an important chat about rules, boundaries and bullying
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ม.ค. 2025
- 🥀 an important chat about rules, boundaries and bullying
note: certain parts may have been muted by Twitch for copyrighted music
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It's wild to me that this even needed to be said. Why would I expect a streamer I watch to save me from bullies?
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9:50 start talking
10:25 Disclaimer for your own mental health
12:05 why he needs to address
12:50 starting talking heavy topic
16:40 To the clippers
19:08 he really cares abt
23:56 his advice
25:00 Abt MODs his thoughts
30:00 If you get triggered often his thoughts
31:12 Two new shadow rules
33:05 Second rules
34:30 If you get other offended your responsibility
35:28 If you have different opinion with him or chat
Thank you for addressing this matter Ky. I'm so sorry that you have to address this again. I really agree with you. You are a streamer, a gamer not somebody's bodyguard. Once again thank you. ❤
The great vibe check of 2024
Thank you very much for addressing. I was there for the second time this was brought up back in wendys. I had hoped that the change in scenery would mean a change in mentality and we could move forward...
Im sorry for the additional strains this has put on you. And you're right: at the end of the day, you're a liver who makes comfy horror streams and horrid (pfft) zoomer jokes. You're not our "BESTIE" or "BOYFRIEND" "FATHER" or "KNIGHT". We cant ran to you at every inconvenience and treat you like guard dog.
You shouldnt have to deal with what you dealt with. Not you or the ones bullied.
I REALLY REALLY Hope this gets to people this time. No one is above the rules. No one.
I hope we can move forward and do cool things together. It will be a journey but it will be worth it!!
This community with all its flaws makes me happy because I found ppl who make me happy. (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤🌻
This is all struggle from Parasocial BFE Vtubers. So must need to set boundaries.
preach king! im so proud of you
You’re handling this situation with incredible grace. You can’t be expected to be responsible for other people’s behavior, nor to police their behavior, certainly not outside of your streams. You can only do what you have done, and that is ask everyone to be respectful, or be quiet. 😅🖤🥀🦋
love you, thank you ky 🥀🖤 i really appreciate you taking time to address these issues, yet again. it’s not always easy and you’ve handled everything so calmly, despite how much you’ve been through and had to manage (੭ ˊ^ˋ)੭. you’ve always been firm with your boundaries to protect your peace, that’s something i admire deeply. after all of this, i really hope you find the peace you’ve been needing. you have my full support in every way i can, no matter what.
I hope everyone is staying safe and well this thanksgiving,
please be kind but dont let others be mean to you. Just block, report and move on.
Love you Kaleidoscope
Thank you for the VOD and for taking the time to address once again this matter.
I know you are very tired an frustrated too with the situation. Please, take care too
thank you for your words, Kyrio. You are so strong for addressing this and it is much appreciated. We love you and we are proud of you 🖤
feels kinda symbolic with us leaving it all (hopefully) in 2024, or at least getting a little something to refer to whenever anybody's in doubt
thanks again for doing this. I know it hasn't been fair on you and has been honestly exhausting, with people trying to pull you each and every direction either as a saviour or a toy one can play with. I really hope it's the last time you're forced to remind others to adult properly and not demand things nobody owes them, and especially not their (kami-) oshi
take care, big guy. you've done well by us. and thanks for staying kind even though so many of us have failed you like this
I'm so sorry you had to go through that Kyrio. Stay safe.
I unfortunately missed this live but thank you for the VOD, Kyrio! Thank you for addressing this again. Others can say this better than I can, but I'm glad you're able to set firm boundaries and protect your peace and the peace of this community. I'm sad that this is something that has continued. And I'm sorry you've had to deal with stalking, death threats, being put under a microscope and general toxicity. I hope that moving forward we can continue to cultivate this cozy community you've been building and help it flourish 🖤🥀
Thank you, Kyrio. Bringing this topic up was absolutely necessary to give a wake-up call for some of us. Though it breaks my heart to see that you still have to go through it. It's so frustrating, exhausting, and stressful, but you're still kind and patient with us. I'm deeply sorry for those who let you down. You're not our therapist, not our brother or our father (or a preacher guiding a congregation), it's terrible that you suffer from so much pressure and disrespect from those who don't know when to stop. What's even sadder is that some people probably won't listen and will just keep doing what they've been doing until action is taken.
