My mom who passed away a day after my 14th birthday loved this song. We went to their concert, and after they finished performing the You'll Be Fine album, they played this song. It was her ABSOLUTE favorite of theirs. Every time I hear this song I think about her. I'm so glad we got to see them in concert before she passed, it created a wholesome memory for me.
@@syntl that’s how I got into Hot Mulligan.. It shuffled on & I was in another room, I heard the outro & thought “this sounds like Brand New…” I ran into the other room to see who it was & I’ve been listening nonstop since.
I found this song soon after it was too late. I listen to it and hear it from her point of view until it hits hard in the end, then it's from mine. The feels. Every. Fucking. Day. It's still there many years later. Almost 10 years together, and it's all gone. I've lost who I am, it's hard to find solace when the only solace you have is the end of a day of hard work and a drink in your hand. I don't even know who I am anymore. I write this to let y'all know to keep each other close and don't get too carried away with the things that you did. Take care of yourselves before you care for others. That's the only way to know yourself, and you need to know you before you can understand everything but you. Then talk to each other about your personal problems and how you can help each other. That's the only way to feel someone else's essence. Their being. I learned that too late. I think back sometimes and relies that she never even asked; "Are you doing fine, what is wrong, what can I do to help. Are you okay?" (No, but sadly, she didn't ask any of those.) Am I okay? Am I? Surely not if I have to ask the question, right? At this point only time can let me know. If you read this far thanks for your time. Sorry to bother you.
Thank you for this comment, I was in an 8 year relationship and even engaged but one day I woke up and realized things just weren't the same, she didn't look at me the same way, talk the same way. It was like an entirely new person was in my house, we ended it shortly after and nothings ever been the same since. I did finally meet someone new recently but I don't think I'll be able to remain stable simply from the fear of it happening again, I'm not okay and it scares me. Again, thanks for sharing your story, it made me think and realize it's always worth the shot of trying. Heartbreak fades even it's very slow and coldly. I hope things stay pointed up.
@@flippyz7206 It felt the same for me, but I haven't found that other yet, nor am I looking honestly. I found that the only way to love someone else unconditionally is to completely love and accept yourself first. I'm still coming to terms with that. It's not that I have been particularly wrong or bad in the past. It's the fact that I can't see through the past to look forward to my future. Sometimes that SO can help you with that, in my case, I didn't even ask and should have. I'm glad you have found someone who you think/know is that someone. I wish you the best.
Figured I would give my thoughts on the matter, why not give my rendition as well. All the ( ) are from my point of view on hers, until again when it switches, then it's the opposite. I missed you when I thought we shared some interests (We always did,) Old songs and games we'd share (didn't we?) You're not who lived in my head (How wasn't I?) The afterglow started fading when I left (I wish you hadn't, I miss you.) You said it wouldn't make a difference whether we could be together or not (Was the distance too much sometimes?) But if you wanna talk about the things you did (I know I should have been there more.) Well I'll be here and I can handle it (But you never asked either.) So come back strong or not at all (I did my best.) It's up to you to fix your faults (I tried but I was still always there.) Okay You think I matter less than politics (Not at all.) When all I want (Don't say it.) Is fresh paint (That's not us.) Before we ever would've talked like this (You didn't give me a choice.) At a loss (Only me.) A bloodstain (One I'll never see.) Ruined fabric that you used to wear (I still do.) A promenade, slow pace (Don't fade.) As we realize we're going to different places (No, I can't accept this.) But if you wanna talk about the things you did (I don't know what I did wrong.) I won't be there you won't grow out of it (Grow out of what?) The cords restrung, the feelings gone (I'm sorry, what's happening?) It's all your fault, I'm moving on (Why?) Hey You said it wouldn't make a difference Whether we can be together or not (I would never say that, ever!) [Now the ( ) are from her side.] Stay home, Stay home! I wanted to keep you but feel it's likely You don't share my resolve (I've found someone new.) (Hey) I guess it doesn't make a difference whether we can stand each other or not (I can't be with you anymore.) Stay home, Stay home You could call it courtesy that I tried to keep you here for this long (Don't pity me I made this choice.) (Hey) I guess it doesn't fucking matter if we ever see each other or not (I'm not coming back. Sorry.) Stay home, Stay home Stay home, Stay home
@@flippyz7206 Not sure if you would care, but I explained my thought process via the song in the comments. Might not help you but it's the first time that I have wrote down those feeling like that and it helped me a little at least. Otherwise ignore this lol
I missed you when I thought we shared some interests Old songs and games we'd share You're not who lived in my head The afterglow started fading when I left You said it wouldn't make a difference whether we could be together or not But if you wanna talk about the things you did Well I'll be here and I can handle it So come back strong or not at all It's up to you to fix your faults Okay You think I matter less than politics When all I want Is fresh paint Before we ever would've talked like this At a loss A bloodstain Ruined fabric that you used to wear A promenade, slow pace As we realize we're going to different places But if you wanna talk about the things you did I won't be there you won't grow out of it The cords restrung, the feelings gone It's all your fault, I'm moving on Hey You said it wouldn't make a difference Whether we can be together or not Stay home, Stay home I wanted to keep you but feel it's likely You don't share my resolve (Hey) I guess it doesn't make a difference whether we can stand each other or not Stay home, Stay home You could call it courtesy that I tried to keep you here for this long (Hey) I guess it doesn't fucking matter if we ever see each other or not Stay home, Stay home Stay home, Stay home
Found you guys a month ago. I can’t stop listening to your songs. I’ve felt so many emotions and memories flow through me through every song. Thank you bless you all!
