q&a: insecurities, relationships, getting to know me

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  • hi everyone!! filmed a q&a and hopefully you guys got some information out of this ☺️ lots of parts of me trying to give advice HAHA hopefully it makes sense ! enjoy ☺️
    thumbnail inspired by @bestdressed 🥰
    📍where to find me
    instagram ➭ / kailaady
    email ➭ kaila.dy@yahoo.com
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    -how tall are you? 5’9”
    -what school do you go to? de la salle university
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  • @cathyryntan7862
    @cathyryntan7862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    "I'm not ready to be in a relationship because I'm busy fixing my relationship with myself. " and that's what self love can do! you don't need anyone, you just need yourself because whatever might be happen you only have you. ❤

    • @letreyes3638
      @letreyes3638 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahaha😊.... Well, gdlck girl.

    • @glennharveyco
      @glennharveyco 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      kawawa naman mga excuse ng mga "alone" sa buhay, hahaha..🙉

    • @asj-zx2eo
      @asj-zx2eo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@glennharveyco Really? Maybe you’re just afraid of being alone and doing everything by yourself. There’s nothing wrong about being alone after all. It makes you grow and appreciate your own self and capabilities.

    • @tostas6429
      @tostas6429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@glennharveyco nanli-liit kaba sa sarili mo pag may nakikita/nakikilala kang tao na may strong personality? 😩 siguro ikaw yung taong inaasa lang yung kaligayahan sa iba noh? Anyway, Godbless you pa rin.

    • @lune2960
      @lune2960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yung let reyes at official hd mga kawawang nilalang na hindi sasaya nang walang partner at always naka-rely ang happiness sa ibang tao. yan ang totoong kawawa HAHAHAHA

  • @seanbayan798
    @seanbayan798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    Now that's a strong, and independent woman 🙌🏻🖤

  • @divinaocampo
    @divinaocampo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    THE AUDIOO QUALITY OF THIS VIDEO IS LITERALLY CHEF’S KISS AAAAA

  • @forthegoodofallandharmofnone
    @forthegoodofallandharmofnone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    watching this vid feels like i’m listening to myself grabe we are SOOOO SIMILAR 😭
    • constantly wanting to be the best version of herself
    • has no confidence
    • bad at socializing
    • find it easy to cut off people in her life
    • LOVES self-help books
    and i immediately checked your ig and i found out you’re a GEMINI and recently turned 20 too?? 😭 you’re my sis fr 💗 proud of you kaila! let’s keep growing 🌱

  • @CheeniDy
    @CheeniDy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Oooooooh LOVE THE THUMBNAIL

  • @sheenamedrano1162
    @sheenamedrano1162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i really love how you care about yourself

  • @risse5481
    @risse5481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    rewatching this and i just wanna say that i'm so proud of you kaila! 💗

  • @theresecallasandrabaladian3265
    @theresecallasandrabaladian3265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you ate Kaila for this. I would probably watch this again if I'd have self doubts or struggling with my insecurities. Thank you for the advice it made me realize that there's more to life than caring about what other people think.

  • @notakihiro
    @notakihiro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    i like how you’re straightforward and you don’t sugarcoat any answers. 💗

  • @kwinmdnn4749
    @kwinmdnn4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    "I'm not really relevant to them as much as I think I am," wow I felt that. You're such an inspiration, Kaila! ✨

  • @krystelleshanemulet5552
    @krystelleshanemulet5552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    thank you for sharing this to us, ate Kai!🥰 I learned and realized a lot about self love, self growth and prioritizing our self first. Looking forward for more contents like this plsss😍 you inspired me the most.

  • @ellereyes8948
    @ellereyes8948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    luckily i found you on kianna vlog and this is what I really need right now learning to love my self without seeking affirmation with others. thank you kai, i love u girl 💗🧚🏻✨

  • @leiramsaylom
    @leiramsaylom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love your realizations and the way you talk about confidence and insecurities. Let's all grow together! 💛🍂

  • @kcsantiago6965
    @kcsantiago6965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Couldn’t be more thankful for this vlog!! 🥺 I can relate with almost everything you said.🤍 you go girl!!

