Coming from pile 2 and it's extended: thank you SO MUCH! This has been such a confusing situation and you have no idea how much clarity and perspective you have handed me. It's like that "oh yikes, yep that checks out" that lands peacefully in the body and gives me a clear pathway to shifting away from this person. For the first time in like a year I feel like I can see through the fog. Thank you thank you thank you 💗
Wow. I’m actually speechless. I just asked spirit to basically rip off the bandaid and tell me the truth of this situation-even if it would hurt me. And bam, pile 2 was spot on! I even listened to the extended for extra clarity!! Such a shame that this person basically took advantage of me..I’ve already processed the hurt from that realization. I had a feeling something was off about him. Maybe he’ll change in the future but as for now, I’m just going to wish him well and remove him from my life.
Pile 2 + extended: now THAT was a journey. I was on the edge of my seat! Thank you for keeping on digging deeper until ALL of his truth was revealed. I actually knew all of that stuff already anyway but because he works so hard to hide it all and keep me confused I often am confused. So it’s helpful to have someone lovingly speaking to your experience and examining some of the complexities with wisdom and insight. It’s a crazy big gift that you have. ❤
Pile 1: I used to live in Lisbon and I speak some Portuguese. I always think of saudades as a deep aching longing, like a woman staring out at the sea, waiting to see if her lover will ever return. Also, you mentioned that song. Currently, the person I'm asking about is Georgian 🇬🇪 so it felt like a lot of synchronicity. Thank you 😊 🙏
Pile 2: you described my situation to a “t”. It crazy looks at the comments and how many others from pile 2 sounded like me too! I’ve cut off with him and suspected everything you said. Two years and I never met a single friend or family member. It’s crazy I let it go on that long…but I am free now. I just want answers, which you helped me with. Thank you!🙏 ❤
Pile 2 fits too. This is why I walked away. It’s how I felt in the past with him. It hasn’t happened with anyone else. Just him. Of course, the dynamic has its roots in childhood. Why else would I put up with him?
I have had confusion as to why things aren’t moving forward because I feel so deeply and confident about what we have built and the obstacles we have overcome, and I am excited about what our future holds. I think there has been a lot of overthinking and I thought maybe it’s because he doesn’t fully trust it yet or know himself. My love grows deeper every day. He is my home, I have no doubts, and I am ready and miss him deeply. I just need reassurance that he feels the same way so we can breakthrough this confusion and build towards a beautiful future, because it doesn’t feel complete without him!
Lol! I totally comprehend everything you feel about your circumstances regarding your love path. I still want you to know that possibilities are infinite. Most ladies feel bad when going through a lot in their relationship especially after a breakup or divorce. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little stalking Lol! But absolutely none of that is helpful. Here is a situation between my lover and I, It's a long story but i will make it brief to your understanding. I was in a relationship with my man for a couple of years and both of us were heading to the altar. We were thrilled about that! One day he returned back from the office and I noticed he was angry & aggressive towards me. I asked him what was wrong, He kept mute. I was so confused about the sudden change of behavior! Then he looked at me and said "I’m not interested anymore" . I almost collapsed and felt heart broken that moment. He moved out of our house to another residential area. I wept bitterly but I had this mindset that everything is going to work out for me someday. I remained optimistic. And one faithful day I came across a video clip on the TH-cam channel tarot reading. I was watching the videos suggestion on a daily basis not knowing that there is a solution to my marital challenges. Later that night while I was sleeping, I received a message and notification on my phone from a lady that lives in Dakota. She said there is an astrologer that can help me with my situation at that moment. I was nervous! She told me everything about this great woman. She shared with me her info. And I should reach out to her on her contact address. I reached out to her, whole & behold my story changed! A few days later my man sent me a text! I was so elated! He apologised and we reconciled. We are back together & getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Ella love guidance. She was the one that helped to bring my man back and resolved my marital issues. If you are still interested in her service, You can hit her up on ｅｌｌａｌｏｖｅｇｕｉｄａｎｃｅ＠ｇｍ ａ Ｉ ｌ
@@deeljulia3620 thank you for sharing and relating! I’m sure that was so heartbreaking to hear when he left and I’m so glad you found a solution to finally be together 😊 personally I just stay connected to our heart space and trust in our inner guidance and love for each other, knowing we will find our way in divine timing 💫🤗 it was so nice connecting with you and I wish you the best of luck in your marriage! 😍🎉