Yeah. It seems almost crazy how much this bands lyrics and stuff seem to match up to the situation I ended up in with the friend who introduced me to them. Like, some lines in some songs seem like they could have been written directly about it, which is so odd to me.
Been listening to his on repeat for nights. You just can't change the outcome of situations and that's probably the only thing that hits deeper than this song.
Boyfriend of 6 years up and left me and our kid for some woman he barely knows. He turned into a complete deadbeat overnight and was engaged before we even broke up. I swear this is the only song getting me through everything right now
I had to break up with my ex because of how toxic the situation was but this song really helps me get over it and I can’t believe how much I can relate
@@denomava5470 just to give you some inspiration. I met a woman that I am insanely in love with and we’ve been together for quite sometime now. It gets so much better please don’t go back to her.
literally living this. divorce. the person i love chose not to love me. and now im having to do it all over again. and shes going to crawl back. the chords restrung. its all your fault, im moving on.
I know this is about a romantic relationship, but it really put into perspective of me and my father’s relationship (pause) he screwed up a majority of childhood and always broke promises he made. Despite the bad, I chose to remember all the good times and let him walk in and out of my life until this past year. Still hurts, but my children don’t deserve someone to come in and out of their lives and them not getting to have grandparents from my side breaks my damn heart, but this really spoke to me in that regard
I broke it off with this chick roughly 2 weeks ago. She was emotionally cheating and I'm certain physically cheating. She also told me she was embarrassed of anyone knowing we were "together" even though she always made it a point to me that we weren't together and the two times I brought it up she always turned it back on me and would tell me how much I was overwhelming her. She was in constant contact with her ex through the entirety of us being "together" and saw him a handful of times. She ended uo hiding his new number under a girl's name. She told him things like "do you have any idea how much it hurts seeing you follow (girl he cheated on her with) again" she was just horrible man amd I don't know why I fucjing miss her so much dude. I'm literally playing this song on repeat all day and I know I did everything I could to be good to her and I know it's not my fault that she's in her own pain and damaged people hurt others but Holy fuck man thisnshit hurts so fucjing much. I've been crying off and on for the past week about this shit. I just want to move on. I want to forget her. I want to feel nothing towards her. No anger no grief no sadness no "love" nothing man. I want her to mean absolutely nothing to me but in my head I just keep imagining her the way I thiught she was and the person I truly believed she could have been. I am in so much emotional pain man and I don't know how to cope but fuck at least I have this song to help me cry a little bit. I wish I could say it helps me not feel alone but truth be told I still feel alone.
My mom who passed away a day after my 14th birthday loved this song. We went to their concert, and after they finished performing the You'll Be Fine album, they played this song. It was her ABSOLUTE favorite of theirs. Every time I hear this song I think about her. I'm so glad we got to see them in concert before she passed, it created a wholesome memory for me.
🫂
Thats a beautiful memory :) thx 4 sharing it.
Thank you for sharing this memory.
The end of this song is nuts and we need an extended version
Glad someone said it
Yeah, the last 1/6 of the song
i could tak another 5 min of this part damn
i absolutely love that, what I can't describe it other than a "jump up redemption part" of the song, just like in Green Squirrels
Hell yeah!
This song f**ks me up every time
My good god the ending
i was fine and then suddenly i was NOT fine
Brand Newish….I ain’t complaining.
@@syntl that’s how I got into Hot Mulligan.. It shuffled on & I was in another room, I heard the outro & thought “this sounds like Brand New…” I ran into the other room to see who it was & I’ve been listening nonstop since.
You're not kidding. Deff made the song great
we need more of the ending tbh
I guess I’m swagless because I shed tears.