  • @simp7489
    @simp7489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ure so mature ate kai!! love ur words of coping up with insecurities, it really helps! 😇😇

  • @princessmaedumlao
    @princessmaedumlao 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AAAAH this is so wholesome kai 😭 u inspire me in so many ways & influenced me in so many things. ily ♡

  • @claire9641
    @claire9641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cried when you said your answers about the insecurities and confidence part because I really really needed to hear those words, thankyou

  • @notjaneeeee
    @notjaneeeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    aww kaila, i really love watching your vlogs. thank you for this ❤️

  • @lizatasic774
    @lizatasic774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay, finally new vlog from Kaila Dy! ❤️

  • @Max-eo4pr
    @Max-eo4pr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I love how Kaila is trying to improve herself especially in communication by taking Organizational Communication as her course

  • @john_vin
    @john_vin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Based from your tone recently, It seems you are in the process of Individuation.I always adore people who are in this phase it's exciting and by the end of it you"ll come out a new Kaila.Way to go.

  • @zyfncg5351
    @zyfncg5351 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're so inspirational. ray of sunshine, literally. :)

  • @mariegabriellechuadomaoal2554
    @mariegabriellechuadomaoal2554 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is my go to video when i feel like things are getting bad again, thankyou so much kaila you inspires me

  • @kylaveroncabangon2796
    @kylaveroncabangon2796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're so glowing kai!!! 🤍🤍

  • @johnlawrencetaguinodsaraca2540
    @johnlawrencetaguinodsaraca2540 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    kaila is soo gorgeous n she seems so genuine & sweet how can u not loveee her

  • @regilynsalcedo2484
    @regilynsalcedo2484 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My most genuinely watched vid of yours, Kai! 🥺❤️ So proud of u! ✨🥰

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite content of Kaila: Q&A!!💖

  • @lovemaeee1077
    @lovemaeee1077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I agree with being single na u have a lot of oppurtunity for urselfff , spend a lot of time alone for growth and leisure and its so much funnn!! I ended my relationship last last week bc i think im not yet ready to commit myself and i also think that marami akong kulang for myself. I need to make time for myself and enjoy my life because when u r ready na when the time comes its so much better pa. U taught me that, kai. In you i found out that we can be happy even though we're single. ( So much peaceful pa) hehe

  • @kylagalang5125
    @kylagalang5125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    just few more subs and you'll reach 20K na!! congrats, kai! keep making vids and we're here to support you!

  • @katy2010ily
    @katy2010ily 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaila is soooo prettyyy!!! That type of beauty you can't stop looking at.

  • @ritaabellon
    @ritaabellon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i rewatched this video today while doing schoolwork, it gives me podcast vibessss. i think u should consider making one kai!

  • @anaespino4540
    @anaespino4540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice, Kai! Keep improving yourself 💕

  • @aellexo7898
    @aellexo7898 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My fave vlogger atm 💖 love you kaila

  • @jasminefaithdedios103
    @jasminefaithdedios103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love watching your videos. I'm a 2002 baby too and lately I've been reflecting and thinking bout life the way you do. Yasss! Maturity speaks in behalf of us and I love it!

  • @marcosaez1007
    @marcosaez1007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Humble yet powerful realization - "I'm not really relevant to them, as much as i think i am"

  • @kkdwightofficial
    @kkdwightofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love your answer, even though I ship you and geo but your mindset about being in a relationship or the pressure to be in a relationship is 💯 love that kind of mindset on being single right now because not everyone is like that and sometimes everyone wanted to enter relationship even though they're not yet ready but you, you don't pressure yourself, you get to know yourself better and first before you enter in a relationship ❤

  • @jashmereanneparajas6643
    @jashmereanneparajas6643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    SELF LOVEEEEEEEE MUST BE OUR PRIORITY!!! SO PROUD OF YOU KAI!

