Can totally relate. You sound like me. I also recently moved back to the US from Japan after living there for five years (June 2018-Sept 2023). Also left because of the Japanese work culture. As you alluded, foreigners have it relatively easy compared to the native Japanese, but nonetheless the office culture is still... suboptimal. BTW -- perhaps you can consider working remotely from Japan for a US employer after college. If the yen continues to get trashed, it'll be super lucrative!
You absolutely are one of the most beautiful and interesting Japanese. I have learned so much about Japanese culture. I have truly missed seeing your videos. I am sure you will very well in your studies. I look forward to your next video. I definitely will follow you. Thanks for making the video.
You really went quite a journey during these last couple of years, Chika. I am glad to see you are still doing well. I am still very sorry about your divorce. But I understand it was for the best for you and your ex-husband. For now, enjoy the fresh start and live life happy as always. Cheers! 😊
I'm sorry things didn't work out for you in Japan, especially through a painful divorce. I'm just glad that you've handled it, made it through, and you're starting a fresh, new chapter in your life. Much love Chika ❤
We are just in the process of moving to Japan. So far we are enjoying Japan, even though the moving process has been incredibly stressful. But I wonder how long we will stay. I guess life is a great adventure. Very normal to have so many ups and downs.
If you wanna save money on food then please look for an ALDI near your place....the best you can do for getting good and cheap food and vegetables etc....
I am glad to see you are doing better! The 0-50 dating score sucks, but it seems you have a worthy relationship goal in mind (future marriage). The thought of marriage might scare some guys away, but there are many guys out there actually looking for love, so I wouldn't worry. You picked a heck of a time to come back to the USA in general. The racism received (I was shocked hearing about this one), high costs, high rent are all things that have been getting worse, and no one is doing anything about it (policies are making things worse). Anyways, from one Floridian to another, welcome back!
It's so good to hear from you! I'm glad you are doing better now and pursuing new goals and have such a supportive friend group back in Florida. I'm sorry things didn't work out as originally planned but that Japanese working culture is brutal. Someone once asked me if I wanted to move to Japan at some point since I am living and working abroad but I just laughed in their face knowing what the work culture would do to me 😇. Living there with no need to work though would be banger.
Not sure what to do, everyone saying the US is the best for jobs...but again if its not big tec or nursing people look down on me, I wanted to do 2D animation, yes boo not a real job but its what I live for like Keiser william II
Your videos always brighten up my day (although you’re talking about racial slurs in the US 😞). I wonder if that’s a Florida thing. I don’t hear any racial slurs in Tucson where I live. I did hear some in Boston a little but it’s a big city so you’re bound to encounter some idiots.
Retiring to Japan is our family plan. I love Japan, but not the business culture. Hope you find a more representative community. We live in the suburbs of Chicago. There are so many Japanese companies around here. Our city is 25 percent Asian. We even have a public bilingual English Japanese school. Most of our friends are actually expats from Japan. They love our area. Don’t stay in a toxic community. The United States is a big country. You can find a place you will love.
I'm sorry it didn't work out in Japan. The working environment seems to be abusive there. Lots of Aerospace in Washington State, you just need to get used to the Weather change and lack Sunlight during the Winter.
I am going to keep my US job working remotely. So it will hopefully be a good combination of US salary and lower Japanese living costs. Fingers crossed.
Thanks for your honesty. I know groceries are more expensive now. Our budget is $1000 a month for a family of 4 per month. That is $250 per per person a month Requires shopping at Aldi though if you can do that you might be able to get back down to $62 or so.
Hi Chika. Aerospace engineering sounds super interesting. Perhaps you can apply for a job at SpaceX or the space force after you graduate. I’m sure there’s a lot of money to be made in that field. I’m surprised that your company treated you so badly even though it is considered one of the healthiest companies to work for. And you can speak Japanese fluently and you are Japanese. One of the biggest reasons why I don’t move to America is because of its racism. I mean, every country has racism but America expresses racism more explicitly like your experience in Florida. I’ve grown up in Washington state where there are a lot of asians so I didn’t get a bad racist experience. Perhaps you can look into moving to a more Asian-friendly state later on in life. I haven’t been to Florida and I don’t think I can live there. Thanks for your video!
Very sorry about the stress you went through. But I have known people who stayed in marriages that weren't working for 10+ years and that is a big mistake. If it's not working out, it's better to go through the divorce sooner rather than later. Glad you were able to take some time for yourself.
