It's not strange it's called love. Sorry you didn't get loved on like that. I mean to be fair he still wants her to iron his clothes and make his sandwiches.
@@ChrissyAnn85 this is beyond her seeing him as a child. This is very sexual or like relationship kind of vibe. This is strange even the way she looks at him when he wants to be with the girlfriend. She looks at him like a side piece or a girl that’s told that the man is going to his main woman.
@@aesthetickuly yeah but he’s a grown man he’s not a child anymore he is able to get his life back but he chooses to enable her behavior he is not a baby he could do it he just lets her take over his life.
@@robertgray1214yea I feel what you’re saying , but as a grown as man staying in ur mom basement while she’s controlling ur every move & ur love life is weird asf !
I don't think the gf is controlling at all. She just wants to have a normal relationship and the mom is trying to run his life bc she doesn't have one of her own. He's a very weak minded person bc of his relationship with her but I think he knows deep down it's not right but he doesn't wanna stand up to her bc he's so used to her acting like this that he thinks it's normal. But it's very naive and childish to think his mom has no ulterior motives. She wants to ruin his relationship even if it makes him miserable bc she wants him all to herself. This is just weird and creepy as hell this is his MOM we're talking about it feels like we're talking about an ex gf that hasn't moved on from him and that's still getting a response.
I want to blame him but his mom has conditioned him to be like this for his literal entire life. He needs to travel somewhere far away for at least 2 years and needs fo have minimal contact with his mom. He gotta find himself.
!. Mama needs to stop micromanaging his life. He will learn eventually. Also Nylah looks like she expects to get everything for free.. Girl needs to bring her card too as back up. Its a two sided relationship.
20yrs from now when he’s 44 and still living in the basement and she complains about not having any grandchildren. And his mom looks on IG and his girlfriend is celebrating her oldest child graduating from college she’s going to regret everything she did to sabotage this relationship and every relationship after this one.
This aint even funny the mother has serious issues and shes a hippocrit! You dont want your son to have a love life, but you can hace your boyfriend or husband around constantly smh
That is so embarrassing. Mom is going to be the downfall of him not having a successful relationship. I hope at some point you become a man, and take charge of your life. No woman is going to put up with the disrespect.
Don’t ever tell your parents when you have an argument with your significant other. They will definitely hold that against them and you. Unless it is a threat to your life, keep it to yourself or talk about it with your partner.
I’m so happy for nylah finally stepping up and saying how she feels about the situation 🙌🏽 but shaheed actually should tell his mom & needs to let her know how it is let him be a man ! And let them figure out there relationship if it don’t work out hey that’s there relationship it’s not a shaheed and his mom and nylah relationship
Diabolical af! I don’t know a situation where it’s okay for a son and his mother to be dressed like a couple unless it’s a family Christmas event or photo, family reunion or a repast.
Am I the only one that thinks this Shyt is seriously strange 🤦🏿♂️...These moms are treating their sons like their man & that Shyt is pedo...Go find a man & stay out ur Grown kids relationships.... This ain't right bruh 🤦🏿♂️
This pissed me off when his mom locked his card and than she has the nerve to ask him what he needs the money for. Thats his money not his mom money. He needs to take his mom to court so he could get all his money back. His mom needs to back the f*** off.
I think so especially since she knew she was coming there it’d be different if it was spontaneous then again I saw her thanksgiving outfit she just can’t dress 🤮
definitely his mom and their relationship is weird but nylahs there is just something i don’t like about her she seems like she’s stuck up and thinks she needs everything handed to her like she’s the boss of everything
I have a 22 year old son who has a long term girlfriend and I let him and his relationship alone, I give him advice on certain things but I don’t control his every move
I’m a mom of 4 boys and one daughter and I would never be this invested in my child’s life.lol I’ll be there if they need me or to help if they mess up but I’ll never dictate how they lead their life! This is weird
He's weird af letting his mom act like that and treat this beautiful queen like that. Couldn't me cause momma would have been cussed tf out and I would she been left his weird ass.