  • @ma.patriciapaulaaguilar6366
    @ma.patriciapaulaaguilar6366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love the way you utter, sounds very professional 😌

  • @chauhriz
    @chauhriz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you’re so pretty 😭 i cannot 🥺🤍

  • @rosetaeyomi2083
    @rosetaeyomi2083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    tumbled across this video and i'm so glad i did. i love how you have a lot of insights especially about yourself. will definitely bingewatch your other vids and subscribe ofc! 💗💗

  • @anjasabinelim5838
    @anjasabinelim5838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hugs ate Kai!! So proud of youuu 🥺❤ and namlee forevaaa 🥺🥺

  • @leyramaesambrano
    @leyramaesambrano ปีที่แล้ว

    I am rewatching this again. I missed you, ate Kai!

  • @gracegepiga1236
    @gracegepiga1236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the content and happy 20k!!

  • @patrickrengel9885
    @patrickrengel9885 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So proud of u Kai.🥰🥰💖✨

  • @joulcastillo7630
    @joulcastillo7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bc of you I have a lot of realization about myself and same as you I am trying yo fix myself, u inspired me a lot thank you kaila loveyouuuu🥺❤️

  • @arianefernandez4823
    @arianefernandez4823 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a cutie! you are loved and you have a purpose, ate Kaila! ❤️

  • @user-ez9kg2eq1e
    @user-ez9kg2eq1e 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rewatch this, and got so many reminders again.✨I miss ur vlogs na kai, and ur labada sessions

  • @jmorr124
    @jmorr124 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    why so adorable kailaaaaaaaaa!

  • @bdtn879
    @bdtn879 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    your voice + the audio quality are so calmm

  • @arynqwer
    @arynqwer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ate Kaila will always be my comfort person. 💗

  • @liezlmae8461
    @liezlmae8461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE YOU KAI!!!!! SO ADORBS 😚 I really waited for a Q and A!!!! I can relate so much with personal growth and the opportunities of being single 👀❤ this video spoke volume to me!!! thanks kai 😘

  • @notjaneeeee
    @notjaneeeee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY 20K SUBS. WELL DESERVED!!!

  • @Camille-vm5le
    @Camille-vm5le 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We're the same age, and all of your realizations and thoughts are exactly what I've been thinking about lately too.

  • @beybiebels
    @beybiebels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Affirm your own self-worth" ❤

  • @sharmaineerikapacaanas6033
    @sharmaineerikapacaanas6033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i learned a lot from you ate kai!! thank u so much😭💗💗

  • @liezelquianadefrancia5674
    @liezelquianadefrancia5674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a therapy, thank you for this! ❤️

  • @rhenzbonifacio6054
    @rhenzbonifacio6054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I get along with you through this Q&A vlog. + you're so gorgeous as well.

  • @jecellmalaluan6047
    @jecellmalaluan6047 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YASSSSS FINALLY NEW VLOG! 😍

  • @alexaanni.gubatanga4934
    @alexaanni.gubatanga4934 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i really really love your voice and your realizations in life, babe!!!! you really should make a podcast already. pleaseeee 😣

  • @jcarlbysa1592
    @jcarlbysa1592 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaila, I just found you on TikTok hehe. I really like your past self realization. Keep up the goooddddd workk!

  • @sabbyers_2091
    @sabbyers_2091 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ate Kim is soOoooO happy watching this for sure

  • @ezekielnaris2802
    @ezekielnaris2802 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAAAPPPYYY 20K AND MORE ATE KAIIIII 🎉🎉♥

  • @jashmereanneparajas6643
    @jashmereanneparajas6643 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOUR VIBES!!!

  • @franciepestano4957
    @franciepestano4957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I STAN THE RIGHT PERSON

  • @gela4353
    @gela4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you, Kai! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alexis-fy5pu
    @alexis-fy5pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    advance happy 20k subs, Ate Kai!! ♡

  • @andreasyt2872
    @andreasyt2872 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 ilysm

  • @nadineuy
    @nadineuy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    love it, ate Kai! ♡

  • @niconiconi_
    @niconiconi_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love youuuu Kai 🥰

  • @akopinay
    @akopinay ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you kai💚 hope youre doing great! take care always and God bless!