My advice is to get off social media and focus on school. You can't chase two rabbits at once. I lived in Japan 17 years as I had a great job for me working for a Japanese biomedical company but I was lucky; however, I had a game plan to get that job. I am retired from the company after 20 years and being promoted to a kachoo. Today I work 10 hours a week to stay active. Best of luck! You can do it, but heed my advice about simplifying your life. Edit: I was married to a Japanese woman and got over the divorce quite easily so I don't know where PTSD comes in but hey I am as old as your parents. Different generation.
Hello Chika ,really good to see you, it is good that you experienced 5 years in Japan ,but i totally understand you moving back to Florida ,being happy at work is most important, being unhappy at work you begin to dread getting up in the morning . Im so happy you are enjoying your new job and also studying for the Aerospace or computer science jobs you desire, having goals is very important ,something to strive for. Im sorry you have suffered racism, on top of that you have had challenges in your life after your divorce,but as a result you are a stonger person and you have changed your life around for the better ,and most importantly you are happy. Having good friends around you is very important too, having someone to talk to ,or for advice helps a great deal. Glad your hand is getting better. I hope it is soon at full strength again soon. Btw i loved the video you made at Ghibli Park with Miley, that was great fun. I wish you all the success for the future ,and i hope to see you again on here, but please don't feel pressured to post videos regularly. Take care Chika ,look affter yourself and stay safe.❤
12:22 I watched this vid out of curiosity..... so I have no broader context.. since YT just recommended it to me. I think your biting off a lot going to school/ for Computer science or "AEROSPACE ENGINEERING".. it sounds nice. But was their another way for you to pivot & make money? Like Florida has ports.. Do you think their was any opportunity for you to use your specific knowledge of Japan & Japanese to import goods from Japan & and sell them? Or is that market saturated already and not worth it? Best of luck, with your goals. Its sounds like you got a bit of a journey ahead of you. But you seem like you have a "go getter attitude" so.. Hope it works out.
Chika, May this new stage in life be full of joy and success. We all wish you the best and remember you have a friend in Mexico whenever you feel like talking.
Hey Chika. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sorry to hear that you experienced a lot of trauma from your last relationship. I'm surprised you were married for 5 years. You look so young. Nice that you're pursuing your dream of becoming an aerospace engineer and finding a new husband lol! I'm from Florida and went to UCF for business too lol! I recently met a really cool girl from Japan that visited me not too long ago and we're now in a long distance relationship, which is tough af. I hope too see her again soon though. I'm just worried about leaving my family here in the states, if I went to Japan more than just to visit. I want to start a business right now doing youtube/streaming and run a vending machine company, because then I could just live on that income somewhere else like Japan and not have to participate in the work culture there. Kinda like what your parents did. This is farther into the future, but I feel like I'd prefer raising children in Japan rather than the states. I want them to feel safe and that sense of freedom to go out, which isn't granted for most kids here in the states until they get a license. Where do you think is a better place to raise kids? I hope you recover from your ptsd. I think talking about your trauma will definitely help!
Whoa! Random recommendation in my feed, but welcome back to Florida! As someone who was born and raised in Florida, and studied in Japan for university, it's wild to hear you're also from here, especially since I feel that the Asian communities in FL are not that prevalent. I bet it's a contrast, right? I hope your next chapter goes well! I studied CS, and life has been prosperous as a result. Stay safe in FL-- I'm sure you know, it's crazy out here ...
It's really amazing to see how far you've come. I am living in Japan and working as an English teacher, but I really don't want to do this teaching stuff as my main career. I decided to apply to university again to get a second bachelor's degree, and although I got accepted, the financial aid was not good. I thought I would qualify for more financial aid as an independent, but I was also told that I wasn't eligible to receive grants. It sucks. I decided not to enroll and plan on self-studying and getting certifications instead. For me, I wanna do something with video editing and media, which doesn't really require any degree or certifications, but it's hard to study when you have to work to make ends meet. On top of paying for my basic needs here in Japan, I'm paying off private loans I took out for my first bachelor's degree, so I've been working a lot just to pay them off. I also had to pay for some medical expenses due to various health issues, so that took out a chunk of my money that I had saved. I wish money wasn't such a problem, and I wish I could dedicate all of my time to studying again. But I gotta make do with the circumstances. I did consider going back to the US and maybe living with my parents while working to save up to pay off my loans faster and get my dream job, but I honestly don't feel comfortable about working in the US unless it's a remote job. I just have a lot of anxiety and stress when I live in the US. Also, I don't want to deal with day-to-day life in the US and deal with all the racial slurs once again (I'm Asian American). I also feel like the US isn't safe with all of the violence and hate crimes. I feel like I would lock myself in my house all day fearing for my own safety. At least here in Japan, I don't have to deal with any stress or anxieties at the moment with day-to-day life, and now that I'm working in an international environment, I feel that things are getting better and my health is improving (at my previous teaching job, I worked with only Japanese people, and the Japanese work environment was a detriment to my health). The only thing that I'm still not happy with is my finances and where I'm at with my skillsets, and looking down the line, I don't know if continuing this way of life here in Japan will change things for me. I guess giving up comfort and going back to the US is the price I'll have to pay though if I wanna level up in my career and be in a better financial situation.
