Hey, Deserving Listeners! Thanks for letting me know about his alleged criminal behavior. By the way, just a heads up, the next few episodes about Andrew Tate were recorded around the same time, so I won't be aware of these details. Also, if these allegations are even somewhat accurate, that says a lot about his personality.
@Supreme Dragon Command It’s not ‘going along’. There’s videos of him, that he put out saying he trafficks women and a video where’s he’s abusing an ex.
Dr. Honda, Andrew’s parents are divorced and he worships his dad despite his father having been absent/abusive so you pretty much hit the nail on the head without even knowing it!
Why do sons so want to be close with their abusive father? I don’t get it it. My mom was abusive towards me and this guy said you just have to forgive her…ummm no I don’t. I can learn and grow and not subject myself to another person’s mood swings.. I just dont get the idealization of an abusive father (well dr explained it..they want to take after the powerful individual…hatred towards women…it’s sad how this is passed down.)
@@myra3266 also it's hard for men to admit to themselves they were abused/neglected. It's seen as weak. So, they unconsciously deny it and in their minds if it never happened then there's no reason to hate dad
I did some research on him as well and found out the same thing too. After finding that out I could not believe this guy. I could not believe he worshiped his dad even though his dad wasn't shit. He has a mental issue. He's confused and as usual it's always a woman's fault.
Bingo. Imagine feeling SO vulnerable all the time that your defenses have to be this over the top. It's kind of pathetic really, I feel sorry for him. But worse for this woman who did nothing wrong and yet still has to sit through this abusive crap...
@@macarmenadoree China is 35 year old baby mom who is passed it with a child from her 5th previous relationship with a body count above 20 I don’t see what viewers see in her that makes her high value Woman above 35 can’t bear children that’s closer to my mothers age Females ages like apple’s and for men they age like wine
@@macarmenadoree I dont feel sorry for him. The dude made his money sex trafficking . He made his money by hurting other people. There is nothing to feel sorry for here but his victims.
@@PsychologyInSeattle Yes. He gets a little worse during the date. But he's still tame in comparison to how he is during interviews and on his own platform.
"He's wearing sunglasses inside.... maybe he has an eye condition" I absolutely love this! This is not confrontational at all but hits on the absurdity of the situation rather than just outright calling him a knob! I'm definitely using this
I think he also has a brain condition. It's strange that Dr kirk never mentioned that being punched and kicked in the head repeatedly can impact your psychology.
“The amount of insecurity dripping of this human being” .. this is the reason I enjoy watching your analysis, without an ounce of pretentiousness you state your opinions and it always gets to me, I hear you say certain things and I’m like, wow, that explains exactly what I feel watching this certain person. Thanks Dr. Honda!
Andrew Tate speaks a lot of truth, and that rubs people the wrong way. If you want to make enemies you tell them the truth, if you want to make friends you tell them a lie, or a story, and their eyes will light up like a child. Women are to obey their men, yes (just as they are to obey their fathers) men and women are to have children yes, a child that grows up in a home with a mother and a father around are the most well adjusted children there are, and this is well known, the nuclear family is the _corner stone_ of civilization, no wonder why it's been under attack since the late 50's. Single mother hood households have been, and are, a complete disaster (not just for whites, but for black families, perhaps even worse for them) If Andrew Tate is insecure or not I'm not gonna comment on, what I will say though is that psychologists are some of the most messed up people there are, they are even worse, the reason they sought out the profession to begin with was a cry for help. Which also explains why almost 80% of them are female i.e. women (for those who don't know what a woman is, another issue today apparently) since women do not understand themselves 70ish% of the time. Finally. All this psychologist did (because of his conditioning and actual insecurity in his own, what should be for a man, masculine role) was to personally attack Tate, and of course, attack anything that has maintained a stable and healthy society.
@@erichamilton5932 god I’d hate to be in a relationship with you or even associated with you. You have got to be under some sort of drug influence with that type of thinking. Good luck out there
This video healed my soul! There are too many “Alpha/Sigma males” out there literally indoctrinating other men on how to be misogynistic and abusive towards women, which as a woman, I find absolutely terrifying!
Dated one like that. Now I’m fucking battling a bf that recently just became even worse because of this guy. Once my current bf and I break up, I will just stay single forwvwr
Tate said he learned “a lot of his lessons about male-female dynamics” through watching parents (obviously). He then tells a story. His father once was at a chess tournament for a month and half, came home and within 45 minutes him and his wife were arguing because she found something in his pocket or something. He came in and hugged andrew and told “see you in a few weeks”. to andrew asking him ‘why’ he said “when youre older you’ll understand. your mother wont shut up”. at which point andrew (telling the story on a podcast) laughs and says hes not saying thats how he is but thats what he witnessed as a child. But him laughing at that as if to say “how refreshing is that” to his dad psychopathically ignoring the pain of his mother and telling this story immediately after saying he learned his lesson about male female dynamics from his upbringing, i dont see any other way than to view that as him giving an example of a “lesson”.
@@M.A.T.E.8is father was serial cheater. His mother probably found something connected with it, so she wasn't happy about it. And what Tate get from this is not that you shouldn't cheat to keep marriage is that women should shut up and tolerate bs to keep marriage. And this is nonsense.
There is something pitiful about people like this who speak in riddles. The insecurity about not “sounding smart” is palpable. Unfortunately there are a lot of narcs out there who are smarter and hide it better.
I looove that I can watch triggering people within the safe filter of Dr. Honda’s observation. I have never let an Andrew Tate video play past a couple of seconds…like the first bit of his speech…wtf are you talking about?
I agree so much! I had this experience watching the Ed & Liz phone call - watching it on its own was so upsetting, but watching it with Dr. Honda felt much safer. It felt like the difference between literally being in the car with them and being in the room with Dr. Honda while watching a recording of it.
@@PsychologyInSeattle I think she might have picked up on the fact that he was trying to get that reaction out of her and didn’t give him the satisfaction.
Insecure men feel threatened by confident women so they use subtle and not so subtle tactics to chip away at their confidence and self esteem. They do this in an attempt to elevate themselves and tactics include: insults, mocking and gaslighting (she can't trust her own perceptions/intelligence also he says one thing but does something else like he tells her she's intelligent but treats her like she's stupid. I bet if she were to point this out he'd probably treat her like she's crazy/misinterpreting him).
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
You are so accurate it is scary! His father was basically absent and emotionally abusive to the mother. Tate seems to have grown up idealising his father and the way that he emotionally demeaned his mother. I think he feels better being the abuser than the abused, he shows little regards for his mother and sister because I think being close to them is having to listen to their side and humanise them. So they are completely cut off from his life. He gave examples in an interview and It all made sense. Father is always on the road playing chess and following his passion, when he comes by he talks down to the mother and diminishes her concerns and feelings, calls her crazy and walks out to be gone for months again. He mentioned his father cheated and his called the mother a crazy bitch for confronting him over the cheating. There is a lot to this guy, the more I listen to him on interviews the more the patter comes together.
@Drock those were his own words in interviews. What does media have to do with it. Unless you are saying they made him say those things. His idealism for his father is evident in the way he talks about him, he makes him sound grandiose. His father does sound like an admirable man in some regards. For that reason he could have issues separating the good things his father did and how intelligent he seems to have been from the way he treated the mother and him being the one in the wrong in those regards.
@Drock not he said himself he has little to no contact with either his mother and sister or maybe he was referring to just his sister. Again he does interviews he talks. No one else is talking in his behalf.
Drock, not meaning to shatter your illusions, he has absolutely no contact with his mum or sister. Google his mum, she lives in the same house she always lived in, listen to how he talks about his mum and sister, he is so dismissive of them and their entire existence. He hasn't given her a penny, that is just a tale he tells.
Thank you, Dr. Honda!!! The way Andrew Tate talks reminds me so much of Charlie Manson. Manson tried to talk riddles, pseudo-philosophically, and some people just loved it cause they thought he was soooo smart, such a visionary poet. To me he sounds like a bumbling idiot.
@@GabrieleFerraro I’m not even sure what’s up with Jordan Peterson. I would love Dr Honda to take a look at that, too. All I can say I’m tired of people trying to sound way smarter than they really are. Sooner or later we all see the emperor’s clothes or lack thereof.
@@samum5856 oh I was not trying to be confrontational if that's how I came across. Your comment made me think about how JP speaks though and there are parallels. I am not sure that I would like Dr Honda to comment on him as it would really make him dive into today's American politics
I've only ever heard about Andrew Tate but never followed, watched or listened to him, so I wasn't going to bother watching this, but I'm really glad I did. What you hypothesized about him from 23:00 to about 25:30 aptly describes my older sibling. Those were the dynamics between my parents and how my sib reacted to them.
I think it is a good thing that you didn't follow him. Andrew Tate is a real piece of work, isn't he? He is definitely screwed up. It is a shame that so many confused young people blindly follow him. The fact that he had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. At least that's my opinion. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
You are INCREDIBLE! In other interviews he talks about one story in how his father was always absent/gone playing at chess tournaments, he finally comes home but leaves again almost immediately stating “See how she bitches at me son? Sorry I’m not going to take this” and left Andrew his brother and mother all alone again. Your perception is nothing but stunning, when you spoke on how behaviors/attitudes like Andre Tates are based from in resenting the mother due to an abusive father… I mean my jaw DROPPED! Ive been fascinated by Andrew Tate and just couldn’t understand what leads someone to act/live like this. Dr Honda, you are INCREDIBLE
Aw, thanks. :) Chess tournaments? That's interesting. Yeah, that's a common breading ground for misogyny. We therapists have seen it often. Tragic in so many ways.
@@i0li0il0i On the basis of scientific, empirical, peer reviewed research and my 25+ years of experience as a practicing psychotherapist and professor.
his father wasn’t abusive. his father had a personality disorder and was too smart so being around average people tends to disturb him so he became a drifter
Imagine a therapist using his “expertise” to psychoanalyse an entertainer so his viewers can pick apart his “trauma” allowing them to have some kind of morale highground. Not a Tate fan btw.
This woman handled the situation very gracefully--her social skills were so far above his, it was almost painful to watch. I probably would have burst out laughing the moment he said he lived in the "most prestigious area in England" and it would have just gone downhill from there. 😄
.. This was extremely painful to watch and listen too. My mouth literally fell open when he said she thinks she knows things and he looks forward to correcting her.😮 Run for the hills. I suspect he would hit a woman. Too many red flags. It began when he initially open his mouth and started talking. RUN! 😂
"I look forward to correcting her." My mouth dropped. You can't make this up. In April 2022, Tate's house was raided by the Directorate for Investigating Organized Crime and Terrorism of Romania after the U.S. embassy alerted Romanian police that an American woman might be held at the property. In addition to an American woman, investigators found that a Romanian woman was held at the property, and the investigation was expanded to include human trafficking and rape allegations. As of mid-2022, Romanian authorities said that the investigation was ongoing. Tate denies any wrongdoing.
his father had a personality disorder and avoided people. why he became a drifter and played chess. his father wasn’t abusive he was strict. same as most military dads
He is, as awful as he is he does talk with confidence. The first time you met him you would think he is charismatic by the way he carries himself. (Definetly not saying that I like this man, I hate him)
Bless her. She’s being _so_ polite and patient with his dumb ass, lol. I honestly would have just gotten up and walked away after like the first 5 minutes
He is a dumb ass. Andrew Tate is a real piece of work, isn't he? He is definitely screwed up. It is a shame that so many confused young people blindly follow him. The fact that he had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. At least that's my opinion. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
He had like 7 girlfriends at the time that he went on this date. He definitely wasn't going there with the intention to land another one. He just wanted a bigger audience.