Oh no .... telling anyone in YOUR family abt your relationship problems is a HUGE no no .... not only are you giving them one side of a story but also you will forgive them, your family wont ‼️
Mom knows a Gold Digger when she sees one!!! Why his girlfriend couldn't pay for the date???? Expecting him to pay all the time is a RED FLAG! To avoid the embarrassment she should have paid when his card was declined. That would show his mom she really loves him, but since she didn't, that only proves her intent
A gold digger wouldn’t date and stay with a man that constantly gets his card locked by his mom. She would date a man who idk, can spends all his money on her lol
Young lady, you do not need this weak man in your life. I hope you didn't marry him. I don't know how old this show is but you're beautiful. Move on sister
LEAVE THAT BOY AN GET U A MAN THIS WILL ALWAYS BE A PROBLEM HE'S NEVER LEAVING 🏡 NEVER GOIN TO BE RESPONSIBLE AN HIS MOTHER HAS NO LIFE AT ALLL SHE SEEMS KINDA JEALOUS OF HIM HAVIN A LIFE AN SHE DONT
I can only imagine how clingy he was when he was a child. If it was anything like this, I'm sure she's ruined alot of potential relationships/friendships. IT'S TIME TO BREAK THE CYCLE SHAHID 🗣️⌛
i don’t think his mom should of locked his card that was definitely crazy but i do agree with his mom that she seems like she is using him for money i usually don’t agree with the mother but in this case i do
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Take your mom off of your card! You are 24 years old
As simple as that
It's very strange to be this clingy to your son.
Some mom are stuck with seeing their children as babies
@@ChrissyAnn85But, it’s just him. She has 3 and he’s in the middle
Locking the card is wild
It's not strange it's called love. Sorry you didn't get loved on like that. I mean to be fair he still wants her to iron his clothes and make his sandwiches.
@@ChrissyAnn85 this is beyond her seeing him as a child. This is very sexual or like relationship kind of vibe. This is strange even the way she looks at him when he wants to be with the girlfriend. She looks at him like a side piece or a girl that’s told that the man is going to his main woman.
His mom is basically ruining his life by trying to be his best friend rather than his MOTHER!
Well that's a lie. She's trying to be his wife.
Or his wife...
I’ve never given my best friend access to my finances. She is acting like his wife…
No his ruining his own life..his a grow ass man
Everytime she says you choose hanging out with her over me it sounds like she's a jealous gf not a mother.
He acts like a baby I could NEVER
Rightttt smhhhh
Stop . It’s probably because of how he was raised by a controlling manipulative scary mom!
@@aesthetickuly yeah but he’s a grown man he’s not a child anymore he is able to get his life back but he chooses to enable her behavior he is not a baby he could do it he just lets her take over his life.
Not in any lifetime.
@@aesthetickulyAnd, he has a younger brother.
Nyla needs to realize her boyfriend is her gay bestfriend
Very tru that
Thank you
What evidence do you have he’s gay? That’s defamation if you’re wrong. Be careful with your accusations.
“i don’t taste the pineapple” had some sweetness to it
I Do Not Believe it, But He Is The Baby, And The Mother is Spoiling Him. I Believe He Is Last, Baby!!!!!!!!
"I live in my mom's basement" is wild i would of kept that to myself 😂
Hell it rent free vs him getting a place with him and he be broke in a year.
@@robertgray1214I agree but something’s are better left unsaid especially to strangers. 😂
@@robertgray1214yea I feel what you’re saying , but as a grown as man staying in ur mom basement while she’s controlling ur every move & ur love life is weird asf !
He needs to cut back on both of them there both controlling him in there own way and he needs to man up a lot
The girlfriend’s points are valid. This boy seems mentally delayed.
Enough of the Bothisms. It's his mother!
I don't think the gf is controlling at all. She just wants to have a normal relationship and the mom is trying to run his life bc she doesn't have one of her own.
He's a very weak minded person bc of his relationship with her but I think he knows deep down it's not right but he doesn't wanna stand up to her bc he's so used to her acting like this that he thinks it's normal. But it's very naive and childish to think his mom has no ulterior motives.
She wants to ruin his relationship even if it makes him miserable bc she wants him all to herself. This is just weird and creepy as hell this is his MOM we're talking about it feels like we're talking about an ex gf that hasn't moved on from him and that's still getting a response.
@@Cornbreadfed82‼️‼️‼️
I want to blame him but his mom has conditioned him to be like this for his literal entire life. He needs to travel somewhere far away for at least 2 years and needs fo have minimal contact with his mom. He gotta find himself.
She is making him reliant on her and squashing his ability to make good choices.
"OH, you do.?" 😂😂😂man the lady at the wine tasting didn't know what to say. 😅😂
This is weird behavior!
I don’t like how that lady, yelled that the card declined.
She didn’t yell what are you on about?
@@Noname-rw9qzShe didn’t yell, and he needed to be embarrassed, in my opinion.
