic must never have another drink. I'm trying to take one day at a time and it's hard but I never want to be back in that pit again. The thought of it is horrific.
Merry Christmas everyone! Thanks Joe for helping us to move forward on our healing journey to a better tomorrow narc free!
Merry Christmas Joe and to all 💕
Merry Christmas Joe!!! Your videos have helped me so much through out these last 3 years of my life getting out of my 30 year old marriage. Everytime he tries to come back I play one or two or twelve of your videos and they save me, you seem to know what my heart needs to hear. Thank you so so much for who you are and being that light at the end of that tunnel for me. I am not done healing yet but I know I am on my way with your insight, God's help and support from my girlfriends. God bless take care and have a beautiful Christmas and happy new year.
Merry CHRISTmas and a HAPPY and FREE New Year!
Merry Christmas! love your videos Joe. God bless you!
Can't afford a therapist, but your videos are like therapy, thank you for the work & effort you put into them...
Merry Christmas to youuu toooo 🥳🎄☺️ This Christmas is narc~free for meeee, whoop whoop 🥳🥳🥳 Thank~you for being integral to my healing journey and I wish everyone peace, inner and outer... 💟
No contact with narcissists…One (past person) a year ago and other (my mom and her children) yesterday on Christmas Eve…So I’ve separated from each and every narcissist/enabler that caused and contributed to my trauma
Merry Christmas 🙏 let the healings begin 💗
Merry Christmas! I greatly appreciate your content. It certainly helps me overcome the system im dealing with...3 months no contact😆Happy New Year to this whole community of strong souls🥳🥂🥂🥂
Merry Christmas, Joe. Like a few people I came across your channel in the last couple of weeks. I was discarded 7 mos ago and although some days are hard I know I have many better days ahead. After being with an alcoholic narcissist I had no idea of the chaos and turmoil that waited for me in that situationship. I want you to know that I appreciate your calming voice, the serenity of your videos and the info you provide. I want to say thank you for keeping the swearing to a bare minimum as the narc I was with trained me to accept his vulgar cussing saying it’s the way he grew up even though I asked him many times to stop he crossed the boundaries. Glad he’s gone and I’m on my recovery with channels like yours and restoring my relationship with God.
Here’s to a happy and narc free, peaceful Christmas survivors! 🍾🎉😆💪🏾🎇🎇🎇 ❤️💽🎄👩👦👦
Merry Christmas, Joe. Thank you for all of your support in 2023! ❤
Merry Christmas to Joe. B House and everyone who is listening.
MERRY XMAS IN FEB! Thank you Joe for the loving art and your kindness looking out for us. So grateful you are here!❤
Excellent !!! Typing Merry Christmas on comments ! 😊Thank you for magical Christmas video ! 🤗❤
Merry Christmas L!! 🎅 ❤
Merry xmas joe, and to all your subscribers ..❤❤❤
I'm so repulsed by him. 🤮
I feel the same way about my ex. He was so disgusting
Merry Christmas dear friend ❤
Merry Christmas. Love the music. Nice touch.
This video is so real.You said it all
Merry Christmas from United Kingdom Joe🇬🇧...Thanks for your vidoes - they really help to educate on how to deal with the narcs in this world and how to get on the healing path
Merry Christmas! And peace on earth to people of good will!
if the narcissist is a kind of 'pretty cute thing' (as they probably objectify themselves let alone others to cover up insecurities) then its easy for them to trigger feelings of jealousy or say some sort of 'sexual-pain' in you which as an empath we must learn to suffer consciously and heal it (healing jealousy, objectification, possessiveness, lack of self-worth and such pains) rather than be taken over by it --use the foolish narcissist as a healing chance for you--go through healing phase spring season is sure to come, slow but sure.
Thanks for the video. Nice background. Perfect New Year.
I'm so glad I don't have a Facebook & never will & my Instagram is private. He's already sent out a few messages through family, but they were clearly messages to stir up jealousy. As much as it hurt me at the time, he kept me separate & basically secret from his friend group, so that will never be an issue. I will be remaining no contact for the rest of my days. The thought of ever hearing his voice or seeing his face makes me feel repulsed. I'm slowly healing from our four yesr relationship & the insidious manipulation and lies. Finding peace more & more each day. Wishing everyone a happy new year 🎉
Merry Christmas to you late. Just now listening to this video. And yes, my ex narcissist still to this day does everything he can to figure out where I am bike racing at and he makes sure and shows up with his new supply and he has got her into bike racing and has got her to go against me and my bike races Where she is standing right next to me at the start line. He has done everything he can to make me miserable even though I have been solid no contact at all for almost a year and a half. People just don’t understand the stalking he does because he wants to make sure and just show up wherever i am to make my day horrible and affect my racing.And to put me in that mind space. I really don’t want to have to sell my condo and move and leave my successful career here but I’m not sure what else to do. I have gotten rid of pretty much all of the flying monkeys, which were initially my friends, not his, but demonstrated in the break up that they were now his flying monkeys. It’s really sad that he just can’t leave me alone after the discard. He just can’t stand that I won’t be part of his harem garage.
Merry Christmas All. This place is a sanctuary. Best if good luck everyone for the New Year
Merry Christmas to you Joe!
Another valuable, insightful video presentation. Merry Christmas Joe, I wish you the very best in the new year ahead.