@@hyuugafan2 I think one can be cautious without being combative especially if the goal is to get to know someone who might possibly be a partner and not an opponent, which I know now isn't his goal.
@@ksussl that’s true…but this psychologist did a disservice because in the actual video he did say he was being purposely abrasive to her….for him it was more so to get his message instead of “dating” it was a mutual benefit as that is her most viewed video
Nooo! I didn’t want it to end! I hope you do a whole series on Tate and continue with others like him. It’s frightening how much they’ve influenced young men and boys. We need good men like you to unravel oppression and hatred toward women, especially at this moment in time when we, as women, are losing our autonomy.
Yeah, I'm gonna watch the rest of this video. I'm guessing he will continue to give us content to react to, and we all need to combat it, both online and irl. We have been winning the war against misogyny, and as a result, charismatic figures like this emerge, waving their flag, rallying their numbers, and hoping to turn to the tide. We need to continue our activism. The war isn't over.
Not that it’s Andrew Tate’s fault, but many young men look up to this guy as their messiah. There’s a trend now amongst these young men where being a scumbag is considered to be “aLpHa eNeRgY,” which is ironic.
@@andra9601 I've been noticing that it stems someway (my own conclusions) from a defense mechanism as a stupid response found mostly but not limited to the younger men/boys who are the typical feminism and LGBT+ haters that like, well, adopting this caveman idea of masculinity think they're being "CoOl" and "ToP g", basically moronic people at its finest.
I had no idea who Tate is before this but watching Dr reacting to him speaking in riddles and feeling confused along side Dr Honda is a pretty therapeutic experience 😂 thanks doc!
The only word to describe this man accurately is: insufferable. This is the kinda person you are glad to not be around anymore when u come back from the party. And I am sorry for him having to be this way. When you fly that high you’re going to hit the ground so hard when you drop.
I have no idea who this man is. I saw a priest reacting to something he said about marriage. It looked like he was berating a group of young women for wanting jobs, travel experiences and pets. The thing the priest noticed is that Mr Tate berates ladies about getting married but he is not himself. Idk, with the death of Kevin Samuels, a lot of these guys have been trying to fill his shoes. The insecurity and hypocrisy jumps out of a lot of them.
I don't understand why everyone thinks it's okay for this man to preach sleeping around with "fresh" young women yet belittle women who aren't mothers & wives when he himself isn't a husband, father or a provider? It's a blatant double standard and diminishes the humanness of women.
Omg yes!! I practically screamed when I saw this video! It’s so interesting to get someone’s educated opinion on topics like this! There are clips of him speaking about his dad you should watch those. He really praises his dad despite his dad not being involved in his life a lot and his parents did split and he puts the blame on his mom for that.
@@mistym0rning Exactly! I know this teenager who is a friend of the family. His father was hardly present in his life, yet it is amazing at how hard he tries to attain his father's praise.
I’m pretty sure that the reason why Tate was saying the stuff about “when you’re really rich you don’t own what you have” is because he is constantly showing off in posts a bunch of super high end cars. But when he was raided by the police it came out that he didn’t actually own any of the cars, they were all rented to be used in the background of photo shoots and videos.
Tate is all fluff and no stuff. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
@@mikeb3811 Tate is a Narcissist/Psychopath spreading hateful ideas which young people are being brainwashed by because he has nice cars. That make sense now?
Saying the Carribean side is "crazy" is also racist. when comparing it to "the english side" which in colonial binary narrative is deemed proper, rational, clean, orderly whereas Carribean is deemed chaotic, emotional, dirty, unruly. It's blatantly a colonial narrative which in essence is racist because racism is an ideology formed to uphold and justify colonial exploitation through enslavement, land and cultural theft and exploitation of the earth by creating dichotomies of Europe and whiteness (as a construct) being good, clean, rational, orderly and therefore superior and (especially but not only) Blackness and the Global South being bad, dirty, chaotic, emotional and therefore inferior and worthy of exploitation and unworthy of humanity. Postcolonial Studies, Cultural Studies (esp. in England, i.e. Stuart Hall) study this and white European Philosophers like Kant and Hegel write this exactly. So This guy is just quoting Kant and Hegel... basically
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
Dr. Honda, I could listen to you all day. You provide such thoughtful, succinct, and insightful perspectives and content. I am so glad I found your channel, as it has been a part of my own personal healing journey. I often leave with useful tools under my belt ❣️
It helps to understand his behavior if you know that everything he’s saying isn’t for her reaction, it’s for his boy audience. He’s practically wink-winking to the camera the whole time.
Dr. Honda is the closest thing I’ve ever seen to a Saint. Like, your ability to empathize with this deeply unlikeable and offensive person, to see past that and get to the core of his insecurity… just wow, doing the lord’s work, sir!
He is doing good work. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
I’m equal parts thrilled and horrified that you’re reacting to this. Thrilled because I’m SO interested in your take on Tate. Horrified because I have to listen to his “jerkface” mouth.
@@PsychologyInSeattle you are a dark shadow on the doctor community Your analysis is so freaking funny, we were laughing at your lack of body language reading and analysis , in the hospital. I showed all the fellows your videos. Your lack of education is so laughable. And you can look at ratio in your comments. It's all girls. Not ONE successful guy is gonna listen to your garbage. Lol. Be better. Stop virtue signaling
I have narcissistic personality disorder but I would never (intentionally) hurt anyone. Everything is 100% true, we do believe we are unique and superior to others, that's natural though, if you are successful and intelligent that's even stronger feelings of superiority. That's why we hard connect with anyone...genuinely. I like how this doctor shows understanding, compassion and kindness. ❤️
Guess what you are not narssisic cauz narssisic person never tells that he or she narssisic you are coping someone in your entourage maybe a dad or a mother or sister or brother inconsionly. Best luck honey
This was super insightful and interesting. I’ve seen a lot of take-downs of Andrew Tate, and being a woman, I won’t lie, it’s satisfying to see that on some level. But i really appreciate you bringing your professional knowledge and compassion to it. One point: Luton is definitely *not* seen as a prestigious place in England and I think that’s probably part of his whole thing: look where I came from and now I’m super successful etc.
@@hyuugafan2 Welp, somehow he got the essence and the measure of Tate’s problems from one video. I’m pretty impressed. He was able to deduce Tate’s daddy issues for one thing, just simply from the way he dehumanizes women… in the words of Larry David “prettty, pretttty good.” Almost makes me feel sorry for the slimy little worm (Tate). Damn. But then again, almost doesn’t count.
I feel calm and at Ease when ppl agree with my view points as well. That’s why you listen to tarot videos. 😮😮 This video is your words of affirmation 😂
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
He also said "fighting in the cage" when kickboxing is fought in a ring similar to boxers, so he is trying to make himself sound like a UFC fighter because in his head they are much tougher
He views everything through the lens of competition and sport even when it makes no sense to. Leads to very rigid limited thinking. And he cannot “lose” which also means never learning.
do you know for an absolute fact when tate is joking and when he isnt? that surely is imperative for attempting to accuse him of being narcissistic or insecure.
Insecurity is right. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
@@PsychologyInSeattle ☺️ I agree, he must be exhausted.. i was from just listening to him creating all these "aversions". I hope he finds a way to heal.
@@PsychologyInSeattle actually he mentions he has an eye condition later in the interview, I was so surprised your guess was right (assuming he's telling the truth)
It’s interesting to watch you analyze andrew without knowing much about him. You are going in the right direction. He did have an abusive dad both towards his mom and himself until his mom divorced and took the kids to England to live in the slums where andrew was bullied by moslim kids. His dad was a heavy drinker, gambler, pimp, and chess player who supposedly was honorably discharged from the military after being diagnosed as a narcissist or at least the narcissist part is andrew’s story. Andrew then followed in his father’s footsteps by gambling, drinking, pimping and abusing women. Andrew’s idol is his dad which is probably why he followed his dad’s path. Andrew shortly before this interview was an atheist, then he started going to the Romanian Orthodox Church because it was beneficial to him in Romania, then he expanded his sx industry to Dubai and other islamic countries so then he converted to islam. Religion is just something he uses for his advantage so i don’t know what he was trying to accomplish in this conversation, maybe he has trying to shift her mind to religion to get her in a morel submissive mindset. I am not sure but he certainly used it to put her down and degrade her as “lazy”. I also think when asked why he was there, he said he would just say he was invited. I think he probably asked to be on the show.
I really dislike this guy and he just gives me a headache from how many times I roll my eyes to the back of my head when he speaks. Prob just because of my bad experiences with narcissistic people but also because he's being investigated for human trafficking. But he is right about the money thing. People with a large amount of fortune and wealth don't tend to even know how much money they have or make because they have accountants to keep track of that for them. Also they keep their money in investments and foreign entities outside of their own accounts to the point where you would probably have to put in a lot of effort to manage all that money. Which they don't have to do because they pay someone else to do that for them. If you know how much money you make then you probably aren't ridiculously wealthy or are spending all of your time counting your money which is silly
Is it silly to count your money when you’re living paycheck to paycheck or is that called budgeting? Everyone can’t be a millionaire. It’s a privilege to not have to check your account before making a purchase. I hope to get there some day. However, a smart person, no matter how much they have, ALWAYS counts their money. You should never have accountants do everything for you. Easy way to be taken advantage of. Oprah is a billionaire and she said she signs every check herself, no matter the amount. Never get too comfortable.
@@prtdiva You'll never get there unless your think like him. You HAVE to see yourself as the best and act like it. You HAVE to do what the best needs to do to BE the best. You HAVE to be "delusional", you HAVE to have a larger then life personality
I started realising a few months ago that I fall somewhere in the middle of the narcissistic spectrum as I understand it. I brought it up to my therapist and we now use it as another model of my behaviour.
That's great that you have this insight! I sincerely hope that you are successful on working on behaviours. I am quite sure that you yourself will be more happy in the long run if you learn how to adress things :))
You fall in the middle while Tate is on the extreme. Andrew Tate is a real piece of work, isn't he? He is definitely screwed up. It is a shame that so many confused young people blindly follow him. The fact that he had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. At least that's my opinion. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
I believe he was making a joke when he said he lived in a prestigious area of the UK, Luton is not generally seen as prestigious, and he probably knew she would know that being a Brit so he was being sarcastic.
“The amount of insecurity dripping of this human being” - omg! Yes! That´s what it is. Makes me so happy when experts see through stuff like this and can calls it what it really is.