Your emphasis on your boundaries is absolutely valid, and Kaleidoscope stands with you. You have created a cozy place with your community and I hope we will manage to keep it comfortable and safe, not just by enforcing the rules, but also us being thoughtful and respectful to each other, and to you, Kyrio, the one who created this space and brought us all together.
You're amazing, Kyrio, and we love you eternally. You deserve the world.
it's crazy that you even had to say this. much respect for you and the rest of your team! 🖤
thank you for speaking out about this and staying firm and true to what you want for your community. It sucks that you have to keep repeating yourself when it comes to bullying and other stuff but I’m glad you didn’t hold back with what you wanted for you and kaleidoscopes🖤🥀 Stay safe, stay healthy and we love you. Lets keep on vibing together ٩(^‿^)۶
I just discovered you in october and yet you keep surprising me more each day coming. You're a good person, Kyrio, and I really hope no one will ever make you doubt about it. You spoke in the best way possible during this live with so much tolerance.
Guys, Kyrio is a streamer. Not a therapist, not even your dad or someone you know personally, only a streamer. Of course you know some things about him (things he agreed to share with us) and we all have some kind of friendly relationship with him, but just as a streamer with his fans. It doesn't make him responsible of your life. People you appreciate can be a real support in your life but you wouldn't live your life without yourselves. At the end, you're the one making the last choice. As he explained : if you have some problems with other people then it's okay, we're all too different in this world to like everyone the same way. It's really important for you all to stand by your own, to discuss calmly about those things with the concerned people, or to block them if discussion is impossible. He can't do justice for others even if he tries to share positive mindsets and cheerfull words as much as he can. Kyrio is only a streamer, and most importantly : he's human too, like you all. Spreading hate when your private arguments aren't his fault is just immature. He's doing so much for everyone everyday, please just try to thank him and understand him properly.
To everyone who have hard times, don't forget that you will always be your first and best support. Nothing can happen if you don't handle things by your own, for your own peace.
Finally, thank you again Kyrio for your support and your presence on streams. You help a lot of people everytime they need to clear their mind after a bad day. I wish you won't have to speak about those kind of problems again in the future. You don't need to change for anyone, you're already enough.
(I'm sorry if some sentences sounds too... childish ? English isn't my native language.)
10:00 starts
thanks for talking about this, kyrio. i understood what you were trying to say and it’s disgusting ppl were trying to demand/push you to do things their way. glad you said what you needed to say. i understand that you want to protect your space and your stream itself. u simply want to stream and that’s that.
though ive been a bit distant, it would’ve been nice if people just mind their own business and support their oshi in peace. we can’t demand who can or cannot support you. the accusations are really ridiculous and laughable tbh.
hope this would be the last time you need to address everything and we can move on from this. thank you once again, kyrio
Never going to be mad with you for setting your boundaries & giving a reality check when needed. There's so much expected of you & I'm sorry for that, this is meant to be fun, to be a job & it's unfortunate that the goal posts keep moving on what you're meant to be.
For my part, I'm glad you stuck to your guns, you've said most of this before & I'm *always* happy to see you defend yourself. If you care for someone, their boundaries aren't a burden, they are an honest request to follow to help them feel safe. Keep being you, having fun & being honest, I promise some of us will always listen🫂 And hopefully in time, we won't need words.