Hi there!! Yes, I found out also that when completing a second bachelors or taking undergraduate classes for any level of certification financial will not assist :( But your taking classes and that’s a step closer to aerospace engineering.
Another option, which I did, is to take the basic courses that will help you take the GRE for the graduate school of your choice. Then, use financial aid when you’re in grad school. Basically, attend the minimal number of undergrad classes that will allow you to fulfill any prerequisite grad school requirements and help you get a solid GRE and then go to grad school ASAP.
Nice to see you back and having recovered from your divorce. Surprise to see you back in the States. It’s a big step. I did the same moving countries and moved with just 1 suitcase!!! I bought a sofa that turned into a bed and that was it 🤣🤣🤣 Anyway those days are over and everything turned out to be for the best. Keep positive and smiling like Miley) and that will get you through.
Came across your 5 red flags short after trying to find name of a Jp ytuber & felt bad how much you're going through & the racism in this country. Dont overwork yourself so you can contol your disorder. If possible a quality escooter could help for now. 50 dates & no candidate 😮 though its funny since i follow Jp youtubers & if i happen to marry a good match Jp I'll be happy
I’m not in the aerospace industry, but I believe Elon Musk and SpaceX are thee leaders. To get a gist of them, you can read the Elon Musk biography written by Isaacson.
Wait Sis...so you moved to Japan from Orlando, worked and lived in Nippon and posted a video about that, and now your moving back to the USA ? From One Hood to another Hood.
Great video it’s good to have you back, I loved your honesty and your openness, it’s good to know you are slowly recovering, Good luck in school, Welcome back to America, 😃,
Ironically, it is the aerospace, software and engineering companies here (Japan) where you'll find healthier work environments. The reality is that anywhere you go, there will be good places to work, and there will bad places to work. I have found engineering to be generally better than "generic office work" or teaching. Animation and recruitment are probably the worst. The key thing though is to be doing something you enjoy and feel your effort is valuable. On the other hand, pay for engineering, software and aerospace here sucks across the board. Its certainly better than "livable" for a single person, but you can still earn double or triple in the states. I would be interested to know what you are thinking about in the aerospace industry? Its a wide field. Do you have something specific you are interested in? TBH, with everything else going on, perhaps dating should be a low on your priority list ATM. Enjoy casual dating for a while without over committing yourself. happiness in a relationship has to start with happiness within yourself.
Good to see you aggain Chika. Sad things didnt work out in japan, working culture for sure is a mess there. but good to hear that you are back and have goals. good luck in college! 💖
I think you'd do well on a streaming platform. You have a good sense of responding to comments and story telling, just depends if you develop the skill of doing it off the bat.
Holy Shit, you went on 50 dates? Man it must be great to be a woman. Only the top 2% of men could possibly go on 50 dates. And you might think, yes but 50 dates and I didn't find a good man. But men will get like 10 dates, if they are lucky and then settle because these are the only chances you're going to get.
Glad you came back to the US you are so beautiful ❤️ come up to SC and live with an old retired cowboy 🤠 if ur having a hard time and I guarantee there'll be no racial slurs here
Don't get stressed, you don't need to make a lot of videos if you need to focus on college life. I know making TH-cam videos will help you get paid. I would like to know what Florida is like cuz I'm looking to move to a new state near future. I hope you stay strong, and keep your chin up, and look forward to your new chapter in life.
Should be called random Chika or the Chika channel, well you might work for Honda or Mitsubishi to say Boeing might go out of business. Well to say it all where do you live in Florida? I am in Colombia right now visiting my dad Iive in Miami, Florida.
You're still young. You still have your whole life ahead of you. You gained some value life lessons from the marriage and from living in Japan. Stay strong and never give up. It's normal to feel depressed sometimes. But always pick yourself up and dust yourself off and keep on going.
Hello, Chika ! It's really nice to hear again from you. I was always listening your posts until the end. I think that you are a great observer of the world around you and anything that you will decide to speak about on your videos will be fine.
It's great to see you again👍. Glad to see you in good health and that you're doing so well👍. Let's hope and cross our fingers that universe turns out for the better for everyone including you👌. You're amazing as always Chika Alice😉. Stay strong, stay you, stay human.