I agree, he does good work. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
From what I remember regarding his work. He started out as a professional fighter, did reality tv, started a cam girl business with his brother and their multiple girlfriends(1. The girls would be on camera and they would be typing to the viewers 2. He brags about his girlfriends not being sex workers before meeting him), then he start hustlers university where people pay I think 50 a month to learn how to make money and and get an affiliate code to use to get others to join and earn money that way
You're wrong. He made money from the cam business, and the girls that worked for him were floozy ring girls anyway. He then used that money to buy stakes in casinos in Romania and now owns MULTIPLE ones. His online school called Hustler's University is a platform that teaches students EIGHTEEN (18) ways to make money online. ONE of which being affiliate marketing. Only ONE of those EIGHTEEN is affiliate marketing and it's not just Tate videos, but for Amazon, Ebay etc too. There are still SEVENTEEN other ways they teach including E-Commerce and Copywriting. For $50 you get the most value possible. Mind you the classes are taught by people who have verifiably made MILLIONS in the subject they're teaching, PLUS you gain access to a community of other students who are also doing the same shit you're doing, so you get to bounce ideas around and give each other tips. I'm not part of HU but I know it has over 130K students WORLDWIDE on a consistent basis. That means that not only do people sign up for it, but they STAY subscribed. Which means they must be getting a return on their money Compare that to people paying hundreds of thousands for degrees being taught by people who sometimes don't even have any experience in what they're teaching. Think of the many "business professors" who've never launched any successful businesses and aren't even rich. If you're gonna teach business you better be fucking rich and successful a sa businessman. So think of all the many clowns out there who took out HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS in student loan debt and can't pay them off because what they learned in school is absolutely useless in the job market and they can't get good jobs. $50 is a very SMALL price to pay to learn how to make thousands of dollars
@@brittrichardson3416 Look, I really don't see what you gain from not abiding to reality. I've watched countless of his interviews and seen many people review HU and everything lines up. He's not frauding anyone and his school is legit and people make money I just don't see what u gain from all the fuckshit u wanna believe in. Give up. Just accept the truth, and then improve your life. It's not that hard.
@@PermanentHigh you're the one who needs to improve your life buddy, you're wasting hours writing essays on a guy who doesn't even know you exist dude, you're doing this for free, and for what? So that he'll gain followers or smth? He's not God, he's not a cult, stop tryna convert ppl. He's sexist, misogynistic, homophobic, and I wouldn't be surprised if he was racist too - I can find hundreds of men and women who say the same things but who ARENT racist/sexist/homophobic/misogynistic, etc.
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person that he is. Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
If I'm understanding correctly, I think what Andrew Tate is saying at the beginning is truly rich people have so much money they can't tell you how much they have because 1, they can get anything they want so they stopped keeping track of totals. Or 2, the majority of their wealth is usually in assets rather than actual money, another reason they may not keep track of totals.
@@devochkadee Ha! Yeah, I mean, I usually take things literally, so his literal statement didn't make sense to me. But I guessing, as others have hypothesized, it's phrased reference to other known notions.
@@PsychologyInSeattle i think it's a sign that you probably don't spend much time with very materialistic / money oriented people, so actually not a bad thing at all (in my opinion)!
this is my first time on the channel and i already love how dr honda speaks and holds himself professionally and has a calm demeanour. Really a nice contrast to the Andrew Tat constantly screaming at the camera. Much better on the ears too.
The people in the red pill / manosphere are just sad, lost men who don’t love themselves and don’t believe they could ever be loved so they resent women and loving relationships. They chase money and superficial value instead of self growth and healing. It’s very sad.
I’ve been watching you for about a year now and with you introducing yourself at the beginning of this episode something dawned on me…. I never actually knew your name. You kinda just registered as Dr. Seattle in my head. Nice to meet ya Kirk Honda. Lol 😂
@@callmekirkland8 yes it’s a very nuanced topic on American imperialism that he constantly talks about on his stream. I wish everyone would take the time to understand the tragedy that is American imperialism and it’s effect on the world. It cannot be simplified to one sentence. I would also recommend reviewing his countless hours of advocacy for the working class and marginalized communities, but that’s not what this video is about. It was completely entertaining watching Hasan debate Andrew Tate because you got to see him handle a narcissistic misogynist.
I wonder if Tate wears the glasses because he knows not seeing a person's pupils puts them on edge. Or he sees it as an advantage to hide his emotions.
Ooo I literally jumped up when I saw this, I'm so excited to hear. I've only listening to a little bit of this disturbed guy because he's so triggering so I'm super happy Dr. Honda is walking us through it, as the emotional sherpa he is.
You just mad cause the same men who played you used his tactics. They know what they see at face value. I’m a good guy and ever since I started hitting the gym for my health you crazy ppl won’t ever stop with your “you have problems” but In reality I’m healed and it makes me ppl feel insecure and not good enough. I was the runt of the litter and now ppl think I was born an alpha. Y’all are the toxic ones
I love how many people in luxury fields have been coming out exposing how people as insecure and unaware as he is are the perfect candidates for their marketing tactics. They’re so far up their own ass they can’t tell bs that is being sold to them
I just see Andrew Tate as cocky, has a grandiose opinion of himself, and sees himself as a philosopher but isn't well educated. He has above average intelligence but is full of rage. I can see that immediately. Anyone who gets close to him is going to get dumped on. The idea that women should obey (him) makes him obnoxious for me. "I look forward to correcting her". Jesus! He's a controller. If I met him at a party I wouldn't want to spend two minutes with him. Here, in his interaction with this girl, I see him looking for evidence that she won't stand up to him. Definitely, a desire for power. I enjoyed your analysis of Tate. Sounds accurate to me.
@@Al-ji4gd every time he speaks, you can tell he’s trying to deflect from how terrible he feels about himself. Also, “this guy” is a psychologist with like 20 years of experience. What are your credentials?
@@cityandgirl Based on what? How can you tell he is trying to deflect from how terrible he feels about himself? That just sounds like projection to me. Or you're making something up in your head about the guy because you don't like him. I don't take most psychology seriously. There's very little science backing it up and it's almost exclusively pure speculation and psychologizing to the nth degree.
@@Al-ji4gd Dr. Honda isn't just any guy, he has years of experience to back up his claims. You might not like it, but how you feel about him doesn't detract from his professionalism. If you look up to Tate, why aren't you more interested in hearing a professional psychologist talk about his behavior? It might not be flattering or what you want to hear, but aren't you interested in learning something about him? To have your feelings and opinions challenged?
his fans have also been trying to spread the false claims andrew tate said in his “last words” video saying his charges were dropped and that he wasn’t raided but was swatted. and it’s crazy how confidently they lie about it even though multiple companies and journalists have reached out to romanian officials and have confirmed there’s still an ongoing case for trafficking and that he was raided.
@@i0li0il0i how is CCTV gonna prove it was caused by a lie? lmao. again, many companies have gotten in touch with romanian officials and have confirmed it was in fact a raid, not a swatting. andrew tate started saying it was a swatting when he was on stream with adin ross and adin ross was explaining his swatting, and andrew tate heard that and ran with it because he thought it’d make the situation sound better. but i think he forgot people have the ability to contact police and ask them questions about the case.
@@i0li0il0i NPC servant in the matrix? i’ve genuinely never seen a fan base with worse jabs than andrew tate’s following. the things you guys throw around and think it makes sense 😭 it’s hilarious
@@i0li0il0i and friendly advice, you are trying WAYYY too hard to make philosophical jabs. you guys try to follow after andrew tate’s footsteps and it makes you look like a fool, i’m sorry but it’s the truth. and i’m not even trying to be mean, like you can fr tell you guys are trying so hard and it’s rlly not working at all.
So, I think what he was trying to say about money is more "if you know what's in your bank your poor. If you don't know how much money you have you're rich because you have so much and it's ever moving so you don't know exactly how much you have. I am rich because idk how much I have, I just want things and I know I can get them even though idk how much I have." He's one of those "dating advice" guys so essentially he speaks in a way that is confusing on purpose to rip off incels in the internet. And yeah, you read him like a book.
Dr. Honda is saying that diagnosing narcissistic personality disorder takes weeks and the patients come to the office of their own will but I’m wondering… how often does that actually happen? People with NPD will be the last to admit to anything being wrong with them. It’s called disorder for a reason, and because of the nature of it, these people rarely get to the therapist’s office, unfortunately… And Tate, even if he was obliged to go to therapy, let’s say court ordered, I don’t think that anything could be done to help him. It is so sad because people who have NPD truly suffer of it and cause suffering to a lot of people around them and still, it is so hard to help them or improve them in any way. I believe in tate’s case, there is even some level or sociopathy/psychopathy involved as well, which is I think proved by his recently discovered crimes.
The last guy I dated sounds like what you described…abusive dad to mom and children…he is insecure and can get controlling..expressed some subtle sexist verbiage….he is nice but I don’t have time to teach him how to not be sexist or jealous or controlling. Also very sensitive… He’s nicer than this guy but also it’s been such a roller coaster in a short amount of time :(
Any advice for moms of teen sons who are into this guy (like big time into him?) My 16 year old try’s to emulate him in all aspects of his life. When you spoke about the abusive father, the mother and child connection- this hit the nail on the head. We are two years divorced now. My poor son, what will become of him? 😢😞
Are their more positive role models your son can compare and contrast with? Sports, activities, community with others I've found most helpful in combating the isolation people like Andrew Tate depend on.
You already have created the problem. Now you are showing sympathy to my poor child BS. Don't you understand it while getting in a relationship with him. Now, let him be what he wants to. Because you both have already divorced. Now, the children will get the love of only one parent. 🤦
Dr Kirk, can you seriously tell when Tate is joking and when he isn't? I think that's pretty important when trying to infer that he has npd, or is at least narcissistic.
This is so perplexing! Is this guy for real? I've met one or two people like this in real life - but I was half convinced that they were putting on an act and just messing with me, I never got to know them to find out the truth lol but if he IS for real - wouldn't it be EXHAUSTING to be him 24/7? I mean how does he have the energy to be this objectionable and unlikable?!
He's a 4x World Champion kickboxer, who's also highly successful and a multi millionaire who owns multiple casinos in Romania. Do you SERIOUSLY think that you can achieve all that by being mediocre in your world view and your sense of self? I'm asking a GENUINE question here. Do you think you can achieve all that by just thinking that you're just like everyone else and that you're not the best but you're just an okay person? Get real u fucking clowns. You HAVE to talk that shit if u wanna be the top dog. That's how it is. You can't see yourself as JUST okay or regular. You need to be delusional to achieve great things.
YES!!!! It is incredibly exhausting to be around an individual like this. They suck the literal life force energy out of you. You’re left with nothing bc they take it all. Everything, and once you’re sick and can no longer extract any supply from you they discard you as if you never existed. They constantly trigger you intentionally with their arsenal of manipulative tactics. It’s awful what they do to others. Especially if they’re sadistic and have traits of ASPD. You’re then left thinking you’re crazy, lazy, and worthless. You then deal with having complex PTSD, adrenal fatigue, migraines, autoimmune disorders, chronic fatigue, pain, and so much more… He’s grandiose AF so it’s easier to spot. The covert ones are tricky, tricky!
Their fear of rejection causes them to try to get your validation without risk of you rejecting him bc that just crushes them bwahahaha that’s what that was
The fact he has to say how good or handsome or important he is proves he doesn’t truly believe it . Nobody that feels those things about themself has to say it or prove to others it’s true . Great insight btw I appreciate it .
