I tried sooo hard, but absolutely nothing would have ever been enough.. I am done questioning why or what if, it’s time for me to be happy with or without him.
Sometimes you can give absolutely everything you have, literally to where you forget who you are. I did it too, his version of loyalty and love wasn't the same as mine apparently. He was a lesson. Life is full of them. You, like myself, you've got this! We may not know how but God makes room in your life for better things❤ trust ❤ light and love blessed be
We exist. Sucks that a few (or most) ruined our image for the rest of us. I’m far from perfect but I do everything I can to show my wife I love her more than anything. Keep your heads up and never settle.
Its the end of hoping with every sorry is a real one. Realizing it's never a true sorry. The days of hating myself. I then realizing I'm never going to be enough
Glad I found the full song I relate to this song so much gave my ex husband 6 years and he still cheated and chose her after I left so broken I was ready to give up but my nieces and nephew saved me cuz mental and emotional abuse is no joke glad I am 10000 times better
mental and emotional abuse is worse then physical,, I when thru both and I would choose bruise that heal fast wayyyyy faster then mental and emotional that can leave trauma for years,, hope your doing better❤
1:46 there’s reasons why someone starts to second guess. Such as a persons words not matching their actions, a lack of actions, being hot and cold, and so on. It doesn’t matter the reasons why. Whether it’s fear of rejection, fear of losing one’s self, fear of being hurt (most people fear being hurt), difficulty trusting, plain selfishness, etc There’s no excuse for dragging someone’s heart through the mud and causing them to second guess not only themselves but second guess everything else. Don’t let your fears control you. Don’t let your fears hurt people or hurt yourself. If you give fear power over your life it will create problems that never existed and will replace all the good and all the wonderful things that do exist with heartache and loneliness
@@ScalesOfLife yes it's true I am scared and I always run and don't stay this time I am staying I am not going to run I am not going to let fear ruin this for me I hope u can be patient with me I know I can be difficult and I am not good at showing or saying how I feel I am going to try and work on that I want to be in your life more than anything u are my 🌝 and ⭐
Coming from someone that was married for 19 yrs he will not change he says he will and does for a few days but that's it you will never be good enough, you will be his enemy even tho you built him up. Pls leave sooner than it became hell for me he might not hit now but in the end he will. My back was broken the night I finally said I'm better than this and you RUN girls.
Thank you for this comment. Wow this was my life for almost 20 years.....😢said he would change..never lasted long. I couldn't see myself doing this life style for another 20 years. 💔😞
Same. Broken ribs two different times. Fake crying. The "baby I love you" , " I need you". 10 seconds later knocks ya silly for nothing. Holds ya captive. Breaks every phone atleast 7 in 2 years. Physically abuses you while already crying while naked. Tries to force disturbed role playing on you. Then body shames you and bullies you into thinking your nothing. And eventually everything you say do, don't say, don't do, is dissected and turned into a fable based solely on their own imaginations insecurities, and just outright mental crazy. LEAVE THE FIRST SIGN OF ANY CONTROLLING, DELFLECTIVE, SLIGHTLY BIZARRE OR "OFF" TENDENCIES. You'll need many many years of healing and will never be the same person you were the day they slithered into your path. It's such a waste of life and so damn senseless. I pray for anyone reading this that you find that "window" that you can run for your life. And don't look back. They are evil bad seeds and they are deadly and just pure pollution. RUN ❤️🩹
Wish I had the strength or wisdom to know how to be happy with or without. I can see myself keeping plenty of them for the rest of my life. It's the fact I can't see a future without the one who's hurt me worse then anyone else in every way but he's the one who I just cant see a future without him in it.
I poured my heart out last night. Told him I like him and im not talking to anyone else. Asked him if he's the same and he didn't answer the question. I'm about to be done.
Almost 20 years. 😢 my heart aches but I know i deserve better then someone who worked and slept and didn't even act like I existed 😪 I got tired of being alone been 7 months and my heart still hurts but I can't ever go back. 💔 only moved out 3 weeks ago and already caught him sleeping at someone's house 💔 crushed me like a ton of bricks I'll never go back. 😔
I warned him that I was going to leave if he didn’t change and he didn’t believe me until I walked out that door. By then it was too late. he stood crying as I drove away.