Glad to see you again Chika. I've been following you through your experiences going to Japan and back. Sorry to hear about your PTSD, but I'm glad that you're getting counseling for it. It's admirable that you're going for your second bachelor's degree, and I wish you luck on that front.
Ah I must have been recommended this video because I must have seen your ex-maid "confessions" video which is a title and appearance too good to turn down. I must have been recommended that video after being intrigued by drawings of maids packing Uzis in "Akiba Maid War"... what a rabbit-hole to fall down! ;-) I don't know what to say as a public forum is the opposite place for me to express more than generic well-wishes: You explained your divorce and that is very sad given your extended time together but you are young and need to achieve certain things in life before your perspective changes and you want to settle down and focus on family, I would tentatively guess? It's very good you are getting therapy as it's something to work out before a new relationship and direction in life; albeit you're the only one to come to peace with yourself ultimately as is the case with everyone. Additionally switching between cultures: Perhaps achieve more things in the States and when you're a little older and ready for family life, you might switch again back to Japan? It is a funny zig-zag ride through life, so just remember while you do so, to add a little touch of spice while you do so! Take care.
Wow, I left Osaka Japan this year too after 4 yrs and watching all your Videos there. But moved back home to Hawaii which is tropical haha. I also felt the financial culture shock but it was one of my reasons for leaving Japan although it’s cheaper my work income would not be able to be the same as America even though the reason I moved to Japan was having a hard time getting a good job. Ironically coming back to Hawaii I am working for a Japanese company but getting paid in US dollars. I think being from the East coast also makes it harder compared to the West coast Katonks adjusting to Asian life.
I am glad you have come back after being away for so long and I can totally understand your reasoning for leaving Japan and not to do any videos because of what happened. You took care of yourself first and foremost, so for us, that is a very comforting thought. as for Florida, well, they are the complete opposite of California so I am not surprised that on that type of behavior. we are here for you and I am glad that you are slowly getting back on your feet. I am glad to see you again after so long. Do your best, take care of yourself and move forward with your dreams and goals :3
I moved back to the U.S. from Japan at 30 to get a CS degree. I also went to a community college then transferred to a university. I had to do all four years though because nothing from my previous degree transferred. Every school is different, but some CS environments can be really toxic. As a result, I went through school thinking I was an idiot and that CS wasn't for me. I graduated last year and was able to get a cushy high paying job at a U.S. company in Japan. Whether you pick Aerospace or CS, Japan or the U.S., don't get discouraged in school!
Can totally relate. You sound like me. I also recently moved back to the US from Japan after living there for five years (June 2018-Sept 2023). Also left because of the Japanese work culture. As you alluded, foreigners have it relatively easy compared to the native Japanese, but nonetheless the office culture is still... suboptimal. BTW -- perhaps you can consider working remotely from Japan for a US employer after college. If the yen continues to get trashed, it'll be super lucrative!
Sorry to hear about all the hardships you endured but glad to say: Welcome back Chika!
Alrighty then!
You absolutely are one of the most beautiful and interesting Japanese. I have learned so much about Japanese culture. I have truly missed seeing your videos. I am sure you will very well in your studies. I look forward to your next video. I definitely will follow you. Thanks for making the video.
You really went quite a journey during these last couple of years, Chika. I am glad to see you are still doing well. I am still very sorry about your divorce. But I understand it was for the best for you and your ex-husband. For now, enjoy the fresh start and live life happy as always. Cheers! 😊
Time makes hypocrites of us all eventually. Thanks for the catch-up, and best wishes to you and yours!
I remember you missed Tex-Mex while in Japan so I wonder what food you miss now you're in the US.
I'm sorry things didn't work out for you in Japan, especially through a painful divorce. I'm just glad that you've handled it, made it through, and you're starting a fresh, new chapter in your life. Much love Chika ❤
We are just in the process of moving to Japan. So far we are enjoying Japan, even though the moving process has been incredibly stressful. But I wonder how long we will stay. I guess life is a great adventure. Very normal to have so many ups and downs.
If you wanna save money on food then please look for an ALDI near your place....the best you can do for getting good and cheap food and vegetables etc....
I am glad to see you are doing better! The 0-50 dating score sucks, but it seems you have a worthy relationship goal in mind (future marriage). The thought of marriage might scare some guys away, but there are many guys out there actually looking for love, so I wouldn't worry. You picked a heck of a time to come back to the USA in general. The racism received (I was shocked hearing about this one), high costs, high rent are all things that have been getting worse, and no one is doing anything about it (policies are making things worse). Anyways, from one Floridian to another, welcome back!