Healthy masculine energy is protective and nurturing in its own way and BOTH men and women can exhibit masculine and feminine energy. If someone has to tell you they are an “alpha” that is the first indicator they are anything but.
I`ve seen the whole footage about this date, and it was VERY cringe to watch. The lady was clearly more intelligent, kind and dignified then Andrew, and he couldn`t deal with that.
Excited to hear your analysis!! I hope you dont receive a bunch of nasty messages as a result of this, but i think these videos could be really helpful for the young men interested in his content! Btw maybe someone has already said but Luton is famously not prestigious, so i think he was making a joke (but coming from him, who knows?)
I never heard of Andrew Tate. I’ve chatted with people like this before and every time I end up tell them they’re exhausting and that I don’t care to continue the conversation. I don’t have capacity for this kind of BS.
‘As long as the woman obeys’ 4:58, all that just to say you’re mad your parents broke up when you were younger, and if your mother obeyed your dad, they’d still be together. Control. He felt out of control as a kid and doesn’t want to feel that trauma again 🙃 🤡 lovely
Coming in at the start of the video its easy to see you already had your thoughts about andrew tate with a certain bias, having conservative values with women is not “oppressive” his standard of not wanting a women who already has children, or wanting to have a women that should obey is simply his wants in a relationship and is proven to be the best way to have a long healthy lasting relationship
I'm so excited you're talking about him. Obviously you read him like a picture book. So many men get indoctrinated by him. Can you talk about how to stop people from falling for him?
Thank you so much for this video Dr. Kirk and all your efforts with your channel and educating/providing content. I especially enjoyed this video and look forward to part two! You're very much appreciated!
Andrew has deeply studied hypnosis so i’m not sure if he was trying to put her in a hypnotic state with the kissing thing or just trying to establish dominance but hypnotists use touch to induce hypnosis. He has a thing about kissing though. Notice he dictated they would kiss twice and counted it. That’s odd. He also disturbingly told his “niece” to kiss him. She kissed him on the cheek and he said “no, kiss me on the mouth “. You could tell she was uncomfortable but she did it. That’s not normal. But it goes back to he has some hang-up with controlling kisses.
I'm a woman who believes in the traditional home, however the whole idea that a woman should be subservient to her husband is completely taken to an extreme. I do believe that a man would be a head of the house and should be respected HOWEVER... He has to EARN the right to be respected. He is NOT to just expect respect simply because he's the man and the husband. He earns respect by treating his wife and children woth love and care. Puts them first in his life, works hard to provide for them and takes a role teaching them how to be a good man. He SERVES his family. He does nkt RULE his family. That is the difference. By doing this, his wife will want to respect and obey him out of love for him. NOT because she's expected to. It starts with him.
I watched him on another channel and I didn't think he could get more....ugh but here he is! proving me wrong! Dudes like this are such a turn off! He's so desperate to be liked and accepted.
Hey, Deserving Listeners! Thanks for letting me know about his alleged criminal behavior. By the way, just a heads up, the next few episodes about Andrew Tate were recorded around the same time, so I won't be aware of these details. Also, if these allegations are even somewhat accurate, that says a lot about his personality.
@Supreme Dragon Command did you just make your TH-cam account to write this?
@Supreme Dragon Command "Comedic value"?
@@PsychologyInSeattle Dont answer him back dr Kirk. Usually, AT followers would do everything to save his image. It will be just troll comments
@@i0li0il0i "debunked" as in "the cops said they found nothing" which means jack shit
@Supreme Dragon Command It’s not ‘going along’. There’s videos of him, that he put out saying he trafficks women and a video where’s he’s abusing an ex.
Dr. Honda, Andrew’s parents are divorced and he worships his dad despite his father having been absent/abusive so you pretty much hit the nail on the head without even knowing it!
It's amazing how much he inferred through such a short video
Why do sons so want to be close with their abusive father? I don’t get it it. My mom was abusive towards me and this guy said you just have to forgive her…ummm no I don’t. I can learn and grow and not subject myself to another person’s mood swings.. I just dont get the idealization of an abusive father (well dr explained it..they want to take after the powerful individual…hatred towards women…it’s sad how this is passed down.)
@@myra3266 also it's hard for men to admit to themselves they were abused/neglected. It's seen as weak. So, they unconsciously deny it and in their minds if it never happened then there's no reason to hate dad
Those short stories where he is obviously talking about his dad are kind of sad
I did some research on him as well and found out the same thing too. After finding that out I could not believe this guy. I could not believe he worshiped his dad even though his dad wasn't shit. He has a mental issue. He's confused and as usual it's always a woman's fault.
He's calling her all kind of names even before meeting her so that if she rejects him he'd claim she was worthless anyway and not worth his time.
Yea bless him
Bingo. Imagine feeling SO vulnerable all the time that your defenses have to be this over the top. It's kind of pathetic really, I feel sorry for him. But worse for this woman who did nothing wrong and yet still has to sit through this abusive crap...
@@macarmenadoree
China is 35 year old baby mom who is passed it with a child from her 5th previous relationship with a body count above 20 I don’t see what viewers see in her that makes her high value
Woman above 35 can’t bear children that’s closer to my mothers age
Females ages like apple’s and for men they age like wine
@@macarmenadoree I dont feel sorry for him. The dude made his money sex trafficking . He made his money by hurting other people. There is nothing to feel sorry for here but his victims.
@@macarmenadoree but she wanted to go on a date w him after again ? 😂😂😂😂
The crazy thing about this video is that this is Andrew Tate on his best behavior. This is him being lighthearted and having fun.
yes yes yes!
Really? Interesting.
@@fatmexicannicolerichie3511 Yeah, I'm sure that's rife with reactive potential.
@@PsychologyInSeattle Yes. He gets a little worse during the date. But he's still tame in comparison to how he is during interviews and on his own platform.
@@fatmexicannicolerichie3511 it’s always WOMEN and MEN but not the financial advise and self improvement? Sad
"He's wearing sunglasses inside.... maybe he has an eye condition" I absolutely love this! This is not confrontational at all but hits on the absurdity of the situation rather than just outright calling him a knob! I'm definitely using this
He does have an eye condition from his kickboxing fights
He literally does have an eye condition so maybe delete your comment instead of practicing ableism and mocking the less-abled.
@@mikeb3811 These liberals won't back down even when they are wrong, part of the sheep mentality. Gotta follow the herd.
@@mikeb3811- Right. Why doesn’t he wear sunglasses inside all the time? Does his “eye condition” come and go? 😂
@@TheBerkeleyBeauty Do you live with him
"Maybe he has an eye condition, I don't know." A very generous assessment, Dr. Honda.
He does actually from his kickboxing days
Yeah retina detachment, lead to his retirement in kickboxing.
He has a detached retina from fighting he literally never takes them of unless he’s at home.
He does, that´s why he stopped fighting at age 30 because according to him his health was more important...Then brags he´s the best fighter in world
I think he also has a brain condition. It's strange that Dr kirk never mentioned that being punched and kicked in the head repeatedly can impact your psychology.
“The amount of insecurity dripping of this human being” .. this is the reason I enjoy watching your analysis, without an ounce of pretentiousness you state your opinions and it always gets to me, I hear you say certain things and I’m like, wow, that explains exactly what I feel watching this certain person. Thanks Dr. Honda!
What does he have to be insecure about? It's nice to know that even ''psychologists'' are clueless these days.
Same!!!
Completely agree! Thank you Dr. Honda!
Andrew Tate speaks a lot of truth, and that rubs people the wrong way. If you want to make enemies you tell them the truth, if you want to make friends you tell them a lie, or a story, and their eyes will light up like a child.
Women are to obey their men, yes (just as they are to obey their fathers) men and women are to have children yes, a child that grows up in a home with a mother and a father around are the most well adjusted children there are, and this is well known, the nuclear family is the _corner stone_ of civilization, no wonder why it's been under attack since the late 50's. Single mother hood households have been, and are, a complete disaster (not just for whites, but for black families, perhaps even worse for them)
If Andrew Tate is insecure or not I'm not gonna comment on, what I will say though is that psychologists are some of the most messed up people there are, they are even worse, the reason they sought out the profession to begin with was a cry for help. Which also explains why almost 80% of them are female i.e. women (for those who don't know what a woman is, another issue today apparently) since women do not understand themselves 70ish% of the time.
Finally.
All this psychologist did (because of his conditioning and actual insecurity in his own, what should be for a man, masculine role) was to personally attack Tate, and of course, attack anything that has maintained a stable and healthy society.
@@erichamilton5932 god I’d hate to be in a relationship with you or even associated with you. You have got to be under some sort of drug influence with that type of thinking. Good luck out there
"If I was at a party, I wouldn't stay long talking to him" hahaha I love your subtle ways of saying you dislike a person
Yh but i doubt abdrew tate would sit down and talk to this guy 😂
@@losliosdeelenasara6490Well, I don't think that would bother Dr. Honda, as has already been alluded.
Would Dr. Honda want to talk to you at a party? New level of self examination lol
Yes lol
As long as you're not a jerkface, we can hang
Yes!! If only to say, "You just sit there quietly - help is on its way." :)
This video healed my soul! There are too many “Alpha/Sigma males” out there literally indoctrinating other men on how to be misogynistic and abusive towards women, which as a woman, I find absolutely terrifying!
And we as women have to learn their behaviour to save ourselves from getting into them and their ass life as much as possible
@@nobodyelse7911 It goes both ways with men & women’s situations
And as a man i find this whole Alpha/Sigma males thing disgusting, sad and infuriating to watch.
You shouldn't be just test their words let them speek honestly if caught in lets say cheating don't forgive or atleast if you Lost trust stick to it
Dated one like that. Now I’m fucking battling a bf that recently just became even worse because of this guy. Once my current bf and I break up, I will just stay single forwvwr
Tate said he learned “a lot of his lessons about male-female dynamics” through watching parents (obviously). He then tells a story. His father once was at a chess tournament for a month and half, came home and within 45 minutes him and his wife were arguing because she found something in his pocket or something. He came in and hugged andrew and told “see you in a few weeks”. to andrew asking him ‘why’ he said “when youre older you’ll understand. your mother wont shut up”. at which point andrew (telling the story on a podcast) laughs and says hes not saying thats how he is but thats what he witnessed as a child. But him laughing at that as if to say “how refreshing is that” to his dad psychopathically ignoring the pain of his mother and telling this story immediately after saying he learned his lesson about male female dynamics from his upbringing, i dont see any other way than to view that as him giving an example of a “lesson”.
Interesting. Makes a lot of sense.
Why would any man need to deal with some arguing female if he doesnt want to? His father was entirely correct
@@M.A.T.E.8exactly
@@M.A.T.E.8is father was serial cheater. His mother probably found something connected with it, so she wasn't happy about it. And what Tate get from this is not that you shouldn't cheat to keep marriage is that women should shut up and tolerate bs to keep marriage. And this is nonsense.
@@eg568 It's not nonsense if it obviously works for him
I wish my narcissist ex was this blatant... would have saved me a lot of time
Same here. At least he's teaching his loser followers to show their sparkling personality early on in a date, if they can even manage to get one.
There is something pitiful about people like this who speak in riddles. The insecurity about not “sounding smart” is palpable. Unfortunately there are a lot of narcs out there who are smarter and hide it better.