  • @johnpenny1722
    @johnpenny1722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite youtuber!

  • @angelicacastillo7669
    @angelicacastillo7669 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Updated version of this pls 🥹💖 Kaila dy lover era ✨

  • @eayahhh_3264
    @eayahhh_3264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love ur mindset kailaaa

    • @KailaDy
      @KailaDy  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank u 🥰☹️

  • @jogimay288
    @jogimay288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Worth stanning for!😍❤

  • @mairesirah7266
    @mairesirah7266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww this is so nice! I love your voice so much

  • @artaeshuadeleon2202
    @artaeshuadeleon2202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i learned a lot, thanks kaila!

  • @mendozamharzerine6633
    @mendozamharzerine6633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    aaaahhh thanks for inspiring us 🥺

  • @daniellejoybeboso9834
    @daniellejoybeboso9834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So pretty kai! 😍

  • @aironecatacutan4029
    @aironecatacutan4029 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im happy na meron na ulit ikaw bagong vlog ate hehe💖

  • @angelobong.A
    @angelobong.A 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    SAME FAV FOR THE KDRAMAAAAAAAA💕

  • @dianad3857
    @dianad3857 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope you finally meet the best version of yourself and have the opportunity to share it with us. God bless!

  • @savanahhennienur911
    @savanahhennienur911 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the realizations 🥺🤍

  • @camilaespinoza9697
    @camilaespinoza9697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    super love this! 🥺

  • @irishangelbernales8364
    @irishangelbernales8364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaila is just so pretty

  • @zerenesia5095
    @zerenesia5095 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    aaaaaa i love you sm ate kaila!! u really inspires me

  • @aljennelynmacarandang5706
    @aljennelynmacarandang5706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so pretty talagaa Ate Kailaaaa! ❣️

  • @tristine.6088
    @tristine.6088 ปีที่แล้ว

    ilymch ate kai!🧡🥰

  • @yanniesio4835
    @yanniesio4835 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you kaila! ❤️

  • @Itsme-zm3jl
    @Itsme-zm3jl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    can you make a reaction video whenever your family is being spotted at kkds games :)) love your vids ❤️❤️

    • @wettieviray3896
      @wettieviray3896 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yaass!! where can i see one huhu

    • @Itsme-zm3jl
      @Itsme-zm3jl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can watch uaap season 78-80 po specially during finals :)

  • @bemzybe2586
    @bemzybe2586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i also love stephanie especially her contact lenses

  • @vargaskevino.3359
    @vargaskevino.3359 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ganda mo talaga kaii!

  • @farahgarilva5699
    @farahgarilva5699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    hii kai! Thanks for acknowledging my question. You know, I really look up to you as one of the glowing and growing independent woman ever. You are such an inspiring strong woman. I hope life gives you more than what u deserve. Ily and stay safe. 🕊

  • @IZZY-yu1wo
    @IZZY-yu1wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate to u kai 🥺 seeking affirmation to other people and dropping people so easily 😔 but working on it!

  • @ssshroomsh
    @ssshroomsh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you, ate kaila! these really helps

  • @kristenctngy
    @kristenctngy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    your voice is so satisfyingggg

  • @lairado5271
    @lairado5271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ✔️PETITION FOR PART 2 KAII ✊🙌 LOOKING FORWARD!! ✨ anyways, ur too nice & cute!!

  • @jenru6078
    @jenru6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaila u so prettyyyyy 🥺🧡

  • @erickaanngeronimo9452
    @erickaanngeronimo9452 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Early!! Yey we can get to know ate Kaila🌼

  • @nari446
    @nari446 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES!!! htgawm best series

  • @gwynethdelacruz9456
    @gwynethdelacruz9456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy 20k subs ate Kai!!!