It's so good to hear from you! I'm glad you are doing better now and pursuing new goals and have such a supportive friend group back in Florida. I'm sorry things didn't work out as originally planned but that Japanese working culture is brutal. Someone once asked me if I wanted to move to Japan at some point since I am living and working abroad but I just laughed in their face knowing what the work culture would do to me 😇. Living there with no need to work though would be banger.
Finish aerospace get hired with Gundam Bandai move back to Japan?
Not sure what to do, everyone saying the US is the best for jobs...but again if its not big tec or nursing people look down on me, I wanted to do 2D animation, yes boo not a real job but its what I live for like Keiser william II
2d animation sounds amazing
yea, japanese work culture is toxic af, glad to have you back in the states.
Well, you look absolutely ravishing darling.
Your videos always brighten up my day (although you’re talking about racial slurs in the US 😞). I wonder if that’s a Florida thing. I don’t hear any racial slurs in Tucson where I live. I did hear some in Boston a little but it’s a big city so you’re bound to encounter some idiots.
Retiring to Japan is our family plan. I love Japan, but not the business culture. Hope you find a more representative community. We live in the suburbs of Chicago. There are so many Japanese companies around here. Our city is 25 percent Asian. We even have a public bilingual English Japanese school. Most of our friends are actually expats from Japan. They love our area. Don’t stay in a toxic community. The United States is a big country. You can find a place you will love.
It's a pretty big decision to start all over at 28, but better to do it now than be stuck on the wrong path the rest of your life.
You are awesome & have a positive attitude & cute 🤭
You're still so cute. 4.0 GPA, aero space engineering, my god. So smart too! 50 dates and no boyfriend, now that's incredibly hard to believe.
I'm sorry it didn't work out in Japan. The working environment seems to be abusive there. Lots of Aerospace in Washington State, you just need to get used to the Weather change and lack Sunlight during the Winter.
Welcome back! Sorry about what you both went through. But glad doing better. I went through 3 divorces in japan over living there for 10 years.
And sorry for the haters! Florida is better now that you are there!
I am going to keep my US job working remotely. So it will hopefully be a good combination of US salary and lower Japanese living costs. Fingers crossed.
Thanks for your honesty. I know groceries are more expensive now. Our budget is $1000 a month for a family of 4 per month. That is $250 per per person a month Requires shopping at Aldi though if you can do that you might be able to get back down to $62 or so.
Hi Chika. Aerospace engineering sounds super interesting. Perhaps you can apply for a job at SpaceX or the space force after you graduate. I’m sure there’s a lot of money to be made in that field.
I’m surprised that your company treated you so badly even though it is considered one of the healthiest companies to work for. And you can speak Japanese fluently and you are Japanese.
One of the biggest reasons why I don’t move to America is because of its racism. I mean, every country has racism but America expresses racism more explicitly like your experience in Florida. I’ve grown up in Washington state where there are a lot of asians so I didn’t get a bad racist experience. Perhaps you can look into moving to a more Asian-friendly state later on in life. I haven’t been to Florida and I don’t think I can live there.
Thanks for your video!
what watch is she wearing gang
Cheap Casio watch I got from Amazon 😃
PTSD from the marriage?
Wait!!!! Why do I recognize you…ah…maybe tumblr?!
Hmmm I haven’t used tumblr in like 10 years! So unless you know me from back then I’m probably someone else
Ganbare! Keep on moving forward. -Bobacola
Finally! It's been a long time that I was expecting you to upload videos to share with your experiences. Greetings from Philippines!❤😁🇵🇭
Thanks for your patience 🥹!!!
It's great to see from you again, my dear friend. Hope you are doing well
I hope you're doing okay, ma'am.
Very sorry about the stress you went through. But I have known people who stayed in marriages that weren't working for 10+ years and that is a big mistake. If it's not working out, it's better to go through the divorce sooner rather than later. Glad you were able to take some time for yourself.
Hi Chika! Welcome back to America! Always wonderful to hear from you!
My advice is to get off social media and focus on school. You can't chase two rabbits at once. I lived in Japan 17 years as I had a great job for me working for a Japanese biomedical company but I was lucky; however, I had a game plan to get that job. I am retired from the company after 20 years and being promoted to a kachoo. Today I work 10 hours a week to stay active. Best of luck! You can do it, but heed my advice about simplifying your life.
Edit: I was married to a Japanese woman and got over the divorce quite easily so I don't know where PTSD comes in but hey I am as old as your parents. Different generation.
Hello Chika ,really good to see you, it is good that you experienced 5 years in Japan ,but i totally understand you moving back to Florida ,being happy at work is most important, being unhappy at work you begin to dread getting up in the morning .
Im so happy you are enjoying your new job and also studying for the Aerospace or computer science jobs you desire, having goals is very important ,something to strive for.