Same
you probably wouldve stayed
My ex is why Tate scares the crap out of me.
I looove that I can watch triggering people within the safe filter of Dr. Honda’s observation. I have never let an Andrew Tate video play past a couple of seconds…like the first bit of his speech…wtf are you talking about?
Yes!! I never watch AT’s videos because he spews nonsense constantly, but watching through the lens of Dr. Honda I feel safe
I agree so much! I had this experience watching the Ed & Liz phone call - watching it on its own was so upsetting, but watching it with Dr. Honda felt much safer. It felt like the difference between literally being in the car with them and being in the room with Dr. Honda while watching a recording of it.
Yeah, I had been avoiding him too. But after so many requests, I got centered, took a deep breath, kissed my wife, and reacted to this.
you sound mentally weak af if you can't get through a conflicting view point from someone in life 😂
@@i0li0il0i I'm open to feedback. Please provide a quote that demonstrates bias.
She is being too nice, gotta give her props for her patience. I would've walked out way early.
Agree. Same. That is time wasted that you will never get back. Why stay for more BS
I bet since she’s on tv she put up with more she would’ve in real life. She seems like such a lovely woman
Yeah, I kept wanting her to fight more, but I imagine she was trying to salvage the episode.
@@PsychologyInSeattle I think she might have picked up on the fact that he was trying to get that reaction out of her and didn’t give him the satisfaction.
@@deadams8905 Absolutely
Insecure men feel threatened by confident women so they use subtle and not so subtle tactics to chip away at their confidence and self esteem. They do this in an attempt to elevate themselves and tactics include: insults, mocking and gaslighting (she can't trust her own perceptions/intelligence also he says one thing but does something else like he tells her she's intelligent but treats her like she's stupid. I bet if she were to point this out he'd probably treat her like she's crazy/misinterpreting him).
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
? WTF are you talking about
Insecure women do this to men too 😂
Confident is how you'd describe Chian?
You are so accurate it is scary! His father was basically absent and emotionally abusive to the mother. Tate seems to have grown up idealising his father and the way that he emotionally demeaned his mother. I think he feels better being the abuser than the abused, he shows little regards for his mother and sister because I think being close to them is having to listen to their side and humanise them. So they are completely cut off from his life.
He gave examples in an interview and It all made sense. Father is always on the road playing chess and following his passion, when he comes by he talks down to the mother and diminishes her concerns and feelings, calls her crazy and walks out to be gone for months again. He mentioned his father cheated and his called the mother a crazy bitch for confronting him over the cheating. There is a lot to this guy, the more I listen to him on interviews the more the patter comes together.
You just spouted a bunch of lies. One of the first things Andrew did when he became rich was to retire his mom. WTH have you done for your mom?
@Drock those were his own words in interviews. What does media have to do with it. Unless you are saying they made him say those things.
His idealism for his father is evident in the way he talks about him, he makes him sound grandiose.
His father does sound like an admirable man in some regards. For that reason he could have issues separating the good things his father did and how intelligent he seems to have been from the way he treated the mother and him being the one in the wrong in those regards.
@Drock not he said himself he has little to no contact with either his mother and sister or maybe he was referring to just his sister. Again he does interviews he talks. No one else is talking in his behalf.
@@destroyerofsimps6574 I left her in a ditch. Hope she is OK the poor thing.
Drock, not meaning to shatter your illusions, he has absolutely no contact with his mum or sister. Google his mum, she lives in the same house she always lived in, listen to how he talks about his mum and sister, he is so dismissive of them and their entire existence.
He hasn't given her a penny, that is just a tale he tells.
Thank you, Dr. Honda!!! The way Andrew Tate talks reminds me so much of Charlie Manson. Manson tried to talk riddles, pseudo-philosophically, and some people just loved it cause they thought he was soooo smart, such a visionary poet. To me he sounds like a bumbling idiot.
Exactly. Very astute of you.
Isn't Jordan Peterson on that spectrum too?
@@GabrieleFerraro I’m not even sure what’s up with Jordan Peterson. I would love Dr Honda to take a look at that, too. All I can say I’m tired of people trying to sound way smarter than they really are. Sooner or later we all see the emperor’s clothes or lack thereof.
@@samum5856 oh I was not trying to be confrontational if that's how I came across. Your comment made me think about how JP speaks though and there are parallels. I am not sure that I would like Dr Honda to comment on him as it would really make him dive into today's American politics
@@GabrieleFerraro no, no, I wasn’t confromtational either! I 100% agree with you! Sorry if my comment seemed that way. :-)
I've only ever heard about Andrew Tate but never followed, watched or listened to him, so I wasn't going to bother watching this, but I'm really glad I did. What you hypothesized about him from 23:00 to about 25:30 aptly describes my older sibling. Those were the dynamics between my parents and how my sib reacted to them.
I'm sorry that happened in your family. So much pain.
I think it is a good thing that you didn't follow him. Andrew Tate is a real piece of work, isn't he? He is definitely screwed up. It is a shame that so many confused young people blindly follow him. The fact that he had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. At least that's my opinion.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"
(Proverbs 16:18).
You are INCREDIBLE! In other interviews he talks about one story in how his father was always absent/gone playing at chess tournaments, he finally comes home but leaves again almost immediately stating “See how she bitches at me son? Sorry I’m not going to take this” and left Andrew his brother and mother all alone again.
Your perception is nothing but stunning, when you spoke on how behaviors/attitudes like Andre Tates are based from in resenting the mother due to an abusive father… I mean my jaw DROPPED! Ive been fascinated by Andrew Tate and just couldn’t understand what leads someone to act/live like this.
Dr Honda, you are INCREDIBLE
Aw, thanks. :) Chess tournaments? That's interesting. Yeah, that's a common breading ground for misogyny. We therapists have seen it often. Tragic in so many ways.
@@i0li0il0i On the basis of scientific, empirical, peer reviewed research and my 25+ years of experience as a practicing psychotherapist and professor.
his father wasn’t abusive. his father had a personality disorder and was too smart so being around average people tends to disturb him so he became a drifter
Imagine a therapist using his “expertise” to psychoanalyse an entertainer so his viewers can pick apart his “trauma” allowing them to have some kind of morale highground. Not a Tate fan btw.
@@fifiadan are average therapist like this? 🤔 Cause i never meet one of them
This woman handled the situation very gracefully--her social skills were so far above his, it was almost painful to watch. I probably would have burst out laughing the moment he said he lived in the "most prestigious area in England" and it would have just gone downhill from there. 😄
It was a joke, Luton is far from a prestigious place to live.
.. This was extremely painful to watch and listen too. My mouth literally fell open when he said she thinks she knows things and he looks forward to correcting her.😮 Run for the hills. I suspect he would hit a woman. Too many red flags. It began when he initially open his mouth and started talking. RUN! 😂
@@sambland3903 🥲 this is scary to read, the amount of people who are unable to distinguish between humor and serious speak.
Dumb woman
You lie too much. Pls dont kill yourelf. I swear im not being sarcastic
19:10 “maybe he has an eye condition, I don’t know…” 🤣🤣 gotta love Dr. Honda!
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Lol that part made me giggle.
He actually has tho. His retina is partly seperated from his kickboxing carreer.
he literally does have an eye condition, what's your point?
"I look forward to correcting her." My mouth dropped. You can't make this up.
In April 2022, Tate's house was raided by the Directorate for Investigating Organized Crime and Terrorism of Romania after the U.S. embassy alerted Romanian police that an American woman might be held at the property. In addition to an American woman, investigators found that a Romanian woman was held at the property, and the investigation was expanded to include human trafficking and rape allegations. As of mid-2022, Romanian authorities said that the investigation was ongoing. Tate denies any wrongdoing.
wait what!!
Woah that’s crazy!
Yup! And Tate also referred to this raid that he was just doxed! This man is unbelievable.
Another interesting point is that some of these women had 'property of Tate' in Romanian tattooed on their bodies.
@@deadams8905 Woah!
Dr. Honda NAILED IT - I hope he watches some of Andrew Tate's interviews about his father and mother. Because WOW, Dr. Honda is SPOT EFFING ON.
Thanks! Yeah, from other comments, I'm learning a bit about his family of origin.
his father had a personality disorder and avoided people. why he became a drifter and played chess. his father wasn’t abusive he was strict. same as most military dads
he explains it all in a new video. the media is depicting his father as a mad man
@@killua3389 his father was very narcissistic
Charismatic is not the word I would use to describe this man lol
He is, as awful as he is he does talk with confidence. The first time you met him you would think he is charismatic by the way he carries himself. (Definetly not saying that I like this man, I hate him)
You have to give the devil his due.
If he’s not charismatic than nobody would follow him
@@deadfullyawesome I think you’re right. He has charisma, but no confidence behind it.
“Obnoxious” would be my go-to 1 word description of that dude 😂
Bless her. She’s being _so_ polite and patient with his dumb ass, lol. I honestly would have just gotten up and walked away after like the first 5 minutes
That’s why you will be broke your whole life while ppl like Andrew tate will be multi millionaire’s because your lack of patience and listening 🤡
She said that she would meet him again.
@@zomgoose holy shit.
He is a dumb ass. Andrew Tate is a real piece of work, isn't he? He is definitely screwed up. It is a shame that so many confused young people blindly follow him. The fact that he had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. At least that's my opinion.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"
(Proverbs 16:18).
If tate is dumb how’s he more successful than all of us combined?
I think it's interesting that he frames her as an opponent even before he goes on the date. A solid way to begin a date, lol
He had like 7 girlfriends at the time that he went on this date. He definitely wasn't going there with the intention to land another one. He just wanted a bigger audience.
@@NoHaBi02 Well, it makes more sense now. Thanks. I know nothing about this guy.
As you should…you don’t know who you are speaking with until they reveal themselves…..can’t go in all Willy nilly…that’s how you get hurt
@@hyuugafan2 I think one can be cautious without being combative especially if the goal is to get to know someone who might possibly be a partner and not an opponent, which I know now isn't his goal.
@@ksussl that’s true…but this psychologist did a disservice because in the actual video he did say he was being purposely abrasive to her….for him it was more so to get his message instead of “dating” it was a mutual benefit as that is her most viewed video
Nooo! I didn’t want it to end! I hope you do a whole series on Tate and continue with others like him. It’s frightening how much they’ve influenced young men and boys. We need good men like you to unravel oppression and hatred toward women, especially at this moment in time when we, as women, are losing our autonomy.
Yeah, I'm gonna watch the rest of this video. I'm guessing he will continue to give us content to react to, and we all need to combat it, both online and irl. We have been winning the war against misogyny, and as a result, charismatic figures like this emerge, waving their flag, rallying their numbers, and hoping to turn to the tide. We need to continue our activism. The war isn't over.
How are women still opposed in 2022 ? Lol majority are juicing out free money from innocent men and you still promote BS
Well said, Dr Honda. It is frightening/scary, what is going on ... Thank you for reminding us of the necessity to keep up the activism!
Women have more right now more than ever….how is telling young boys to work out, have good ppl around you, don’t do drugs, etc…bad?…..