The timing of watching this is so perfect. Thank you.
Merry Christmas! Thank you Joe for everything🎄
Merry Christmas Joe! Really enjoy your videos and the wisdom you have about narcissism. ❤
Merry Christmas and thank you for having told us the truth with such clarity, since doubt is our biggest enemy. This sealed it for me, once and for all. Thank you from my ❤
Celebrating the good news of Christmas and the blessing of knowing good people like you. Season's Greetings!
Merry Christmas brother Godspeed !
Merry Christmas, thank you for sharing.
Great video, Joe!!! I love the BEAUTIFUL pictures & the music at the end ❤🎶 You making my heart melt!❣️
You have been so helpful, positive, & knowledgeable about NPD & other cluster B's. You truly have contributed to my recovery. You keep me so vigilant & discerning on NPD and what I experienced. It's so very validating. Thank you for everything You continue to do for Us all! God Bless ✝️🤍 I hope you have a wonderful holiday. Merry Christmas 🎄❤️💚😌
Thank you for your lovely comment. Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas Joe!!❤
Everything you have said resonates..
May All of our hurts will be healed and personally I'm taking my healing seriously so I can find my purpose why I chose to incarnate in this gulag like planet as they said... damn..
Merry Christmas. I feel like I am in the process of healing, but six months into my relationship with the narcissist, I continue to dream about him. I’m not interested in what’s going on in his life, I don’t follow his social networks and don’t think about him. Sometimes I think about him, but it’s as if these thoughts are not in the foreground and do not cause anxiety. But some pain point and fear remained, that all my happiness and sense of integrity, freedom, that all this has a fragile balance. I probably need more time.
Things get better with time. But seems the situation is manageable for you, so just keep focussing on those things which are important to you :)
Merry Christmas 🎁🎄❤-beautiful scenery, and message thanks!
Merry Christmas, and thank you.
Merry Christmas to ALL
Love your content man, it’s helping a lot of people. We appreciate you!
Merry Christmas joe
Once you figure them out you should never ever go back. By no means would you be protecting yourself.
Merry Christmas! Thank-you for sharing Your insights. They are always helpful.🤗❤
Merry Christmas! I just found your channel and this is awesome stuff, good insights. Ive been ruminating alot lately because my ex keeps showing up in my department. (we work at the same company now, different departments, but mine is basically the breakroom so i keep seeing her) I blocked her a year and a half ago, havent spoken to her, and i ignore her every time she shows up at work but now shes trying to talk to me, hitting me with the hoovering shit so ive been brushing up on this stuff again 😂 your videos are just what i needed so thank you!
Merry Christmas and thank you for the content.
Merry Christmas & thank you! Godspeed ♾️
Merry Christmas, Everyone! Love and all good wishes for the new year, 2024! 🕊️💗🌟🎄🌹🌿✨
"Gloriah, en excelsus deo!" Hallelujah! HE IS BORN! He also is our strength in impossible times, such as those the narcissist has tested us with. Thank you Yahshuah!
Merry Christmas and happy New Year’s to you all!!!
Merry Christmas, Joe, and a great New Year!
I know your work here will be even more amazing in 2024!
merry christmas joe have a lovely peaceful time 🎄☃️💙xx
Merry Christmas Joe! 🤙🏼
Merry Christmas 🎄 Sending you love ❤️
Hi Joe and a very Merry Christmas to you! I just found you a few days ago and have been binge watching. I just LOVE your videos and they really resonate with me. I truly appreciate the time and effort you put in for all of us. ❤
Thank you!
Merry Christmas Joe
You have my deepest respect
Merry Christmas to you as well.
Merry Christmas, Joe. This is my first time commenting on anything on TH-cam. Your videos have helped me greatly the last several months. Thank you! I hope 2024 brings you peace and happiness.
Thank you for commenting! ❤
Merry Christmas Joe. Thank you for your guidance and healing words during these holidays. You are the best 🌲
Merry Christmass! 🥰🎄❄️☃️...and THANK YOU! ☺️
It helps to listen to your videos , especially in the middle of the night when I can't sleep and start ruminating my losses. Merry Christmas.🎄
You have created by far the best channel on Narcissism I have come across on YT. Thank you so much for sharing all of your knowledge in such a clear and efficient way. Merry Christmas Joe, and a Happy Narc-free New Year ✨🤍✨ Cheers!
Merry X-Mas and Happy New Year. ❤❤
Merry Christmas! Thank you for your voice
Merry Christmas from Norway❤ Thank you so much 🙏
Merry Christmas Joe! Thanks for all the Videos!
Merry Christmas! End thank you so very much ❤❤❤
Thank-you so much for helping us.
Merry Christmas.❤
I HAVEN'T WATCHED A VIDEO OF YOURS THAT WASN'T AWESOME!!💯💯💥💥👍!!!
Merry Christmas to you Joe! And wish you a happy new year. Thank you for your thoughts and musings. For people in recovery, these videos provide clarity.
And encouragement to carry on! A lot of us carry guilt and shame and conflicted feelings.
May your words help others as they help me.
I hope you had a great Christmas Joe! Thank your for all you wisdom
Merry Christmas Joe! May GOD keep you and bless you on this HIS Son Jesus' birthday and all throughout the following year!
Merry Christmas Joe, thanks for ur thoughts.
Merry Christmas Joe!