Im sorry you have suffered racism, on top of that you have had challenges in your life after your divorce,but as a result you are a stonger person and you have changed your life around for the better ,and most importantly you are happy.
Having good friends around you is very important too, having someone to talk to ,or for advice helps a great deal.
Glad your hand is getting better. I hope it is soon at full strength again soon.
Btw i loved the video you made at Ghibli Park with Miley, that was great fun.
I wish you all the success for the future ,and i hope to see you again on here, but please don't feel pressured to post videos regularly.
Take care Chika ,look affter yourself and stay safe.❤
12:22
I watched this vid out of curiosity..... so I have no broader context.. since YT just recommended it to me.
I think your biting off a lot going to school/ for Computer science or "AEROSPACE ENGINEERING".. it sounds nice.
But was their another way for you to pivot & make money? Like Florida has ports..
Do you think their was any opportunity for you to use your specific knowledge of Japan & Japanese
to import goods from Japan & and sell them? Or is that market saturated already and not worth it?
Best of luck, with your goals. Its sounds like you got a bit of a journey ahead of you. But you seem like you have a "go getter attitude" so..
Hope it works out.
Chika,
May this new stage in life be full of joy and success. We all wish you the best and remember you have a friend in Mexico whenever you feel like talking.
Hey Chika. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sorry to hear that you experienced a lot of trauma from your last relationship. I'm surprised you were married for 5 years. You look so young. Nice that you're pursuing your dream of becoming an aerospace engineer and finding a new husband lol! I'm from Florida and went to UCF for business too lol! I recently met a really cool girl from Japan that visited me not too long ago and we're now in a long distance relationship, which is tough af. I hope too see her again soon though. I'm just worried about leaving my family here in the states, if I went to Japan more than just to visit. I want to start a business right now doing youtube/streaming and run a vending machine company, because then I could just live on that income somewhere else like Japan and not have to participate in the work culture there. Kinda like what your parents did. This is farther into the future, but I feel like I'd prefer raising children in Japan rather than the states. I want them to feel safe and that sense of freedom to go out, which isn't granted for most kids here in the states until they get a license. Where do you think is a better place to raise kids? I hope you recover from your ptsd. I think talking about your trauma will definitely help!
Whoa! Random recommendation in my feed, but welcome back to Florida! As someone who was born and raised in Florida, and studied in Japan for university, it's wild to hear you're also from here, especially since I feel that the Asian communities in FL are not that prevalent. I bet it's a contrast, right? I hope your next chapter goes well! I studied CS, and life has been prosperous as a result. Stay safe in FL-- I'm sure you know, it's crazy out here ...
It's really amazing to see how far you've come. I am living in Japan and working as an English teacher, but I really don't want to do this teaching stuff as my main career. I decided to apply to university again to get a second bachelor's degree, and although I got accepted, the financial aid was not good. I thought I would qualify for more financial aid as an independent, but I was also told that I wasn't eligible to receive grants. It sucks. I decided not to enroll and plan on self-studying and getting certifications instead. For me, I wanna do something with video editing and media, which doesn't really require any degree or certifications, but it's hard to study when you have to work to make ends meet. On top of paying for my basic needs here in Japan, I'm paying off private loans I took out for my first bachelor's degree, so I've been working a lot just to pay them off. I also had to pay for some medical expenses due to various health issues, so that took out a chunk of my money that I had saved. I wish money wasn't such a problem, and I wish I could dedicate all of my time to studying again. But I gotta make do with the circumstances. I did consider going back to the US and maybe living with my parents while working to save up to pay off my loans faster and get my dream job, but I honestly don't feel comfortable about working in the US unless it's a remote job. I just have a lot of anxiety and stress when I live in the US. Also, I don't want to deal with day-to-day life in the US and deal with all the racial slurs once again (I'm Asian American). I also feel like the US isn't safe with all of the violence and hate crimes. I feel like I would lock myself in my house all day fearing for my own safety. At least here in Japan, I don't have to deal with any stress or anxieties at the moment with day-to-day life, and now that I'm working in an international environment, I feel that things are getting better and my health is improving (at my previous teaching job, I worked with only Japanese people, and the Japanese work environment was a detriment to my health). The only thing that I'm still not happy with is my finances and where I'm at with my skillsets, and looking down the line, I don't know if continuing this way of life here in Japan will change things for me. I guess giving up comfort and going back to the US is the price I'll have to pay though if I wanna level up in my career and be in a better financial situation.
Hi there!!
Yes, I found out also that when completing a second bachelors or taking undergraduate classes for any level of certification financial will not assist :( But your taking classes and that’s a step closer to aerospace engineering.