@@hyuugafan2 they wont get it
Not that it’s Andrew Tate’s fault, but many young men look up to this guy as their messiah. There’s a trend now amongst these young men where being a scumbag is considered to be “aLpHa eNeRgY,” which is ironic.
r u serious? people look up to him??? why
why would anyone look up to someone like him? he seems like the equivalent of how not to be.
@@andra9601 I've been noticing that it stems someway (my own conclusions) from a defense mechanism as a stupid response found mostly but not limited to the younger men/boys who are the typical feminism and LGBT+ haters that like, well, adopting this caveman idea of masculinity think they're being "CoOl" and "ToP g", basically moronic people at its finest.
@@andra9601 because he is a figure who is completely opposite of fembots/SJWs etc etc. People are tired of their bullshit
@@kaz9242 It's the money, air of superiority/ power & over-inflated confidence.
I had no idea who Tate is before this but watching Dr reacting to him speaking in riddles and feeling confused along side Dr Honda is a pretty therapeutic experience 😂 thanks doc!
The only word to describe this man accurately is: insufferable. This is the kinda person you are glad to not be around anymore when u come back from the party. And I am sorry for him having to be this way. When you fly that high you’re going to hit the ground so hard when you drop.
I’d describe him as TOP G
He reminds me so much of my brother. Infuriating arrogance.
I have no idea who this man is. I saw a priest reacting to something he said about marriage. It looked like he was berating a group of young women for wanting jobs, travel experiences and pets. The thing the priest noticed is that Mr Tate berates ladies about getting married but he is not himself.
Idk, with the death of Kevin Samuels, a lot of these guys have been trying to fill his shoes. The insecurity and hypocrisy jumps out of a lot of them.
@@callmekirkland8 Ah, that explains the focus on the family.
I don't understand why everyone thinks it's okay for this man to preach sleeping around with "fresh" young women yet belittle women who aren't mothers & wives when he himself isn't a husband, father or a provider? It's a blatant double standard and diminishes the humanness of women.
Omg yes!! I practically screamed when I saw this video! It’s so interesting to get someone’s educated opinion on topics like this! There are clips of him speaking about his dad you should watch those. He really praises his dad despite his dad not being involved in his life a lot and his parents did split and he puts the blame on his mom for that.
Interesting. Sad, really - for him and all his followers.
@@i0li0il0i - sounds like a defense mechanism Andrew came up with since childhood to mitigate the hurt that his dad’s neglectfulness caused him.
@@mistym0rning Exactly! I know this teenager who is a friend of the family. His father was hardly present in his life, yet it is amazing at how hard he tries to attain his father's praise.
Does he seem like someone who was let down by his dad? You people are fucked in the head
@@PsychologyInSeattle see what I mean. What a very ignorant and presumptuous statement. You're a very angry and judgmental man.
I’m pretty sure that the reason why Tate was saying the stuff about “when you’re really rich you don’t own what you have” is because he is constantly showing off in posts a bunch of super high end cars. But when he was raided by the police it came out that he didn’t actually own any of the cars, they were all rented to be used in the background of photo shoots and videos.
Tate is all fluff and no stuff. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"
(Proverbs 16:18).
Watching a highly secure man critique a highly insecure man is quite funny 😆
Watching a low iq person listen to another whilst praising another low iq person is super interesting
If u do not realise how idiotic his points r ur stupid
If tate is so insecure, and the left is so loving, then what has the hate mob been about for the past year. Make it make sense.
@@mikeb3811 Tate is a Narcissist/Psychopath spreading hateful ideas which young people are being brainwashed by because he has nice cars. That make sense now?
@@mikeb3811 because that's relevant.
Saying the Carribean side is "crazy" is also racist. when comparing it to "the english side" which in colonial binary narrative is deemed proper, rational, clean, orderly whereas Carribean is deemed chaotic, emotional, dirty, unruly. It's blatantly a colonial narrative which in essence is racist because racism is an ideology formed to uphold and justify colonial exploitation through enslavement, land and cultural theft and exploitation of the earth by creating dichotomies of Europe and whiteness (as a construct) being good, clean, rational, orderly and therefore superior and (especially but not only) Blackness and the Global South being bad, dirty, chaotic, emotional and therefore inferior and worthy of exploitation and unworthy of humanity. Postcolonial Studies, Cultural Studies (esp. in England, i.e. Stuart Hall) study this and white European Philosophers like Kant and Hegel write this exactly. So This guy is just quoting Kant and Hegel... basically
Narcissistic Tate is being covered by you?!? Oh imma grab my popcorn!
Riiight!!!?😅
It's amazing how much insight you offer that ended up being correct about this man. Thank you so much or your patience and the work you do, Dr Honda!
Thanks!
Remind us which parts ended up being correct?
Really? I saw through Andrew Tate by watching brief speeches!
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"
(Proverbs 16:18).
Dr. Honda, I could listen to you all day. You provide such thoughtful, succinct, and insightful perspectives and content. I am so glad I found your channel, as it has been a part of my own personal healing journey. I often leave with useful tools under my belt ❣️
It helps to understand his behavior if you know that everything he’s saying isn’t for her reaction, it’s for his boy audience. He’s practically wink-winking to the camera the whole time.
Dr. Honda is the closest thing I’ve ever seen to a Saint. Like, your ability to empathize with this deeply unlikeable and offensive person, to see past that and get to the core of his insecurity… just wow, doing the lord’s work, sir!
Ha! Thanks, Margaret. We can all use some empathy and compassion, even Andrew.
@@PsychologyInSeattle Agreed! Thank you for modeling that for us. So important to see this kind of nuanced perspective these days.
He is doing good work. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"
(Proverbs 16:18).
I’m equal parts thrilled and horrified that you’re reacting to this. Thrilled because I’m SO interested in your take on Tate. Horrified because I have to listen to his “jerkface” mouth.
Yeah, don't watch on a full stomach.
@@PsychologyInSeattle you are a dark shadow on the doctor community
Your analysis is so freaking funny, we were laughing at your lack of body language reading and analysis , in the hospital. I showed all the fellows your videos.
Your lack of education is so laughable. And you can look at ratio in your comments. It's all girls. Not ONE successful guy is gonna listen to your garbage. Lol.
Be better. Stop virtue signaling
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@Likiba Zinorsi ofcourse
@Likiba Zinorsi said the crusty incel 💀
I have narcissistic personality disorder but I would never (intentionally) hurt anyone. Everything is 100% true, we do believe we are unique and superior to others, that's natural though, if you are successful and intelligent that's even stronger feelings of superiority. That's why we hard connect with anyone...genuinely. I like how this doctor shows understanding, compassion and kindness. ❤️
Npd is a way of keeping you safe as a child, so i am sorry you had to go through that. I hope all goes well for you on your path :))
Guess what you are not narssisic cauz narssisic person never tells that he or she narssisic you are coping someone in your entourage maybe a dad or a mother or sister or brother inconsionly. Best luck honey
@@bellalana9087 Do you know that there are self aware narcissists?
@@elishaolufemi4763 ican tell you a narssisic person thinks that are a unique person or God's lol, but go head tell love to know!
@@elishaolufemi4763 impossible I’m afraid …
This was super insightful and interesting. I’ve seen a lot of take-downs of Andrew Tate, and being a woman, I won’t lie, it’s satisfying to see that on some level. But i really appreciate you bringing your professional knowledge and compassion to it.
One point: Luton is definitely *not* seen as a prestigious place in England and I think that’s probably part of his whole thing: look where I came from and now I’m super successful etc.
This was biased and surface level …man can’t even spot sarcasm and is contracting
@@hyuugafan2 Welp, somehow he got the essence and the measure of Tate’s problems from one video. I’m pretty impressed. He was able to deduce Tate’s daddy issues for one thing, just simply from the way he dehumanizes women… in the words of Larry David “prettty, pretttty good.”
Almost makes me feel sorry for the slimy little worm (Tate). Damn. But then again, almost doesn’t count.
@@WitchPaper1 ''dehumanizes woman'' lol...
I feel calm and at Ease when ppl agree with my view points as well. That’s why you listen to tarot videos. 😮😮 This video is your words of affirmation 😂
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
He also said "fighting in the cage" when kickboxing is fought in a ring similar to boxers, so he is trying to make himself sound like a UFC fighter because in his head they are much tougher
He views everything through the lens of competition and sport even when it makes no sense to. Leads to very rigid limited thinking. And he cannot “lose” which also means never learning.
“the amount of insecurity dripping off this human being” - so accurate.
@Ag Perry what ? This comment is exactly what he’s talking about. Can’t even wear pink without feeling insecure that it’s emasculating🙄
@Ag Perry man you're simping for tate all over these comments, talk about insecure
@Ag Perry I hope he sees this bro
do you know for an absolute fact when tate is joking and when he isnt? that surely is imperative for attempting to accuse him of being narcissistic or insecure.
Insecurity is right. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
The subtle shade from Kirk, "maybe he has an eye condition, idk?" haha.. Love that.
Ha! Yeah, I mean, who knows? But I'm guessing it's more insecurity.
@@PsychologyInSeattle ☺️ I agree, he must be exhausted.. i was from just listening to him creating all these "aversions". I hope he finds a way to heal.
@@PsychologyInSeattle actually he mentions he has an eye condition later in the interview, I was so surprised your guess was right (assuming he's telling the truth)
@@GabrieleFerraro Interesting. If true, then that makes sense.
@@PsychologyInSeattle Detached retina from his Kickboxing days
I find him tremendously triggering as been in numerous relationships with people very similar to him.
A big problem with tate is he can't take criticism and a true man will take criticism like a peace of cake as long as it doesn't turn to disrespect
@jots122 lol
What attracted you to them?
Well you picked them, maybe that's your type.
It’s interesting to watch you analyze andrew without knowing much about him. You are going in the right direction. He did have an abusive dad both towards his mom and himself until his mom divorced and took the kids to England to live in the slums where andrew was bullied by moslim kids. His dad was a heavy drinker, gambler, pimp, and chess player who supposedly was honorably discharged from the military after being diagnosed as a narcissist or at least the narcissist part is andrew’s story. Andrew then followed in his father’s footsteps by gambling, drinking, pimping and abusing women. Andrew’s idol is his dad which is probably why he followed his dad’s path.
Andrew shortly before this interview was an atheist, then he started going to the Romanian Orthodox Church because it was beneficial to him in Romania, then he expanded his sx industry to Dubai and other islamic countries so then he converted to islam. Religion is just something he uses for his advantage so i don’t know what he was trying to accomplish in this conversation, maybe he has trying to shift her mind to religion to get her in a morel submissive mindset. I am not sure but he certainly used it to put her down and degrade her as “lazy”.
I also think when asked why he was there, he said he would just say he was invited. I think he probably asked to be on the show.
I really dislike this guy and he just gives me a headache from how many times I roll my eyes to the back of my head when he speaks. Prob just because of my bad experiences with narcissistic people but also because he's being investigated for human trafficking. But he is right about the money thing. People with a large amount of fortune and wealth don't tend to even know how much money they have or make because they have accountants to keep track of that for them. Also they keep their money in investments and foreign entities outside of their own accounts to the point where you would probably have to put in a lot of effort to manage all that money. Which they don't have to do because they pay someone else to do that for them. If you know how much money you make then you probably aren't ridiculously wealthy or are spending all of your time counting your money which is silly
I surprisingly only rolled my eyes (and cringed simultaneously) twice.