I adore you, you have my heart & trust and I'm rooting for you to have a happy evening. A great career, happy community & healthy family. Sorry this went on so long, I'm not sure you'll see. But my well wishes hopefully give you good dreams & safer days. >\\< I'm going to cry again, sorry. Go bed and eep well, baka. Lol, cut me some slack, I'm like 30+, I'm cringeeeee lol
thank u for the vod as well as addressing this! ik it wasn’t easy and it sucks u have to repeat urself on such matters:/
hopefully everything will calm down soon and we can all chill together like usual
Yep He used to be immature like Zaion but he grew up. Good.
Thank you for this! This is most needed and I’m sorry this has happened again and I hope the community will heal and all will get better. I know you’re doing your best as a streamer and that’s what matters and I hope you’re able to rest and ease your mind today. Anyway, again thank you, take care, and happy thanksgiving! 🖤
Reinforcing boundary can be such a hard thing and I think you put it really really well! It is silly and kinda dumb that you have to keep repeating this but, you're absolutely right we're all adults and we should be able to handle stuff ourselves, especially if it really isn't your problem. Proud that you put your foot down!! 🥀🖤
i'm so glad you said what you needed to say and so sorry u have to go through this again, KyKy 🖤🥀
ure just streaming.
i think, It is uncivil and disrespectful to use tags to bring personal issues that occur outside of the stream into the stream and also, it's ur choice what chat u read and whose name u call
No one has the right to demand anything from u just because they are a fan. That’s a fake fan
Please continue to be urself I’m so proud of u
Thank you for addressing this, you been so firm since the very start,it wasn't easy that you have to repeat yourself on this matter but you handle this situation calmly. Hope that everything will calm down and we can be comfy like the way it use too.
All you said was so true. Thank you so much and I'm really happy that I'm being part of this community ♡ love u ~
thank u for addressing this again. honestly so wild that u even had to say anything in the first place, but u made ur stance here very clear and firm so hopefully it'll be the last time it has to come up.
just catching up on this since i had family over today. i don't really know the context of what brought this on since i stay off twt nowadays (and props to the mods, because judging by the chat experience alone i haven't thought there were any problems) but i remember the previous times you've addressed these issues well enough to have an idea. i'm sorry that it's still such a problem that you're having to confront this again. like you said, we're all adults here; your community shouldn't be bringing our interpersonal problems to you and expecting you to solve them for us.
on a lighter note, i made a BANGER chocolate pecan pie yesterday and i'm pretty proud of it :3 i may have mild burns on my hands from some sugar that exploded a little bit but it was worth it!! see you tomorrow mr chill guy, hope you get some restful sleep today.
thanks a lot for the VOD and clearing up the rules , boundaries and rules 🖤 much respect and i hope u will keep continue to keep ur peace , u did great ky and the mods !
Thanks for shedding light on this, it's a really important topic.
🥀🖤 Thanks for uploading
Thank you Ky for the VOD. I was listening halfway yesterday and falling asleep 🙏
thank you for the vod, im sure others have already said what im gonna say,
but yeah
thank u for addressing the issues. its very informative and i got the answers even if it was a general. the doubts and the thoughts have been answered.
dw, im still here watching vods, cause sleep is pog. yeh, may the future be brighter for u and the community,
gn~
SOTD? hm I doubt u even read this but
Saturn
by Sza.
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ありがとう！！kyrioさん大好き💓
i know this probably took a lot out of you but you did well writing your script was a good way to get your thoughts out smoothly and not leave anything out where you stand on everything is clear and people can move into 2025 and leave this all behind and we can all be better versions of ourselves if you need extra time to rest and clear your head its more than ok for you to take that time kiki ❥❥❥
Thank you very much🖤
I agree for this. KY-sama, thanks for addressing this matter, & yes you cant control them & they have the right to just block or ingore those people doing bullying. This matter is really important because that indeed we're not tolerate this kind of attitude, i totally agree that its so immature doing this childish attitude to anyone to bully others. This people doesn't think that content creators like you has feeling.
KY-sama please always take good care of yourself. God bless you always.