Picked 2~ makes sense given the person I'm inquiring about is being manipulative. Sounds like it's best to let go even though there's a lack of resolution. You don't always get it, and this is definitely one of those times it's best to let go when you know they're gonna keep putting you through the ringer n just watch you keep squirming through the cycle til you accept defeat or something changes. The advice is appropriate because this is the type of person to want your faith to be clouded so they can keep getting away with what they're doing. Much like the 2 of swords that popped up. They're a player, and they are the type to stay friends with as many exes as they can. You know, just in case 😉 🤢 Definitely the type of person/energy you want to keep an eye on. Rings of Power Sauron comes to mind cause it started off sounding like it could go in a good direction, but ended up being a bit more obscure and slightly revealing of ulterior motives. More so because he's using gaslighting and waiting for the right slip up to capitalize on so you can think whatever the result it is "born of your own making" even though they're the ones that instigated it in that fashion. Thanks for the read, it was helpful~
Pile 2. Yes he’s made some mistakes. And yes he’s had a hard time recently. So have I: and there’s a stark difference in how we’re both responding to our circumstances. I could use his help and his emotional support. But if he thinks that I feel stuck because of the tale he spins he’s got another thing coming. I’ve just been giving him a day with the benefit of the doubt and the chance to follow through with his actions. He’s had years to open up to me and figure out how to prioritize this relationship: if he still feels confused on how to do that it’s not my fault. 🤦♀️ if he thinks I’m a simpering fool with self esteem issues he must not really know me at all. Because despite his circumstances I have no issues leaving him if he doesn’t pull himself together. What a mess honestly.
Pile 2 🥰💗 you're so on point about my ex Libra. Very noncommittal, manipulative, and emotionally unavailable. For over 4 years I loved him unconditionally and dealt with unnecessary BS. It was unrequited love. Thank you ❤ you read the hell out of my energy 😅 I am upset with him and haven't spoke. Trying to heal 🥀 he broke me down.
(Pile 1) "Saudades tuas". Lol, my man speaks Portuguese as his first language (it's my second), so this was some good confirmation. Also, this deck is the one I use daily and have been pulling all these cards on this situation, which further confirmed. We are long distance and definitely need to work on ourselves.
Pile 1: This person may feel this way, but he’s missing a really important issue. We don’t want the same kind of relationship. He wants to stay married and also keep his options open. He told me he doesn’t love me and it’s strictly sexual. He took this position and held firm for a couple of years. I finally walked away. I thought I was really clear that I love spending time with him, but I need more consistency and a possibility of developing the relationship. He likes it just the way it is. I really couldn’t handle the lack of a consistent stable relationship. A trip to the moon on gossamer wings is fabulous every once in awhile, but it’s like a honeymoon. I can’t handle it emotionally. I would do it if I could handle it, even thought it’s not what I really want.
He most definitely does not love you if he just wants things strictly sexual while knowing you are emotionally torn. Someone who loves you would have the decency of walking away so you don't fall in love with him. You being in love gives him what he wants. He wins, you lose. Walk away please. I've been exactly where you are. It is very difficult but worth it in the end. There is someone better out there who can meet your needs.
When we love ourselves, we don't allow this type of relationship in our lives. Accept it as a life lesson and move forward. Trust that someday you'll look back and be glad you walked away. Big hug.
Saudade is a word for missing someone very hard. The deepest longing for the presence of a person
Coming from pile 2 and it's extended: thank you SO MUCH! This has been such a confusing situation and you have no idea how much clarity and perspective you have handed me. It's like that "oh yikes, yep that checks out" that lands peacefully in the body and gives me a clear pathway to shifting away from this person. For the first time in like a year I feel like I can see through the fog. Thank you thank you thank you 💗
1:09:36 , 1:10:52 , 1:12:46 !
1:13:18 So accurate. 1:20:22 Thank you 🤍
Pile 3 starts around 1:01:30 💖✨️ thank you so much!
Pile 2 you nailed it! I could rant but I won’t… if I had the money I’d get the extended just for my own entertainment….
Wow. I’m actually speechless. I just asked spirit to basically rip off the bandaid and tell me the truth of this situation-even if it would hurt me. And bam, pile 2 was spot on! I even listened to the extended for extra clarity!! Such a shame that this person basically took advantage of me..I’ve already processed the hurt from that realization. I had a feeling something was off about him. Maybe he’ll change in the future but as for now, I’m just going to wish him well and remove him from my life.
What did it say in the extended about him?
totally haha
Pile 1. I had health issues that made me step away but you are right in that I have wondered if I made the right choice.