Is it silly to count your money when you’re living paycheck to paycheck or is that called budgeting? Everyone can’t be a millionaire. It’s a privilege to not have to check your account before making a purchase. I hope to get there some day. However, a smart person, no matter how much they have, ALWAYS counts their money. You should never have accountants do everything for you. Easy way to be taken advantage of. Oprah is a billionaire and she said she signs every check herself, no matter the amount. Never get too comfortable.
@@prtdiva You'll never get there unless your think like him. You HAVE to see yourself as the best and act like it. You HAVE to do what the best needs to do to BE the best. You HAVE to be "delusional", you HAVE to have a larger then life personality
@Likiba Zinorsi Facts!
I started realising a few months ago that I fall somewhere in the middle of the narcissistic spectrum as I understand it. I brought it up to my therapist and we now use it as another model of my behaviour.
You must not be that narcissistic if you’re that open to introspection…the ones that I’ve come across run from introspection like the plague 😂
That's great that you have this insight! I sincerely hope that you are successful on working on behaviours. I am quite sure that you yourself will be more happy in the long run if you learn how to adress things :))
@@bigcheech1937 nope u can be narcissistic and acknowledge it !
You fall in the middle while Tate is on the extreme. Andrew Tate is a real piece of work, isn't he? He is definitely screwed up. It is a shame that so many confused young people blindly follow him. The fact that he had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise. At least that's my opinion.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"
(Proverbs 16:18).
And he gets a kick bavk for every scrip he writes...how noble
I believe he was making a joke when he said he lived in a prestigious area of the UK, Luton is not generally seen as prestigious, and he probably knew she would know that being a Brit so he was being sarcastic.
I was thinking the same thing! The lady was too nice. She knows Luton is not prestigious 😂.
Outside of that, this man is creepy and screams insecure
It's obviously a joke
andrew tate is the kind of person that will tell you that you're wrong even when he didn't know half of the things you do or say.
Narcs looove to devalue others. Gives them supply. Sad way to live…
However, he is much more likely to at least listen to you if you're a man.
but its true thta so many men worship him like a god even when he is wrong and bash women left and right
“The amount of insecurity dripping of this human being” - omg! Yes! That´s what it is. Makes me so happy when experts see through stuff like this and can calls it what it really is.
I read that line as soon as he said that on the nearly half-an-hour video
Experts?? 😂😂
who's world champion at kickboxing?
You’re hot af
dr. honda you're a saint for listening to this man talk for more than 5 secs, i admire your strength because i couldn't do it
I agree, he does good work. The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person, and the narcissist, that he is. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. To prove this, you should see the video "Andrew Tate: The Shocking Truth About Men and Oral Sex That You Didn't Know". This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"
(Proverbs 16:18).
He seems like a weirdo and if I were her, I would’ve left after a few sentences. He sets off my flight response.
From what I remember regarding his work. He started out as a professional fighter, did reality tv, started a cam girl business with his brother and their multiple girlfriends(1. The girls would be on camera and they would be typing to the viewers 2. He brags about his girlfriends not being sex workers before meeting him), then he start hustlers university where people pay I think 50 a month to learn how to make money and and get an affiliate code to use to get others to join and earn money that way
You're wrong. He made money from the cam business, and the girls that worked for him were floozy ring girls anyway. He then used that money to buy stakes in casinos in Romania and now owns MULTIPLE ones.
His online school called Hustler's University is a platform that teaches students EIGHTEEN (18) ways to make money online. ONE of which being affiliate marketing. Only ONE of those EIGHTEEN is affiliate marketing and it's not just Tate videos, but for Amazon, Ebay etc too. There are still SEVENTEEN other ways they teach including E-Commerce and Copywriting. For $50 you get the most value possible. Mind you the classes are taught by people who have verifiably made MILLIONS in the subject they're teaching, PLUS you gain access to a community of other students who are also doing the same shit you're doing, so you get to bounce ideas around and give each other tips. I'm not part of HU but I know it has over 130K students WORLDWIDE on a consistent basis. That means that not only do people sign up for it, but they STAY subscribed. Which means they must be getting a return on their money
Compare that to people paying hundreds of thousands for degrees being taught by people who sometimes don't even have any experience in what they're teaching. Think of the many "business professors" who've never launched any successful businesses and aren't even rich. If you're gonna teach business you better be fucking rich and successful a sa businessman. So think of all the many clowns out there who took out HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS in student loan debt and can't pay them off because what they learned in school is absolutely useless in the job market and they can't get good jobs. $50 is a very SMALL price to pay to learn how to make thousands of dollars
@@PermanentHigh 😂😂😂 Andrew Tate if this is your burner account you shouldn’t make it so obvious
@@brittrichardson3416 Look, I really don't see what you gain from not abiding to reality. I've watched countless of his interviews and seen many people review HU and everything lines up. He's not frauding anyone and his school is legit and people make money
I just don't see what u gain from all the fuckshit u wanna believe in. Give up. Just accept the truth, and then improve your life. It's not that hard.
@@PermanentHigh these mfs just feel threatened by a successful confident man, everything they do is emotional like the interviewer
@@PermanentHigh you're the one who needs to improve your life buddy, you're wasting hours writing essays on a guy who doesn't even know you exist dude, you're doing this for free, and for what? So that he'll gain followers or smth? He's not God, he's not a cult, stop tryna convert ppl. He's sexist, misogynistic, homophobic, and I wouldn't be surprised if he was racist too - I can find hundreds of men and women who say the same things but who ARENT racist/sexist/homophobic/misogynistic, etc.
Really glad you're doing this review as I don't have it in me to stomach watching this guy alone.
I completely understand what you mean. Andrew Tate has a hugely narcissistic personality and it's actually too difficult listening to his nonsense.
The fact that Andrew Tate had an absent father is probably what made him the rotten person that he is. Tate needs to be under the supervision of a professional DOMINATRIX. Psychologists call, this a "father wound". But to me, Andrew Tate is just a jackass and a misogynist. Tate should not talk about anything because he is a charlatan who is just full of hot air. ANY MAN WHO DOES NOT PERFORM CUNNILINGUS ON A WOMAN GETS NO RESPECT FROM ME. This man pretends to be a badass, but he is too cowardly to put his mouth up to a woman's vulva. He fears that if he goes down on a woman, he will lose his manhood. Talk about a weak, insecure masculinity. Tate pretends to be macho, but the fact that he feels that performing cunnilingus on a woman will compromise his masculinity shows that he is really a gutless wimp in disguise.
Tate seems to be all show and no real substance. His wealth, his status, and his fame are what give him power and popularity. Just watch when he fades with age, or if he ever falls off his pedestal, people will throw him out like yesterday's garbage. The Bible says "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall" (Proverbs 16:18).
Sums it up, “are you okay?” He totally painting her as crazy, liar, lazy on the first date…I would have just left the date tbh lol.
In interviews since, she has said that she liked Andrew and would go on another date with him
This was a good vid, thank you for your analysis Dr. Honda.
You're very welcome, Carlos
If I'm understanding correctly, I think what Andrew Tate is saying at the beginning is truly rich people have so much money they can't tell you how much they have because 1, they can get anything they want so they stopped keeping track of totals. Or 2, the majority of their wealth is usually in assets rather than actual money, another reason they may not keep track of totals.
I think it’s so funny and precious that dr. Honda is too wholesome to understand what he was saying 😂
I also got that money isn't real because it's a piece of paper but what is real is the veil of power that looking as if you have a lot provides.
@@devochkadee Ha! Yeah, I mean, I usually take things literally, so his literal statement didn't make sense to me. But I guessing, as others have hypothesized, it's phrased reference to other known notions.
@@PsychologyInSeattle i think it's a sign that you probably don't spend much time with very materialistic / money oriented people, so actually not a bad thing at all (in my opinion)!
THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR. I hate his morality so much, I think his words are cancer to young men.
Indeed. Keep up the fight!
@@PsychologyInSeattle Thank you Dr. Honda. Don’t worry, I’m not the demographic he’s going for!
He has a positive influence on young men.
this is my first time on the channel and i already love how dr honda speaks and holds himself professionally and has a calm demeanour. Really a nice contrast to the Andrew Tat constantly screaming at the camera. Much better on the ears too.
I've done my fair share of narcissism research because of my own circumstances and you shine light on several things I hadn't seen yet
The people in the red pill / manosphere are just sad, lost men who don’t love themselves and don’t believe they could ever be loved so they resent women and loving relationships. They chase money and superficial value instead of self growth and healing. It’s very sad.
I am redpill and also married.
I’ve been watching you for about a year now and with you introducing yourself at the beginning of this episode something dawned on me…. I never actually knew your name. You kinda just registered as Dr. Seattle in my head. Nice to meet ya Kirk Honda. Lol 😂
Ha! Really? One year? I guess I don't always enunciate my name very well.
@@PsychologyInSeattle probably a multi-tasking listener 😘
PLEASE review Hasanabi’s debate with Andrew Tate
Yassss! Hasanabi clapped him down!
@@callmekirkland8 yes it’s a very nuanced topic on American imperialism that he constantly talks about on his stream.
I wish everyone would take the time to understand the tragedy that is American imperialism and it’s effect on the world. It cannot be simplified to one sentence.
I would also recommend reviewing his countless hours of advocacy for the working class and marginalized communities, but that’s not what this video is about.
It was completely entertaining watching Hasan debate Andrew Tate because you got to see him handle a narcissistic misogynist.
Lol the debate with Hasan was hilarious. He was running circles around Tate, had him scrambling to keep up.
@@callmekirkland8 it was hyperbolic, 911 did not happened in a vacuum, it was a terrible response to 🇺🇸 involvement in the Middle East
@@callmekirkland8 somebody didn't get the point of what he was saying
I wonder if Tate wears the glasses because he knows not seeing a person's pupils puts them on edge. Or he sees it as an advantage to hide his emotions.
detatched retina from fighting
You absolutely NAILED this observation
Andrew Tate might actually get Dr. Honda to curse lol
Ooo I literally jumped up when I saw this, I'm so excited to hear. I've only listening to a little bit of this disturbed guy because he's so triggering so I'm super happy Dr. Honda is walking us through it, as the emotional sherpa he is.
Emotional sherpa! omg, dig it.
Emotional sherpa is a really cool expression/picture for Dr Honda! 😁👍🏼
@@atreju305 isn't he though?! Lol
💯 % ! ! ! 😃👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
You just mad cause the same men who played you used his tactics. They know what they see at face value. I’m a good guy and ever since I started hitting the gym for my health you crazy ppl won’t ever stop with your “you have problems” but In reality I’m healed and it makes me ppl feel insecure and not good enough. I was the runt of the litter and now ppl think I was born an alpha. Y’all are the toxic ones
The way Dr. Honda says "No idea what Luton is" is perfection 😂
kinda put things in perspective, that the world does not revolve around him, what is outrageous in his head is just meh to Dr. Honda lol
@@fujidenzo_kid4147 yes, exactly!
@@fujidenzo_kid4147 Luton is like Detroit. Andrew grew up poor in places similar to projects. They used to take leftover food from KFC to survive.