I tried sooo hard, but absolutely nothing would have ever been enough.. I am done questioning why or what if, it’s time for me to be happy with or without him.
Nothing will ever be good enough for the wrong person I’m going through this too 😢
same here 14 years 2 kids i dont think i was ever enough or the one
Sometimes you can give absolutely everything you have, literally to where you forget who you are. I did it too, his version of loyalty and love wasn't the same as mine apparently. He was a lesson. Life is full of them. You, like myself, you've got this! We may not know how but God makes room in your life for better things❤ trust ❤ light and love blessed be
Segra 0:09
Currently here 😢
This was on my fyp on tiktok and i came straight here to hear the full song.
Same!
Same!!
Me too 😂
Oh me to, because thankfully he made this song 🎧 because it’s me to a T ❤
Same
If only I could go to my Mama’s and sit and talk to her one more time. That’s who I really miss. ❤
I’m just done period tired of trying but getting accused of everything he’s doing there’s got to be better real man out there
I’m tired of him not wanting anything to do with me unless it benefits him
Unfortunately in the past year and a half I’ve been single, they’re all the same. 😔. Haven’t met one to change that mentality yet.
I am going through the same thing I am to blame for everything I am in the wrong for everything I do or say
We exist. Sucks that a few (or most) ruined our image for the rest of us. I’m far from perfect but I do everything I can to show my wife I love her more than anything. Keep your heads up and never settle.
I can't tell you how close to home this is...😢😢😢❤
i feel it 2
Same 😢
Its the end of hoping with every sorry is a real one. Realizing it's never a true sorry.
The days of hating myself. I then realizing I'm never going to be enough
This is the song I really needed to hear! It took the words right out of my head!
Glad I found the full song I relate to this song so much gave my ex husband 6 years and he still cheated and chose her after I left so broken I was ready to give up but my nieces and nephew saved me cuz mental and emotional abuse is no joke glad I am 10000 times better
mental and emotional abuse is worse then physical,, I when thru both and I would choose bruise that heal fast wayyyyy faster then mental and emotional that can leave trauma for years,, hope your doing better❤
I’m going through this exact thing right now it’s so hard and so much hurt I’m glad ur doing better girl❤
I just left that toxic relationship. I still love him, but I’m not in love with him. Not after everything. Not after begging him to change
I also left a toxic relationship so I get it ! We ain’t going back this time
Same situation here after 11 years!😢
Stole the words out of my mouth darling❤
Same here
Same here
I needed this song this moment because here I am picking up the pieces 💔
11 years and picking up the broken pieces😢
The Freedom that comes from being flat disrespected on every level is life changing❤ Thank you to everyone that led to my Freedom! Cheers🎉
😢 how I’m feeling right now this made me cry my eyes out
1:46 there’s reasons why someone starts to second guess. Such as a persons words not matching their actions, a lack of actions, being hot and cold, and so on. It doesn’t matter the reasons why. Whether it’s fear of rejection, fear of losing one’s self, fear of being hurt (most people fear being hurt), difficulty trusting, plain selfishness, etc
There’s no excuse for dragging someone’s heart through the mud and causing them to second guess not only themselves but second guess everything else. Don’t let your fears control you. Don’t let your fears hurt people or hurt yourself. If you give fear power over your life it will create problems that never existed and will replace all the good and all the wonderful things that do exist with heartache and loneliness
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@@ScalesOfLife yes it's true I am scared and I always run and don't stay this time I am staying I am not going to run I am not going to let fear ruin this for me I hope u can be patient with me I know I can be difficult and I am not good at showing or saying how I feel I am going to try and work on that I want to be in your life more than anything u are my 🌝 and ⭐
Came from tik toc this is a really good song love it ❤
Wow you hit 🎯💯✅ thank you for your music 🙏 bless you 🙏💜💕
I found your song on fb and came straight here.
You sang the hearts of millions of women and girls.
Thank you for singing mine too.❤
Fabulous song ! Love it !!!!
How isn't this Viral?!?!