Them matching shirts😂😂😂😂 he a lil zesty and needs a job🧐
Veryyyyy and immature
😂😂😂😂😂
!. Mama needs to stop micromanaging his life. He will learn eventually. Also Nylah looks like she expects to get everything for free.. Girl needs to bring her card too as back up. Its a two sided relationship.
So he doesn’t know how to iron, cook or do laundry? She failed as a mother!
That's a fact!!! because my youngest son can do all of that and he's only 12
20yrs from now when he’s 44 and still living in the basement and she complains about not having any grandchildren. And his mom looks on IG and his girlfriend is celebrating her oldest child graduating from college she’s going to regret everything she did to sabotage this relationship and every relationship after this one.
She's sabotaging his life...
I could never deal with this. He would have been dumped. This would get on my last nerve and I wouldn’t respect him.
So they pulled the tasting room manager for green screen time😂😂😂😂
This aint even funny the mother has serious issues and shes a hippocrit! You dont want your son to have a love life, but you can hace your boyfriend or husband around constantly smh
That is so embarrassing. Mom is going to be the downfall of him not having a successful relationship. I hope at some point you become a man, and take charge of your life. No woman is going to put up with the disrespect.
I disagree. He needs to be on his own. But get rid of her too. Is she giving him anything? Below the belt?
The young lady could mention that she shares. Her last statement is uncouth. He apparently spends too much money! They need to take a time-out.
@ I agree he needs to be on his own. However, I feel like no one is going to be good enough for him. He has a lot of growing up to do.
He would just have to date his Mom because heck to the No!!!
He needs to grow up, stick up for himself with both of them and move out into a house of his own or at least make the basement self contained.
Don’t ever tell your parents when you have an argument with your significant other. They will definitely hold that against them and you. Unless it is a threat to your life, keep it to yourself or talk about it with your partner.
This is why you need your father in your life and when your mother doesn't have her own life
This boy going to grow old with his momma! This is some weird freaky stuff!
Boy bye..girl, move on
I’m so happy for nylah finally stepping up and saying how she feels about the situation 🙌🏽 but shaheed actually should tell his mom & needs to let her know how it is let him be a man ! And let them figure out there relationship if it don’t work out hey that’s there relationship it’s not a shaheed and his mom and nylah relationship
Matching shirts with your son is diabolical for this kind of event.
Diabolical af! I don’t know a situation where it’s okay for a son and his mother to be dressed like a couple unless it’s a family Christmas event or photo, family reunion or a repast.
Is it me or do a lot of these men from these shows seem kinda sweet 💅🏽 like they be so feminine
Dude man up get a job. When you speak with your mom don’t put your phone on speaker.
Am I the only one that thinks this Shyt is seriously strange 🤦🏿♂️...These moms are treating their sons like their man & that Shyt is pedo...Go find a man & stay out ur Grown kids relationships.... This ain't right bruh 🤦🏿♂️
Oh heck nah 😂 no way my mama controlling my card😂😂😭
Nie why yall trauma dumped on that wine lady😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is crazy lolll like wtfff mum is literally obsessed with her son 😮😮😮😮😮
This pissed me off when his mom locked his card and than she has the nerve to ask him what he needs the money for. Thats his money not his mom money. He needs to take his mom to court so he could get all his money back. His mom needs to back the f*** off.
This is fake, no way this is real . I would have already excused myself from this relationship.
I went out for a few weeks with a guy who managed to insert something about his Mom into every conversation. He was 40.
Anyone else think her outfit is distasteful for the classy environment?
Very distasteful 😮
I think so especially since she knew she was coming there it’d be different if it was spontaneous then again I saw her thanksgiving outfit she just can’t dress 🤮
She looks fine for a winery! Please stop
why do you even have an opinion on this. never understood why people care about what others choose to wear
@@babybluexx33 I have a right to my opinion. Bye troll.
definitely his mom and their relationship is weird but nylahs there is just something i don’t like about her she seems like she’s stuck up and thinks she needs everything handed to her like she’s the boss of everything
Why are they dressed alike! Mom this is weird 😮
Now he knows that's just his friend who agreed to be on TV with him 😂.
😂 him checking the lady for saying his card declined. I swear i feel the same way even if they say it low.
He asked to drop laundry and get a sandwich yet the card limit is emasculating?
I have a 22 year old son who has a long term girlfriend and I let him and his relationship alone, I give him advice on certain things but I don’t control his every move
I’m a mom of 4 boys and one daughter and I would never be this invested in my child’s life.lol I’ll be there if they need me or to help if they mess up but I’ll never dictate how they lead their life! This is weird
She'll be happy when he finally gets himself a boyfriend
This is so embarrassing for him.he needs to be a man not a little boy.