Pile 3 - Absolutely spot-on! Thank you!😘
3. First time ever here and I had to pause it to say, this is the realest read ever. Hands down.
Pile 2 + extended: now THAT was a journey. I was on the edge of my seat! Thank you for keeping on digging deeper until ALL of his truth was revealed. I actually knew all of that stuff already anyway but because he works so hard to hide it all and keep me confused I often am confused. So it’s helpful to have someone lovingly speaking to your experience and examining some of the complexities with wisdom and insight. It’s a crazy big gift that you have. ❤
Pile 1: I used to live in Lisbon and I speak some Portuguese. I always think of saudades as a deep aching longing, like a woman staring out at the sea, waiting to see if her lover will ever return.
Also, you mentioned that song. Currently, the person I'm asking about is Georgian 🇬🇪 so it felt like a lot of synchronicity. Thank you 😊 🙏
I picked pile one and my mothers side is from Lisbon 🫶🏻
My #1 persons name is Georg😅
Pile 2: you described my situation to a “t”. It crazy looks at the comments and how many others from pile 2 sounded like me too! I’ve cut off with him and suspected everything you said. Two years and I never met a single friend or family member. It’s crazy I let it go on that long…but I am free now. I just want answers, which you helped me with. Thank you!🙏 ❤
Pile 2: you are literally stealing the words out of my brain !! I was writing about this in my journal
Pile 2: Thank you very much. It was really helpful. I had some doubts, but after your reading I clearly opened my eyes. 🎉
I haven’t even listened yet but I’m early here and I just wanted to say that u are a very gifted reader and I appreciate u. Lots of love from LA! xx
much love
Pile 1. The moment you said it could be a reversal for some of us, I went and rewatched it and it all made sense.
Pile 2 fits too. This is why I walked away. It’s how I felt in the past with him. It hasn’t happened with anyone else. Just him. Of course, the dynamic has its roots in childhood. Why else would I put up with him?
I have had confusion as to why things aren’t moving forward because I feel so deeply and confident about what we have built and the obstacles we have overcome, and I am excited about what our future holds. I think there has been a lot of overthinking and I thought maybe it’s because he doesn’t fully trust it yet or know himself. My love grows deeper every day. He is my home, I have no doubts, and I am ready and miss him deeply. I just need reassurance that he feels the same way so we can breakthrough this confusion and build towards a beautiful future, because it doesn’t feel complete without him!
Lol! I totally comprehend everything you feel about your circumstances regarding your love path. I still want you to know that possibilities are infinite.
Most ladies feel bad when going through a lot in their relationship especially after a breakup or divorce. They want to see their ex, check in on what they're doing, and maybe even do a little stalking Lol! But absolutely none of that is helpful. Here is a situation between my lover and I, It's a long story but i will make it brief
to your understanding. I was in a relationship with my man for a couple of years and both of us were heading to the altar. We were thrilled about that!
One day he returned back from the office and I noticed he was angry & aggressive towards me. I asked him what was wrong, He kept mute. I was so confused about the sudden change of behavior! Then he looked at me and said "I’m not interested anymore" . I almost collapsed and felt heart broken that moment. He moved out of our house to another residential area. I wept bitterly but I had this mindset that everything is going to work out for me someday. I remained optimistic.
And one faithful day I came across a video clip on the TH-cam channel tarot reading. I was watching the videos suggestion on a daily basis not knowing that there is a solution to my marital challenges. Later that night while I was sleeping, I received a message and notification on my phone from a lady that lives in Dakota. She said there is an astrologer that can help me with my situation at that moment. I was nervous! She told me everything about this great woman. She shared with me her info. And I should reach out to her on her contact address. I reached out to her, whole & behold my story changed! A few days later my man sent me a text! I was so elated! He apologised and we reconciled. We are back together & getting married any moment from now. All thanks to Ella love guidance. She was the one that helped to bring my man back and resolved my marital issues.