Coming from someone that was married for 19 yrs he will not change he says he will and does for a few days but that's it you will never be good enough, you will be his enemy even tho you built him up. Pls leave sooner than it became hell for me he might not hit now but in the end he will. My back was broken the night I finally said I'm better than this and you RUN girls.
Thank you for this comment. Wow this was my life for almost 20 years.....😢said he would change..never lasted long. I couldn't see myself doing this life style for another 20 years. 💔😞
Same. Broken ribs two different times. Fake crying. The "baby I love you" , " I need you". 10 seconds later knocks ya silly for nothing. Holds ya captive. Breaks every phone atleast 7 in 2 years. Physically abuses you while already crying while naked. Tries to force disturbed role playing on you. Then body shames you and bullies you into thinking your nothing. And eventually everything you say do, don't say, don't do, is dissected and turned into a fable based solely on their own imaginations insecurities, and just outright mental crazy. LEAVE THE FIRST SIGN OF ANY CONTROLLING, DELFLECTIVE, SLIGHTLY BIZARRE OR "OFF" TENDENCIES.
You'll need many many years of healing and will never be the same person you were the day they slithered into your path. It's such a waste of life and so damn senseless. I pray for anyone reading this that you find that "window" that you can run for your life. And don't look back. They are evil bad seeds and they are deadly and just pure pollution. RUN ❤️🩹
This song is beautiful, with your amazing voice👌
I like to listen to you
Kind regards from Germany 🫶
I'm so glad you put this one out there
Wish I had the strength or wisdom to know how to be happy with or without. I can see myself keeping plenty of them for the rest of my life. It's the fact I can't see a future without the one who's hurt me worse then anyone else in every way but he's the one who I just cant see a future without him in it.
I have been out of my toxic marriage going on 4 years September 18th and im so much happier
Absolutely love this song ❤️
Love this song ❤
This! 👌
Great Song!!!!!!!❤
FACTS❤❤❤❤❤❤💯💯💯
Love it 😻
I can relate to that song
🔥❤️
Love this
He should have listened to her and paid attention to the signs!
I sure didn’t.
theres only so much i can take....😢
This is fire 🔥
is that ted behind you its kinda creepy
@@Danzo1212 no just Teddy lol
@@rebeccawinkelmann8196 Alright thats kinda interesting, i guess atleast its not a clown trying to hug you 🤣
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❤ this is fire rn
I poured my heart out last night. Told him I like him and im not talking to anyone else. Asked him if he's the same and he didn't answer the question.
I'm about to be done.
Why have I done exactly these lyrics 😢❤
I’m so tired of him wanting nothing to do with me unless it benefits him
we can cry and beg for ever😢❤💔❤
This is true u can cry and beg until ur completely numb and finally ready to be done like I did
@@summerrusselll6049 yape your right , I always have hard time to let go but when I do i never go back when they start the begging
That was me.. I’m still trying to heal and move on
2024❤❤❤❤
I'm at this point right now 😢
Almost 20 years. 😢 my heart aches but I know i deserve better then someone who worked and slept and didn't even act like I existed 😪 I got tired of being alone been 7 months and my heart still hurts but I can't ever go back. 💔 only moved out 3 weeks ago and already caught him sleeping at someone's house 💔 crushed me like a ton of bricks I'll never go back. 😔
I warned him that I was going to leave if he didn’t change and he didn’t believe me until I walked out that door. By then it was too late. he stood crying as I drove away.
💯
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I finally walked away this weekend
I just found you on TikTok! Lol
😭😭😭😭
Im not coming back I had to say goodbye today it hurts
Sure Won’t!
Waited & Waited to ONLY End Up With Time Wasted
UNTIL Now
FINALLY REALIZATION
I told him now I’m done he will never change
😢😭😭😭
Damn I almost forgot about her...
yeahp
dont leave me second guessing....give me a reason why...
Dont believe everything you see. Bc I lie. .. and I was the one that was to blame but I
Made her look like she was the bad one and everyone I made believe that still thinks it was her
I LOVE YOU BOYS JAMES CHASE TREVOR WHITLEY WE AEE GOING TO BE OKAY. IM DONE WITH SORRYS NOW ITS TIME FOR MOMMA BEAR TO COME OUT😮😮😮😮❤❤❤