He needs to get a new bank account and dont give his mother his bank info. Smdh
He's weird af letting his mom act like that and treat this beautiful queen like that. Couldn't me cause momma would have been cussed tf out and I would she been left his weird ass.
smh i could never
The mom is just controlling him
First of all....why the hell are they wearing the same sweater....babbbyyyy
If a girl keep lying saying she don’t have her wallet “Eveytime” shes using him☠️😂🤣🤣
Tell her I'll take her out and we don't have to worry about my mom locking my card😂😂
She making her son her husband
That’s why he be tearing her man up on tik tok 😂😂😂
I don't blame mom for locking the card from this gold digger...
Nyhla slowwwwww she don't know he sweet 😂😂😂😂🎉
Both parties need to be on the same page with relationships. Being serious than trying to make it look similar to Meet The Parents with Ben Stiller.
Why she dressed like that at a winery
How is he going to blame the bartender for telling his card declined? I’m sorry you’re a clown and allow your mom to control your money.
My dad doesn’t even do this😂 and we share a card… he needs friends
Oh no .... telling anyone in YOUR family abt your relationship problems is a HUGE no no .... not only are you giving them one side of a story but also you will forgive them, your family wont ‼️
Matt is very handsome . His mom is funny but I truly believe she wants the best for him
Mom knows a Gold Digger when she sees one!!! Why his girlfriend couldn't pay for the date???? Expecting him to pay all the time is a RED FLAG!
To avoid the embarrassment she should have paid when his card was declined. That would show his mom she really loves him, but since she didn't, that only proves her intent
A gold digger wouldn’t date and stay with a man that constantly gets his card locked by his mom. She would date a man who idk, can spends all his money on her lol
The mom acts like she wants to be his girlfriend that’s why he so weak this is sad bro it’s time to move on out and be a man this is pathetic
Mum always knows the best.. That girl hell no
The mom and the son need therapy. No matter who he is with he needs room to grow up and his mother needs to get a man, not baby her ADULT son..
Treats him like he's a child.. He's a grown man, that would frustrate me.. This whole video frustrates me 💀
This is making me nauseous….
It's weird that mummy and her son have the same outfits on. Like WTH!!!! Is she his mum or tryna be his gf? 🤔🙅🏽♀️😂
Not the matching shirts..mom needs a hobby, a man, and some friends ,and most of all....some therapy
Mother and son matching outfits for adults. Is what its giving
This is embarrassing 🤦♀️ what kind of relationship is this 🤣🤣
Young lady, you do not need this weak man in your life. I hope you didn't marry him. I don't know how old this show is but you're beautiful. Move on sister
The matching sweaters though. OMG. Mom needs her own man seriously.
In the beginning of the video why are the mom and son wearing matching jumpers? Thats weird lol
Mom needs to watch “How Stella got her groove back” on REPEAT!!!!
My moms going to kill me if I don’t floss my teeth killed me 😂😂
After that date we'd be over
She is definitely not a good mother. She needs to find her a man and stop controlling this boy
Let’s take a shot every time he says “my mom” 😂 whew keep your bottle close by
This young lady must be desperate for a relationship, because she could do much better.
LEAVE THAT BOY AN GET U A MAN THIS WILL ALWAYS BE A PROBLEM HE'S NEVER LEAVING 🏡 NEVER GOIN TO BE RESPONSIBLE AN HIS MOTHER HAS NO LIFE AT ALLL SHE SEEMS KINDA JEALOUS OF HIM HAVIN A LIFE AN SHE DONT
My mom can be overbearing but I respectfully set boundaries.
I wouldn't stay with a boy like that....
wow she must really love that boy
isn't he gay?
Omgggg…..they’re in the confessional wearing the SAME TOP! 🤣🥲🤣
I can only imagine how clingy he was when he was a child. If it was anything like this, I'm sure she's ruined alot of potential relationships/friendships. IT'S TIME TO BREAK THE CYCLE SHAHID 🗣️⌛
He needs to watch out for Nyla there is something off with him..
This is strange.
Love yourself and respect yourself.
i don’t think his mom should of locked his card that was definitely crazy but i do agree with his mom that she seems like she is using him for money i usually don’t agree with the mother but in this case i do
Shes a better person than me. If you have to argue with a man to prioritize you he aint the one. She should consider moving on
It's the continuous matching outfits for me🙄😳🤦🏾♀️
Bro zesty asl 😭😭😭
That much for a glass of wine hell they could've hit a liquor store in the hood.