If you are still interested in her service,
You can hit her up on
ｅｌｌａｌｏｖｅｇｕｉｄａｎｃｅ＠ｇｍ ａ Ｉ ｌ
@@deeljulia3620 thank you for sharing and relating! I’m sure that was so heartbreaking to hear when he left and I’m so glad you found a solution to finally be together 😊 personally I just stay connected to our heart space and trust in our inner guidance and love for each other, knowing we will find our way in divine timing 💫🤗 it was so nice connecting with you and I wish you the best of luck in your marriage! 😍🎉
Picked 2~ makes sense given the person I'm inquiring about is being manipulative. Sounds like it's best to let go even though there's a lack of resolution. You don't always get it, and this is definitely one of those times it's best to let go when you know they're gonna keep putting you through the ringer n just watch you keep squirming through the cycle til you accept defeat or something changes. The advice is appropriate because this is the type of person to want your faith to be clouded so they can keep getting away with what they're doing. Much like the 2 of swords that popped up. They're a player, and they are the type to stay friends with as many exes as they can. You know, just in case 😉 🤢 Definitely the type of person/energy you want to keep an eye on. Rings of Power Sauron comes to mind cause it started off sounding like it could go in a good direction, but ended up being a bit more obscure and slightly revealing of ulterior motives. More so because he's using gaslighting and waiting for the right slip up to capitalize on so you can think whatever the result it is "born of your own making" even though they're the ones that instigated it in that fashion. Thanks for the read, it was helpful~
Lovely - thanks!!
Thank you
Pile 2. Yes he’s made some mistakes. And yes he’s had a hard time recently. So have I: and there’s a stark difference in how we’re both responding to our circumstances. I could use his help and his emotional support. But if he thinks that I feel stuck because of the tale he spins he’s got another thing coming. I’ve just been giving him a day with the benefit of the doubt and the chance to follow through with his actions. He’s had years to open up to me and figure out how to prioritize this relationship: if he still feels confused on how to do that it’s not my fault. 🤦♀️ if he thinks I’m a simpering fool with self esteem issues he must not really know me at all. Because despite his circumstances I have no issues leaving him if he doesn’t pull himself together. What a mess honestly.
Holy crap. You are absolutely correct. Yeah, what's the damn deal with him, fr fr!? 😮💨😩 Thank you, Kate. ❤
Pile 2 🥰💗 you're so on point about my ex Libra. Very noncommittal, manipulative, and emotionally unavailable. For over 4 years I loved him unconditionally and dealt with unnecessary BS. It was unrequited love. Thank you ❤ you read the hell out of my energy 😅 I am upset with him and haven't spoke. Trying to heal 🥀 he broke me down.
I don’t want him but I must do a cut tie spell I want to continue working on my healing and continue building my retirement, travel
Pile #2
1:02:55 NO BECAUSE THATS THE SONG STUCK IN MY HEAD and I just added it to her playlist an hour ago
Lol 3 sums up twin and I pretty well 😆
I have to much going for myself and need to do a cut tie spell
Pile 1 was kinda accurate…? But the messages from both sides are mixed up😢
Group Two: I'm sixty years old, honey. The only "dream" I have is to be able to afford a good nursing home.
I’m happier without him
Sow daw gee
Saudade de voce - I miss you (Portuguese)
(Pile 1) "Saudades tuas". Lol, my man speaks Portuguese as his first language (it's my second), so this was some good confirmation.
Also, this deck is the one I use daily and have been pulling all these cards on this situation, which further confirmed. We are long distance and definitely need to work on ourselves.
Pile 1: This person may feel this way, but he’s missing a really important issue. We don’t want the same kind of relationship. He wants to stay married and also keep his options open. He told me he doesn’t love me and it’s strictly sexual. He took this position and held firm for a couple of years. I finally walked away. I thought I was really clear that I love spending time with him, but I need more consistency and a possibility of developing the relationship. He likes it just the way it is. I really couldn’t handle the lack of a consistent stable relationship. A trip to the moon on gossamer wings is fabulous every once in awhile, but it’s like a honeymoon. I can’t handle it emotionally. I would do it if I could handle it, even thought it’s not what I really want.
He most definitely does not love you if he just wants things strictly sexual while knowing you are emotionally torn. Someone who loves you would have the decency of walking away so you don't fall in love with him. You being in love gives him what he wants. He wins, you lose. Walk away please. I've been exactly where you are. It is very difficult but worth it in the end. There is someone better out there who can meet your needs.
Your husband is out there don’t waste a second longer on this person! You made the right choice! ❤
@@jl1550how long did it take to move on, it hurts so bad
Oh my god why would you do that for two years??? Girl at that point, that is on you.
When we love ourselves, we don't allow this type of relationship in our lives. Accept it as a life lesson and move forward. Trust that someday you'll look back and be glad you walked away. Big hug.
wow 2
I believe he used black magic on me
❤
2 true
Plus I have trust issues with him.
The first one was so unclear and mixing message ! 😢
1🥹
No information, yep.
Loads of manipularions
How they think you feel is the title. Not let me describe your situation to you. Please
He’s very deceiving
Please 🙏🏽 do a CRUSH READING 📚 😢❤❤❤