Three cheers for all the swagless souls out there.
it's ok, you still have swag.
please dont cry, you DO have swag
Wow this songs just made me reminisce memories i want to forget
11/10
Reminds me of all the ways I fucked up in my last relationship 😪
@@deadman7624 yo i feel u
Current circumstance...
This band is good at doing that aren’t they
this song is gonna slap sooooo hard live lol can already imagine the crowd singing along
This song is going to be the new reason I’m crying in the club
i think its the last song on the set too
IT DID INDEED SLAP LIVE
Thank you Hot Mulligan
"It doesnt make a diffrence if were together or not" that hit hard
Yeah definitely on the 2nd time
I cant play this around my 20 month old. She cries.
Real talk. This hits everyone on a deeper level.
my 4 year old: "daddy why is he sad?"
Me: we're all a little sad buddy.
We have been blessed with another banger of an album by these Wawa boi's
Wawa bois?
@@BrandonPrentice they have a vid on Sheetz Vs Wawa.
@@shawshifter2510 Did someone say Wawa (as I'm eating a hoagie)?
I found this song soon after it was too late. I listen to it and hear it from her point of view until it hits hard in the end, then it's from mine. The feels. Every. Fucking. Day. It's still there many years later. Almost 10 years together, and it's all gone. I've lost who I am, it's hard to find solace when the only solace you have is the end of a day of hard work and a drink in your hand. I don't even know who I am anymore. I write this to let y'all know to keep each other close and don't get too carried away with the things that you did. Take care of yourselves before you care for others. That's the only way to know yourself, and you need to know you before you can understand everything but you. Then talk to each other about your personal problems and how you can help each other. That's the only way to feel someone else's essence. Their being. I learned that too late.
I think back sometimes and relies that she never even asked; "Are you doing fine, what is wrong, what can I do to help. Are you okay?" (No, but sadly, she didn't ask any of those.)
Am I okay? Am I?
Surely not if I have to ask the question, right? At this point only time can let me know.
If you read this far thanks for your time. Sorry to bother you.
Thank you for this comment, I was in an 8 year relationship and even engaged but one day I woke up and realized things just weren't the same, she didn't look at me the same way, talk the same way. It was like an entirely new person was in my house, we ended it shortly after and nothings ever been the same since. I did finally meet someone new recently but I don't think I'll be able to remain stable simply from the fear of it happening again, I'm not okay and it scares me. Again, thanks for sharing your story, it made me think and realize it's always worth the shot of trying. Heartbreak fades even it's very slow and coldly. I hope things stay pointed up.
@@flippyz7206 It felt the same for me, but I haven't found that other yet, nor am I looking honestly. I found that the only way to love someone else unconditionally is to completely love and accept yourself first. I'm still coming to terms with that. It's not that I have been particularly wrong or bad in the past. It's the fact that I can't see through the past to look forward to my future. Sometimes that SO can help you with that, in my case, I didn't even ask and should have.
I'm glad you have found someone who you think/know is that someone. I wish you the best.
Figured I would give my thoughts on the matter, why not give my rendition as well. All the ( ) are from my point of view on hers, until again when it switches, then it's the opposite.
I missed you when I thought we shared some interests (We always did,)
Old songs and games we'd share (didn't we?)
You're not who lived in my head (How wasn't I?)
The afterglow started fading when I left (I wish you hadn't, I miss you.)
You said it wouldn't make a difference whether we could be together or not (Was the distance too much sometimes?)
But if you wanna talk about the things you did (I know I should have been there more.)
Well I'll be here and I can handle it (But you never asked either.)
So come back strong or not at all (I did my best.)
It's up to you to fix your faults (I tried but I was still always there.)
Okay
You think I matter less than politics (Not at all.)
When all I want (Don't say it.)
Is fresh paint (That's not us.)
Before we ever would've talked like this (You didn't give me a choice.)
At a loss (Only me.)
A bloodstain (One I'll never see.)
Ruined fabric that you used to wear (I still do.)
A promenade, slow pace (Don't fade.)
As we realize we're going to different places (No, I can't accept this.)
But if you wanna talk about the things you did (I don't know what I did wrong.)
I won't be there you won't grow out of it (Grow out of what?)
The cords restrung, the feelings gone (I'm sorry, what's happening?)
It's all your fault, I'm moving on (Why?)
Hey
You said it wouldn't make a difference
Whether we can be together or not (I would never say that, ever!)
[Now the ( ) are from her side.]
Stay home, Stay home!
I wanted to keep you but feel it's likely
You don't share my resolve (I've found someone new.)