Another option, which I did, is to take the basic courses that will help you take the GRE for the graduate school of your choice. Then, use financial aid when you’re in grad school. Basically, attend the minimal number of undergrad classes that will allow you to fulfill any prerequisite grad school requirements and help you get a solid GRE and then go to grad school ASAP.
Nice to see you back and having recovered from your divorce. Surprise to see you back in the States. It’s a big step. I did the same moving countries and moved with just 1 suitcase!!! I bought a sofa that turned into a bed and that was it 🤣🤣🤣 Anyway those days are over and everything turned out to be for the best. Keep positive and smiling like Miley) and that will get you through.
Came across your 5 red flags short after trying to find name of a Jp ytuber & felt bad how much you're going through & the racism in this country. Dont overwork yourself so you can contol your disorder. If possible a quality escooter could help for now. 50 dates & no candidate 😮 though its funny since i follow Jp youtubers & if i happen to marry a good match Jp I'll be happy
I’m not in the aerospace industry, but I believe Elon Musk and SpaceX are thee leaders. To get a gist of them, you can read the Elon Musk biography written by Isaacson.
Hypocrite? Calm down, dont be so harsh on yourself Chika.
Would like to date you but I live in México 😅.
Wait Sis...so you moved to Japan from Orlando, worked and lived in Nippon and posted a video about that, and now your moving back to the USA ?
From One Hood to another Hood.
Great video it’s good to have you back, I loved your honesty and your openness, it’s good to know you are slowly recovering, Good luck in school, Welcome back to America, 😃,
Ironically, it is the aerospace, software and engineering companies here (Japan) where you'll find healthier work environments. The reality is that anywhere you go, there will be good places to work, and there will bad places to work. I have found engineering to be generally better than "generic office work" or teaching. Animation and recruitment are probably the worst. The key thing though is to be doing something you enjoy and feel your effort is valuable. On the other hand, pay for engineering, software and aerospace here sucks across the board. Its certainly better than "livable" for a single person, but you can still earn double or triple in the states.
I would be interested to know what you are thinking about in the aerospace industry? Its a wide field. Do you have something specific you are interested in?
TBH, with everything else going on, perhaps dating should be a low on your priority list ATM. Enjoy casual dating for a while without over committing yourself. happiness in a relationship has to start with happiness within yourself.
Good to see you aggain Chika. Sad things didnt work out in japan, working culture for sure is a mess there. but good to hear that you are back and have goals. good luck in college! 💖
I think you'd do well on a streaming platform. You have a good sense of responding to comments and story telling, just depends if you develop the skill of doing it off the bat.
Sounds like you were working for a 'Black ' company in Japan, welcome back to the states glad to have you back.
You talk a Lott but going away from the Mane subject of your video, Actually
Where in Florida are u where u get this racism? Haven’t heard of this before cominb from west coast
Holy Shit, you went on 50 dates? Man it must be great to be a woman. Only the top 2% of men could possibly go on 50 dates. And you might think, yes but 50 dates and I didn't find a good man. But men will get like 10 dates, if they are lucky and then settle because these are the only chances you're going to get.
Glad you came back to the US you are so beautiful ❤️ come up to SC and live with an old retired cowboy 🤠 if ur having a hard time and I guarantee there'll be no racial slurs here
Welcome back to TH-cam and the US…with the grit, grime and all the sundry that goes with both.
Your marriage sounds like you didn't match your birth sign with your ex-husband.
come to San Antonio, Texas and you can live with me Rent free so you can finish your education, i am Phil and living alone in big House I am Phil
Don't get stressed, you don't need to make a lot of videos if you need to focus on college life. I know making TH-cam videos will help you get paid. I would like to know what Florida is like cuz I'm looking to move to a new state near future. I hope you stay strong, and keep your chin up, and look forward to your new chapter in life.
Should be called random Chika or the Chika channel, well you might work for Honda or Mitsubishi to say Boeing might go out of business.
Well to say it all where do you live in Florida?
I am in Colombia right now visiting my dad Iive in Miami, Florida.
Would totally recommend CS. I think it's pretty useful going forward.
I'm glad you did what was best for you; I'm sure you'll figure things out! Best of luck
You're still young. You still have your whole life ahead of you. You gained some value life lessons from the marriage and from living in Japan. Stay strong and never give up. It's normal to feel depressed sometimes. But always pick yourself up and dust yourself off and keep on going.
Wow glad to see video of you again to now your back Hope life go good for you and to see video from your new area till the next video
Hello, Chika ! It's really nice to hear again from you. I was always listening your posts until the end. I think that you are a great observer of the world around you and anything that you will decide to speak about on your videos will be fine.