@@sganet_ and 'dr' kirk assumes he's saying luton because it's prestigious, when he doesn't know the first thing about it. he clearly has bias
so he lied blatantly
I love how many people in luxury fields have been coming out exposing how people as insecure and unaware as he is are the perfect candidates for their marketing tactics. They’re so far up their own ass they can’t tell bs that is being sold to them
Don’t say that about Dr Honda
I just see Andrew Tate as cocky, has a grandiose opinion of himself, and sees himself as a philosopher but isn't well educated. He has above average intelligence but is full of rage. I can see that immediately. Anyone who gets close to him is going to get dumped on. The idea that women should obey (him) makes him obnoxious for me. "I look forward to correcting her". Jesus! He's a controller. If I met him at a party I wouldn't want to spend two minutes with him. Here, in his interaction with this girl, I see him looking for evidence that she won't stand up to him. Definitely, a desire for power. I enjoyed your analysis of Tate. Sounds accurate to me.
Lmao yess pretty sure Andrew is the most obviously insecure person I’ve ever seen, or at least one of them.
Based on what, exactly? Just because this guy said so.
@@Al-ji4gd every time he speaks, you can tell he’s trying to deflect from how terrible he feels about himself. Also, “this guy” is a psychologist with like 20 years of experience. What are your credentials?
@@cityandgirl Based on what? How can you tell he is trying to deflect from how terrible he feels about himself? That just sounds like projection to me. Or you're making something up in your head about the guy because you don't like him.
I don't take most psychology seriously. There's very little science backing it up and it's almost exclusively pure speculation and psychologizing to the nth degree.
@@Al-ji4gd Dr. Honda isn't just any guy, he has years of experience to back up his claims. You might not like it, but how you feel about him doesn't detract from his professionalism. If you look up to Tate, why aren't you more interested in hearing a professional psychologist talk about his behavior? It might not be flattering or what you want to hear, but aren't you interested in learning something about him? To have your feelings and opinions challenged?
@@Al-ji4gd you sound incredibly insecure yourself, makes sense why you were drawn to Andrew Tate.
his fans have also been trying to spread the false claims andrew tate said in his “last words” video saying his charges were dropped and that he wasn’t raided but was swatted. and it’s crazy how confidently they lie about it even though multiple companies and journalists have reached out to romanian officials and have confirmed there’s still an ongoing case for trafficking and that he was raided.
@@i0li0il0i how is CCTV gonna prove it was caused by a lie? lmao. again, many companies have gotten in touch with romanian officials and have confirmed it was in fact a raid, not a swatting. andrew tate started saying it was a swatting when he was on stream with adin ross and adin ross was explaining his swatting, and andrew tate heard that and ran with it because he thought it’d make the situation sound better. but i think he forgot people have the ability to contact police and ask them questions about the case.
@@i0li0il0i NPC servant in the matrix? i’ve genuinely never seen a fan base with worse jabs than andrew tate’s following. the things you guys throw around and think it makes sense 😭 it’s hilarious
@@i0li0il0i and friendly advice, you are trying WAYYY too hard to make philosophical jabs. you guys try to follow after andrew tate’s footsteps and it makes you look like a fool, i’m sorry but it’s the truth. and i’m not even trying to be mean, like you can fr tell you guys are trying so hard and it’s rlly not working at all.
So, I think what he was trying to say about money is more "if you know what's in your bank your poor. If you don't know how much money you have you're rich because you have so much and it's ever moving so you don't know exactly how much you have. I am rich because idk how much I have, I just want things and I know I can get them even though idk how much I have." He's one of those "dating advice" guys so essentially he speaks in a way that is confusing on purpose to rip off incels in the internet. And yeah, you read him like a book.
Dr. Honda is saying that diagnosing narcissistic personality disorder takes weeks and the patients come to the office of their own will but I’m wondering… how often does that actually happen? People with NPD will be the last to admit to anything being wrong with them. It’s called disorder for a reason, and because of the nature of it, these people rarely get to the therapist’s office, unfortunately… And Tate, even if he was obliged to go to therapy, let’s say court ordered, I don’t think that anything could be done to help him. It is so sad because people who have NPD truly suffer of it and cause suffering to a lot of people around them and still, it is so hard to help them or improve them in any way. I believe in tate’s case, there is even some level or sociopathy/psychopathy involved as well, which is I think proved by his recently discovered crimes.
This just made me realize that I have been misunderstanding narsissism, and that my ex was in fact one.....
The last guy I dated sounds like what you described…abusive dad to mom and children…he is insecure and can get controlling..expressed some subtle sexist verbiage….he is nice but I don’t have time to teach him how to not be sexist or jealous or controlling. Also very sensitive…
He’s nicer than this guy but also it’s been such a roller coaster in a short amount of time :(
You want a soyboy then .I
I laughed out loud when Tate said women need to obey like they are supposed to. Seriously? 🤣🤣🤣
He’s right
To be fair he is correct
it says on quran, not him. our god teaches like that as a woman nature bcs the man is providing and protecting all of woman’s need
Never clicked so fast. Hi Dr. Honda!
Any advice for moms of teen sons who are into this guy (like big time into him?) My 16 year old try’s to emulate him in all aspects of his life. When you spoke about the abusive father, the mother and child connection- this hit the nail on the head. We are two years divorced now. My poor son, what will become of him? 😢😞
Are their more positive role models your son can compare and contrast with?
Sports, activities, community with others I've found most helpful in combating the isolation people like Andrew Tate depend on.
You already have created the problem. Now you are showing sympathy to my poor child BS. Don't you understand it while getting in a relationship with him. Now, let him be what he wants to. Because you both have already divorced. Now, the children will get the love of only one parent. 🤦
@@aryanchandravanshi6837 bhai wtf you don't even know why she divorced him in the first place wtf wtf wtf I wanna die
He’s on a good path
@@aryanchandravanshi6837not everyone who's parents divorced are miserable
Dr Kirk, can you seriously tell when Tate is joking and when he isn't? I think that's pretty important when trying to infer that he has npd, or is at least narcissistic.
I literally clicked on the notification and I have NOT been disappointed 🤣👏👏👏👏👏 In-SEC-uri-TEA😏😏😎
This is so perplexing! Is this guy for real? I've met one or two people like this in real life - but I was half convinced that they were putting on an act and just messing with me, I never got to know them to find out the truth lol but if he IS for real - wouldn't it be EXHAUSTING to be him 24/7? I mean how does he have the energy to be this objectionable and unlikable?!
He's a 4x World Champion kickboxer, who's also highly successful and a multi millionaire who owns multiple casinos in Romania. Do you SERIOUSLY think that you can achieve all that by being mediocre in your world view and your sense of self? I'm asking a GENUINE question here. Do you think you can achieve all that by just thinking that you're just like everyone else and that you're not the best but you're just an okay person?
Get real u fucking clowns. You HAVE to talk that shit if u wanna be the top dog. That's how it is. You can't see yourself as JUST okay or regular. You need to be delusional to achieve great things.
YES!!!! It is incredibly exhausting to be around an individual like this. They suck the literal life force energy out of you. You’re left with nothing bc they take it all. Everything, and once you’re sick and can no longer extract any supply from you they discard you as if you never existed. They constantly trigger you intentionally with their arsenal of manipulative tactics. It’s awful what they do to others. Especially if they’re sadistic and have traits of ASPD.
You’re then left thinking you’re crazy, lazy, and worthless. You then deal with having complex PTSD, adrenal fatigue, migraines, autoimmune disorders, chronic fatigue, pain, and so much more…
He’s grandiose AF so it’s easier to spot. The covert ones are tricky, tricky!
Their fear of rejection causes them to try to get your validation without risk of you rejecting him bc that just crushes them bwahahaha that’s what that was
The fact he has to say how good or handsome or important he is proves he doesn’t truly believe it . Nobody that feels those things about themself has to say it or prove to others it’s true . Great insight btw I appreciate it .
so you dont actually believe what you wrote because if you did believe it you wouldnt have said it?
Healthy masculine energy is protective and nurturing in its own way and BOTH men and women can exhibit masculine and feminine energy. If someone has to tell you they are an “alpha” that is the first indicator they are anything but.
I`ve seen the whole footage about this date, and it was VERY cringe to watch.
The lady was clearly more intelligent, kind and dignified then Andrew, and he couldn`t deal with that.
Excited to hear your analysis!! I hope you dont receive a bunch of nasty messages as a result of this, but i think these videos could be really helpful for the young men interested in his content! Btw maybe someone has already said but Luton is famously not prestigious, so i think he was making a joke (but coming from him, who knows?)
I never heard of Andrew Tate. I’ve chatted with people like this before and every time I end up tell them they’re exhausting and that I don’t care to continue the conversation. I don’t have capacity for this kind of BS.
You just cant handle them, shows ur insecure
‘As long as the woman obeys’ 4:58, all that just to say you’re mad your parents broke up when you were younger, and if your mother obeyed your dad, they’d still be together. Control. He felt out of control as a kid and doesn’t want to feel that trauma again 🙃 🤡 lovely
Coming in at the start of the video its easy to see you already had your thoughts about andrew tate with a certain bias, having conservative values with women is not “oppressive” his standard of not wanting a women who already has children, or wanting to have a women that should obey is simply his wants in a relationship and is proven to be the best way to have a long healthy lasting relationship
I'm so excited you're talking about him. Obviously you read him like a picture book.
So many men get indoctrinated by him. Can you talk about how to stop people from falling for him?
Yeah, I'll try. I've made other episodes about that - such as my episodes titled "how to meet women" - I used that title to appeal to incels.
let them be, be stupid as they want
The real life Dennis form Always Sunny
honestly an insult to dennis
@@epileptictrees5213 True. Only one of them is a golden god.
Thank you so much for this video Dr. Kirk and all your efforts with your channel and educating/providing content. I especially enjoyed this video and look forward to part two! You're very much appreciated!
Andrew has deeply studied hypnosis so i’m not sure if he was trying to put her in a hypnotic state with the kissing thing or just trying to establish dominance but hypnotists use touch to induce hypnosis. He has a thing about kissing though. Notice he dictated they would kiss twice and counted it. That’s odd. He also disturbingly told his “niece” to kiss him. She kissed him on the cheek and he said “no, kiss me on the mouth “. You could tell she was uncomfortable but she did it. That’s not normal. But it goes back to he has some hang-up with controlling kisses.
hey doctor what color is your bugatti?
I'm a woman who believes in the traditional home, however the whole idea that a woman should be subservient to her husband is completely taken to an extreme. I do believe that a man would be a head of the house and should be respected
HOWEVER...
He has to EARN the right to be respected. He is NOT to just expect respect simply because he's the man and the husband. He earns respect by treating his wife and children woth love and care. Puts them first in his life, works hard to provide for them and takes a role teaching them how to be a good man. He SERVES his family. He does nkt RULE his family. That is the difference. By doing this, his wife will want to respect and obey him out of love for him. NOT because she's expected to. It starts with him.
Well said!
I agree with this
I watched him on another channel and I didn't think he could get more....ugh but here he is! proving me wrong! Dudes like this are such a turn off! He's so desperate to be liked and accepted.