(Hey)
I guess it doesn't make a difference whether we can stand each other or not (I can't be with you anymore.)
Stay home, Stay home
You could call it courtesy that
I tried to keep you here for this long (Don't pity me I made this choice.)
(Hey)
I guess it doesn't fucking matter if we ever see each other or not (I'm not coming back. Sorry.)
Stay home, Stay home
Stay home, Stay home
@@flippyz7206 Not sure if you would care, but I explained my thought process via the song in the comments. Might not help you but it's the first time that I have wrote down those feeling like that and it helped me a little at least. Otherwise ignore this lol
@@roxaslight7503 hey thanks for taking the time to reply with that, I know it was probably tough to put all that down.
I missed you when I thought we shared some interests
Old songs and games we'd share
You're not who lived in my head
The afterglow started fading when I left
You said it wouldn't make a difference whether we could be together or not
But if you wanna talk about the things you did
Well I'll be here and I can handle it
So come back strong or not at all
It's up to you to fix your faults
Okay
You think I matter less than politics
When all I want
Is fresh paint
Before we ever would've talked like this
At a loss
A bloodstain
Ruined fabric that you used to wear
A promenade, slow pace
As we realize we're going to different places
But if you wanna talk about the things you did
I won't be there you won't grow out of it
The cords restrung, the feelings gone
It's all your fault, I'm moving on
Hey
You said it wouldn't make a difference
Whether we can be together or not
Stay home, Stay home
I wanted to keep you but feel it's likely
You don't share my resolve
(Hey)
I guess it doesn't make a difference whether we can stand each other or not
Stay home, Stay home
You could call it courtesy that
I tried to keep you here for this long
(Hey)
I guess it doesn't fucking matter if we ever see each other or not
Stay home, Stay home
Stay home, Stay home
👍
REAL SPIT
Angsty boi
It hurts so fucking good
Why does it feel like they took a part of my life and put it into this song. It’s as if they wrote this for me.. thank you
Found you guys a month ago. I can’t stop listening to your songs. I’ve felt so many emotions and memories flow through me through every song. Thank you bless you all!
Absolute bop
How can a band just hit time and time and time and time again? The songwriting ability is off the charts.
Me and my ex broke up in March and this song has helped me through it all. Thank you hot mulligan for once again picking me up when I’m down 💜
idk how this song manages to make me feel like i'm simultaneously someone who got hurt and the one who hurt someone but it does, holy crap it's good
Yeah. It seems almost crazy how much this bands lyrics and stuff seem to match up to the situation I ended up in with the friend who introduced me to them. Like, some lines in some songs seem like they could have been written directly about it, which is so odd to me.
10/10 it’s beautiful
Been listening to his on repeat for nights. You just can't change the outcome of situations and that's probably the only thing that hits deeper than this song.
Boyfriend of 6 years up and left me and our kid for some woman he barely knows. He turned into a complete deadbeat overnight and was engaged before we even broke up. I swear this is the only song getting me through everything right now
🖤🖤
Probably didn't deserve you anyways.
I don't know how y'all keep pumping out amazing songs like this, but this is why you're my favorite band, and the inspiration for my next tattoo.
What is it gonna be
@@NyRangersfan1357 "you'll be fine" maybe?
Riffs are always on point. I love this band
This group is way too underrated wtf
I had to break up with my ex because of how toxic the situation was but this song really helps me get over it and I can’t believe how much I can relate
I feel u, I'm un the exact same situation and it sucks but I'm trying to move on
@@denomava5470 just to give you some inspiration. I met a woman that I am insanely in love with and we’ve been together for quite sometime now. It gets so much better please don’t go back to her.
Wow. Amazing writing
this is so good, one of my favorite hot mully songs for sure 😭
Damnit, I thought I was over her.
Wow the ending goes hard. I wasnt expecting that. This is a nice song. Maybe last song on EP?
So pumped for the show, November can't come soon enough 👌🏽👌🏽
i love that title so much
Man I love this song. I love the EP as a whole as well.
It looks like they went back to their more softer sound of their ep opportunities
@@pineconerudy1519 opportunities might be my favourite effort from them so I personally feel pretty good about that :)
Its been a long time since a song reminded me of them, but i suppose memories never disappear they are just forgotten....9/10
Yeah this is it. Lyrics are spot on. Wish I could forget the things that this song reminds me of. Time goes on and so do we.
This is one of those songs that take me back to when I first heard it
Shouting in pain music is my comport zone 🖤🤟
Jesus Christ I wish I could listen to this song for the time again
Love how One For The Boy is a foreshadow to this song, much like Downtown Battle Mountain. Great EP gentlemen
Thank you guys so much for playing this in Tampa last monday ❤️
Your words cut deep, deeper than any blade😢
Man this song puts my feelings towards her into words :'( Really makes me face my emotions face first... I miss you but I won't reach out to you.