It's great to see you again👍. Glad to see you in good health and that you're doing so well👍. Let's hope and cross our fingers that universe turns out for the better for everyone including you👌.
You're amazing as always Chika Alice😉. Stay strong, stay you, stay human.
damn racial slurs while walking down the street
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Im a UCF alumini go knights from Florida as well.
Happy your hand is better!
keep the job and go back japan :) you can remote work from there :)
Thanks for updating us! I'm glad to hear you're doing better. I would love a video about your recent dating experience.
First video of yours that I've seen and it was really interesting. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for watching! 😊
I look forward to the giant robot of which you had a hand in creating.
Great to see you back. You do look a lot healthier and happier. Keep moving forward.
Glad to see you again Chika. I've been following you through your experiences going to Japan and back. Sorry to hear about your PTSD, but I'm glad that you're getting counseling for it. It's admirable that you're going for your second bachelor's degree, and I wish you luck on that front.
Welcome back
SOOO curious about the dates and what went wrong
Oh wow, Hello a year later. I am glad you are seeking some balance in your life. I know it will all work out.
I appreciate your kind words 🥹!
Hello im new watching video welcome
Ah I must have been recommended this video because I must have seen your ex-maid "confessions" video which is a title and appearance too good to turn down. I must have been recommended that video after being intrigued by drawings of maids packing Uzis in "Akiba Maid War"... what a rabbit-hole to fall down! ;-)
I don't know what to say as a public forum is the opposite place for me to express more than generic well-wishes: You explained your divorce and that is very sad given your extended time together but you are young and need to achieve certain things in life before your perspective changes and you want to settle down and focus on family, I would tentatively guess? It's very good you are getting therapy as it's something to work out before a new relationship and direction in life; albeit you're the only one to come to peace with yourself ultimately as is the case with everyone. Additionally switching between cultures: Perhaps achieve more things in the States and when you're a little older and ready for family life, you might switch again back to Japan? It is a funny zig-zag ride through life, so just remember while you do so, to add a little touch of spice while you do so! Take care.
I love your perspective! Thank you 🥹
Welcome Back! Missed the videos.
God bless you with success.
What is Miley like?
Good to see you again! Good luck!
Yey! Sheees back!
2024 will be the year of glow up
Wow, I left Osaka Japan this year too after 4 yrs and watching all your Videos there. But moved back home to Hawaii which is tropical haha. I also felt the financial culture shock but it was one of my reasons for leaving Japan although it’s cheaper my work income would not be able to be the same as America even though the reason I moved to Japan was having a hard time getting a good job. Ironically coming back to Hawaii I am working for a Japanese company but getting paid in US dollars. I think being from the East coast also makes it harder compared to the West coast Katonks adjusting to Asian life.
Just be careful if anyone starts saying any bs like Cal 3 is easier than 2, if you struggled with Cal 2, you will absolutely struggle with 3 lmao
LMAO. Words to live by, thank you 😂
Hope all is well! =)
Keep working on you, take your time, you will be fine. Strength through perseverance. Sending good vibes your way.
Thanks so much! ☺️
@@chikanohaAnytime! I went back to for another degree when I was 28 too, so understand the struggle, the best is yet to come for you!
Yeahhhh I wouldn't come back to FL if I lived in Japan BUT I have no experience over there yet. Welcome back though, enjoy our high prices lmao
Welcome back we are here for you
Thank you! ☺️
I am glad you have come back after being away for so long and I can totally understand your reasoning for leaving Japan and not to do any videos because of what happened. You took care of yourself first and foremost, so for us, that is a very comforting thought. as for Florida, well, they are the complete opposite of California so I am not surprised that on that type of behavior.
we are here for you and I am glad that you are slowly getting back on your feet. I am glad to see you again after so long. Do your best, take care of yourself and move forward with your dreams and goals :3
This almost made me cry happy tears, thanks for the kind words 🥹
Yeah Florida… I heard stories from people who used to live in Florida. California is much better as a long term stay.
I moved back to the U.S. from Japan at 30 to get a CS degree. I also went to a community college then transferred to a university. I had to do all four years though because nothing from my previous degree transferred. Every school is different, but some CS environments can be really toxic. As a result, I went through school thinking I was an idiot and that CS wasn't for me. I graduated last year and was able to get a cushy high paying job at a U.S. company in Japan. Whether you pick Aerospace or CS, Japan or the U.S., don't get discouraged in school!
Hope to see you at Holmat! I'll be there all 3 days!
Too traumatized to go to cons anymore 😭
Welcome back to Orlando and UCF(also am an alumnus). Great to see you doing better. I wouldn't mind being date 51 🤣