things i wish i knew when i was figuring out my sexuality

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  • @sosalosa2
    @sosalosa2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This channel just screams cosy vibes and I love it-

    • @megan8563
      @megan8563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      it’s the voice and scenery 😩

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      this is the highest of compliments omg! thank you so much! ❤️

    • @chump9052
      @chump9052 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It may be the backround I LOVE THE BACKROUND

  • @ivys4529
    @ivys4529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    its so good to see you posting! i really appreciate what you said about never being sure, especially since I'm so new identifying as a wlw. I also wish I knew that you don't have present like a stereotypical "lesbian", it was so hard to come on youtube or Instagram and hardly see anyone that looked like me. the only validation you need is from yourself!

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much! i’m so happy to be back! and yes i felt the exact same way but you’re so right! your opinion is the only one that matters. ❤️

  • @katiehatch2515
    @katiehatch2515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your channel has helped me so much in figuring out my sexuality, thank you so much ily!!

  • @Madison-zu1bz
    @Madison-zu1bz ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video. I really needed to hear the never being certain thing. I always felt my doubt meant that I wasn’t gay but you’re right, that’s not realistic.

  • @katiegfrieling
    @katiegfrieling 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you and I'm sooooo happy you're back ❤ your videos always make me feel so accepted🥺

  • @opalcorsa
    @opalcorsa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Heather wonderful video everything very well explained and you are right a persons sexuality is not the most important thing in their lives the type of person they are is much more important. look forward to your next video they are wonderful and it is wonderful to have you back.Love and peace x

  • @kathleenjohnston2230
    @kathleenjohnston2230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So good to see u back,miss u,love the video

  • @lovelybutterfly8681
    @lovelybutterfly8681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    amazing...it takes a lot of strength to be true💗

  • @abiwin6
    @abiwin6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    heather the beginning i-

  • @angellejarso1667
    @angellejarso1667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh Heather I like your videos so much I'm always waiting for your upload thanks for coming back 😁❤️

  • @KassidyGonzales
    @KassidyGonzales 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love ur videos sm 🥰

  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi, Heather.😊😊😊😊😊😊. First, I love the new intro opening with the tree in the middle.💖💖💖💖💖💖. Second, I am so happy that you're back!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. And third, I watched your other videos of the LGBTQ community when I went christmas shopping last year.😊😊😊😊😊😊. So...yeah. This is a great idea. If I see an LGBTQ person in the city or at the shopping mall, I will talk to them and see what's going on. And...yeah. Have a great day and stay safe.💖💖💖💖💖💖. I love you so much. Bye.💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much!

    • @justinfelt748
      @justinfelt748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@heatherwotherspoon7313 You're welcome, Heather.😊😊😊😊😊😊. And it's so great to have you back.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉💙💙💙💙💙💙

    • @Zanderren
      @Zanderren 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@justinfelt748 Oh my God you’re so sweet… hope you are well in this crazy time i am Ell🙂❤️❤️

    • @justinfelt748
      @justinfelt748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Zanderren Hi, Ell. Happy new year.😊😊😊😊😊

    • @Zanderren
      @Zanderren 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@justinfelt748 happy New Year I hope 2021 is better all the best🙂

  • @abraham9181
    @abraham9181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤This is a nice video Heather, you're my favorite person❤

  • @mariajuliamarinho1243
    @mariajuliamarinho1243 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    important video thank you for this

  • @glennbrandodoronila218
    @glennbrandodoronila218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️

  • @charleshaddox808
    @charleshaddox808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey

  • @GentM2015
    @GentM2015 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your vibes

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      this is such a compliment! thank you so much! ❤️

    • @GentM2015
      @GentM2015 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@heatherwotherspoon7313 I binge your videos for comfort a lot. As a pan guy in a homophobic environment, I tend to bury my head into LGBTQ+ youtube and shows/movies. You are one of my all time favorite creators. Keep doing what u'r doing ❤️.

  • @ysiadnatallapan5420
    @ysiadnatallapan5420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💙💙💙

  • @Xuxa.do.volei1
    @Xuxa.do.volei1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Adoro seus vídeos

  • @Hamzakhan-dt3gv
    @Hamzakhan-dt3gv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video

  • @kaustubhpoule6490
    @kaustubhpoule6490 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did you broke up with your gf ??

  • @tomigun6913
    @tomigun6913 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whats so confusing about sexuality? I dont get some people.
    Dont overcomplicate it

    • @heatherwotherspoon7313
      @heatherwotherspoon7313  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      for me personally, it was difficult to separate how i truly felt from what society had told me/taught me to believe for my whole life. i think it’s the same for many lgbtq+ people! :)

    • @tomigun6913
      @tomigun6913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@heatherwotherspoon7313 you like women and are physically/emotionally attracted to women and only women . Therefore you are a lesbian, period. Further questioning is not only pointless, but also counterproductive.
      It may change in the future . But for now you are absolutely a lesbian. Wear that label with pride. Liking women is natural and good. We live in the west, freedom of sexuality is yours to enjoy. So enjoy it.