Thanks for the memories
This song will forever be a favorite
The end gives me goosebumps every single time
Wow. Simple and chilling!!!
The politics line is so good. What an excellent closer to an excellent EP. Keep going strong!
I love you, kid.
i wish i could hear this song for the first time again
Cant stop listening to this song...
i’m really cryin on a friday morning smh
and i'm crying friday night, saturday mornin'
Wow making me cry from Hawai’i thanks (love you guys!!!)
Why does this song feel like I've been listening to it for 12 years already?
Yeah... Life is painful, but don't have regrets. We live 'now' ⌚
Reminds me of falaise. I love this but wish there was more scream if only at the end. 💜 this song is my exact bread n butter.
All the sadness straight to the veins
literally living this. divorce. the person i love chose not to love me. and now im having to do it all over again. and shes going to crawl back. the chords restrung. its all your fault, im moving on.
Because love isn't a choice dawg
Same
Love isn’t a choice.
It’s a journey of hers that she means no harm by.
Sorry mane
I'm sorry if she didn't love you she should have never said yes
Fuck dude. This song is amazing. Word for word everything I’ve been feeing
This needs a music video ASAP
This song still fucks me up every time.
man i really needed this song
Yes, it's here.
Well I just stumbled across this greatness
Can’t wait for an acoustic version of this
This song is so good
just fuck up my emotions fam
eMOTIVE
i am indeed sad and crying
i like the screamo style
Wow guys, thanks!
To think I could listen to this in public without shedding a tear, screaming along, or both, was wrong
This is beautiful. I hate to compare, but I'm feeling Brand New vibes from this.
So much so that it feels like a cover
I actually get a big free throw vibe from it
@@ansems3136 dude, if you only know their first album then you gotta check out their other stuff
I know this is about a romantic relationship, but it really put into perspective of me and my father’s relationship (pause) he screwed up a majority of childhood and always broke promises he made. Despite the bad, I chose to remember all the good times and let him walk in and out of my life until this past year. Still hurts, but my children don’t deserve someone to come in and out of their lives and them not getting to have grandparents from my side breaks my damn heart, but this really spoke to me in that regard
This song slaps
Underrated
So many bangers
Oh what a happy ending 😜
I fucking love this band
The title of this song is very relatable to my dope-ass self. Wow.
Looking forward to getting my hands on the vinyl.
Hey it’s that band that played with Fredo disco
Putting this here so I can repeat the ending: 2:14
Welcome to adulting kids, you will don this 7 times as an adult, oooof.
I've been missing Brand New for so long, this makes up for it a little!
i obviously don’t have that much swag bc i’m sobbing
This song makes me hurt.
The title of this song seems like it has to be a reference to the Jake and Amir episode called “Swag.”
I broke it off with this chick roughly 2 weeks ago. She was emotionally cheating and I'm certain physically cheating. She also told me she was embarrassed of anyone knowing we were "together" even though she always made it a point to me that we weren't together and the two times I brought it up she always turned it back on me and would tell me how much I was overwhelming her. She was in constant contact with her ex through the entirety of us being "together" and saw him a handful of times. She ended uo hiding his new number under a girl's name. She told him things like "do you have any idea how much it hurts seeing you follow (girl he cheated on her with) again" she was just horrible man amd I don't know why I fucjing miss her so much dude. I'm literally playing this song on repeat all day and I know I did everything I could to be good to her and I know it's not my fault that she's in her own pain and damaged people hurt others but Holy fuck man thisnshit hurts so fucjing much. I've been crying off and on for the past week about this shit. I just want to move on. I want to forget her. I want to feel nothing towards her. No anger no grief no sadness no "love" nothing man. I want her to mean absolutely nothing to me but in my head I just keep imagining her the way I thiught she was and the person I truly believed she could have been. I am in so much emotional pain man and I don't know how to cope but fuck at least I have this song to help me cry a little bit. I wish I could say it helps me not feel alone but truth be told I still feel alone.
The feels man! Take this time to learn to be alone. You’ll come out stronger. Also, go to the gym and lift weights it helps. ❤️
few of my 2022 favorite song
it is so damn good
How is there no live version of this!!
Holy shit that ending
SO good
Oh yes.
I never loved you romantically, but I do miss the person I thought you were
The US government in March 2020: 2:20
str8 🔥
idk why i'm crying in the club rn
Sick
So fucking good.