It's tiring to always have to bring this up. But there are people who really need to be reminded. And it's so stupid. Nakakaumay na tlga...but thank you again. We love you man.
Rest well, happy thanksgiving 🖤
i hope ur okay ky 🖤 we always want the best for u and will support u, take care of urself, thank you
Ty for this vod honestly ✨️
It's a hard convo that needs to be done and thanks for having it🖤🥀 !
I cannot imagine the stress that this situation is putting on you :(
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People need to remember that you are a human being like us (I feel crazy to type this up) . You are not a super hero or our parents that has to hold our hand 24/7; simply a guy that streams and literally just "be" .
If it happens out of stream it's just not your duty to clear this up.
The fact that we all supposed to be adults and act this way is disturbing...
Sadly, this is a sad reality for the streaming world that I always thought of... Bullying/D**th t****ts etc is not funny and will never be .
May 2025 be a better place for all🖤🥀
Onwards and upwards, KC. 🖤🥀
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I like U because y r the one who can say STUFF LIKE THAT
ty for this♡
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appreciate you for keeping it real, always 🖤
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thank you for the stream kyrio!
i hope this is the last time you have to mention this, take care
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it’s just the Internet. its gonna be OK.
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The thing is boundaries is that you end up saying i love you to chat. The you fawn over some individual members and are cold with others. This can make them feel superior to others. You cannot police other people's behavior on stream but you sure can influence it.
Also you need to be specific in using the words 'baby', 'sweetheart', 'honey'. Espcially important for boundaries. Remember how you acted the first week and compare.
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TY for today. I know this was stressful for you. You did good Babu!!🫂 Let's just hope this calms everyone down and we get some peace on our time lines.See you tomorrow🖤🥀💋💋
Thank you for uploading this, I’d like to go back to it again in the future😊
(Sorry if my responses are over the top or unnecessary but I just wanted to give my 2 cents and support 🫶🏼)
I really think that it took a lot of guts for you to say what you said today and I respect you completely. I’m also proud of you for getting multiple opinions on the matter and I think it’s important you have people close to you to back you up. I also think that you’re really mature for wanting more opinions about this and I feel sorry for whoever doesn’t like what you’ve had to say.
Regardless to how I’ve been treated in the past or whatever anyone thinks of me I don’t care, I don’t care if people like me or not, I’m here to support you because I care about you and you make my days much better and I forget my troubles. That’s all that matters to me, I’ll never expect or try to pressure you into banning a person or not call them out. Everyone has a right to be here as long as they respect the space and support you right, I’ve always believed that you know what you’re doing and you should do whatever makes you happy. I know you care about your community and you don’t want anyone to be bullied or hurt etc but there’s only so much you can do as a streamer. 💗
I’ve made mistakes in the past, I’m not completely innocent and I’ve tried my hardest to learn from my mistakes and be better! (Even to this day I still feel remorse and guilty for whatever I’ve done in the past to upset people. Which wasn’t intentional at all😇)
Regardless to how I feel about anyone else, I’ll never be that kind of person to push anyone out and I’m sorry that this is happening. We should be old enough and mature enough to work things out on our own, it’s not your responsibility and I truly respect that.
I’m very grateful I got to be a part of this community despite it’s drama and I believe we could be much more if people chose to over look things that presses them and be mature enough to block things out that they don’t like. I’m also very grateful for you and the fact you embrace me even for my flaws. I really try to be a good girl and do the right thing and I appreciate the Mod team a lot. I hope you’re proud of yourself because I am♥️
I just wanted you to know that I understood everything completely and I respect you and the Mods a lot. As an issue that’s been addressed that has actually been on my mind often I want to express that I don’t want you to hesitate to reprimand me if I ever do something wrong, it’s never my intention to do so but sometimes I come across the wrong way.
Anyway, I hope you have a calm day/night and don’t beat yourself up too much. Get something yummy to eat and if you’re doing offline work, take it easy. I’m very thankful for you, remember you can’t always make everyone happy even though you try!☺️
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